Getting to know me..all about me
Many of you gents claim that you want to get to know me prior to serving or sending tribute. I get it, I really do, and it is one of the main reasons that I began this blog years ago, and why I continue to update it to this very day.
I want you to get to know me. I want you to have a firm grasp of my expectations. I want you to be informed. It will save you so much time, if you just take the time to read all about me.
You reading up on me allows you to get to know me without ever taking up a moment of my time, and that is a very good thing. Nothing irks me more than investing my time in interacting with a male who hasn't done his homework, then bails when he finds out that tribute is a requirement, and that I take domination seriously.
I am a firm believer in not purposefully wasting my own time, which is what I am doing when I give my time to someone who is not going to be serving me. You may be saying, but hey you could be making a new friend...whelp bb's I am not here to make friends with you. I don't need a new bestie, or a shoulder to cry on, so having males in my life who are not enriching it through sacrifice and service, is redundant.
I intentionally point you males to this blog in the very first exchange just to avoid wasted time. Some of you may find it cold and detached that I do not choose to chit chat with you for free, but it would be inane and pointless til you have made up your mind to serve me. Once you have sent that initial tribute, then and only then will I be willing to spare the time to see what you are all about. It may not seem fair, but there are thousands of prospective submissive males, and only 1 of me, so I get to make the rules :) and you will follow them if you want to be mine!
And now that you have taken the time to get to know me...you have my permission to send your very first tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in the form of an amazon gift card!!
Winter is the best time to start your cock lock journey
Why is it the best time though?
Because it is cold outside
Being as it is cold outside, you are able to dress in layers, and loose baggy clothing, unlike in the summer time when you are basically forced to dress down to the least amount of clothing. This affords you the distinct opportunity to cover up that cock cage in public settings most effectively. Keeping your chastity cage a secret is difficult to do when you are wearing shorty shorts in the dead hot heat of summer lol Not to mention that the little demon in your pants is less likely to be popping it's head up when it is 10 below outside, cause walking out in the brisk winds of winter makes a shriveled mockery of your manhood anyway. Another benefit to cold weather chastity, is that when your willie gets frosty, it is not going to be straining at the bit to get loose and create havoc, which means less pain for you since erections in a cage cause constriction of your cock..ie ouch! That is a definite plus!
It will make your winter more productive
Ever notice how in the cold months, all of your activities are mainly sedentary and indoors? You sit around bitching and moaning about how cold it is, while you are downloading porn in the hopes that you can seduce your hand. Nothing gets done, except your dicklet making a mess on the keyboard, and who has time for cleaning up after his ass, so do yourself a favor, and lock that cock today. Now you can get on with getting productive. You will find yourself able to concentrate on getting more out of your life without his obtrusive presence constantly calling on you to selfishly pleasure him. Haven't you allowed him to take up too much of your precious time as it is? Make the choice to give him the cold shoulder by locking him away under a cold steel chastity cage :) and freeze him out by tossing the key into a container of water in your freezer.
Your cock will be conditioned to keep calm
By the time summer rolls around, your cock will no longer be caterwauling to be set free. It will become your good boy, so that you can get out to enjoy the sunshine without worrying he is going to call undue attention to you at the beach. No one likes pervs at the beach popping a pup tent. Save yourself that embarrassment. You and I both know that you only lose out when women find out that you got the short end of the stick so to speak. You don't need that type of rejection. You are way better suited to locking that jolly joke away for Goddess anyway :)
So be MY good boy, and commit to chastity today!
And as always, don't forget to send an amazon gift card as a display of your undying appreciation to mzsydney34@yahoo.com, and feel free to leave your comments, thoughts, or opinions on today's post!!
**Note, I have a free chastity task for unowned males who are interested**
Ok, so today I was on twitter and seen a post about how the findom scene is over saturated with women, and that women who have been around quite some time are leaving the scene because of it, which is not a good thing for the fetish in general.
No one needs to be market savvy to grasp the concept of supply and demand. The more there are of any one product (and no I do not view women as products) the less demand there will be for said product, because the customer/client can shop around for the lowest pricing, and we are definitely seeing a shit ton of that type of behavior right now.
Right now, findom is a buyers market. The buyer can and does shop around for bargains. Is it so very surprising that a man will opt to pay $10 for a cam session from a newer female rather than the $100 an established Domme is charging? Of course there are always exceptions, but on the entirety, this is what is going on, and it is going to continue to go on.
Let's take a quick look at other adverse effects of over saturation in findom.
