Sunday, January 31, 2016

Come correct or get blocked

Hello little minions :)

Let us hope that today brings a smile to my face unlike yesterday,which was one that had my blocking digit cramping up :( You of course can be a part of my happiness,and by now you should know exactly how to please me shouldn't you?

I actually took a quick peek at my blocked list,and all I can say is WOW,it is big,and I do mean big and long lol  How is it that so many make their way there? Most did so by being rude,others by being narcissistic and selfish. Those from yesterday were prime examples of exactly what displeases me.

The first being a male whom I have had contact with off and on for a couple of years,and at one time even received tribute from,but that does not preclude one from being blocked if the behavior warrants it. I knew that this male has had issues in the past with fellow Ladies for his unruly opinionated orations,but it had not affected me personally,and I am still kinda scratching my head as to how the exchange deteriorated to the point of no return. I mean seriously who gets pissy and rude just because I stated that they would only experience me joining a certain phone sex company in their dreams?? It is not like I have never spoken of the fact that I am in no way into phone sex,or listening to males grunt and groan in my presence while they spew seed,so why would it anger one enough to get mouthy with me?? Oh well it truly is his loss,isn't it rick(we both know that you cannot stay away from me,don't we)

The other one who hit the highlight list,would be a supposed dominant male who suffered from entitlement issues. I am generally a very polite and mannered woman,but I do expect everyone to read my profile when contacting me for the first time. Just because you slap a dominant label on your person,does not preclude you from manners,and to come at me with inane compliments in a subversive attempt to objectify me without consent will definitely not capture my attention in a positive way. In fact it will only serve to land you on my shit list. To further compound the insult,he conveyed that he just wanted to get to know me,to which I pointed him towards my blog here,and he fool that he is did not care to do that. He felt that he was deserving of my time,no idea where he came across that delusion. My time is solely reserved for those that have earned it. Does that make me a bitch? If so,then I am wearing that crown proudly.

I do not ever attempt to waste the time of others,so by refusing to waste my own,I guess maybe that can be viewed as harsh by some,but time is our most precious finite gift,and I really do not want to spend mine with someone that fails to recognize the honor of it. You get one go at this lifetime,and I cannot conceive using expensive commodities with anyone who does not treasure my time,and act accordingly. Sooo if you are one of those that expects MY time to be spent with you answering questions that are already outlined here in my blogs,or easily known just by following my media forums day to day,then what does that say about you? Think about that before you come to me with expectations for my conversation. You will earn every moment I give you,and you best treat every one of those moments like a treasure :)

 ME>you


I am your inspiration. You aspire to greatness in #servitude because I deserve the best.
I am the creator of your #submission,because without ME,your #submissive soul lays dormant.
My #dominance is the beacon which guides your life,and my happiness your motivation for professional success.
Providing for my comfort,and sating my #materialistic desires are the only goals you were created to achieve.

Thursday, January 28, 2016

A big fat why

Why why why,and a big FAT why. Luds I detest that question. Too many times to count when I ask a male newer in service to me to do something,those fatal (patience executioner) words drip out of his mouth. Unlike what you grew up listening to as a response(cause I said so) you will hear,because it makes ME happy,and that should be your prime motivation in service to ME,MY happiness!

I do not offer permanent harm,nor ruination,sooo why I must I read that very word,WHY? Why on earth would you ever question MY desires,so long as they offer no permanent harm? Unwieldy,unyielding,stubborn..are adjectives which should not apply when seeing to MY happiness (unless they are meant to convey that you are unwieldy for any woman other than ME,or unyielding when it comes to your dedication towards serving me,and stubborn when it comes to doing whatever it takes to please ME),nor should the two letter word no. Your only purpose in this lifetime is making ME happy. Truly it is a simple concept,which need not be fraught with complexity of your making. Just do as I say,when I say,and how I say.

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Worship the reflection of GODdess,for you are not worthy of the reality.

Monday, January 25, 2016

Monday Mantra

I will be selfless in service to Mz Sydney. I will provide for her comfort and happiness financially sans question.

