Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Not all will worship you

One of the most difficult aspects to accept in the online realm hell even in real life is that you are not going to appeal to everyone. Believe it or not,not everyone worships you. It may be due to simple changeable points,but unfortunately it may be something that you have absolutely no control over which influences people against you. The most important thing to always keep foremost in your mind is that you are a beautiful,worthwhile woman regardless if others deem it fact!

I have seen this scene played out over and over,like an old vinyl record skipping and repeating. A lady enters the findom scene with high expectations of being feted and worshipped,yet it never comes to pass,and she is left pondering why. She sits back watching others being flocked to,whilst her inbox remains empty. Now this scenario may lead her along a couple of trains of thinking,such as "I am not hot enough,smart enough,thin enough,young enough,or even the race most sought out",and this in turn damages her ego,or worse yet elicits anger and envy(self-destructive emotions). This is when we see the melt down initiate. Either the lady will quietly exit the scene undetected,or she will become quite aggressive and snide in her tactics to garner the attention she desires.Unfortunately neither behavior is going to produce the longed for results.

Online can truly be a bitch of a workout to your insecurities,which is why I would never advise this course to anyone that does not have an unshakeable sense of self confidence. You must approach this arena with the knowledge that you are worthy of worship,and fuck all of the petty high school popular girl BS games(down playing others with the thought of it lifting you higher). You are elevated above such webs. Keep your goal purely focused,and when you run into a stumbling block,persevere. Absolutely you are not going to be what every male is looking for,but I guarantee that there will be one who sees the Goddess within you. It just takes time,maybe not in a day,a week or even a month,but it will happen.

The upside to an empty inbox is that you have more time to develop the skills needed to devastate minds and bodies,so put that time to good use,and when all else fails think about the little train chugging up the hill :) My point being,do not give up on you.
Get on your knees and bow before my beauty


Monday, September 29, 2014

Acceptable or insultingly pathetic



One of the frequently posed queries to me from both sides of the equation is "how much do I offer in tribute-how much of a tribute do I ask for?" This question is made difficult to respond to sans knowledge of mitigating factors such as,the amount of disposable income pertaining to the one offering tribute. I mean if the male in question works at a fast food venue he most likely is not going to be able to put forth the financial remuneration that the CEO of a fortune 500 company would. Make sense? Oh and for all of you new to the scene,a boy that works at McDonalds is not the most viable servant if the financial aspects are paramount to you,seeing as the national average of minimum wage has been shown to place an individual well below the poverty line.

Another tid bit to take into consideration is if the male in question has children,as this can and will greatly affect the determined amount. You would not want to fall into the cesspool of scum which would deprive a child now would you? One would think that this is something that the male would not put at risk,but we all know that when the dick makes the decisions,that they forget all other incidental circumstances,therefore we have a responsibility to keep it in mind.

Onto the meat of the matter. What is not an acceptable amount to offer or receive? My response is subjective which means that of course it is not a set in stone rule for the community as an entirety,and with that being said $10 is no different than a slap in the face. Ladies we all know that you put forth an extraordinary amount of time and energy into developing your skills as a Domina,as well as marketing yourself in the hopes of connecting with a kindred spirit,and how could it not be insulting to see such a poor token in your account. What does that amount say in regards to how your time and attention are valued? Not much huh?

Now of course the destitute males are going to balk at my statements,and yes I comprehend why. One plea they may make is that heartfelt servitude should mean more than money(yup some do attempt to guilt you into accepting a meager pittance using the line that a real Domme does not care about money),and I am sure that it doesn't when you are speaking with a strictly lifestyle Domme(yet even they will expect gifts),but anytime you are approaching a Lady of findom,you have to accept that tribute is not trivial. Hell even in the vanilla courtship realm you will get no where with $10...wake up! You cannot even take a female out on a date for that amount,unless of course you find a naive girl whom does not mind the dollar menu and redbox (good luck),so I advise you to save up before you make your first contact. You certainly do not want to be referred to as the laughingstock broke bitch by all of the ladies,now do you? Oh and get the thought out of your head that offering to do something vile ie drinking your jizz juice,or sticking an object up your ass is replaceable in lieu of tribute. In case you did not know it,we see these acts each and everyday online already.

