Thursday, March 31, 2016
To be blessed by the view of such beauty is much more than any mere mortal male deserves..so you are bidden to bow before Goddess and bestow upon her your worldly goods,for you benefit her only when you suffer and sacrifice all for her graces.
You as a male are deserving of nothing more than to assume your rightful position in this lifetime,which is on your knees before Goddess.
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
Give to Goddess
Give to Goddess
You were created to please ME,now open your wallet and spew your cash into my amazon account!
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
Render unto Goddess her due,in the form of amazon gift cards
You bois are slacking and have not displayed appreciation for all of the wondrous sights I have gifted you with,which makes Goddess less likely to be so kind in the future...keep that in mind when logging into your amazon account..now fulfill your one purpose in life,which is pleasing GODDESS.
Monday, March 28, 2016
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Email interactions
One might believe that I ignore the greater majority of messages I receive,regardless of what venue they are relayed,but surprisingly I do not. I begin my day by sitting down with a cup of tea,and going through all of them. That is not to say that I respond to all of them,because I do not.
If I find the message to be offensive,self centered,or sent from a dick avi,then in all likelihood they will go into the trash bin. Being raised with manners means that I will respond to those that are conveyed with respect,even if that person is not a match for what I seek.
I realize that I can come across as a haughty biotch,and really I am,but rarely am I rude without provocation,and yes sending dick pics unsolicited is rude(but guess what,I will not dignify those types of messages with a response) no free sph or degradation leaves my lips or fingertips to feed your fetish.
Some of the messages I get truly do not deserve my attention though. Like the ones stating "hit me up" or "whats up". Those just leave me shaking my head in pity for your ignorance of how to approach a woman...any woman. Add into that the ones deluged with pointless compliments. Seriously boys,I do not need nor desire your not so hidden ulterior motivated sentiments,which are plainly spoiled when I deny an audience with you,and you flip a switch screaming out about my evolution from the most desirable creature in the world,into the ugliest bitch to walk this earth..so save us both time,and keep wanking past my inbox.
Onto those seeking to be my "friend". This is not a road we are going to journey down together. I have no interest in being your friend,your chat buddy,your "I am so lonely,and just want someone to talk to me" person. I have plenty of vanilla friends,and several dominant friends within the fetish community,so you see,you asking me to be your friend is not so very special to me,and I would rather put my time online to better uses,such as interacting with those that serve me,and my fellow female friends.
What does that leave us with? I always answer messages from females..even those seeking guidance,and as I stated above,those conveyed with respect,so if you fall within those 2 categories than you can expect me to answer when I have time :) Otherwise,your message is deleted deleted deleted.
If I find the message to be offensive,self centered,or sent from a dick avi,then in all likelihood they will go into the trash bin. Being raised with manners means that I will respond to those that are conveyed with respect,even if that person is not a match for what I seek.
I realize that I can come across as a haughty biotch,and really I am,but rarely am I rude without provocation,and yes sending dick pics unsolicited is rude(but guess what,I will not dignify those types of messages with a response) no free sph or degradation leaves my lips or fingertips to feed your fetish.
Some of the messages I get truly do not deserve my attention though. Like the ones stating "hit me up" or "whats up". Those just leave me shaking my head in pity for your ignorance of how to approach a woman...any woman. Add into that the ones deluged with pointless compliments. Seriously boys,I do not need nor desire your not so hidden ulterior motivated sentiments,which are plainly spoiled when I deny an audience with you,and you flip a switch screaming out about my evolution from the most desirable creature in the world,into the ugliest bitch to walk this earth..so save us both time,and keep wanking past my inbox.
Onto those seeking to be my "friend". This is not a road we are going to journey down together. I have no interest in being your friend,your chat buddy,your "I am so lonely,and just want someone to talk to me" person. I have plenty of vanilla friends,and several dominant friends within the fetish community,so you see,you asking me to be your friend is not so very special to me,and I would rather put my time online to better uses,such as interacting with those that serve me,and my fellow female friends.
What does that leave us with? I always answer messages from females..even those seeking guidance,and as I stated above,those conveyed with respect,so if you fall within those 2 categories than you can expect me to answer when I have time :) Otherwise,your message is deleted deleted deleted.
Saturday, March 26, 2016
timid mouse at my feet
Yesterday brought back to my sacred feet a timid little bitch who ran away once before...yet he could never quite leave..always lurking..wanking to the sight of my perfect peds. This little bitch enjoyed an honor that I could count on one hand have received..a personalized phone call from ME. Envy him bois,cause he had the rare opportunity to listen to my dulcet smoky tones live.
Some of you are asking why I would grant an audience to such a lowly pathetic cretin,but not you lol. Goddess intends to cultivate this worm,to addict him,to enslave his mind..then to bring him to her feet real time in worship. Fortunately for him,he lives fairly close to Goddess,which means, with devotion and dedication he just could be staring down and salivating over the sight of my feet in his face :)
Of course he has a way to go before he reaches that point,and the sadist in me will immensely enjoy his struggles to get there!
