Sunday, January 19, 2014
How do you define yourself as a submissive
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Wednesday, January 15, 2014
action trumps talk
Talk talk and talk some more. It seems as if that is what the majority of males are attempting to do these days. I honestly thought that males were geared for action not conversation,but alas I must be mistaken. Now it is no secret that a typical time waster move is to garner as much free time and attention as possible,so when I am contacted by a male that suffers from diarrhea of the mouth,I am quick to cut the cord. Of course that has earned me the ire of those that claim that they are merely trying to get to know me,which is not reasonably tolerable to me as I have always been clear about the fact that if you want information about me and my expectations,then I expect you to do the legwork yourself by perusing my blog which contains what you need to know.
Quick claims to service are a joke especially when they fail to incorporate a tribute. It amazes me that the tactics employed by wastes of skin sacks have not altered. It is always SSDD. It tires one out to deal with trite redundant BS day in day out,and this is why it has become more difficult to gain the notice of a Domme. There is no way that this type of repetitive behavior will not alter how a Domme interacts with males whom are applying to serve. I know that it has been said a thousand times,but if you truly desire a chance in hell of serving,then you need to act prior to speaking. Sites,blogs,posts,and tweets are all glimpses into the mind,so take your time and study these jewels to assure yourself that this is the ONE you want to devote your life to,and for pete's sake STOP basing your decision on a pair of tits or a hot ass. The choices you make based on the cravings of your dick are 99.9999% of the time WRONG,and you will incur the much deserved repercussions of those actions,so do keep your mouth shut rather than whining that you have been duped or taken due to the fact that you are a lazy fark with a hard on,because believe me when I say that no one has pity or compassion for your dumbass move.
These type of males detract from ladies actually interacting with men that possess an honest desire to serve as they were created to. The one absolute that I have learned is that a tribute resonates louder than any typed word when it comes to claims of servitude,so little ones if your intent is genuine there is only one way to set yourself apart from the throng of useless cretins,action action action.
Quick claims to service are a joke especially when they fail to incorporate a tribute. It amazes me that the tactics employed by wastes of skin sacks have not altered. It is always SSDD. It tires one out to deal with trite redundant BS day in day out,and this is why it has become more difficult to gain the notice of a Domme. There is no way that this type of repetitive behavior will not alter how a Domme interacts with males whom are applying to serve. I know that it has been said a thousand times,but if you truly desire a chance in hell of serving,then you need to act prior to speaking. Sites,blogs,posts,and tweets are all glimpses into the mind,so take your time and study these jewels to assure yourself that this is the ONE you want to devote your life to,and for pete's sake STOP basing your decision on a pair of tits or a hot ass. The choices you make based on the cravings of your dick are 99.9999% of the time WRONG,and you will incur the much deserved repercussions of those actions,so do keep your mouth shut rather than whining that you have been duped or taken due to the fact that you are a lazy fark with a hard on,because believe me when I say that no one has pity or compassion for your dumbass move.
These type of males detract from ladies actually interacting with men that possess an honest desire to serve as they were created to. The one absolute that I have learned is that a tribute resonates louder than any typed word when it comes to claims of servitude,so little ones if your intent is genuine there is only one way to set yourself apart from the throng of useless cretins,action action action.
Sunday, January 12, 2014
work smart not hard
How many times and in how many ways have you been asked or expected to work harder than you should have to for a servant? It rather goes against the grain does it not? I mean is it not the unwritten rule that we as superior femmes are here to be served,not the other way around? Why is it then that males expect us to pimp them out,to force them to tithe,to push them into the activities that they desire to engage in?
It all boils down to a lack of effort on their part. They want,they want,they want,and demand that we provide. They cannot even grasp that this behavior is ass backwards. Please cease enabling this trend of lazy behavior. The reality is that a servant serves,an acolyte worships,a slave suffers and sacrifices with gratitude. Now I am not relaying to you that a dominant does not have to put forth effort,but seriously it is not about emulating Atlas with the weight of the D's relationship upon your shoulders.