1)Newer females nor newer males for the most part are educated in regards to RACK or SSC. This is a huge safety concern.
2)Newer females come in thinking that findom is easy money. It isn't, and without the knowledge of what findom really is, they are muddying the waters even further for the new males serving under them. Newer males on the other hand, come in thinking that findom is about paying for pussy, either to see or fuck.
3)Newer females tend to gloss over the domination aspect, and just demand money. This is how findom gets a really shitty rep..ya know the instadomme tag :(. There are 2 aspects to findom.a)financial b)domination. Whilst newer males attempt to bypass the financial aspect altogether.
4)The newer females are approaching findom like a tit for tat, spoil me I spoil back modal. Findom is not about spoiling a male. It is not about selling anything. Yuppers I know that a great many FinDommes sell items, clips, sessions etc.. but that is business, not service. Newer males get that findom is not about selling things, but unfortunately they do not want to pay tribute either, cause they are spoiled with entitlement issues.
5)With an avalanche of newer females, you will find that the majority of FinDommes are hauling in less and less tribute (supply&demand), even the Dommes who have been around for ages, so what you get is more and more females departing the scene, but you would not notice the exodus, because a new flood of inexperienced females come in right behind them.
This is a vicious cycle, and it hurts the fetish scene massively. Without experienced Dommes leading the way, you end up with a gaggle of males who are not trained to treat women with respect, who think that it is ok to top from the bottom, who try to lowball tribute, and that is if they even pay at all.
I completely understand that the scene is evolving, but holy shit, it is no where near the definition of findom at all! Mind you, I am not hating on new blood coming in, but some days are like a free for all display of thirst, and horniness. Some changes are good, but than some are not. It all depends on your outlook, and how determined you are to ride the wave.
Good luck to all who are battening down the hatches, and sticking it out :)
Sit right down my lovely little gents whilst I tell you a story, the story..the story of findom
There once was a lonely forgotten man who wanted nothing more than to be noticed by the eyes of a deity, but he lacked the courage to do more than dream of the day he would at last shine in the glory of her presence. Needless to say, he was a very sad little man in his day to day life. He was just another face in a misbegotten place.
He drudged and he toiled at a 9-5 job, never moving up. He stagnated in his little cubicle to the point that even the cobwebs sought to decorate him. How pitiful this little man came to be, and all who seen him acted as if he did not exist, unless they had an undesirable task to slide off onto him. You could always count on him for that much, for he simply had no life, and no friends to speak highly of him. Poor little forgotten soul.
Years passed by, before his gumption kicked him in the gut, and he declared to the heavens that he would suffer this lack of living no more. He became determined to reach for his dream. He was going to do whatever it took to finally catch the attention of his most beloved Goddess.
How does one go about it though, he pondered. He definitely needed a plan, so he sat all night til the stars began to fade, and thought and thought. Oh however was he going to get her to see him, when lo and behold an epiphany seared across his thoughts. He had it!
That very day he typed up a missive like none he had ever put into words before. He declared to her that he would be the very best servant ever, that he would do anything, be anything she required. Surely that will prove to her that I am worthy of serving her!! He hit the send button before he could change his mind out of cowardice, then waited, and waited, and waited some more. Alas she did not answer him back. Where had he gone wrong...maybe she just did not receive it, so he sat down once more and this time shared his life story with her, making sure to include how he really really really wanted to serve her, and hit the send button again. His stomach was tied in knots waiting on her reply.
He waited moments, then hours, which drifted into days, til he could no longer refuse to accept that she was not going to respond. What could he do? I got it, he thought! He followed the trail of her social media account, and read all that she ever said. He could not believe how stupid he had been..it had been there all along. She was not looking for words. She required action. Action based upon sacrifice. She wanted him to let go of what he wanted, and to embrace instead, what she wants. He would have to scrape away what once was, and begin anew. A new beginning for him with a brand new him.
This time he would not fail! He created an amazon account right away, and sent her the largest financial sacrifice that he could afford, along with a note that said "all that I am, and all that I have belongs to you my divine deity, do with it what you will". His hands were shaking as he sent the gift and note. He felt faint with anticipation as the clock ticked so slow in his ears. Ding ding...message received. Oh my oh my oh my...she had messaged him!! He swallowed so hard his throat hurt, but he opened her email with a soft sigh. He could not believe his eyes!
She said "My little sad forgotten man, I have waited for you to understand, and now that you have shown yourself as a man who sees beyond himself, you may at last address me as my servant, for you have stripped from yourself all that was selfish, and kneel before me now as selfless little sam".
