Lovely start to my New Years Eve...thank you to a good pet for the lovely gift I got in the postage today :)

Some evenings I like to play around with my cam...you can thank me in the form of amazon gift cards for the honor of allowing you to view the beauty which is me :)

tic toc frenzy

Do you hear the clock ticking? Can you feel your heartbeat pounding in time with it? Are you like Alice's rabbit...running around like you are late? If so,then you are not alone.

Sadly it is actually humorous to see all the little brand spanking new boys scrambling about in an attempt to get owned up right away. I mean isn't that what it's all about anyway? The euphoric rush of getting exactly what you want when you want it. You enter the scene,make your desires known,and wham bam thank you Ma'am you're now owned. Gosh isn't it wonderful!!!

Of course that is until you take a step back(do be a good boy and remove your dick from your hand first) and look around. What do you see? Oopsy people are laughing at you,and not in the good(oh humiliate me for being a loser)way...nope you have now through your own inept actions made it clear that you are a dumbass sans an ounce of common sense. That is what happens when you allow your actions to be led by the little head.

No worries though little grasshopper,you are not the only one being laughed at. The key is for you to learn from this experience. Will you grow and take this lesson to heart,or will you wander around like one of little bo peeps sheep is the question.

We all start somewhere,and everyone one of us in the fetish scene have made mistakes(regardless whether they have seen the light of day),but those with the longevity required to last,do strive to turn the negative into a positive,so do not flagellate yourself over the fact that you jumped into a situation entirely too quickly. You are not the first nor will you be the last to join the scene and agree to become owned within an hour,a day,or even a week,but you can use your brain to take steps towards never allowing yourself to rush in without time and consideration ever again. Generally it is the Domme's duty to ensure that this does not happen,but apparently you cannot always count on it,so be prepared to do so yourself(you are a big boy right?).

In a realm where you are barked at hourly to pony up,keep in mind that your revenue is best saved for one that you take the time to get to know,and one whom is worthy of your offering,so keep that change in your pocket until you have chosen wisely rather than rashly,and you just might find the experience rewarding instead of laughable as the 15 minutes of fame for being the star of the findom comedy relief.

Femdom or faux

There appears to be an entirely new generation of males scouring the internet daily for a femdom fix. Do they actually find kernels of legitimate female domination,or do they stumble upon pornographic photos and films depicting what another male envisions femdom to be? Judging from the misconceptions conveyed to me in correspondences,I would lay odds on the porn angle,simply because the majority impart that they are seeking some type of sexual scenario,which does not exist.

Common sense should tell one that their visions,and hopes are unrealistic. I mean seriously,does anyone truly believe outside of a bar that a sober stranger wants to sensually play with their sexual organs,or enact a scene which gets them off for the pure pleasure of it? If you honestly buy into the fantasy,then please get psychiatric guidance,because you are living in la la land.

Female domination is not based on sex,hell domination itself is not either,but things have become so dastardly convoluted that one cannot see beyond tits,ass,pussy,and cock. I ask myself if this is merely a phase,or is this the new face of the fetish scene,and if it is,then I have no use for it. I genuinely mourn the loss of interacting with gentlemen whom appreciate a Lady,and respectfully bow down to her wishes,sans hidden agendas.

One would hope that with age comes wisdom and life shaping experience(the reason why I do not consider any male under 30),but even the males I have exchanged missives with within my desired age range have become soiled and spoiled into thinking that bdsm is all about them,and their cock emissions.

I would love nothing more than to slap a certain popular female femdom writer in the face due to her portraying males as treasures to be treated as a godsend. Yes submission is a gift,but that does not make you a special snowflake. Ask yourself just how many submissives do you think are on the internet,hell in the entire world looking for a Domme? You would be astounded to learn that you are one of thousands upon thousands,so why should any Lady consent to training you? What do you have to offer which makes you of value,and no the size of your equipment,nor a hot body matters. Pretty boys are a dime a dozen,so do not bank on that either.

 As a submissve your submission is a commodity,so what makes it of worth? Are you attentive,are you capable of integrity,and devotion? Do you possess the maturity to recognize that it is not your will that matters? I am not saying that you do not have the right to choose whom you serve,but I am saying that this is where you must drop the attitude that you are entitled to call the shots. A power exchange involves you relinquishing control,not barking orders from the bottom. You can never forget your place in service. You are the one serving,not the one being served,which is an entirely different endeavor,so keep this in mind when you are looking around at what the monkeys are doing,and try your best not to ape them,for you devalue yourself by doing so.

Be a good little bitch,and beg(TRIBUTE)to be under my fabulous feet.
and kiss my Santa socks:)

Progression not resolutions

The end of the year draws ever near,which means that the winds of change are about to blow through. Some of these alterations may chill you to the marrow whist others warm the cockles of your chastity belts.

I have been fairly quiet as of late due to life and family obligations (did you think that I lived online lol). One of the things I do every year at the closing of the month,is to look back retrospectively at how the year went in regards to my long term goals,which lights the twists and turns needed to effectively progress forward. This is not an uncommon occurrence for most people,only they might define them as new years resolutions,but not I,for most tend to leave those by the wayside in a matter of days.

I firmly believe that one must change their circumstances through diligent effort,and their prerogatives with progressive plans,but here is the catch for me,I did not find fault with my plans this year,rather instead the blame lay within those that I allowed contact with me,therefore that is the very first step in my overall big picture clarity. I will eradicate those that do nothing to enrich my life in any way shape or form. This will in essence clear the clouds from my bright horizon.