Basically I see $25 as the bottom of the line tribute amount,now mind you this is not what I would charge for sessions if I offered them,but it is a starting point that a respectable finsub should be able to easily afford,and if not,then they should be seriously questioning whether they actually belong in this fetish. There you go :)

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Service Guru informercial for the day

Are you tired of being passed over,kicked to the curb,or not even noticed at all by the gloriously gorgeous ladies of findom? If so my boys I am here to help you out.

Now take a seat,cause the ride is a bit bumpy and fraught with the winds of denial.


1)Your approach is the beginning of it all. It can either fan a flame or find you banished to the vanishing isle. Being such a compassionate guru I am going to show you the do's and do nots.
Okie Dokie here we go.

Do be polite when contacting a Domme. Examples "Lovely day to you my Lady","Good morning(afternoon,evening) Madam,Miss etc... my name is (insert your name),and I would like to take this opportunity to relay my appreciation for you as a dominant Lady,and hope that you will accept a token(tribute) as a sign of my sincerity". " I wanted to take a moment to relay to you my appreciation for the obvious hard work crafting your profile,and the dedication towards your skills as a Domina,in the hopes that you would allow me the honor of coming to know you"

Do not initiate contact in this manner. "Hey babe you are so hotttt,you make my cock wave hello" or "Yo momma you r da shit,how bout u make my fantasies rl?" or even "hi here is a pic of my dic,what do you think?" Yup true story,I have had these exact sentiments shared with me,do you think these individuals are serving me??? Oh and for the love of all that is real,do NOT copy and paste messages,especially if you are forgetful and leave the last ladies name in the introduction!

Dear boys there is a reason why you are not getting anywhere close towards engaging in a D's relationship,much less a vanilla one. Try a little something something for yourself next time. Try talking to the female you approach just as you would one you met in the middle of the day on a sunny street. Now does this include blinding her with the sight of your one eyed willy(hope not,cause you most likely cannot afford bail money). Do you look her in the eye and start sprouting how you want tied down and strap on fucked like an animal in heat (ouch does your head hurt from hitting the pavement after she racked you?) Do you offer her cash to see her tits and bits(sheesh have your balls ever came back out after the last kick)


The point boys is that you have to start learning from your mistakes. Man up,and realize that life does not revolve around you or your penis,no matter how much you love it doesn't mean that others give a fark that it exists,see?? You in fact do possess the power to start over,and do it the right way.
If you want to impress a Lady,then you are going to have to think with the head on your shoulders,not the naughty one that gets you racked ok? An introduction is what sets the tone for your relationship,so remember keep it clean,polite,and most of all respectful.

That is all for today,back to your regular perving pleasures :)



Sunday, September 21, 2014

A name is a name is a name,or is it?



"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet",but that does not mean that everyone would still stop to smell it! Imagine that rather than being called a rose,it were named shitstankoria. Would you still want a dozen of them delivered to you on Valentine's day lol?

What is in a name? Well in the online realm,your chosen username can say a great deal about you,in fact sometimes it makes an unforgettable or even undesirable first impression.

If you are a male submissive serious about serving a high caliber Domina long term,would you first contact a female whom calls herself *sluttyfucktart(ficticional name) or one named Domina4LTR(fictional name)? See the difference in appeal?*If you use this name,or know anyone that does,no offense intended :)

The same applies to a male's username. One of the very first things we ladies learn regarding names in the online financial forums is that certain monikers are generally(note I did not say entirely)reserved for true losers,and wank whappers. Names such as piggyloser,broke4u,atmman etc.... This is definitely one of those choices where straying from the pack of sheeple will gain you notice. I have many times waxed on and on about how important that very first impression is,as many times it may be the only one remembered about you,so why not put your best foot,or in this case username forward?