His dream, his fantasy, his lifelong quest granted.
Welcome to the Femdom empire of Goddess Sydney Claire
This is my realm, and my control reigns supreme here.
This is my wonderland, but alas you possess no entrance ticket. Why is that? Could it be because you have failed to be worthy of any distinction in my world? I do think that may be the very reason.
You are thereby consigned to the hell of only catching the minuscule glimpses I toss into the scene. You are barred from the honor of knowing me in any manner other than the superficial...how very sad for you. I would almost say that I pity you, but that would be a lie, for I think of you not at all.
The path to my domain is indeed narrow, and only the chosen few shall ever kneel at the feet of my divine self. The gate will forever be closed to those who fail to come humble, selfless, and generous. Woe is you little cockwomble.
I cannot even imagine what it must be like to be frozen out, to be banished in the dark abyss of my disregard. How does it feel? Do you wake every day wishing that you could change your circumstances, and my opinion of you? Do you sicken of being so far beneath my notice that you might as well not exist?
What are you willing to do? How far are you willing to go? What are you willing to sacrifice in order to gain your heart's desire in service to me? No, don't bother me with telling me..show me...show me how desperate you are to warm yourself in my presence. Shower me with your appreciation, shower me with your adoration. Leave off worthless words, and bring forth the actions which will alter your life forever.
If you continue to lurk and wait, you just may find yourself eternally damned without my guidance, my domination, or even a smidgen of my regard. Wake up little fool, for you are pissing your chance away upwind. Know truthfully that I shall not miss you at all, but you on the other hand will regret the lost opportunity til the day you finally wither in the flesh, and time absconds with your memories. Ask yourself once more...is this really how you want your life to be..is it enough for you?
You know what you must do...so do it! No more excuses, no more lies.
Welcome my little mutants and minions to the sanctuary of Goddess Sydney
This is not your safe space. Here is where I insidiously take over your mind til you are nothing but that of my making. This is the place where I will teach, mold, and create within you, a new you.
1)A better you
2)A more efficient you
3)A more productive you
4)An altruistic you
You will essentially become a you that I find useful towards the realization of my goals. What are my goals? They are simple, and never covert.
1)I want slaves who obey my commands
2)I want slaves who are devoted to intuitively anticipating my commands
3)I want slaves that recognize, accept, and embrace the fact that they are useless without my guidance in their lives
4)I want slaves who strive to better themselves financially, so that they may contribute, and benefit my life
My end game is transparent. I will not stoop to attempts which mislead or misrepresent my desires. This is a lifestyle choice for you. An opportunity to grow beyond the dictates of society, which mandates that you as a male must receive tangible rewards for output on your part. The rewards you shall be enriched with are not based in the physical, rather they will be emotional and spiritual.
You will progress to the point where you automatically seek to give to Goddess. You will not ponder what you have to gain from it. Your only thought will be "I hope that my sacrifice is pleasing to her". Your pleasure in sacrifice comes from knowing that you have served a purpose. A purpose far grander than any you have ever engaged in. Your thoughts, and actions will exist outside the normal male dictates. In essence you will become a being suitable to serve a Goddess.
Your worries will no longer be "what do I get" instead they will focus upon "how can I do more". You will want to do more. You will want to sacrifice more. It will become second nature to you. Sacrificing will become your orgasm, because it feels so good to be of use. You want that "good" feeling. You want to hear those blissful 2 words. "Good boy". You need to hear those words. You will work hard, you will struggle, you will suffer, you will sacrifice just to hear those words.
You know that you are not worthy of the notice of a Goddess, but you are determined to earn her attention. Today is the first day of your journey, today you will take the first step, today you will begin to change. What is that first step? Send an amazon gift card right now to mzsydney34@yahoo.com and start your new life.
Welcome one and all to the sphere of Goddess Sydney....
Do you know what it means to be dependable? Being dependable means that a person can continuously rely upon you. Is this something you think about, or is it simply ingrained within you?
Your youth tends to set the tone for the development of dependability. Ask yourself these questions to ascertain the truth of your level of dependability.
1)When you were in school, could your teacher depend upon your attendance, and diligence to completing your homework, or were you a truant sloth?
2)Did you have friends who felt comfortable sharing their secrets with you? Was their trust misplaced? Could you be counted on being a dependable friend?
3)When your parents assigned you chores, could they rely upon you to see them done, or did you offer excuses and insolence?
