Saturday, November 30, 2013
Friday, November 29, 2013
I came home last night to a sweet lil gift from mona sitting in my inbox waiting for me.
Now that is the type of thoughtfulness that all of you boys should be displaying for your Goddess. Thank goodness for good boys. Speaking of good boys,a knock on my door this morning greeted me with a box of goodies from a gc that my pet gifted me with for my birthday....3 new sweaters,and 3 new tops from Kohls!!! I am elated as they are exactly as I wished,and they are proof that males do exist whom thrive on nothing other than pleasing me. In fact my pet is once more locked up as it should be. Chastity is one of my favorite fetishes,and my pet anticipates that the longer and more often that his cock is caged,then the happier his Goddess shall be :D
That is all for the day dear readers,and remember that if you are not serving Goddess,then you are beneath her notice,and a disgrace for your selfish ways.
That is all for the day dear readers,and remember that if you are not serving Goddess,then you are beneath her notice,and a disgrace for your selfish ways.
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Today is a day to give thanks for the divine Goddess in your life. If you are not doing so,then pull your head out of your ass and begin doing so.
A couple of things I have to be thankful for today from my boys is a lovely selfless gift from les to spoil my fav nephews with.
As well as a couple of gifts from my toy drive wish list that my brat purchased to show his appreciation for my presence in his life.
The rest of you lackeys need to snap to it and clear that wish list for me. http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3
A couple of things I have to be thankful for today from my boys is a lovely selfless gift from les to spoil my fav nephews with.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
limelight shadows
I am most often observing from the background rather than hovering in the spotlight. This may seem contradictory to the actions which propel a lady into findom fortune and fame 500, but sometimes it is the turtle whom wins the race now is it not? By opting to play down key I am in a position to see so much more than if I were constantly fretting about how best to keep my name on everyone's lips. I read, research, and learn every single day. One should never allow an opportunity to bypass them to expand their base of knowledge. This is not the only reason that I step into the limelight shadows, but it is definitely a motivation.
Looking in, one of the biggest detractors I view from always pushing yourself to the forefront is that you in a way invite others to critique and judge you, which unfortunately leads you to being the object of jealousy and hateful bashing, and who in their right mind would desire that? In a perfect world there would be no such thing as hating nor vindictive coveting, but until such a nirvana is created, I for one will steer clear of the negative drama. Life is finite, so why waste it right?
On the up side there is a positive note to maintaining a somewhat distanced approach, it forces males whom wish to serve me to actually work for the honor of speaking with me. Since I am not online 24/7 nor offer cam services I am less likely to deal with the coddled and catered to boys in the scene, for they possess no leverage $ to dangle before me, and for that I am thankful. This keeps the power exactly where it belongs, in my hands. It always reminds me of that old saying about people not appreciating anything that they did not have to work for, which is why you will never see me chasing after males in any manner especially on the sites I frequent. I do not just message unknown males in the hopes that it shall lead them to serving me, nor do I send out random friend requests, much less accept them. If a male respects that my time and attention are important to him, then he will have to come to me, NEVER vice versa. Of course this is not how everyone operates, and I am cool with that, for if we were all the same, then how droll and unimaginative this life would be yes?
Most of what I am saying contradicts alot of what we see posted and enacted, but I wholeheartedly endorse the philosophy of " to each their own." I myself have posted before about how you will be happier and more successful by being true to you rather than playing a role which does not suit. It is better to be real than to have a million fans and followers on twitter, or thousands of unknown names on your friends or im list right? This way those that do find their way to you do so knowing whom you are and how valuable it is to be known to you.
Looking in, one of the biggest detractors I view from always pushing yourself to the forefront is that you in a way invite others to critique and judge you, which unfortunately leads you to being the object of jealousy and hateful bashing, and who in their right mind would desire that? In a perfect world there would be no such thing as hating nor vindictive coveting, but until such a nirvana is created, I for one will steer clear of the negative drama. Life is finite, so why waste it right?
On the up side there is a positive note to maintaining a somewhat distanced approach, it forces males whom wish to serve me to actually work for the honor of speaking with me. Since I am not online 24/7 nor offer cam services I am less likely to deal with the coddled and catered to boys in the scene, for they possess no leverage $ to dangle before me, and for that I am thankful. This keeps the power exactly where it belongs, in my hands. It always reminds me of that old saying about people not appreciating anything that they did not have to work for, which is why you will never see me chasing after males in any manner especially on the sites I frequent. I do not just message unknown males in the hopes that it shall lead them to serving me, nor do I send out random friend requests, much less accept them. If a male respects that my time and attention are important to him, then he will have to come to me, NEVER vice versa. Of course this is not how everyone operates, and I am cool with that, for if we were all the same, then how droll and unimaginative this life would be yes?
Most of what I am saying contradicts alot of what we see posted and enacted, but I wholeheartedly endorse the philosophy of " to each their own." I myself have posted before about how you will be happier and more successful by being true to you rather than playing a role which does not suit. It is better to be real than to have a million fans and followers on twitter, or thousands of unknown names on your friends or im list right? This way those that do find their way to you do so knowing whom you are and how valuable it is to be known to you.
Friday, November 22, 2013
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Are you looking to serve,or to be served?
