Always a reason for Tribute treason

Hello hello hello...and welcome to the sanctum of Sydney Claire!

Some of you gents need to seriously reconsider your actions, or lack thereof when it comes to serving dominant Women. Ya ya ya I know that some of you are brand spanking new to the scene, but sometimes you just got to learn the hard way, and that most often is the wrong way on a one way street.

The main subject of discussion here is TRIBUTE. If you are ill educated upon the subject of tributing in a Financial Domination sense, than you can quick and easy google for the answer :) Go ahead and do that for me right now, so that I will know that you are up to speed. Done?

Progressing. 

Do you know how many excuses I have been given for not being able to tribute? Take a guess....WRONG! Try again, only add in a couple of zeros to the equation. Do you know what excuses are? They are falsified reasons losers and liars toss about. Are you a liar or loser? If so, than stop, do not pass go, and get out of here NOW.  I have done my time on sucker skidrow, and paid my listening to lying "paypig" dues.

Onward.

There are zero, and I do mean zero legitimate reasons not to tribute a Woman.  

I get it, and I imagine that most Women comprehend that the majority of males in the findom fetish are not on par with Daddy Warbucks when it comes to disposable income, but you can still contribute financially towards the lifestyle of a Lady. Now if you are sitting there, and can say in all honesty that you cannot invest a single cent in the relationship, well than I would advise you to exit behind the liars and losers, cause you are of zero value in a Financial Domination power exchange. Net negatives are a drain of time and valuable feminine resources.

Forward.

If you fear tributing because of

1)past negative treatment
2)uncertainty if She is the one(need to get to know her)
3)being scammed or ghosted


Solution: Sit back quietly without contacting Her at all. Study Her social media to ascertain if She is the one you want to serve. Then proceed with tribute.

Your initial tribute doesn't have to break your bank account, but nor should it be insulting either. Figure in what you would spend if you were taking Her out to a nice dinner (not a fast food joint) and send that amount. Once sent, never forget that tribute is a gift. It is not a payment for services expected. You are not owed a single second of Her time for that money, but most likely you will receive a response, and the chance to speak with Her, which is most definitely a reward worth chasing.

Tribute is the platform which springs you into Her orbit of notice, rather than as a right of entitlement. Financially investing in the relationship displays your intent to provide for Her physical comfort, and since providing is already embedded in your dna, tributing is a given :) No need to fear it, or make up excuses to get out of it. You are definitely not going to get anywhere in findom without it, because as I stated previously, we have heard every excuse, so you are not going to get a foot in the door if you lead like that. 

Take pride in the act of giving. You are enhancing Her level of happiness, and serving Her interests, which should be the goal of every single submissive boy and girl. You want to be a good little subby, yes? Of course you do :) All it requires is an open mind, heart, and wallet/pocketbook. You can do this. I believe in you, so get out there and send a tribute today!!

SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
 

Same name, same game

Hello and welcome to Sydney Claire's slice of femdom

The name of the game is findom. 

Now, some of you gents keep trying to change the definition of the game. Whelp I am here to relay to you that it is not going to work.

I so get it that you do not like the rules of findom, but you have 2 choices

1)suck it up, provide and abide
or
2)get your ass outta fetish 

I know that you newer peeps get confused about the definition since it gets mislabeled so much of the time, so I am going to be a generous Goddess, and educate you here and now.

Findom has always been about giving your money to women, and getting nothing in return. Ya ya ya, I am not forgetting the domination aspect of the term, but what you aren't grasping is that the domination part is about dominating finances. Dominating the money, not your dick. 

Seeing as most Dommes are not one pony tricks, they harbor many fetishes, and play them out alongside findom. This is not a bad thing. It is actually a pretty awesome thing, but it can lead to possible confusion, so here I am to clear away the grey.

I am going to break it down for you even further, thereby offering clarity to the fullest.

1)Buying clips is not participating in findom. Buying clips is buying a product, just as selling clips is selling a product.

2)Paying for an online or in person session is not findom. You are paying or offering a service.

3)Procuring used items from a woman is not findom. Acquiring goods or peddling items is business.

Now that I have schooled you as to what findom is not, let's move on to what findom is.

1)Giving, sending money to a woman with zero expectations of receiving anything in return.

2)Giving a woman control over your bank account so that she may decide what you spend and what you buy.

3)Giving gifts to a woman, and once again expecting nothing from her. 