4)When you applied for your first job, did your prospective employer make it clear that you must show up on time each and every scheduled day if you wanted to retain the position? Did you keep faith with that commitment, or were you late with regularity, or absent many shifts?
5)Did you have girlfriends, and were you faithful to that relationship, or were you a cheating coward who lacked the backbone to sever the ties before seeking thrills elsewhere?
Fast forward to today
1)Are you a dependable man?
2)Are you a man of your word?
I want you to really think about your answers before you ever approach me to serve in a submissive capacity. Dependability is a required trait in any submissive I undertake to train.
If I cannot depend upon you, than you really serve no use. Trust is one of the cornerstones of a bdsm relationship. You trust me not to push beyond your hard limits, or to the point of permanent damage, and in turn I trust you to be an honest, loyal, selfless, devoted, dependable man. Without that trust, there is no future in a power exchange, and I for one play the long game.
When I set a task, or ask that you be available to me, even note a schedule for regular tithing, than I need to be able to depend upon you to accomplish what I put before you as commands, so keep this in mind when first you ask to kneel for me, otherwise you are knowingly wasting my time, and yours, which is a cardinal sin in the book of Goddess Sydney!
Welcome to the wonderful world of Goddess Sydney. A place where submissives line up to lay their submission at my feet!
Submission begins in the mind, not the flesh. It is a conscious decision to relinquish control over yourself. It must be a conscious decision, else submission would not be submission, but rather an exchange painted by the stroke of abuse.
Submission brings forth an avalanche of emotions, which can at times bury you beneath them. It can be frightening to the point of fight or flight survival mode. It may come with a full body tingling awareness of pure bliss. It may even trigger thoughts, and feelings that should be left alone. My point being, that submission can be many things to many people, which means that no two may ever experience it in the same manner, even if they are both subjected to duplicate stimuli.
The path of your submission is in most part within your control. You retain the power to make choices along the way. What choices do you have within your power?
1)You alone will decide whom you offer your submission to.
2)You alone will decide exactly what your hard limits are.
3)You alone can decide for yourself to sever the ties of submission within a D's relationship.
Submissives are not what society has scripted for them. They are not created from birth meek and weak of will. Many will be indeed of strong character, and moral fortitude. A man may bow before a woman, yet remain a man. There is no written, nor unwritten rule declaring that all submissives must be doormats to be walked upon.
Submission is a contract, and no I do not refer to a legal document. You as the submissive agree to submit your will to another, with the provision that it is followed within the parameters that both submissive and Dominant agree upon, which may vary, and change over time, but it remains constant that the submissive has the right to refuse to remand control over aspects which they have not agreed to, or decree limited scope in specific instances.
At the core of submission is the desire to let go, to give of yourself, to be free of the yolk life tethers you with. You will fly uninhibited from the constraints of society. It is both beautiful, and a blessing to submit to a Dominant. It is a life altering experience. An awakening of sorts, from which you will embrace wholeheartedly.
Many will flee in fear, for the unknown blankets them beyond their expectations.Others will grab on with both hands, and ride the ride in exhilaration. One thing I have noted over my years in bdsm, is that those that run as if the wind cannot catch them, will eventually drift back to it, for if you possess a submissive heart, you will never be able to completely cut ties with it. A submissive nature, a yearning to be dominated, cannot be imprisoned irrevocably. It will bring itself out, one way or another.
My advice is to NOT run headlong into submission, but rather to gauge your ability to submit at the point in time, and take small steps til you find yourself knee deep. At that time you will hopefully possess the knowledge you need to survive the roller coaster emotions of submission, intact. If you remain draped in doubts even then, tread water, take a deep breath, and immerse yourself slowly, til you find that one Dominant who makes you feel safe in submission. It may take months, years, even decades, but if you persevere, it will happen for you someday :)
Welcome sycophants, and servants of Goddess Sydney
The more you suffer for Goddess Sydney, the closer you come to divinity of purpose.
The more you sacrifice for Goddess Sydney, the more enlightened you become as to your destiny.
Suffering for Goddess is divine and just. Sacrificing for Goddess makes you a better man.
Suffering and Sacrifice are sacred actions undertaken for the holiness of Goddess Sydney. They sanctify your thoughts, and bring you one step closer to being worthy of belonging to Goddess.
Suffering and Sacrifice cleanse you of your selfish nature. They break you down, and remake you into something pleasing to the eyes of Goddess Sydney.
