The L word. One of the most overused words in findom. We see the L sign,the L word everywhere,but what Ladies are looking for is NOT a loser.
A loser is a male without ambition or drive for funds or a stable future. He is content to live off Mommy and Daddy whilst playing video games in the basement as if he were still a teen.
A loser is a self-absorbed male.
A loser is a misogynist.
A loser is an abuser of women.
A loser is cheap,stingy,or broke.
A loser is a liar.
A loser is a user of women for his own gain ..ie wants free undeserved,unearned attention,time,or to use a woman's image or words for his sexual gratification without ever showing respect or honor towards the woman as a human being.
A loser is bloated with a sense of entitlement.
Now do any of those descriptions sound like the type of male submissive a Domina is seeking? I guarantee not,so when you see Dommes referring to the search for a loser,or you see her call one of her servants a loser,it is highly unlikely that she equates that to being a real loser,cause there is no use for a loser,other than as refuse,and let's face it,the landfills have no room for such idiots.
The term loser is often used in play as a humiliation factor,not due to the male in question being a honest to goodness loser,but rather he enjoys feeling like a loser in the presence of a woman. Truth be told,you are all inferior to women,so really the term loser is already clearly set in my mind anyway without saying it :)
The point being,being a loser(weak-willed)for a woman is good,being a real loser is bad! Learn the difference,and act accordingly gents.
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