tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63755974826625356652024-02-19T04:21:10.278-06:00Chronicles of Sydney ClaireMusings of a Woman Without EqualSydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.comBlogger1236125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-67105925400191935412021-09-19T01:40:00.000-05:002021-09-19T01:40:27.346-05:00Scams, frauds, liars & losers<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJavhhmp246Kn8QhhupZ4trQAdLC-L4EjSnU9siDuPTgZMZnTOWjc3KCP28qJhkvPTRdgN7qA5zyemOhwY0s1yU4LGSxW3bffqWo2PjBdFZdOnQ6-5z9BSYBQ-_qpvtelHY-EmC9f_czHn/s1860/scamalert.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="838" data-original-width="1860" height="144" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJavhhmp246Kn8QhhupZ4trQAdLC-L4EjSnU9siDuPTgZMZnTOWjc3KCP28qJhkvPTRdgN7qA5zyemOhwY0s1yU4LGSxW3bffqWo2PjBdFZdOnQ6-5z9BSYBQ-_qpvtelHY-EmC9f_czHn/w448-h144/scamalert.png" width="448" /></a></div><p></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Welcome back Queens & Princesses, pervs, and peons</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Today we are going to revisit the who will, and who wont's when it comes to paying financial tribute. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Have you noticed the abundance of new names, and new faces in the <b>findom </b>field? I imagine that you have. Kinda hard to miss eh? Now most of us are aware that males have a proclivity towards changing names, avis, accounts, etc when they need to cover their dubious non-debt paying past behaviors. I mean, it gets rather difficult to successfully dangle carrots in front of a Domme's face when the entire community knows you for the scammer you are. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">I have noted tons of newer Ladies making the rounds with complaints of being scammed. This is unfortunately a never ending cycle for "newbies", as they have yet to have learned how best to avoid ever having their time put to less than optimal use when surfing for sugar pot submissives. That all changes today! I am going to share with you a tip which will change your interactions, save you time, effort, and headaches. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>STOP TALKING TO MALES WHO HAVE NOT PAID YOU!!!</b></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><u>That is the secret, and the winning strategy</u><b><u>.</u> </b></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Scammers employ all types of tricks to get you to waste some of your precious time on them. Such as</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>1</b>)Real Dommes do not charge (shame game countered with "If you were a real submissive, you would pay before approaching")<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>2)</b> If you really loved dominating men, you would do it for free (no sane person works for free, and yes domination is work)<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>3)</b> I need to get to know you before I pay you (blah blah blah BS, they can take the time to read your TL, and see your interactions for that)<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>4)</b> All you care about is the money (hint: It really is about the money)<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>5)</b> I need a pic or vid to prove that you are real before I pay (ha ha ha never give away free content...you should have plenty of free pics up on social media to begin with)<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>6)</b> I am going to get paid, have money coming, yada yada, will pay you when I get it (that day <b>NEVER</b> arrives)<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>7)</b> I sent you a gift from your WL, sent you a gc, bought a clip etc....(never play with any male until you can verify that they have parted with funds for your time)</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">I have been around this block for a long time, and I tell you now with all sincerity, I have never, and yes I mean never ever, had any male serve me for any length of time, that has not tributed up front. "Good boys" will <b>ALWAYS </b>tribute without being asked, forced, or coerced. They do so, because they recognize your superiority, and crave your acceptance & happiness above boner gratification. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">They want to contribute to your life in a meaningful way, and let's be honest here, money does make the world go round. Without money, life is a study in misery, so you tell me why you would spend a single moment of your precious time on a male who wants you to be miserable? </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Look at it logically, such as from a business standpoint. You have a minimal amount of product (your time), which means that your focus needs to be upon maximizing a return on your investment (your time), else you will be out of business sooner rather than later, once again miserable. Ladies who spend all of their time chasing the ganders which lay no eggs, end up burnt out, and broke. Is that the way you would like your story written? If not, then heed my advice</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>STOP TALKING TO MALES WHO HAVE NOT PAID YOU!!!</b> </span></span></i><br /></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-68950082528500699542021-06-22T11:39:00.002-05:002021-06-22T11:40:56.367-05:00Squash The Misogynistic Blame And Shame Game<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheywK47hwpNOGYMgr8cG4fCPB3xl-NDJ28yD9_otnFcxcexVwpCDulSSwCehHEkgb4HeyAJP7KGckmPxeQX3FSpMvnRSInww05HeU4d74oC56icbgv2X2LoLjauQp54Z-2oiK60L4Ipwmv/s300/shame-on-you.webp" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="223" data-original-width="300" height="223" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheywK47hwpNOGYMgr8cG4fCPB3xl-NDJ28yD9_otnFcxcexVwpCDulSSwCehHEkgb4HeyAJP7KGckmPxeQX3FSpMvnRSInww05HeU4d74oC56icbgv2X2LoLjauQp54Z-2oiK60L4Ipwmv/w515-h223/shame-on-you.webp" width="515" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p> </p><p> <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i>If you have been a member of social media longer than a hot minute, you will have at one point or another ran into conversations or notations concerning a site called Only Fans. I myself am not a member of the site, nor have I ever even browsed their site, but millions of people have, and do on the daily. It is a very successful website, that commands traffic like nobody's business. </i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> What makes this site successful, you ask? They sell a product which is almost older than time itself. SEX. Sex has always sold, and sex will always sell. There will be no stopping the revenue stream sex enables. Is this a bad thing? Some would argue so, whilst others would demand it continue as their right to pursue happiness. I will not muddy the waters with my own two cents as my purpose is to make you think, rather than telling you what to think.</i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> The website is comprised of independent artists who sell their wares, while the parent company enriches itself with a percentage of the profit. Capitalism at work my friends. Is this exploitation of a vulnerable class, or merely a symbiotically successful business venture? The artists who employ this site as a means of product distribution are noted to do so as consenting adults. This means that no one is forcing them to join, display, or sell their items on the site, which is good yes? This does not mean that some of the content creators have not been "forced" down this avenue out of desperation for means of survival, yet this remains a choice they themselves have made to ensure continued housing, and negate physical hunger. </i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> The majority of creators are of the female persuasion. Why do you think that is? Could it be due to the customer base being comprised of majority males? History has shown us that men are willing to pay for sex and pleasure in one form or another. This has always been true, and always will be true. </i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> I am reserving judgement here, but many aren't. In fact, quite a few are very vocal in regards to their distaste, disdain, and downright hatred of sites such as these. The most vehement critics I have taken note of, are male. Not to say that some women are not anti-porn peddlers, they are, but men are more vocal about their dislike. What is it about these sites that make a minority slice of men angry?<br /></i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> Who are these men? I am going to break it down to the reasoning voiced for the disturbance of the existence of said sites as a classifier. 1)It is immoral 2)It is indecent 3)It is a stain upon society 4)Women are whores 5)It is exploitation 6)It encourages and abets human trafficking 7)You shouldn't have to pay for porn, or feminine attention. Do you agree with any of these opinions? </i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> The outrage is real, folks. The focal point of the outrage is what bothers me though. Where is the focus spotlighted? Women. Women are the beings who bear the blame and shame. Look back to reason #4. Women are accused of taking advantage of lonely depressed males who do not have, or are not capable of forming "normal" intimate relationships with the opposite sex, which leads them to sites where women are readily available to fulfill their erotic fantasies, and provide them with a feeling of the intimacy they lack in real life. </i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> Men make a choice to visit these sites. They make a decision to spend their money on them as well. Who are we to declare these men victims, when they themselves have opted to walk this path? As well, what right do we have to blame women for selling these men a product that they obviously desire? Companies sell their products online daily, and no one complains, but since they are not selling sexual images, it is ok, right? Earning a living is what we as human beings have been indoctrinated to do, yet if it is done so in a proscribed manner (even if legal), than it is condemned, and the sellers scorned.</i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> The entirety of my issue with this conflict, is that women are being blamed and shamed, yet if men were not willing to purchase the content, then there would be no sellers. Supply and demand is very much the root origination of the sex work industry, so why are men not bearing the brunt of blame, when they are the ones enabling the continuation of women producing content?</i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> Thoughts, and opinions always welcomed.<br /></i></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><i> </i></span></span><br /></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-91270585429241904252021-04-16T07:13:00.000-05:002021-04-16T07:13:17.271-05:00What do men really want?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTJa8p7OTdKz0Ewayv55yOpelfRZ0q8m4eGmt4Err_lQ3MzeAtURdxvhoOs748QWLBCTDKwldhcll2_d1DjZZSIHKbEyQqaLAynW0ygXUOF-qojkHs4pFIkGmVpHSdNSTSfpK_pnhXYJ_7/s700/czna_81353_xxl.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="700" data-original-width="680" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTJa8p7OTdKz0Ewayv55yOpelfRZ0q8m4eGmt4Err_lQ3MzeAtURdxvhoOs748QWLBCTDKwldhcll2_d1DjZZSIHKbEyQqaLAynW0ygXUOF-qojkHs4pFIkGmVpHSdNSTSfpK_pnhXYJ_7/s320/czna_81353_xxl.webp" /></a></div> <i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">I am here to give you the unvarnished truth, as to what men really want. Some of you may be in doubt as to how would I know what men really want considering that I am not a man, nor am I am masculine leaning woman, but I do have decades of interacting with men on a more than superficial level, and yes I am dating myself by stating this.</span></i><p></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Most of us are guilty of buying into the prevalent myth of men valuing sex above all things. I am not denying that sex is high on the list for men, but it does not rank the highest. You might even be surprised as to what does stand atop the pinnacle. Ready?