See the difference? Awesome!! I knew that you were a smart cookie ;-)

You are now ready to dive in deep into the exhilarating fetish of findom. Feel free to thank me with a tribute
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com

Commercialized fetish

Welcome to all who have found themselves here :)

Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.

Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.

Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*

Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?

The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene. 

This is reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give up. Those are your only options. 

The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?


For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.

It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.

The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where.  Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?

Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.

Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)

I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.

The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.

I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!

PP is never an option

Whoever you are, and wherever you may be...Welcome

Welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire

I am who I am, and you are who you are, so let's get down to the basic of what this post is geared towards today.

Paypal..you know what paypal is yes? Paypal is a US based payment processor. It is a powerful and far reaching company. The main thing to take note of with pp, is that they are NOT fetish friendly, so if you are looking to pay or receive tribute, look elsewhere. They will not tolerate your business. In fact, they will shut your account down, and hold your funds for an indefinite period.

I realize that some do indeed still use pp for receiving tribute, but the majority of those who do, will tell you that they do so only with trusted contributors. What this should tell you straight away, is that if you are unknown to a Domme, than she is NOT going to offer up her pp addy for tribute. Yes there are exceptions, but the only females I have seen posting their addy's are newbie women who have no clue that this is a massive mistake. I am not one, so for the male who messaged me asking about pp...now you know, and either you are new, or you thought foolishly that I was. Sydney Claire is not a fool, doll, so try again by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Do you know who tries to send pp tributes? Scammers. Yup I said the S word. I have lost count of the number of women who trusted a male to send via that method, only to either have the charges disputed, cancelled, or even sickeningly find out that the male in question had reported them to pp to have their account locked. This is why a huge red flag pops up before my eyes when any male suggests this avenue of tribute. You do not want me believing that you are a lowlife scammer do you? Of course not, so forget you ever thought to bring pp up to me :)

Amazon gift cards are always going to be the required route of tribute when it comes to gifting me! In the past I allowed males to purchase from a WL for me, but those days are gone. Why? Well for a couple of reasons. 1)Amazon now provides the sender with photo proof of delivery, which often displays an address. 2)Amazon WL gifts can be cancelled right after purchase, and up to shipping date. Have I ever had this happen to me, NO, but neither will I take the chance, so just be the bestest boy and send the gift card ;)

In fact, you should send lots and lots of gift cards, because you and I both know that I deserve them, and you exist to please me. Isn't it wonderful that you serve a gloriously divine purpose in my life?? Yay you!! Now get on giving meaning to your life by serving Sydney Claire :)
 

Don't be a stranger to Goddess Sydney Claire

I do not play with strangers
If you knew me, you would know that I have no desire to play with submissives whom I know nothing of. It brings me no pleasure, and it is actually a debbie downer for me.
Dominating a male that has taken the time to make a connection with me, ensures that we both find fulfillment within the exchange, and fulfillment is what we all seek is it not?

I definitely do not play in person with random strange males. 1)That is a safety NO NO for me, and should be for you as well. 2)It leaves me feeling cold and detached. Whilst some of you pisspots on the net do deserve a brutal ball busting session, I won't offer to engage in it without knowing you first. FYI I love nut busting :) so get to know me first, and I just might drop you to your knees lol!

All males who serve me are told flat out that real time will not be an option til they have served out an online probationary period, and there are no exceptions to this rule. Serving me online is similar to a courtship in a fetish relationship. You get to interact with me daily, learn my likes and dislikes, see a side of me that is not available for public consumption, and I gain the knowledge I require to break you to my bit:)

Getting to know someone is an exhilarating experience if done correctly. It is like foreplay for the mind. Take your time. There is no need to rush through it. It is definitely not a sprint to the finish line. Slow your roll, and keep a steady pace. You will get there in time. I prefer long term servitude anyway, so anyone that lacks the patience to get to know me properly is not going to last in my stable, and I would rather find that out early on, rather than wasting any of my precious time on someone who does not possess the same goal.


I understand how exciting it can be to come across someone that you really want to indulge your fetish with, but trying to steamroll your way into their presence is just not going to end up very well, especially for those of you seeking out someone to mindfuck your existence. Dommes need to know your buttons before they can push them doll. 