This may appear cold and heartless,but it is what it is. I simply do not possess the time and energy for those unwilling to be of benefit to me. I fail to grasp how this could shock anyone,for I have never given anyone the impression that I tolerate anything less than I deserve,EVER.

Many of you may know that I belong to a few D's sites,and to be honest,I am not pleased with what I see these days. The waters are muddy,and what I view being called domination is a far cry from it. Sorry folks but getting buck ass naked,and spreading my goodies,or watching some absolute stranger strangle his noodle is not domination in my book.

Everyone has their way of doing things,and I am cool with that,but I am just not the one to come to if you are looking for a session where you get to orgasm,or where you sit back and stare at my pussy,ass,or tits. You can find all of that on a porn site,or you can call a phone sex op,or even scrounge around under your couch cushions to pay for a cam session purchase,but none of those avenues are open in regards to me. I have in the past been quite vocal about the fact that I do not offer online sessions. What I have always sought are servants(no not domestic ones),and this is not accomplished through catering to a client.

In a day and age where males are taught that they should be entitled,and catered to by the female sex,I for one refuse to buy into the bullshit. I do not log into my pc just to play out your fantasy. Domination is not a role that I play,or a character I dress for. For me it is real. I do real time with my boy brat,but even he knows that we play by my rules,and what it is that I want,not by some false ass propaganda touted by selfish self serving jackoffs. This is the reason why so very few of you receive even a second word with me.

The bright side of my revelations is that none of this shall effect those that I know are coming to me with the purpose of pure service and admiration,and yes I know how to tell the difference between worthy and worthless. If you are new to my world,then you may be asking how exactly you can verify your worth to me,well it is simple. Tribute willingly,and without me asking. Sacrifice for me,and do it as your purpose in life. Place no other above me,and worship only me. Keep the truth on your tongue,and your fingertips. Last but certainly not least,never forget that a mannered gentleman is of more value than a raging hormonal rogue.

Beauty and grace,combined in one place,Goddess Sydney

To Worship a Goddess

What does the title of this post mean to you? Ponder your response whilst I enlighten you with data which you may not have taken into consideration.

Wiki defines worship as such

"Worship is an act of religious devotion usually directed towards a deity. An act of worship may be performed individually, in an informal or formal group, or by a designated leader.
Worship asserts the reality of its object and defines its meaning by reference to it"

 with the origin being "The word is derived from the Old English weorþscipe, meaning worship, honour shown to an object,which has been etymologised as "worthiness or worth-ship"—to give, at its simplest, worth to something"

Now I ask you,what does the word worship mean to you? Does your definition differ from what is posted above? If you are male,and reading this,then I am going to go out on a limb,and bet that it does. How can I possibly know this,whelp it is certainly not because I possess the power of extra sensory perception. It is simply that I know the nature of the male beast,which has been proven day in and day out when one takes the time to read through the dialogue males post.

The term worship has become entirely convoluted,especially within the lovely findom fetish. Rather than males bowing down,and sincerely offering honor,it has now jumped the precipice of insult. I know not,nor care for the state of your immortal or lack thereof soul,rather my query would be if any of you regardless of whether you are a Christian,buddist,muslim etc...would walk up to the icon of your choosing,and spew out the words"Oh I worship your ass,tits,pussy,(you get my point yes????)

Of course you would not think to dish out such dishonor,so why then would you do so to one whom you claim as your Goddess? It is beyond reprehensible. Oh and yes I am aware that many upon many females bear no issue with this type of interaction,and that is their prerogative,not mine. My views have always,and will forever be that worship is NOT sexual in nature,I mean seriously do you see any mention of sex,or sexuality within the frame of the definition provided? How does your dick getting hard by looking at anatomy parts equate to worship? It simply doesn't,so please do refrain from attempting to argue the point. Either way you are wrong.

Now blah blah blah disclaimer,yes I know not all males are like this,so no need to say it.

My beauty

Hear my beauty roar,feel it thrumming through your veins,and throbbing within your soul.

Serving or sessions

When I am screening a male for consideration to me,one of the predominant methods of ascertaining whether he is a viable candidate is to assess whether he wants for me or from me. Now if he wants from me,then he is automatically filed into the undesirable bin,and passed along,but if he is one of the very rare jewels whom wants for me,well then he is moved up to the front of the line. This process of weeding out is one of the surest routes that I know of as it is always successful.

As to how it works,that is simple. Seeing as I do not make initial contact,a male is placed in the position of gathering up his courage to reach out to me first,and generally by the lines of his first missive I am able to form an opinion of whether or not I desire to block or reply,which saves me precious time,that could have been wasted. Now you may be asking yourself,how can she tell that quickly if a male is worth her time,and the answer is that I have learned through experience,but I am willing to divulge a few tips.

 Boys if you are starting your correspondence with self centered motivation(I will see it) just from the words you elect to employ,such as "I want,I like,I need" I I I...yup you have just shown me that all you are focused on is you,and that is not the point of service. Another no no is spewing out fetish porn dialogue right off the bat,once again you are waving the wanker flag,and I am done with you before you began. Continuing forward. Do not send a little message saying "hi",why not,well it conveys laziness,and that is something that I avoid like the plague,nor do you put your best foot forward with a wee penis pic(ugh hot pokers in the eyes are preferable to that)

If any of what I described above resembles you,then welcome to the majority of men on the fetish sites,you are no longer in the minority. Before you get your dander flying,I am not condemning males whom are just around to get off and log out. What I am saying though is that you are worthless to any woman seeking actual service,and no most Dominas do not want to be your fapping friend. I truly wish I knew whom started that bullshit spiel about ladies getting off watching men pulling their little puds,so that I could slap them in the face with a flaccid wand. Seriously boys who told you that females want to turn on their cam,and masturbate watching you shove objects up your ass,or playing with your pecker? Now this is not entirely true,but do you know why? Yup cause there are tons of sites dedicated to women masturbating for your viewing pleasure,and even doing so whilst you are displaying your goods to them,BUT you are failing to realize that this is not the modus operandi for every site,in fact it is not one for most sites.

