Welcome to all who have just today found my blog, and welcome back to those who return once more! We are upon the cusp of a new year which means that it is a time of renewal and reflection. For those of you who have had the distinctive honor of serving me this past year yet have fallen from my good graces, you now have the rare opportunity to earn absolution. Pleas for an audience accompanied by a notable tribute may be remitted to mzsydney34@yahoo.com Any messages that fail to contain tribute will be deleted and the sender blocked permanently.

The new year is approaching within mere days little ones, which is a typically a time for renewal,and an opportunity to step forward to serve me. Impress me with your creativity and desire to deliver adoringly devoted service. I am having a lovely holiday here in Illinois, and a shall be available only for periodic moments. Remember to make your first impression memorable boys :D

The ultimate way to display your love for Goddess(click on LOVE) LOVE What was delivered the other day from les that pleased me greatly!!!

The submissive male

Pursuant to a recent conversation I decided to post my thoughts pertaining to the etiology of a submissive male. Sort of a nature vs nurture debate. Natures stance would claim that males are genetically born submissive, while nurture would have you believe that the upbringing environment is the causation. Is it remotely possible that there is a piece of dna which dictates either a dominant or submissive personality? Science is yet years away from identifying every strand of dna and it's purpose though, so it is not an impossible theory. If we were to subscribe to Jung's theories then it would indeed be a factor of nurturing, for he upheld that personality traits are an ongoing evolving process throughout life. Therefore it would stand to reason that submissive traits are conditioned in early childhood,most likely due to a strong nurturing maternal figure or even that of a child imitating submissive behavior on the part of a paternal presence. Is it that simplistic...I think not. Studies of infant behavior within the hospital nursery setting conclude that personality traits are apparent even at this early stage of life evidenced by making note of how some infants are calmly self soothing in comparison to those that are easily irritated and require a moderate amount of attention for comfort. It is my belief that some traits are innate and can become dominant through the reinforcement of learned behaviors. Simply put,the submissive trait is a spark that some are born with which when fed becomes a flame within the soul. One such example would be that of a sexually active submissive male required per it's owner to undergo chastity training. Once enforced for a greater period of time males are shown to display a docile and agreeable demeanor. In essence you have conditioned the male through training to become an amendable personal servant while eradicating the dominant testosterone driven reactions.

7 days til my departure to Illinois!!! If you cannot tell,I am very very pleased to be going :D It has been over 2 years since my previous return. The week began quite well. I woke to a message from les stating that he had purchased a new camcorder for me as a Christmas gift YAY ME....$400 well spent for Goddess. Now I can film a lil play time with a new bull waiting for me to visit lol Of course I want more....keep the gifts coming boys. Off to start preps for packing.....oh and do not forget to check out my latest piece on Domme Dose click here

What I got today,and where I am gonna spend my afternoon :D

Breaking boys vs breaking boys in

If you are in the scene long enough you will surely come across boys have been truly broken by ladies. They are so very immersed within their addiction though that they continue to skirt along the fringes bottom feeding vicariously through posts relaying the service of other males. Eventually many of these males will develop into misogynists as their jealousy and inability to feed their fetish becomes like that of a cancerous lesion eroding away at common sense when dealing with the fairer sex. The destructive negative energy associated with anger leads them to taint every interaction til they reach the point where they are not even welcomed by the cretins of bdsm. It is a waste to see a once productive submissive male reduced to this point. This outcome could have easily been avoided if only adequate time and attention had been paid. Some may disagree that it is the responsibility of a dominant female to gauge when males serving them are reaching the plateau of being "broken", and this is a point that I would refute. Although it is difficult to recognize online compared to real time when boys are reaching the precipice, it is not impossible. The signs are there if you only look. Good boys are wired to please a lady, even when it poses a detriment to themselves. They are trained to eradicate the word no, and fear speaking out that they are being pushed too far, as it might displease their Domme. Yes it is the ultimate desire to have males in service that will go to any lengths to please, but at the same time we as the superior individuals must rein them in for their own safety, because once "broken", males no longer have any use. They become comparable to the refuse that we discard daily, whereas boys that have been broken to the bit, with hard limits set, whom embrace their purpose in life as that of serving a dominant woman to the best of their means (disposable income), are an asset long term, for they will work harder and longer towards the happiness of their chosen Domme. Essentially when you break a good boy you are cutting off your nose to spite your face as broke boys do not pay tribute.

My first dommedose piece

Extremely pleased today as I have had my first piece published by Dommedose!! Check it out when you have the time. Just click on my name to view it ^_^ I have been an avid reader of the site since the onset of my foray into findom. They have some amazing and insightful writers posting to the site which is an enormous aid for those just getting started. MzSydney

2 activities that I reject

There are 2 activities that I am most consistently approached regarding that I have absolutely no interest in engaging in irregardless of monetary gain. Blackmail being number 1. I find the very word distasteful. I realize that many ladies play in that realm, but for my own personal reasons I do not. My stance is not going to change. I have given a good bit of thought before arriving at my decision, therefore I am adamant in regards to it. All of the risk lays upon the lady's shoulders, and I for one refuse to find myself in a cell block predicament. I have checked into the legalities, and even with a contract of consent, the party blackmailing is still held liable legally. Blackmail is a felony which equates to a vacation spent in prison. Does that sound like an appealing option to you?? It doesn't to me. I cringe to even think about the number of females new to the scene taking on males for this type of play. Mind you I am not judging. I merely hope that both parties are fully informed of all possible ramifications. The second area of play is teamviewer. Once more you can run afoul of the law with this type of play, in that once you have access to a pc it could be stated that you did not have permission, or worse you could be prosecuted for hacking into their system. Now at this point you may say, but if they are giving me the password then I am free and clear....well no you are not. You must tread carefully as most times when this activity occurs, $ is taken, and this is where you will get in trouble. One, males may cancel any order you place, or if you log into their accts and send yourself gift cards, guess what....they can notify whatever company you went through that an unauthorized person placed the order. The company is going to cancel the order,and you can be held accountable legally for doing so, especially if the male in question is a vindictive one. I myself do not find the title ex-con attractive. In no way am I attempting to tell any lady what she should and should not do. My intentions are centered upon outlining my views and reasoning only, and should be seen as such. In conclusion any $ obtained through these activities is not defined as TRIBUTE. It is payment for service due to the very definition of tribute(freely given,expecting nothing in return) It has always been my thought that tribute is a gift of adoration, not something that should be forced or taken.