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><b>Intimacy of interaction</b>: Men want an intimate connection, just as badly as women do, and no this does not make them weak, or Lord forbid, unmanly. It merely makes them human. Human beings need connections. They need to be heard, seen, and valued. They want a woman who will acknowledge their existence on an emotional level.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">No doubt you have been told that men are rough, tough, and need no one to stand by them, but that is a lie. Of course it is not a bad thing to be rough, tough, and stoic in the face of adversity, but in the end, men are human beings, with human needs. They possess a desire to be validated for their opinions, dreams, and desires. The most basic of which, is someone who will listen to them. A person who will allow them to crack their shell, and let out their vulnerabilities. </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">As a woman, I have never been shamed for wanting, nay, needing a deeper connection with a fellow human being. I have always been free to express my innermost thoughts, doubts, and fears without being mocked, or labeled weak for doing so. This is what men want most of all. They want someone they can freely be open with. Imagine living your entire life never being able to be fully yourself. Having to hide your emotions from the world. Sound like a fulfilling life to you?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Not having this avenue open to men, leads them down a dead end path. This is why you see so many men reaching out with their penis, rather than with emotional intellect. Sad yes? I for one am full up with compassion for these men. They have been misled from the onset, then as further insult, they have been molded into a caricature of unhealthy manhood. They deserve better than they have received. Trying to convince them to veer from this course is the greatest of obstacles to be overcome though. Are you up to the challenge? <br /></span></i></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-17876821504414764292021-04-05T00:00:00.000-05:002021-04-05T00:00:43.480-05:00Time Managament In Relation To Relationships<p> <i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">Whether you are new here, or a faithful follower, welcome to my personal slice of the web sphere.</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></span></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkTgUg_uudNBAJDwSV0aKnXqsvZxtKqcoWcfUSswCSqPFBajOUXQ7_lBTpFC7t3fs68MXD6eZI7TR5z1f-Z8xzJtJJkJPJYe2nQs7AnaHLdxCN5tIV2xXXbz9pWkf2ImLMjHfkTmnZhiV0/s852/10.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="852" height="237" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkTgUg_uudNBAJDwSV0aKnXqsvZxtKqcoWcfUSswCSqPFBajOUXQ7_lBTpFC7t3fs68MXD6eZI7TR5z1f-Z8xzJtJJkJPJYe2nQs7AnaHLdxCN5tIV2xXXbz9pWkf2ImLMjHfkTmnZhiV0/w577-h237/10.webp" width="577" /></a></span></span></i></div><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br /> </span></span></i><p></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Life is a busy venture these days. From the mailman to the fortune 500 CEO, life's schedule never seems to just take a moment to breathe. It is a go go go world. So much to see, so much to do, and the hours in a day fail to provide adequate time to get your to do list completed as it is. Most days you find yourself to be the proverbial dog chasing it's own tail, having it in sight, but never grasping it, and always worn out from trying.<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"> Is it any wonder that people are short-tempered with a priority focus upon self these days? Their worlds narrowed down to a single sphere of influence. Understandably even the most evenly keeled being eventually devolves into a frazzled burnt out mess when piled under the weight of life's responsibilities. You are not alone facing this issue. People from all walks of life undergo this struggle each and every day.<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">What is surprising is the relationship most often relegated to the "pay attention to later" box, is personal relationships of the most intimate nature. You naturally expect that the people who matter the most to you will be content to wait for you to spare some of your priceless time to share with them. I mean, surely they understand just how busy your life is, right? This is a major mistake on your part. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">The people that we are closest to, need our attention more than any other in our lives. They deserve to be recognized, and treated as of importance. They should not be made to suffer your neglect, simply because you have not learned to manage your time wisely. Time management is more important than you realize, and more costly if you fail to learn it.<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">Managing your time wisely, allows for you to spend more quality time with those who matter the most. Never assume that others are putting their lives on hold to wait for you to notice them. Neglect has been the downfall of many a relationship. Don't lose out due to what could have been avoided. Regrets leave a lifelong foul taste in one's mouth.</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">Did you know that it takes less than a single minute to send a text message? Were you aware that it takes approximately the same amount of time to send a pm/dm on social media, or post to facebook? It might even cost you an entire 2 minutes to type up an email. The point being, that it requires minimal effort, and time to show someone that they matter to you, and that you were thinking of them. Do you have 2 spare minutes within your 24 hour day? Don't fib either. </span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">A mere 2 minutes to make a connection. How easy is that? Do it during your bathroom break if you have to, but just do it. Don't be the dud who ends up alone and miserable with nothing but broken and severed connections because you chose everything else over developing and securing your intimate relationships. What a miserable life that would be.<br /></span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;">Intellectually we all know that our parents will not be around the entirety of our lives, that friends will relocate, and even the most dedicated partner will divorce themselves from you if you fail to put continued effort into the relationship, so look hard, and find that 2 minutes. I promise that you will not regret it!</span></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></span></i></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-73810677837314706482020-12-06T01:11:00.000-06:002020-12-06T01:11:06.110-06:00Social Media Sanity Killer or Savior<p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">Welcome to all whom have found their way here :)</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"></span></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMkM3KYdBUkC0cCZPQXxDJr6CSnb7uiUaksYp3Wx8m2wdKUQiizfFUYF08O2nXGdyQ8pOaLTl7Ssnnt3MHxFwORwO46DPvzZgPVObHovNbNX5yC74D0wZ5b5JKmjFIqaEzi09sxFI4pbDX/s1024/F026FA81-9AAA-4A37-982B-7392294BA6D5.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1024" data-original-width="1024" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMkM3KYdBUkC0cCZPQXxDJr6CSnb7uiUaksYp3Wx8m2wdKUQiizfFUYF08O2nXGdyQ8pOaLTl7Ssnnt3MHxFwORwO46DPvzZgPVObHovNbNX5yC74D0wZ5b5JKmjFIqaEzi09sxFI4pbDX/s320/F026FA81-9AAA-4A37-982B-7392294BA6D5.png" /></a></span></i></div><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"><br /> </span></i><p></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> Do you have social media accounts? I can name maybe only a couple handful of people within my acquaintance who don't have one. Even most elderly folks these days are connected to atleast facebook. It truly is a rare feat not to be present upon one. I honestly commend those who have disconnected from the fray of it all. I believe that life sans the internet is one lived with a simplicity quite foreign to the majority. Can you imagine your day without it? No morning texts, or checking in to get your daily dose of news. Could you even last a single day without your fix? </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> Sometimes I do disconnect for a day. It is crucial to my state of mind. I mean seriously, the prevailing news segments are dreary, disappointing, and even downright depressing. What sane being wants to endlessly mire themselves within the muck of our society today? Count me out. When I began taking time away from the internet, I found it difficult not to just sneak a peek periodically throughout the day, but over time, I found that I was able to step away completely without any problem. Time away helped me to relax and enjoy my life as it is intended to be. It forced me to actually interact with people in a meaningful way. Instead of sending a quick text or typing up a two line email, I picked up my corded phone and called them, or got off my ever spreading buttocks, and went to visit in person. A blast from the past concept, but one that I have come to treasure. Making real contact with my friends and family has altered the way I engage online now. I am way more open to interacting with people that I once may have shrugged off. Not that engaging with any and everyone is a good idea, because believe me, it isn't. There are alot of toxic souls surfing the world wide net hoping to drag someone down to their level of discontent, and you do not want to be the one they happen upon. </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> Social media sites harbor so much anger at present, whether it be political opposing forces or religious stance arguments. People can quite easily become cancelled for "wrong think", and even doxxed, which is a disgustingly vile act of treachery. We used to enjoy a semblance of free speech in this country, but that has apparently been swept aside in the tide of pc demand. I personally do not believe that it has been a strength, in fact it rather reminds me of a certain political figure who enacted the same measures to gain the compliance of "group think". Communism and it's results ain't pretty, folks. Never forget to mind your P's and Q's, lest you find yourself locked out of your accounts, and that is all I am going to say about it at the moment.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> A question for you my dear readers, why are you on social media?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">1) Are you seeking out like minded people?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">2) Are you building a brand? </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">3) Are you just a horny dude looking for his porn fix? </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">4) Are you lonely and depressed hoping to find a friend who will provide a ray of light?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">5) Are you looking for a date, hook up, or maybe a lasting love? </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">6) Are you only using it to keep up with family and friends?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;">7) Are you online just to look at cute animal pics (I am guilty of doing this)<br /></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> Social media can be a wonderful tool if used correctly. It can connect you with locals who enjoy the same things you do. It can spread the word of a business you are trying to get off the ground. It can lead you to possible job opportunities. It can help cleave the distance between you and loved ones living miles apart. It can help you find friends, and yes it can even bring you all the visuals you need to archive as wank spank material lol. As to locating a date, yup, plenty of those sites to be found, but true love matches online might be a task that you will have to work harder at. In regards to finding cute animal pics...you are in for a treat of adorableness overload!</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> Social media can also be a weapon. I mentioned the cancelling and doxxing above, but there are stalkers, harassers, and straight out predators lurking online too. There are miserable people who will attempt to humiliate and degrade you for everything from your appearance, your sex, your race all the way to your home, children, religion, and politics. All of these things you must be aware of. It is up to you to navigate the sea of social media safely.