I digress,but my point is that,you know full well from the get go whether you are here to serve or to session with a cam model,and it is your responsibility to know which type of lady you are approaching prior to doing so. You waste more than your own time when you contact a Domina whom expects to be served if you are in it to win the sticky finger salute,so do everyone a favor,and join the sites where you are most likely to obtain your goal,whether it be serving or sessioning,and in the long run you will be happy that you did.

Compliment me in the only way that counts,with cash :)

Where oh where have I been

Some of you may have noticed,whilst others could not care less that I have been absent,or rarely around over the last couple of weeks,which has been quite refreshing for me personally. I mentioned awhile back that I had received a substantial salary upgrade,and along with that came extended work hours due to accepting more responsibilities,which equates to less time and availability for the fetish activities I enjoy. This by no means is suggestive of me brushing aside the possibility of accepting submissive gentlemen into my gilded stables,rather in fact I am anticipating my due worship as a Goddess amongst males,but my criteria has narrowed the parameters of whom I will deem worthy.

In the past I condescended to respond to all those that craved a moment of my time,so long as they did not barrage my eyes with undesirable photos,but now my time constraints will not allow for such,which means that my response will be gifted only upon those that treat it as an honor,not a right. Life and the time allotted to us as human beings is finite and beyond priceless,so I feel no overwhelming need to connect with every person whom contacts me. Now I hope that my message conveys to you exactly my supreme intent,and for those that cannot break it down properly,I will be kind enough to make it crystal for you.

My attention is for only those that worship and serve as a submissive or gentleman admirer are meant to. This means once again(and why I have to keep repeating this is beyond me)that I will not,nor have I ever accepted performing sessions,as they are not what serving a dominant means to me. Nor do I care to be a voyeur to your displays of anal insertions,or any activity which brings forth an orgasm for you. Chastity and financial domination are the loves of my fetish heart,so to offer me less will find you rebuked.

I am not one to play cute games. I am brutally blunt,and straightforward in my expectations. There is not enough time in the day for me to develop a tolerance for catering to male fantasies,and the very fact that I proclaim myself a female supremacist should have already clued you into that. I am a serious minded thinking being,but that is not indicative of a droll personality,merely that I possess no desire to align myself with any whom are playing at being submissive to women with their dick in hand. To me,submission is not based upon sex or masturbation,and if your dick needs to be erect to serve,then I want no part of you. Service itself should be an intellectual and emotional nirvana which leaves you tingly,breathless,and blessed,not perpetuated upon seed coating your hand.

With all of this stated,you are welcome to display your interest in serving me,so long as this is exactly what you are prepared to do. If you are an unsure soul stumbling along,then I advise you to get yourself in order before you utter a peep,and lastly for the ones whom declare that they need time to get to know me,whelp that is what my blog site is for,but be warned you will actually have to spend your time reading it,so if you are just too lazy for that type of exertion,then I am not one whom will find you worth my efforts either.

The above opinions and statements are mine alone,and not meant as a hard rule for the entirety of my peers,and with that said,none of it applies to any ladies reading this,as I always welcome friendship and conversation with other awesome fetish femmes :)

The photo says it all. If you were one of the lovely males whom sacrificed for my holy day,then I bid you my thanks,but if you were not,then you are obviously not worthy of worshiping divinity,and I bid you adieu.

You come first

Pinning  all of your hopes,dreams,and especially paying next month's rent upon a male is not even close to being realistic.This is in fact the path which will leave you homeless,and penniless if you pursue it. A wise woman recognizes that she must make her own way with resilience and the reliance of herself only,because becoming dependent upon another to pay your way only makes of you their slave,for if you cannot exist without their financial backing,that is a sad lot in life.

I know that it seems so easy allowing others to meet your responsibilities,but what happens to you when that individual becomes less than a blip on the radar,and believe me when I say that this is the most common behavior of supposed submissive males. One must take into account the intricacies of the male psyche,and what I mean by that is that they are known to stray...to disappear without a trace,and with their departure goes your meal ticket. Is this the life you envision for yourself? Do you really want to degrade yourself by chasing down submissives?

The surest way to success is through determination,and dedication towards your sustainable financial future. This is not me saying that financial domination should not be a part of your life,but if you base your world upon it,then what will you do someday when you wake up one day,older,sadder,and without the means to take care of yourself. If you see to your education now though,you will be taking the steps to ensure that when the day comes that little ones no longer flock to you to fulfill their visual fetish for young flesh,then it will matter not,for you will not need their money to live your life.

The entire financial fetish becomes a fun adventure when you do not need tribute,and are able to spend what you receive on anything you want,rather than items you need. I mean how much more happiness does it bring you to lavish upon yourself a silky new pair of panties,rather than the toilet paper to wipe your ass. Not to mention that when you need the money,then you are more likely to engage in behaviors which in other circumstances you would not abide by,so why not take steps towards financial independence? Being able to meet your own needs breaks the chains of dependency,so I say go for it. Whether it be taking classes at the local community college,or putting in extra hours at your position to gain positive notice from your employer,just do not settle for stagnating in a pool which is lined with your dashed hopes and dreams,and I promise that you will be the benefactor of an enriched existence.