SURRENDER TO ME SUFFER FOR ME SACRIFICE FOR ME SERVE ME

It is a cold and dreary day which affords you the unique opportunity to brighten my day by sending a token of your appreciation to make me smile. mzsydey34@yahoo.com

recognition of a gentleman

Hello to all of you ^_^ I have not been on the sites as much this week...nasty cootie bug cold is kicking my ass....but Frank did come around and purchase a pair of boots for my precious peds, which I will post pics of once they get here...hurry hurry UPS! Frank is one that I have not spoken of that much here, but I intend to rectify that for good boys deserve recognition. He is a boy that does not come around often for he is not flush with $, but neither does he become a strain upon my time and energy. I actually enjoy interacting with him, and always appreciate the items that he gifts me with. In fact the very first pair of shoes he purchased are featured as the main photo of my cm profile, and they have garnered a multitude of compliments for the delightful way they showcase my arches :D The point being that even though he is not my owned boy, he has always been a courteous gentleman whom treats me as a superior lady which is what I expect from boys. Males such as he are ones that I always have time for. Take note boys, it requires more than a fat wallet to maintain a place at the feet of a lady ^_^ Manners do matter especially when making a first impression, so make sure that your behavior reflects how you wish to be thought of.

manpet

I want you to strip down before me and kneel with your legs spread wide, your hands finger locked behind your head while I attach a collar and leash to your throat and insert a puppy tail plug into your ass. You are to keep your eyes averted the entire time. The only view you are allotted is of my leather boots, which you will be allowed to place a chaste kiss upon the tip of . I will then lead you out the door for a walk to a freshly tilled field. You will keep pace to my left side,and if at any time you lag too far behind you will receive the kiss of my crop. No words will be spoken,all commands given with the jerk of the leash tightening the collar a tad bit. This is not done to harm,but merely to remind you of your place in life at my feet. Upon treading into the field you will be forced to struggle a bit as it will be soft and slippery terrain. Your face so very close to my heel that you can smell the rich earth scent coating it. Poor puppy tires as we traverse the length of a football field to completion. The only respite being a brief moment where I use you as a seat to sit upon, which helps you not as you can feel the heat and moisture of my scented sex on your back. Oh how cruel I am to tease my pet with that which will never be his. A brief slap to the ass his go ahead to resume our walk. Returning to the house indicates that exercise time is over, yet a task remains ahead. Across the floor in her wake is a trail of dirt clumps that pet shall consume quickly and quietly. Once finished he shall crawl to her feet and lave the soles of her boots with his tongue in worship. If he is a good pet and efficient in his honored chore he shall be allowed to remove her boots and massage her weary feet with his mouth and hands. Never once shall a word pass his lips for pets do not speak. The only display allowed is the wagging of the tail between his cheeks. You do want to be a good pet do you not? You desire to earn your pleasure through pleasing correct? You accept and embrace your purpose in her life as a faithful obedient manpet yes? Are you ready, are you prepared, do you crave to become mine? Come humble, abase yourself begging to be owned...and if I deem you worthy...you may earn the honor. It should not require being stated, but for those without the financial means to serve a Goddess, you do not have permission to speak with me...keep your desires to yourself.

Shrouded fallacy

The harsh cold reality of findom is something rarely spoken of in closed circles, let alone revealed to the public eye, yet perhaps if it was, there would not be the sheer number of individuals seeking out the sites daily. Findom is shrouded within the fallacy that males are falling all over themselves to throw money at any lady claiming the title of a financial dominant. If you are one that believes this to be factual, then you seriously need to get a clue. That is not to say that a young female with a hot body cannot masquerade as a Domme and reap the benefits of the dick led boys on the scene, for that is entirely possible. The truth though is that this is not financial domination in the purest sense. It would be a situation where boys are calling the shots. It is no secret that males are visual creatures who wank their wads to peeking at pics of tits, ass, and beaver shots, so to be clear....when a male is paying you to get on cam or send pics of your anatomy, this is NOT financial domination, and let's face it that this is the majority of interactions playing out today. Don't believe me huh...well go ahead and bury your head in the proverbial sand then, for it will not alter the reality by denying it. Try pondering that saying about if something seems to good to be true. Moneyslaves are elusive creatures at best, and the odds of connecting with one are not astronomically in your favor, sorry to burst your bubble. Even if one were to cross your path how would they differentiate you from the hundreds of others who mimic the same exact BS, ie flying the bird, tossing out the loser word...or the here piggy piggy pay me lines. It astounds me that anyone with a grain of common sense believes that this type of approach works. If it did, don't you think that all females would be doing it, oh wait they are...and yet here they are day after day complaining that no serious males ever approach them. Try googling the definition of insanity, sound familiar? Onto the illusion of tribute proof, yes I said illusion as in falsely created. Who doesn't know that photoshop is an effective tool, or that anyone can cash a paycheck and take a "tribute" pic? Before any get their knickers in a ruffle, NO I am not claiming that every lady does this, in fact I have no doubt that quite a few Dommes do receive large legitimate tributes, but these are ladies that have invested years in perfecting their techniques and training regimen. They have acquired a reputation for authenticity and skill. Aww now to the lies that spread, yes I said lies. I have seen so many that claim to have experience and many males in their stable, yet appear to have absolutely no idea as to what domination is. How can that possibly be...well let's see, I myself could claim to have dozens of boys in service, does that make it truth, uhhhh NO. It will mislead one new to the scene though. I mean they cannot post anything on the internet that isn't true right??? LMAO. Of course it makes a lady all the more desirable to seek out if a male thinks that she is unattainable due to the fact that she already has so many serving her, therefore he will work harder to impress her with a sizable tribute, and be even more grateful when she accepts him. Some would call this PR or hustle...but why a call a falsehood by another name? Ya cause it sounds better. tbc at a later date.

Happy day

Why am I happy today???

And this

Along with a new beautiful sweater!!!

Needy nuisance

Needy and greedy for time and attention are not behaviors that should ever be encouraged or developed. The best males are those that do not become a time and energy drain. Instead they act as a rejuvenating infusion. They are a pleasure to spend time conversing with as they are not fixated upon their own needs. Their attitude is one of gratitude for a ladies shared moments with them. These are the treasured servants whom are allowed into the inner sanctum of her life, not merely the distance fringe where fetish boys play. I am not inferring that there should not be daily interaction between a sub/slave and a Domme, but there comes a point where instead of receiving training intervals,you are begging and attempting to finagle every possible moment of her time. Yes a male should come to rely upon his lady for guidance and direction but not to the degree of becoming a nuisance. His own sense of self reliance should hold him steady upon the decided course sans hand holding throughout the entire day. If this is the type of time consuming attention you seek, then I suggest your tribute be flowing into her coffers copiously, otherwise you are wasting the time she would allot training less complicated boys. Keep in mind that tribute is not paying for her time, therefore you have no rights upon it.