Saturday, September 20, 2014

There is beauty in the suffering



"The Beauty We Glean From The Suffering We Have Endured Can NEVER Be Denied..  "

 Suffering,what truly is it in relation to serving as a submissive in a D's relationship? Is it contained to a single method? Must you be a masochist to suffer?

Being able to appreciate the beauty in suffering requires that you view the big picture rather than merely one singular aspect.

Is the male on his knees before his Goddess with stripes covering his back able to see the picture he presents? Does he recognize that the marks upon his flesh are ones of honor,can he grasp that the tears which rain down from his eyes do not mar the loveliness of the image,but rather enhance it?

The male whom locks up the appendage of his manhood,does he not struggle and suffer with his very nature,which demands that he be free to procreate? Is not his sacrifice a thing of beauty?

The slave whom willingly gives the entire of his known existence up for the privilege of becoming an extension of his owner,is he not the picture of beauty?

Regardless of whether one suffers in the flesh,spirit,or heart,there is beauty within the sacrifice.

"The most beautiful people we have known are those that have known defeat,known suffering,known struggle,known loss,and have found their way out of those depths."

Thursday, September 18, 2014

There is no light without the dark




How can one appreciate the lighter aspects of the findom field,without acknowledging that a darker side exists? Sort of like the seedy side streets of a phenomenally beautiful city. Sometimes one must experience the not so lovely aspects in order to gain appreciation as well as to see the value of that which is worth pursuing.

Some will gloss over the disturbing facts that not all is happiness and sunshine in the findom fief,but why? I can only assume that we are advised to hush about that which does not evoke all of those delicious delights of the flesh,because the unsavory taste of such scares away the bees correct? Oh alas what a pity,it nearly breaks my cold heart,that my life is based upon a reality not erected upon catering to erections,one which deflates males jerking responses. Should I apologize,I think not.

By sealing our lips,are we not promoting the one dimensional persona that permeates and perpetuates that dominant women are not real people. Like an act affected,a role where the actress must look,and act in a predetermined manner. I ask you this,how the hell is it dominant being thrust into denying your humanity?

I dare one single individual to step up and deny that they have ever endured a moment of unhappiness,misery,physical pain,or plain emotional angst in their entire lifetime. It will never happen. Why? Because it would be a lie of monumental proportions...and after all who wants to be labelled a liar?

There are a multitude of reasons for developing a time of transitory displeasure within this often judged fetish.From without the glass peeking in,it all appears so shiny and awe inspiring,but upon closer inspection there is no denial that it is a roughly competitive arena to a great degree. How can something so very precious such as serving a dominant become so vile? Lets take an in depth look shall we.

I have seen profiles,and posts by the thousands,and interacted with roughly half that number,which if I were to take what I see and hear to heart,then I would have faded into the memories of past long ago. Obviously the fact that I am in my 30's makes me an undesirable potential Domme to the majority which seek out my young to life sisters,and that actually suits me fine,for why would I ever desire to be near those whom are so very close minded that they cannot see beyond their own eyes in regards to the beauty of experience and wisdom? It is only the juvenile mind which is hindered by the bedazzlement of the surface,and it is not a youth that I would take beneath my heel.

Services,services,services. Why is there a market for such? It comes back to the male mentality of entitlement,selfishness and insecurity. In a free market is there not movement to encroach into in demand areas? We call it customer-client exchanges. Do companies produce goods for the resale value,or for their own pleasure,well of course to make money dummy. Does this equate into you serving the company when you buy their product,NO. You may increase their bottom line profit,but you are not doing them a favor. You purchase the product for your pleasure only. Now how does this figure into findom? How many males buy clips or cam sessions? In fact how many of these same males feel entitled to calling the shots since they are paying for time and attention as a customer? I would love to see some actual figures,but I doubt that they would shock me,as I see this exact type of behavior daily. Can you see how this would be less than pleasing to a Domme whom offers no services,yet has need to explain it on a continuous basis that the words service and services are not interchangeable? I offer no services,but I expect service. Makes sense to a single celled amoeba,so why is it that it is not comprehendable to the majority?

