let the chase begin

As the title suggests I am going to talk about chasing. What exactly is chasing when it comes to the findom fetish,why it occurs at times,and possible long term effects from chasing.

Chasing in my opinion is when a female is going after males,any male maybe even every male. They besiege them with messages,some even with a tone that would not be considered dominant at all. Waiting for a servant to approach is bypassed altogether.

This goes on for a few possible reasons. a)Someone is desperate for money,which leads them to seek out any and all possibilities of receiving it,therefore they will jump into any inbox. b)Insecurities: One needs to hear from all that they are the best,so they will actively seek out their fix. c)Sheer competitiveness:Generally I think of this behavior when it comes to males,but I have and do see it playing a role in findom today. It appears that a mindset of "I must have the most sycophants,the most tributes to brag about,my collar on the most males"

Taking into consideration the state of the male ego and entitlement which runs rampant in society as a whole,how does chasing create lasting effects? To begin with,it provides males with an overwhelming sense of worth and inflated ego,for surely they must be special if all these women are chasing after them,I mean seriously think about it. For instance consider the average male,he makes mediocre pay,well hopefully enough to pay his bills,with unremarkable attractiveness physically,and the personality of an inert rock,BUT he can log into a findom site,or forum,and suddenly he is pursued like a movie star. His inbox is full of females wanting to own him,to have him serve them,so really is it all that surprising that he begins to think that he is THE SHIT? How will this teach him to treat femdoms,much less women in general? Do you think that it empowers them in his viewpoint,or does it further entrench patriarchal teachings?

I will say this. I know what it is to have,and what it is to have not,so please do not consider that I hold myself above other women,for I do NOT. I have put in long hours of hard work professionally to get where I am(and no findom is not my job),to feel secure financially,so yes I do comprehend what it is to need money,but if it comes at the cost of self respect,then is it worth it? For some the answer may be yes,and to you I say,do what you gotta do,but always be aware that your actions do affect others. What you do online is seen by others,and to those looking in from the outside of the findom scope,yours may be the only basis they form their opinion upon,so they will paint all with the brush you have shown them.

If insecurities ride you into the chase,why is that? Who has made you feel less than awesome? If you seek your validation externally,you are ALWAYS going to be disappointed. Knowing your worth comes from knowing that you are worthy :) so by God look into your mirror and see the beauty reflected,peer into your soul and praise yourself,embrace that mind of yours,and know that you are smart,and that you do not need anyone else to tell you what you yourself already know.

If a sense of competition is what drives you,I ask you to consider why it does. Who is it that has conditioned females to believe that they must be the prettiest,the smartest,the best at everything to be worthy...men of course,and do you truly want men controlling your actions,even on a subconscious level? Does that sound like feminine empowerment to you? If you would apply that drive to uplifting other women,you just might find yourself making a difference towards how women are viewed and treated in society,and that is the most profound impact upon the future we can hope for as strong confident women.

My intentions for this post are not to bust male ass or ego(well not all of them anyway),but rather to point out that we as women do not need to chase males. They will come to you,if you just let them. If you show them by your words and deeds that service to you is the "prize",the "reward",and by making them actually work for it,then they will esteem you all the more.

Misunderstood and maligned

Findom,findom,findom...what is this fetish? That is me putting it kindly,for many from the outside looking in do not even deem findom a fetish at all. They claim it to be a scam where money hungry women prey upon hapless and helpless forlorn for attention little male souls. What they fail to do is actually delve far enough into the scene to see exactly what occurs though.

There is more than one type of male present in the findom realm. First we have the "player",now the player is out to get a nut off. He will finesse and finagle,barge and bulldoze,even lie his way into the inboxes of any female he sees,hoping for just a few precious seconds to bust out his weeny. Does this sound like a male who is being taken advantage of...surely not. He is more like a greedy gutless wonder of nature. Kinda difficult to take advantage of someone who is so focused on their own sexual gratification that they cannot have a care for the wants of others presiding over their own. Oh and just in case you did not notice,some of these types even mask themselves as male doms. Ever see the profiles of males claiming to be dominant whose only dialogue is about females getting them off? Yup them. To them bdsm is ALL about sex,and having their sexual wants met. Hmm who is using who there?? Some of you should don your capes and rescue those poor souls being used in such a manner.

Next we visit needy nellie..now nellie just might be the one who needs the aid of those who sympathize with what they call "victims". nellie is a black hole of need,someone,anyone pay attention to me. I don't care if it is good or bad,just lemme leech some of your time,cause my need is paramount to anything else in your life. I will message you 50 times a day,even if you do not respond,and lord help you if you do,cause I talk more than long lost friends gossiping on the phone. Secretly I need a kick in the ass,cause I never outgrew that phase of childhood where the whole world revolved around me...so please please please,rescue me!