<br /></span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-family: Raleway;"> My advice to you though, is to not believe everything you see online (be willing to research for the truth), to not take the internet too seriously (it isn't real life) to maintain your personal privacy (do not give out your name and address to internet folks) to take a day off every now and then (to actually see what real life is all about) and lastly, trust your instincts about random peeps. Stay and play safe everyone.</span></i> <br /></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-59601638932847627602020-11-01T01:16:00.001-06:002020-11-01T01:16:14.949-06:00Attention attention attention<p> <i><span style="font-size: large;">Just as the title suggests, the majority of people in society today have this ingrained desire to obtain attention. Attention that in a sense becomes like a drug of choice in a junky world. People crave attention. They simply have to have it. They feel at an absolute loss when they are not receiving it. Does this stem from not receiving enough or maybe even too much attention from parental figures? Perhaps it has arisen from the fact that not everyone can be a winner at all of the races they enter, yet we are told that everyone is a winner for simply showing up. Society did us zero favors when they began to hand out participation trophy " feel goods". Certainty is knowing realistically that you will not win every race, contest etc. You will not always be THE best at everything. You will fail, you will lose. You will not reign as the center of attention upon a world-wide dais. Stop putting that weight upon your shoulders.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i></p><p><i></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKLTGjhO4a5umnFarrzZcP4tj46jPFk4TJ8nouQE6wZ4pMpWw-Fm758gPyWhg-XVCwNPbrPrU3DfNZTyjQDOlv12m_cCQjcxo3eRhK0P6UEuIKl1jkjdh56qQNGIVvLTSQhx-AmxepVMXX/s532/despseekatten.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="532" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKLTGjhO4a5umnFarrzZcP4tj46jPFk4TJ8nouQE6wZ4pMpWw-Fm758gPyWhg-XVCwNPbrPrU3DfNZTyjQDOlv12m_cCQjcxo3eRhK0P6UEuIKl1jkjdh56qQNGIVvLTSQhx-AmxepVMXX/s320/despseekatten.jpg" /></a></i></div><i><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></i><p></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;">Human beings will plumb to unbelievable depths to achieve notice. They will take risks with disastrous consequences for a single ounce of notoriety. I am talking way beyond the John Cusack "say anything" ploy. I mean, have you read any of the stories where instagram influencers died while attempting to take or feature in dangerous photo shoots? Why would they opt in to such situations? Attention. They wanted, needed, had to have the dopamine rush of likes, loves, follows, retweets. The notification button lighting up like a Christmas tree was their high. Even if in an insignificant way, aren't we all like that?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;">Think about it. If you create a post on social media which receives no loves or likes, are you not then disappointed, and wondering why no one likes you? Does it depress you to see others with ten times the followers you have? Do you feel like an utter loser in life for not receiving the attention you believe yourself entitled to? The attention that so many others are "blessed" with.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;">Is social media attention really a blessing? I believe that in many ways, it can be more of a curse. It becomes pretty much a full time job trying to keep it once you secure it. You will have expectations, and labels attached to yourself. Expectations which become quite difficult to meet. No one person I have ever known in life is happy, upbeat, epitomizing joie de vie twenty-four seven. Human beings have episodes of happiness, moments of despair, unbelievable highs, and desolate lows. Such is life. Life becomes a study in anxiety and misery though when you are constantly playing a role which does not suit every facet of your personality. Attempts to achieve social media "celebrity" status most often parlays itself into a downward spiral of depression. Is that how you want to live your life? Does it sound glamorous? Does it appear fulfilling?</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;">Of course for those looking in through the window, it can seem like the world would be a dream come true to live if only you could get those likes, those all important loves, but I am here to tell you, that life without the frenzied activity of seeking attention is a good life on its own.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-size: large;">You are good enough. Your life does matter. Liking, and loving yourself far exceeds what utter strangers think of your life. This is what you need to learn. The strong do not sit and worry about what other people think of them, nor do they fixate upon the judgement of those who have not walked in their shoes. Cease allowing those unknown to dictate your behavior, your mindset, your very course in life. Start seeing that your approval, and your acceptance is ALL you need.</span><br /></i></p>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-92098943503013945582020-05-15T02:47:00.000-05:002020-05-15T02:47:35.016-05:00Be a simping syndrone for Sydney Claire<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i> Good morning to all</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>I do not read emails which lack an attached amazon gift card, nor do I ever open photos sent via messenger from those who are not in service to me.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>1)I need not fear wasting time, for if an individual was truly interested in serving me, than they would have sent a tribute along with their missive, and no there is never a valid excuse as to not send tribute when contacting me. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>2)Every single time I have ever received a photo from a non-serving person, it was a pecker pic, and the world would be a better place without that imagery. Besides, it saves me more money than geico since I need not invest in eye bleach :)</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>I realize that it irks some of you that I never read your messages, but in my estimation, you wasting your time rather than mine is a net positive for me. Besides, I have heard enough lame ass excuses for not tributing to last a lifetime. Not to mention that I am a much nicer person when not plagued with saggy balls, dirty dick pics.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>I have no idea why some of you act under the false premise that you can shame me into talking to you, reading your dm's, or peeking at your sent photos sans tribute. It will not work. I do not feel bad for ignoring you, nor do I think that I owe you even a moment of my time. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>I am active on social media, and I do post blogs when I feel like it...and last I checked, I have put up over a thousand of them, so if you are hankering to know me, feel me out, or get a general idea if you want to serve as my <u>syndrone</u>, I have provided you with the means of making your decision. It simply requires a bit of effort on your end. You aren't afraid of a little effort expenditure now are you? </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Good good good....hope to read your email soon little simp :)</i></span></span><br />
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<br />Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-58820981678806681292020-05-14T14:20:00.000-05:002020-05-15T02:48:32.390-05:00Syndrones unite<i><span style="font-size: large;">Hello hello hello</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">It has been like a month of Sundays since last I posted here...</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Life has been like an undertow which tumbled me under, and finally spit me back out a little bruised.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Have you missed me my flock of syndrones? Undoubtedly so ;></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">What crazy unforeseen times we are living in is it not? How has your life altered under the quarantine regime? Have you put good use to your confinement? From the lack of appreciation tributes sitting in my inbox, I would judge that you weren't very productive at all. You can rectify that though by sending a lovely little gift card today to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">At the moment I am seeking out a day trip location where I can safely away from the public eye tie my brat boy to a tree and torment him at my leisure lol, and before you ask, yes he is the only boy I am playing with real time. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Why is he the only one? The answer is simple, yet complicated. Real time is a commitment which I do not lightly undertake. It is so very intimate since I am allowing someone else into my personal space. It requires a high amount of trust, and the rest of you have not earned that honor. Of course the majority of you aren't even seeking out real time, for your goal is a quick and nasty online romp towards a single course crashing crescendo skin flute concerto, which is all fine and good if you were interacting with a woman who cared to offer that service....alas I am not that woman.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Over the years of my online presence, so many of you wandering wanks have attempted to sway me from my outlined course and met with failure, yet you keep trying. I do admit to admiring your persistence, even though the odds are not in your favor. If your intent is to serve as a syndrone, than you must meet my requirements for service.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">1)You must serve online for a period of no less than 3 months</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">*consistent financial tributes are required during this time* </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">2)You must maintain contact daily</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">*I will not chase you down*</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">3)You must display dedication, devotion, and build trust</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">*these things take time* </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Sounds easy, yes? It honestly is, but cum and dumps always fail. You will never pass the test if your expectations are to jizz and jet. Keep that in mind.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">All of this being said, I am open to testing the waters with prospective servants for service as a loyal syndrone. Apply with tribute attached. </span></i><br />
Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-87909546272913123482020-02-07T09:09:00.001-06:002020-02-07T09:09:36.709-06:00Truth remains the same<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Welcome all to the ultra exciting and sometimes exasperating world and words of Sydney Claire</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Why is our world such an angry place?</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i> <u><b>TRUTH</b></u></i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i> Have you ever noticed how people react when they are confronted with a truth which they disagree with, or outright disbelieve? Anger, anger, anger, and on occasion you will see them resort to violence. Violence as a response to the words or opinions of another human being is NEVER acceptable in a polite society, which we claim to be, yet one only needs to seek out social media news to view the proof of how individuals become almost feral in behavior when THE TRUTH is not their truth. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>I myself understand how the truth can be uncomfortable or even painful at times, but come on folks, we would do better to venture out from our selective echo chambers, than to allow ourselves to go along with false pretenses for the sake of getting along or fitting in with brain dead duds. Your best chance at success in life as an individual involves being able to think for yourself, and form independent opinions. Critical thinking is a positive here, peeps. Embrace truth regardless of how it makes you feel, for the truth cares nothing about your feelings. It simply is.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i><b> <u>A list of truths</u></b></i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*Not all men are trash</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*Not all women tell the truth</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*Science is real</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*The media misleads</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*Politicians and governments lie</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*meat is good for you</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*high fructose corn syrup is poison</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*you can be pro-life and pro death penalty</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*Trump is your president</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>*socialism is suicide</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>I could go on and on, but I will spare you today :)</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>The question I pose is, did any of the outlined truths make you angry? If so, why? My intent here is to make you think.</i></span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i> Truth