Liar liar cheap pants on fire. What delight does one take in the repetitive rounds of worn out lose pocketed lies which befall from the lips of the hapless and hopeless? You cannot elevate your status with worth not your own,so for the love of all that you hold holy,cease and desist. Accept that poor is not a pretty adjective in a realm where coin has more meaning than willing flesh. There is a place for you,but it will not be named findom. Life is finite,so waste not yours where appreciation will not be yours.

For the faithless and oath breakers,they sincerely do reserve a seat for you in hades. Hurry before your spot is taken :) In olden days,your word was your bond,and truly some things never go out of style. Be honest,be real,and maybe one day redemption shall be yours,but along that road keep yourself true to that which falls from your tongue. Make not a commitment which you cannot or will not keep. It is your reputation that suffers with broken promises.

See you now why a bad day can be had for a lady of findom? The ugly truth is that just as in the vanilla setting,there are liars,losers,unfaithful,insulting and vulgarly demanding trolls,and yes being subjected to this behavior day in and day out is bound to produce a day of less than suzy sunshine happiness. The only redeeming glimmer is the hope that one day along will come those whom actually get what it means to be submissive. Ask yourself this,will your behavior bring to the equation light and smiles,or the darkest of frowns?

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

No words of wisdom today,just pics of me playing with my cam...ENJOY!


You belong beneath my salacious soles

Monday, September 15, 2014

Incorrect terminology for a sissy



So many of you are grossly misinformed as to the correct terminology when it comes to sissy body parts in my estimation. Now I realize that it is all the rage to call your asshole a boy/man pussy which is the height of insult. How in the world would you equate a foul smelling filth producing black hole with that of a divinely sweet scented and tasting Goddess orifice? There simply is no logical comparison,so stop it this instant. A pussy is the pleasure center of SUPERIOR FEMALE beings,not the fecal facilitating shute of inferior males period. Nor is that appendage between your legs a clit,or clitty. It is a dick,no matter how ill formed or undersized it is. It is a physical manifestation of your designation as a subservient object. Do not ever think to group it in with that which is a woman's blessing.

Regardless of the feminine artifices you apply or adorn your pathetic body with,you are NOT a woman born,therefore are forbidden from naming yourself or your physical failings as one,hence the term sissy,which is merely a male being attempting to elevate himself to the status of woman.

Many of you list being sissified as a form of humiliation,which is a gross misrepresentation of the truth. There is no greater honor than to be a woman,and you malign females around the globe with your claims. Your weak attempts at becoming feminized are laughable at best,with only the blind being fooled by the farce,so drop your dick out of your hand,and pull your head out of your ass. Be on your knees grateful that you are of any use at all to your superiors rather than perpetrating ploys to mock their sex,as this is merely another subtle form of misogyny,and I see it for the truth it is.

Being a sissy is not contained to playing at dress up,which is how entirely too many of you view it. It is an admittance that you are not possessing of the qualities that one associates with dominance. You are caught in the in between...definitely NOT a female,but lacking in that which defines alpha male,so where does that leave you. Serving your superiors of course.

From this day forward you are to call your asshole by it's proper name(fuckhole),your mouth as (cumguzzler),and your dick as (worthless male member). No discrepancy,no distortion of the truth,complete transparency.

Lest you forget,I will remind you once more. You are not a female,you are only a male playing at being one,so no more using feminine terminology for male anatomy.

Saturday, September 13, 2014

The gentlemanly concept





A gentleman in today's society is a rare breed especially in the online realm of financial domination. This is the disappointing reality for all that seek such a man, and yes in order for me to deem you worthy of the title "man" requires more than the adhesion of specific anatomy.

