Sunday, May 28, 2017

1 day vaca

Goddess will be out of town today on a special trip. Yes even I need to take a breather every once in awhile to wind down,and regroup. I may or may not be checking my messages sporadically throughout the trip,but I do expect you gents to make sure that I am feeling the love from you by stuffing your fat and juicy finances into my inbox. That is right bois...Goddess wants bulging notifications from amazon today, so send a gift card when you wake up, and then again before you go to sleep. Show me the love and the money biotch :)

Send send send...more more more..sate my desire for gift cards

mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Friday, May 26, 2017

FinDom debate

The great FinDom debate entails whether broke is evil. In my estimation it is indeed evil,for if you are broke,you have absolutely no place in FinDom. Being broke makes you an evil leper,a pariah,a diseased dick. Harsh isn't it? Perhaps so,but when you are attempting to insinuate yourself into a fetish for which you are not equipped to engage in...well that boils down to you being a timewaster,which is the worst label to be attached to a male. Being broke makes you nothing more than an unwanted herpe sore glaringly obvious on the head of a dick. Pretty gross imagery yes? I agree,but it is truth nonetheless.

Do you see any FinDomme advertising for,or applauding broke males? Nooooooo
Why is that? See explanation posted above.

To some money may be the icing on the cake of FinDom,but to others it is the bedrock foundation..the glue which cements the entire relationship. No money=no FinDom either way.

If you are a strictly lifestyle serving male,you do not belong in FinDom. If you a straight up sex slave(ya I do not give credence to that designation)you do not belong in FinDom. If you believe that paying tribute entitles you to anything,you do not belong in FinDom. If you believe that $10 is a tribute,you do not belong in FinDom. 

FinDom is a luxury fetish,and luxuries are not afforded to broke males. It requires cash to ride this ride bb...so step left if ya pockets are empty.

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Conversion of compliments

Some of you gents seem convinced that doling out compliments to a FinDomme is the same as paying a tribute..uh NO. Compliments which I have heard droning over and over for years and years do not touch me on any level, in fact they irritate me. I do not need nor desire compliments. My ego is not suffering in the least, and you will not earn any brownie points conveying them. What I want is tangible proof of adoration. Save the words, send the cash.

Aww I can hear the moans and groans now..."she only cares about the money" "she doesn't want a real connection". There is truth, yet there is falsity in those statements. It is not just about the money, it is about what the money represents. Money is power..it is the tangible proof of adoration..it tells me that you are willing to sacrifice for me..that you are sincere in your claims of submission to my will..it is a selfless gesture which screams out for my attention, and that is your goal is it not? Your uppermost goal should be my happiness, and sacrificing financially for me is the surest way to incite my bliss. You want to please me don't you? There can be no "real" connection if you are not  sacrificing for my happiness.

Money is the lubricant that coats my gears..it whets my appetite to delve into the darkest aspects of your submission. You want me slipping into your subconscious don't you? You want me so far into your soul that you do not know where I end and you begin. You want my will guiding your life and decisions. There can be no you without me, and there can be no we without sacrifice. Sacrifice for Mz Sydney.

Sunday, May 21, 2017

Selfish Bitch am I

My favorite compliment of the week. "You are a selfish bitch"

Now you might assume that I am masochist to consider this a positive statement, so I shall endeavor to explain why it is 100% accurate.

I am rather fond of truth telling,and whilst the sender in no way intended to compliment me with this relay of words,it did just that. Do you know what his message conveyed to me? It showed me that I had pissed him off by not giving into his wants. He expected his entitlement as a male to cross over into FemDom,but he was mistaken. He was met head on with quite the opposite of his expectations. I bow to the wishes of no male,ever. I am WOMAN,hear me roar my disapproval with a quick slam dunk of the block button :)

Yes I am selfish. I have never denied that fact. I am here to sate my desires,to meet my needs,to have my will served. Why would you ever think anything less? Serving me is about me. It is about you the submissive putting aside your wants,better yet syncing them to mine,so that we will both experience happiness and pleasure when you please me. You like pleasure yes? You want to please me don't you?

Online is my playground,where I design the laws of my realm. If you are not willing to submit yourself to them,than by all means exit left. It really is that simple. You either live by my dictates,or you depart. No democracy here. This is a dictatorship,and I thrill in doling out decrees whilst you scamper to obey.

So,yes you can think me selfish all you like,cause it is true. Why would I desire to have any male serving me who does not see my wants as a priority? Why would I settle for coming in second place to a dick? That is an insult right there. Can you see that? Do you know any woman who thinks that your dick is a priority in her life? Be honest now.