Yes drive by tributes, and one off sessions with slutty nuts can be fun for me, but it really isn't my preference unless it is a slut that I have played with before. I get that some of you treat fetish like a Baskin Robbins. You want to try all 51 flavors of domination, and that is ok so long as you realize that not only will it break your piggy bank, but it may sour you on fetish altogether, cause all you are going to get is a  flash bang for that buck, so unless that it really what you are looking for than I advise to avoid that type of approach. There is an upside to slutting though. Engaging with multiple Dommes ups your odds of finding that special ONE. The one that you are meant to serve long term, and that is a definite positive!

The choice of which type of Domme you serve is ultimately yours to make, but don't act like a dick when you come across a Domme that is not in to shortstack session servitude. Respect the right of a woman to decide which males she wishes to play with, and her rules of engagement.  That way, if either of you ever changes your stance, you will have left the door open to the possibility! You never know what the future may hold, so don't burn those bridges bb :)  

As always...amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com are a great way of saying "I appreciate you"

The W's of Findom

What
The what is Findom. You do know what Findom is don't you? If not, than why not? You know how to google don't you? Now that is a crux is it not. You lazy turds are certainly not going to want to waste your own time searching for an answer now are you? Whelp since I am an all around nice person, I am going to help you out this one time. 
Findom is a fetish. A fetish in which men aka you give their money to women with no expectation of reciprocal services. Sounds pretty crazy huh? I bet. I know that most of you are scratching your balls after reading that, cause you cannot figure out why you should give your money to any woman who is not doing something for you to earn it. You are drenched in the customer mindset. The one that dictates that you should receive a product when you provide currency. This is something that you are going to have get over. You will get no where fast if you do not.


Why
Why do men give their money to women with no hope of reciprocation? They do it out of respect. They do it to convey appreciation. They do it because they cannot help but to provide, for it is ingrained within men to be providers. They do it as a form of power transfer, after all bdsm is all about the exchange of power, the relinquishment of self, and money is POWER. They do it to convey worship, a tithe, a tribute, a contribution to the life of their Goddess.


When
The whens of tribute is set via the FinDom. Of course the initial tribute should be sent prior to engagement. That is to say that you as the man should have already researched the Domme in question way before you ever approached her. Study her as you would the holy grail..quietly in awe and from a distance til you are prepared to offer her your servitude.  
Once you have received the tribute schedule, do not ever think to disregard it for your own selfish intentions. A man will be judged by his adherence to his word. Be the type of man who lives up to his word. If at any point you cannot meet your obligations to your FinDom for any reason, than you need to convey to her the whys of it asap.


How much
This is not a question to ask. Sacrifice is not an option, it is a requirement of serving a FinDom. If you are not suffering to some degree from the amount of your financial contribution, than you are in essence stealing from your FinDom, and that is never acceptable. Do not be the sketchy trickster who attempts to cheapen the experience by withholding from her financially. Selfless, sacrifice, suffering, and servitude all go together hand in hand. 

Is Findom for you
Findom is for all those who seek it sincerely with generosity. If you are not willing to give, to tithe, to tribute, to provide, to contribute, than no it is not for you. If you believe that you must gain other than the pleasure of enriching your Domme's life from serving than no Findom is not for you. If your only intent is to stroke your penis, than no Findom is not for you. If it does not excite you to give your money to a woman, than no Findom is not for you. If you will not commit your cash, than no Findom is not for you. 
If you receive an incredible rush, a stomach full of butterflies, a lightheaded soaring, a flesh tingling feeling whenever you send tribute, than yes Findom is for you. If you cannot imagine anything more right than devoting your life and fruits of livelihood to your FinDom, than yes Findom is for you. If you are prepared to serve with all that you have, than yes Findom is for you. If you see women as Goddesses deserving of all your riches, than yes Findom is for you. 

Now
You have been educated. Are you ready to begin your journey into financial servitude to a Golden Goddess? If so, than send your first tribute today to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Getting to know all about your FemDom Goddess

Getting to know me..all about me

Many of you gents claim that you want to get to know me prior to serving or sending tribute. I get it, I really do, and it is one of the main reasons that I began this blog years ago, and why I continue to update it to this very day.

I want you to get to know me. I want you to have a firm grasp of my expectations. I want you to be informed. It will save you so much time, if you just take the time to read all about me.

You reading up on me allows you to get to know me without ever taking up a moment of my time, and that is a very good thing. Nothing irks me more than investing my time in interacting with a male who hasn't done his homework, then bails when he finds out that tribute is a requirement, and that I take domination seriously. 