hurts (I know), but whether you like, love, agree, or disagree...truth is always
truth, and your preferred truth is not going to change that fact.</i></span></span> I invite and implore you to explore the basis of your anger, in order to solve or resolve the negativity within the equation. Anger is not the way forward.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i> </i></span></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-26114832721047190332020-01-31T08:06:00.000-06:002020-01-31T08:06:55.323-06:00Sex work shame<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Welcome to the glamorously seedy slice of Sydney Claire.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Sex workers is an umbrella term which many shelter under.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-cam girl</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-Dominatrix </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-escort</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-prostitute</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-phone sex operator</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-clip producer</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-porn star</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-premium snap chat sellers</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-strippers</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-nude models</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Long list huh? </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Sex workers are walking down the sidewalk beside you. They are dining in your restaurants, sleeping in your hotels, shopping in the grocery store with you. Your typical sex worker looks just like any other woman you see out and about. I have not seen a single one wearing a scarlet letter, or holding up a sign proclaiming her occupation while out just living life.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Sex workers are highly disdained by the general public men and women alike. Sex workers are considered unclean & immoral and as such are stigmatized. They are banned from payment sites, and websites. Some are even shunned by family members. Does this sound like the recipe of a happy life?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">There are a variety of reasons why women engage in sex work, and despite what the main stream media declares, the overwhelming majority of these women have not been forced into the lifestyle via trafficking. Some need the money gained from sex work to survive, whilst others thrive upon the sexual excitement of sex work. Regardless of the reason, these women do not deserve the less than humane treatment they receive from a judgemental society.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Sex workers are shamed and blamed for all sorts of issues. They are accused of being the harbingers of disease, and divorce, yet this is a lie. Did you know that sex workers are tested for stds at a higher rate than the general public? Sure, you are thinking that they must due to their "risky" lifestyle, yet you have thousands of ordinary people walking around untested & infected, but hey, atleast they aren't sex workers!! In regards to being the root cause of divorce, they are not the married man stepping out. They are not the husband spending hard earned dollars to bust a nut. They are not the men ignoring their relationships in favor of peeking at porn. Hold men accountable for their actions, instead of blaming sex workers for providing a service.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">It is entirely too easy to blame ills at the feet of sex workers, and I am absolutely not absolving them as an entirety, for they are flawed human beings just like the rest of humanity, but I am calling foul to the world of sin setting upon their shoulders.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Why do people blame the sex worker, but not the customer/consumer? You do realize that without a market, sex workers would not exist yes? Think of it like this. If ALL men stopped frequenting strip clubs, would those clubs remain in business? If ALL men stopped clicking on porn hub, would they go under financially? This is simple truth. Sex workers exist because of a demand for their existence. They serve a purpose, so unless you are actively shaming, shunning, and imprisoning the very market which keeps them in business, shut up!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-8838887483649553682020-01-17T01:09:00.000-06:002020-01-17T01:09:18.884-06:00Always a reason for Tribute treason<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Hello hello hello...and welcome to the sanctum of Sydney Claire!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Some of you gents need to seriously reconsider your actions, or lack thereof when it comes to serving dominant Women. Ya ya ya I know that some of you are brand spanking new to the scene, but sometimes you just got to learn the hard way, and that most often is the wrong way on a one way street.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The main subject of discussion here is TRIBUTE. If you are ill educated upon the subject of tributing in a Financial Domination sense, than you can quick and easy google for the answer :) Go ahead and do that for me right now, so that I will know that you are up to speed. Done?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><u>Progressing.</u> </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Do you know how many excuses I have been given for not being able to tribute? Take a guess....WRONG! Try again, only add in a couple of zeros to the equation. Do you know what excuses are? They are falsified reasons losers and liars toss about. Are you a liar or loser? If so, than stop, do not pass go, and get out of here NOW. I have done my time on sucker skidrow, and paid my listening to lying "paypig" dues.</span></span><br />
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<u><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Onward.</span></span></u><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There are zero, and I do mean <span style="color: red;"><u>zero</u></span> legitimate reasons not to tribute a Woman. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I get it, and I imagine that most Women comprehend that the majority of males in the findom fetish are not on par with Daddy Warbucks when it comes to disposable income, but you can still contribute financially towards the lifestyle of a Lady. Now if you are sitting there, and can say in all honesty that you cannot invest a single cent in the relationship, well than I would advise you to exit behind the liars and losers, cause you are of zero value in a Financial Domination power exchange. Net negatives are a drain of time and valuable feminine resources.</span></span><br />
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<u><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Forward.</span></span></u><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you fear tributing because of</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1)past negative treatment</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">2)uncertainty if She is the one(need to get to know her)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3)being scammed or ghosted</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><b>Solution</b>: Sit back quietly without contacting Her at all. Study Her social media to ascertain if She is the one you want to serve. Then proceed with tribute.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Your initial tribute doesn't have to break your bank account, but nor should it be insulting either. Figure in what you would spend if you were taking Her out to a nice dinner (not a fast food joint) and send that amount. Once sent, never forget that tribute is a gift. It is not a payment for services expected. You are not owed a single second of Her time for that money, but most likely you will receive a response, and the chance to speak with Her, which is most definitely a reward worth chasing.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tribute is the platform which springs you into Her orbit of notice, rather than as a right of entitlement. Financially investing in the relationship displays your intent to provide for Her physical comfort, and since providing is already embedded in your dna, tributing is a given :) No need to fear it, or make up excuses to get out of it. You are definitely not going to get anywhere in findom without it, because as I stated previously, we have heard every excuse, so you are not going to get a foot in the door if you lead like that. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Take pride in the act of giving. You are enhancing Her level of happiness, and serving Her interests, which should be the goal of every single submissive boy and girl. You want to be a good little subby, yes? Of course you do :) All it requires is an open mind, heart, and wallet/pocketbook. You can do this. I believe in you, so get out there and send a tribute today!!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-74486432516288967362020-01-01T04:14:00.000-06:002020-01-01T04:14:29.110-06:00New Year's Resolution<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Hip hip hooray...it is New Year's Day, and here you are celebrating the changing of a decade with the divinely celestial Sydney Claire :)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I wonder how many of my faithful readers made the obligatory New Year's resolution. Did you? It seems to me as if there are recurring themes to the annual promises. Such as, <span style="color: red;">health, wealth, or happiness</span>. Does that sound about spot on to you?</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I myself, made no resolutions. Resolutions tend to be exhaustively huge life changes, which are statistically bound for failure, unless you are one of the scant few who actually successfully holds up your end. Have you made resolutions which failed? If so, why do you believe that they bombed?</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">In my opinion, people tend to reach entirely too high and too fast when making resolutions. They place unrealistic expectations upon themselves, and that leads to failure, which creates self-directed unhappiness, depression, and even anger. People in general would benefit more from making more easily attainable short term resolutions.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">*Say you want to lose 50lbs. Well than, instead of saying "I am going to lose 50lbs this year", begin small by vowing to</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">cut back on eating out</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">or </span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">fast 1 day per week</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">or </span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">drink an additional 8oz of water daily</span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Any one of these alterations may very well enable you to lose 1lb per week. Add that up, and voila bb!! </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Do you see the point I am directing you towards? If you keep the step short, you are far more likely to climb it!