Thursday, February 28, 2013

Imperfections accepted

Most of you that have seen pictures of me most likely know that I am blessed or cursed some days, with naturally curly hair. Today is one of the cursed days. Unfortunately for me the longer I allow my hair to grow it pulls my curls out and makes the front parts look like the McDonalds arches,which vexes me to no end! Many a morning I have stood before my mirror threatening my hair with scissors if it does not behave(as if it listens lol)

I am sure some of you are saying to yourself, is this chick crazy talking about her hair on a findom site...gimme just a moment and I will share with you how it ties in.

To the outside observer I come across as a Domme that treats her boys as she does her hair (stern, strict, harsh, expecting perfection). This is actually the furthest thing from the truth. I am truly quite kind to those that come to my feet. Shocking eh lol. While I do have high standards (what lady doesn't) I know that human beings are imperfect and fallible, so I accept that the road is not always going to be smooth. It is the effort you put into service that matters most to me.

Just as the relationship I have with my hair is different from day to day, so are those that I have with the boys who serve me. We all have flaws, and while some can be eradicated with the swift stroke of a hairbrush (winks) with time and patience all of the knots work themselves out.

My point being I know that you will fail at times. We all do.

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Morning boo


http://audioboo.fm/boos/1235869-suffer-and-sacrifice

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

What I want to talk to you about today boys is suffering and sacrifice. These are 2 components of service to me that are mandatory. You will suffer physically for my pleasure. You will sacrifice financially for my happiness. Your very pleasure is to be derived from these activities. Never expect anything less once you belong to me. I comprehend that to many of you, online interactions are a game played to the culmination of your personal agenda, which fails to be congruent with my own goals, ergo if you find yourself gravitating in my direction ask yourself a question. Are you prepared to be objectified, your value being tied to your ability to satisfy my greed, to be used as I deem fit, and discarded if you fail my expectations? If your answer is yes, or please, or God yes, then come humbly petition for service prepared to lay a tithe at my feet.

Monday, February 25, 2013

Erroneous crap boys believe

Things I have learned since joining the online findom fetish scene. 1)Never refer to being a real human being with any type of emotions, issues, or illness. Why? It turns off the boys that are looking to serve a fantasy figure that spends all of their time behind a screen waiting to make their meager manmeat erupt. 2)Do not complain about anything. Why? It detracts from the all consuming pleasure that boys are looking to achieve through their piss weasel puker. 3)Do not expect boys to tribute. Why? You were created to make cocks cum. Besides, have you not heard that "REAL" Dommes dominate for free. 4)You should always be dressed to the nines in fetish gear or nude with your cam on. Why? Don't be silly, you know that boys deserve to spume while you entertain them with the visual imagery of your body. 5)Do not expect a boy to be loyal to you alone. Why? You should already know that boys have to follow where their putrid pecker leads them, which makes the circuit of every hot female to be found. 6)Never talk to a boy about anything that is not fetish related. Why? Boys are here to be entertained, not bored with topics that do not make their worthless wanks rise. 7)Never expect a boy to spoil you on any holiday. Why? Did you forget that you are not real...you are like a doll on the shelf which remains inanimate until such time as they wish to play with you? 8)Always be thankful that a boy has sent you a photo of his dinky dick or his gaped wide blackhole. Why? It is an honor to view such displays, don't you know? To all of the boys reading this post saying Hell ya this is how it should be....pucker up buttercup and kiss my beautiful ass. I am a real breathing person, and a "REAL" Domme who has a life fraught with mundane issues just like you. I am not a monkey on a string holding out a tin cup for change to entertain you, in fact I am not here to entertain at all...it is your place to amuse me, and gasp I actually expect loyalty with service that does not involve your flesh flute getting off.

Friday, February 22, 2013

No contact

I have and always will be very clear about the fact that I possess no desire to speak with owned boys, irregardless if they state that they have their owner's permission to do so. Many boys lie about having permission, and even about the fact that they are owned. How many times have you seen a disagreement arise between ladies over toe stepping? Could it have been prevented, of course, refusing to have contact with said male would have kept the issue from arising. Oh and the lying "owned" boy...this is one that I have dealt with before, and partially the reason why I feel as I do. A boy wants to befriend you, add you, or even follow you. His info says owned, but oops he is falsifying data...he was never owned. He wanted free interaction, so by claiming to be owned he hopes that ladies will refrain from demanding tribute, but still converse with him, thereby playing into his desires. I can count on two fingers the number of owned boys that I interact with, and that is because we had spoken prior to them being owned. I do not see any reason why an owned male should be speaking with any Domme other than his owner period. I highly doubt that ladies join sites to make "friends" with boys...so ya. An owned boy serves no purpose for any other Domme as she will receive no service from him which is the entire point is it not?