Onto slutty sam. Hey hey I am mister fun guy. I am the life of the party. I cannot commit for one reason or another,so I flit from box to box,smelling the lovely aroma of all the beautiful belles of findom. I am generally a nice guy,and do indeed pay for the time and attention I receive,so I bring no harm,unless you get it into your head that I will stick around longer than it takes the sun to set upon a new day. sam needs the aid of no one,for eventually he will find the box where he finally settles down. He just wants to have some fun along the way,and definitely does not require a hero swooping down and carrying him far away from the evil schemes of cash grubbers.

The last type I am going to speak about(not that there is not more types though,just that my fingers are cramping :) is george the gent. Now george is a male who sees what it means to serve. He cannot conceive of a complete life that does not include being of service to a woman. He knows that he was born for such,and embraces it fully in a healthy manner. He craves only to please,and does so by gifting a woman with his finances. He has no qualms about ensuring that the Lady he has chosen to serve receives his best,and spending his excess of cash upon her is his way of contributing to her life in a positive manner. Wow he must need help. How dare women persuade and con males such as george into thinking that he is not born by his sex into the entitlement of a woman's attention just for the fact that he possesses a male member in his pants. How horrid is she to believe that her time is valuable,and should only be spent with those that truly appreciate it!! You best call out the bdsm police on her.

In conclusion I am NOT stating that there are not some women in the scene that do take advantage of males,or push beyond limits,but they are not the norm,so by painting all with the same brush,you are in essence displaying your own ignorance of the reality of findom...and who truly wants the world to know that they are lacking in intellect hmmmm?

I checked my list twice

Those of you that did nothing to enrich my Christmas...well you can visit someplace warm..cause any male that had been speaking with me before the holiday and did not send a gift is now banned from my divine attention! I have zero tolerance for selfish sots period. A male's duty is to please,and you FAILED..which means you meet the definition of a loser,sorry not sorry to see you go :)

Oh and thank you to those that employed their wallets to ensure my happiness on Christmas morn,you will surely be blessed to continue providing for my wants,lucky little bitches aren't you lol.

Moving along. I have been keeping a very close eye on where my time is best spent,and with that said,new males are going to have put extra effort into gaining my attention since I am backing away from sites and venues which serve no purpose for me. It is only logical that I focus my precious time where it is most appreciated.

Now since I have your attention,aren't these new socks from my brat too cute

Unfortunately it poured buckets and buckets of rain here all day,so my new mattress set was not delivered,and that is NOT making me happy,but you can change that by sending me lots and lots of amazon gift cards :) Now get to it!! I want to wake and shop all morning,so sign into your amazon account and send to mzsydney34@yahoo.com


DON'T ASK WHY,JUST DO AS YOU ARE TOLD LIKE A GOOD BOY

brat boy stepping up

Spending my day relaxing ahhhhh

Had a wonderful time last night with my brat boy shopping! he bought me a new mattress set for Christmas(won't be delivered til Saturday though :()
Along with a few amazon gift cards..he definitely made me a happy Goddess!

Now it is your turn to step up,what are YOU going to do to make my Christmas a happy one??

Why isn't your face beneath my foot

Crawl for me,and beg to smell the aroma of my sweat soaked feet!

Hmm seems like you forgot something...oh yes get those Christmas gifts of gratitude to me now. I want to see my inbox flooded with amazon gift cards.

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I WANT GIFTS!!

Make the season sparkle with amazon gift cards at my decadent feet

It is your job to supply the gifts under my Christmas tree

Keep my feet happy with lots of gifts

finsub that never fails

I mentioned to my real time boy that I was feeling a bit melancholic,so what does he do...immediately rushes out to purchase a sweet little gift for me,and drops it off with my favorite gift,CASH.

This is devotion,this is adoration,but most of all,this is a boy who honestly cares about my happiness. This is how it should be.

Will I or won't I make my departure

New socks from a gent whose admiration I never question,as I know that I am first in his heart,mind,and wallet.

The rest of you are an utter example of failure,for you care not about my happiness,wants,desires,or even me myself...so to you I relay that the clock is ticking,and my thoughts lead me to consider excusing myself entirely from online domination.

Adore me,worship me,make me your fetish

Gift me as a display of your adoration,your worship,and to feed my fetish

No box for me

I do not fit into the typical stereotype most males have boxed femdoms into. On a typical day you will not find me clad in leather,and heels,nor will you find me leading male pets around on a leash out in public...or any other activity you find in femdom porn. Note:Femdom videos came about in creation not to actually display reality femdom,but instead to tantalize the senses of males through their arousal thereby generating profits for their business,and a big money making business it is. One of the unfortunate side effects of viewing such media,is that now we have an entire generation seeing this as non-fiction,and it truly is not.

