Complainers get no cookies from me

Get ready gents, get set, cause you most likely are not going to take kindly to what I am about to say.


I do not want to hear your complaints!

I am not a customer service rep, so do NOT feel free to unleash your bitches at my door. This is especially true for those submissives not in service to me! 

All of the time I see males complaining about how their Domme or some random female did them wrong, and I honestly do not give a flying fart. Should I care as a fellow human being, well most people would say yes, but here is the thing, I am NOT like most people. Sure I have compassion for mankind, but when your own stupidity, or ill thought out choices led to your problem, well I have zero pity. Yes it sounds harsh, but this is me being brutally honest with you. I would much rather relay an unkind truth, than a sweet lie.

People, people, people...use common sense, and a lot of the "problems" you create, would not exist or occur. I am going to list for you some of the most common complaints I am subjected to as a dominant in the findom fetish scene, and how to avoid the issues.

1)I got scammed out of money by a female
Resolution=STOP thinking with your dick for about 10 seconds. Did you research the female in question? Did you check her social media to see if others have complained about her? If not, than that is the fucking you get for the fucking you got.

2)I am not into findom
Resolution=HELLO, why the hell are you even messaging dominants who are into findom than? Stay in your own lifestyle lane, and you will not have this problem.

3)All FinDommes care about is money
Resolution=Avoid FinDommes altogether, and pray to whatever deity you hold dear that you will be able to locate a Domme to dominate you for free, otherwise STFU and tribute like a good little cash cunt.

4)A female is blackmailing me without consent
Resolution=Report her to the authorities
Why would you give a random person personal details or photos if you did not even conceive that they would use them ill? Most likely you wanted the thrill of possible exposure, and now your decision is biting you on the ass.

5)I can't find a "real" Domme
If your definition of "real" means free, see resolutions #2 & #3. Most of the time when I hear this complaint, the resolution is easy peasy=get off your ass and look for one. There are so many wonderful dominant females in findom. Hell you cannot toss a rock without hitting one, so if you cannot find one, than seriously I know that you are a lazy POS.

6)I am a poor broke student that cannot afford to tribute, and no one wants me to serve them. Resolution=Either stay away from findom, or get a fucking part time job.

You're welcome, now $tribute$ cash cunt :)

FinDumme Subbies

Gentlemen you all are getting twisted! Do you even know what Findom is? I really do not believe that you do.

This is coming straight from my perspective, and if you want to disagree, that is cool, but my view is firm, which means that you are not going to be changing my mind, okies.

Findom is not about you, or your dick. It never was, and never will be. Yes Dommes know that you are obsessed with that worthless skin sac in your pants, but they are not. Dommes do not wake up every morning thinking..hey I hope that I will be lucky enough to help a bunch of random dicks spew out of the goodness of my heart, whilst asking nothing for myself. Seriously who even thinks like that...ya you do. 

If this is how you think, YOU are the anal leakage of the fetish. This is Financial Domination bb...that means MONEY. It is a fetish based upon MONEY, not dick. It is about dicks giving their money to women plain and simple. Don't like the truth of it, don't come around here no more, cause it ain't gonna change no matter how much you wish it would. Just get over yourself, and accept that in order to play in this sandbox, you are going to have to pay the entrance fee. Findom was always about the money, no matter how many other fetishes get umbrellad under the term. It is about the money, it was about the money, it will be about the money.

Hold up, don't think that I am forgetting about the domination aspect. Look at the words again. FINANCIAL DOMINATION. It is the act of dominating finances. Dominating money, and that breaks down to...YOU giving your money to women. See how apparent that is? The route that the domination of that cash takes is up to the dominant, but if the money is not involved, it AIN'T Financial Domination. Spin it however you want, but get the terminology correct. No money = no findom. That clear?? If not, you are too stupid to exist on this planet.

Do you really want to submit to a Female Dominant

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Seduced Subconscious

Your mind is my playground, and I am ready to play.

 The longer you follow me, and read my words, the more you open yourself up to my control. Month by month, week by week, day by day..I slip further and further into your waiting, and watching subconscious. Tendrils of me encapsulate your every waking thought..diverting you from the path of selfishness, and onto the road of submission to your Goddess, Sydney Claire. 

It happens so slowly that you do not realize how far under my spell you have fallen. All that you know, is that your life has at last found meaning. You have a reason to live, to work, to prosper, beyond self. You begin to live in the moments spent surrounded by presence. Your thoughts take upon the shape I sculpt, and you painfully hunger to be noticed by the light of Goddess Sydney Claire.