I am a firm believer in not purposefully wasting my own time, which is what I am doing when I give my time to someone who is not going to be serving me. You may be saying, but hey you could be making a new friend...whelp bb's I am not here to make friends with you. I don't need a new bestie, or a shoulder to cry on, so having males in my life who are not enriching it through sacrifice and service, is redundant. 

I intentionally point you males to this blog in the very first exchange just to avoid wasted time. Some of you may find it cold and detached that I do not choose to chit chat with you for free, but it would be inane and pointless til you have made up your mind to serve me. Once you have sent that initial tribute, then and only then will I be willing to spare the time to see what you are all about. It may not seem fair, but there are thousands of prospective submissive males, and only 1 of me, so I get to make the rules :) and you will follow them if you want to be mine! 

And now that you have taken the time to get to know me...you have my permission to send your very first tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in the form of an amazon gift card!!

To Worship A Goddess

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Let me slip into your submissive self

Why speak if your words have no meaning?
Each and every day we venture out into the world at large, and we speak with no meaning. Our words are as empty as the false platitudes we offer. Why? Why bother to speak at all? We speak because it is polite. We speak because it is expected of us. If we did not speak, than others would form a poor opinion of us, and the majority of people who wander this planet, actually care what others think of them. 

Caring about what others think of you
Why do you care how others see you? Why do you care how they speak of you behind your back? Does the opinion of others affect your life in a tangible manner? If you are disliked by the masses of society, will it devalue your life? One thing that I have learned in my life, is that others cannot live your life for you, and if you are living your life for the acceptance of others, than you are not actually living your best life at all. 

Living your best life
Live your life the way you choose. Do the things that bring happiness and peace to you. Of course I would never advise anyone to purposefully act in a way that brings harm to others, but neither should you fear to be present in your life simply because others would not like how you choose to live it. If you want to immerse yourself in fetish play, do it! If you want to dedicate the rest of your life to serving a woman, do it! If you want to lock your cock up, and hand off the key to a woman, do it! If you want to wear panties, or stockings, even a dress, do it! Stop allowing the fear of public scrutiny to keep you from loving your life! You truly do only have this one lifetime, and to squander it is criminal.  

Why meaningless words will hinder you in findom
Gentlemen I want you to really listen hard to what I am about to say. Your words mean nothing to a FinDom if your actions are not backing them up. It truly doesn't matter how many times you tell a Domme how beautiful, how sexy, how powerful you find her to be, if you are not complimenting her with tribute right along with it. In Financial Domination, your money is your verification of authenticity. It is your passport, and your ticket into the scene. You will be denied entry without it, this I promise you. Words will not take you where you wallet itself can. Remember this. 

Why caring about what others think of you in the scene will matter
If you toss your dick pic into every inbox, you will be talked about poorly. If you are rude and demanding, you will be talked about poorly. If you lie, steal, or cheat a FinDom, you will be talked about poorly. Now you may harbor a false belief that the Financial Domination community is this huge bubble where no one knows anyone else, but you are making a mistake. I may not know all of the females in the fetish scene, but I guarantee that everyone has friends of a friend, and yes I openly admit that we do share the names of those males who have burnt bridges with us, which in turn will make fellow Dommes look at you askance when you try to talk them up. This is why you seriously want your reputation to be pristine. You must hold rein on your tongue, no matter how badly you want to lash out in anger when you are denied whatever it is you hoped to gain from a FinDom. You must act with integrity in word and deed. Do not forget this.

Denial of your best life
When you deny your submissive self, you are paring away a piece of essential self, and that can be quite harmful psychologically. You cannot deny who and what you are for a lifetime, and not expect repercussions in the form of depression, anxiety, and stress. You must allow yourself to express your submission, lest you permanently damage yourself, and no one wants that, least of all you, so don't do it! Be your submissive self, and be proud of it. Men who are submissive make better men. They are more considerate in their actions, and conscious of how their behavior affects others. Submission makes you a better person all around, and that should be towards the top of your personal list of goals. Do better, be better! 

*Please feel free to comment and share*

Now be a gentleman and thank me for my words of wisdom by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Findom, A Fetish for the Rich

Is Findom a fetish designed for the rich only
Why would anyone say this? Well, truth be boldly known, financial domination is a luxury fetish. Why? The reason being, that this fetish is not free. Findom can be quite costly, and should make a dent in your wallet if done correctly. 