All statements are a matter of my personal opinions sans intended offense.

Your day has no meaning if you have not made me smile.

3 days,3 little days to prove to me that you are utterly devoted to,or enamored with me prior to my birthday...odds are if I know that you exist,and you fail me on this the holiest of days,then I will be quite unlikely to ever acknowledge you again.

Not sure why,but I am really digging this photo!

 You just cannot help falling in love with me :)

Lick my wrinkled soles!

Velcro makes me itch with a capital B

The latest and greatest in affordable accessories for the "submissive" who has it all is the velcro collar. For some, this honored piece of bdsm tradition can be yours for a mere $10 tribute. Wow what a deal! I see so many people acquiring one, that surely it has become the most fashionable trend in the fetish scene today right? Who really cares if it is as faux as the knock off coach bags they market on the street corners in every large city? I mean it adds to your status and kink cred doesn't it, and who can really tell that it is not legitimate?

Well little ones here comes your wake up call! Everyone that is anyone whom has been around the scene for awhile can spot your velcro collar a mile away, and are giving your existence that much berth to avoid you as well. A collar of that caliber is indicative of the fact that you do not know shit about bdsm tradition (nor does the one whom gifted you with it), or possess enough respect for yourself to earn a collar the old fashioned way (through time devoted, and hard work provided).

Now many of you are thinking to yourself that this is a new age, and tradition don't mean squat to individuals that want what they want, when they want it, and how they want it right? Is this not the era of instant gratification, and does not technology afford you the opportunity to acquire exactly that? Life would not be fair if you yourself could not instantly possess the very same thing that a submissive whom has spent years working towards receiving it. You as a supremely entitled being have put a new spin on the antiquated drudgery of earning a collar, doesn't that make you all warm and fuzzy inside? You have outsmarted them all haven't you?  Minimal effort and minimal expenditure and voila, you are now a bonafide owned male. Gosh that was easy cheesy.

Look how grown up you appear with your new fancy dancy neck attire. Wow everyone will respect you now, won't they? After all, cries for attention are always met with the utmost of praise aren't they?

Ready for it, because I am going to tear off the bandaid quick like, hope you shave closely. You are a fool in a collared jester's suit, and that is exactly how you are viewed by your superiors and peers. So many of the best things in life are worked for and earned, not merely given freely, such as respect, trust, paychecks, and yes even collars. You truly do get exactly what you pay for in some instances, so if you are not concerned about your latest and greatest neck adornment leaving behind a telling green ring, then by all means go for it, but just in case you are one of those rare gentlemen that believes in hard work, and earning your way, then do yourself a favor and just say NO to velcro collars. Save up that $10, and invest in something real.

10 days til the Goddess birth celebration. Time for all my minions to make themselves known by gifting Goddess. You do not want to be the only one left out in the cold now do you,bereft of the warmth of Goddess's praise? Of course not,now snap to it gentlemen,and send all those lovely amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

It is blasphemous not to worship beauty.

Hello to all of my minions and wannabees. It is now officially November 1st,which means that it is a mere 14 days til the day of my birth celebration! What a wondrous day it shall be,and a perfect opportunity for you to step up to introduce yourselves with a gift of adoration. Remember boys,notice comes only to those that make themselves known,and for those trolling here,well

In love with my new hat!! Isn't it sexy?

All prettied up for date night :)

Cannot decide which picture I like best.

So you think that you are ready to serve

"I want to serve you". This is the single most common email I  receive from males on the various sites,and this is generally the very last thing they actually have in mind of doing. Now I am not referring to the notorious timewaster when I say this,as many times it is not the intention behind the contact with me. Fortunately as well as unfortunately there are torrents of new to the lifestyle males entering the bdsm realm daily. Fortunate for the fact it displays to me that males are accepting and actively pursuing the fruition of their submissive natures,unfortunate in the reality that they are basing their notions of what serving is upon non-fiction ideals.

This creates disappointment on all fronts,for neither side is having their expectations met. The easiest action would be to dub the male in question a timewaster,or equally dubious,a wank watcher,whilst the male names the Lady he contacted a fake,scammer,instadomme,or fraud. How does anyone walk away from this exchange enriched?

This is surely a case where a bit of knowledge would have saved the day,and avoided a negative interaction. I have always preached research,and educating yourself about the nuances and practices of bdsm prior to jumping in. No doubt that many activities are best experienced first hand before deciding if they are truly what you desire,but it will never negate the purpose behind possessing knowledge of the basic bdsm principles. Otherwise you are going to be like a lost wandering little puppy.

First I advise you to tale a deep breath (more oxygen to the brain is a good thing :). Now take a mental scouring brush to your mind,and eradicate every single thought which you maintained  of serving being based on you,or any of your most lurid orgasmic fantasies. Taking all preconceived notions of having your wants met out of the equation will lead you to a state of mind much more conducive to submission. Submission is relinquishing power,releasing control(not cum). It is placing yourself without reservations into the hands of a dominant being for their use. It is not a guarantee that you will love every single task before you,but then the enjoyment is not meant to be derived from the task itself,but from the pleasure the dominant receives upon your completion of it.

Service is not a 24/7 kinkfest,let's face it,that would be utterly exhausting if it was. It is not all glamorous,and picture worthy either. Serving a dominant is not always a sexy erection provoking joyride. It is work. It is effort. It requires more of you than a mere physical response. That is why it takes a strong individual to kneel in submission.