Suffer more for me little bitch,because it pleases me
Some of you are asking why I would grant an audience to such a lowly pathetic cretin,but not you lol. Goddess intends to cultivate this worm,to addict him,to enslave his mind..then to bring him to her feet real time in worship. Fortunately for him,he lives fairly close to Goddess,which means, with devotion and dedication he just could be staring down and salivating over the sight of my feet in his face :)
Of course he has a way to go before he reaches that point,and the sadist in me will immensely enjoy his struggles to get there!
Suffer more for me little bitch,because it pleases me
Friday, March 25, 2016
Femdom is about women
Amusing thing happened to me.
I was interacting with a male who apparently believed that Dommes exist to fulfill the fantasies of males. This came as a shock to me(actually I laughed at the notion). I am unaware of who is spreading this type of manure,but surely they are doing a disservice by doing so. In fact they are ruining the chances of serving for males all over. Wake up boys,you are being brainwashed with a bucket of shit.
This mindset makes no sense. Think about it,what woman let alone a Domme seeks and accepts being treated like an inanimate object created to satiate the sexual desires of a man? That is not to say there are not some submissive females in the world who wouldn't love this treatment,but I am certainly not submissive to the wants of a male,nor would any dominant woman be.
You cannot come into the femdom arena with this mentality,else you will be on the chopping and blocking docket daily. Submission should never be based upon your penis,if so,then you are doing it wrong. Submitting to a woman is about her. Her will,her wants,her dreams,her desires. There is no room in this exchange for selfishness from you. Femdom is not the fiction you see in porn. You are wasting precious non-redeemable moments of time if you are walking around dick in hand expecting a Domme to cater to your penis.
This is not even me being cruel,this is about me being brutally honest with you. Males whine that they cannot read women's minds,and just do not know how to approach them..well here is a woman telling you that you MUST cease allowing your little head to rule your words and behavior when it comes to talking to a Domme. Keep your focus on her instead of upon yourself,and you just might stand a chance.
Feel free to thank me now :)
I was interacting with a male who apparently believed that Dommes exist to fulfill the fantasies of males. This came as a shock to me(actually I laughed at the notion). I am unaware of who is spreading this type of manure,but surely they are doing a disservice by doing so. In fact they are ruining the chances of serving for males all over. Wake up boys,you are being brainwashed with a bucket of shit.
This mindset makes no sense. Think about it,what woman let alone a Domme seeks and accepts being treated like an inanimate object created to satiate the sexual desires of a man? That is not to say there are not some submissive females in the world who wouldn't love this treatment,but I am certainly not submissive to the wants of a male,nor would any dominant woman be.
You cannot come into the femdom arena with this mentality,else you will be on the chopping and blocking docket daily. Submission should never be based upon your penis,if so,then you are doing it wrong. Submitting to a woman is about her. Her will,her wants,her dreams,her desires. There is no room in this exchange for selfishness from you. Femdom is not the fiction you see in porn. You are wasting precious non-redeemable moments of time if you are walking around dick in hand expecting a Domme to cater to your penis.
This is not even me being cruel,this is about me being brutally honest with you. Males whine that they cannot read women's minds,and just do not know how to approach them..well here is a woman telling you that you MUST cease allowing your little head to rule your words and behavior when it comes to talking to a Domme. Keep your focus on her instead of upon yourself,and you just might stand a chance.
Feel free to thank me now :)
Gifts are a gesture of appreciation..thank you to Mona for seeing to the purchase of the fitbit I coveted!! The rest of you have done nothing to receive any type of accolades...I suggest you fix that by sending gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Gifts are not about getting something in return..no idea who planted that fictional idea within the big head of so many males ..which reminds me,someone NEEDS to send me the beach tote on my amazon wish list,seeing as one little nameless dish rag whined about spending so much money for the bag.
Gifts are not about getting something in return..no idea who planted that fictional idea within the big head of so many males ..which reminds me,someone NEEDS to send me the beach tote on my amazon wish list,seeing as one little nameless dish rag whined about spending so much money for the bag.
Thursday, March 24, 2016
Adult baby play
Recently there has been a rash of males approaching me for this type of exchange,even though I have listed it as a hard limit :( I realize that my words are not as interesting to most of you as my photos are,but seriously atleast check out a Domme's hard limit list! This goes out to all of you trying to convince me to dip into scat too.
I have limits,just like submissives do,and expect that they be respected. Adult baby play twinges me off kilter,and leaves a bad icky feeling in the pit of my stomach. I am certainly not bashing this kink,but it is not my kink. Just like so many find findom cringe worthy,baby play evokes the same response for me. I don't want to change your nappy,nor see that you made a boom boom in it. I don't want to put you in diapers as a funishment either...so please RESPECT my limits.
Back to regular broadcasting :)
I have limits,just like submissives do,and expect that they be respected. Adult baby play twinges me off kilter,and leaves a bad icky feeling in the pit of my stomach. I am certainly not bashing this kink,but it is not my kink. Just like so many find findom cringe worthy,baby play evokes the same response for me. I don't want to change your nappy,nor see that you made a boom boom in it. I don't want to put you in diapers as a funishment either...so please RESPECT my limits.