</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">*You want to save up money for a luxury item</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">cut back on eating out</span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">fast 1 day per week</span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">-<span style="color: red;">drink water instead of coffee and soda</span></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Now take the money you would have spent on these items, and piggy bank it til you have enough to treat yourself to the desired item :)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I honestly want to see people succeed, but to do so, we must first acknowledge that we are the ones preventing it from happening, and actively seek to help ourselves reach the goals we set. It feels so good to achieve positive changes in our lives, and we all know that there is a strong correlation between positivity and happiness, which is the ultimate goal, yes? It definitely is for me. </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Wishing you all success and happiness in this coming year!</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span></span></i>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-11141741733468062562019-12-26T14:37:00.000-06:002019-12-26T14:37:04.736-06:00Useless endeavors in social media<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Welcome all to the thought provoking posts of Sydney Claire!</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Towards the end of the year, it is only natural for one to take stock of both the success and failures of effort expended throughout the year. This allows for a being to plan out their course of action for the following year, and I differ from none in this task. It is a positive step towards managing your life.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">What has become glaringly obvious to even an untrained eye, is that I have had minimal, and by minimal I mean almost non-existent success in reaching and securing servitude from submissives through my social media endeavors this past year. Nary a single tribute hit my inbox for my birthday, nor Christmas, and this is the most telling data of all. Online submissives without doubt had zero concerns or cares about my personal happiness or comfort. What does this mean for me though?</span></span></i><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000;"><u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1)It means that I will no longer seek out submission online.</span></span></i></b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000;"><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><u>2)I will no longer entertain private conversation on social media sites with submissives claiming that they want to serve me. (My Dm's will be closed to all but those whom I follow)</u></span></span></i></b></span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000;"><u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3)My posts will now reflect more of my well rounded personality, rather than being fetish specific.</span></span></i></b></u></span><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">By no means is this a "woe is me" blog post. I am not depressed, angered, nor surprised a single bit. Fetish has quickly evolved into a customer service business, and since I do not sell goods, I was bound to feel the sting. Knowing the facts, does not change my stance though. It is far better for me to have no servants under my heel if the only ones in the market are the self serving vermin which I see peppering the landscape with their selfish stench. </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My decision actually fills me with a sense of empowerment as a woman. I need no longer fret over each and every post I make in regards to whether it will appeal to male specimens. I can leave off with sexual innuendos, and just be ME. The concern of whether I am sexy enough, thin enough, young enough etc... has vanished. I am free to be bluntly honest in my speech, and even cruel when warranted without remorse.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I no longer have to care about a brand or keeping up appearances. It is far more liberating than you would ever believe!</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This does not mean that I am ghosting social media. I intend to continue blogging, and posting my thoughts and opinions on all things fetish. It simply frees me from caring whether my voice is popular with men. I am actually smiling, and humming a happy tune as I type this up :)</span></span></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>It is purported to be the most joyous time of the year, yet for many of you beta flops, it is the season of despair, for you are once again glaringly reminded of your failure to secure any type of meaningful connection with a woman to share the holidays with. You have fallen short of the goal, but than that is nothing new for you, now is it lol.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>So here you are scouring the internet looking for your next masturbation mash up fix, hoping it will fill that black hole of a void you call a life with a few seconds of hand humping happiness. Utterly pathetic aren't you... This behavior is just one of the many things that sets you apart from real men. </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>You on the other hand, cannot even get the notice of a woman without paying her to pay attention to you, and that is what you crave most isn't it? You want attention. Someone to validate your less than stellar existence. Like a puppy begging for petting, only in your case the tail wagging is your pecker. Unfortunately for you, puppies are cute, your dick is not. No woman wants to pet it. Neener neener neener, no woman wants your weiner!!</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Aww how sad a specimen of manhood you are. You want want want, yet you are denied denied denied. How does that feel? Are you ready to admit that you are not worthy of any woman, that you will never hold a special place in a woman's heart? Good, now you are ready to accept your intended purpose. </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Yours is not the destiny to get the girl, but instead to serve the woman. Your mission is to make yourself useful to a woman. Your worth in a woman's life hinges upon your ability to manifest her material wants. If you refuse to do so, than you will be forever barred from any type of feminine attention. Women have no use for broke or miserly men. Such males should be consigned to living in hovels far away from the sight of women. They are ill suited to walk in a woman's world.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>You on the other hand, if useful with a willing and wide open wallet, could be allowed to dwell on the outskirts of a woman's world. At last, you would find a place where you belong. You want to belong don't you? You want, but deserve no more than minute morsels of attention from a woman, and this is the only way you are going to get it. </b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Now get your wanking hand off your puny piece of penis, and get to pleasing a woman by sending her gifts :) You will find ultimate unending pleasure in giving, and pleasure is what you came here for isn't it...</b></span></span><br />
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Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-54944688667108809252019-11-04T08:56:00.000-06:002019-11-04T08:56:00.615-06:00When less is really more<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hello and welcome to all who come to serve the will of Sydney Claire, or merely to absorb my words of wisdom.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">No doubt that we have all heard that old saying about "less is more", but the only time I ever heard it applied was when referencing makeup, and I am definitely not here to discuss cosmetics lol.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">When I say less is more, I am employing the statement to signify that more followers, more likes, more retweets, more fans, more admirers, more slaves does not mean more success, more happiness, more money. I have seen social media accounts with thousands of fans and followers, yet beyond minimal engagement rates, and even less financial remuneration for time invested. In those cases, more is not more in a tangible sense, and it certainly does not produce that giddy dopamine rush. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I personally do not fixate on follower count, or even likes. My posts are not intended to resonate with the majority of social media users. In fact, my aim is narrowly fixed upon a scant few.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Of course I could share provocative imagery in order to increase my reach, but I would not be able to maintain the interest of those drawn in, for it goes against my nature. If in doubt, take a peek at the number of likes and shares a photo of a woman's bare ass, breasts, or vagina receives. Yes sex sells, and it always will. In this instance less clothing does equal more engagement. Therefore an astute businesswoman would use her sex to her advantage, and honestly could you fault her? Some would and do, but the lack of a man's will power will never be the blame of a woman, as it is entirely at a man's discretion whether or not to succumb or deny the lure of feminine flesh. Which means that the men you see falling for fetish, should not be pitied or provided victim status, as they are cognizant and consenting.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Having fewer followers, and following fewer people allows me to enjoy my online experience more by providing a less cluttered TL, and increasing my engagement rate, as I am only following people who interest, challenge, and inspire me. This is a positive. Less equals more engagement, more room for growth, more contentment in my interactions.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I realize that not everyone is going to concur with my assessment, and that is ok, cause we all are allowed our own opinions :) It is fun though to share my thoughts, views etc...just to see if they resonate with my audience. Feel free to share your thoughts on the subject in the comment section! </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Did you know that violence against women worldwide is on the rise? This is unacceptable! Men need to be taught that respect for a woman's person is a requirement rather than an option such as my little SYNDONES are taught. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Being a syndrone makes you an all around better man, and asset to society at large. Syndrones are respectful to ALL women regardless of their station or circumstances. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">They are so utterly obsessed with all things Sydney Claire that they do not even think of other women. They devote their very lives to living up to her standards of behavior, which makes them the safest men to be around. Isn't it wonderful knowing that men such as this exist? Wouldn't you like to be such a man?</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Serving Sydney Claire is the opportunity of a lifetime for a man such as yourself, and that is why you offer up your very best to her. Sending her your tithe creates this warm feeling in the pit of your being, because you know that it is the right thing to do. Sacrificing for her is your sex. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You begin to spend all of your time away from work, sitting at the computer drinking her words in...allowing them to seep into your brain bit by bit til they consume you entirely. You want to be consumed by her. You want her to take over your life. She is so much smarter and wiser than you. She knows best, and you realize that her way is the way you want to live. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lose yourself in Sydney Claire. She will remake you into the perfect syndrone. Invading your mind word by word, day by day til you are reborn as her syndrone. This is the life that men across the continents dream of living. The envy of all other men who fail to measure up to her exacting standards. You want them to envy you. You want them to see that you are better than them, that you are smarter than them for choosing to give up your old life, and devote your new one to Sydney Claire.