Femdom is not about clothing or scenes. It is about real interaction between two consenting adults,and day to day life is not conducive to the time consuming effort required to be fully made up,and clad as they are in the videos all day long caging males,fisting asses,and being this larger than life woman forcing males to enact the very fantasies that men have ejaculated to their entire lives.

Femdom is real,just not the real you imagine it to be. How do I know,well most likely due to me dominating males real time for the last 10 years. I know that I have a life outside of play,and that when I get home from work,that the last thing on my mind is recreating male flesh erecting fantasies. What does come to mind,and yes it happens...is that I expect a drink to be waiting for me beside my mail,and a warm pair of hands eager to rub my feet be waiting beside my desk as I check my emails. I also know that my satisfaction is the only satisfaction that matters to that gent rubbing my feet. If it didn't then he would not be there.

Being a femdom means that I lead the direction of the relationships I engage in,and yes I have more than one,and no they are not sexual in nature. I simply take great pleasure in having more than one gent in my service. These males have the honor of seeing me just as I am,no games of pretense. If I want to paddles their asses in my sweats then so be it,and if I feel like wearing latex while they lick my toes,well then that is what I do,but always on my terms,and never just because porn tells them that I should act this way,or dress that way to dominate them. Believe me when I say that I do not need $1000 pair of heels to bring a man to his knees,cause my naked foot kicking his groin will accomplish that deed much quicker. Get my drift?

So for the love of all that is holy,cease taking fiction as fact. Life is life,and the males in my service live it on my terms,not male dominated creation ones. Take this as a fact,I am not alone in my femdom mindset :)

Twinkle toes to worship with your wallet(click on pic to view video)

Twinkle #toes to worship with your wallet! #findom #femdom #footfetishnation #MzSydney #prettyfeet

A video posted by Mz Sydney (@mzsydney34) on Dec 7, 2015 at 11:01pm PST

Taste the sweetness(click the pic to view the video)

Lick the sugary sweetness from my savory #soles #feet #fetish #footlover #footfetishnation #femdom #findom #MzSydney

A video posted by Mz Sydney (@mzsydney34) on Dec 7, 2015 at 12:07pm PST

Making the cut

As adults we all know that to truly succeed at anything,you are going to have to work for it,and that definitely applies to becoming an owned submissive. When achievements especially those of great import come too easily to your hand,they are less likely to be fully appreciated,which is why I make those under my heel figuratively,ok sometimes literally lol sweat blood and tears to get to that acme tier of service.

I expect and accept nothing less than excellence. That does not mean that there will not be stumbles along the way,for a smooth ascent can only be golden when one falls a few times as they climb it. It instills pride knowing that one has striven and driven themselves to accomplish what they once thought the impossible,and this aids in creating a better person in the process,which is one of my goals for those who I call my own.

After all,I have no desire to have an actual loser in my stable. In my estimation a loser is one who fails to expend effort towards life at all. They are content to allow others to pave the way for them,and seek handouts at every opportunity. This is not the type of behavior that any owner would be proud of.

This post is especially directed at those that believe themselves above such expenditures,through either a sense of patriarchal entitlement,or a misplaced belief of superiority in their upbringing. When it comes to women,you as a male are entitled to absolutely nothing from us,and most definitely not from me. Even basic courtesy will be withheld if you do not portray yourself as a decent human being,and yes I have dealt with a few,maybe more than a few who act in such a manner. Women are not objects,and most certainly we are more than pretty pictures on a page. If you want to get to know a woman,to serve a Domme,then you are going to have to lose that ego that you wear on your shoulder,and accept that you are one of many that approaches daily. You need to stand out if you want to be taken seriously,which means that you will need to reach deep and find your humility,in order to come correct.

I am not intimating that one must be a doormat lacking all personality,well unless that is your thing of course,but please do be capable of holding up your end of a civilized conversation not peppered with fetish talk. There is always time to delve into the darker sides of desires,but that should not be at the forefront in an initial exchange. Be willing to prove yourself,your sincerity,and your integrity...this is what makes you shine like a diamond in the ruff.

