Greetings,and welcome to Goddess Sydney's world...
Take a seat little ones,cause we are going to talk about the all important first financial tribute you pay a FinDomme. So frightening,yet ever exhilarating! You begin your contemplation of tribute by asking yourself:
1)How much do I send?
2)Will she be insulted if I send very little?
3)Will she come to expect big tributes if my initial one is very generous?
4)Will she take my money and run?
Now I am going to answer those questions for you pets.
1)An initial tribute should be no less than what you would be out of pocket when taking a woman out on a date..a ballpark figure of around no less than $50.
2)Yes she is going to be insulted if you try to be a miser,and send $10,cause seriously her taking the time to interact with you,is deserving of appreciation,not a fish slap to the face capiche?
3)So long as you explain that you are unable to remit large amounts on a continuous basis,than no she should not be upset..just remember to communicate the fact.
4)Yes there is always the chance that a female will take your money and run,but just like anytime you ask a woman out,she may not care for you,so you are essentially out of pocket anyway.
How do you up the odds of not getting "scammed",and by scammed I mean by one who never had any intent of getting to know you,or considering you for service.
1)Read her profile before you contact her.
2)Study her photos to ensure that it is the same person in each one.
3)Pay attention to what she posts on social media,and ask yourself if it meshes with what you seek,or if you are what she is looking for.
4)Don't be so fucking shallow..just because the appearance of a woman makes your pecker pop,does not mean that she is a good fit for you. Use the big head,cause if you fail to,then it is your own damn fault if you get burned,so don't cry me a river.
So many of you get so angry about tributing in the first place,but here is the thing gents,you are not a special boy who is entitled to a woman's time and consideration. The very first thing you should be acknowledging is that you should be grateful when a woman opts to give you notice,cause she owes you nothing at all.
***Most importantly pets***
1)Be appreciative of a woman's time by thanking her when you receive it.
2)Tribute without being asked(I guarantee that it will make a positive impression).
3)Don't be a cheap ass,and never assume that your tribute buys you anything.
Saturday, December 30, 2017
Friday, December 29, 2017
Is Altruistic submission dead
Greetings my curious kittens...
A question which tickles at my awareness of frequent is in regards to altruistic submission via a beta male. This ball of yarn opens my mind to more and more queries such as:
1)Are males capable of altruistic acts?
2)Are males willing to act selflessly without compensation?
3)Do males even recognize the entitlement disposition that they carry with them like attached luggage?
4)Are males intelligent enough to evolve past their patriarchal castings of objectification,and misogynistic sexualization of women?
If you are a beta male, and you are reading this...I want your input. I want to know why,in your opinion it is that males are self driven towards acts of selfishness rather than altruism.
I have had beyond count interactions with males in the fetish scene over the years,and yet my question remains unanswered.
A question which tickles at my awareness of frequent is in regards to altruistic submission via a beta male. This ball of yarn opens my mind to more and more queries such as:
1)Are males capable of altruistic acts?
2)Are males willing to act selflessly without compensation?
3)Do males even recognize the entitlement disposition that they carry with them like attached luggage?
4)Are males intelligent enough to evolve past their patriarchal castings of objectification,and misogynistic sexualization of women?
If you are a beta male, and you are reading this...I want your input. I want to know why,in your opinion it is that males are self driven towards acts of selfishness rather than altruism.
I have had beyond count interactions with males in the fetish scene over the years,and yet my question remains unanswered.
Tuesday, December 19, 2017
Findom Reliability
Hello little pervs...
Do you know what is valued in a submissive male? Reliability. Sure it sounds boring as all get out, but truly it is important.
When you go to buy a vehicle, do you care if the car is reliable?
I do. I mean, what is the point of owning it, if it breaks down on the daily? Just doesn't make sense, now does it? Of course not.
When you apply for a job, do you ascertain if you will receive a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly paycheck? You do need steady income don't you? Most people I know, would be mighty pissed off if their employer said, "hey I can't pay you this week, but I will catch you next week"..am I right?
Would you like that type of erratic reimbursement?
Imagine if you went to your favorite restaurant, and they told you that they had taken the dish you love most off of their menu! That would suck balls for sure. Here you are, all let down, cause your tried and true tummy yummy is no longer an option.
Now think about that one person who cuts your hair perfect every time, but when you make an appointment, they tell you that your trusty barber has retired! Who is going to cut your hair now??
Are you getting my drift yet?
Dominants desire dependability in their submissives. Having a willy nilly haphazard approach to servitude is insulting to your Domme. She deserves better than that type of treatment, and you know it.
Yes I realize that we all lead very busy lives, ya well some of us do anyways, but the point is, if you cannot be dependable, than do not expect her to be available to you. A Domme is not an object that you put up on a shelf, to take down when you want to have fetish funtime.
She is a living, breathing human being, who has responsibilities, and people who depend on her to be reliable.
Being reliable displays respect, and respect is an integral aspect of serving, cause if you do not respect your Domme, than you do not deserve her. You want to be worthy don't you?
My point being, if you say that you will contact her daily, weekly, monthly etc.. do so. If you declare that you will tribute daily, weekly, monthly etc..do so. If you agree to perform a task with a deadline, get it done. If you make a promise, keep it. If you give your word, abide by it.
BE RELIABLE
Do you know what is valued in a submissive male? Reliability. Sure it sounds boring as all get out, but truly it is important.
When you go to buy a vehicle, do you care if the car is reliable?
When you apply for a job, do you ascertain if you will receive a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly paycheck? You do need steady income don't you? Most people I know, would be mighty pissed off if their employer said, "hey I can't pay you this week, but I will catch you next week"..am I right?