Findom requires males to be at minimum financially stable in order to engage in it. Being broke is not a positive when you are playing in the financial fetish field. It definitely gets steamy when men go into the red with tribute, but they should never begin there. Findom is meant to be fun, and for most, living in a cardboard box due to fetish play is not fun. 

Financial Ruination 
Of course there are a select few that enjoy taking findom to the extremes. There is an erotic element in going broke and bankrupt for your FinDom. Sounds rather hot :) Imagine giving your absolute all for your Domme. The ultimate sacrifice. Orgasmic power exchange!

As I said though, most do not want to take it to this level, and that is understandable.

Findom for the executive to entry level 
These are the men who enjoy a moderate level of financial freedom. They possess an excess, which allows them to play and tribute in higher degrees. They make up a small contingent of finsubs, and are most welcome to serve. They are the ones who take command in their workplace, and crave to relinquish all of that delicious power into the hands of a dominant. The lower you take them down, the happier they will be! I adore this type of servant. That could be due to my insatiable hunger for tribute and power. Yes I want it all bb :)


Blue collar Laborer in Findom
This is the majority of males in the scene. They work hard, and play even harder. They want to experience it all, and don't complain about paying for quality luxury. They are the true bread and butter of findom. This is the type that I always want to put in panties. It is humorous as hell to see a rough looking manly man decked out in satin and lace :) Yes yes yes. I like this type of servant, why, because they are down to earth and dirty in their fetishes ;)

Findom for college boys
Yes I see alot of you, but 9/10 of you are looking for free or reduced fees to play. You tend to suffer from entitlement syndrome, and view women as objects for your use. You need to get your heads out of your asses, and your dickbeaters into your pockets asap! There is no valid excuse for you boys not to tribute. The overwhelmingly used excuse for non-tributing is "I am just a poor student, and cannot tribute financially", and if that is you, here is my advice "GET A JOB". Students are capable of working and getting an education at the same time. I did it, so can you. Plenty of employers love hiring college students, and if all else fails, get to selling semen and plasma. No excuses numbnuts :)

Broke boy findom
Ugh there are too damn many of you coming out of the woodwork like little leeching cockroaches. You bring zero value to a findom exchange, and no the offer to shove objects up your ass is not entertainment. The only possible way you are of worth in service, is by building a large presence on social media to promote for your Domme, and even then, do not expect much attention. You are the grunt, and while you may serve a purpose, you are not high in the hierarchy of servants. Your main focus should be on financially bettering yourself, so that you may make tangible contributions towards the enrichment of your Domme. 

Did I miss anyone? Feel free to agree or disagree, or just plain offer an opinion. I welcome your comments :)

And as always...sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com is the best way to say thank you!

Be a man of action

Gentlemen, my dudes, take a seat...

There is so much hoopla being posted about the need for verification of females in the findom fetish scene, that it is simply unreal lol. 

You as males in this scene NEED to wrap your head around a few facts. You are the submissives ie subservients aka slaves. It is your job to research any female that you are considering offering your service to. Get that, YOUR JOB! You are expected to expend your time going through her social media, web site, clip store if she has one to ascertain for yourself that she is exactly what she represents herself to be. It is not her job to hop on cam for your gratification before you have even sent an initial tribute. Sheesh, suffering from much entitlement??

The problem is twofold, 1) You males are lazy as fuck 2) You males always look for free jerk opportunities 
So, when you go around demanding that females verify themselves on cam or with a photo (your name on it of course) ya, you are outing yourself  as either number 1. or number 2. Of course I expect to get shit rained on me, cause holy hell didn't I know that males have been scammed before?? Fuck yes I know this, but it is all their own fault. You heard me right...IT IS ALL THEIR OWN FAULT. No pity, and no fucks given.

You should be studying any female you are thinking about approaching...study her like you would a work of art. If the shading is a bit too heavy, than back the fuck off, and start your search anew. Do not, and I repeat, do not allow your dick to do the deciding. He will fuck you all kinds of up. 

And don't even get me started on the whiners who refuse to part with a small tribute to get to know a female. If you refuse to invest even a small amount, than you are refuse from the get go. True you may not mesh with a female, but by not even sending the bare minimum amount of tribute, all you are saying, is that you do not value a woman's time. I really do not give a flying fark if you cannot even afford a small tribute to every single dominant you desire to interact with. Either save up til you can, limit the number of dominants you approach, or gtfo out the fetish, cause you are giving me a headache with your bellyaching. 