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Repetitive rants and ravings

Continuously posting about timewasters and trolls is droll. There is not a single lady in the scene that has not at one point or another dealt with this type of male and learned from the experience, so when I see a female bemoaning the fact of their existence, I think to myself that they obviously have not been in the fetish world for very long then. No matter how much we bitch and moan about this type of behavior, it will not alter the reality that these x chromosome beings feed off the crumbs of the scene, so in all actuality you are the one wasting your own time speaking out about them. Surprisingly enough "timewasters" even serve a purpose. Generally they are the first to besiege new ladies for service, and by interacting with the dregs of the fetish, females do gain knowledge. It is easy enough to complain that your time has been wasted, but was it really? As individuals we all make decisions on how our time should be spent, so the blame cannot be placed upon the parasites trolling for a taste of free domination. One of maturity would view it as a lesson learned, since once equipped with the knowledge of the behaviors and approaches of boys who serve only themselves, ladies will then be able to distinguish real vs faux submissives, which adds value to the interaction, thereby turning a negative into a positive. If one possesses the correct mindset, then any situation whether it be pleasing or not can be an opportunity for personal growth. Instead of allowing this type of boy to anger you to the point of writing up a scathing post (permitting another to illicit the response they desire places the reins in their hands instead of yours) refuse to fuel their wank off by keeping all conversations free of fet talk unless they have proven themselves worthy of your consideration. Nothing will set off a freebie seeking spunk spewer in another direction quicker than a female who does not give into playing their game. Lambasting their behavior and placing them on a blacklist actually turns most of them on, so unless you are in the market of helping them get their jollies, refrain from giving in to them. Do as you wish though, but remember that when you complain you are alerting other trolls that you are ripe for the picking.

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

This is exactly what women think of penis pics http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/670c0ffed5/psa-an-important-message-from-women-everywhere?rel=player

Monday, February 11, 2013

Undesirable behaviors part 4

Misogyny Oh I detest yet pity males suffering from this banal affliction. In their failure to appreciate women as valued human beings they doom themselves to superficial interpersonal relationships with all females. Hatred cripples them emotionally, ergo they are unable to form the cohesive bonds required to perpetuate a fulfilling liaison. These males are indeed losers in the sense that they are blind to the fact that women are more than 2 dimensional figures produced as wank fodder and seed receptacles. Unfortunately for the ladies in the fetish scene this type of male has taken up residency. Findom/Femdon is a virtual smorgasbord for one such a this. With the abundance of clips and pics serving to aid and reinforce their views of women being mere objects, allowing them to judge and compare the faces and figures of all they see while withholding respect for any, as these women are not "real" in their estimation. In fact they consider women sluts and whores deserving of a man"s scorn, so when they come into the scene proliferate with images of women in provocative attire and design, it only strengthens their core beliefs. Recognizing this type of male is not always an easy chore for many have learned to affect the persona of a "nice" guy who adores and respects women, which is a pathetic facade even if it does fool a great many. You need only spend a bit of time conversing with one such as this to see the signs, albeit they be subtle hints of the characteristics. Do his words depress your level of self-esteem, does he constantly point out what he considers physical or mental flaws of females, does he belittle the opinions and accomplishments of women, does he blame females for the failings in his life, does he boast of all the women he has had sex with? These are just a few of the more obvious signs, but any of these should set off alarms. The root cause of this affliction is unknown, but a few theories are on record, such as a poor relationship with a maternal figure, or adopting this belief as their own after seeing it perpetrated by males during the formative years, or even due to constant rejection by the female sex. Irregardless of causation there is hope for the eradication of this affliction through therapy, if only they are willing to accept that they have a problem. If not, then they are bound for a life of detached misery. Point being, avoid this type of male for your own piece of mind.

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Hello to all ^_^ As you may have noticed I have not had much time to update lately,but I promise to get a new post up soon! Unfortunately I am dealing with strep throat issues right now,so it will not most likely be today or tomorrow. I am concentrating my energy on getting better..so do be good boys and lift my spirits with amazon gc's.