Punishment as a tool of training a submissive male

Did you know that punishment is intended to deter and correct behavior, rather than to encourage and condone it? Punishment is generally not something that people seek out, for it tends to have painful consequences. You will find though in the fetish scene that certain masochists will court it with regularity, and will use any means to be the recipient of it.

I being the sadist that I am, refuse to tailor my methodology of punishment into a fun activity, so if I know or can logically deduct that a submissive enjoys physical punishment, than I do not offer punishment in a physical form to them. They are the ones who will receive ignore time. After all, a day without my presence is a punishment that no submissive should ever desire. 

On the whole I would say that I am a fair minded dominant, and it will require a major infraction or repeated occurrences to incur punishment from me. I realize that most errors made by submissives are due to not having the rules spelled out clearly in advance, which is why I do my very best to make my expectations and requirements known from the onset. 

None of what I am saying will detract from the efforts of internet trolls to get their humiliation "punishment" fix though. You know the type I am referencing. They pop into the inbox of dominants spewing vile sentiments in the hope of receiving a torrent of humiliating backlash which feeds their fetish, and I for one do not engage. By not engaging, I am denying the perp their pleasure,and this sates my sadism :) Why on earth would I or any other dominant opt to reward subversive attempts to receive pleasure from play we have not consented to?

I realize that some people in the scene, dominants and submissives alike do partake of role play punishments. You know the game...you have been a bad boy, and now I am going to punish you in the way that excites you the most. Whelp I am not one of those people. In service to me, punishment is a serious consequence of ill desired actions, that requires reprogramming. Submissives will either learn from my corrective actions, or they will be let go without a return ticket.

I honestly have no interest in how other dominants choose to punish, or if they even punish at all, but in my queendom, you will tow the line, or be banished. 

Ah sorry, not sorry to suck all the fun out of your funishment fantasy.

Faux submission is real disappointment

Sustainability when it comes to faking submission is unattainable. Your disingenuousness will mar any experience you engage in. Do you comprehend what I am conveying?

 Allow me to break it down further for you.

Many of you are new to the fetish scene, and you honestly do not know where you fall on the spectrum of submission, so you take a page from the fake it til you make it playbook, and parrot puke the sentiments and sentences which you see other males regurgitating with regularity. The problem with this scenario, is that your credibility will be called into question with alacrity. You simply cannot convincingly stick to a script which you yourself have not written, and it is blatantly obvious to any keen observer. 

My advice to you, is to cease playing a role, and allow yourself to be you. Odds are that you are not even submissive at all. Most of the males I encounter who are new to the foray are fetishists, or just plain horny ass guys looking to bust a nut. There is a place in the scene for you if you are not submissive, but that place is not in active service to a Domme. You are best suited to being a customer. 
Confine yourself to purchasing clips and sessions from the females who appeal to your dicklet, cause that is what you are here for anyway...to please yourself, and it is a disservice to attempt to disguise your intentions.

Now if you happen to find along the way, that you enjoy the thought of pleasing a woman in a non-sexual way, then by all means rethink your categorization of self. You may find that you are one of the rare few who are capable of evolving past the selfishness of self, and at that point you will be welcomed into the stable of free roaming submissives who orbit the world of female domination. 

Regardless of your role in the femdom arena, one day with luck, prayer, patience, and perseverance, you may one day find yourself at the feet

of a living, breathing deity...Goddess Sydney Claire

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The truth about women and dick pics

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Penis positivity

Here we are again to talk about penis my old friend lol

Today I am going to talk to you about turning your penis into a positive appendage. Who the hell am I kidding huh..ya your penis will never be one of your better qualities.
Know why?

1)Your penis is ugly

2)You penis makes you crazy stupid

3)The increased testosterone levels which come with penis bearing beings gets you in trouble 

4)Your penis is selfish. It pleases no one but you, and even you have to admit that it is an ugly disappointment.


5)No woman wants to see, touch, or have anything to do with your penis

Oh did I mention that your penis is UGLY? A small shriveled up nasty wormlike looking thing that pokes it's head up at inappropriate times, and pukes like an alien specimen. Why are you so fucking fond of that thing? You should learn to hate it just like I do.