Never forget that dominants are human beings too. They have duties and obligations outside of their servants,which means that they are not your handy dandy johnny on the spot kink candy dispenser. They do not ascribe to the myths which depict them clad in leather and lace minute by minute awaiting to tease and tantalize the senses of submissive males,that would be a selfishly absurd thought,now wouldn't it? Nor would it be realistic to assume that they idle their time away engaging in sexual scenes and acts portrayed in pornographic films. That is not to say that they do not engage in erotically charged sessions,just that they are not likely to with you.
 
Once you are able to take "self" out of the equation,then and only then will you be ready to serve. This is why your ego is not a positive attribute,egos are things which generate entitlement and the illusion of superiority,and in the beautifully exotic realm of service,you are not superior,it is your service which should bear that adjective,not you personally.

Now ask yourself one simple question. Are you really ready to serve?

Random photo day

Safe play

This is a subject which needs spoken out about more often,as it seems not to receive the recognition it deserves. I know that some of you are sitting there thinking "why the hell is she bringing this shit up,I know what I am doing"...well that is not a correct assertion for some of you elsewise I would not be typing my pretty little fingers to the bone right now,and believe me my keyboard is not enjoying the pounding it is receiving.

I seen an offsite account with photo proof provided of males inserting objects into their rectums which should not be there ie a baseball bat amongst other large objects,and thought to myself,HELL NO. 1)Why the hell would a male actually follow through with such an order? 2)Why would a female convey such an order? Boys please do not disregard the fact that you can permanently damage yourself with this type of action,not to mention the shame and humiliation of explaining to hospital staff and loved ones how this injury occurred,or worse yet the pain it would bring your family to hear from the coroner your cause of death(anal hemorrhage from fucking a baseball bat) cute huh? For fuck's sake I do not care how turned on your are by the person you are sessioning with,use your big head to reason out unsafe actions,unless you think it is sexy to wear depends the rest of your life...oh yes that will have the ladies lining up outside your door.

You boys get all worked up with penile erections,and do whatever you are told by a hot young girl in this particular case,whom obviously has zero real time experience,now doesn't that make you feel all warm and cozy? It sure does me, NOT. Conserve some of that blood flow,and find out if you are placing your health and safety into the hands of an experienced Domina before you shove shit in your gaping filth maw.

Since entering the online realm I have seen far too many unsafe practices,and no I am not on a crusade to change the world or shame anyone,what I am doing though is tossing out a slap to the head of each of you for being so irresponsible. Luds knows that I would not care for the majority of you to reproduce,but did you know that inserting pencils or any object with a sharp end into your penis can tear or damage your urethra. How pleasurable do you think it would be to shoot your wad out,only to have it double you over in pain...boy I would want to have lots of sex if it felt that way...NOT.

The point being that in this one instance I am advising selfishness in you boys. Care about your health more than entertaining someone who could not give a rat's ass if you bleed out when the cam shuts down,and for you females engaging in this type of play,did you know that you can and will be legally liable for injury up to death,for you were a  willing witness and in part coerced them into unsafe play. It boils down to you being responsible for their safety when you play with them,and if not,then may the shit storm from it rain down upon you :)

In case you could not tell,I feel quite strongly about this subject,and if it offends you,then buh bye,cause I have no time for ignorance.

photo bomb day lol

Ugh,Goddess is not going to make anymore vlogs as they appear to upset too many people with their messages...sorry Believe me when I say that unless I am naming names,then I am most likely not referring to you personally.

Maybe I should just remove the videos altogether hmmm

Research is the key of the day. Listen and Learn

Very rare video blog via MzSydney today

selfies

Why you pay tribute

Paying to be play is so very blase in my book. You pay tribute because you adore me,and can think of nothing that would make you happier than pleasing me. You pay because you know that the patriarchal patrimony you inherited is inherently incorrect,so amends must be made. You pay to earn a ticket into the glorious realm of a Goddess. You pay for the mercy of my magnitude,which elsewise would leave you stranded in a cold unfeeling world bereft of the warmth of me. You pay for the honor of the gift of my smile. You pay for the beauty which belongs only to me. You pay because you cannot but help loving me. You pay because I am the sun,moon,and stars which light your way through a dismal life. You pay because you wait with baited breath to be recognized by me. You pay because you worship me every moment of the day. You pay because of the tiny spark of hope in your heart that one day I will deign to allow you a glimpse into my world. You pay and pray that someday you will earn the privilege of being mine.

These are the only reasons you pay tribute to me. Not once,and not ever do you pay with a selfish thought in your head. You do not pay to soil my presence with that abscess which festers between your legs. You do not pay to subject my sight to the vision of your inadequacies. You do not pay with squirming salacious hopes of viewing my bare form. You do not pay and await self-gratifying instructions.

Wrap your head around my words now,and beg for the opportunity to fulfill your intended purpose,being of use to me.

Not all will worship you

One of the most difficult aspects to accept in the online realm hell even in real life is that you are not going to appeal to everyone. Believe it or not,not everyone worships you. It may be due to simple changeable points,but unfortunately it may be something that you have absolutely no control over which influences people against you. The most important thing to always keep foremost in your mind is that you are a beautiful,worthwhile woman regardless if others deem it fact!

I have seen this scene played out over and over,like an old vinyl record skipping and repeating. A lady enters the findom scene with high expectations of being feted and worshipped,yet it never comes to pass,and she is left pondering why. She sits back watching others being flocked to,whilst her inbox remains empty. Now this scenario may lead her along a couple of trains of thinking,such as "I am not hot enough,smart enough,thin enough,young enough,or even the race most sought out",and this in turn damages her ego,or worse yet elicits anger and envy(self-destructive emotions). This is when we see the melt down initiate. Either the lady will quietly exit the scene undetected,or she will become quite aggressive and snide in her tactics to garner the attention she desires.Unfortunately neither behavior is going to produce the longed for results.