Back to regular broadcasting :)
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Atypical FLR
FLR is something you see on tons of profiles,and for those of you not up on the terminology it stands for Female Led Relationship. Now I for one am all for FLR's,but not what one would deign to title a typical one.
I am always the dominant leader in all of my relationships,and forever shall be. I command and males obey. Here is where it deviates from the "norm"..I will NEVER allow a beta male to dwell with me,nor will he ever be legally attached to me (as in matrimonial)..not even labelled publicly as a BF or SO,for that is not the role a beta male will ever play in my life. So for those expecting me to love them,and treat them in a loving manner,umm ya that is not going to happen in the waking world.
That is not to say that I will not grow to appreciate a beta male serving me (I am human ya know),but it will not pass beyond fondness like one would possess towards a pet. My longest serving boi has been living under my dictates for ages,and even he will never be considered for anything other than the position of servant..although he is honored as my owned boi. Through service to me he has evolved from a wanking porn addict,into a decent caring responsible member of the human race,and that fact alone tells me that I have led him well,without ever having lived with him,had sex with him,married,or dated him...WOW! Must be doing something right huh?
Regardless of differing locations,I shall yet rule your world,and lead you to becoming a better person,and the best possible servant in service to me,so you see,it is still a FLR,just not the one that Elise Sutton writes about.
I am always the dominant leader in all of my relationships,and forever shall be. I command and males obey. Here is where it deviates from the "norm"..I will NEVER allow a beta male to dwell with me,nor will he ever be legally attached to me (as in matrimonial)..not even labelled publicly as a BF or SO,for that is not the role a beta male will ever play in my life. So for those expecting me to love them,and treat them in a loving manner,umm ya that is not going to happen in the waking world.
That is not to say that I will not grow to appreciate a beta male serving me (I am human ya know),but it will not pass beyond fondness like one would possess towards a pet. My longest serving boi has been living under my dictates for ages,and even he will never be considered for anything other than the position of servant..although he is honored as my owned boi. Through service to me he has evolved from a wanking porn addict,into a decent caring responsible member of the human race,and that fact alone tells me that I have led him well,without ever having lived with him,had sex with him,married,or dated him...WOW! Must be doing something right huh?
Regardless of differing locations,I shall yet rule your world,and lead you to becoming a better person,and the best possible servant in service to me,so you see,it is still a FLR,just not the one that Elise Sutton writes about.
Tuesday, March 22, 2016
Monday, March 21, 2016
Sunday, March 20, 2016
Gift my Goddess feet http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3. Pay for the privilege of being owned by my divine feet.
Saturday, March 19, 2016
Friday, March 18, 2016
Thursday, March 17, 2016
You worship and pay,not leech and laze your way into serving GoddessSydney.
male entitlement does not mean squat in my realm..from ceo to mickey d's employee the requirements remain the same. You will work hard to serve me,and you will tribute for the honor of my notice. There are no free passes. Having a dick does not guarantee you carte blanche into my world. No slacking,no excuses. It means waking up everyday with the thought of my happiness in mind,and how you may best ensure the continuation of it,so before you think to contact me,ask yourself "what have I done to please her" If the answer is nothing,then crawl away quietly,and send me a gift quickly http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3
then get down on your knees and pray that I accept your offering.
then get down on your knees and pray that I accept your offering.
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Poetry and presents
Those that have ever come to kneel at my feet know of my appreciation for poetry in my honor,so today I share with you a piece recently sent to me by a cunty little bitch..along with a pic of the gifts he purchased today whilst worshiping at my altar.
Mz Sydneys Poem : my first ever A woman of style, substance and power 1 stern gaze from her and all men cower Her stunning beauty is like the cool midnight air Crisp, clean, delicate and skin so fair She whispers commands from her golden tongue Causing men to submit.... both old and young Obey, submit, learn... accept your true fate not the doors to hell but a journey, Heaven's Gate Walk in a man yet become a slave She possesses your soul, from cradle to grave The poem is titled "SUBMIT"
Poetry and presents make GODdess happy :) Good job bitch!
Mz Sydneys Poem : my first ever A woman of style, substance and power 1 stern gaze from her and all men cower Her stunning beauty is like the cool midnight air Crisp, clean, delicate and skin so fair She whispers commands from her golden tongue Causing men to submit.... both old and young Obey, submit, learn... accept your true fate not the doors to hell but a journey, Heaven's Gate Walk in a man yet become a slave She possesses your soul, from cradle to grave The poem is titled "SUBMIT"
Tuesday, March 15, 2016
Aftertaste of anger
Anger is such an ugly repulsive deterrent to attracting what you seek.
I read more profiles than Dickens composed literature,and that is saying alot. A recurring theme appears to be the aftertaste of anger upon completion. So much anger,but why? Mad because YOU cannot get what YOU want,that what YOU demand remains out of your reach,even due to being denied what YOU claim as a need.