How sad it is to see males treat the lifestyle like a fast food establishment. Why is it that one would believe that they should and could have things their way when they are supposedly submissive. If you are seeking out the means and way to your own personal gratification,then you are submissive to none other than your own sex. It is extremely frustrating to anyone to feel as if they have wasted their time on misrepresentations. The very first thing any submissive should bear knowledge of is exactly what they are. Never attempt to establish yourself as something you clearly are not. A submissive does not come before a dominant with the expectation that they are the prime motivator of the exchange. Of course all individuals possess desires,yet one that is inherently submissive will seek only to sate and satisfy the one whom they offer their submission to. They are able to convert their pleasure into somewhat of a vicarious based life. Happiness experienced when they have provided the means of joy to another. Gratification reached when they have brought forth the blissful peak of the one they serve. The simple truth is that if you cannot set aside self serving agendas,then you are worthless in a power exchange,and should acknowledge and embrace the reality that you are selfish,and do not deserve the title of submissive.
We have all seen posts relaying that it is all about the dominant,and that the submissive is secondary,yet if you read certain materials publishing that the exchange is based upon the submissive,and this confliction of data leads to confusing areas of grey matter. I understand how it would lead to misunderstandings,but they can be avoided if you take your time and figure exactly what type of dominant you are dealing with.
There are some women that in a way allow the submissive to lead,such as pro-Dommes in a paid session. These ladies provide a service,which means that the client is entitled to having their desires met as they wish,for they have paid for that very thing. Now we have purely lifestyle Dominas as well which is entirely different. Most lifestyle ladies are seeking a personal submissive,perhaps even a spouse. In this situation the submissives desires must align with the dominant's wishes as well,for they will have a 24/7 relationship with aspects reflecting those of any vanilla relationship. This is not to say that there is no overlap. There are pros which engage in lifestyle as well,and surely the rules will differ in each individual exchange. Onto the strictly online Dommes. In regards to online domination,it most times incorporates findom,as how else can you serve online? I mean seriously any lady that has been around for longer than a week has seen all of the cock pics that she can tolerate in a lifetime,and you can bank on the fact that she would rather you buy her an outfit then to watch you model one you bought for yourself.
The point of my post is to share valuable information which will aid males in the scene in making informed decisions. To be blunt my words are not new found nuggets of wisdom,they are common sense which apparently is lacking nowadays.
So here ya go,and yes you can thank me for taking my time to spoon feed you what you should already know. 1)If you do not want to sacrifice financially,then do NOT seek out a pro. 2)If you feel that your needs and wants are the focus,seek out a pro,but be prepared to pay for the service. 3)If your only desire is to get your dick beaters sticky for free,then locate free porn on the net *hint* it is all over the place. 4)If you want only to have your kinks played out and do not mind a small investment in having them met,then purchase clips,or buy cam time 5)If you possess an altruistic motivation towards service,then you are worthy of serving either pro or lifestyle or a combination of both.
We have all seen posts relaying that it is all about the dominant,and that the submissive is secondary,yet if you read certain materials publishing that the exchange is based upon the submissive,and this confliction of data leads to confusing areas of grey matter. I understand how it would lead to misunderstandings,but they can be avoided if you take your time and figure exactly what type of dominant you are dealing with.
There are some women that in a way allow the submissive to lead,such as pro-Dommes in a paid session. These ladies provide a service,which means that the client is entitled to having their desires met as they wish,for they have paid for that very thing. Now we have purely lifestyle Dominas as well which is entirely different. Most lifestyle ladies are seeking a personal submissive,perhaps even a spouse. In this situation the submissives desires must align with the dominant's wishes as well,for they will have a 24/7 relationship with aspects reflecting those of any vanilla relationship. This is not to say that there is no overlap. There are pros which engage in lifestyle as well,and surely the rules will differ in each individual exchange. Onto the strictly online Dommes. In regards to online domination,it most times incorporates findom,as how else can you serve online? I mean seriously any lady that has been around for longer than a week has seen all of the cock pics that she can tolerate in a lifetime,and you can bank on the fact that she would rather you buy her an outfit then to watch you model one you bought for yourself.
The point of my post is to share valuable information which will aid males in the scene in making informed decisions. To be blunt my words are not new found nuggets of wisdom,they are common sense which apparently is lacking nowadays.
So here ya go,and yes you can thank me for taking my time to spoon feed you what you should already know. 1)If you do not want to sacrifice financially,then do NOT seek out a pro. 2)If you feel that your needs and wants are the focus,seek out a pro,but be prepared to pay for the service. 3)If your only desire is to get your dick beaters sticky for free,then locate free porn on the net *hint* it is all over the place. 4)If you want only to have your kinks played out and do not mind a small investment in having them met,then purchase clips,or buy cam time 5)If you possess an altruistic motivation towards service,then you are worthy of serving either pro or lifestyle or a combination of both.
Friday, November 15, 2013
Very pleased with my boys today whom sent birthday wishes especially my pet les whom gifted me with a $100 gc from my wl in addition to the other 2 he purchased for me Monday. He has shown me absolute devotion and adoration by always placing my happiness as his priority!
The rest of you are not even worthy of kissing my gloriously divine ass,so all I have to impart to you is SUCK IT :D
The rest of you are not even worthy of kissing my gloriously divine ass,so all I have to impart to you is SUCK IT :D
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Monday, November 11, 2013
4 days til the celebration of my sacred birthday,NOW is the time to gift me with amazon gift cards thereby providing me with the pleasure of purchasing whatever catches my fancy that day. Oh and a note to take mind of little ones is that I do keep score,and those that claim to worship me yet fail to spoil me on my special day will be banned and forgotten from my empire.
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Friday, November 8, 2013
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