Online can truly be a bitch of a workout to your insecurities,which is why I would never advise this course to anyone that does not have an unshakeable sense of self confidence. You must approach this arena with the knowledge that you are worthy of worship,and fuck all of the petty high school popular girl BS games(down playing others with the thought of it lifting you higher). You are elevated above such webs. Keep your goal purely focused,and when you run into a stumbling block,persevere. Absolutely you are not going to be what every male is looking for,but I guarantee that there will be one who sees the Goddess within you. It just takes time,maybe not in a day,a week or even a month,but it will happen.

The upside to an empty inbox is that you have more time to develop the skills needed to devastate minds and bodies,so put that time to good use,and when all else fails think about the little train chugging up the hill :) My point being,do not give up on you.

Get on your knees and bow before my beauty

Acceptable or insultingly pathetic

One of the frequently posed queries to me from both sides of the equation is "how much do I offer in tribute-how much of a tribute do I ask for?" This question is made difficult to respond to sans knowledge of mitigating factors such as,the amount of disposable income pertaining to the one offering tribute. I mean if the male in question works at a fast food venue he most likely is not going to be able to put forth the financial remuneration that the CEO of a fortune 500 company would. Make sense? Oh and for all of you new to the scene,a boy that works at McDonalds is not the most viable servant if the financial aspects are paramount to you,seeing as the national average of minimum wage has been shown to place an individual well below the poverty line.

Another tid bit to take into consideration is if the male in question has children,as this can and will greatly affect the determined amount. You would not want to fall into the cesspool of scum which would deprive a child now would you? One would think that this is something that the male would not put at risk,but we all know that when the dick makes the decisions,that they forget all other incidental circumstances,therefore we have a responsibility to keep it in mind.

Onto the meat of the matter. What is not an acceptable amount to offer or receive? My response is subjective which means that of course it is not a set in stone rule for the community as an entirety,and with that being said $10 is no different than a slap in the face. Ladies we all know that you put forth an extraordinary amount of time and energy into developing your skills as a Domina,as well as marketing yourself in the hopes of connecting with a kindred spirit,and how could it not be insulting to see such a poor token in your account. What does that amount say in regards to how your time and attention are valued? Not much huh?

Now of course the destitute males are going to balk at my statements,and yes I comprehend why. One plea they may make is that heartfelt servitude should mean more than money(yup some do attempt to guilt you into accepting a meager pittance using the line that a real Domme does not care about money),and I am sure that it doesn't when you are speaking with a strictly lifestyle Domme(yet even they will expect gifts),but anytime you are approaching a Lady of findom,you have to accept that tribute is not trivial. Hell even in the vanilla courtship realm you will get no where with $10...wake up! You cannot even take a female out on a date for that amount,unless of course you find a naive girl whom does not mind the dollar menu and redbox (good luck),so I advise you to save up before you make your first contact. You certainly do not want to be referred to as the laughingstock broke bitch by all of the ladies,now do you? Oh and get the thought out of your head that offering to do something vile ie drinking your jizz juice,or sticking an object up your ass is replaceable in lieu of tribute. In case you did not know it,we see these acts each and everyday online already.

Basically I see $25 as the bottom of the line tribute amount,now mind you this is not what I would charge for sessions if I offered them,but it is a starting point that a respectable finsub should be able to easily afford,and if not,then they should be seriously questioning whether they actually belong in this fetish. There you go :)

Service Guru informercial for the day

Are you tired of being passed over,kicked to the curb,or not even noticed at all by the gloriously gorgeous ladies of findom? If so my boys I am here to help you out.

Now take a seat,cause the ride is a bit bumpy and fraught with the winds of denial.

1)Your approach is the beginning of it all. It can either fan a flame or find you banished to the vanishing isle. Being such a compassionate guru I am going to show you the do's and do nots.
Okie Dokie here we go.

Do be polite when contacting a Domme. Examples "Lovely day to you my Lady","Good morning(afternoon,evening) Madam,Miss etc... my name is (insert your name),and I would like to take this opportunity to relay my appreciation for you as a dominant Lady,and hope that you will accept a token(tribute) as a sign of my sincerity". " I wanted to take a moment to relay to you my appreciation for the obvious hard work crafting your profile,and the dedication towards your skills as a Domina,in the hopes that you would allow me the honor of coming to know you"

Do not initiate contact in this manner. "Hey babe you are so hotttt,you make my cock wave hello" or "Yo momma you r da shit,how bout u make my fantasies rl?" or even "hi here is a pic of my dic,what do you think?" Yup true story,I have had these exact sentiments shared with me,do you think these individuals are serving me??? Oh and for the love of all that is real,do NOT copy and paste messages,especially if you are forgetful and leave the last ladies name in the introduction!

Dear boys there is a reason why you are not getting anywhere close towards engaging in a D's relationship,much less a vanilla one. Try a little something something for yourself next time. Try talking to the female you approach just as you would one you met in the middle of the day on a sunny street. Now does this include blinding her with the sight of your one eyed willy(hope not,cause you most likely cannot afford bail money). Do you look her in the eye and start sprouting how you want tied down and strap on fucked like an animal in heat (ouch does your head hurt from hitting the pavement after she racked you?) Do you offer her cash to see her tits and bits(sheesh have your balls ever came back out after the last kick)

The point boys is that you have to start learning from your mistakes. Man up,and realize that life does not revolve around you or your penis,no matter how much you love it doesn't mean that others give a fark that it exists,see?? You in fact do possess the power to start over,and do it the right way.