Creature comforts

From the title you may freely assume that I enjoy creature comforts,and you would be correct. I like to be comfy,cozy,and all around at ease,yup I do. I enjoy soft woolly socks in the winter,and thin silky ones in the summer,and shoes that make my feet feel like they are walking on a cloud,which is why you see so very few photos of my feet in heels. Heels are pure torture on divine feet. They squish,they pinch,they simply hurt,and I don't enjoy the experience. That is why I make a point of announcing that I WANT more socks,and boots,and you as admiring gentlemen should be filling my inbox full of gift cards to provide for my desires,after all that is unless you are a selfish user just perving my words and photos for your own pleasure rather than with the pure intent of pleasing me. Which are you? The lack of gift card notifications tells me exactly which one you are. Fix that NOW!

My comfort should rank as a supreme priority in your estimation if you ever hope to attain a place in my graces. For quite awhile now a trend has been prevailing where you males believe that your wants are a deciding factor in service,they aren't. By that what I am saying is that your selfish dick designs need to be eradicated. Making your Goddess happy is what matters,rather than what makes your dicklette ooze. She > He and I > you. Come humble,come correct to my feet.

You and I both know that you fantasize about your tongue between my toes...wake up little foot freak...now get on worshiping the perfection of my feet with amazon gift cards.

real time findom spoils

My real time brat boy took me shopping tonight,and purchased some crazy cute socks,and a new silky soft comforter set which makes me want to purr like a kitten when it rubs against my skin!!

just no

Some of the things I see posted seriously sicken and alarm me,and no I am not referring to your prune faced pecker!

I am going to tell you something gents,placing a Domme before your parental responsibilities is NOT ok. For real,it is pathetic and deems you unworthy of a parental title,and I will leave off what comes to my mind when I think of any female harboring such an expectation,but believe me when I say that it is not good.

No matter your fantasy,reality is a trumper.

Now get your face over here cause I need a human foot rest for my wrinkled soles

Elite&Exclusive

If you have ever been on any of the sites I am a member of,and took a moment to look at my profile,one of the first things you would notice is that I keep my friend's lists exclusive,and rarely do you see a male included. The only males you ever see remaining on one of those lists are those that have served me well,and most times I do not even allow them that honor. One important thing for you boys to know is that my list is also a reflection of the fact that I am quite selective with whom I associate with,which in turn clues you into the fact that I am not a chaser. Meaning that I do not send friend requests to males,nor do I feel the desire to approach first,for if you crave to serve me,you will make yourself known to me,and the only way to make yourself known to me,is to TRIBUTE TRIBUTE TRIBUTE :)

Treat my FindomFeet

Treat my feet to a magnificently Merry Christmas by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com!!

Straight up serious about my motivation

The reputation of findom gets blacker everyday sadly. I understand why,but that does not mean that I choose to like it,or even engage in the behaviors which soil it irreparably. Even I cannot right the wrongs :(

What I will do though,is to always be upfront and honest about my expectations and motivations.

*From day one I have maintained that to stand any chance at serving me,that a male must willingly tribute. Gifts make me happy,and that should be of supreme importance to any male hoping to be well received.

*I make no secret that I am not your bestie,and never will be. Friends are friends,and a Domme/servant relationship falls outside of that scope for me. That does not mean that I do not have manners or compassion,just that I do not muddy waters. Of course I develop deeper bonds with some over time,and display kindness,but never before you have proven yourself to me.

*I will never lie in order to gain a servant,nor will I offer services to entice a male.

*I will never ever allow my servants to see me nude,which includes photos(I do not trade them either).

*I am not all about making your cock happy,consider it a severe case of cock block :)

*I will always place my wants before you. Yes I have heard all about how a male's wants are of import,but to my way of thinking,your number one want,should ALWAYS be my happiness,therefore my wants are what should be striven towards. Stop thinking with the little head!

*I am all about control. It is a passion,and a purpose. If you cannot or will not relinquish it,then you will never serve me.

*I will NEVER meet with total strangers. No exceptions to my probation rule.


With all of that being stated,feel free to ask questions in regards to it.

The view that wreaks havoc on your mind,money,and manhood!

Transparency for dummies

One of the chief complaints lodged by males is that they are not mind readers,which is understandable,yet even with it all spelled out in the open,you still fail. How can that be? I know that I am not alone when it comes to transparency regarding wants. I have no hesitancy about laying it on the line for all of you to see,yet each and every day more and more males go into the refuse bin when speaking with me.

What is so very difficult about comprehending my position? Seriously I would like a tangible explanation.

READ CAREFULLY & ABSORB FULLY

I want only males who possess no self serving agenda,for I am not all about getting males off(fact is that I would absolutely love to see all males cock locked),maybe then they would be free to cease thinking with the head which is self absorbed.

I want only males who place me as a priority in their life.