Onto the bitch decree. I admit fully that I am a BITCH. Oh my gosh I said it! To whom am I a bitch though? Is it to the male who treats me like a fetish fantasy,a fetish vending machine,or even a one dimensional object for pecker pukers..ya just might be right on. I am most definitely a bitch to those type of males,along with males who do not display respect,read my profile before contact,ones who attempt to blindside me with dick pics,and especially the males that jump into my inbox knowing that tribute is required yet refuse to do so. You got me red handed...I am a BITCH BITCH BITCH lol.

I am in no way ashamed of being a selfish bitch who always places herself first. I am a strong woman who knows her worth,and if you refuse to see that,than you are the one who loses out,not me,cause there will always be a male more intelligent than you who is going to make my happiness his priority.

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

submissive creed to serving Mz Sydney

 The submissive creed to serving Mz Sydney

"Service is my reward,I will earn it. Devotion is my duty,I will provide it. Submission is my purpose,I will live it. Sacrifice is my mantra,I will embrace it."




This is how a dearly devoted submissive sacrifices in service to Mz Sydney.

Monday, May 15, 2017

Send tingles down my soles with Tribute

Crawl to the bare feet of your Divine Foot Domme Goddess Mz Sydney,and worship with your wallet.
You will never impress me with compliments,for they are less than meaningless in my eyes..it is only through financial sacrifice that you will make any type of lasting impression upon me. Any male can and will convey a free word of praise,but the elite submissive knows that his actions are what relay his appreciation.
Come now,and crawl to my feet with your wallet in hand,and tribute sent to my inbox.
mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Saturday, May 13, 2017

Feet of a Goddess

Isn't this the most gloriously divine sight to ever grace the presence of your vision?? Of course it is :)
Goddess is perfect,and far beyond your reach,but to wake to a sight such as this every morn must be your dearest fantasy. All males should be prostrate at my feet,begging to be of use,shouldn't they?? Of course they should,for it is the destiny and intention of creation for males to worship Goddess in any manner which pleases her.

Fulfill your purpose this day by being useful to Goddess. You know what I want,and how I want to be served,now get to it,lest you become a waste of flesh.

Friday, May 12, 2017

"Scammed" by a FinDomme

Recently I have taken some flack over my views of no pity for submissive males getting "scammed" by faux FinDommes, and wanted to take a moment to clarify my position a bit.

To begin with, I have all sorts of compassion for submissives whom have been abused by supposed dominants whether that be by failure to respect a safe word or agreed upon limits, so no I am not without regards for submissives in that sense.

Here is where my sense of compassion ceases "I paid a female for a session, and she skipped out with my money" Is the male in question entitled to righteous indignation for not receiving a service he paid for...sure, but is he absolved of all fault in the situation, NO. At this point one must ask of him, did you perform your due diligence by researching the female in question? Did you google her, read her twitter feed to see if there are complaints lodged against her? Did you google reverse her image to ascertain if she is the woman in the photo? If the answer is no, no, no...well than own up to your ignorance, cause you played a part in being scammed.

 Ok let's look at this scenario with a finer eye. A submissive serves, a submissive does not receive service. A fetishist on the other hand purchases services, so it is not a submissive being scammed, it is a fetishist. Fetishists are self-serving, therefore they do not touch on my tender side. A fetishist is seeking to feed his desires alone, and that is selfish, so when their type makes an erroneous decision based upon the twitching of their twat waffle,
well my pity dries up like a pool of piss in the Sahara.


Does this make sense now? Can you grasp that any compassion or pity I possess is reserved for those deserving of it? I see fetishists as "victims" by choice in this type of scenario. They choose not to research the female in question, instead they allow their dicks to make the decision, and sometimes they get burned to the core by doing so. Do they learn from it though, that is the pertinent question. Do they learn to think with the big head after such an ordeal, or do they continue to skip along that same path? Why would any sane being feel compassion for a male who continues to make the same mistake over and over? If you are getting burnt repeatedly, sheesh open your freaking eyes to the error of your ways.

A submissive to a FinDomme on the other hand is not screaming out injustice because he did not get his way, why is that? Could it be due to the fact that his priority is the happiness of the one whom he offers his service to? Could it be because his offer is not motivated by self gratification, therefore if he does not receive a session, JOI, CEI, photos, or clips when he sends a tribute...he does not raise a fuss, cause he does not expect goods for cash. He gives to give,
not to receive. Pontificate upon that!