If you want to impress a Lady,then you are going to have to think with the head on your shoulders,not the naughty one that gets you racked ok? An introduction is what sets the tone for your relationship,so remember keep it clean,polite,and most of all respectful.

That is all for today,back to your regular perving pleasures :)

A name is a name is a name,or is it?

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet",but that does not mean that everyone would still stop to smell it! Imagine that rather than being called a rose,it were named shitstankoria. Would you still want a dozen of them delivered to you on Valentine's day lol?

What is in a name? Well in the online realm,your chosen username can say a great deal about you,in fact sometimes it makes an unforgettable or even undesirable first impression.

If you are a male submissive serious about serving a high caliber Domina long term,would you first contact a female whom calls herself *sluttyfucktart(ficticional name) or one named Domina4LTR(fictional name)? See the difference in appeal?*If you use this name,or know anyone that does,no offense intended :)

The same applies to a male's username. One of the very first things we ladies learn regarding names in the online financial forums is that certain monikers are generally(note I did not say entirely)reserved for true losers,and wank whappers. Names such as piggyloser,broke4u,atmman etc.... This is definitely one of those choices where straying from the pack of sheeple will gain you notice. I have many times waxed on and on about how important that very first impression is,as many times it may be the only one remembered about you,so why not put your best foot,or in this case username forward?

There is beauty in the suffering

"The Beauty We Glean From The Suffering We Have Endured Can NEVER Be Denied..  "

 Suffering,what truly is it in relation to serving as a submissive in a D's relationship? Is it contained to a single method? Must you be a masochist to suffer?

Being able to appreciate the beauty in suffering requires that you view the big picture rather than merely one singular aspect.

Is the male on his knees before his Goddess with stripes covering his back able to see the picture he presents? Does he recognize that the marks upon his flesh are ones of honor,can he grasp that the tears which rain down from his eyes do not mar the loveliness of the image,but rather enhance it?

The male whom locks up the appendage of his manhood,does he not struggle and suffer with his very nature,which demands that he be free to procreate? Is not his sacrifice a thing of beauty?

The slave whom willingly gives the entire of his known existence up for the privilege of becoming an extension of his owner,is he not the picture of beauty?

Regardless of whether one suffers in the flesh,spirit,or heart,there is beauty within the sacrifice.

"The most beautiful people we have known are those that have known defeat,known suffering,known struggle,known loss,and have found their way out of those depths."

There is no light without the dark

How can one appreciate the lighter aspects of the findom field,without acknowledging that a darker side exists? Sort of like the seedy side streets of a phenomenally beautiful city. Sometimes one must experience the not so lovely aspects in order to gain appreciation as well as to see the value of that which is worth pursuing.

Some will gloss over the disturbing facts that not all is happiness and sunshine in the findom fief,but why? I can only assume that we are advised to hush about that which does not evoke all of those delicious delights of the flesh,because the unsavory taste of such scares away the bees correct? Oh alas what a pity,it nearly breaks my cold heart,that my life is based upon a reality not erected upon catering to erections,one which deflates males jerking responses. Should I apologize,I think not.

By sealing our lips,are we not promoting the one dimensional persona that permeates and perpetuates that dominant women are not real people. Like an act affected,a role where the actress must look,and act in a predetermined manner. I ask you this,how the hell is it dominant being thrust into denying your humanity?

I dare one single individual to step up and deny that they have ever endured a moment of unhappiness,misery,physical pain,or plain emotional angst in their entire lifetime. It will never happen. Why? Because it would be a lie of monumental proportions...and after all who wants to be labelled a liar?

There are a multitude of reasons for developing a time of transitory displeasure within this often judged fetish.From without the glass peeking in,it all appears so shiny and awe inspiring,but upon closer inspection there is no denial that it is a roughly competitive arena to a great degree. How can something so very precious such as serving a dominant become so vile? Lets take an in depth look shall we.

I have seen profiles,and posts by the thousands,and interacted with roughly half that number,which if I were to take what I see and hear to heart,then I would have faded into the memories of past long ago. Obviously the fact that I am in my 30's makes me an undesirable potential Domme to the majority which seek out my young to life sisters,and that actually suits me fine,for why would I ever desire to be near those whom are so very close minded that they cannot see beyond their own eyes in regards to the beauty of experience and wisdom? It is only the juvenile mind which is hindered by the bedazzlement of the surface,and it is not a youth that I would take beneath my heel.

Services,services,services. Why is there a market for such? It comes back to the male mentality of entitlement,selfishness and insecurity. In a free market is there not movement to encroach into in demand areas? We call it customer-client exchanges. Do companies produce goods for the resale value,or for their own pleasure,well of course to make money dummy. Does this equate into you serving the company when you buy their product,NO. You may increase their bottom line profit,but you are not doing them a favor. You purchase the product for your pleasure only. Now how does this figure into findom? How many males buy clips or cam sessions? In fact how many of these same males feel entitled to calling the shots since they are paying for time and attention as a customer? I would love to see some actual figures,but I doubt that they would shock me,as I see this exact type of behavior daily. Can you see how this would be less than pleasing to a Domme whom offers no services,yet has need to explain it on a continuous basis that the words service and services are not interchangeable? I offer no services,but I expect service. Makes sense to a single celled amoeba,so why is it that it is not comprehendable to the majority?

