Monday, December 31, 2012

Welcome to all who have just today found my blog, and welcome back to those who return once more! We are upon the cusp of a new year which means that it is a time of renewal and reflection. For those of you who have had the distinctive honor of serving me this past year yet have fallen from my good graces, you now have the rare opportunity to earn absolution. Pleas for an audience accompanied by a notable tribute may be remitted to mzsydney34@yahoo.com Any messages that fail to contain tribute will be deleted and the sender blocked permanently.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

The new year is approaching within mere days little ones, which is a typically a time for renewal,and an opportunity to step forward to serve me. Impress me with your creativity and desire to deliver adoringly devoted service. I am having a lovely holiday here in Illinois, and a shall be available only for periodic moments. Remember to make your first impression memorable boys :D

Saturday, December 22, 2012

The ultimate way to display your love for Goddess(click on LOVE) LOVE What was delivered the other day from les that pleased me greatly!!!

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

The submissive male

Pursuant to a recent conversation I decided to post my thoughts pertaining to the etiology of a submissive male. Sort of a nature vs nurture debate. Natures stance would claim that males are genetically born submissive, while nurture would have you believe that the upbringing environment is the causation. Is it remotely possible that there is a piece of dna which dictates either a dominant or submissive personality? Science is yet years away from identifying every strand of dna and it's purpose though, so it is not an impossible theory. If we were to subscribe to Jung's theories then it would indeed be a factor of nurturing, for he upheld that personality traits are an ongoing evolving process throughout life. Therefore it would stand to reason that submissive traits are conditioned in early childhood,most likely due to a strong nurturing maternal figure or even that of a child imitating submissive behavior on the part of a paternal presence. Is it that simplistic...I think not. Studies of infant behavior within the hospital nursery setting conclude that personality traits are apparent even at this early stage of life evidenced by making note of how some infants are calmly self soothing in comparison to those that are easily irritated and require a moderate amount of attention for comfort. It is my belief that some traits are innate and can become dominant through the reinforcement of learned behaviors. Simply put,the submissive trait is a spark that some are born with which when fed becomes a flame within the soul. One such example would be that of a sexually active submissive male required per it's owner to undergo chastity training. Once enforced for a greater period of time males are shown to display a docile and agreeable demeanor. In essence you have conditioned the male through training to become an amendable personal servant while eradicating the dominant testosterone driven reactions.

Monday, December 17, 2012

7 days til my departure to Illinois!!! If you cannot tell,I am very very pleased to be going :D It has been over 2 years since my previous return. The week began quite well. I woke to a message from les stating that he had purchased a new camcorder for me as a Christmas gift YAY ME....$400 well spent for Goddess. Now I can film a lil play time with a new bull waiting for me to visit lol Of course I want more....keep the gifts coming boys. Off to start preps for packing.....oh and do not forget to check out my latest piece on Domme Dose click here

Saturday, December 15, 2012

What I got today,and where I am gonna spend my afternoon :D

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Breaking boys vs breaking boys in

If you are in the scene long enough you will surely come across boys have been truly broken by ladies. They are so very immersed within their addiction though that they continue to skirt along the fringes bottom feeding vicariously through posts relaying the service of other males. Eventually many of these males will develop into misogynists as their jealousy and inability to feed their fetish becomes like that of a cancerous lesion eroding away at common sense when dealing with the fairer sex. The destructive negative energy associated with anger leads them to taint every interaction til they reach the point where they are not even welcomed by the cretins of bdsm. It is a waste to see a once productive submissive male reduced to this point. This outcome could have easily been avoided if only adequate time and attention had been paid. Some may disagree that it is the responsibility of a dominant female to gauge when males serving them are reaching the plateau of being "broken", and this is a point that I would refute. Although it is difficult to recognize online compared to real time when boys are reaching the precipice, it is not impossible. The signs are there if you only look. Good boys are wired to please a lady, even when it poses a detriment to themselves. They are trained to eradicate the word no, and fear speaking out that they are being pushed too far, as it might displease their Domme. Yes it is the ultimate desire to have males in service that will go to any lengths to please, but at the same time we as the superior individuals must rein them in for their own safety, because once "broken", males no longer have any use. They become comparable to the refuse that we discard daily, whereas boys that have been broken to the bit, with hard limits set, whom embrace their purpose in life as that of serving a dominant woman to the best of their means (disposable income), are an asset long term, for they will work harder and longer towards the happiness of their chosen Domme. Essentially when you break a good boy you are cutting off your nose to spite your face as broke boys do not pay tribute.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