A slave

A slave does not want for themselves, they want for others/their owner. A slave does not ask what you can do for them,but instead what they can do for you. A slave does not ask about their wants,instead they ask what you want. A slave does not ask to have their fantasies fulfilled,they ask how they may bring yours to life. A slave does not ask to be served or pleased,instead they ask how they may serve your pleasure.

objectification of women

Throughout history women have been subjected to sexual objectification which continues to this very day. You have only to look to magazines, online ads, even within the bdsm scene. Much of the fetish porn features females in a manner which leaves no doubt that they are valued only for the stimulation their forms evoke. I assume guilt for my part in perpetuating the cycle by posting photos that play into the male fantasy, and posting blogs whose content is intended to arouse the male psyche. This is a subject that has been a nagging thorn in my side for some time now ergo my desire to put my thoughts into words. I ponder how it is that in such enlightened times we as an evolved society justify such negative connotations in connection with strong dominant women. In truth we argue that our bodies are employed as weapons of destruction and seduction, yet this is the very concept which encourages cave man mentality. This approach is a choke collared leash that we cannot seem to escape, for time passes by us all, metamorphosing our once nubile flesh into a softer womanly physique. Females are barraged daily with images of what men consider beautiful, sexy, alluring. Why do we allow males to set the definition? I have always held the opinion that women are beautiful in all forms, yet to view the statistics of females suffering from some type of eating disorder, depression, body shame, or undergoing cosmetic surgical procedures to accurately embody what men consider pleasing is astoundingly disheartening. Will there come a day where irregardless of size, shape, or age that women across the world will look into a mirror and say "I am beautifully designed, and no longer will I allow what males think to make me feel inferior"? Whether or not you hold with the belief of female supremacy is moot. This is about women loving themselves as they are. PERFECT. Yes I have seen the arguments pertaining to women gaining a sense of empowerment from the use of their sexuality, but is this truly what we want to be appreciated for? The body may be the temple, but the brain is the mastermind. It is with superior intellect that others are kept upon their knees not a set of DD's. Do not take this to mean that I am judging any female who opts to seduce with her flesh rather than her acquired knowledge. My hopes are for all women to be uplifted, not down trodden by the very ones who in later years will discard that which they find aged, sagging, and wrinkled. My very earnest desire is for women to see that we have no need to meet standards set by those with a Y chromosome. This is indeed a heavy read, and may not be appreciated by all, but for those that have felt the sting of an unkind sentiment due to the failure of fitting into a man made mold, you are not alone.

Honesty

Shallow, superficial, self-centered, self absorbed. Adjectives...simple yet powerful words which evoke images depicting the majority of males within the bdsm scene. Do take a moment to look upon your actions boys and honestly ask yourself if these words resonate throughout your behavior. A select niche of individuals that maintain the mentality of "what are you going to do for me", oh wait that would be an error, as this state of mind has encroached upon all communities within society. Disdainfully I view this disturbing reality. The scene has eroded into a cesspool where dedication and devotion to service are applied only so long as it leads to an eruption of semen. This mindset has allowed for the proliferation of subwhores that comprehend and value only that of their own pleasure. Loyalty and diligence to a single chosen lady tossed to the wayside in search of the next erectile fix. Yes it paints a poor picture, yet the truth is not intended to be kind, merely to be accurate. I am not saying that selfish, shallow, superficial, self-centered, self absorbed males have no place in the scene, merely that they have no place in my temple of worship. Service is meant to be an honor bestowed upon those that have earned the privilege, not a purchased right. It is quite plain though to see why this has become a dominating issue. Findom is a grey area of play, wherein those that possess the $ maintain that they call the shots so to speak (this in essence denotes exchanges as business) To be blunt, if you are paying for a service than you are not serving. You are a customer. Nothing more, nothing less. Do not disgrace those that have earned the designation of submissive or slave by claiming to be that which you are not. They are those that recognize the distinction between tribute being given without expectation and payment being paid. They are the treasured minority whom by word, action, and deed give of themselves for the pleasure of another. The point being, be honest about who and what you are if not with others, then atleast with yourself.

Birthday desire audioboo

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Less than 3 days til my BIRTHDAY! I expect to see the gift I want most on it's way!

real time service

What I seek, what I desire. Something real, definitively tangible. To be at the center of a male's universe. To stand above him as he abases his form, not merely for a moment in time, but for all time. He bows with the knowledge that while he may never dwell within my temple, he will indeed live for me. This is the power exchange which the ample majority will never embrace, for anonymity evaporates once began. There is no screen to cower behind as you are stripped of all pretense. When all is laid bare your submissive soul will be revealed. This very moment is what males either fear or adoringly revere. To reach this level of service means that all of his personal desires must be washed away, with only the erected net of trust holding him securely.

There is no room for doubt in service. There are no second thoughts. Only the all consuming need to please me. Your every spare thought dedicated to me, and how you may better serve. Establishing me as a priority within your life. Blissfully suffering for my smile, sacrificing selfish ideals for a kind word of encouragement. There are no half hearted attempts, there is only dedication and devotion towards pleasing your Goddess.

Are you prepared to let go of all that you were, in order to evolve into what you are meant to be? Are you ready to become the boy that I seek? If you possess the courage to find out, come before me humble and meek, without any expectation to find physical release. Lest you forget, do not expect time or attention if you have not placed an offering at my feet.

mzsydney34@yahoo.com

5 days til my BIRTHDAY

5 days til the birthday of you GODdess, and yet the very item I desire the most still sits on my wish list.......

Get it together boys, you do not want a permanent trip to the isle of exile now do you.

I expect that watch to be upon my beautiful wrist come my special day. You have your orders, now do what you were born to do, SPOIL ME.

What is reality

Reality is that I am a real person, just like you. I live, I breathe, I have a life that I love.

I have a career that I enjoy which pays my bills and sees to my needs. I have a life filled with family and friends, and responsibilities that must be met. Sound familiar? Sorry to burst your bubble, but I do not exist in a little room sitting behind a monitor dressed in leather with a whip in hand just waiting for the moment a male comes online for me to fulfill his fantasies. Oops my bad.

Some complain that I too quickly extinguish their hopes and desires of a speedy wank off fest....awwww poor pity you. The time I spend online is for my pleasure, not and never will be for yours period. I am always a dominant woman, but that does not mean that I am barking out orders, and beating ass 24/7. That is absolutely unrealistic.

Too many of you males have this twisted thought that you are honoring a female with your attention by sending photos of your penis, or offering to humiliate yourself on cam, yet in actuality you do these things because it pleases you. Why do you do this, well that is quite simple. You are a selfish fuck that thinks only of himself and his own desires. Do you truly believe that females cannot see through your facade? If so then you have bigger issues than being a worthless waste of space.

I am loosing faith that males exist who possess a submissive soul. Ones that have an altruistic appreciation for women. The majority do not even know the meaning of such thoughts. They cannot grasp that a woman would desire anything other than jumping to their commands. Unfortunately the scene is flooded with females that will bark and heel like good bitches for peanuts, but for those of us whom hold ourselves to a higher standard, this mentality will earn you a one way ride to banishment.

Just as the marines accept the few and the proud, so do I. Quality will trump quantity when it comes to serving me, and a male should always be prideful of the fact that he serves a superior lady with his utmost ability geared towards excellence.

These are my thoughts and requirements which leave no budge room. I will accept nothing less, and honestly I would have no males serving me if it meant that I had to constantly deal with selfish demands upon the time I allot for my pleasure. Either get your shit together and figure out what serving entails, or content yourselves with those that offer to dance to your tune, but never ever contemplate that you will enter my world acting in such a manner.

Disgusted with the lot of you.

Why am I not surprised that the one item I desire for my Birthday in 8 days still sets on my amazon list unpurchased along with the items for my Christmas charity project. Utterly pathetic. At this time none of you are worthy of even the air you breathe.