Liar liar cheap pants on fire. What delight does one take in the repetitive rounds of worn out lose pocketed lies which befall from the lips of the hapless and hopeless? You cannot elevate your status with worth not your own,so for the love of all that you hold holy,cease and desist. Accept that poor is not a pretty adjective in a realm where coin has more meaning than willing flesh. There is a place for you,but it will not be named findom. Life is finite,so waste not yours where appreciation will not be yours.

For the faithless and oath breakers,they sincerely do reserve a seat for you in hades. Hurry before your spot is taken :) In olden days,your word was your bond,and truly some things never go out of style. Be honest,be real,and maybe one day redemption shall be yours,but along that road keep yourself true to that which falls from your tongue. Make not a commitment which you cannot or will not keep. It is your reputation that suffers with broken promises.

See you now why a bad day can be had for a lady of findom? The ugly truth is that just as in the vanilla setting,there are liars,losers,unfaithful,insulting and vulgarly demanding trolls,and yes being subjected to this behavior day in and day out is bound to produce a day of less than suzy sunshine happiness. The only redeeming glimmer is the hope that one day along will come those whom actually get what it means to be submissive. Ask yourself this,will your behavior bring to the equation light and smiles,or the darkest of frowns?

No words of wisdom today,just pics of me playing with my cam...ENJOY!

You belong beneath my salacious soles

Incorrect terminology for a sissy

So many of you are grossly misinformed as to the correct terminology when it comes to sissy body parts in my estimation. Now I realize that it is all the rage to call your asshole a boy/man pussy which is the height of insult. How in the world would you equate a foul smelling filth producing black hole with that of a divinely sweet scented and tasting Goddess orifice? There simply is no logical comparison,so stop it this instant. A pussy is the pleasure center of SUPERIOR FEMALE beings,not the fecal facilitating shute of inferior males period. Nor is that appendage between your legs a clit,or clitty. It is a dick,no matter how ill formed or undersized it is. It is a physical manifestation of your designation as a subservient object. Do not ever think to group it in with that which is a woman's blessing.

Regardless of the feminine artifices you apply or adorn your pathetic body with,you are NOT a woman born,therefore are forbidden from naming yourself or your physical failings as one,hence the term sissy,which is merely a male being attempting to elevate himself to the status of woman.

Many of you list being sissified as a form of humiliation,which is a gross misrepresentation of the truth. There is no greater honor than to be a woman,and you malign females around the globe with your claims. Your weak attempts at becoming feminized are laughable at best,with only the blind being fooled by the farce,so drop your dick out of your hand,and pull your head out of your ass. Be on your knees grateful that you are of any use at all to your superiors rather than perpetrating ploys to mock their sex,as this is merely another subtle form of misogyny,and I see it for the truth it is.

Being a sissy is not contained to playing at dress up,which is how entirely too many of you view it. It is an admittance that you are not possessing of the qualities that one associates with dominance. You are caught in the in between...definitely NOT a female,but lacking in that which defines alpha male,so where does that leave you. Serving your superiors of course.

From this day forward you are to call your asshole by it's proper name(fuckhole),your mouth as (cumguzzler),and your dick as (worthless male member). No discrepancy,no distortion of the truth,complete transparency.

Lest you forget,I will remind you once more. You are not a female,you are only a male playing at being one,so no more using feminine terminology for male anatomy.

The gentlemanly concept

A gentleman in today's society is a rare breed especially in the online realm of financial domination. This is the disappointing reality for all that seek such a man, and yes in order for me to deem you worthy of the title "man" requires more than the adhesion of specific anatomy.

What is a Gentleman, specifically what are the attributes of such a being? A gentleman is mannered,  educated, successful within in all areas of his life, and able to engage in a conversation with a lady that has no sexually entitled over or undertones (I really love your tits, ass, pussy, and masturbate when I look at your pics). Whether online or in real time he embraces the boundaries of what is termed decent behavior towards females, meaning he does not initiate contact with a Lady selfishly (what do I get from you for my money), nor salaciously (unsolicited penis photos, or vivid descriptions of his wank fantasy). He accords respectful behavior towards all women, not merely just in the direction of those that elicit blood flow to his nether regions (You are an ugly bitch in my eyes so I am going to ignore your basic rights as a human being by being disrespectful, and rude). He sees within himself the ability to be an asset within the lives of those whom he surrounds himself with. He lacks the driven motivation of personal gain (online to get a nut off) within the relationships he forges, as he recognizes that a giving nature (not one where his is demanding that a female give, give, and give to him ie attention, energy, and wank fodder) is his incentive towards fulfillment. He seeks no praise for actions which should be accorded to a Lady as her due. He need not be bullied, (gimme your money loser) coaxed, (sending nude or implied nudity photos) cajoled or seduced into acting accordingly. Going out of his way, and above bounds to make a Lady smile (sacrificing) is inherent within his nature, sans expectations of a fair exchange for his exertions (tit for tat). He is a being for whom his word is his bond, therefore a lie shall never pass his lips ( I want to serve only you...when in reality what he means is that he shall serve only so long as she keeps his mushroom mounded). He displays through his actions and words respect for himself and others. He is not a "loser" for he knows that he is of worth through his service. Last but certainly not least, a Gentleman displays appreciation of a Lady's time and attention with a monetary contribution (financial tribute).

If you are what I have described above, then welcome to the minority. You are the needle within the haystack which I have awaited hearing from, but if your actions, manners, and mindset are not as I detailed above or those which are ensconced within parenthesis, then feel not alone, for you are merely one within a sea of miscreants whom hold no appeal for me.