It is not our duty as Dommes to "pimp" males out for payment. It is in fact their responsibility to arrange such activities,then to stuff our coffers with the coin of their efforts. At no point should we as supreme females be chasing males down for their service,and yes I see many of you doing it. Why do you do it though? Do you fear that if you do not friend or message every male within your vicinity that you will go without the adoration that you are deserving of? Can you not see how desperate you appear to others,and believe me when I say that males have a keen sense of sniffing out needy individuals. Do you honestly believe that you are viewed in a position of strength when your acts are similar to a bitch on the hunt? Why are you working so hard,when you are meant to work smart?
Reverent worship and dutiful servitude is your due as a member of the superior sex,so please stop degrading yourselves for pennies on the dollar. Working smart entails posting tasteful photos,your thoughts,and providing a profile which reflects whom you are as a dominant,and your expectations of those that come to your feet. It is your duty to guide,mold,and protect those in your service,but not to force them to do anything. Whether it is sucking cock or even tributing,these things should not require force. A boy should be begging to do so in your honor.
Accept none into your realm that are not willing to serve as they are meant to,and you will find yourself empowered and enriched beyond your wildest dreams. This is what all women should wish for their beautiful brethren. There is never a need to force,force is for bullies,so I pose the query to you,are you a bully or a beauteous woman created to be worshiped?
It all boils down to a lack of effort on their part. They want,they want,they want,and demand that we provide. They cannot even grasp that this behavior is ass backwards. Please cease enabling this trend of lazy behavior. The reality is that a servant serves,an acolyte worships,a slave suffers and sacrifices with gratitude. Now I am not relaying to you that a dominant does not have to put forth effort,but seriously it is not about emulating Atlas with the weight of the D's relationship upon your shoulders.
It is not our duty as Dommes to "pimp" males out for payment. It is in fact their responsibility to arrange such activities,then to stuff our coffers with the coin of their efforts. At no point should we as supreme females be chasing males down for their service,and yes I see many of you doing it. Why do you do it though? Do you fear that if you do not friend or message every male within your vicinity that you will go without the adoration that you are deserving of? Can you not see how desperate you appear to others,and believe me when I say that males have a keen sense of sniffing out needy individuals. Do you honestly believe that you are viewed in a position of strength when your acts are similar to a bitch on the hunt? Why are you working so hard,when you are meant to work smart?
Reverent worship and dutiful servitude is your due as a member of the superior sex,so please stop degrading yourselves for pennies on the dollar. Working smart entails posting tasteful photos,your thoughts,and providing a profile which reflects whom you are as a dominant,and your expectations of those that come to your feet. It is your duty to guide,mold,and protect those in your service,but not to force them to do anything. Whether it is sucking cock or even tributing,these things should not require force. A boy should be begging to do so in your honor.
Accept none into your realm that are not willing to serve as they are meant to,and you will find yourself empowered and enriched beyond your wildest dreams. This is what all women should wish for their beautiful brethren. There is never a need to force,force is for bullies,so I pose the query to you,are you a bully or a beauteous woman created to be worshiped?
Thursday, January 9, 2014
Reality check
Apparently many of you boys are not thinking realistically when approaching a lady whom employs findom. There are some activities that will never be played out when serving FinDomme,and you truly should be aware of it for the safety of all.
The predominant activities that I am begged to allow are facesitting and strap on play. It truly is not that complicated to discern why I would not engage in such,but it has become obvious to me that I need to lay it all out for you in order for me to clarify the reasons behind my denial.
If you are a reader whom has not til now read any of my posts,then I shall enunciate clear and concisely that I have absolutely no desire in allowing any beta male near my most sacred personal parts,add that in with the fact that if a male is tithing me and I grant him such an honor,then I would be guilty by definition of prostitution.,and that is not something I would place myself in a position of doing. I possess a sense of worth and self respect that I would not toss away for any human being,much less for the inane fulfillment of a male's desire. This explanations ties in with my refusal of strap on play as well. I realize that there may be some states or countries which are more lax with the legalities,and my advice would be to seek out a lady not burdened with the restrictions that most of us are if you are truly desperate to play such roles. Last and least I deny all whom plead for scat sessions. The thought of it sours my innards,and does not fall in with what I consider a safe activity. To the uneducated I beckon you to do some research upon the effects of ecoli based disease and illness. It will open your eyes to the risks you are encountering.