Plain disgusted with the lot of you. Not posting any blogs or pics for awhile now. If I do not see any of these things taken care of, then as far as I am concerned, you can all FUCK OFF.

Whichever male pays out the most for my Christmas charity project gets 10 min cam and if US based,my texting number.
http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3

10 days til my BIRTHDAY!

 NUMBER 1 DESIRE for my BIRTHDAY is the watch on my wish list ^_^

An order

Heads up, new items added to my amazon wish list for my Christmas charity project! There is no tangible reason for you boys not to do your part.

On another note, my pvc skirt arrived today!!!!

loyalty

Loyalty

It appears to be a quality non existent within the majority of males in modern day society. A sense of entitlement has come to the forefront of their deluded mentality. Their thoughts focused upon what a female can do for them, how she can sate his selfish wants. Not once considering that it is his duty to ensure a female's happiness. It is no wonder that a female would prefer the company of a pet rather than a male. A pet does not demand attention 24/7, then sulk when it does not receive it. They desire only to be by your side, their happiness assured from merely being in your presence. They will give and give and give without the expectation of receiving in return. They are a gift of comfort instead of a source of vexation. They care not whether you are in full makeup or leather and lace. These are the reasons why pets trump men. Yes oh yes I know some of you males are of the thought that females need you for sex, as if we are all nymphomaniacs that cannot exist without cock....lmao you obviously forget that thanks to man made inventions (dildo, vibrator etc..) we no longer require you for even that.

Perhaps this is why I am so fond of chastity. It is a form of psychological neutering. It tempers a male's tendency to stray and leads to a docile nature. Suppressing the aggressive testosterone desires and enabling them to become a malleable subject, from hence a more pleasing manpet can be shaped. There is no conceivable reason why a male cannot remain in chastity lifelong, provided that you ensure the health of the prostate. Once past the initial phase of training it is smooth sailing. No more shall you have to listen to the whining and begging for release, or the temper tantrums of how they are deserving of anything other than what you deem necessary. Just imagine a world of well mannered males that seek only to please superior females. How lovely indeed it would be.

Being worthy of service

Males worthy of service are those that come to the hand without force or coercion. They serve out of a sense of adoration, without a need to be cajoled, enticed, or a show of wares. They have an instilled desire to please a superior female. Why would any lady accept or expect anything less? A Goddess knows her worth without allowing a male to define it for her.

There are males of this caliber, it merely requires patience and determination awaiting their arrival. Lowering your standards to accommodate the "do me" males will only lay waste to your time and energy, which is why I refuse to entertain the thought of dealing with any male that is not of the mettle I require. These type of males are most suited to long term service, while "do me" boys disappear before the cum dries on their palm with the thought of you recurring only when their arousal needs attending, and most likely it will not be to you that they bow, for their eye strays to the one who will do and be all that they want.

I see no point in settling for less than I deserve, nor should any other woman. There is truth behind the saying "good things come to those that wait"

Just received part 2 of the vids from my session with a sissy if anyone cares to watch. http://youtu.be/QFTY38aJ-dk

Busy today,and still not up to 100% yet. Online time will be sporadic at best for the day.

sick GODdess

Woke up sick with the flu today, so going to be offline quite a bit...I am sure that you will miss me. What you should be doing is buying me presents or sending gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com for my Birthday in 16 days! You do not want to be on my blocked list now do you for disappointing me...of course you don't.

Hopefully I will be able to get some new pics taken this weekend,and finally have the time to work on my site. We shall see though.

How I view myself

Sadist what does it mean to me, and how is it that I dare to label myself as such?

Let's begin with the fact that I simply get off on the knowledge of another human being  suffering(physically, emotionally, financially) for my pleasure. It is a high that is incomparable. My juices literally flow when I am inflicting pain. To a great many this would seem abhorrent and dysfunctional, yet this is how I am wired. I cannot imagine my life devoid of this indulgence. It is not role play for me or a fantasy scenario I tout in order to line my coffers. If you are familiar with the saying "a pound of flesh or a pint of blood" you would see how it is comparative to my style, with the exception being that I would opt to take both.

One thing that is often misunderstood about me is that findom is only a small part of what I immerse myself within. Money has only the value you assign it, and to me it is meaningless. It is simply a means to an end, but the majority of males worship the green king, therefore it becomes another tool assigned to my arsenal in which to wrench every last ounce of suffering. Does it truly differ that very much from cbt, caning, or any other act induced during pain play? Of course it could be argued that pain play relies upon physical acts, yet financial domination does have the ability to inflict permanent damage just as well on a more profound level. Bruises and lacerations will heal, but bankruptcy is a bitter pill that requires years for most to overcome if in fact they ever do. I would tend to believe that findom is more cruel than any injuries sustained during play, in that it holds the ability to cripple and devastate not only 1 life, but those that depend upon that 1 life as well.

So many that come to kneel before me fail to recognize that I desire more than your money, while the majority cannot comprehend that I will not accept their physical submission sans the financial. You see boys, I am greedy, and want it all. Your physical, emotional, and financial submission. Anything less would be insulting. 

Who holds the reins

Unfortunately some believe themselves above their station within exchanges, and require a set down. At no time, atleast with me shall a male call the shots, or make demands of ME. I and I alone decide the progression of events, and so be it if that means $ is left on the table. Perhaps I have not stressed enough that I do not bend over for males. Every moment of my attention is earned, not a given nor a purchased right.

Quite simply, if you a male does not like my approach or style, they are free to allow the proverbial door to slam them in the ass on the way out. Nothing will earn you the disgrace of being blocked quicker than attempting to call the shots with me.

Each lady has her personal style, and that is wonderful, but it is oftentimes forgotten that each lady is not a carbon copy of another, therefore while some may go along with pushy behavior, or jump through hoops for revenue, I WILL NOT. There is only one way to service with ME, and that is the one I pave. Keep this in mind when deciding to initiate contact with me.

For those that serve me, your first and last thoughts of the day should be centered upon me, with daily email verification. It matters not whether I respond, for it is your duty to place consideration of me as your first priority. No excuses, no exceptions!
I am always FIRST.

Try harder piss ant

What you shall be in service to me

If you do not exist merely in the hopes of becoming my servant, then you cease to exist in my world. If you do not see your true purpose as being my servant, then you cease to exist in my world.
If your life does not revolve around my happiness, then you cease to exist in my world.
The ordinary world from which you evolved consists of those that are selfish in their desires, and these are those that have no meaning in my life.
They live out their pathetically meandering lives devoid of direction, like sheeple in a pasture.
They will never know what it is to be owned, to be the human servant of a Superior female who will guide them in the direction that suits her life best.
Your existence based upon her whims.
You life lived for her solely.
Relinquishing all of your selfish wants, and replacing them with servile dedication to her and only her.
Never a day shall pass that you do not give thanks that you have been accorded the honor of her presence in your life.
Never a day shall pass spent with a single moment of doubt or regret that you have placed your life in her hands.
Always grateful that your pitiful existence is somehow of use to her.
Never shall you question her commands for she knows best.
Always promptly complying in obedience.
Never shall you disobey, for to be banished from her world is more cruel than death.
Your place forever upon your knees.

vid sent by sissy made during session

LMFAO a little sissy slut sent me a vid made during our last phone session. Warning it is piss your pants funny explicit if you are of a sadistic leaning.
"http://youtu.be/EFpRiDS39Xg"

Pathetic....consider this your do better slip

20 days til Goddess's Birthday woot woot. Now is the time to get on sending gc's so I can order in time for it to arrive!

