Thursday, July 23, 2015

No attention vs bad attention for the bois

Early In infancy we learn how to receive attention when we want or need something,so it only makes sense that this type of successfully proven behavior would carry over in adulthood,albeit somewhat altered in methodology I would hope,yet for some sadly it truly has not evolved that very far. As we mature chronologically it becomes understood that there are two types of attention,good and bad. Now bad attention generally carries undesirable consequences,whether they result in disciplinary measures or not,the point gets across quickly that bad=bad,therefore a reasoning being will deter from said actions in future.

Onto the positive. Rewards are a good thing,and who does not enjoy being praised for their behavior and accomplishments? It is a feeling that you can wrap around you on a cold winter's night. It is a basking of pleasure for a job well done,so why would one not work hard,and elect to act in accordance to receive the good? Whilst I may not be a masochist nor a humiliation junkie,I cannot comprehend how one would desire to receive poor treatment and despicable repercussions outside of play.

You may be asking,how in the heck does this apply to domination? Well,people are people,and they bring all of their hangups,and baggage with them,even into the online realm,in fact oddly enough many lack internal censorship when they get behind a monitor,which leads to many a problem. When you look at all of the femdom sites,feeds,posts,you will notice immediately a total lack of inhibitions,and no I am not judging it to bad or good,it just is. Where else though on the internet do you see folks putting up penis pic after penis pic? No where. If you think me incorrect,then why is it these same individuals are not posting such material on social media sites where their Mother,their Aunt,their Sister can see it...could it be that they feel free to do so only on bdsm sites because they recognize it as unacceptable behavior,but desire the attention anyway,regardless of whether it is good or bad? Can they be so very desperate for free sph humiliation(which gets piled on)? I think it so. Is it a good thing(it is for them),because receiving attention whether good or bad reinforces the mindset that they can do it and have their desires fulfilled freely. This is one of the reasons why I always say "do not feed the trolls".

Aside from needing an endless supply of eye bleach,another ill advised behavior in abundance is the "anyone here wanna humiliate,cam,degrade,rape my bank account?" Logically this type of inquiry denotes laziness plain and simple,so why then do we see such announcements flocked to and fed? It makes no sense. If a male stoops to advertising rather than working for the attention,then he will never learn how he should behave,which is not a positive. It presents a negative correlation=the more he acts in an intolerable manner,the more attention he receives,and that is what truly should be exiled,and avoided.

There seems to be an endless list of actions which should not be rewarded(and my fingers are cramping lol),instead should land them in the time out corner,and this is a duty of dominants to teach right from wrong when it comes to behaviors,else the scene becomes a circus,with the animals crapping everywhere,so each person should decide whether they want to enable odious actions or take a stand by saying "you will not shit where I eat!!".

Apologies if my opinions offend,but they are mine alone,and I stand by them.

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