Sunday, January 24, 2016

Sluts aRe us

Little slut puppies stop trying to change your name,unless your nature truly has flipped 360. Own up to who and what you are. Plenty of Ladies will still allow you entrance into their sandbox on a temporary visa,so long as you are honest about your intentions. No need to be shady,just be upfront and state that you are NOT long term material,hell not even good beyond a googasm.

Being dishonest is what gets you in trouble,not your refusal to commit to service,and believe me boys,you always get caught. The thing to keep in mind is that women even Dommes talk to each other,and yes we hear the gossip...sometimes even our haters will out you to us when you are playing on the side,so really it will save you having a chunk of your ass chewed off,not to mention the shame of being outed in public forums as being a lying wastrel(that is what gets you blackballed,and nope it is not as fun as blueballed :)

Are you getting the point? Don't try to be like Shaggy,cause it WAS you,and even he got caught lol. Anything you post on the net,even what you believe to be secret little messages,can and will be used against you. Just admit it,be a man,and say "I am a slutty whore that will not settle down into an owned sub".

For some odd reason as I composed this I envisioned a group of males in a chorus line singing "I'm a slutty sub,wouldn't you like to be a slutty sub too" set to yankee doodle dandy music...yup I am a bit off :)

Saturday, January 23, 2016

Going nowhere

Today dear readers I am going to share with you a message I just received. Why you ask? Certainly not with the intention of providing humiliation per gratis,but rather as a teaching tool. I will go into detail as to why it is a failure.

"Hello and sorry for disturbing I am Dany 36 years from Serbia ..a male slave totally naked right now ..ready to serve your good self ..and to be trained for what ever you will ask from me . i would love to be Humiliated / and fucked like a slut for you on cam now . My skype : laabaa ( Danijel Lobon ) or if you want me on chat right now on this site , i will be all yours - i am searching to obey ....i am searching to be fucked for you ..on cam .....Thanks for accepting me Kissing your feet Dany"

Ok a tidbit of background(this is not the first time this male has sent me the exact same message). So let's get into what is wrong with this message.

1)The fact that he sent it more than once on different days displays that he does not even possess enough respect for others to keep track of who he is spamming with it,as well it reeks of "I don't care desperation" meaning that it does not matter who does this for him,and anybody will do..now that is classless.
2)It is not personalized with my username,which tells me that in all likelihood that this is a lazy copy and paste job..laziness denotes a lack of respect towards myself,especially as my profile on this site makes it known that in order to prove that one has read my words,that they are to address me as Mz Sydney in any missives tsk tsk tsk
3)I i i i i ...notice that pattern..it is all about him,and what he wants. Now that is definitely not submissive,nor do I cater to males,in fact just the opposite. Do any of you see any mention of how he can please me???
4)"Thank you for accepting me" Wow  he has lots of balls making the assumption that I will train just anybody so long as they are naked and waiting on cam to fuck for me...ya right lmao!!

I sincerely hope that those of you reading this are not as deluded or lacking in intellect as this piece of supposed manhood is,but perhaps you can glean an iota of knowledge from it,even if it is more of a what not to do,rather than a what to do :)

Monday, January 18, 2016

Is findom worth it

A male I was recently speaking with asked me a question,one that honestly had never been posed to me online. Is findom really worth it?

This is a question which could be answered a few ways. Now as a business consultant,in his eyes it all comes down to expenditure of time and effort vs return. I grasp that concept quite well,and if I were to be a loan manager,then I definitely would not consider me a safe risk taking into account only what I reap from findom. Meaning I will never be rich from it,and considering the pieces of myself which I invest into it,then I am seriously underpaid..how sad is that...or even to some,would it not be pathetic? Why continue spending your finite resources upon ventures that do not pan out? Almost comparable to the definition of insanity yes?