What is a Gentleman, specifically what are the attributes of such a being? A gentleman is mannered,  educated, successful within in all areas of his life, and able to engage in a conversation with a lady that has no sexually entitled over or undertones (I really love your tits, ass, pussy, and masturbate when I look at your pics). Whether online or in real time he embraces the boundaries of what is termed decent behavior towards females, meaning he does not initiate contact with a Lady selfishly (what do I get from you for my money), nor salaciously (unsolicited penis photos, or vivid descriptions of his wank fantasy). He accords respectful behavior towards all women, not merely just in the direction of those that elicit blood flow to his nether regions (You are an ugly bitch in my eyes so I am going to ignore your basic rights as a human being by being disrespectful, and rude). He sees within himself the ability to be an asset within the lives of those whom he surrounds himself with. He lacks the driven motivation of personal gain (online to get a nut off) within the relationships he forges, as he recognizes that a giving nature (not one where his is demanding that a female give, give, and give to him ie attention, energy, and wank fodder) is his incentive towards fulfillment. He seeks no praise for actions which should be accorded to a Lady as her due. He need not be bullied, (gimme your money loser) coaxed, (sending nude or implied nudity photos) cajoled or seduced into acting accordingly. Going out of his way, and above bounds to make a Lady smile (sacrificing) is inherent within his nature, sans expectations of a fair exchange for his exertions (tit for tat). He is a being for whom his word is his bond, therefore a lie shall never pass his lips ( I want to serve only you...when in reality what he means is that he shall serve only so long as she keeps his mushroom mounded). He displays through his actions and words respect for himself and others. He is not a "loser" for he knows that he is of worth through his service. Last but certainly not least, a Gentleman displays appreciation of a Lady's time and attention with a monetary contribution (financial tribute).

If you are what I have described above, then welcome to the minority. You are the needle within the haystack which I have awaited hearing from, but if your actions, manners, and mindset are not as I detailed above or those which are ensconced within parenthesis, then feel not alone, for you are merely one within a sea of miscreants whom hold no appeal for me.


Thursday, September 11, 2014

Nothing worth having is free




I do not offer free slave training,that simply is not for me. This does not detract from the fact that I highly enjoy bringing a male to heel,but it comes at the exponential cost of my time and energy doing so. This is exactly why I bear zero tolerance for those seeking the easy way out(a free ride). Nothing in this life is free,and I do mean nothing,and nothing worth having would be free.

There is of course the argument that love is free,but is it really. Have you ever tried dating without spending a single cent, spent hours,days or weeks wooing a prospective partner,or even your personal energy devoted towards coming to know someone...I think not. Some relationships may be free in the sense that you are not paying for it financially,but none the less it does require time and energy,and those are priceless commodities,so tell me why is it that so many of you possess such a vehement distaste towards investing your finances along with your time and energy towards the development of a D's relationship?

Do you hold to the stance of high moral grounds such as "paying to serve is no different than engaging a prostitute" or the more pseudological theory that is if one loves an activity that they would participate simply for the love of it? Perhaps in your erroneously skewed view you are equating serving with the popular porn versions of femdom you see on the internet. If so,then allow me to educate you upon the fact that what you see is not real. No not as in what you see is one of your more detailed fantasies,but in essence yes it is a fantasy. Ask with your big head "Do I really believe that females run around all of the time in the bedroom breasts on display,corset applied,stilettos strapped up to match their strap on,just salivating at the though of having a male specimen there to play with his dick,and fuck him in the ass"? Seriously does that scenario even sound realistic? If your response is yes,then you need to double up on your medication today. The scene I described is merely a script written for entertainment value...to sell to a customer base. Sex sells especially to males which is something advertisers have known for eons,so why would you not grasp that the producers of femdom porn are playing to the weakness of males,and making massive bank from it. My point being that service is not sexually based,meaning that your expectations should not involve intercourse at all,and most likely you will never even view your owner in  flagrante,nor in the all natural state of undress either,which is what you pay a prostitute for. You pay a lady of the night for the fulfillment of sexual services. You tribute a Domina in the hopes that you please her in a non-sexual manner. No sex,no payment,just a contribution towards her happiness,and no sex=no prostitution.