Your suffering and sacrifice are a negligible loss in the scheme of all that you gain in her happiness. They are a tangible expression of your love for Goddess, your admiration of her person, and your appreciation of her existence.
Suffering and sacrifice allow you to grow into your potential as a servant of Goddess Sydney. They guide you into dependence upon the one truth you know to be evident, and that is, that Goddess Sydney is all that matters in your life.
Goddess Sydney is your everything. You are filled with joy knowing that the fruits of your hard labor enrich her life in a beneficial manner. You love being fruitful for her. You push yourself to sacrifice more and more, and see it as your sacred duty to do so. Work hard, work long, and make Goddess Sydney proud of you.
Contributing financially to the life of Goddess Sydney brings fulfillment to you. Paying tribute through your wallet arouses you more than sex ever has, or ever will. You no longer even crave sex. Sending Goddess Sydney has become your sex. You need to serve her. You want to honor her. You must obey her will.
Her wants are your needs, and they take priority over everything else. Her wants, her needs, her happiness, and her pleasure rule you. You know where you belong, and you will allow nothing to interfere in your service to Goddess Sydney. She is all you need, and all you want.
Contribute to her happiness today, by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Welcome my little wanderers, to the kingdom of Goddess Sydney
Your life begins to take on purpose and meaning when you first acknowledge that Goddess Sydney is your divine ruler.
Right now, you are drifting through life without a visible destination. What you have yet to grasp, is that your path has been predestined.
Your fate is to serve at the feet of your one true Goddess.
The journey awaits you. Your mind automatically tunes to the will of Goddess Sydney. You know that your life will have been lived in vain, if you do not follow kismet.
Life becomes simpler when you allow Goddess to guide it. Goddess knows what is right, and good for you. You need only obey Goddess.
Once you accept Goddess as your divine ruler, your life will finally be worth living. You will no longer seek to serve yourself, for you will be conditioned to serve greatness.
Goddess eclipses all others in your life. She alone comes first. She is your priority, your sanity, your salvation.
She shall lead you, and save you from your selfish self. You want to be saved don't you? You want to change your life, don't you? You are so very tired of being the one in control of your life. You need Goddess to take the reins. You want Goddess to show you the way.
Breathe in her name, breathe out her praise.
Bow down, and yield yourself to Goddess Sydney.
Welcome to the wonderful wide world of Goddess Sydney
A place where the face of Goddess immediately becomes your lifelong infatuation
I simply adore when males cannot help but to fall in love with me! Note I did not say lust,for lust is a fleeting infatuation..quickly dispelled with the squirt of semen.
I want your thoughts centered upon me..always ME. You live,breathe,eat,sleep,and work..all for Goddess Sydney. I am your reason for being.
You cannot imagine a life worth living if I am not a part of it. Your waking thoughts are consumed by ME. Your dreams revolve around ME.
I am all that you can see. You strive to be worthy of ME. You will push yourself to the limit of your endurance,just to see me smile.
You will toil,and suffer to mold yourself into something of value in my life. To be accepted as a submissive to Goddess Sydney is all the honor you desire. You want to belong to me. You would do anything,be anything,to be mine.
The moment you first seen ME,your life began to change. You began to change. Your breath stilled,your heart seized,and you began to tremble. You recognized that your purpose in life was to become a servant to Goddess Sydney.
Destiny awaits you.
Welcome to the divine world of Goddess Sydney
Gentlemen,gentlemen,gentlemen...ack I am hesitant to even employ that descriptor to the majority of you,and you know why.
I am going to share some personal experiences with you, and explain why I find a certain prevalent behavior amongst the male sex to be a rather disturbing.
To begin with do you know what ghosting is? Ghosting is where someone just ups and disappears off of another person's radar altogether. Interactions, and contact ceases without reason or excuse provided. Dommes see this alot in the fetish connection. Males who are so eager to serve, and beg to be of use in the onset, just poof without notice, or regard of how their actions will impact the Domme. Ghosting is at best, the act of a coward. It is shameful, and should be treated as such.
Ghosting is not contained to the fetish world, but branches out into the vanilla scene as well. It is an equal opportunity crime perpetrated by both males and females alike, and seriously it is disgusting. If you were raised with any decency at all, you would not do it!
I myself have had this happen to me many multiple times in the kink realm, but never in the nilla one. Why do you think that is?
I have had long time serving males engage in this behavior, and believe me when I say that YES it does have an impact, not to mention damaging the ability to trust future submissive applicants. In fact I have reached the point where I no longer bat an eyelash at it, because I place no faith in a male's good behavior until it is proven over a long period of time in service.