The anger is superfluous and unattractive. Lashing out serves no purpose. It is YOU who is in error with your strategy,not the Dommes who happen past you. The issue is your remaining fixation upon yourself,your wants,your desires,your fantasies. This mindset is what holds you back. It is like an anchor weighing you down into the deep dark abyss of being not of use. A ball and chain comprised of excess weight(your ego and sense of entitlement). To get any further,you are going to have to cut yourself loose from those strangling bonds.
Any D's relationship entered into by a "submissive" is doomed for failure from the start if his intentions are centered upon his own gratifying designs.There is no room for self when one is meant to serve selflessly. This requires an eradication of all desires,except those which please a Domme,and I guarantee that her primary focus is not what gets YOU off,so shed those shitstain cravings like a second skin that you are posing as needs. YOU do not need to get off,YOU do not need wank fodder,YOU do not need actions which objectify women...those are wants,and your wants are irrelevant in the scheme of things. Don't believe me,that is fine,and yes I know that there are plenty of service providers out there who will be your genie in the bottle..but then that is not submission and domination,that is only business. If it is a business arrangement you seek,then do be along with yourself,for you shame the title of submissive.
Another reason behind the rage that I behold is findom. Ack so many of you loathe the fetish,for various aspects. I will even share those reasons with you.
1)You possess no excess income(in fact you may not even make enough to care for your basic needs,hence you living in Mommy's basement)so it stands to reason that you are going to be very angry with women who realize their worth,and expect to be treated as a Goddess. Your anger though is misplaced,and should be internalized,for it is the fault of yourself that your financial status sucks ass. If you cannot afford a decent vanilla date(oh and by decent I am not referring to netfix and chilling at your place)then you are on a one way street when it comes to finding someone to serve.
2)You live with that entitled philosophy of "I don't have to pay for shit,I am too good for that" Uh huh and you are alone on Saturday nights too,unless you can con a drunk chick into giving it up...enjoy those herps son. That entitled bullshit went out with the dark ages. Women owe you nothing,and you best drill that fact into your brain.
3)"My dick is God's gift to women" LMFAO about that one. Dicks are fucking ugly. Don't be so proud of an appendage that resembles a worm(icky creatures) It is a rare female who is attracted to a male due to his dick alone..and you are highly unlikely to locate that unicorn lol.
4)There are those that even try to trade services in lieu of paying tribute. Homework slaves,web slaves,twitter slaves,oral slaves,sex slaves(biggest joke of them all) You should be paying tribute for the honor of doing homework,paying for designing websites,paying to retweet,and forget the oral and sex slave shit...you are the farthest thing from being worthy of that distinction. Since the creation of vibrators,you have been replaced with a better version,so erase that from your possible options of service post haste!
After all I have said,where does that leave you? That leaves you a blank chalkboard for the use of a Domme. Devoid of dick based designs,willing and aware that your place is paying tribute,and taking orders...orders which suit her needs,not your wants.
Clear?
I read more profiles than Dickens composed literature,and that is saying alot. A recurring theme appears to be the aftertaste of anger upon completion. So much anger,but why? Mad because YOU cannot get what YOU want,that what YOU demand remains out of your reach,even due to being denied what YOU claim as a need.
The anger is superfluous and unattractive. Lashing out serves no purpose. It is YOU who is in error with your strategy,not the Dommes who happen past you. The issue is your remaining fixation upon yourself,your wants,your desires,your fantasies. This mindset is what holds you back. It is like an anchor weighing you down into the deep dark abyss of being not of use. A ball and chain comprised of excess weight(your ego and sense of entitlement). To get any further,you are going to have to cut yourself loose from those strangling bonds.
Any D's relationship entered into by a "submissive" is doomed for failure from the start if his intentions are centered upon his own gratifying designs.There is no room for self when one is meant to serve selflessly. This requires an eradication of all desires,except those which please a Domme,and I guarantee that her primary focus is not what gets YOU off,so shed those shitstain cravings like a second skin that you are posing as needs. YOU do not need to get off,YOU do not need wank fodder,YOU do not need actions which objectify women...those are wants,and your wants are irrelevant in the scheme of things. Don't believe me,that is fine,and yes I know that there are plenty of service providers out there who will be your genie in the bottle..but then that is not submission and domination,that is only business. If it is a business arrangement you seek,then do be along with yourself,for you shame the title of submissive.
Another reason behind the rage that I behold is findom. Ack so many of you loathe the fetish,for various aspects. I will even share those reasons with you.
1)You possess no excess income(in fact you may not even make enough to care for your basic needs,hence you living in Mommy's basement)so it stands to reason that you are going to be very angry with women who realize their worth,and expect to be treated as a Goddess. Your anger though is misplaced,and should be internalized,for it is the fault of yourself that your financial status sucks ass. If you cannot afford a decent vanilla date(oh and by decent I am not referring to netfix and chilling at your place)then you are on a one way street when it comes to finding someone to serve.