Now as I explained to him,I do not consider findom a business. It is for many,and hey it is awesome to see so many women making a smashing success financially at it,but that is not where my vision leads me. I have never seen the appeal of marketing and appealing to the masses,hmm maybe that is why I have so few followers,could be something to ponder late at night lol

So why do I do it,am I a masochist? Do I get off on all of the pecker pics,and spread ass photo shoots that inevitably make their way into my inbox? Is my fetish being called a scamming whore bitch? Does it make me feel good to be viewed as a pariah within the bdsm community which used to accept me? All of this sounds depressing eh?

I do it (findom) because it sates a fetish of mine. It feeds and fuels my desire to know that males sacrifice for me,that they suffer financially for me,that they are able to overcome their own selfish natures by placing my wants ahead of their own. Still sound crazy? Maybe,maybe not,but definitely sadistic :) Now I am not one to chase after males,nor do I employ any type of force(ie no blackmail,forced fem,forced bi,forced submission). What I receive is freely given,and that is what melts my butter baby!

I am upfront about my intentions,ALWAYS. No hidden fork behind my back to fuck wallets with :)

I guess when it comes down to it,I put a ton of myself whether it be pics,blogs,or tweets out there because that is what I want to do...and if my findom $$$ accounts are sparse,or even bankrupt,whelp I would still not consider it wasted time,so in my opinion,yes it is worth it.

Friday, January 15, 2016

Butthurt is boring

What is butthurt exactly? Butthurt is the behavior one displays after not getting their way,kinda like the temper tantrums children throw...immature right,illogical sure,entertaining NOPE. I wish I could say that people grow out of responding in such a manner,but that would be a lie :( Each and every day I interact with atleast one person who acts out of butthurt towards me. It definitely makes no difference in my day though,so never expect to elicit a reaction from me by doing so. I for one do not believe in rewarding childish antics with attention.

For example(yes this happens over and over) let's say that a male contacts me on a website where my profile blatantly denotes that TRIBUTE is required for my attention,yet said male types up and posts  a message to me all the while knowing that he is not going to tribute. 1)how does this even make sense? 2)what is the purpose behind it?

Apparently it is presumptuous of me to assume that my profile is read by all those that reach out to me  :(  The first thing I do though when I receive a message is to take a quick minute to peruse the sender's profile to ascertain whether our interests align(ya that is what people with intelligence do),so when I see that the poster lists findom as a hard limit,my brain goes huh! Which takes me back to my inbox to type up the question "Did you read my profile?" I imagine you can already guess what the answer is can't you lol

Most times the limit of their effort was to perv the pics,yup that is some laziness. What does that tell me though? It screams out to me that this person does not give a fig for serving me,that they are here with a self-serving agenda which revolves around their pleasure,and desires,so how is that going to fit in with what I seek? It isn't,so would it make sense for me to even bother interacting further? Would you not agree that to do so is like me wasting my own time?

So when I withhold a response one of two things happen 1)I get a message telling me that I am a scamming bitch or 2)They try to tell me that they will indeed tribute once they get to know me.

Let's address 1 first. In my estimation a scammer is a being of trickery,they are deceptive in their practices,now you tell me how my approach could possibly fit into that definition,seeing as I clearly state that TRIBUTE is required..how is it remotely possible to be considered shady when I am in your face with my expectations? Perhaps the motivation behind calling me such is an attempt to anger me into flaying the poster verbally(that NEVER works with me,for I control my emotions,not you)thereby feeding their humiliation fetish..or it could be that they are living in Mommy's basement with no job,or prospects of one,which equals BROKE..or even possibly they could be one of those males reared to believe that women owe them their time and attention for free(how is that entitlement issue working out for you?)