One of the biggest mistakes I note when dealing with males new to the lifestyle is a lack of patience. Once they have indeed found the niche where they belong, immediately they are overcome with a desire to be instantly owned, which is not feasible nor advisable, for the path to servitude should be traversed without haste. Of course males are guided by their libido, and this sends their senses reeling when they are besieged daily by images of tits and bits, thereby increasing the blood flow to their mini member, which leads to them pledging fealty to the females whose physical attributes impress them most. This is almost always a mistake in the making, for it takes time to come to know another,  and if all you know is the physical, then any relationship D's or other is doomed, take note I said "relationship", which does not apply to a great many of the strictly fetish boys, for they are in it to get off and get out.

The more experienced males know exactly what I am referring to, but it is the newest boys that have no clue,  whom fall into this type of behavior which earns them a title that is not meant to be used kindly (slut). Do not fear to take your time before jumping into the fray. There is nothing wrong with sitting back on the sidelines until you prepared to approach a lady that is a match to your needs. Being submissive does not equate to being weak and spineless,so cease acting like it does.

Struggles with submission

Many males that I speak with and have previously spoken with confide that at one point in time they have struggled with what is inherently within them. Being submissive to a female is not considered proper in society, therefore any whom publicly declare it are labelled outside the "norm", or a freak of nature. I am sure that all who engage in this lifestyle know what it is to be different, to share in desires that others find distasteful, odd, or downright immoral. There is not even a guarantee that they will not be judged within the lifestyle, for there are many that display a condescending attitude towards those that participate in fetishes that they themselves do not understand nor share.

The key is in accepting who you are, and embracing that which you need to be at peace with yourself. What others think of you matters not in the larger scope of life as they are not the ones that walk your path. Never forget that our greatest regrets in life come from not that which we did, but that which we did not do, due to fear.

Do not doubt that your resolve will be tested to some degree, and this is why it requires strength to remain true to your goals. The path of submission is not lined with roses, nor is it for the feint of heart. Insecurities are bound to rear their ugly head, especially when you are surrounded by those that have no comprehension of what it is to possess the heart and soul of a sub/slave/pet. Even those who mean well, will attempt to convert you to their version of "normal". Just remember that you are as you were meant to be, and that does not change even if you are able to suppress your submission for a period of time.

My point being, be proud of what you are, and the purpose you serve.

25 days til my birthday

25 Days til my BIRTHDAY ^_^ I suggest you get shopping now,or sending amazon gift cards will please me as well to mzsydney34@yahoo.com


Get with for I will be keeping track of who spoils me and who does not.

birds of a feather

 As the saying goes "birds of a feather flock together", and this is generally a factual statement within the lifestyle setting, yet fairly rare within the findom fetish. This is a point that some may disparage, but I find it to be quite accurate from my standpoint. I am not stating that it is 100% of the time, nor that the entirety of all individuals behave in non congenial manners. There is a level of competition in findom that is apparent even to outsiders. A back biting, catty, nail scratching mentality that screams throughout the sites.

 Why do I believe this to be contained to this particular fetish, well as this is the only fetish entrenched in a commodity that individuals need to survive, it would stand to reason that it is also a fetish that attracts those who are in desperate straits to obtain it, which leads people to act in a manner that would be abnormal to those that are not in need of financial assist. Behaviors included but not limited to chasing down males, begging for attention and $, and a willingness to bow down to male dictates in desperation of  the almighty $.

Some may refer to it as being old fashioned by sitting back and allowing the males to come kneel at your feet like the Goddess you are, yet it has been proven through the ages that this is exactly what males desire. A prime example is Cleopatra. Did she run to Cesar, no she was a female that used her wiles to bring him to her instead.  It has been proven that males savor the chase which an intelligent woman realizes. She knows that she has no need to lower herself to the levels of male behavior. Of course all have the right to act in accordance of their own desires, and the views reflected are my own.

Will be unavailable for a day or so. You know what to do to get my attention $

something that made me smile

As this is my blog, I wanted to post a little something that made me smile. My pet was given the task of composing a poem in my honor, which pleased me greatly in that he put forth time and effort into the completion of that set before him.

Goddess is someone for whom I care

and obey and submit as is my desire

she demands obediance as is her right

and I endevour to please for that is my pleasure


The desire to please her grows

Even as my submission expands

My desire to meet the task grows

Her pleasure at my success is my own pleasure


As the caretaker of her cock

it is Goddess's pleasure to have it locked

For her enjoyment she teases

My enjoyment is as she pleases.




She keeps me as her locked cuck

At home in his device and panties

While she enjoys the deeds of love

as others she allows into her panties

There is always hope

It is such a waste to see so many males lost and meandering through the scene without having realized their true purpose and meaning in life. They squander their time wallowing in self gratification, failing to grasp the fact that drifting along such a path will not lead to a sense of tranquil fulfillment. The moments of satiation are fleeting at best, and a recipe for letdown. Not to mention that the elation from such actions will not sustain an altruistic desire to serve, nor will they impart a sense of achievement.

A submissive soul is cultivated and enriched through daily acts of selfless devotion. Such creatures are indeed a born rarity within today's society and discipline. That is not to say that one cannot become conditioned to alter their perspective and thought process to align with that of those destined to serve. Patience is a quintessential element during such a process, and cannot be disregarded, for it yields the sweetest of fruits. Such a transformation from selfish to selfless will not occur in a day, a week, nor likely within a month, but indeed will be a costly investment of time. The journey will not be consistently smooth or sans setbacks, but highly rewarding once your goal is accomplished. Keep this foremost in your thoughts to eradicate doubts of impossibility.

Most likely my words fall upon deaf ears, but there is always hope ^_^

How to recognize a sincere finsub/slave.

How to recognize a sincere finsub/slave.

1) They will not approach you until they are prepared and able to serve in the manner upon which you deserve and require. Ie none of the familiar excuses about not being able to tribute until pay day, duh they know that tribute is required and are prepared to do so when speaking with you, or that they cannot gift through amazon, holy SHIT I do not know of a single lady that does not have a wishlist. If a male attempts to tell you that he has had his acct closed on amazon hmmm that tells you right away that he has cancelled too many orders resulting in it being closed, or one of my favorites is that they do not have a credit card....lmao that is only true in 3rd world countries. Credit cards are a necessity if you have an emergency, or to even rent a car, so I am not buying that line. Hmm and the fact that you can use your debit card to pay on amazon or even a pre-paid visa card.
2) They will tribute during the first exchange. I know that some are going to disagree with me when I say this about how some males may want to take a "getting to know you" period, well here is my opinion on that subject, any male worthy of being called a sub/slave is going to take the time prior to speaking to you to research you. He will read through your posts and all that you publish in order to get a feel for your style thereby ensuring that you are the type of lady he desires to serve, and if he has not done so, then he is simply lazy and undeserving of your time or attention.
3) They will come before you humble as they are fully aware that they are meant to serve a superior lady, which means that they will have let go of their ego and selfish desires, thereby allowing them to fully serve in the capacity made for them. A slip of manners in the initial onset is an omen that does not bode well for a developing relationship.
4)They will never speak nor act in a disrespectful manner towards any lady, even when they are informed that their service is not desired. There should be no venting of anger nor insults if and when their service is no longer desirable. Faux males always show their ass figuratively when told NO. Inflated egos and sense of self does not allow them to take rejection lightly.