2)You live with that entitled philosophy of "I don't have to pay for shit,I am too good for that" Uh huh and you are alone on Saturday nights too,unless you can con a drunk chick into giving it up...enjoy those herps son. That entitled bullshit went out with the dark ages. Women owe you nothing,and you best drill that fact into your brain.
3)"My dick is God's gift to women" LMFAO about that one. Dicks are fucking ugly. Don't be so proud of an appendage that resembles a worm(icky creatures) It is a rare female who is attracted to a male due to his dick alone..and you are highly unlikely to locate that unicorn lol.
4)There are those that even try to trade services in lieu of paying tribute. Homework slaves,web slaves,twitter slaves,oral slaves,sex slaves(biggest joke of them all) You should be paying tribute for the honor of doing homework,paying for designing websites,paying to retweet,and forget the oral and sex slave shit...you are the farthest thing from being worthy of that distinction. Since the creation of vibrators,you have been replaced with a better version,so erase that from your possible options of service post haste!
After all I have said,where does that leave you? That leaves you a blank chalkboard for the use of a Domme. Devoid of dick based designs,willing and aware that your place is paying tribute,and taking orders...orders which suit her needs,not your wants.
Clear?
Monday, March 14, 2016
Ispy
I like that word :)
Onto the topic! Gents creeping round the findom forums hoping for notice,you are going about it all the wrong way if all you are doing is creeping. What I mean by creeping is liking pics,tweets,posts,vids,but saying nary a word. I would ask if the cat bit out your tongue,but that does not really apply online now does it...perhaps I should ask instead if your fingers fell off from rubbin the nubbin too much lol
Sitting back and clicking a few likes is not going to gain you entrance to the inner sanctum of a Domme's domain. In fact it may garner you no attention at all,other than a passing thought of "whoopee another lurking loser".
Some of you are going to say "but hey I am shy",and to that I would respond with that old saying "nothing ventured,nothing gained". You cannot take a backseat to your own submission,and expect it to go anywhere. It is like standing near the ice cream truck,but not ordering anything...believe me that the cone you are salivating over will never be yours to lick if you do not approach and open your mouth..or in the case of findom,your wallet :)
Becoming a blip on the radar of a beautiful Domme requires effort on your part. Ya just gotta sub up,and make yourself known to her. The best way to gain an invitation to talk is by sending a small tribute. I am sharing gold here with you boys. No lie,tributing is the way to make a positive first impression. Compliments alone simply will not do. Dommes have heard them all,and honestly they cease to impress anymore. Be original,be worthy of a second glance,tribute and you just might have a chance :)
Onto the topic! Gents creeping round the findom forums hoping for notice,you are going about it all the wrong way if all you are doing is creeping. What I mean by creeping is liking pics,tweets,posts,vids,but saying nary a word. I would ask if the cat bit out your tongue,but that does not really apply online now does it...perhaps I should ask instead if your fingers fell off from rubbin the nubbin too much lol
Sitting back and clicking a few likes is not going to gain you entrance to the inner sanctum of a Domme's domain. In fact it may garner you no attention at all,other than a passing thought of "whoopee another lurking loser".
Some of you are going to say "but hey I am shy",and to that I would respond with that old saying "nothing ventured,nothing gained". You cannot take a backseat to your own submission,and expect it to go anywhere. It is like standing near the ice cream truck,but not ordering anything...believe me that the cone you are salivating over will never be yours to lick if you do not approach and open your mouth..or in the case of findom,your wallet :)
Becoming a blip on the radar of a beautiful Domme requires effort on your part. Ya just gotta sub up,and make yourself known to her. The best way to gain an invitation to talk is by sending a small tribute. I am sharing gold here with you boys. No lie,tributing is the way to make a positive first impression. Compliments alone simply will not do. Dommes have heard them all,and honestly they cease to impress anymore. Be original,be worthy of a second glance,tribute and you just might have a chance :)
Sunday, March 13, 2016
Saturday, March 12, 2016
Breaking and remaking
The other day I happened into a conversation with a male asking me about this very thing. Could be that he spied a tweet of mine about breaking and remaking males into service for MzSydney.
Anyways what he sought was the how of the matter. Now many a times when a male comes to me asking what I would do,or how I would apply it to him,a little warning alarm sounds off in my brain going "fodder seeker"..yes I know it may appear to be a pessimistic leaning,but 99.9 times out of a hundred this is exactly what is going on,so my apologies to you rarer than rare unicorns who ask sans hidden motivation.
Okies so the breaking aspect first. No this does not mean nor intend to imply that I am digging out my instruments of torture to beat a male into submission. Not that I do not enjoy inflicting pain lol,but I do not believe in having to force a male into doing my biding. If a male conveys that he must be forced,than he is not suited for my service. I accept freely given servitude. No coercion,no wresting of power. Force bores me. Any brute can achieve their means in this manner,thereby making it ordinary and droll. I am extraordinary,not everyday :)
How then do I break males drum roll please....I don't. They break themselves for me. If a gent is truly desirous to serve me,then he is intelligent enough to recognize that his self serving ways must cease. No longer is it acceptable to attempt to maneuver a woman into playing a game which he designed,with the outcome being his penile gratification. Instead he begins styling his behavior and reactions to my satisfaction and standards of service. He quickly takes note of that which pleases and displeases me,and seeks to ensure that the experience of interacting with him remains a positive notation within my mind. He begins the great overhaul,discarding the penile mindset,eradicating self,and implementing actions with the goal being my happiness. Ut oh looky here,he is breaking and remaking himself into my image of a worthy servant.
