Punishment as a tool of training a submissive male

Did you know that punishment is intended to deter and correct behavior, rather than to encourage and condone it? Punishment is generally not something that people seek out, for it tends to have painful consequences. You will find though in the fetish scene that certain masochists will court it with regularity, and will use any means to be the recipient of it.

I being the sadist that I am, refuse to tailor my methodology of punishment into a fun activity, so if I know or can logically deduct that a submissive enjoys physical punishment, than I do not offer punishment in a physical form to them. They are the ones who will receive ignore time. After all, a day without my presence is a punishment that no submissive should ever desire. 

On the whole I would say that I am a fair minded dominant, and it will require a major infraction or repeated occurrences to incur punishment from me. I realize that most errors made by submissives are due to not having the rules spelled out clearly in advance, which is why I do my very best to make my expectations and requirements known from the onset. 

None of what I am saying will detract from the efforts of internet trolls to get their humiliation "punishment" fix though. You know the type I am referencing. They pop into the inbox of dominants spewing vile sentiments in the hope of receiving a torrent of humiliating backlash which feeds their fetish, and I for one do not engage. By not engaging, I am denying the perp their pleasure,and this sates my sadism :) Why on earth would I or any other dominant opt to reward subversive attempts to receive pleasure from play we have not consented to?

I realize that some people in the scene, dominants and submissives alike do partake of role play punishments. You know the game...you have been a bad boy, and now I am going to punish you in the way that excites you the most. Whelp I am not one of those people. In service to me, punishment is a serious consequence of ill desired actions, that requires reprogramming. Submissives will either learn from my corrective actions, or they will be let go without a return ticket.

I honestly have no interest in how other dominants choose to punish, or if they even punish at all, but in my queendom, you will tow the line, or be banished. 

Ah sorry, not sorry to suck all the fun out of your funishment fantasy.

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One chance to make a lasting memory

Gentlemen do you realize that the first impression you make upon a dominant woman is the one that sets the tone for your entire exchange, and if the impression she receives of you is poor, than you may have killed off all possibilities of serving her.

You guys tend to make the same mistake over and over with the same results. What does that sound like..hmm the definition of insanity ring a bell? 

Where are you going wrong? If these are the opening messages you are sending, than this is how you are getting off on the wrong foot.

1)Hi

2)Hey

3)Wats up (sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, honey, sugar, girl, woman etc)

4)Dick pic

5)I would do anything to serve you

6)I want you to do XYZ to me

7)Do you wanna fuck

8)I wanna hit that

9)I got a cum tribute for you

10)You make my dick hard

11)I am a broke student, and can't pay you, but can I serve you anyway

12)You are just a whore after my money(hurling insults in the hope of receiving a backlash of humiliation)

13)Real Dommes dominate for free

14)Can I get your skype, kik etc..

15)Here are some photos for you to blackmail me with

16)Here is my paypal addy for you to take my money

17)Can I be your live in slave

18)Will you marry me so I can get a green card

19)Nice tits, ass, pussy etc..

20)What do I get if I pay

Now at one time or another, I have received every single one of these messages as an opening gambit. Do you wanna guess the rate of success with these approaches? Zero, zilch, and no where but blocked. 

Women really do not have the patience or interest in speaking with asinine males, who lack the very common sense required to interact with a fellow living, breathing human being. 

Do not be this type of male. You have been educated now, and you have been warned of the probable repercussions. Make good decisions by thinking before you speak, and rereading before you hit the send button.

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What FemDoms desire in a submissive

Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

Feigning FinDom Ignorance

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen....

 Feigning ignorance as to what FinDom is, is not believable. 
Why?

1)You obviously found me, which means you have had to have noted the fetish term in my blogs or posts elsewhere

2)If you possess the intellect to navigate the internet, than you know full well how to google terms which you do not possess knowledge of

In this day and age of technology and advancements, I absolutely refuse to accept ignorance as a viable excuse. Why do I believe that males attempt to proclaim ignorance of the term?

1)They are too lazy to even use google

2)They do not want to pay tribute, so they hope that by feigning a lack of knowledge, they may get lucky and get some free talk, even if it is only an explanation of terminology 

This type of ploy has a zero success rate with me. Of course I am more than happy to snarkily refer you to google for your answer, but you will not receive any further notice than that. My time really is precious to me, and I refuse to waste it in such a manner. Besides, I expect, nay require that those who serve me possess a modicum of intelligence and initiative, so any who pose this question to me are simply reflecting that they are lacking in the qualities I seek in a submissive servant. 

You do not want to be found lacking do you? To be lacking, is to be a loser. Losers are not attractive potential applicants to the Sect of Sydney. I accept premium people only in my service.

I do understand that some are honestly new to the scene, therefore are to be expected to lack in the fundamentals of terminology, which is ok, but as soon as you deem yourself prepared to contact a FimDom...you should have already self educated. There is no acceptable excuse for laziness. Do better, be better!