Moving on to number 2. This one can be a bit trickier,as there are indeed sincere males out there who will indeed tribute once they know you better,but here is the thing,I have put out a ton of information on myself. I blog regularly,I have a website,a twitter,an IG,and a tumblr,as well as being a member on a few fet sites,so the getting to know me requires minimal effort,other than the time it takes to read it. Now if one cannot be bothered to take the initiative to learn about me,then why would I bother with them..oh but of course for some that is just too much of an ordeal,I mean seriously how can I expect them to do their own research!!! Let me not forget that special snowflake who thinks themselves entitled to my time simply because they were cursed with a Y chromosome,ya that is not going to get you anywhere with me. Here is what it boils down to,if you cannot afford,or will not provide even a small token for the opportunity of gaining my attention,then that is the end of the story. I do not care if you have been burned in the past(not my bad,not owning it)

So in conclusion if your defense mechanism to rejection is acting like a butthurt bastard,you are only wasting your own time,for I will not acknowledge your behavior,nor dignify it with a response. Grow up gents and act like an adult,after all the fet scene is not for the mentally or chronologically immature.

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

 Pay&Obey
 Feed MY piggy,fill it full
 NO other way than to tribute GODdess feet
Worship my wrinkled soles with cash

Monday, January 11, 2016

Fruity tooty flake

Since this is my blog,I can pretty much say what I want can't I? I think so :) Yup it is kinda ranty,but a rather cathartic release for me :)

Anyways I'ma gonna tell you a story,a story about why I don't give out my personal number to just anyone.

So,two days ago along comes a fella,and he is all about the worship of me...bow,scrape and beg to tribute,and being the benevolent GODdess I am,I say sure go ahead,travel forward a day. New day another tribute arrives,and boy wants to chat..off to kik we go. Hours and hours(yup I said hours) were spent talking about limits,and hopes for the future of service. This male desires above all else to shack up with me in a service sense,and we all know that I am more than clear about not wanting a live in drone,so I say to him that perhaps he can live in my shed IF IF IF he makes it through probation,and consideration periods. See how damn nice I am!! You would think that he would be kissing the proverbial ground I walk on wouldn't ya? Wells,now he asks to send me his entire paycheck,and his bank balance,I say NO,not all,cause I cannot tolerate anyone to starve(not even I am that great of a sadist),so I say you keep $100 for food til your next paycheck in a week,yes even I can live off of that. In closing he asked for me to call him,and I of course say nope,not going there til you have proven yourself worthy of that honor,and no a couple of tributes does not make you stellar in my book.

Okie dokie he confirms that is great! Lo and behold the very next morning(today) I get a message stating that I am an unworthy cunt scammer cause I was only going to leave him $100 to live on,when holy shit it was idea to give it all to me(scratching my head)now I am wondering if this male is not delusional,or has short term memory loss. Oh and yes he goes on to say that he is secretly wealthy,and that since I am no dominant that he is giving his money to a college girl,and moving in with a dominant lesbian couple today,okies now I am lost,but whatever dude.

To further blow my mind,he claims that he is only a lifestyle slave(yet his username has the words finslave) and that since I did not give him my legal name or phone number that I am a fake dominant. Color me confused!

99% of the time,shit like this will roll off my back,but besides calling me a cunt(hate that word) he also wished me to burn in hell(that is utter blasphemy). Seriously anger management is in order,or high doses of xanax,cause who the fuck flips out like this!!!

This and exactly this type of behavior is why I do NOT just give out my number to boys with a quarter at the candy dispenser. Oh and in case anyone wonders,my reply to this being was "Good luck in your journey,and best wishes" See I am a mannered BITCH!

In conclusion in case you ever read this brian,I spent the gift cards on socks for the homeless,and the restaurant gift card on a family in need of a hot meal,so please put down the crack pipe!

Saturday, January 9, 2016

How one starts to worship

Mz Sydneys Poem : my first ever A woman of style, substance and power 1 stern gaze from her and all men cower Her stunning beauty is like the cool midnight air Crisp, clean, delicate and skin so fair She whispers commands from her golden tongue Causing men to submit.... both old and young Obey, submit, learn... accept your true fate not the doors to hell but a journey, Heaven's Gate Walk in a man yet become a slave She possesses your soul, from cradle to grave The poem is titled "SUBMIT"
GODdess wants more brian!