The conclusion that I have reached is that the ones whom search out facesitting and pegging are better suited to serving a primarily lifestyle Domina whom desires a one on one female led relationship in and outside of the bedroom as they are not hindered in the ways of those that require tribute,so to those hankering for tongue out kitty petting,and pants down ass up internal pounding,I am NOT the Domme for you.
I would hope that those that come before me do so with the comprehension and acceptance that they shall never engage in any purely sexual act with me. Yes I will tease,and allow those worthy of the honor to masturbate outside of my presence,but not within it. You may dream and fantasize about all of the filthy creations your mind is capable of designing,but that is all that they shall ever be...fantasies.
The predominant activities that I am begged to allow are facesitting and strap on play. It truly is not that complicated to discern why I would not engage in such,but it has become obvious to me that I need to lay it all out for you in order for me to clarify the reasons behind my denial.
If you are a reader whom has not til now read any of my posts,then I shall enunciate clear and concisely that I have absolutely no desire in allowing any beta male near my most sacred personal parts,add that in with the fact that if a male is tithing me and I grant him such an honor,then I would be guilty by definition of prostitution.,and that is not something I would place myself in a position of doing. I possess a sense of worth and self respect that I would not toss away for any human being,much less for the inane fulfillment of a male's desire. This explanations ties in with my refusal of strap on play as well. I realize that there may be some states or countries which are more lax with the legalities,and my advice would be to seek out a lady not burdened with the restrictions that most of us are if you are truly desperate to play such roles. Last and least I deny all whom plead for scat sessions. The thought of it sours my innards,and does not fall in with what I consider a safe activity. To the uneducated I beckon you to do some research upon the effects of ecoli based disease and illness. It will open your eyes to the risks you are encountering.
The conclusion that I have reached is that the ones whom search out facesitting and pegging are better suited to serving a primarily lifestyle Domina whom desires a one on one female led relationship in and outside of the bedroom as they are not hindered in the ways of those that require tribute,so to those hankering for tongue out kitty petting,and pants down ass up internal pounding,I am NOT the Domme for you.
I would hope that those that come before me do so with the comprehension and acceptance that they shall never engage in any purely sexual act with me. Yes I will tease,and allow those worthy of the honor to masturbate outside of my presence,but not within it. You may dream and fantasize about all of the filthy creations your mind is capable of designing,but that is all that they shall ever be...fantasies.
You don't have to be rich to serve
Oh I know that you see all of the posts and tweets detailing the massive amount of money males have spoiled ladies with which leads all of the rest of you not flush in the finances to believe that you are not capable of serving,and this simply is erroneous. Mind you now not to confuse serving with purchasing gratification,as buying clips or cam sessions does not fall under the classification of service.
Any male entertaining the idea of entering the findom fetish scene should first take a look at the data provided by the government which outlines incomes and where they fall in regards to the definition of poverty. If you are indeed matched correctly as being beneath the poverty line,then I seriously advise you to either, 1. suppress your urges or 2. feed it with clip purchases. Otherwise you have no business approaching any findom lady offering service. You are too near the reality of starving to be of use financially.