This post is based upon my personal opinions and observations.

Heading out for the day! Shopping and the zoo woot woot!!

service vs serving

Today I speak out to clear up a misconception that is rampant throughout the scene.

Dominant women do NOT chase down males for tribute or service. The only females that stoop to such levels are instadommes.

It is my opinion that the miscomprehension stems from confusion upon the definition of findom and service. There are ladies that offer services through certain clip and cam sites whom do take requests and such, but what you should note is that these ladies are offering a service which defines you as a customer, not a sub/slave that personally serves them, so unless your Domme has required that you purchase her clips, you are in fact not serving anyone other than the endowment between your thighs.

Never expect to approach a dominant lady as if you are the boss just because you are offering tribute, for that is the most expedient way to receive the proverbial bitch slap down.You are not purchasing her as you would a horse at auction. Tribute is an offering of appreciation which should be given willingly without any thought of gain other than her pleasure. At no time do you act as if she owes you anything due to your tribute.

There appears to be a trend of behavior that is shockingly poor amongst many of the males in the scenes these days, which is namely within the realms of being outright disrespectful. A male in the findom scene is not now nor ever will be the "BOSS" in the exchange. They may say that whomever holds the money, holds the power, but in reality the truth is quite the opposite. Crudely put, whomever owns the kitty controls the cock.

The type of males that I have personally dealt with which engage in this abhorrent behavior are in fact not subs, nor slaves, but most certainly are fetish boys here to get a nut off. They are pay for play pukes that top from the bottom with their $. What they need to realize is that money means nothing to a dominant woman who has no need of it. The idea of males controlling ladies with their wallet is not going to fly in findom. If you are one if the y chromosome types that dabble in the scene using your $ as a tool, then you need to stick to service sites or females that are only in it to make a quick buck. I do not deny that you will find a deluge of females chasing you down and overflowing your inbox with outright begging for your $, which is pathetic, for they shame the fine ladies of findom. Merely joining a site will bring you into contact with the types of females that are more than happy to bow down to your dictates for $, so there is absolutely no need for you to approach dominant women wasting their time with your toppy BS.

surprise gift

UPS was here delivering uber sexy heels from my wl. No idea who sent them,but thank you <333 them :D

Tidbits from the last week

It has been a few days...always so much going on!

Saturday my little pet got his first taste of pain ^_^.  He has been a very good pet in service.  Always thinking of that which pleases ME. The week before last he sent me a $200 gc to replace my beside lamps which I just ordered yesterday, yes I get too busy at times to spend my gc's immediately lol. Last week he sent me a $200 gc to purchase my new droid phone!!! This week another $100 gc, and items from my wishlist woot.

My brat purchased a new upright freezer for me, so that I can cook healthier and freeze meals which is awesomesauce :D  He is now saving up for an item that I crave dearly....he does adore pleasing and spoiling ME.

A slut from the past came through to session with me one night this weekend...oh the filthy painful things he did for me lmao. Now I have seen fit to whore him out to any cumers, for which he is ever so grateful that I received this token in my inbox tonight.

It will never be enough to sate my greed though. I want to suck you dry $

I was honored to be asked to interview for Goddess BellaDonna's financial weekly publication, so do be on the lookout for it!!!

Well that is all for now pets, it is storming out tonight, and I am on my way to bed ^_^

Time to retire for the night. Love that pet got his first taste of kitty and mancum panties ^_^

Real time sessions

Real time sessions are a specially earned honor with me.

Many boys new to the scene assume that ladies automatically offer such, but in reality that is simply fantasy fodder. The majority of males will never know the thrill of actually serving at the feet of the one they worship, and in my opinion most do not care to do so anyway, whether it be that they are married, or merely enjoy the fantasy, but cannot accept the actuality of physically doing so.

Afterall this is the internet, home to the infinity of imagination. A place where you can safely hide behind the anonymity of a computer screen whilst satiating your secret naughty desires, sans the fear of being discovered, or being forced into the 24/7 commitment of a D's relationship. Glorious freedom from the tethers of everyday life. This is exactly the type of scenario that fetish males seek out, for once the screen goes blank, they can revert back into their comfort zone, and worry not that they will have to relinquish control over every aspect of their lives. I refer to these types of boys as wham bam thank Ma'am toys.

They rarely evolve into precious pets, for their sense of self gratification will not allow them to do so. Their focus remains purely upon themselves. They cannot conceive of placing the happiness and welfare of a lady above their own. These boys can be entertaining for a moment in time, but you should never mistake them for anything more than that, for they will move on to the next attractive tit, ass, face etc... when their puke stick rampantly emerges once more.

Males that are sincere in their intent to earn a place at your feet will be steadfast in service. They will not disappear from the radar when you set tasks before them. They will possess the patience to wait until you are secure in the knowledge that they are worthy of being in your presence. Real time is not to be rushed into lightly. It is a process that should be enjoyable for all concerned. The time frame (consideration period) allows for a basis of bonding that simply cannot be forged within a day, a week, or even a single month. Both lady and pet benefit from the wait, for it is only through time and consistent interactions that both may come to a deeper understanding of the qualities the other maintains. An opportunity to develop a level of trust which goes beyond that of a "vanilla" relationship, for are you not sharing your darkest sinful cravings with them? They will come to know you as no other may. These type of males are those that I welcome into my life, and embrace for their courage and strength of character to engage in long term power exchange. The only ones that will ever be beneath my feet in real time service.

Woke up to a lovely $200 tribute from my pet ^_^ This is why he gets texts and phone calls....even real time in a couple of months,while the rest of you get NADA,why...because you are not worthy.

In a fairly good mood today....picked up my new droid phone from pet yesterday ^_^, and made him a lil cucky gift of mancum juiced panties!!

out enjoying the weather

just a moment of time

It has been a bit since I posted a new blog,and unfortunately there will not be a big one today :( I have been busy working on new projects,spending time with those that serve me,and of course dating ^_^

I woke way too early for a Sunday,and do believe that I will try to slip in a nap. The day will be best spent on projects,therefore I am not going to waste a single second on time wasting males today,so if you desire even a millisecond of my day,then $$$

owned boys

This post is directed toward any and all owned boys that come across it prior to them ever making a useless attempt to speak with me. The statements posted are reflections of my personal views only.

I have alluded to the fact before that I have no interest towards any type of interaction with any owned males. There is no budge room in this personal rule.