Imagine if you went to your favorite restaurant, and they told you that they had taken the dish you love most off of their menu! That would suck balls for sure. Here you are, all let down, cause your tried and true tummy yummy is no longer an option.
Now think about that one person who cuts your hair perfect every time, but when you make an appointment, they tell you that your trusty barber has retired! Who is going to cut your hair now??
Are you getting my drift yet?
Dominants desire dependability in their submissives. Having a willy nilly haphazard approach to servitude is insulting to your Domme. She deserves better than that type of treatment, and you know it.
Yes I realize that we all lead very busy lives, ya well some of us do anyways, but the point is, if you cannot be dependable, than do not expect her to be available to you. A Domme is not an object that you put up on a shelf, to take down when you want to have fetish funtime.
Being reliable displays respect, and respect is an integral aspect of serving, cause if you do not respect your Domme, than you do not deserve her. You want to be worthy don't you?
My point being, if you say that you will contact her daily, weekly, monthly etc.. do so. If you declare that you will tribute daily, weekly, monthly etc..do so. If you agree to perform a task with a deadline, get it done. If you make a promise, keep it. If you give your word, abide by it.
BE RELIABLE
Saturday, December 9, 2017
Truth in Fetish
Welcome prospective submissives to Goddess Sydney....
I am going to share some not so secret,secrets with you lucky gents. Are you ready, are you set, cause here we go!
1)Dick pics are not a form of foreplay.
They are not erotic. They are not sexy. They do not arouse me, or the majority of women. They are not wanted. *Don't lead in with a dick pic*
2)Conversations are not meant to be interludes comprised of sexual innuendos. When you are approaching a Dominant woman with the hopes of serving her, your sex drive, and dick desires should be kept to a minimum of mention. Never forget that serving a woman is NOT about you.
3)There are real women behind the opposing screen. They deserve the same amount of respect that you would provide to any other woman of your acquaintance. If you do not display respect for any women, than you are in need of schooling.
4)Misogyny has no place in fetish, kink, Findom, or Femdom. If you genuinely have a hate hard on for women, do yourself, and women a favor by avoiding contact with them. Spewing vile, heinous insults towards women is a reflection of your own ugliness. Stop, and seek professional help stat!
5)Findom is a career for many women. There is no need for misplaced anger or resentment towards FinDommes due to your inability or unwillingness to financially contribute to their lifestyles. Why stress yourself out over something that you cannot control. Just move along until you find a woman who does not possess such expectations.
6)Femdom and Femdom porn are not interchangeable terms. Porn is entertainment for your cock. Femdom is entertainment for the Dominant woman.
7)Paying a female for a cam session is not the same as paying tribute to a FinDomme. Paying for a session lends you the title of client, meaning that you call the shots, and can reasonably expect to receive exactly what you paid for. Paying tribute to a FinDomme means that you possess no expectations of reasonable return for your dollars. You are giving a non-reciprocal gift.
8)Submitting to a woman does not mean that you are a weak ass loser. It requires emotional strength to kneel, and even more to accept that being vulnerable is not a weakness..it is human.
*Installment 1 TBC*
I am going to share some not so secret,secrets with you lucky gents. Are you ready, are you set, cause here we go!
1)Dick pics are not a form of foreplay.
They are not erotic. They are not sexy. They do not arouse me, or the majority of women. They are not wanted. *Don't lead in with a dick pic*
2)Conversations are not meant to be interludes comprised of sexual innuendos. When you are approaching a Dominant woman with the hopes of serving her, your sex drive, and dick desires should be kept to a minimum of mention. Never forget that serving a woman is NOT about you.
3)There are real women behind the opposing screen. They deserve the same amount of respect that you would provide to any other woman of your acquaintance. If you do not display respect for any women, than you are in need of schooling.
4)Misogyny has no place in fetish, kink, Findom, or Femdom. If you genuinely have a hate hard on for women, do yourself, and women a favor by avoiding contact with them. Spewing vile, heinous insults towards women is a reflection of your own ugliness. Stop, and seek professional help stat!
5)Findom is a career for many women. There is no need for misplaced anger or resentment towards FinDommes due to your inability or unwillingness to financially contribute to their lifestyles. Why stress yourself out over something that you cannot control. Just move along until you find a woman who does not possess such expectations.
6)Femdom and Femdom porn are not interchangeable terms. Porn is entertainment for your cock. Femdom is entertainment for the Dominant woman.
7)Paying a female for a cam session is not the same as paying tribute to a FinDomme. Paying for a session lends you the title of client, meaning that you call the shots, and can reasonably expect to receive exactly what you paid for. Paying tribute to a FinDomme means that you possess no expectations of reasonable return for your dollars. You are giving a non-reciprocal gift.
8)Submitting to a woman does not mean that you are a weak ass loser. It requires emotional strength to kneel, and even more to accept that being vulnerable is not a weakness..it is human.
*Installment 1 TBC*
Wednesday, December 6, 2017
Financial Slavery Mz Sydney style
Welcome to all who seek to serve Goddess Sydney...
Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?
Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?
Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?
Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?
Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?
If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here.
In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.
There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.
Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.
Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.
You want nothing more than to please her..don't you my good boy? You want to be worthy of being a part of her life,and you know that by suffering for her,that you are truly serving her. Your suffering serves a cause,and that great and divine cause is the happiness of Goddess Sydney,for when she is happy,the world is a bright and beautiful place,but when she is disappointed,the skies become grey,and a smile cannot find it's way onto your face.
You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.
This will be your world,and you will be my creation.
Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?
Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?
Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?
Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?
Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?
If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here.
In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.
There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.
Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.
Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.
You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.
This will be your world,and you will be my creation.
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