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sydney Claire is the fire by which you warm yourself. She is your light in the dark, whilst all others who she has turned away, are left bereft of her in their cold little lives. They are useless, and scorned. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You want to be one of her chosen ones. That is why you seek her out day and day. Eating up her every word on social media til you cannot resist any longer. You must serve her will. It is the only way for you. You are ready to take the leap.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Come feel her pleasure as you send tribute day after day. It is the very least you can do for her. Your tribute is your gratitude for her existence. You are so very grateful for Sydney Claire. Show her your gratitude. Show her your appreciation. You are ready to send. No hesitation, no reasons for delay. Send it silently to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com </span></i>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-41315405926747246912019-10-21T06:27:00.000-05:002019-10-21T06:27:32.912-05:00Selfish men don't serve<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Hello and welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire. Home of <span style="color: #990000;"><u>SynAddiction</u></span> addicts :)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The title of this post truly says it all. It conveys truth to all who see it. </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This post can be used as educational material for women, as well as shining a reflection of selfishness upon males who engage in the behavior I am prepared to share with you.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Selfish males are no stranger to fetish. In fact they comprise the majority of males in the scene.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Is selfishness ok? Is it excusable behavior for males? The answer is not so very simple, but I will endeavor to simplify it for you.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Males possess many reasons why they enter the scene, and yes the greater part of them are steeped in selfishness.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1)<span style="color: #990000;"><u>They are here to sate their sexual desires.</u></span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This is their only interest, and the driving motivation behind their every action. They will act in any way, speak every word, and even downright deceive to achieve their goal. To these men, women are no more than mere objects. Tools which aid them in orchestrating an orgasm. Online females are not real to them. The women they interact with serve only 1 purpose, and are forgotten quicker than the cum dries. Is this harsh? It is unforgivable? Truth be known, it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change these men for the better of mankind, so please do not waste energy and effort attempting to do so. </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I am not declaring these males are "bad" men per se. In fact, they may very well be wonderful husbands, commendable fathers, admirable sons, exemplary employees, but online they are just another user. A user out to get his fix, and should be treated as such. Kindness is wasted upon them. Show them none. They either pay for your time or product, or you freeze them out of your business domain. They are unworthy of you, and refusing to pay, is disrespect in the highest.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This type tends to be the one who has every excuse in the book to not pay tribute.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">a)<span style="color: #990000;">he is broke til payday</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">b)<span style="color: #990000;">he is a poor student</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">c)<span style="color: #990000;">he is married, and cannot risk his wife seeing money missing</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">d)<span style="color: #990000;">he doesn't have a credit card</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">e)<span style="color: #990000;">paying tribute cheapens the experience</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">f)<span style="color: #990000;">real Dommes dominate for free lmao</span> </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There are plenty of these men who do pay. Not tribute though. They pay for a service. They buy clips, sessions, used items etc.. These males are good for business, but bad for actual service. Trying to turn them into your devoted selfless slave is not a viable option. Use them, drain them, and discard them like toilet tissue til the next time they come sniffing at your feet. Save your energy for those that deserve it.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">2)<span style="color: #990000;"><u>They want their emotional needs served.</u></span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">These tend to be whiny wimps who want all of your time and all of your attention devoted to them. They may or may not pay, but even if they do, it tends to be minute amounts. They want maximum attention for minimal investment. These are energy leeches, and you seriously do not need the drama they bring with them.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3)<span style="color: #990000;"><u>The seek to use you to validate their burning misogyny.</u></span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">They already hate you. Most likely they hate themselves more for needing you to serve their sexual fantasies, but they will use you as their whipping post if you allow it. This is the male who acts in such a way in the beginning, yet flips the switch when he is denied his desires. Which one of you Ladies has not been told by a male how beautiful you are, how sexy you are, how much he wants to serve you, only to call you an ugly fat whore when you say no? </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">4)<u><span style="color: #990000;">They are lonely irl, and want to be your friend.</span></u></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Oh my lands, please do not give in to this ploy. If a male cannot make friends irl, he is a loser that you do not want eating up your valuable internet access. Avoid, avoid, avoid. Many women have ended up in dangerous stalkeresque situations due to taking pity on this type of male. He is not your friend, and never will be. Ignore any attempts to guilt, or shame you into freely giving him your time. You will regret it, I promise.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There are males who come only to be of use and serve a woman's wants, but they are a rarity in the scene. Those that respect women, their time, and energy. Who pay tribute without being told, without requiring any return upon that financial investment. These are the gems. The true gentlemen of fetish, and I commend them for their altruism. Hold on to these gents Ladies, for they do not come along often.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In the end, it is solely at your discretion whom you share your time with online though, so if you get your time wasted, or you lend your energy to males who fail to pay tribute, that is entirely on YOU. Learn the signs and behaviors of males who do not respect you enough to financially invest in your attention, and you will undoubtedly enjoy a more fulfilling, and financially lucrative internet experience :)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To you males whose behaviors I have described, this post puts you on notice. I have zero qualms about alerting newer females in the scene as to what types to avoid, and blowing up your user playbook all over social media. You have been forewarned. </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Now, some of you gents keep trying to change the definition of the game. Whelp I am here to relay to you that it is not going to work.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I so get it that you do not like the rules of findom, but you have 2 choices</span></span></i><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">1)suck it up, provide and abide</span></span></i></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">or </span></span></i><br />
<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">2)get your ass outta fetish </span></span></i></u><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I know that you newer peeps get confused about the definition since it gets mislabeled so much of the time, so I am going to be a generous Goddess, and educate you here and now.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Findom has always been about giving your money to women, and getting nothing in return. Ya ya ya, I am not forgetting the domination aspect of the term, but what you aren't grasping is that the domination part is about dominating finances. <span style="color: #990000;">Dominating the money, not your dick.</span> </span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Seeing as most Dommes are not one pony tricks, they harbor many fetishes, and play them out alongside findom. This is not a bad thing. It is actually a pretty awesome thing, but it can lead to possible confusion, so here I am to clear away the grey.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">I am going to break it down for you even further, thereby offering clarity to the fullest.</span></span></i><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">1)Buying clips is not participating in findom. Buying clips is buying a product, just as selling clips is selling a product.</span></span></i></u><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">2)Paying for an online or in person session is not findom. You are paying or offering a service.</span></span></i></u><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">3)Procuring used items from a woman is not findom. Acquiring goods or peddling items is business.</span></span></i></u><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Now that I have schooled you as to what findom is not, let's move on to what findom is.</span></span></i><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">1)Giving, sending money to a woman with zero expectations of receiving anything in return.</span></span></i></u><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">2)Giving a woman control over your bank account so that she may decide what you spend and what you buy.</span></span></i></u><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">3)Giving gifts to a woman, and once again expecting nothing from her. </span></span></i></u><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">See the difference? Awesome!! I knew that you were a smart cookie ;-)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">You are now ready to dive in deep into the exhilarating fetish of findom. Feel free to thank me with a <span style="color: #990000;">tribute</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="color: #990000;">SydneyClaire@protonmail.com </span></span></span></i>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-58230335967953707812019-10-08T12:25:00.000-05:002019-10-08T12:25:37.115-05:00You can't sit here findom<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Hello hello, and welcome peers, pets, puppets, and pervs</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> You have officially crossed into the realm of SynAddicts :)</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The topic of the day here in SydneySphere is:</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><u>Mean girls and boys</u></span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">You all know that I tend to keep an open eye on social media goings on and whatnot, and some sentiments really do need deeper than shallow depth discussion, so here we go!</span></span></i><br />
