Fantasy not reflecting reality

Good evening to all who have found their way to my Goddess led sanctuary 

Tonight we are going to take a moment to discuss fantasy vs reality. I have spoken in regards to this subject previously, but a refresher is of need.

You gents have so very many various fantasies crammed within your cranium. Some are lovely, some are ugly, some are sexy, and some are straight up illegal. My concern is that some of you are no longer able to differentiate between what is doable, and what is downright dangerous. 

I understand that fantasies can be healthy and healing to some degree, but as well, some can damage you permanently psychologically and physically. The key is knowing which ones should be kept within your mind, and which should be free to touch your reality. Do you have the correct perspective?

Let's go over a few popular fantasies and decide which ones should be allowed to play out for real, as well as those that should not.

1. Sucking a strangers cock til their load slides down your throat. 
This is a hot ass fantasy isn't it? Tons of submissive males have this one front and center in fantasyland. 
Is it safe? It can be with a few non-sexy modifications.

~Swallowing a load of cum from a male whom you have no idea of his std status is dumb dumb dumb!  Wrap that willy before you suck him silly. Seriously! I realize that it detracts from the sexiness, but so does an HIV diagnosis. 
~Approaching an unknown male and asking to suck his cock just might end up with you getting your teeth knocked down your throat. Not so sexy huh? Welcome to the world of women. A place where you never know which man is harboring violent tendencies. This is why you should take the time to get to know a man before ever asking to suck his cock.
~You could hire an escort that allows for you to suck their cock, but you do run the risk of being caught up in a sting operation, so once again take the time to research first.

2. Wanting to be a live in slave who dwells in a cage locked in a Domme's basement. This is quite common as well. As common as it is unrealistic.

~Very few, and I actually mean a minuscule amount of dominant women are seeking this type of situation, so if you are banking your future on it, please reconsider keeping this one confined to your fantasies. 
~Offering your flesh up in such a manner to an absolute stranger is beyond dangerous, it is insanely stupid. This is a situation which must be thought out cognitively, not casually.
~This woman could harbor a homicidal bend. Do you really want your next of kin to be notified that they found your remains buried in a basement? Once again I will caution you to take the time to really get to know someone before dipping your toes in like this.

3. Begging to be trussed up and fucked like a Thanksgiving turkey. Pegging sounds and even looks like a hot arse time doesn't it? Fuck yes it does, but do you even know the risks involved. Holy shit did I just toss a wrench into the works there?

~If done improperly, anal can cause harm to you physically. Lots and lots of lubricant is highly advised!
~Anal needs to be eased into. Going slow and easy allows your body to relax and enjoy the experience. Ramrodding your rectum will not be a pleasurable ride, even if you are a masochist. Besides, being forced to wear depends the rest of your life due to abusive anal is NOT sexy. Proceed with care and caution. 

4. Last one of the night. Being forced to eat ass and pussy. I actually do not consider this a fetish, but I can see it being a viable fantasy.

~Let us not forget about std status once more. Thrush and cold sores are icky not pretty.
~Eating ass means ingesting ecoli(google that one)
~Oral dams oral dams oral dams, and that is all I am going to say on the subject.

I do hope that I have given some of you food for thought tonight. Fantasies are awesome, just be realistic about actually living them out ok!

 

 

The Power of the Sway

Welcome to my world, pets and pervs

There is power in the sway. The fact that findom involves finances lends a false sense of power to the sender of tribute. You gents deceive yourself into believing that since you hold the cash, that you call the shots, and you could never be more wrong when it comes to me.

A woman who does not possess a need for your money is not bound by your whims to relinquish or withhold it. In fact, you will quickly find yourself sorted into the refuse bin for attempting to use your money as a bargaining chip with me.

I have zeros issues with blocking any male who gets it into his head that he is in control of our interactions. One such as I describe was blocked yesterday, and he had even paid tribute, mind you that it was an insultingly minuscule amount. Never do that either gents. 

A woman who knows her worth will not allow for you to insult her with meager offerings. Women deserve your best efforts. 

I for one, will not validate nor laud gents who attempt to exert minimal effort when courting me for consideration. 

You may be asking yourself, how can she afford to turn away a dollar..well let us school you now. I do not need your money. Yes you hear this all of the time from the multitude of women online, but the majority of the time when it is relayed, it is false, so truth be known, you can manipulate a woman who is in honest need of your cash contributions, and most likely you have already done so. The buck stops here though. My lack of need negates your leverage towards obtaining your objective.

Which option does this leave open for you with me than? Only 1...pay and pray. Get down on your well worn knees and tender a true financial sacrifice to me, then pray for my benevolence. I offer no guarantee of acceptance though. Your attitude upon delivery will most likely sway or obliterate my desire to acknowledge your effort.

You gents have been entirely too spoiled with it comes to getting your way with women online, and unfortunately each time that a woman allows you to play her with faux service and sacrifice, you are being taught that stealing a woman's time and attention for pennies on the dollar is acceptable. The time for such is at an end, atleast with me it is. You of course are free to continue to stroll along dick in hand crawling into every open box to shit upon it's owner, which is the predictable outcome, but for a few, my words will have opened your eyes to the wretchedness you have wrought. 

Are you ready now to become a new man. A man worthy of receiving a woman's notice? I have laid the stones for you to follow. Send your intentions in the form of an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com and bide your time wisely whilst awaiting notice of whether I have deemed your sacrifice of value to me.