I realize that some ladies do allow their boys to speak with other females, that is their decision to make, and while I respect it, it does not coincide with my own. Some may say "oh you must be insecure if you do not want your boys to speak with others"...no it is not indicative of any insecurity on my part, merely common sense. The majority of males are easily led by their dick anyway, and known to stray in moments of weakness, therefore why allow that type of temptation to enter their path?

I see no reason for owned boys to be reading other ladies profiles either. What is the point? If a boy is already in service he should have no need nor desire to be looking at other ladies pictures or written thoughts. His time should be spent with his owner, or if  she is not present, then reflecting on how best he can serve her. At this point you may be thinking that I am speaking as if males are mindless drones that cannot control their dick....yes yes I am. This is true for a great majority of males, note I am not stating it as an absolute for all.

Some have reported to me that they are allowed to chat with other ladies so long as they do not tribute them. I fail to see why any lady would choose to speak with owned boys for idle conversation (I have vanilla friends for that purpose, or other ladies in the scene)The name of the fetish is findom, not find a friendom. Therefore any time I spend speaking with a male is either done so in training them to serve, or session. That does not mean that I do not develop a friendship with those that serve me(only those that serve me though).

The point of this post is quite simple. I only have an interest in speaking with those that serve me, or would like to serve me, and of course other ladies within the fetish.

All of this may give the impression that I am a BITCH...yes yes I am.

update on banner work

Was so very proud lastnight that I was able to put together a new background for my twitter account....what do you think?

 Woot woot!!!

Now to get a banner made....one way or another I will figure it out ^_^

My pet earned release lastnight,and showed his appreciation by ordering another bar of silver(yay),a $100 kohls card,and my new fav foot exfoliator...happy happy Goddess.

I also have some new toys on the way. A new vibrator,and a strap on....yummy yummy fun for me :D

quick check in

It has been a busy week for Goddess with guests staying a few days...so you get a bare rundown of events this week.
Little pet remains locked in his chastity device til Monday evening!! He has been a very good pet though ensuring my happiness ^_^
Quick list,but no pics of the gifts this week as I just did not have time to take them...you can see them on my purchased list though if you just have to know what they looked like.
A new rug for my kitchen redo yay yay, a new sony mp3 player for the Y,a makeup brush,and 2 sets of powder for my lovely face,a new coach bag woot woot,$50 kohls card from mike,and a $50 agc fine for a little cunt that takes too long to obey.

I know that I have items on their way so that pleases me immensely!!

For those of you that have not stepped up,WTH are you waiting for?? Get your ass in gear pleasing me,or FUCK OFF!!

toodles

prezzies

Happy Goddess

My new nikes and screen arrived from pet...notice that even though they slapped a sticker on the box stating that it was to be handled with care,they still manhandled it. Hopefully it will not be damaged. Have to wait til tomorrow when I have time to go over it inch by inch....still a lovely day though ^_^

Tips for broke bitches

Never let it be said that I am not helpful and encouraging LOL

The scene is flooded with broke lil bitches that whine and complain that they cannot afford to tribute a lady for her time. Hmm you should not even attempt to speak with a lady if you do not have the means to show your appreciation. It is rude, and a waste of her time. Therefore I am going to share some helpful tips with you on accumulating $ to feed her fetish, and garner you a few precious moments spent with her.

1) Did you know that by selling your plasma you can earn up to $200 a month? Relatively painless without any harmful effects to your body. It is not a wham bam thank you Ma'am process, but if you have spare time, and let's face it, if you are trolling the net checking out wank fodder, then you have the time. Congratulations at the end of the month you will have enough for a modest tribute to lay at the feet of your Goddess.

2) Did you know that you can earn points by setting up a recycling account on recyclebank? It will cost you nothing to join. Earn points by doing small tasks on the site,and pledging to live a greener life. Accumulate enough points and cash in for gift cards which can be presented to your Goddess.

3) Did you know that all coke items have a code on them? Mycokerewards.com is the site where you enter those codes. It is absolutely free to join, and you can cash in your points towards all sorts of gift cards, so get your idle ass to the parks, dumps, or anywhere people toss away the cardboard coke product boxes and lids.

4) Did you know that there is a site where you can earn amazon gift cards? Yup it is called swagbucks.com  You perform daily searches that earn swagbucks which you redeem for amazon gift cards. Amazon gift cards are lovely tributes.


Now these are just a few of the ways broke bitches can earn for their Goddess, so you no longer have an excuse for coming before your lady sans appreciation. Yes it may require you to put some effort into it, and it will not be a quick payout, but patience and dedication are desirable qualities in a male. The only thing stopping you is your own lazy ass. Good luck ^_^

"money grubbing whore"

Aww today we once again delve into the dark area of findom $$

Oh how lovely my day begins to open my messages and peruse the words "money grubbing whore"...sorry to burst the dirty bubble of the sender, but you have failed to anger me with your regurgitation of toxic venom. If anything it has amused me, for your ignorance upon the subject at hand is clearly noted.

Findom involves $ yes, but for me it is merely another tool in my arsenal. Money has no value if you do not attribute it any. You might ask why I require tribute of those that serve me then...well in a nutshell $=POWER, which is the ultimate aphrodisiac. I know full well that males are more than willing to pump any hole they can find with their puke sticks, so obviously they do not place a high level of stock in the worth of it, yet they will hold their wallet closed double fisted. Now what does that tell me hmmm.

Power is the fuel that feeds my fetish, not $. For one such as I there is a no denial that I crave the rush of TPE. How is this accomplished? As most males regard their power base as that of their genitals(I know the truth though) I place them in chastity, which tames the testosterone laden beast that dwells within the male psyche. After a period of time they become quite docile in nature, and geared toward pleasing others, as you have effectively detached them from their own selfish desires. Now I hold control over their flesh and have effectively modified their thought process,which leads to the culmination of my agenda. They are now as like little pets that hand over all that I demand. Content to suffer physically, emotionally, and financially...in essence feeding my desire for TPE.
 

flippin UPS

Not so happy with UPS as they left my prezzies on the porch without knocking,and when I finally opened the door to see them there,my coconut oil and philosophy foot scrub were both liquified UGH...but the tigi curl amplifier that came as well was just fine...which I am in love with...don't you love the way it makes me beautiful curls look???? Thank you to les for being a good boy and pleasing your Goddess with lovely gifts that made her day ^_^ ^_^

good boys get rewarded

Pleased GODDESS today! les cleared out the items from my amazon wishlist that I had assigned him,which earns him a reward for seeing to my pleasure ^_^  Boys that make me their priority earn rewards that most of you can only dream of!!!

I suggest that the rest of you start exceeding the expected if you wish for even a moment of my time.

pleased Goddess

Goddess is in such a lovely mood today ^_^

L has been doing so very well to please Goddess. Although being quite new he has stepped up in the correct way by placing my desires above his own, which is what all good boys should do.