In regards to the loving what you do,so why not do it for free angle. Let's be frank here. I absolutely love my outside job,but would I labor at it for free,no. Why,well because I value myself and my time,ergo why would I give myself away in such a manner? I see the role described as that of a slave. It is the position of a slave to toil for me and other superior women non gratis,not for us to do so for the pleasure of a lowly male. I am not the provider of free based male gratification,as that would designate myself to that of an inferior position,which would not suit me well. I am an alpha female. I lead,not follow. I command,not obey. I reign,not supplicate to actions which serve the libido of males.

It all boils down to you being the beta within the hierarchy structure,and it is your place to serve your superiors in a worshipful,and enriching manner,however that may be that they require. The decision is not yours to make as to how you please them,only whether you choose to serve,so if your pubescent intellect does not allow for you to comprehend the dynamics of enslaving yourself into the service of one whom expects to rule all aspects of your life(financial included),then run along and twiddle yourself in privacy whilst your submissive souled counterparts embrace the reality of actual service.


Monday, September 8, 2014

Males are meant to labor

Laboring for the happiness,peace of mind,and comfort of the superior sex is an honor which should be your driving motivation. You were created for the divine purpose of slavery to women. My vision is for males to eschew all physical pleasures in order to obtain pure and dedicated focus upon their destined path,which is the submission of their entire being. Dehumanized,and objectified for a higher calling. Enslaving yourself to a woman is not meant to be humiliating or an exercise in the demeaning of males,in fact it is a cage of freedom. No longer must you adhere to societal expectations of male behavior in regards to how you view and interact with women. Your very actions will provide you with the opportunity to redefine what it is to be a male being. The key to achieving this goal is that a male must willingly relinquish his former behaviors in life. Accept that he no longer has need of an ego. That his days of self indulgence and entitlement are at an end,and only then may he progress.

Too many of you have securely cocooned yourselves within the oppressive patriarchal standards of behavior,which are not conducive to the development of your submissive potential as a male. Our sons as a collective unit are fed a steady diet of feminine objectification,and the cultivation of a mindset whereupon women are of value in only 2 aspects,as either a breeder or as a bedmate. Neither role is complimentary.Women are much more than they have ever been accredited for. This is a lesson and philosophy which must be taken to heart,and allowed to flourish within the male population.

Once you have completed the process of defragmenting your mental hard drive,you are then prepared to be of use in the life of a superior female. Used for the replacement of trivial toils perhaps even as a whipping boy,a footstool,a pet. Regardless of how you are to be of use,you should be grateful and proud to serve a purpose in your owner's life. Serving her selflessly. This concept appears to be the most difficult for males to embrace. The principle of serving is not now,nor has it ever been about the one whom serves. You feel that you are entitled to have your "needs" met. Why? Did you miss the part about becoming dehumanized? No longer do you need anything other than to please. Your life no longer revolving around you,and your selfish wants. This comprehension is essential in regards to the successful search for an owner,so I advise each of you males to lay your past along with the prescribed views of what male property is to rest,and take up the gauntlet of your destiny.


Personal insights into my dominant journey

There are no facades when it comes to how I present myself whether it be online or real time. As I am ever evolving along the path of what I consider actual dominance,I have definitely learned exactly what I am not. Keeping in mind that I pass no judgement upon the choices fellow women elect within their own lives,in fact I am an advocate of empowering all women regardless of whether they traverse a path that intersects with my own. With that being said allow me to share what personal insights my journey to date has provided.

1)I am not an entertainer. My actions are not enacted in order to put on a display for anyone. This is the main reason why you will never see me "jumping on cam". To see me via cam is similar to being in my presence,and that is not an honor I dole out lightly. In an age of self indulgent entitlement,there is a loss of earning your way,working for something that you desire,but in my eyes you are entitled to nothing that you are not due.

2)I am not an actress. Service is very real to me. Dominating males is not a game which I play that ceases when you tire of the role,or your life intrudes. It is a way of life suited only to those sincerely seeking it. At the end of the day,I remain the same as I began it. No on and off switch.

