So many inaccuracies are held within the thoughts and opinions of those peering in,which beg to be eradicated.
The most erroneous myth which comes to mind is that FinDommes are nothing more than prostitutes. By sheer definition a prostitute is an individual whom exchanges sexual favors for payment. A FinDomme does not offer sexual services ie hands on stroke off,anal,vaginal or oral penetration,and if you do come across a female claiming to perform such actions,well then dear reader they are playing a game which is not legal in most states,nor within the realm of findom. I recognize that it offends some to the core of their selfish being that money is involved in a fetish,and in my experience the individuals whom display such open ended verbal attacks and bashing towards ladies whom employ findom are those that lack the means to have their kink fantasies played out unless it is free. I cannot comprehend otherwise why it would evoke such actions and feelings of animosity unless one has a personal stake in the matter.What I do find rather ironic though is that I am seeing a trend where even proclaimed lifestyle Dominas are commanding tribute as well,which means that all of you broke self entitled misogynist fucks are shit out of luck LMAO.
Venturing on. Any male whom pays for domination is an idiot too stupid to realize that he is being taken for a ride. Once again a fallacy. Gentlemen that have findom service experience under their belt know exactly what is entailed including the risks involved. Most even possess an above average intelligence quotient. They are quite capable of appreciating that quality is paid for,and that such an intimate fetish relationship is valued more than their salary,ergo spoiling a lady displays respect and devotion,which freeloaders have no concept of. This is why he whom pays will stay,and he who does not will be forgot. Sounds like a smart man to me eh?
We progress forward. Most FinDommes are males masquerading as females to get your money. It is a well known fact that there is a grain of truth in this statement,for indeed there have been and most likely are males whom perpetrate this heinous behavior,but to blanket us all with the assumption is asinine. I mean that is like saying that most males whom contact a FinDomme are looking for freebie thrills,but then again there is validity within those words.
FinDommes only care about the money. I will not mislead any by denying that indeed some females are in it for the fast cash,but if you take a moment to clearly assess the situation,then it is apparent who is filled with need,and whom possesses the greed. One thing that should be noted is that there are some boys that take pleasure in the dark desire of being used as a source of income. Their entire delight bundled into the stereotype of a cold sadistic woman whose only use of them is their bank balance. Take a moment to take a look around at some of the Dommes who have a stable of males that have served them long term...you tell me why they would endure if they thought that the lady in question did not give a flying fig for them,or if a bond of trust beyond finances had not been cultivated?
FinDommes are like lazy bloated ticks waiting for unsuspecting prey that happens along. Unfortunately I think that some of the PR put out there perpetuates this one. I mean for the uninformed peeking in at tweets and posts of ladies lazing around,or vacationing here or there all of the time,it could appear to be that way,but what goes on behind the scene may never make it center stage,such as the effort which goes into the appearance of a lackadaisical lifestyle. If any think that Dommes sit around all day with their feet up doing absolutely nothing while the tributes roll in is absurd. Yes I know that there are males whom thrive upon this thought as part of their fantasy,but it is far from accurate. It takes work to remain in the scene. It requires time being spent posting,tweeting,taking photos,and communicating with applicants,and those already serving. Not to mention that many ladies have an vanilla career,or are students pursuing opportunities outside of kink,so for them,the idea of their ass warming a seat all day is laughable.
All FinDommes are spoiled egomaniacal manipulative man hating bitches. Here we go. Once again I will not deny that appearances can be deceiving when you have no actual knowledge to base an opinion upon,but by assuming this about all women of findom would be showing that you are an ass. A great many of the ladies I have had the privilege of interacting with are down to earth individuals believe it or not. No doubt that some adopt a facade,but like with any stranger you meet,if you take the time to get to know them then you will see that your first impressions are not always a true reflection.
So to quote porky pig “Ble, ble, ble, that’s all folks!” for today anyway...tbc
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