It is a lazy self indulgent crumb bum that is going to fail you. You are eventually going to need a magic blue pill to even get it's attention, hell you might even need it right now! 

It makes you a laughingstock in the locker room, and the bedroom. It serves no purpose, so why not do the intelligent thing, and lock it up. Incarcerate it for life. That type of straight up ugly nastiness should never see the light of day. Be a good boy for Goddess, and keep it covered, and caged.

Erection eradicator

My style of femdom is authentic to me!

 My style is not popular, nor will it ever be the "in" thing, and I am 100% ok with that. 

Why is it not popular you ask..well lemme tell you why lol

I have never been, nor will I ever be about the dick(and no this is not about my sexual preferences, cause yes yes yes I have sex with a man). My actions are not geared towards creating erections, and deity help you if you come to me for JOI. BDSM is not sexual for me. I keep telling you horny shits this, but ya don't listen. Why do you think that I scream from the rooftops that all men would be better off in chastity??

I don't care about your erections. I don't care if your dick wants to cum. I don't care about what turns you on. I really am all about ME. That has not changed since day 1, and I require that all who serve me focus their attention upon my wants rather than their own. It is that simple, and it is not debatable. I am not going to change my outlook on femdom for any dick. You either opt to evolve and serve a will not your own, or you will not serve me.

I know I know and I know that yes I could have so many more followers or submissives serving me if I would just cave in, and join the catering to dicks brigade, but it ain't happening babe. I am not willing to bow down to popular demand. It just isn't in me to be a follower of fads, even if it costs me findom bucks. I lead my own way, and believe me when I say that it takes a strong man to belong to me. Why? Cause in order to be one of mine, you have to be willing to be selfless. You have to have the courage to set aside all of those selfish dick designs polluting your mind, and embrace what service really is. Serving is not about your dick getting hard, or even your dick getting off. That is just you wanting what you want. It is self-gratifying, and that is not submissive.

I actually have respect for submissive men, and I mean submissive by my definition, not the fucked up one you "bedroom" fucks penned for wiki. 

Try serving a woman without your dick, and ya just might find the fulfillment you seek. Ultimately the decision is yours, but as I said, you will not serve me til you do so selflessly, and that is an indisputable fact jack :)

Cock Kryptonite

It could feasibly be said that the greatest weakness a man possesses is his cock. He is ruled by it night and day. He is truly a bitch to it's demands. Isn't that right gents?

You wake up in the morning, and guess who pops up to say hello? Yup, your bestie friend and worst enemy commands your right hand attention. You cannot escape the creepy bastard. 

You are driving down the road, spy a hot honey, and boom he screams for your notice. You head to the gym, see a banging bod, and hello he is knocking in your drawers. Don't you wish that you could bury his ass for a day or so? 
Where would you plant him though..ut oh that type of thinking gets him revving, cause he likes to delve into deep dark holes.

What to do, what to do. You could rinse him with extra cold water, but even that garners his salute sometimes! You could tape him to your leg, only ouchie it starts to hurt real bad when he stretches, and the tape pulls out your hair. I got it, you should hogtie his ass, no way is he getting out of those super tight knots! Oh my lands what is that..he is turning black and blue from lack of oxygen, and you can't get the knots undone without severing him clean from your body. Looks like you are going to have to take a trip to the ER. What a way for him to make his introduction to the world lol. He will be the star of many stories bandied about at the nurse's station. How grand that will be :) He does love attention, and showing himself off to women, so this is a win win for him, but not so much you, cause you are now the butt of every ER joke. 

I really have it this time, I promise. I know exactly how you can put him down without anyone being any the wiser. Lock his ass up in a cock cage! That is the ticket. A chastity cage is his kryptonite. He cannot escape, he cannot embarrass you anymore, and he sure as hell cannot derail you from your purpose in life. This is the true win win scenario, so do yourself a favor, LOCK HIM UP! Do it now before he tries to talk you out of it. You know it is for the best. He has done nothing but cause trouble for you all of your life. You have to be cruel to be kind :)

You may now thank me for helping you solve your most persistent and peskiest problem by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

There is life affirming pleasure in giving to Sydney Claire

Sydney Claire is ALL you need...all you want. You have no need of anyone else. She is everything to you. 