I want males who give generously and graciously of themselves,which includes,time,devotion,and finances, YES I FUCKING SAID FINANCIALLY. No fin=no dom=no dom=no fin etc..... Is that clear enough? I want the control aspect of domination,but no I will not accept the domination without the financial,is that crystal? Combine the domination and the financial,and I am a happy Domme!

I want males who have their shit together. I am not I repeat NOT,Prince Charming who has come to rescue you from whatever ate up scathole you have ran your life into. If your head is up your ass,whelp I do not intend to shovel it out for you.

I want males who come to me willingly. I am not a sister of Conan the Barbarian,here to strong arm you into serving me. If force is your thing,fine,but that is not my style,so don't ask. It is not a secret that many of you long to suck dick,so don't try to play it off that you really don't,but that you would do it in my honor,come the fuck on,just own up to being a cocksucker wannabe.This goes along with males willingly tributing me. I am not a bully that is going to beat you up for it figuratively,and yes that includes you giving me your cc info to use(sheesh that is a quick way to end up in an orange jumper)!!

I want males who know what the word loyalty means,and actually embody the definition.

I want males who are able to communicate,which is not confined to one word responses. Take note when I say regular communication,and no that is not just when your cocklette gets hard,that means putting in the effort each and every day.

I want males who are desperate to serve ME,and me alone. Directionless desperation is not flattering in any shape or form,so for those hungered to serve just anyone,you are not for me.

Couldn't get any clearer. Feel free to thank me :)

Keepers of the Flame and Fortune

Kiss my candlelit feet with cash

This is why I regularly post the rules

One of my readers questioned as to why I would feel the need to repost my rules and requirements..well let's just say that since I posted yesterday in regards to my wishes,the following message is the first I received afterwards

"amazing profile ma'am!  I am new to this so hoping my approach is not rude as i know i have a ton to learn still and also working on a detailed profile of my own.  I truly hope to find a mature woman to mold me and serve her to be the best of my abilities as i have always felt like i was born to serve and hoping to stop denying this feeling and start a new life serving.  I work construction and love reading, movies and activities outside. i do not smoke or drink.  I feel that i would excel at domestic duties, humiliation and body worship but also know it is up to my owner to decide how i will be used.  I am an only child from strict religious upbringing and do still currently live at home however i saving up to hopefully relocate at some point to serve 24/7. hope you will consider me and hope to hear back and get to know more about you ma'am." (Mind you that he is a 20 yr old male)

Now I am going to paste the parts of my profile which conflict with what you just read,and you tell me,do you think that he even bothered to do me the courtesy of reading my profile?

" My name is Mz Sydney,and I am to be addressed as such(not Miss,Ma'am or Mistress)."

"What I do NOT seek:

*males under 35

*sex or oral slaves

*maids

*husband,boyfriend,fwb's,hook-ups,dates

*promotional slaves ie males to promote me via social media outlets

*friends(I have plenty of those)

*personal toilet(just no)

*live in servants"

 

Finance my Black Friday fun

I want to shop today!! Send amazon gift cards to my FindomFeet at mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Make my Black Friday AMAZING by financing my fun

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Wanna lick my peppermint stick lol...psyche worship my sweet feet with your wallet

flogging that horse

Here we are dear readers once more covering ground that has already been trod upon over and over,yet the need arises to speak of past posts in order to educate those that have arrived since.

The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.

1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.

The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.

Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.

Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :(  Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.

Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.

Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)

Why aren't you on your knees giving thanks for my gorgeous feet...I WANT AMAZON GIFT CARDS NOW!!!

Christmas dreams

What every foot fetish male dreams of finding beneath the Christmas tree...dream on...worship my prefect feet with your wallet!! Send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Tinsel toe tease video

VIDEO

Come worship my silver nails and tinsel toes

Oh and follow me on instagram :)

TRIBUTE for notice

Salivate over my silver toes,and salacious soles. You are unworthy of notice til you TRIBUTE!!

findom fuck you wave

To all of you that did not contribute to my birthday

This coin does not flip

The financial domination universe is entirely out of whack due to actions perpetrated from females and males alike. Notice I said females,not Dommes,interesting eh? Let's talk about that.

There are literally hundreds of females in the findom playground,why? M O N E Y ! Now don't get my intent twisted,cause I am for all females,and believe they should do whatever enriches their lives,and pleases them most. Things get hairy though when the lines get erased between findom and provision of services. What I am basically saying is that a ton of males find themselves on cam sites,clip sites,or market places where sessions and items are sold,and whilst all is good in the neighborhood,that is NOT findom.

Peeps should have the google definition of findom bookmarked by now...it is a handy resource tool :) Now sit right back cause I am gonna break it down for you.