Of course there is more that occurs during this transition,but some experiences are meant to be taught first hand,hands on...and this is all that I am going to divulge upon the matter. Hope this clears up the query to some degree :)
Anyways what he sought was the how of the matter. Now many a times when a male comes to me asking what I would do,or how I would apply it to him,a little warning alarm sounds off in my brain going "fodder seeker"..yes I know it may appear to be a pessimistic leaning,but 99.9 times out of a hundred this is exactly what is going on,so my apologies to you rarer than rare unicorns who ask sans hidden motivation.
Okies so the breaking aspect first. No this does not mean nor intend to imply that I am digging out my instruments of torture to beat a male into submission. Not that I do not enjoy inflicting pain lol,but I do not believe in having to force a male into doing my biding. If a male conveys that he must be forced,than he is not suited for my service. I accept freely given servitude. No coercion,no wresting of power. Force bores me. Any brute can achieve their means in this manner,thereby making it ordinary and droll. I am extraordinary,not everyday :)
How then do I break males drum roll please....I don't. They break themselves for me. If a gent is truly desirous to serve me,then he is intelligent enough to recognize that his self serving ways must cease. No longer is it acceptable to attempt to maneuver a woman into playing a game which he designed,with the outcome being his penile gratification. Instead he begins styling his behavior and reactions to my satisfaction and standards of service. He quickly takes note of that which pleases and displeases me,and seeks to ensure that the experience of interacting with him remains a positive notation within my mind. He begins the great overhaul,discarding the penile mindset,eradicating self,and implementing actions with the goal being my happiness. Ut oh looky here,he is breaking and remaking himself into my image of a worthy servant.
Of course there is more that occurs during this transition,but some experiences are meant to be taught first hand,hands on...and this is all that I am going to divulge upon the matter. Hope this clears up the query to some degree :)
Friday, March 11, 2016
Thursday, March 10, 2016
Speed bumps
Speed bumps are put into place to force drivers to slow down. In findom there are plenty of speed bumps,some good,some bad. It is up to you whether you want to take your foot off the gas,or just jump over the suckers lol.
When someone new pulls onto the findom course,they are generally going hell on wheels for speed. Whether it is a Domme blurring by like a cash seeking missile blasting straight toward the first visible wallet,or the throbbing blaze of a subby torpedoing towards the first form to send him into a melted spew of semen. A road rage frenzy to reach their destination,and those who who come into their way,quickly become road kill. Has anyone else ever noticed this phenomenon? This is one of the times where those pesky speed bumps are meant to help more so than hinder. Aggression does not always win the race. Think of the turtle and the hare,and how that one ended. Slowing down may mean that your journey takes longer to complete,but the ride is full of beautiful scenery,and accumulated knowledge,which just may save you from taking the wrong exit. Findom really is not a race track,nor a competition,so the need for speed does not exist. Traveling in the slow lane will not keep you for your goal,honestly. In fact it merely heightens the sweetness of anticipation.
Even life itself tosses speed bumps in your way. When I reach one,I think to myself,ok I am meant to take my time,and possibly learn something new from this experience. I prefer to see it as a positive rather than a negative. Doing so prevents me from giving in to anger,and negative reactions.
Of course there are speed bumps that are worth plowing through though. The ones erected in the hopes of flattening your tires,taking the gas out of your game,and all around making you feel like you do not even belong on the road. These are the ones where you need to put the metal to the pedal,and steamroll over them,sinking them deep like a pesky pothole,which you will see coming in the future,and avoid.
Above all else,recognize that it is a privilege to be on the road,and do not abuse the rules in order to get to the finish line first,and you just might come across some buddies to carpool with :)
When someone new pulls onto the findom course,they are generally going hell on wheels for speed. Whether it is a Domme blurring by like a cash seeking missile blasting straight toward the first visible wallet,or the throbbing blaze of a subby torpedoing towards the first form to send him into a melted spew of semen. A road rage frenzy to reach their destination,and those who who come into their way,quickly become road kill. Has anyone else ever noticed this phenomenon? This is one of the times where those pesky speed bumps are meant to help more so than hinder. Aggression does not always win the race. Think of the turtle and the hare,and how that one ended. Slowing down may mean that your journey takes longer to complete,but the ride is full of beautiful scenery,and accumulated knowledge,which just may save you from taking the wrong exit. Findom really is not a race track,nor a competition,so the need for speed does not exist. Traveling in the slow lane will not keep you for your goal,honestly. In fact it merely heightens the sweetness of anticipation.