3)I am not a caterer of fetish. I uphold with being served in the manner of my choice,and those that seek anything else would not find happiness serving me. I truly believe that my servants purpose should be serving me,not me "playing" to their desires. This is why I actively encourage those whom approach me to read through my profile top to bottom in order to ascertain that I am honestly what they seek.

4)I am not a session provider. You cannot purchase my time with any coin of the realm. My attention is not bought nor bartered. As I touched upon in number 1,you will earn all that you receive from me. Tributes are gifts which are freely bestowed as an indication of appreciation,and in no way entitle you to a single breathe of mine,nor should they be offered if you have any expectation other than to display your admiration for me as a superior woman. Keep it foremost in your mind though,that I do not interact with any males whom possess no intention or ability of enriching my life through tithe as is the due of a Goddess.

5)I am a female supremacist. This is highly offensive to some,but alas it is my belief. I believe women to be superior to men,note I did not state that all males are inferior beings unworthy of living,merely that I hold with women being elevated above men. This is not a passing fancy of mine,for I have since my coming of age found the truth in such beliefs,and if you choose to approach me in the hopes of serving me,then know now that I will not view you as an equal to me,nor would I call you friend,for you shall ever be beneath me.

6)I am not a conformist to the visual expectations of femdom inspired pornography. Meaning I do not house a wardrobe of leather and latex,nor do I lounge around my home in a bikini with a strap on accessory. My sense of being a dominant woman is not scripted around a male fantasy. If yours is,then you would not find pleasure serving me.

7)I am not an escort,call girl,lady of the night,or even a prostitute. Sexual contact does not exist within my relationships to those that serve me.


As I relayed from the onset of this post,I am continually learning,therefore so shall my knowledge of that which I am,and that which I am not. May each and every one of you continue forth rather than stagnating and settling.

Friday, September 5, 2014

The sacrifice

The word sacrifice can mean many things to many people,what does it mean to you? Sacrifice is a word widely used in the financial domination realm,but what part does it play in your life of service? Do you give 1%,10% or even 50% of your earnings to your chosen lady? For some they see buying clips as an indulgence worthy of tossing out a couple of dollars,whilst others indulge their fetish sweet tooth purchasing sessions for a nominal amount. Are either of these considered a sacrifice...NO,but why is that? How can they be considering that the only thing you are playing with is your fun money. Money that you will not miss. Look at it like this,most and I did say most clips will cost you the equivalence of a visit to starbucks,and the average cam session will run you less than a trip to the movies(mind you I am not referring to a session with a high end Domina),so how does this equate to a sacrificial offering?

Proferring your tender should involve a sacrifice. Whether it be that you will have to deny yourself dinners out,or the latest and greatest tech toy. If you find at the end of the week that you retain finances to splurge,then you are not truly sacrificing for the one you serve. I am not advocating that you go without the basic means of survival,but how do you define what you actually need? Think about it seriously. Do you need a high tech phone,no. Do you need five star dining and premium food staples,no. Do you need designer clothing,no. Do you need cable,or even netflix,no. All that you truly need is food,water,air,clothing,and a place out of the elements. It goes without saying that as well you need a way to keep in contact with the one you serve,which could be a pay as you go phone,and a library card since almost all of them offer computers for member's use.

Now this is where I may differ from what some of you would term a "real" finDomme. I will not take on a male whom barely keeps his head above water before tributing. It leaves an acidic taste in my mouth to even consider it. Yes I realize that males have uses outside of financial,but for me the financial is a big part of my pleasure(money is an orgasmic symbol of power),and if I believe that a male will starve due to serving me,then the appeal has flattened like an open can of soda.

Something that I do not share often is that I do not keep many of the tribute funds I receive. Gasp. I find enjoyment spoiling my family,and friends,therefore the majority of what I am given is given away. Is that the action of a "real" finDomme? Not to some. Now you may ask why I even bother if I am going to give my tithes away...well for me the excitement I consider bliss is the fact that males sacrifice for me. They gladly give,and that is what makes me tingle,not the money. Make sense? The more they give,the higher I fly from the power exchange. It is not my greed being fed when I am gifted,but rather enhancement of my pleasure,and I am like a ravenous animal in regards to my pleasure being fed,never sated,and never full of receiving your cash.