Your life was meaningless without her, and you were less than nothing before you found her. 

Pleasing her is your orgasm now, and you love to cum don't you? All those cashgasms for Goddess. Delicious.  

You hunger for that feel good feeling you get when you click send. Nothing else compares to the high you get when you spoil Sydney Claire. She is your addiction. Your Domme of Choice.

You would do anything to please her. Her laughter is the intoxication you seek, and when she calls you her good boy, you feel as if you are staring at the sun..blinded by her radiance, and surrounded by her warmth. She is all you need. 

Serving Sydney Claire is a magical experience. It strips away all of the bad within you, and replaces it with the joy of being of use to her. 

You have found your purpose. You have found your deity. You need nor want any other. She alone fills your life full. There is room for no other. Only she. 

When you close your eyes at night, it is to her that you pray. When you dream, it is her that leads your fantasies. When you wake, it is her face that you seek out. Your first action upon waking is to recite your mantra for Sydney Claire, for she alone fulfills you.

She is what was missing, and now that you have found her, you will be all that she wants. You will give all that you have to remain in her good graces. You left behind your ego, and desire to kneel before her in supplication like a good boy.

She is your world, and the center of your universe. Give to Goddess. Send to Goddess. Spend on Goddess. 

You need Goddess. You want no other Goddess. She is everything. She is all things. She is beyond your mortal reach, therefore you will tithe her daily for the honor of being recognized by her. 

No holding back, no excuses, no saying no. You want, you need, you must have this Goddess in your life. Give to Goddess because it feels so fucking good to please her. Give to Goddess because she deserves your very best. Just Giveeeeee

Impotent pretense of a penis

The foot attire I wore on my date tonight :) These heels were actually a gift from a female submissive...hot or not?

Gifts...Goddess loves gifts, and you love to give Goddess gifts, so we are a perfect match! You give, I receive..a win win situation. 

The heels of these shoes were used to dig into my man's ass tonight. I bet you little cuckys would pop a pecker knowing that an item you had gifted me with was worn when I was with my man lol. This is just one of the reasons why little cuckys should be begging to buy me gifts for my dates. I love the idea of you spending your hard earned money on things that you will never be able to appreciate in person, and the burn it will cause you when you realize that another man is enjoying the fruits of your labor. Kinda makes you feel like an impotent loser doesn't it...a loser whose only way to please a woman, is with his wallet.

Would you like to be a walking wallet for Goddess and her man. How hot would it be for you to buy Goddess and her man gifts? You would love it you little freak. You know that you aren't good enough in bed for any woman, so you have to pay to get off. You have to pay for all of the fun toys, clothes, and any sensual items Goddess finds pleasing. Clothes, perfume, lotions, hoisery, panties, jewelry etc...anything my heart desires to entice, tease, and seduce my man. If you are a good boy, and please me with your gifts, than I just might let you pull that putrid pecker of yours as you imagine what it would be like to be there in person watching Goddess get down and dirty with her man. I bet you are touching yourself right now, aren't you...STOP!! You are not allowed to stroke or rub that pretense of a penis til you have received permission from Goddess..and Goddess is not pleased with you.

You have been a naughty selfish piglet. You have failed to gift Goddess with goodies, and until you do, she will not even consider relenting on your no yank ban, so I suggest that you do as you have been told, and send Goddess a gift card today, and beg for her to forgive you.

Do it, do it now!

What FemDoms desire in a submissive

Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

Lucky cucks love Sydney Claire

There is only 1 good type of beta cock...do you know what kind it is?

A locked cock! Beta cocks should not be free to roam around unhampered. That would be a travesty of nature. 

Women do not want beta cocks in their beds. They want manly men with confident cocks :) and that certainly is not you, now is it lol

There is honor in being a locked cock though. Being chastity bound signifies that you are intelligent enough to recognize that your cock is worthless to women, and that your purpose will be not be served with your dicklet, atleast not sexually.