Now if you are above and beyond that sad definition with a bit of cushion,then there are ways to elevate your tithing ability. Some ideas may be to switch your cell phone provider, as in slopping to your local mart store for the pay and go service which is far more economical..that is if you even honestly need a cell phone,I mean human beings went hundreds of years without one. You can set your thermostat higher or lower depending upon the season which will lower your monthly expenditures. You can seek out your local plasma bank and make up to $300 a month which could be applied as tithe. Do not even consider going near a sperm bank though,the world definitely does not need you reproducing!! Cable or movie subscriptions are not a need...cancel them,and send the difference to your lady,hell you do not even need a tv,take your ass to the free public library and expand your brain power instead of rotting it with senseless matter. New clothes,no not for you. The goodwill is your new tailor. Another way to cut down your electric bill as well is by using only 1 light bulb. Take it with you room to room,that way you never waste and yank your bill. Do not buy anything brand new,try using freecycle or craigslist for the things you absolutely need,not want,as well as selling all luxury items,you definitely do not deserve them. Ride the bus or walk if the destination is close enough. It's better for the environment anyway. Start using coupons,and buy generic food supplies,you do not need name brand anything. Make eating out a thing of the past,brown bag and eat at home,better for you,and more nutritious anyway. Put your brain and hands to use,and start making your own laundry soap,bath soap,shampoo and deodorant. It will save money,and be better for you to limit the number of toxins that you introduce into your system,thereby maintaining your health to avoid expensive medical visits.
Now that I have provided some basic directions,you boys have no valid excuses not to tithe a decent amount.
Any male entertaining the idea of entering the findom fetish scene should first take a look at the data provided by the government which outlines incomes and where they fall in regards to the definition of poverty. If you are indeed matched correctly as being beneath the poverty line,then I seriously advise you to either, 1. suppress your urges or 2. feed it with clip purchases. Otherwise you have no business approaching any findom lady offering service. You are too near the reality of starving to be of use financially.
Now if you are above and beyond that sad definition with a bit of cushion,then there are ways to elevate your tithing ability. Some ideas may be to switch your cell phone provider, as in slopping to your local mart store for the pay and go service which is far more economical..that is if you even honestly need a cell phone,I mean human beings went hundreds of years without one. You can set your thermostat higher or lower depending upon the season which will lower your monthly expenditures. You can seek out your local plasma bank and make up to $300 a month which could be applied as tithe. Do not even consider going near a sperm bank though,the world definitely does not need you reproducing!! Cable or movie subscriptions are not a need...cancel them,and send the difference to your lady,hell you do not even need a tv,take your ass to the free public library and expand your brain power instead of rotting it with senseless matter. New clothes,no not for you. The goodwill is your new tailor. Another way to cut down your electric bill as well is by using only 1 light bulb. Take it with you room to room,that way you never waste and yank your bill. Do not buy anything brand new,try using freecycle or craigslist for the things you absolutely need,not want,as well as selling all luxury items,you definitely do not deserve them. Ride the bus or walk if the destination is close enough. It's better for the environment anyway. Start using coupons,and buy generic food supplies,you do not need name brand anything. Make eating out a thing of the past,brown bag and eat at home,better for you,and more nutritious anyway. Put your brain and hands to use,and start making your own laundry soap,bath soap,shampoo and deodorant. It will save money,and be better for you to limit the number of toxins that you introduce into your system,thereby maintaining your health to avoid expensive medical visits.
Now that I have provided some basic directions,you boys have no valid excuses not to tithe a decent amount.
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Worship
What is worship? The definition is skewed by so many these days,that it does not even resemble that which it is intended,so I shall begin by laying out that which is often mistaken for worship,yet is not.
In no way is it about viewing pics of tatas and arse while holding your knob in your hand. It is not about paying for a cam session where the female in question displays all of her goods while the jacking juice soaks your dickbeaters. Everyone is familiar with the concept of worshiping the flesh,but that is definitely not what I am referring to in this post.
To worship one has absolutely nothing to do with the flesh. It is pure and selfless. To make one your living deity sans sexual over or undertones is what I am addressing. It is about getting down on your knees with hands clasped while giving thanks to your Goddess that she exists,and praying that you will be granted the honor of living in her world. The knowledge resides within you that even upon your best day that you will never be worthy of her,yet you are dedicated to spending your life in devotion to her. It is about burying that destructive and distracting male ego until such point as your life no longer revolves around the selfish you. It encompasses shaping your thoughts and actions to that which is pleasing to her,until you come to a point where your happiness is derived from hers. Your wants,your needs are now what she decrees.