Goddess gives your life meaning. Serving Goddess gives your life purpose. She alone holds the key to your fate, and future. You are beholden to her good will, and victim to her wrath should you fail in your most sacred duty to her. Your duty, your obligation, your honor, and your privilege all are sustained in service to Goddess. Your world before Goddess was a farce. A faux life. One which you would never willingly return to. Goddess is your sun, your moon, and your stars. She is your all and your everything. 

No other can compare to your Goddess. You have no need of others..you NEED only Goddess Sydney Claire. She alone is your calm in the storm of life. Serving her is the only thing that makes sense to you. You know that you are meant to serve her greatness. She is the most precious being you have ever known, and the opportunity to serve her is your greatest desire. You have found happiness, and it's name is Sydney Claire. 

She is here, she is there, she is everywhere with you. She lives in your subconscious, she lives in you. Now is the time, now you are ready. Come meekly beg for what you crave most...to serve Sydney Claire.

Truth in Fetish

Welcome prospective submissives to Goddess Sydney....

I am going to share some not so secret,secrets with you lucky gents. Are you ready, are you set, cause here we go!

1)Dick pics are not a form of foreplay.
They are not erotic. They are not sexy. They do not arouse me, or the majority of women. They are not wanted. *Don't lead in with a dick pic*

2)Conversations are not meant to be interludes comprised of sexual innuendos. When you are approaching a Dominant woman with the hopes of serving her, your sex drive, and dick desires should be kept to a minimum of mention. Never forget that serving a woman is NOT about you.

3)There are real women behind the opposing screen. They deserve the same amount of respect that you would provide to any other woman of your acquaintance. If you do not display respect for any women, than you are in need of schooling.

4)Misogyny has no place in fetish, kink, Findom, or Femdom. If you genuinely have a hate hard on for women, do yourself, and women a favor by avoiding contact with them. Spewing vile, heinous insults towards women is a reflection of your own ugliness. Stop, and seek professional help stat!

5)Findom is a career for many women. There is no need for misplaced anger or resentment towards FinDommes due to your inability or unwillingness to financially contribute to their lifestyles. Why stress yourself out over something that you cannot control. Just move along until you find a woman who does not possess such expectations. 

6)Femdom and Femdom porn are not interchangeable terms. Porn is entertainment for your cock. Femdom is entertainment for the Dominant woman.

7)Paying a female for a cam session is not the same as paying tribute to a FinDomme. Paying for a session lends you the title of client, meaning that you call the shots, and can reasonably expect to receive exactly what you paid for. Paying tribute to a FinDomme means that you possess no expectations of reasonable return for your dollars. You are giving a non-reciprocal gift.

8)Submitting to a woman does not mean that you are a weak ass loser. It requires emotional strength to kneel, and even more to accept that being vulnerable is not a weakness..it is human. 

*Installment 1 TBC*

Financial Slavery Mz Sydney style

Welcome to all who seek to serve Goddess Sydney...

Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?

Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?

Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?

Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?

Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?

If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here. 

In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.

There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.

Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.

Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.

You want nothing more than to please her..don't you my good boy? You want to be worthy of being a part of her life,and you know that by suffering for her,that you are truly serving her. Your suffering serves a cause,and that great and divine cause is the happiness of Goddess Sydney,for when she is happy,the world is a bright and beautiful place,but when she is disappointed,the skies become grey,and a smile cannot find it's way onto your face.


You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.

This will be your world,and you will be my creation. 
 

Financially Enslaved

You shall arise out of the ashes of a prideful patriarchal existence,as a carefully crafted creation of Goddess Sydney. A tool honed in the fires of male mentality metamorphosis. No longer burdened by the wants of self,but evolved beyond the very concept,for you are a changed being. A being whose life centers around the will of Goddess Sydney alone. 

It is her will that drives you to become a better beta male. Her desires that you fixate upon. Her happiness that you strive,and dedicate your efforts towards.

No regrets,no remorse,only ambition to reach your goal. What is that goal,my little pet? 

You know explicitly what it is that Goddess Sydney expects,requires,demands of you. Your only concern need be,how quickly you can accomplish that which she dictates must be done. Will you rise to the challenge,pet?

Failure is not an option. Anything less than your very best is not conceivable. You can,you must,you will succeed. There is no other choice.

You have been chosen to step forth and prove yourself. You will crawl for me,won't you beta? You like that image don't you? Yes I believe that you do. Instinctively you recognize that you are where you have always been meant to be. Where do you belong pet?

Come take your place at the feet of the divine Goddess Sydney. Your dreams,your fantasies all revolve around this one woman. This woman who is a Goddess amongst males. 