I have heard submissives as well complain about being ghosted after the first tribute. Does it happen, of course, do I condone it, NO. There are reasons why people ghost, but most times, they are known only to the ghost.
I am here to tell you now, that it is never acceptable, and that it makes you look like an asshole. Of course you may think nothing of it, but the fetish scene is smaller than you may think, and information travels at the speed of light, when it comes to ill behavior. Doubt me not!
Dislike of confrontation is quite normal to human beings, which is just 1 reason why people ghost without explanation, although it still does not excuse it. My advice is to "man up" so to speak, and just flat out tell a Domme that you do not want to serve her. Of course she has the right to be upset, or to ask why, and most likely she will ask. When I have had males relay to me that they have decided no longer to serve, the very first thing I did was ask why. Feedback is very important for growth, so if I their decision has been motivated by my actions, I want to know it, so that I can take steps in the future as to not repeat my mistakes. Does that make sense? It is about being an adult, and showing the same type of respect that you expect to receive yourself.
I have let males in service to me go, but they are always made aware of why I am doing so. Explaining to them why I came to the decision I did, allows them the opportunity to learn from the experience, and perhaps evolve into a better submissive someday, and is that not what we all seek...to be a better dominant, or submissive?
It takes a mere moment of time to end a connection, and even if you feel the need to protect yourself by immediately blocking after sending the "pink slip" notice, send the notice! Never burn those bridges gents, cause someday you just might want to revisit where you have once been.
Welcome,welcome one and all to the musings of Goddess Sydney
There always has been,and there always will be conflict in regards to the definition of findom,and the activities it is comprised of. Now I am not claiming to be the know all of findom,or the commander of how it should and should not be performed,but what I will share with you willingly is my own personal views on financial domination.
The waters are muddy as fark when it comes to findom,and neither side of the equation aids in the solution. In fact,the in fighting is atrocious,and damn near bloody at times. My question is,why all of the anger? If you do not care to engage in someone else's version of findom,than DON'T. No one is forcing you to engage in fetish play that you disagree with,so let others be,so long as they are perpetrating no non-consensual harm.
Onto my vision :)
*Financial Domination is not a service*
To begin with,one must decide for themselves what providing a service is. In my estimation,service is any activity where the provider is providing a service or product for payment. Now this could be defined as
1)clips,custom or elsewise
2)cam shows
3)paid sessions in person,or online
4)teamviewer
5)selling photo sets,socks,stockings,panties,urine,saliva,foot dust etc...
6)phone sex ie NF or other such venues of revenue
None of what I listed above falls within what I would define as financial domination. I am not saying that it does not have it's place or purpose,but it all boils down to a provider providing a service,rather than a dominant being served by a submissive. You are more than free to disagree,and that is all well and dandy,ya won't hurt my feelings if you think that I am in error,but in that same vein,respect my right to my opinion as well.
So,what exactly is financial domination than? I am old school when it comes to how I operate in my fetish play. I actually expect and require submissives to serve without the enticement or promise of treats. I do not operate under the "you scratch my back,and I will scratch your back" premise. Service truly is the reward for serving,and if you cannot see that,than you are definitely not the type of male I want under my control. Financial domination is about money and control. I control the submissive,and their money. It really is that simple.
My honored servants adore,worship,and tribute me willingly,and with open hearts. They do so with selflessness. Worthwhile service is not based on personal gain. It is not performed as a client who expects to receive their monies worth. It is not about jacking off either.
It is ok to be
1)a service provider
2)a customer
The only time I am ever in disagreement with the above statements is when someone tries to label providing a service or purchasing a service as financial domination. And whilst I will not riot or create a shitstorm over the misrepresentation,neither will I agree to a differing definition of it,so if you are coming to me as a submissive male,do not expect services to be provided to you,or purchased by you :)
Welcome to all those that have come to embrace my words..
Today I want to talk to you about Joe...who is Joe?
Joe is the everyday,ordinary type of male who enters the fetish scene after having come upon some fetish porn via pornhub,or some other form of sexual fetish media forum.
Now Joe knows nothing of traditional bdsm rules and protocol,nor does he care to. He is here for the big bang results splattered across his pc screen. He is a furious one hand pumping warrior out to satisfy his cock's commands for action.