Do you see the distinctive difference between why a submissive would be worthy of my compassion, yet a fetishist would not? Keep in mind that I am in no way referring to offering compassion as a human being to another human being who has suffered through no fault of their own. Fetishists need to own that it is indeed their own fault if they were "scammed". Disavowing males of their guilt is enabling them, and I refuse to enable the guilty.

I do hope that my statements clarify my position at this point. Compassion for the abused, YES. Pity for those scammed due to their own dick decisions, NO.

Thursday, May 11, 2017

Who loves my feet?

Who has a foot fetish,and loves the feet of Mz Sydney?
If you truly love my feet,than you should be begging to pay upkeep for their comfort,and beauty. This is what sets apart the creme from the curds. Now make yourself useful,and send an amazon gift card to treat my perfectly divine feet.

Monday, May 1, 2017

The shame game

One of the things Ladies will find running rampant in the fetish scene is the shame game. The shame game consists of tried and true techniques employed to shame you into providing for the wants of the one playing you. You should ask yourself these two questions when you take note of the game one is playing. Are you an instrument? Do you want to be played?

How to recognize the game,oh and I care not to hear the insipid dialogue regarding not all males do this, since I am generalizing here.

"I have been burned in the past, so I want to take the time to see if we connect before I tribute". Egads why is this line still gaining traction?? This is a clear cut attempt to use women for free gratification. If someone really wanted to get to know you, they would be all over your social media sites feeling you out, and not come to you til after they have been able to gauge whether they are a good fit for your domination style. They would then come into your inbox with tribute already sent. That is what a decent male does.

"If you really loved dominating males, you would do it for free". Wow gotta love the logic in that statement. Of course we have all heard the saying "do a job you love, never work a day in your life", but even that saying would not ring true if there were no tangible benefits to performing said job. The saddest part of this ploy is that you will see even lifestyle Dominas spouting it. Yet I ask you this, how would those same lifestyle women react if said male never once purchased them a gift, and expected said woman to supply all of the equipment used to dominate them? Would they then feel the same? I highly doubt it. The males who engage in this tactic are relaying distinctly that they have zero appreciation for a woman's time and effort. They are selfish slug entitled misogynists, so wrapped up in themselves that they could not care less about anything that does not pertain to their wants.

"Only whores charge for sexwork"..and yes FinDom is considered sexwork. This attempt is set to make you feel degraded due to the negative connotations surrounding the word whore. Many males denote a whore as the lowest form of being, therefore they toss this out to shame you into doing what you do for free, atleast with them. If the word did not have such negativity associated with it, than this ploy would fizzle out. I say Fuck that! You decide the value of your time, and the worth of your association, not some shithead male. Own that your time is precious, and should not be wasted upon anyone that does not value it! Make them pay for everything they receive from you, regardless if it is conversation, cam time, tasks, clips etc...

"I just want to be your friend" Now this one is really a trickster. You should feel bad for even considering charging a male who just wants to be your friend! He just wants to be there for you, and listen to your problems with tributing males. Oh yes tell him all about your sessions, about how you dominate males. There is no way that he is leeching off of your experiences with his dick in hand, ya right. Seriously here, the males who come to you claiming that they want to be your friend are the worst possible friend you could take on. They are out to use you, and that is NOT ok. They are simply taking up space and time that could be spent with someone who will benefit your life in a lasting manner, so kick that user to the curb before he hooks claws into you.

"You are too (old,fat,ugly,stupid) to be a FinDomme" This type is a real piece of work. Their intent is to absolutely demoralize you into getting their way. They hit hard at the most sensitive spots for most women. Unless you possess a super thick impenetrable skin shell, than these insults are going to sting, especially if you are receiving them on the daily. These tactics are meant to break you down, to make you feel undesirable, and unwanted, therefore you will be appreciative when any male wants to spend time with you. This is all BS! Do not, I repeat, do not fall for this. Knowing your worth is the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. Love yourself, preconceived flaws and all. Recognize that you are more than what is visible to the human eye, and never allow any male to shake the confidence you have in yourself, cause anyone that does not value you for you, is not worth a single thought!

"Such and such only charges X " Ya we have all heard this one. This one is called the haggler. He wants to shame you into devaluing your time. Most times Mistress X does not even exist, and even if she did, it is not your place to lower your standards just because someone else does not see their true worth. Stand strong, and advise this type to run back to  Mistress X than.

And that folks is all I have time for today..yup I gotta life to get back to, and bois begging to better it with financial sacrifice :)