Even life itself tosses speed bumps in your way. When I reach one,I think to myself,ok I am meant to take my time,and possibly learn something new from this experience. I prefer to see it as a positive rather than a negative. Doing so prevents me from giving in to anger,and negative reactions.
Of course there are speed bumps that are worth plowing through though. The ones erected in the hopes of flattening your tires,taking the gas out of your game,and all around making you feel like you do not even belong on the road. These are the ones where you need to put the metal to the pedal,and steamroll over them,sinking them deep like a pesky pothole,which you will see coming in the future,and avoid.
Above all else,recognize that it is a privilege to be on the road,and do not abuse the rules in order to get to the finish line first,and you just might come across some buddies to carpool with :)
Wednesday, March 9, 2016
Not many of you may know,but GODdess recently joined a local gym,best boy paid for it obviously(yay ME). Now it is up to you gents to supply a new gym bag,and the fitbit which I have been harping about recently. It is an honor to see to my health and happiness,which all of you should be clamoring to provide for,so chop chop!! You have one simple job,and that is doing what I command.
Tuesday, March 8, 2016
Friday, March 4, 2016
Right of refusal
I have the right to refuse service,and you gents have the right to refuse to provide service. Funny seeing this typed up from someone who does not care for the word no coming out of a servants mouth,but this is one of the few times where I do not balk at it being employed. We have all interacted with individuals,and then realized,umm ya this is not going to work out,so I gots to be along my way. How you relay it is what matters though. I personally attempt to be kind when telling a gent that he does not meet my requirements for service,well that is unless he is a snotty turd to begin with,then I am blunt about it. You gents on the other hand should always convey the word no in a polite manner,and yes I realize it can be difficult especially when you are dealing with someone who is extremely aggressive in their approach,but it can be done. Be mannered even if the other party is not. Do not just block and walk. Most people will handle rejection in a calmer manner when a simple explanation is provided,rather than when one takes the cowardly escape route(this promotes a negative reaction).
As anxious as it may make you,cramp up your fingers and type out "I apologize,but this is not the type of situation I am seeking,and while you are a lovely Lady,I must bid you best wishes in your journey". That wasn't so hard now was it,of course not :) To apply a balm to the sting,you should as well send a small token of appreciation to the Lady for her time spent with her. It is the gentlemanly thing to do,and will leave her with a positive impression of you.
You boys are going to end up interacting with a great many wonderful women before you find the one who you cannot resist serving,but wouldn't it be a shame if she refused your service due to hearing from other Ladies how you bombed and bailed on them? Even in the online realm,you will acquire an unsavory reputation if you do not handle matters correctly,and Ladies do talk to each other about who is a shitstain,so keep that in mind please.
The only other time where no is acceptable is when it comes to limits. Even I have limits,and expect them to be respected(no pushing). For example,I do not engage in any type of scat play,which to me encompasses toilet and ass training,yet it never fails for my inbox to receive messages asking for these very things SMH. Does it irritate me,YUP. Now when it comes to you gents,if you are new,you may not yet have a firm grasp of your limits except for those that are illegal,and that is ok,but once you know what your limits are,then you have the right to say no to activities which encroach upon them. Mind you though that it is not pleasing when a male has an entire slew of limits. I have encountered ones who set up so many limits,that I lose all interest in speaking with them,for if the only things not on your limit list are the activities which get a rise out of your crotch,then you are a fetishist not a submissive. A submissive will do things to please the one he serves even if they are not activities which arouse him,just for her,so keep that in mind when making up your list. Most importantly,relay your limits right off the bat..nothing worse than taking the time to create a task,only to find out that it will not be enacted due to it being off limits.
In the end it comes down to the right to say no,and you possess it just as I do :)
As anxious as it may make you,cramp up your fingers and type out "I apologize,but this is not the type of situation I am seeking,and while you are a lovely Lady,I must bid you best wishes in your journey". That wasn't so hard now was it,of course not :) To apply a balm to the sting,you should as well send a small token of appreciation to the Lady for her time spent with her. It is the gentlemanly thing to do,and will leave her with a positive impression of you.
You boys are going to end up interacting with a great many wonderful women before you find the one who you cannot resist serving,but wouldn't it be a shame if she refused your service due to hearing from other Ladies how you bombed and bailed on them? Even in the online realm,you will acquire an unsavory reputation if you do not handle matters correctly,and Ladies do talk to each other about who is a shitstain,so keep that in mind please.
The only other time where no is acceptable is when it comes to limits. Even I have limits,and expect them to be respected(no pushing). For example,I do not engage in any type of scat play,which to me encompasses toilet and ass training,yet it never fails for my inbox to receive messages asking for these very things SMH. Does it irritate me,YUP. Now when it comes to you gents,if you are new,you may not yet have a firm grasp of your limits except for those that are illegal,and that is ok,but once you know what your limits are,then you have the right to say no to activities which encroach upon them. Mind you though that it is not pleasing when a male has an entire slew of limits. I have encountered ones who set up so many limits,that I lose all interest in speaking with them,for if the only things not on your limit list are the activities which get a rise out of your crotch,then you are a fetishist not a submissive. A submissive will do things to please the one he serves even if they are not activities which arouse him,just for her,so keep that in mind when making up your list. Most importantly,relay your limits right off the bat..nothing worse than taking the time to create a task,only to find out that it will not be enacted due to it being off limits.