1)Buying a clip for your personal amusement,or gratification(wank spank) is NOT findom.
2)Buying a cam session to watch the pretty lady,or have her watch you,is NOT findom.
3)Buying used items for your jacking jerk off is NOT findom.
4)Calling NF for phone sex is NOT findom.
5)Tipping tokens in return for spoils back is NOT findom.

Notice how I used small words,so as not to confuse you? Gee whiz I am super nice :)

If you are purchasing product(clips,session,pedi dust,panties,used shoes etc..)you fall into the category of a customer/client,and the female is technically a service provider,rather than a Domme. Yes some in fact many Dommes do offer services,but if they are selling something,then that is NOT really dominating now is it? No,so you are NOT being dominated,therefore you are NOT serving. Ok here is where it can get tricky,if a Domme commands that you purchase her products,then in essence she is dominating you if you comply(confusing isn't it),but if you are just doing it all on your own for your satisfaction,then you are NOT being dominated,nor are you serving anything but your own kink.

What is findom then if nothing that I mentioned above,whelp I will spell it out for the lazy turds who won't use google.

Findom entails sending a tribute $$$ (non-reciprocal gift) to a dominant. Easy cheesy isn't it? No bargaining,no expectations,no force required.

Woot isn't it wonderful to have it explained to you! Knowledge is power baby,use it :)

IG

Drum roll...Goddess now has IG,but it will cater to my foot fetish for the most part.

Most of you are sincerely pathetic for having not contributed to my special day..and I do not mean pathetic in that lovely shameful degradation way,so get your fucking cock out of your hand!

Oh and rick the measly tributing dick,I know that you are keeping up with my blogs,you owe me a birthday gift bitch!!

That is all for now :)

Happy Birthday to me

It is now officially my Birthday!! Where are my gifts?? Get on spoiling me on my special day by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com,just like I have spoiled each of you that has gained wisdom,and excitement all year long from my words and photos. No excuses,just action. Gift my petal soft peds

A day away

One day away from my holy Birthday! Have you sent your gift?

This is from an admiring gentleman

and this is from my real time boy,who adores spoiling his Goddess.

What have YOU done for me lately??

cleanse

Goddess is going to begin a cleanse like you have never seen before. One where dead weight is massively dropped. This coming year's Birthday has shown me exactly who cares for my happiness,and those that do not,so....I will be removing all from my various lists (starting with skype) who do not enrich my existence,and spoil me as I deserve. If you are one of those cut,sorry not sorry,for you should have put effort into pleasing me rather than sitting back and serving your own pleasure base by stroking to my words and photos. Only those that are truly bent towards making my pleasure paramount will remain in my good graces. Good riddance to rubbish!

As to those of you who remain...welcome,and remember that if you falter,you too will be cut loose. By the way,you have 2 days remaining til the holy day of birth festivities,get your gifts to me ahead of time :)

worship my form

Unforgettably irresistible...3 days til my Birthday...72 hours to get your gift of appreciation to Goddess

 Come my minions and bless my beautiful form with a bounty of gifts.

grains of time

The grains of sand are slipping through the hour glass oh so quickly now...3 days,just 72 short hours. Have you sent your gift yet? I imagine not,else I would not need to remind you huh!

After a couple of months having this blasted selfie stick staring at me from the back of my desk,I finally hooked it up to my iphone6,which means you are very blessed to be graced with a photo of my lovely self,yay you!!!

I am truly gorgeous ;p and Goddess like in my visage...now get to sending my gifts!

booties

So soft,so warm..oh how I adore my new juicy booties!

Only 5 more days to display your appreciation for my divine birth. I expect to see my box flooded with amazon gift cards(mzsydney34@yahoo.com),NOW!!

Get on your fucking knees and beg me to claim what belongs to me,and to me alone...your ego,your pride,your dignity,and your wallet. Beseech me to accept your all..pray for my greed to consume you whole,for their is no greater joy in this lifetime than to suffer and sacrifice for your living Goddess.

prezzie porn

The first of my many Birthday prezzies(better be anyway,get off your ass and fill my box with amazon gift cards)...you only have 6 days,so CHOP CHOP,cause Mz Sydney expects gifts galore this year from you gents!!

tick tock goes the clock

I skipped 8 and went right to 7 days til my Birthday..time is wasting,I want my gifts now!! Lay them at my feet :)

No socks,no cares,who wants to sniff my wrinkled soles?

9 more days

The countdown continues til my Birthday,so get those gift cards in early :)

Today I am feeling generous,so enjoy

Give in

Give in to the gorgeous glow of my perfect soles

10 short days to shower my soles in amazon gift cards.