Financially is not the only way I expect males to sacrifice for me though. I want your time,your energy,and sometimes your physical pain. I want your free time spent thinking of me,your energy spent pondering ways to please me more,and your pain to feed my sadistic streak. Sounds like a tall order doesn't it? This is why I refuse to take on any with a lackadaisical approach to service. I expect,nay demand more than a bit time player can offer. If servitude outside of a session is not your thing,then you will not measure up to my standards,but I do wish you well in your journey.

Now that I have provided my definition of sacrifice,it is up to you whether you choose to take that monumental first step.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Happy happy dance

Goddess was overjoyed to find this when she answered a knock at her door.
The best part being that I did not spend a single penny out of my pocket for it! I even was able to put it together all by myself yay me.
Isn't it lovely sitting there on the all wood desk that my local boy gifted me with??? Yes,yes it is :)


Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Subterfuge

Out of the hundreds of males with which whom I have spoken to can you guess which excuse of subterfuge has been invoked the most? I will give you a hint,it is not the "I will pay you on Friday" spiel. Drumroll......the notorious winner is "I have been burned in the past,and do not tribute til I know you" Shocked?

It is a tedious line intended to elicit perhaps pity,compassion,or even free chat. It would almost be humorous if I had not heard it so many times,and frankly I could not give a flying fuck if you have actually been taken in before,for I see it as your fault anyway. Your own laziness(lack of research) led you along the path,well that and your dicky see dicky do mentality.

How many times in your life have you been told to look not with your eyes? If you employ this practice religiously,then you will not be led astray by the sight of flesh such as this,
instead you will be able to delve beyond the physical.

Let me share a well known secret with you. Beauty is as beauty does,and allowing your dick to choose whom you serve is a monumental mistake if you are seeking a relationship of substance. Now if you are in it to hit and quit,then by all means be about your modus operandi,as my words pertain only to those that desire something more.

If you want to be seen as original,then leave off assaulting the good sense of a Domina with the tired excuse I shared with you. Do not allow yourself to be burnt in the first place,and yes you do possess the control to stop it.  Giving free reign and rule over to your most persistent appendage will lead you to the flames,therefore I advise you to apply the breaks. Breathe through a moment of reading a female's profile,check to see if she even has an online presence before you  take your credit card out. If you cannot be bothered,or do not have the time to check up on a lady before you approach her,then I see it as "the fucking you get,for the fucking you got". Do not be dazzled by the display until you know with absolute conviction that you are offering yourself,and your cash to the real deal. It is just that simple.

Now onto the douche canoes whom spew this out in an attempt to camouflage your broke bitch scent..caughtcha...yup you will be found out before you are onto the next line,cause you failed to realize that,Ladies are not stupid,but you are for even trying,so move along twat waffle :)

To those of sincerity I wish you well,and hope that you adhere to my words of wisdom.

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

labor day weekend

Over the holiday weekend I spent my time at a rocket launch which was quite enjoyable as I was free to just be my everyday gorgeously charming self with a little hottie escorting me :) Be jealous bitches because he knows how to heat the sheets lol. Not to mention being a beyond orgasmic lover,he is sweet as pie,and always comes bearing gifts. This time he surprised me with a bottle of vera wang perfume that I had mentioned finding to possess a sexy scent. It apparently works since he was all over me after I spritzed it in strategic locations...

I did find time though to spend every dime of this little beauty that I received Friday night along with a letter of apology....take note boys,this is how you apologize



and this is what I bought!!!
I had been looking at new pc's forever and a day til I found this one. Now if only they would hurry up and ship it to my perfect self.

Thank me now,and later since I did find a moment to snap a couple of photos for you of my beautiful self :) Keep dreaming boys,cause that is the only time you could even get near me.


You know the drill of how to get my attention. Mouth shut,ego vanished,and tribute sent before you beg to be of use.