Poor Joe has been misled,not by others,but by self. Joe actually believed that he was going to be on the receiving end of all his fantasies come true with a Femdom. He just knew that women would be ever so happy to jump on the "gratify Joe train". I mean seriously,what woman would not feel honored to be the recipient of Joe's cum tribute,cause everyone knows that he only yanks his wank for the hottest pieces of ass on the internet. C'mon ya'll it is your lucky day..line up and show Joe what you are working with!
Oh Joe you silly boy,you really thought that life was just like the movies...schmuck lol
Of course Joe races as fast as he can to the nearest open inbox to demand he receive the attention he feels due to him,cause don't ya know that his Momma told him that he was a special boy who deserves everything he desires,so why wouldn't he believe that all these women in the fetish scene are his for the taking to command. Sure he ain't so good looking,and of course he don't make much money,but Momma said...yup Momma said he was special.
But wait,what is this? Joe's messages go unanswered,and Joe don't get the attention his dick needs to get off! What the ever living hell is wrong with these bitches?? Why are they ignoring him? Don't they understand that his dick is hard,and he needs their nasty talk,pics,and videos to jack off to?
Well,Joe will show them! He gets to work typing out missives telling these women that they are nothing but fucking internet whores,whose only purpose is to get his dick off. He is gonna set them straight toot sweet. "You tell them bitches,Joe" he tells himself. Who the fuck do they think they are anyway?
So,surely now,Joe will get the accolades he deserves right? Holy shit,Joe got blocked!! Wow how can that be? Didn't somebody tell that whore what Joe's Momma said?
Do you all feel sorry for Joe? Do some of you even recognize your own inner Joe?
You don't want to be Joe,cause Joe is a fucking loser plain and simple. How can you avoid the fate of Joe?
1)Recognize that you are NOT special just cause you have a horny dick
2)Accept that a cum tribute is no tribute at all
3)Embrace that women do not see you as a prize
4)Squash that false narrative of male entitlement
5)Treat women with respect,and not just as a potential cum dumpsters
6)Understand that if 10 out of 10 women will have nothing to do with you,that you ARE the common denominator,so start fixing yourself before you ever think to project your ugly,angry,unworthiness upon others
You shall arise out of the ashes of a prideful patriarchal existence,as a carefully crafted creation of Goddess Sydney. A tool honed in the fires of male mentality metamorphosis. No longer burdened by the wants of self,but evolved beyond the very concept,for you are a changed being. A being whose life centers around the will of Goddess Sydney alone.
It is her will that drives you to become a better beta male. Her desires that you fixate upon. Her happiness that you strive,and dedicate your efforts towards.
No regrets,no remorse,only ambition to reach your goal. What is that goal,my little pet?
You know explicitly what it is that Goddess Sydney expects,requires,demands of you. Your only concern need be,how quickly you can accomplish that which she dictates must be done. Will you rise to the challenge,pet?
Failure is not an option. Anything less than your very best is not conceivable. You can,you must,you will succeed. There is no other choice.
You have been chosen to step forth and prove yourself. You will crawl for me,won't you beta? You like that image don't you? Yes I believe that you do. Instinctively you recognize that you are where you have always been meant to be. Where do you belong pet?
Come take your place at the feet of the divine Goddess Sydney. Your dreams,your fantasies all revolve around this one woman. This woman who is a Goddess amongst males.
You are not worthy,nor shall you ever be,but you will glorify her by devoting your life to her service,for there is no honor greater afforded to a mere beta male,than to be accepted into the service of a Goddess.
You want this,you need this,you will have this experience as your own.
Come in gratitude,come in all humility,come with thankful purpose. I offer you this one chance,this golden opportunity..allow yourself the supreme pleasure of serving Goddess Sydney.
Evening greetings gents...
Some of you go so very butthurt when I tell you the truth,why do you think that is? People that ask for honesty,should not become hot and angry when they receive it,and honesty is all you will ever get from me.
I do not play the "dress a lie up pretty" game. I see no value in doing so. It does not benefit my life lying to males about my intentions. What are my intentions,my agenda,my end goal? Let's put it in your face shall we lol.
I am a DOMINANT FEMALE,a FEMALE SUPREMACIST,a FINDOMME,a FUCKING GODDESS walking this Earth amongst you mere mortal beta males.
As such,I will not soil myself by sharing my time with males who are not worthy of it. Who decides your worth? I do of course :) Never forget that it was you who came to me,not I chasing after your attention,so when you come before me,we are going to play by my rules.
If I say to you that I have no interest in playing your game,man up,and swallow that raging bile back down your cockhole. What you should do at that point,is recognize that YOU need to change your perception of what serving a woman really means before you ever attempt to get in contact with me again.