You are not worthy,nor shall you ever be,but you will glorify her by devoting your life to her service,for there is no honor greater afforded to a mere beta male,than to be accepted into the service of a Goddess.

You want this,you need this,you will have this experience as your own. 

Come in gratitude,come in all humility,come with thankful purpose. I offer you this one chance,this golden opportunity..allow yourself the supreme pleasure of serving Goddess Sydney.

No BS advice to new FinDommes

Greetings fellow Findomme Femmes...

This piece is dedicated to you,and your sanity in this insane fetish foray.

Social media sites,and fetish forums are overflowing out the ends with females cramming themselves into the ever widening niche of findom. 

Findom sounds like a fantasy land version of perfection created for the princess within all of us women. A land where males beg to pay for your existence in their life,and while this is in part factual,the overwhelming reality majority is way less than real.

New Ladies to the scene will find themselves under scrutiny,and face depressing discouragement quite quickly. Now please do not attempt to attribute this entirely to misplaced jealousy lobbed by fellow females,for that would be a mistake. Of course within any facet of society jealousy exists betwixt females,but I fear that it is the ruthless nature of competition that allows for what is viewed as jealousy.

Findom can be successfully equated to a competitive arena where you either slay or are slain. Imagine if you will 1000 females seeking out financially flush prey to enrich their financial base,but the crux being that only 50 males of such means are available. Now what do you think the logical outcome will be? 

You will witness subterfuge,and dishonesty,because the mentality has been reduced to the point where you are positioned to crawl your way to the top, on the backs of your fellow females. Is this how you envisioned it to be,or did you expect to sashay into the scene an immediate smashing success? Findom has been portrayed in the media to be an easy way for women to make a buck at the expense of unknowing,unsuspecting beta males..shame on them for their lies!

The males who have dwelled within this scene for decades are anything but naive. They know the score just as well as you do,perhaps even a bit of upper hand is held by them,since they possess experience at it. Some even have adopted an abusive manner,to the point where they will ferret out newer ladies to prey upon their lack of experience,so please do educate yourself on how not to be a victim of the rampant misogyny lacing even this most precious form of acclaimed female led spheres.

Recognition must come to you that all females in findom possess physical attributes similar to your own ie a pussy,tits,ass,feet,legs etc...so please do not predicate your success upon them. Honestly after having seen thousands of unclothed female forms..it loses it's luster,so this means that you must use your most powerful sexual organ of deduction in order to succeed...your brain! An intelligent woman is a bigger threat to the wallets of males than mere beauty alone. Of course it helps if you are not appearing as if you just rolled out of the rubbish bin,but seriously,and with all honesty I relay to you that your appearance will only get you so far,so you best have a plan beyond it.

Your greatest asset in findom is your mind. You must be willing to research bdsm,and the psychology behind the fetishes if you want to stand a chance. Yes it will look to outsiders as if you are a predatory beast taking advantage of hapless males,but the key here is consent. The males here must consent to your treatment of them,and truly there is no legal way for you to force consent that is not willingly given. 

You must learn as well how to play safely with beta males. Keep yourself safe in mind and body,but them as well. You become responsible for those that serve you,and that is a most serious matter to undertake. Take it seriously,and others will respect your position.

Develop a thick outer skin,and rely upon yourself for succor,cause whilst it may seem only natural to take your griefs to fellow femmes,they may in turn air them publicly if you piss them off. Be careful of whom you place your trust in,and even more careful as to whom you entrust with your personal life details.

Recognize that just about everything that can be done session/clip wise,has been done,so no you are not going to come up with this spectacular revolutionary breakthrough scene,but what you can do is to take the existing models,and spin them with a piece of yourself. Do not imitate others,for that is not being true to you,and being true to you is priceless. Along those lines..never do what you do not want to do in a scene or session. Set your own limits first,and respect them just as you would the limits of those you play with.  

Most important is self care. If you find yourself drowning in this sphere,love yourself enough to step back and reassess your commitment to it. Always have your own interests at heart,for you will find that others do not give a fig for your feelings,wants,or desires. You must look to yourself for this,so do not feel ashamed for looking out for yourself!

Your success or failure hinges upon you,so face this findom realm with that uppermost in mind. Best of luck to you my fellow femmes :)

Bitter Findom Truth

Evening greetings gents...

Some of you go so very butthurt when I tell you the truth,why do you think that is?  People that ask for honesty,should not become hot and angry when they receive it,and honesty is all you will ever get from me. 