In the end it comes down to the right to say no,and you possess it just as I do :)
Thursday, March 3, 2016
permanent block
This is definitely not the day to come at me incorrectly. GODdess has been ill with bronchitis all week,which means that I possess even less patience for the usual slew of BS. You may be scratching your head asking why is she bringing this up,well it is due to the fact that a certain little cretin from months past came knocking at the door begging to serve me once again. Mind you that we did not part on the best of terms because of his behavior,and GODdess forgets nothing.
Now just to provide you a bit of insight into why his approaching me once again peeved me. To begin with he is needy as fuck,meaning all day long wanting attention,wanting cam,wanting notice. Needy is a big strike against a male under my heel. To compound the neediness he seen fit to tribute $25 every other week hmmm. Yes I realize that so many of you like to whine that findom should not be about the money,but fucking hello,it is about money,and if you are a little piece of offal who whines day in day out like a pig lead to slaughter,than you better be prepared to pay up for that behavior.
I relayed to this POS that I was ill,and out of patience,so what does he do. He asks me to watch him pray for me on cam. SERIOUSLY WTF!!! A decent male who truly desired to serve me would have sent a tribute and best wishes for my recovery,but instead the selfish turd asks for something from me.,and this is why he will never be allowed even into my inbox again. He are BLOCKED permanently!!
Learn from his mistakes gents. Do not center your "submissive" designs upon what pleases you first.
Now just to provide you a bit of insight into why his approaching me once again peeved me. To begin with he is needy as fuck,meaning all day long wanting attention,wanting cam,wanting notice. Needy is a big strike against a male under my heel. To compound the neediness he seen fit to tribute $25 every other week hmmm. Yes I realize that so many of you like to whine that findom should not be about the money,but fucking hello,it is about money,and if you are a little piece of offal who whines day in day out like a pig lead to slaughter,than you better be prepared to pay up for that behavior.
I relayed to this POS that I was ill,and out of patience,so what does he do. He asks me to watch him pray for me on cam. SERIOUSLY WTF!!! A decent male who truly desired to serve me would have sent a tribute and best wishes for my recovery,but instead the selfish turd asks for something from me.,and this is why he will never be allowed even into my inbox again. He are BLOCKED permanently!!
Learn from his mistakes gents. Do not center your "submissive" designs upon what pleases you first.
Tuesday, March 1, 2016
Delving into a dark hole
No ass play for me thanks. On a certain fetish site I see this listed as a number one interest over and over. It is an interest though that I refuse to indulge,in fact it is on my hard limits list,so why is it that I continue to get little open ass rats begging me for it?? Gents you seriously need to read profiles! Funny how it always comes back to that isn't it?
This is the only time I am going to go into an explanation upon this subject. I do NOT enjoy scat,nor scat play...and where does scat come from...nasty stank dark holes!! No matter how well you clean your bowels out,there will always be ecoli lurking in that area(freaking ick)! So..no I do not want any part of my body,nor my toys exploring that orifice. No pegging,no fisting,no shoving dildos up there,and not even a cactus lol.
The same applies to my person as well. No you will never get any part of your body near my GODdess booty,and that includes your face or tongue..so nopes,no facesitting and no rimming either. You do not deserve that intimacy. The entire tongue in ass thing gags me to no end. Just in case that was not crystal clear,NO HUMAN TOILETS EITHER!!!
For all you males attempting to sway me on the pegging point,I am not a male,nor do I possess an attached penis(don't want one either),so if you really want a hard one shoved where the sun don't shine,well then seek out another male,cause you are getting no where with me,other than on my shit list lol
Did I get my point across?? Hope so.
In conclusion: DON'T BEG ME TO PEG :)
This is the only time I am going to go into an explanation upon this subject. I do NOT enjoy scat,nor scat play...and where does scat come from...nasty stank dark holes!! No matter how well you clean your bowels out,there will always be ecoli lurking in that area(freaking ick)! So..no I do not want any part of my body,nor my toys exploring that orifice. No pegging,no fisting,no shoving dildos up there,and not even a cactus lol.
The same applies to my person as well. No you will never get any part of your body near my GODdess booty,and that includes your face or tongue..so nopes,no facesitting and no rimming either. You do not deserve that intimacy. The entire tongue in ass thing gags me to no end. Just in case that was not crystal clear,NO HUMAN TOILETS EITHER!!!
For all you males attempting to sway me on the pegging point,I am not a male,nor do I possess an attached penis(don't want one either),so if you really want a hard one shoved where the sun don't shine,well then seek out another male,cause you are getting no where with me,other than on my shit list lol
Did I get my point across?? Hope so.
In conclusion: DON'T BEG ME TO PEG :)
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