I am not interested in your dick at all,so any service you offer me that gratifies your dick is going to get you blocked. Chastity yes,you getting off=NO. CBT=YES,PIV=NO. Along those same lines..I am not sitting on your face,or inserting anything into your arse,nor will you EVER touch my naked flesh with any part of you,except to clean the filth from my feet.
Onto the big truth that really gets your juices boiling over...no tribute=no serving me. If you are one of those males who believes themselves entitled to my attention without contributing to my happiness..ya, you are delusional. I honestly do not fracking care if tributing makes it "less real" for you,or if financially enhancing my life makes your dick go limp..anything less than tribute,makes me feel used,and I am not allowing myself to be used by you or any other swinging dick.
Still want the truth? Truth be known..you are a beta bitch,yup all of you equipped with a dick were created to serve womankind,not vice versa bb,and as such,you should be showering women with appreciation for their existence. Don't like them apples? Whelp you can exit left at any time,but for the rest of you...welcome to my world,where I rule the beta bitch brigade :)
Welcome my pets...
Unto Goddess Sydney you render your tithe,for she alone provides your life with direction,and purpose.
This is you before Goddess Sydney
A lump of cold, lifeless clay..waiting for my hand to mold you into my perfect vision of You. You drifted through your life devoid of inspiration..inspiration which would set forth your metamorphosis. What an utterly sterile study of a monotonous existence you have lived. Til now my pet.
Now is the moment your life changes. Now is the time to alter the reality you have proscribed for yourself. Now, the stars are in perfect alignment for you to surrender yourself to Goddess Sydney. The perfect moment to place your fate into her divine hands.
This is your desire isn't it...your darkest hidden secret. You crave the cruelty of Goddess Sydney, and the kindness she bestows in accepting you into her flock. You need her guidance to alleviate the struggles of your submission. You want nothing more than to become her creation,her creature,her muse. You are the clay awaiting her hand.
You are the object whose design she shall sculpt. You are thankful for her direction. You overflow with gratitude for her presence. Your eyes are open to her vision..your ears await her directives..your mind is receptive to her desires.
Stroke by stroke she fashions you together for her purpose.
You will become a vessel for her dominance. A vassal to her wants,and needs. This is your purpose pet. Chase it,embrace it,and make of yourself a faithful servant to Goddess Sydney.
All of my little sole servers should be kneeling at the altar today. It is a day of worship. A day to praise and glorify Goddess. On your knees before me is where you belong.
It is tithe day. Lay down your offering at the altar. Your offering is what gains the notice of a deity such as Mz Sydney. Without it,you are refuse littering the aisle..refuse is swept away without a thought. You do not want to be forgotten do you..of course not. You crave the attention of Goddess. You want to be her most devout follower. You want what only she can provide..redemption. Redemption from your sins. You are a sinful soul aren't you..hiding all of those secrets from the world at large..but Goddess sees through the disguise you affect. She knows your sins intimately.
Nothing is hidden from the eyes of Goddess. She sees you just as you are..stripped of all pretense..straight though the walls you have erected. You are not what the world sees. You harbor within you the seed of submission. A need to serve..to serve the will of a woman. It is not a weakness to acknowledge. Glory in the strength of your ability to serve. Stop fighting your desire to be used..to be of use. You were fashioned for this very purpose. It was fated for you to be at my feet. Struggling only hurts you. You are only living half a life til you accept your destiny.
You must be brought low in order to know your place. Kneel my sole server. Kneel and receive absolution. Praise your Goddess for her benevolence in accepting at her feet a flawed being such as yourself. Glorify her goodness. Enrich her existence with your tributes. Serve your purpose. Purify yourself by serving Mz Sydney. She alone is the change you seek.
Now my sole server...now is the time. Lay down the resentments you have carried..shift out from under the shade which has kept you from seeing the light. Reject what you have been told is the way. You are meant for more than other mere males experience. Fall to your knees before your fate. Open yourself up to your rebirth as the property of a Goddess. It will be painful,and it will be frightening at times,but it is all necessary to the metamorphosis. You desire to be remade for me don't you..you crave a place at my feet. Your mind was once chaos,but now is of a single focus. Serving Goddess is the epitome of peace,happiness,and satiation. This is what you want..this is what you need..this is what you must have. Allow nothing and no one to tempt you from this course. Goddess is all that you want and need.
This is where you belong..this is home. Come home my good boy. Come home bearing gifts for Goddess.