I am telling you right now that dominant women do know a good boy when they come into contact with one, and he is not a whiner or bitcher. He values women's time, and attention. He has already taken the time to research a woman before he approaches her, so he knows fairly well if she is what he is looking for, and if she is who she says she is. He tributes without demands or expectations, as he appreciates her time interacting with him, and is grateful for the opportunity in coming to know her. These actions or lack thereof are what set good boys apart from wanking slackers, so you have been forewarned. Get it together, and act right from the start.

You remind me of my period

Ugh, the title sounds rather unappealing doesn't it? Yup it does, but it is true nonetheless. 

Some of you cum only once a month sliding into my inbox unexpectedly, and without prior notice. You cum to make a mess, and leave behind your trash for me to take out. Not very nice of you. Stop being a bother rather than a blessing in my life!

Do you want to know the worst part of it all...you attempt to exit without paying a single cent. You want to take your jollies and jet, leaving me empty handed. Tsk tsk tsk!

Small and large tributes are always welcome in my findom slice of the queendom, but if you are not a regular visitor to my fief, and you are miserly to boot, well I would rather not deal with you. It is one thing to send a small tribute respectfully, and expect no contact, but to cheap out, and demand attention too is a no go.  Cheapness is an ugly affliction which I do not care to be exposed to. 

It may indeed be inexpensive to serve your cock, but serving a woman is an entirely different experience, and we are not impressed with penny pinchers in the least. We do have standards unlike that puke stick in your pants. We require a well mannered finesse..an appreciation of our presence. Women are a luxury, which most of you cannot afford on a full time basis, and that is all well and good, but when you are in our inbox, you need to be as generous as possible. Being generous is one of the hallmarks of a gentleman, and a gentleman is always preferred.

Sure, the cretins within your ranks cuddle misogyny (in the form of freebie seekers) close to their rotten hearts, which is why they treat women as if they possess no tangible value, but they easily out themselves with word and deed, so I fret not about being fooled by them. You good man, certainly do not want to be counted among their ranks, now do you?

Your goal is to shine and serve. To be recognized, and to be useful. You love being of use to a woman, and realize that in order to be of use, you must be generous. Generosity is a golden quality. A quality which earns notice, and leads to a welcome mat being extended out for your company. Women will unfailingly appreciate a male who is intelligent enough to embrace the fact that women are to be worshiped, spoiled, and revered. You want to be one of those males don't you? Of course you do :)

You want to be a good boy. You want to bask in a woman's approval when you have done a good job for her. You certainly do not want to be like a period...dreaded, cursed, and wished away. No, you want only to bring happiness to a woman. You want her to smile when she thinks of how well you serve her, and a woman's smile is priceless, so get to it gents. Get to serving generously. Gift, spoil, and make me smile today :)

Complainers get no cookies from me

Get ready gents, get set, cause you most likely are not going to take kindly to what I am about to say.


I do not want to hear your complaints!

I am not a customer service rep, so do NOT feel free to unleash your bitches at my door. This is especially true for those submissives not in service to me! 

All of the time I see males complaining about how their Domme or some random female did them wrong, and I honestly do not give a flying fart. Should I care as a fellow human being, well most people would say yes, but here is the thing, I am NOT like most people. Sure I have compassion for mankind, but when your own stupidity, or ill thought out choices led to your problem, well I have zero pity. Yes it sounds harsh, but this is me being brutally honest with you. I would much rather relay an unkind truth, than a sweet lie.

People, people, people...use common sense, and a lot of the "problems" you create, would not exist or occur. I am going to list for you some of the most common complaints I am subjected to as a dominant in the findom fetish scene, and how to avoid the issues.

1)I got scammed out of money by a female
Resolution=STOP thinking with your dick for about 10 seconds. Did you research the female in question? Did you check her social media to see if others have complained about her? If not, than that is the fucking you get for the fucking you got.

2)I am not into findom
Resolution=HELLO, why the hell are you even messaging dominants who are into findom than? Stay in your own lifestyle lane, and you will not have this problem.

3)All FinDommes care about is money
Resolution=Avoid FinDommes altogether, and pray to whatever deity you hold dear that you will be able to locate a Domme to dominate you for free, otherwise STFU and tribute like a good little cash cunt.