Your purpose entails a pants on approach, with a stern reminder that the only reason a woman would reach into your pants, is to get to your wallet. You best serve women by being a walking wallet. A mute ATM that spits out money for women and the men they choose to get down and dirty with, so while you may never be the leading man in a woman's bed, you can still play a vital role in providing pleasure for her. 

The most ironic part of the entire scenario, is that lovers usually come and go, but so long as you are enriching a woman's life by financing her happiness..you will be the last man standing, and that is definitely something to take pride in. You will play a role that rewards you with years of service, and service is your ultimate goal isn't it? That is why you are here yes? You want to serve more than anything else. I am offering you that prime opportunity right now.

Come pledge your intent to benefit my life as a lucky cucky. Take up the challenge to keep me and my lover drenched in goodies. Dedicate yourself and your wallet to the purchase of items that aid in my seduction of real men. That will be your purpose. That is your destiny. This is fate. You are here right now reading my words for this very reason. You have longed for the fantasy, now embrace the reality.

Prove your intent by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com with a note relaying "I want to be a lucky cucky"

FemDom proclomation to broke admirers

Normally broke males serve no purpose in Findom, nor are they encouraged to make their presence known, but in this one instance they do have a sacred duty to carry out for Goddess.

Take a vow you cash deprived plebeians..a vow to spread the seeds of Goddess far and wide. Retweet, reblog, like my posts, comment on my blogs, share links to my twitter, IG, and tumblr. Relay to your fellow subby peers that they should be serving the divine Goddess, Sydney Claire. 

Help grow my Financial Fempire. Tell the entire world that you adore, and worship me. Post pics on social media proclaiming your utterly devoted affection for me. Submit photos to me with my name proudly displayed upon your worthless flesh. For those of you who are artistically bent..create fan art for me. Compose poetry in my honor, and share it worldwide. Write stories about your intense craving to serve the one and only Goddess Sydney Claire. then share them with every male you know.

Share the good word of Goddess, and expand my reach. Your goal should be to lead as many worthy males to my inbox as possible. Make yourself useful, and serve a purpose other than consuming the precious 02 needed by your betters.

Start today, and keep it up everyday!  

Goddess Sydney Claire is all you need

My wishes, my will, my desires, and my dreams must all eclipse the selfishness that has ruled your world before me. 

Any thoughts of how you may best be served, must be eradicated before they ever take root, and poison the well of servitude.

Man is meant to serve Woman. Deep down you know this, else you would not be here right now reading my words. 

Every moment spent pursuing anything other than your Goddess divined purpose, is blasphemy. 

The mere thought of Goddess awakens within you the submissive that you have caged and denied. Set him free to be what he is destined to become.

Your best life, is one spent giving your all to Goddess. You have no need of luxuries. They are distractions that keep you from worshiping Goddess as she deserves. Your time, and money belong to Goddess. She knows best what you need.

You exist solely to sacrifice for Goddess. Sacrifice is good. Sacrifice is cleansing. Sacrifice hones you down to your true submissive self. Sacrifice removes the clutter which has barred your path to submission. 

You want only to live a simple life. A life dedicated to Goddess. A life ruled by your devotion to the happiness of your supreme Goddess. This is your best life. This is the life Goddess wants for you, and you live only to please Goddess.

Walk away from the old you, and take up your new life in service to Goddess Sydney Claire. Humble yourself, and prepare to be reborn as a servant of Sydney Claire. Now my pet..now break free, and crawl to the feet of Goddess!

 

Provide for your dick denial

Hello little dicklets :)

 Goddess desires a new mic! I want to create new mp3's which will take you to the edge of dick destruction. I want to tease your auditory senses, and deny you the touch you crave so desperately! 

You like that don't you? You love being denied. You long for the suffering of edging all night long listening to my whiskey soaked dulcet tones. It would be so fucking hot, wouldn't it? Naked and alone in the dark, with my voice echoing in your ears decimating your will to do anything other than obey my whispered commands. You want to be my good boy don't you? You want to earn that sweet release. Cum show me that you are worthy. Cum stuff my inbox full of amazon gift cards for the purchase of a new mic. Provide for your source of torment :)

Better yet...beg me for the honor of gifting me with the tool of your dick destruction, then send send send...and let the game begin!