My first dommedose piece

Extremely pleased today as I have had my first piece published by Dommedose!! Check it out when you have the time. Just click on my name to view it ^_^ I have been an avid reader of the site since the onset of my foray into findom. They have some amazing and insightful writers posting to the site which is an enormous aid for those just getting started. MzSydney

Sunday, December 9, 2012

2 activities that I reject

There are 2 activities that I am most consistently approached regarding that I have absolutely no interest in engaging in irregardless of monetary gain. Blackmail being number 1. I find the very word distasteful. I realize that many ladies play in that realm, but for my own personal reasons I do not. My stance is not going to change. I have given a good bit of thought before arriving at my decision, therefore I am adamant in regards to it. All of the risk lays upon the lady's shoulders, and I for one refuse to find myself in a cell block predicament. I have checked into the legalities, and even with a contract of consent, the party blackmailing is still held liable legally. Blackmail is a felony which equates to a vacation spent in prison. Does that sound like an appealing option to you?? It doesn't to me. I cringe to even think about the number of females new to the scene taking on males for this type of play. Mind you I am not judging. I merely hope that both parties are fully informed of all possible ramifications. The second area of play is teamviewer. Once more you can run afoul of the law with this type of play, in that once you have access to a pc it could be stated that you did not have permission, or worse you could be prosecuted for hacking into their system. Now at this point you may say, but if they are giving me the password then I am free and clear....well no you are not. You must tread carefully as most times when this activity occurs, $ is taken, and this is where you will get in trouble. One, males may cancel any order you place, or if you log into their accts and send yourself gift cards, guess what....they can notify whatever company you went through that an unauthorized person placed the order. The company is going to cancel the order,and you can be held accountable legally for doing so, especially if the male in question is a vindictive one. I myself do not find the title ex-con attractive. In no way am I attempting to tell any lady what she should and should not do. My intentions are centered upon outlining my views and reasoning only, and should be seen as such. In conclusion any $ obtained through these activities is not defined as TRIBUTE. It is payment for service due to the very definition of tribute(freely given,expecting nothing in return) It has always been my thought that tribute is a gift of adoration, not something that should be forced or taken.

Friday, December 7, 2012

Thursday, December 6, 2012

It is a cold and dreary day which affords you the unique opportunity to brighten my day by sending a token of your appreciation to make me smile. mzsydey34@yahoo.com

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

recognition of a gentleman

Hello to all of you ^_^ I have not been on the sites as much this week...nasty cootie bug cold is kicking my ass....but Frank did come around and purchase a pair of boots for my precious peds, which I will post pics of once they get here...hurry hurry UPS! Frank is one that I have not spoken of that much here, but I intend to rectify that for good boys deserve recognition. He is a boy that does not come around often for he is not flush with $, but neither does he become a strain upon my time and energy. I actually enjoy interacting with him, and always appreciate the items that he gifts me with. In fact the very first pair of shoes he purchased are featured as the main photo of my cm profile, and they have garnered a multitude of compliments for the delightful way they showcase my arches :D The point being that even though he is not my owned boy, he has always been a courteous gentleman whom treats me as a superior lady which is what I expect from boys. Males such as he are ones that I always have time for. Take note boys, it requires more than a fat wallet to maintain a place at the feet of a lady ^_^ Manners do matter especially when making a first impression, so make sure that your behavior reflects how you wish to be thought of.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