4)A female is blackmailing me without consent
Resolution=Report her to the authorities
Why would you give a random person personal details or photos if you did not even conceive that they would use them ill? Most likely you wanted the thrill of possible exposure, and now your decision is biting you on the ass.

5)I can't find a "real" Domme
If your definition of "real" means free, see resolutions #2 & #3. Most of the time when I hear this complaint, the resolution is easy peasy=get off your ass and look for one. There are so many wonderful dominant females in findom. Hell you cannot toss a rock without hitting one, so if you cannot find one, than seriously I know that you are a lazy POS.

6)I am a poor broke student that cannot afford to tribute, and no one wants me to serve them. Resolution=Either stay away from findom, or get a fucking part time job.

You're welcome, now $tribute$ cash cunt :)

There is life affirming pleasure in giving to Sydney Claire

Sydney Claire is ALL you need...all you want. You have no need of anyone else. She is everything to you. 

Your life was meaningless without her, and you were less than nothing before you found her. 

Pleasing her is your orgasm now, and you love to cum don't you? All those cashgasms for Goddess. Delicious.  

You hunger for that feel good feeling you get when you click send. Nothing else compares to the high you get when you spoil Sydney Claire. She is your addiction. Your Domme of Choice.

You would do anything to please her. Her laughter is the intoxication you seek, and when she calls you her good boy, you feel as if you are staring at the sun..blinded by her radiance, and surrounded by her warmth. She is all you need. 

Serving Sydney Claire is a magical experience. It strips away all of the bad within you, and replaces it with the joy of being of use to her. 

You have found your purpose. You have found your deity. You need nor want any other. She alone fills your life full. There is room for no other. Only she. 

When you close your eyes at night, it is to her that you pray. When you dream, it is her that leads your fantasies. When you wake, it is her face that you seek out. Your first action upon waking is to recite your mantra for Sydney Claire, for she alone fulfills you.

She is what was missing, and now that you have found her, you will be all that she wants. You will give all that you have to remain in her good graces. You left behind your ego, and desire to kneel before her in supplication like a good boy.

She is your world, and the center of your universe. Give to Goddess. Send to Goddess. Spend on Goddess. 

You need Goddess. You want no other Goddess. She is everything. She is all things. She is beyond your mortal reach, therefore you will tithe her daily for the honor of being recognized by her. 

No holding back, no excuses, no saying no. You want, you need, you must have this Goddess in your life. Give to Goddess because it feels so fucking good to please her. Give to Goddess because she deserves your very best. Just Giveeeeee

Financially Spoiling Women

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Do you really want to submit to a Female Dominant

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Provide for your dick denial

Hello little dicklets :)

 Goddess desires a new mic! I want to create new mp3's which will take you to the edge of dick destruction. I want to tease your auditory senses, and deny you the touch you crave so desperately! 

You like that don't you? You love being denied. You long for the suffering of edging all night long listening to my whiskey soaked dulcet tones. It would be so fucking hot, wouldn't it? Naked and alone in the dark, with my voice echoing in your ears decimating your will to do anything other than obey my whispered commands. You want to be my good boy don't you? You want to earn that sweet release. Cum show me that you are worthy. Cum stuff my inbox full of amazon gift cards for the purchase of a new mic. Provide for your source of torment :)

Better yet...beg me for the honor of gifting me with the tool of your dick destruction, then send send send...and let the game begin!

Exclusivity is not inclusive

Welcome to Sydney Claire's world, my little manpets :) A place where you are given a glimpse into the window of my exclusive life.

 
Not all who enter will ever be allowed anymore than this small taste of me, for I seek the extraordinary in manpets. Mediocrity has no place in my femdom world. manpets of consideration must shine with submission, and unswerving desire to meet and exceed my demanding nature. I will never accept second rate, or second best.

Is this you? Are you a manpet worthy of notice? 

Are you ready to delve into the dark depths of servitude to Goddess Sydney Claire? Only a select few will respond in the affirmative, and actually mean it. Most of you are dabblers, lurkers, and cretins that serve not a Goddess, but rather a foul little pukestick, and that is an entirely purposeless existence. Your need for submission to Goddess must overrule the commands of the cock, otherwise your life is a waste.