I do not play the "dress a lie up pretty" game. I see no value in doing so. It does not benefit my life lying to males about my intentions. What are my intentions,my agenda,my end goal? Let's put it in your face shall we lol.

I am a DOMINANT FEMALE,a FEMALE SUPREMACIST,a FINDOMME,a FUCKING GODDESS walking this Earth amongst you mere mortal beta males. 

As such,I will not soil myself by sharing my time with males who are not worthy of it. Who decides your worth? I do of course :) Never forget that it was you who came to me,not I chasing after your attention,so when you come before me,we are going to play by my rules.

If I say to you that I have no interest in playing your game,man up,and swallow that raging bile back down your cockhole. What you should do at that point,is recognize that YOU need to change your perception of what serving a woman really means before you ever attempt to get in contact with me again.

I am not interested in your dick at all,so any service you offer me that gratifies your dick is going to get you blocked. Chastity yes,you getting off=NO. CBT=YES,PIV=NO. Along those same lines..I am not sitting on your face,or inserting anything into your arse,nor will you EVER touch my naked flesh with any part of you,except to clean the filth from my feet. 

Onto the big truth that really gets your juices boiling over...no tribute=no serving me. If you are one of those males who believes themselves entitled to my attention without contributing to my happiness..ya, you are delusional. I honestly do not fracking care if tributing makes it "less real" for you,or if financially enhancing my life makes your dick go limp..anything less than tribute,makes me feel used,and I am not allowing myself to be used by you or any other swinging dick.

Still want the truth? Truth be known..you are a beta bitch,yup all of you equipped with a dick were created to serve womankind,not vice versa bb,and as such,you should be showering women with appreciation for their existence. Don't like them apples? Whelp you can exit left at any time,but for the rest of you...welcome to my world,where I rule the beta bitch brigade :)

Goddess Sydney holy day

Hello my puppets..

The countdown is on...8 days til the most holy day of the year! Yes puppets, we are coming upon the sacred celebration of the birth of your Goddess Sydney!! 

An intelligent puppet would be working to ensure that his gift to Goddess arrives ahead of the special day,and that is exactly what my brat boy did.

Yesterday he dropped off his gift to Goddess Sydney early. This boy sacrifices every day of the year,so that he may enrich my life. He keeps a jar beside his bed,into which he deposits cash each and every day for me,so that when the holy holiday draws near,he is prepared.

$5500 worth of sacrifice. An entire year of sacrificing! This is dedication. This is devotion. This is adoration. Perhaps now you understand why I refuse to accept subpar service from beta bitches.

I see absolutely no point in entertaining the notion of taking on any male who is not willing to do his best,be his best,give his most to belong to me. The fetish scene is full of males willing to expend minimum effort with the expectation of maximum reward,and that is why my standards are set so very high. I do not want just any and every male serving me..egads that would be a nightmare!

Quality trumps quantity each and every time. I would rather have 1 slave whom wholeheartedly  dedicates his existence to fulfilling my wishes,and desires,than to have 10 whom only seek to pleasure their penis at my expense. Make sense? Service and selfishness do NOT mix. Service and sacrifice do.

Now little puppet,show me how you are going to enrich my holy day with sacrifice..note that I did not say "tell me how",but instead said "show me how",as in Financial contributions.

 
 

Creation of Goddess Sydney

Welcome my pets...

Unto Goddess Sydney you render your tithe,for she alone provides your life with direction,and purpose.

This is you before Goddess Sydney 

A lump of cold, lifeless clay..waiting for my hand to mold you into my perfect vision of You. You drifted through your life devoid of inspiration..inspiration which would set forth your metamorphosis. What an utterly sterile study of a monotonous existence you have lived. Til now my pet.

Now is the moment your life changes. Now is the time to alter the reality you have proscribed for yourself. Now, the stars are in perfect alignment for you to surrender yourself to Goddess Sydney. The perfect moment to place your fate into her divine hands.

This is your desire isn't it...your darkest hidden secret. You crave the cruelty of Goddess Sydney, and the kindness she bestows in accepting you into her flock. You need her guidance to alleviate the struggles of your submission. You want nothing more than to become her creation,her creature,her muse. You are the clay awaiting her hand.

You are the object whose design she shall sculpt. You are thankful for her direction. You overflow with gratitude for her presence. Your eyes are open to her vision..your ears await her directives..your mind is receptive to her desires.

Stroke by stroke she fashions you together for her purpose. 

You will become a vessel for her dominance. A vassal to her wants,and needs. This is your purpose pet. Chase it,embrace it,and make of yourself a faithful servant to Goddess Sydney.