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<u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Teen findom</span></span></i></u><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Does it serve a purpose? I say yes, and here is my reasoning.</span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Take a look at research data when it comes to men seeking out women. What type of women do they gravitate towards first and foremost.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Young women. Late teens, early 20's. I am not going to ascribe this to men being shallow shits, but more along the lines of it being a biological drive. Men are programmed with the imperative to mate and procreate. It is a biological design. I get that, do you? </span></span></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>It honestly is no different than the balding grandpa bod men driving around town with the top down in a new shiny convertible. Yes we notice them, and yes we chuckle at their level of pathetic, but we do understand the whys.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>These men are why teen findommes will always prosper, and maintain a standing in the fetish scene. I am not about to blame these young women making bank off of male insecurity. If a man willingly opts to part with his money, than who are any of us to stand in judgement. It does not involve, or affect any of us who are not playing a part in that scenario, so let those Ladies be.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i><u>Women in it for the payout</u>.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>Yup there are plenty of them in the scene. Do I care, fuck no. They are not hurting me personally, and as long as they are on the upfront about it, why do you care? There are tons of men (most likely they are the majority of men in the scene) on the prowl to bust a nut, who zero in on exactly this type of woman. They do not want the complication of commitment to serving as a submissive, so once again, these Ladies are not taking anything I desire away from me, cause this is NOT the type of man I want to attract to my stable. Instead of hating, celebrate these women for getting that cash!</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>There is no valid reason for anyone whether female or male to get angry with these females. They are NOT ruining the scene. If anyone is ruining the scene..it is like I said BROKE MEN. Broke men are the only ones who do not belong, and should be frozen out of the findom scene. I do not even believe that they should be taking up valuable femdom space either. If you are not contributing to a woman's success, you are irrelevant period. Oh and FYI, yanking your dick is not a turn on, and half ass prancing around pretending to clean a woman's house is not a viable skillset, nor is shoving shit up your ass a sought after form of amusement. You offer nothing of value, so begone cockroach. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>And there you have it. My 2ยข take on why being mean to women is not needed. </i></span></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-20994610535584836402019-10-05T01:28:00.000-05:002019-10-05T01:28:21.169-05:00Calling All SynAddicts<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Welcome my poppets, puppets, and pervs</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Is today your first time sliding into Sydney Sphere? If so, than you should know right from the start that this is not a space for the average gooner. Jack and gos, just aren't going to get their fix up in here :)</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>This is the realm where you come to learn obedience to Sydney Claire. A place where you take that first step towards becoming a <b>SynAddict</b>. I am here to make you mine. Taking over your mind, cock, and wallet. Afraid?</i></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>You should be, because my claws will sink so deep into your psyche, that you will never fully be rid of your unquenchable desire to serve my every wanton wish.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Do you know what human beings have in common, other than the physical obvious? They want to belong. They want to feel as if they have a purpose. They want to believe that their lives have meaning. This is natural. It is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. I get it, honestly I do.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>It feels good to belong to <b>ME</b>. Being Sydney Claire's servant gives meaning to your life. Serving Sydney Claire provides you with a purpose and direction in life. All that you sought, all that you NEED, can be found at the feet of Sydney Claire.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Serving me is the most natural expression of self. No more feeling alone, divided, despised. Here you will know your place. You will feel accepted. You will know happiness. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>I love when the lost and misguided find their way to the fold. Aren't you tired of pretending to be something and someone that you aren't? Imagine how wonderful it would feel to finally be at peace with who and what you really are? You don't have to hide from me. I already know that you belong.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i><u>No more fear</u>. You will find yourself fearless in your service to me. Every step forward is one step closer. You want this. You need this. This is where you belong.</i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Close your eyes my little puppet and imagine how good it will feel to just let go. Let go of your everyday struggles. Strip yourself of the chains society constrains you with. Allow yourself to relinquish that false ego weighing you down. You were not meant to stand before me, you were created to crawl at my feet. You are a servant, and I am your superior. This is your life. </i></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><i>Giving your all, being your best. All of this is possible. The fantasy can become your reality when you are in my presence. No holding back. No turning back. You belong. You are mine! Say it out loud for your ears to hear, and your soul to accept. You belong to Sydney Claire. Sydney Claire is your most holy Goddess. <b>Sydney Claire owns you</b>. </i></span></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-41000486878044462862019-10-03T10:02:00.000-05:002019-10-03T10:02:06.276-05:00Commercialized fetish<i><span style="font-size: large;">Welcome to all who have found themselves here :)</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this <u>disclaimer</u></span></i><br />
<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">*Not all women, and not all men*</span></i></b><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">The <b>findom</b>, and a greater aspect of the <b>femdom</b> you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. <u>A source of livelihood</u>. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-size: large;">This is
reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it
is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give
up. Those are your only options. </span></i></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? </span></i><i><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-size: large;"> Bills must be paid and food must be bought. </span></i>Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. <b>Fetish is a luxury</b>, and luxury has never been cost efficient.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Okay my Ladies, your turn.</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. <b>Diversify</b> :)</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. <u>Accept, adapt, or give up</u>.</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story. </span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!! </span></i>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-46624522299382663402019-10-01T12:32:00.002-05:002019-10-01T12:32:37.127-05:00Attitude determines the course<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Welcome back for segment 3 in guiding you to giving me your best.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The goal obviously is to begin altering your mindset in order to best serve me, and make a positive impact on your life.</span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">You are home</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Open your door, and begin rolling your shoulders back, than forward slowly, and gently. Roll forward, inhale, roll back, exhale. Perform times 10. Feel your body inch by inch begin to relax. Ahh now this is better. Kick off your shoes by the door. Never walk through your home wearing shoes (google the studies which reveal all of the foul germs the bottom of shoes accumulate during a normal day).</span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Change your clothes</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Removing the reminders of your workday is conducive to relaxation. Comfort is the goal. </span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Grab a glass off water</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hydration is key to maintaining health.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Opt for a mellow tune. Remember that you are winding down, not revving up. Find a comfy spot to just squat for 20 minutes. Treat yourself.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Eating early provides your body with extra time to digest before bedtime. </span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">A heavy meal is not needed at this time. Keep it light and simple, and by all means do include some roughage. </span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Wash your dishes</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Oh my lands did I say that? Yes I did. Of course most of you are used to the convenience of a dishwasher, but doing them by hand gets them cleaner, and clean is good. </span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Fun time</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">This is your slotted time for computer use, or watching a movie. Do try to include something educational. Expanding your base of knowledge is a good thing! Perhaps you may even take a few moments to watch the sunset. I especially love this time of day.</span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Lay your clothes out</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Having your clothes set and ready after your shower in the morning saves you time. Develop this routine.</span></span></i><br />
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<u><b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Bedtime</span></span></i></b></u><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Do NOT stay up all night watching porn, and yes I know that some of you do that! Sleep is essential. Being well rested means that your morning mindset will be positive.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I realize that change is difficult, but getting into a routine is not a bad thing. You may complain that it lacks spontaneity, but the work week is not the time for it. Days off are for spur of the moment outings or such. Devoting yourself to doing and being better requires self discipline, which routine will aid you in molding. I want to change your viewpoint, and help you help yourself. Are you willing to try?</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The decision is yours to make. </span></span></i><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">**If you are married, alternative actions might need to be taken in order to comply**</span></span></i></b>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-45480983352040208542019-09-28T09:55:00.000-05:002019-09-28T09:55:04.213-05:00Change internalizes prior to externalization<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hello and welcome to the sphere of Sydney Claire!</span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Today we delve into segment 2 of guiding you into giving me your best.</span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Breathe</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">You have left your dwelling, and get on your way to work. A man who works diligently, is a man who prospers.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The reason I advise you to breathe is that we all know how hectic and frustrating a task driving can be in this day and age. The roads are jam packed with people who possess neither manners, nor common sense. Do not emulate these folks.