You need purpose in your life. I am that purpose. You need to devote your time and attention to the greater good, which is what Sydney Claire is. She is your divine deity. You were born to worship her. This is your destiny. Accept, and be grateful that you have been enlightened as to the meaning of your life. Do you know what gratitude is?

I am going to share an example with you. My brat and I recently celebrated 13 years of his being owned by me, and to commemorate the date, he gifted me with a 2K diamond ring. It sparkles nearly as much as I do :)..but instead of stopping there, today he drove me down to Oklahoma and bought me a new vehicle of my choice. Am I stating that every male should go out and buy me a vehicle, no, but that is not even the point I want to make. The point of my sharing this story, was to paint a picture if what gratitude is. Going above and beyond what is asked. It is about sacrificing for my good, for my happiness, and that is why my brat has been gifted with 13 years of my domination. he gets it, he understands what it means to be grateful, to be devoted, to worship his Goddess.

Are you ready, are you able, are you willing. Ask yourself these questions before you ever reach out to me, and if the answer is no to any of the above, just don't bother with any attempt to gain my notice, for you would do us both a disservice, but if you are exceptional in your desire to serve my will, obey my commands, and meet my demands, than step up little manpet :) 

Start your journey, and send an amazon gift card for consideration to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Offensive Financial Domination

Welcome to my realm of Goddess worship reality....

 How easily so many of you males stake a claim in being offended when it comes to financial domination. You are offended that any woman would expect you to financially compensate them for their time and energy. I mean really, you are such a wonderful person, that no woman should ever require a single cent out of your pocket, right, or is it that you truly do believe that women should meet your fetish desires for the sheer love of it, cause c'mon everyone knows that if you love something you would do it for free!

 Isn't that the way life works? You go out, and get a job that fulfills you, but renounce the need for a salary, cause you can live on, and pay your bills with the joy of doing what you love. I mean that is how everyone does it, isn't it? Reality check!!

There is another possibility to explore here. Perhaps your offense stems from deep seated misogyny. You either overtly, or even covertly harbor a disdain for all women, and delegate them as being upon a lower tier than yourself. They are merely the flesh created to sate your desires. They are comparable to an AI computation whose sole purpose and value is in their willingness and ability to turn men on, and get them off, so really they are not deserving of respect, appreciation, or remuneration for effort expended. Is this where your sense of offense lays?

Here's the truthful reality check gents. Women are the most wondrous of creatures ever born, and in most areas they far exceed the limits of male mentality. They are care givers, nurturers, and worthy of absolute respect. They are the chosen, and chased sex. Ask yourself why it is that women are not beating down your door to spend time with you. Then ask, why women will not give you the time of day. 

The answers are simple. Your offense is disrespectful, and the very last thing a woman wants or needs outside of an std, is a male who does not respect or value them. When you refuse to tribute, you are in essence declaring that you do not believe that the Domina in question is worthy of your money, and that her time possess no value. This is exactly why you get blocked, and no woman wants to own, or even session with you. You are the problem, not her. 

You are the scammer, and attempted user, tying to get something of priceless value for nothing at all. You should be the one shamed, and shunned, not her. I am here to tell you unequivocally that a woman owes you nothing, and until you are willing to be of benefit to her life, than you are useless and worthless to her, and no, your dick is not a benefit.

You can either get pissed and offended for having the truth shoved in your face, or you can be appreciative that I did not try to shovel the lies you tell yourself, right back up your ass.
Either way gents, shit or get off the findom pot :)

Motivational Monday Mantra

Welcome to the world of Goddess Sydney Claire

Today my minions I want you humbled in prayer to your Goddess, repeating your Monday mantra "The more I give to Goddess, the more grace I receive in submission".

Sacrificing for Goddess enriches your life spiritually, and deepens the bond of submission. You are transcended beyond the everyday desire for material riches for self. You recognize that the fruits of your labors are meant to be in the hands of Goddess, for she is your living inspiration of divinity. 

It is to her that you pledge your worldly goods, and spoils. She alone is worthy of all you possess. You are a better man in service to Goddess. 

Discard the past, and embrace your future....Goddess Sydney. Her happiness is your beacon of hope. Her laughter is the music that resonates within your soul. Her smile is your light in the dark. You are bereft without her presence in your life, which is why you will strive to do all within your power to ensure that your sacrifice is worthy of her goodness. 

Today my minions you are called upon to kneel and pledge your fealty of service, by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com