To worship is to love. How is it that you display your love for your deity? Through devotion,loyalty,and tithe. Your suffering and sacrifice become reverent acts which pay homage. This type of worship is not for the multitude for they will never mature past the self centered juvenile mentality,but for the fortunate few this shall become their way of life,and a testament to their strength as being a selfless servant is not for the weak.
The task at hand now is to ask yourself,shall you follow the road less traveled,or will you glut yourself upon the virtual endless visual smorgasbord of wank opportunities?
In no way is it about viewing pics of tatas and arse while holding your knob in your hand. It is not about paying for a cam session where the female in question displays all of her goods while the jacking juice soaks your dickbeaters. Everyone is familiar with the concept of worshiping the flesh,but that is definitely not what I am referring to in this post.
To worship one has absolutely nothing to do with the flesh. It is pure and selfless. To make one your living deity sans sexual over or undertones is what I am addressing. It is about getting down on your knees with hands clasped while giving thanks to your Goddess that she exists,and praying that you will be granted the honor of living in her world. The knowledge resides within you that even upon your best day that you will never be worthy of her,yet you are dedicated to spending your life in devotion to her. It is about burying that destructive and distracting male ego until such point as your life no longer revolves around the selfish you. It encompasses shaping your thoughts and actions to that which is pleasing to her,until you come to a point where your happiness is derived from hers. Your wants,your needs are now what she decrees.
To worship is to love. How is it that you display your love for your deity? Through devotion,loyalty,and tithe. Your suffering and sacrifice become reverent acts which pay homage. This type of worship is not for the multitude for they will never mature past the self centered juvenile mentality,but for the fortunate few this shall become their way of life,and a testament to their strength as being a selfless servant is not for the weak.
The task at hand now is to ask yourself,shall you follow the road less traveled,or will you glut yourself upon the virtual endless visual smorgasbord of wank opportunities?
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
truth
Each and every day it appears to me that the males I do see active are not even truly interested in service anyway,and this is not merely contained to the younger males. There is a decided lack of the ability or the desire to grasp what service entails,so allow me to clue you in a bit,serving does not revolve around the bang snap between your legs. You are confusing femdom porn with the reality of servitude. Believe it or not,there is a difference.
If you can spare a moment to jerk your head out of your ass I will attempt to set you straight. Dommes are not lounging around nude or clad in little strips of leather wet and waiting for that divine moment that you enter their presence. They do not find themselves humbled and honor struck that you have deemed them worthy of fulfilling your fantasy of having a woman plow your ecoli infested shite hole. They do not wake each day praying that some insensitive shit stain will come along and use her time sharing all of his perverted filth stories with her,while she receives nothing but the taste of bile in the back of her throat. They do not pin their dreams on the hopes of spending their lives with a wankanator living in his parent's basement cause his fast food job won't pay the rent much less tithe her a decent amount. Most couldn't give a flying fark about your puny playtoy much less if it ever drips again in this lifetime. Can you comprehend what I am saying now?? If not,then your decided lack of intelligence requires that you contain your hobbies to the realm of crayons and coloring books.
If you can spare a moment to jerk your head out of your ass I will attempt to set you straight. Dommes are not lounging around nude or clad in little strips of leather wet and waiting for that divine moment that you enter their presence. They do not find themselves humbled and honor struck that you have deemed them worthy of fulfilling your fantasy of having a woman plow your ecoli infested shite hole. They do not wake each day praying that some insensitive shit stain will come along and use her time sharing all of his perverted filth stories with her,while she receives nothing but the taste of bile in the back of her throat. They do not pin their dreams on the hopes of spending their lives with a wankanator living in his parent's basement cause his fast food job won't pay the rent much less tithe her a decent amount. Most couldn't give a flying fark about your puny playtoy much less if it ever drips again in this lifetime. Can you comprehend what I am saying now?? If not,then your decided lack of intelligence requires that you contain your hobbies to the realm of crayons and coloring books.
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