manpet

I want you to strip down before me and kneel with your legs spread wide, your hands finger locked behind your head while I attach a collar and leash to your throat and insert a puppy tail plug into your ass. You are to keep your eyes averted the entire time. The only view you are allotted is of my leather boots, which you will be allowed to place a chaste kiss upon the tip of . I will then lead you out the door for a walk to a freshly tilled field. You will keep pace to my left side,and if at any time you lag too far behind you will receive the kiss of my crop. No words will be spoken,all commands given with the jerk of the leash tightening the collar a tad bit. This is not done to harm,but merely to remind you of your place in life at my feet. Upon treading into the field you will be forced to struggle a bit as it will be soft and slippery terrain. Your face so very close to my heel that you can smell the rich earth scent coating it. Poor puppy tires as we traverse the length of a football field to completion. The only respite being a brief moment where I use you as a seat to sit upon, which helps you not as you can feel the heat and moisture of my scented sex on your back. Oh how cruel I am to tease my pet with that which will never be his. A brief slap to the ass his go ahead to resume our walk. Returning to the house indicates that exercise time is over, yet a task remains ahead. Across the floor in her wake is a trail of dirt clumps that pet shall consume quickly and quietly. Once finished he shall crawl to her feet and lave the soles of her boots with his tongue in worship. If he is a good pet and efficient in his honored chore he shall be allowed to remove her boots and massage her weary feet with his mouth and hands. Never once shall a word pass his lips for pets do not speak. The only display allowed is the wagging of the tail between his cheeks. You do want to be a good pet do you not? You desire to earn your pleasure through pleasing correct? You accept and embrace your purpose in her life as a faithful obedient manpet yes? Are you ready, are you prepared, do you crave to become mine? Come humble, abase yourself begging to be owned...and if I deem you worthy...you may earn the honor. It should not require being stated, but for those without the financial means to serve a Goddess, you do not have permission to speak with me...keep your desires to yourself.

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Shrouded fallacy

The harsh cold reality of findom is something rarely spoken of in closed circles, let alone revealed to the public eye, yet perhaps if it was, there would not be the sheer number of individuals seeking out the sites daily. Findom is shrouded within the fallacy that males are falling all over themselves to throw money at any lady claiming the title of a financial dominant. If you are one that believes this to be factual, then you seriously need to get a clue. That is not to say that a young female with a hot body cannot masquerade as a Domme and reap the benefits of the dick led boys on the scene, for that is entirely possible. The truth though is that this is not financial domination in the purest sense. It would be a situation where boys are calling the shots. It is no secret that males are visual creatures who wank their wads to peeking at pics of tits, ass, and beaver shots, so to be clear....when a male is paying you to get on cam or send pics of your anatomy, this is NOT financial domination, and let's face it that this is the majority of interactions playing out today. Don't believe me huh...well go ahead and bury your head in the proverbial sand then, for it will not alter the reality by denying it. Try pondering that saying about if something seems to good to be true. Moneyslaves are elusive creatures at best, and the odds of connecting with one are not astronomically in your favor, sorry to burst your bubble. Even if one were to cross your path how would they differentiate you from the hundreds of others who mimic the same exact BS, ie flying the bird, tossing out the loser word...or the here piggy piggy pay me lines. It astounds me that anyone with a grain of common sense believes that this type of approach works. If it did, don't you think that all females would be doing it, oh wait they are...and yet here they are day after day complaining that no serious males ever approach them. Try googling the definition of insanity, sound familiar? Onto the illusion of tribute proof, yes I said illusion as in falsely created. Who doesn't know that photoshop is an effective tool, or that anyone can cash a paycheck and take a "tribute" pic? Before any get their knickers in a ruffle, NO I am not claiming that every lady does this, in fact I have no doubt that quite a few Dommes do receive large legitimate tributes, but these are ladies that have invested years in perfecting their techniques and training regimen. They have acquired a reputation for authenticity and skill. Aww now to the lies that spread, yes I said lies. I have seen so many that claim to have experience and many males in their stable, yet appear to have absolutely no idea as to what domination is. How can that possibly be...well let's see, I myself could claim to have dozens of boys in service, does that make it truth, uhhhh NO. It will mislead one new to the scene though. I mean they cannot post anything on the internet that isn't true right??? LMAO. Of course it makes a lady all the more desirable to seek out if a male thinks that she is unattainable due to the fact that she already has so many serving her, therefore he will work harder to impress her with a sizable tribute, and be even more grateful when she accepts him. Some would call this PR or hustle...but why a call a falsehood by another name? Ya cause it sounds better. tbc at a later date.