Holy day

It is officially 11 days away from my Birthday now gents..time to be about showing your worth,and sending blessed amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

My birthday is to be more spectacular than Christmas,for it is indeed a holy day,so get your wallets out and impress me :)

Audio

I created a little audio sharing with you all of the ways you can connect with me.
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A new day=a new opportunity

One day closer. It is now 13 days til the most celebrated day of my divine birth. Be the early bird,and send your gift now. I am only accepting amazon gift cards this year,so send them all to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

purpose

My real time boy(brat)stopped by this evening to shower me with appreciation

and this is how it is done gents. He does not make demands,he has no expectations,merely the knowledge that through his worshipful service of me,he has a purpose in life.

Countdown celebration

Greetings admiring gents of the findom realm. The official countdown for my day of birth celebrations has begun. You have 2 little weeks til the big day,and I am expecting you to impress me this year with your generosity towards my happiness :)

Plenty of time to get those amazon gift cards into my inbox,so no excuses will be accepted at their absence.

Many of you have followed me in lurking silence for years,and now is the perfect time to step up and make yourselves known in my presence,and nothing creates a better first impression,than a gift!

I leave you to it,do NOT disappoint me.

FAIL

No treats in my inbox for Halloween=your failure to display appreciation,and that equates to punishment for you. No pics til I am appeased. I suggest you rectify the error asap.

Halloween feet treat

Halloween treat!

I want 10 amazon gift cards in my inbox (mzsydney34@yahoo.com) celebrating the perfection of my 10 pretty toes :) Make it happen gents!!

sock spoil

I adore these new socks that my findom brat gifted me with,they hug my curves in the most amazing way,wouldn't you agree lol..of course he knows that his gifts are never enough to feed my greed full :)

Holiday runaway

It's that time of year,where generally we look to share good cheer,yet here in findom land,the countdown has begun. The days grow shorter,and the waking hours seem few,as does the number of gents who come anew. Who knew?

The posts start once more,saying where oh where little piggy are you? The holiday "Dommes" are flocking the field,and "submissive" gents are burrowing underground. Those who have lasted throughout the span,see this phenomenon each and every year without change or yield. Little boys run away,for they care not to pay the tidings of the holiday,whilst scroungers,and beggars litter the feed,buy me this and this because I am here. (If that tactic ever works,please do let me know,for I am old and in need of new tricks lol)

Sincerely my disgust is great,and the thought takes root that perhaps,just perhaps I might take a break,for wary is she who has seen the pattern in the past,and now desires not for the trend to last. So scurry little mice with your wallets held tight,and batten down the hatches for the scavengers are in sight.

Bring on the holidays :)

Findom Fall feet

Fall foliage under my sexy soled feet. It should be crisp hundreds crushed under my perfect peds :)

Feed your addiction at the feet of the FinDominator

Website is live!!

I am doing the happy dance right now! My website is finally live after spending hours of my precious time designing it myself,yay me :) Feel free to leave suggestions or merely gawk open mouthed at my handiwork lol...oh and do not forget to spoil me outrageously with amazon gift cards

Website

Weekend is over :(

This weekend I took time away from most of my online activities,much needed I must add. I fear that most of you my readers do not realize how much of my precious time I invest in taking and posting photos,typing up words of wisdom for your depleted grey matter to soak up,and responding to the numerous emails,and kik messages I receive. It is enough to wear a being out lol

Anyways,so while you were pining away for my presence I was enjoying time with the special man in my life. Ahh a lovely romantic dinner,and a gift that I have been coveting for a few months now.

A beautiful woman is always deserving of beautiful things :) You gents could use a lesson or twenty in regards to what it means to please without selfish expectations in return.

I am back in the saddle now though,and whilst you did not see much of me today,that was due to me putting in a few hours on getting my website designed,yay me!! As soon as it is done I will post the much awaited news,so be watching for it. Speaking of sites,my tumblr (http://mzsydney.tumblr.com/) is garnering admirers at a pleasing rate. Seems like a great many of gents adore my perfect peds,and why shouldn't they,after all they are divine :)

Off for now,even a Goddess requires sleep

Mmm I took some massively hot erection erecting pics of my perfect peds in the bath this evening while getting ready for my date...holding off on posting them for you little foot fetish worshipers til I see some appreciation and adoration in the form of amazon gift cards in my inbox. Show me how much you want to see them :)

Good morning,good afternoon,good evening to all my loyal generous gents.