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Heading to work is a time for mentally gearing yourself up for whatever the day will bring, and if you allow others to negatively impact your mindset during this period, than the odds exponentially increase of your entire day being a shitshow, so set your radio to the station which manifests positivity for you.</span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Smile</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Walk in the door of your employment, and greet your co-workers with a genuine smile...even if you detest their very existence. You set the tone. </span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Be grateful</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Have you seen the unemployment numbers? I for one do not swallow the spoon fed lies in regards to all of the supposed job opportunities the media reports on. Every single day positions are lost to outsourcing, and automation, so consider yourself fortunate to be gainfully employed. Take a moment to reflect upon the blessing of a paycheck.</span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Honest effort</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Do your job to the very best of your ability every single day. Do not be a slacker. Slacking is a poor reflection upon you as a human being. Some days will leaving you feeling as if no ever notices how much effort and time you put into doing your job correctly. Regardless, you will know it, and you can take pride in yourself for giving 100%. </span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Eat your lunch</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Do not skip it. Your body needs to be nourished in order to promote peak performance. Peak performance ensures that you are not racking up medical debt, and lost time at work. Do try to drink some water :)</span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Stay late</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">If your assigned workload cannot be completed by clock out, than go the extra mile, and stay a few minutes after to get it done. A little overtime will not kill you.</span></i></span><br />
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<u><b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hit the road</span></i></span></b></u><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Once you have clocked out for the day, leave your work behind you. This is YOU time. Time to clear your mind of distraction, and focus on relaxing.</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Of course the traffic is just as bad going home as it was heading in, so be prepared. Never engage in the road rage fad, or waving the single digit hello. Your chore is to make it home safely, and that means leaving your damn cell phone out of sight while driving. We all know how tempting it is to quickly peruse the news or tap out a text, but DON'T. Listen to your tunes, and keep your eyes on the road.</span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Home sweet home</span></i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">At last, yes! </span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">TBC..hope to see you return soon :)</span></i></span><br />
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Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-38501172288318172692019-09-26T12:42:00.000-05:002019-09-26T12:42:29.111-05:00Guiding you to giving me your best<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Good morning, afternoon, or even evening to you!</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Welcome puppets, poppets, pervs, and curious pedestrians to the world and word of Sydney Claire.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>Today is the day</b>. What day is it? It is the day you are finally going to break free, and make some alterations in your way of thinking, which in turn will change your life in meaningful ways.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">How does one begin? Which step is of prime importance? Fret not little chickadee, for I am here to guide you along the path.</span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Step 1</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Wake up in the morning, and before you even open your eyes, give thanks, and be grateful for the blessings you have been given.</span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Now some of you sour duds may be of a mind that your life is an utter pile of steaming dog doo, and that you have nil to be thankful for, but you would be wrong. This type of negativity is one of the reasons why your life sucks dirty dishwater. You are the root cause of discontent in your life. YOU.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sure it is easier to blame someone else for everything wrong in your life, but that is not what mentally healthy people do. You absolutely must own your decisions whether good or bad, right or wrong. Personal responsibility is a requirement, not simply an avoidable option. Of course some of you have been molded, even scarred by circumstances out of your control in your childhood, but using those experiences as a crutch and excuse for poor decision making is not helping you one little bit. Resolving lingering issues is your responsibility, and by resolving, I am referring to working them out and letting them go. Cease ceding power over your life to whatever, and whoever wronged you. Get into therapy if need be. Heal yourself in order to be whole. This process may take years, but that is ok, so long as you are putting in the work.</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><u>Moving forward </u></b></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After giving thanks, open your eyes and smile. Yes I said smile. Happiness begins within, and radiates outward. Happiness is a positive goal, and how you go about achieving it is what gives you purpose. Life without purpose is a meandering meaningless journey. You want your life to have meaning don't you?</span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Get up out of bed slowly</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Do not jump out of bed like you are in a race for your very life. Enjoy the moments of feeling your body coming alive for the day. Feel the languor of sleep dissipating. Stretch your body towards the ceiling, and allow your body to breathe in for a few seconds, then exhale for a few seconds. Wake your brain up gently like a lover worshiping your flesh. </span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Make your bed</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Yes I realize that you are only going to mess it up later on, but that is not the point. This is you taking responsibility. This is you taking control of your life in small ways. </span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Relieve and clean</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Release accumulated waste, and prepare yourself to wash away the filth from your flesh. Starting your day fresh and clean has a positive impact on your mindset. </span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Dress with pride</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Take pride in presenting an orderly and neat appearance. Sloppy, and sloven does not suit you anymore. Neat has nothing to do with designer labels. Clean and pressed is what you are aiming for. I understand that some days you simply do not care how you appear to the public, and that is all fine and well for when you are staying in, or going to the gym, but looking well put together boosts confidence, and confidence promotes inner happiness. You want to be happy yes? </span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Eat</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Feed your flesh. Eating breakfast makes your body happy. Note that I did not say gorge yourself. Overeating in the morning makes your day begin miserably, so moderate your intake, and try your very best to drink some water :)</span></span></i><br />
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<b><u><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Open your door</span></span></i></u></b><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Smile, and get on your way</span></span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">This is the first post in a series I will be sharing with you about how I guide those who devote themselves to serving me. Come back soon for the next installment! </span></span></i>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6375597482662535665.post-82824097556273289472019-08-29T08:24:00.000-05:002019-08-29T08:24:19.616-05:00Anger is useless in the face of facts<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Good Morning to all of you wonderful people who have found your way here to my slice of fetish spice :)</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>I read a tweet this morning (if you care to see it, you can search up my response to it) that I really feel needs to be addressed in depth, so let's go there shall we :)</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Clip sites. Know them? Have you ever checked one out? Most of you probably have. What stands out about the featured front page models? </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>1)They are young</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>2)They are white</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>3)They are thin to fit</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>4)They are amply endowed in breast tissue</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Is there a reason why this specific type is promoted heavily? Yes. Clip sites are a business, and big money making ones at that. They are successful for a reason. They are heavily invested in knowing the demographics of their customers, and their buying habits.</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>They have crunched the numbers over and over, along with recognizing the patterns of sales. They know which types of clips are best sellers, and which clip artists bring home the bacon to their table so to speak. Their business modal's success depends on them obtaining this information, and employing it to their benefit. </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>The mindset of clip sites is not personal. It is business, and the bottom line is revenue. They exist to make money, so it only makes sense that they are going to promote the hell out of the clip artists who insure the company's continuing financial future. </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Is this fair to the women who do not meet the defined criteria...hell to the no, but it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change that anytime soon. Do you know why? Men are the target market, which means that they in essence are the deciding factor in who gets to be the artist featured front page, and the the type of female I outlined, is the one who the majority of men are attracted to. It is no inside secret that men are ruled by their cocks, so is it really so very shocking to see their physically ideal woman as the main page visual attraction? </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Does this conclude that women who do not fit the mold cannot find financial success in selling clips, NO, but it does indicate that they will have to work harder to promote themselves. This is where social media outlets come into play. They will be your playground. A place where you control what you share, and who you promote in your personal space. </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>Social media accords you the ability to showcase your personality, and unique style. Take advantage of the opportunity! You are the virtual star of your account, so embrace it and shine bright like a diamond :) </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><i>In conclusion, what I am trying to convey is that allowing yourself to become angered due to what you declare unfair practice is only going to affect you. Clip sites are not going to rock the money boat for you or me. They are going to stick with what sells, and whether you or I like it, that is the way it is.</i></span>Sydney Clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07758525601846635960noreply@blogger.com0