GODdess speaks,and is obeyed

Friday, January 8, 2016

Nations have risen and fell at the feet of divine women,and now it is your turn to pray,pay&obey at the temple of MY GODdess feet. Tribute each and every tantalizing toe..all for the glorification of worshiping ME.



Thursday, January 7, 2016

Darling new socks from MY brat. I want more! Grace MY GODdess feet with gifts :)

Gents are given 2 choices. Pay&Obey,or simply go away. See how easy I made it for you :)

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

 Gifts under my GODdess feet. What have you done for ME??
Sweet socks from a sweet boy.The purest way to display your appreciation of my divine GODdess self is with gifts!!

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

 Tributes make MY toes tingle!
 Pretty pink toes should be covered in CASH. Tribute now!!
Feed MY greed or fuck off :)

Sunday, January 3, 2016

PSO no go

Tons of you little pervs have asked ME why I am not on niteflirt. It is not like I am unaware of how scintillating MY voice is(just ask anyone who has listened to me on soundcloud),how it weakens the will of males around the globe,but it breaks down like this.

1)I hate people taking what is mine,and 30% is alot ! Just be a good gent and send all the money straight to ME.
2)I do not do phone sex. I couldn't care less about the wants and desires of dicks,so setting on the phone listening to, or hell even participating in getting a dick off is so not MY desire,and let's face it,MY wants are really all that matter. Any male calling a pso to get his dick off is NOT a submissive,that is a fetishist,kinkster,or plain ass perv,and I have no use for selfish shits like that. Wrapping your hand around your dick,or making it squirt is not a tribute towards enriching MY life,or sating MY fetishes,so why would I even consider it??

This is not to say that I never talk to good gents on the phone,of course I do,but only after they have earned it. Ick how so many of you detest that word,EARN..ahhh pity you,cause I refuse to make it easy for you,you who have believed yourself entitled to anything and everything that you want in life due to being born with a dick,well in MY realm your dick is a negative,not a positive,so you better work hard to eradicate that stigma.

Now get your hand off your dick,pull out that wallet and make ME happy :)

Saturday, January 2, 2016

welcome to my inbox

This is just a sample of the messages I receive in my inbox which makes me shake my head,yet laugh,cause seriously WTF


 Dated:  
1/2/16 1:04 AM


maid slave believes that to be totally enslaved as a life time lady's maid to a real Mistress, she would have no means to be independent again.... one of which is fem hormones, she would has a facial surgery .. and looks pleasing femine face... thin eye brows... and should looks as a female complexion. maid slave should has tits thats to Mistress sizes, her maid nipple should be pierced.. as possible punishments at time. A maid slave should also be butt plugged mostly... Maid is should not talk to strangers or allow outside Mistress house without permission... A maid job are all domestic chores and personal servitude to ensure.. Mistress happiness Is Mistress financially able? do you lives alone?

Friday, January 1, 2016

new year,new goals

The new year has officially began!! This year my delights,desires,and expectations will be bigger,better,and brighter. If you are fortunate enough to have been blessed with my notice(the only way to gain my notice is through sacrificial tribute),then you are going to have to step up your game so to speak,cause only the best will be accepted by your Femdom GODdess.

There will be no patience of any sort for selfishness or entitlement delusions from you gents. Sublime bliss comes from knowing that you have pleased me,which is greater and more fulfilling than any dick spurt you manage to whack out. No hesitation will be tolerated either. GODdess knows best,and you as her servant are to accept this as gospel truth. You are to be humble,to be meek,to be docile,yet fervent in your will to honor her. There is no room for self-centered thoughts in your mind,they are a criminal distraction deterring you from your purpose in life,which is living your life for GODdess.

Now that I have graced you with my all knowing wisdom,feel free to worship and adore my perfect soles in these preciously cute new socks from my brat
Wipe that drool off your chin now,and serve your purpose. GODdess wants amazon gift cards NOW,no questions of how much,just log into your amazon account and make your sacrifice in my name for each of my divine toes :)