Today is a hectic day for Goddess,having had my bi weekly pedicure,and plans for a hot date tonight,so I will not be around much til tomorrow afternoon :) No doubt you will be spending your Saturday night home alone embedding my words of wisdom & scrumptious visage into your psyche,and NO touching that dangler between your legs. The only time you should be reaching into your pants at all,is to take your wallet out,and plug in those magical digits whilst purchasing amazon gift cards for me. Now be good little boys and send me gifts of adoration and appreciation while I am away today. *hint* amazon gift cards go to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Aren't my sparklies breathtaking ;p

You all know that I joined kik yes?? Just another way for you to reach out to me and serve. Of course I only associate with the most elite Dommes,so for you gents who generously tribute($$$) and serve selflessly(one without the other voids the offer) come visit with myself and the beautiful Ladies of my acquaintance,and do NOT forget to bring your wallet ;p

A few of the groups where you can find the best of the best


#findomfetishers

#footWorshippers

#Puppyslaves

#BodyWorship

dumbass alert

Some days I am left shaking my head at the blatantly illogical behavior of males who contact me. Take for instance one from this very day. It began well with him requesting to serve me,to which I questioned why he wanted to serve me in particular. His response was pleasing,with him affirming that he had already came here to my blog to research me(color me surprised),now this is where it gets dicey. I confirmed his knowledge that tribute would be required to serve,and he of course accepted such,but yet when he was informed that tribute is always in the form of an amazon gift,he poofed like puff the magic dragon's smoke.

Of course I am used to the antics of a serial time waster. This is findom after all,and it is a common tactical move,but what had me going "huh",was that he approached me not with the usual transparent ploys of wasters,for 1)no dick pics were sent 2)no fetish talk was exchanged 3)no mentions of what he wanted me to do to him,or even him asking what I would do to him. Makes no sense..the only conclusion I can arrive at is that he is a scared little boy who bolts when shit gets real,pity him,seriously do(he got blocked awww :()  We all know that I am a supreme Goddess worthy of worship,so you hurt only yourself by enacting such behaviors since I am not known for giving second chances.

Moral of the story,don't be a dumbass

Slip into the seduction of my sinfully wrinkled soles &
Spoil their perfection with your cash

Proud to be a greedy bitch

Yes I am one of those bitches :) You can accuse me of being greedy,you can say that I am a bitch,hell you can ever declare me a greedy bitch...all are accurate :) Considering that I am such a sweetheart(truly I am),just not to you..why would anyone call me a greedy bitch,well it is due to the fact that teeny tiny tributes do absolutely nothing for me,not a damn thing. They do not get me all hot and bothered,nor make me pant in desperation to seek out the sender lol,and seriously I have my reasons why.

Teeny tiny tributes generally occur for a handful of reasons:

1)The sender is broke(meaning more outgoing than incoming),now this person does not belong in findom at all. They actually need to get their finances and life in order before stepping foot back into the fetish,or atleast save up til they are able to send a respectable tribute amount.

2)The sender is cheap(ick)they are attempting to get as much time and attention as possible for minimal expenditure. They see findom as their personal pecker pull off grounds. Since they are able to view tons of wank spank daily for free,and purchase cam sessions for rock bottom prices,it is no surprise that findom is breeding an entire generation of entitled miserly asshats. Fuck the selfish scrooges,let them wallow in their pools of spunk and fistful of dollar bills :)

3)The sender is a slut,therefore they send a little to this one,and a little to this one etc...thereby gaining time with lots of females,they get off,and the recipient receives far less than they actually deserve(not very complimentary when I spell it out like that,now is it?)

4)The sender is feeling you out,seeing if you are the type to accept less than your worth,and if you are hooray for them right? Oh yes I have heard the one about males not sending a decent amount just to find out if they want to serve you,know what that says to me...that they are lazy,cause I doubt that any Domme out there does not have a profile written up detailing her likes and dislikes,or a website,a twitter,an instagram,or even a NF,so if the sender had taken the time to check her out,he would already know whether he wants to serve or not now wouldn't he hmmmmm

What it all boils down to is that I view my time as more precious than gold,of more value than a king's ransom of jewels,why is that,because time is the one thing that I cannot redeem or reclaim if spent upon one who truly does not value it,and anything of value does NOT come cheap. Why should it. Cheap things are purchased by cheap people,thereby devaluing all involved. So if you want to call me a bitch,or even a greedy bitch just because I do not care to be treated like a cheap slag,well then so be it. I will own the title :)

Fall in love with my silky soft oil slicked sinful sole

Imagine your tongue slipping in and out of each wrinkle on my soles :) Now ejaculate your hard earned cash all into my amazon account!

It is time for Sunday worship and spoils for my divinity,snap to it gents,I want to feel the love of received tributes at my feet...after all you do appreciate me allowing you glimpses into my perfection now don't you,for if not,then I can simply cease posting photos of any type.

Now open that wallet and worship as you were created. Lay your offering at my wrinkled soles