The dudu osun soap he sent me arrived today ^_^ It smells divine even though it does look similar to it's name, and hopefully will do all that it touts. Now to wait on the bb make up, and the pillows to be delivered! He has been promised a reward as soon as he clears out his items on my list...so we shall see how long it takes  :p

Hmm looks like gimp does not read his messages as soon as he should...tic toc

Going to be super busy with vanilla affairs this week...meaning that the only time I will set aside to chat is with those that show appreciation of my time and energy.

New shoes from gimp came today

Now onto a teaser pic for my foot boys.

A new male has been showing his appreciation this week :D through amazon& a kohls card! I always enjoy those that know how to approach a lady.

Something for nothing

Irony is when broke bitches rant and rave that  FinDommes are out to get something for nothing.

Some further compound that insult by inferring that FinDommes are lazy asses that need to get a real job...well boys, in actuality dominating males is not a career for those that lounge around. It takes effort, and in the end most times it is the male that derives the most pleasure from any exchange. Do they honestly believe that women sit at their monitors all day, every day just waiting for the honor of being used as wank fodder to be bestowed upon them? Too many fail to comprehend the exertion expended considering and employing training techniques, not to mention creating intoxicating scenarios that breathe life into fantasies.

What truly amazes me is when I see a male stating that they do not pay to have their needs met. Seriously!! I wonder who they think they are lying to, because I am not buying that line of shit. 

If a male is married, then he is without doubt paying for needs to be met.  If he is just dating, then he is paying once again, whether it be with time, energy, or cash...aw but now some SAM is saying that there are plenty of females around that will meet his "needs" for free...tell me though,  how many times have you had to visit the free clinic after that??

If your destitute sensibilities are offended by findom, the solution is quite simple. Stay away from those that indulge in the fetish. See how easy that is? Oh but if that does not help, here is a well known tidbit of info, the internet is full of sites that provide FREE masturbation material even the bdsm variety for those that "do not pay for their needs being met" See I can be kind :D

Will try to post something new this weekend. Taken this morning as my day begins.

new post will be up this week

Gathering my thoughts for a new post this week....til then

You know where to find me :D

dick discipline

This post is for the boys who truly ascribe to the financial domination fetish.

If I had a dollar for every time I have heard a male tell me that they have been scammed into paying tribute by a male posing as a female, then I would be set for retirement, no joke. The ironic part is that it could have easily been avoided had you not been so lazy, that's right, I said it. If you had taken the time to research the individual in question, you might have avoided the least desired outcome.
Now some of you are thinking how dare I place the blame directly on your shoulders, but responsibility should be allotted accordingly. Did you go through all of her photos? Do they look like the same female? Does she have profiles on other sites? Does she have a website or blog with photos? If you could not be bothered to check any of these things, then you deserve exactly what occurred, so own it, and quit whining, for it gets on my last effing nerve!!!!

It is well known that males are most often led by their small head, which hinders their cognitive thought process, and renders them putty in a woman's hands. The point where they run into trouble is that they see pics of a hot young female with a smokin body,and the one eyed worm begins to dribble. Now they go dick deep trying to get her attention with tribute, without taking the time to look beyond the photos to ascertain if this is truly a female dominant behind the screen. If you had bothered to rein in your manmeat you just might have done your homework, and kept your money in your pocket until such time as you came into contact with a legitimate Domme.

Now I am not going to blow smoke up your ass since there still exists the possibility of being duped even when you have followed the steps I referred to, but they will easily cut down the odds. This is not to say that there are not males out there using the girlfriends, wives, friends pics, and even have them on hand to cam verify when you ask, so I cannot guarantee that it will never go on, but employing a bit of common sense will aid you greatly. The nuances of how females speak and relay their thoughts does differ from males, so try to pay attention to something besides a pic of T&A.


The moral of this post is to apply a little dick discipline!!!!

latest gift from cookie

lucky tribute day

New shoes arrived yesterday,will post a pic this weekend. My wall decal did not come yet :(
Since it is friday the 13th I expect lots of luck filled tributes bitches!!

Make goddess happy

Gifts on the way from cookie........yay me!!! Worship your goddess.....SUFFER....SACRIFICE....SERVE..&..SURRENDER to the beauty of your goddess.

Nothing pleases me more than your cash in my hand....make goddess happy!

softly tousled curls

I have always loved my hair....who doesn't like the run their fingers through softly tousled curls :-)

No tribute=no response

For those of you silly boys contacting me on yim(mzsydney34) without sending a tribute first **FAIL**

Will begin working on a new blog this weekend....

You cannot tell from the pic,but I am now sporting red hair!!

My brat

Today I want to take some time to recognize my number one boy. He has been with me for almost seven years now,and has proven his worth to me many times over.

When we first came into contact findom was not a notion that held much weight with me. I was searching for a boy that would compliment my style of domination, not one to spoil me, but alas within a couple of weeks he was sending flowers and gifts to please me. It was always unexpected, yet so very personal as he came to anticipate that which made me happy.

A mere month passed before I had him at my feet real time begging to please me in any manner I desired, which led to a mini shopping splurge of course. As our interactions evolved he was drawn deeper within my silken web, and I began to explore the developing fetish of findom. It became an intoxication that I have found no wish to abstain from.

Years have elapsed from the onset, yet he has remained a faithful boy, whom has never shown by word or deed that he lives for anything more than my happiness. Nothing thrills me so well as knowing a boy will sacrifice and suffer for me. I do not doubt that boys of this caliber exist, which is why I will never accept into my service any that fail to meet the standards I have set.


Take heed of this post little ones, for my expectations are clearly outlined within it.

Well the weekend is over :(

I was able to spend quality time with family this weekend, which was sadly overdue. I have made plans therefore to make the trek back to Illinois over the holiday season in December, yay!!!

With all of the excitement of late,I have not had much time to blog, post, or merely chat. Have you missed me? I know you have :) As soon as I find the time this week, I will post a lengthier blog, so keep yourselves busy memorizing all of the previous posts.

I am very EXCITED about this weekend!! Those that I hold dear will be in town tomorrow through Sunday. I have not seen them for a little over 2 years,so I will be a very busy Goddess over this time frame,and do not anticipate being online any if at all during daylight,but will try to check messages right before I retire for the night.

Morning to all

Be uniquely YOU

Throughout the time I spend online daily, I see a fair share of blogs, posts, profiles, status updates & tweets, and what I generally find are the very same words touted by dozens of ladies. It becomes monotonous and droll. I can only imagine that any submissive male perusing them shares a similar conclusion.

Why are so many apprehensive of being seen for who they truly are? No longer are we teenagers that must conform to clique ideologies for fear of being ostracized. Your style, your thoughts, your very approach may not suit all, but you do yourself a disservice by imitating others. Never allow your personality to be diminished just to blend in!!

The majority of novices entering the fetish hold with the belief that they must act, speak, and dominate in a manner that others have defined, which further perpetuates the misconception that you cannot be yourself and succeed. There are very few absolutes, but if you have an honest desire in seeking out those that will serve you well, then just be YOU.

Define success not by others standards, but by that which you decide.

pic from today

 Morning pic!
Another beautiful day in Kansas. Will be occupied most of the day,but you can find updates on twitter periodically.