Focus is a key element to success. Focus aids you in achieving your goals, and lack of it is sure to send you in a downward spiral. This pertains to all areas of life, even Findom. It is even applicable on both sides of the fence (Domme&submissive).
You will never reach and or sate your desires if you lose focus. Whether intentional or not, we all set goals in our lives, and formulate an agenda to meet those goals. It is not required that we obliterate every other factor of our lives to get there, but a purpose driven life is more likely to yield the results we crave.
Say for example that you want to be the very best possible submissive that you possibly can be for your Domme, than you should keep that thought uppermost in your mind, and find ways to apply it in every aspect of your life. That includes the "vanilla" realm of your life as well.
As a submissive you should be working hard at your place of employment in order to climb the ladder, and earn more revenue for your FinDomme. You can take classes to further your education in your chosen field, which just might earn you the promotion you seek, thereby allowing you to enrich her life further. In this place of employment as well, you can honor your chosen Lady by displaying respect for women, by not engaging in the "good ole boys" mentality. Be that one male who doesn't catcall women, or talk about them lewdly openly or on the down low. Do not sexualize the women you see, nor relegate them to one dimensional beings whose only purpose is satiation of male desires. Stand out among your peers by opening doors for women in and out of the workplace. Aid women in their advancements. Make it known that you are an advocate for women, and that your advocacy is not a weakness, but a strength. Donate to women's causes. Give your patronage to female owned businesses whenever possible. Tip your waitress atleast 20%. Intentionally look for ways to advance awareness of how patriarchy is nothing more than abuse of women. These are all ways to grow in your submission towards the feminine.
On the flip side Dommes who keep their eyes and actions trained towards the finish line are more likely to reach it eventually. Part of this is not allowing the actions of others to woo you from your path. It is so easy to get discouraged when you see so many others doing the things you want to do, getting the tributes you yourself wish to receive, receiving the accolades and acknowledgement that you believe you deserve, but here is the thing! You will never reach your desired destination if your eyes are focused upon others. You must keep your focus on you, on your goals, and how best to achieve them. This may mean going out of your comfort zone a bit. Now I am not advocating that you change, or do anything that just does not fit in with who you are as a dominant woman, but I am relaying that you cannot gauge your success by the standards of others. Focusing and obsessing on how well others in your field are doing will only distract you, and in some instances even depress you. To discourage this from happening, you could spend your excess time reading, researching, and furthering your knowledge of fetishes, and how best to bring males to their knees before you. After all what woman would not like to have a harem of males bowing before them lol :) Seriously though, seek out ways to propel yourself forward, so long as it is not upon the backs of other females, go for it. Do not be afraid to be ruthless in your desire to succeed. Take chances, and if they fail, get the hell up and get back on that horse. Never allow your worth or chances of succeeding to be set by outside forces. Be you, do you, and in time success will be your bitch!
Wednesday, December 28, 2016
Saturday, December 17, 2016
Friday, December 16, 2016
Thursday, December 15, 2016
User=loser
You are a user baby! A user,what is a user? A user is a male who is trying to get his kink on for free when dealing with a FemDomme. Users try all kinds of ploys to obtain their objective,such as "if you really loved femdom,you would do it for free" or "real FemDommes don't charge" even "paying to get my kink on takes away from my pleasure". Hmm last I checked,Femdom was not based upon the wants of males,now is it? It is not even based upon what your dick wants,so tell him to shut the fuck up,cause he is ruining your chances of ever serving a FemDomme.
Are you males so deluded that you actually believe that you should not be conTributing towards the expense of a FemDommes time and attention? Her time is definitely more valuable than yours nitwit,and besides,you do not see her banging into your inbox demanding attention now do you,NO. The very best things in femdom are NOT free baby.
I do not believe it to be delusions alone,but selfishness as well. You have been told your entire life how special you are,how you deserve the very best,but guess what...YOU WERE LIED TO. That's right,your lovely parents lied to you. You are not entitled,you are not a special snowflake,and nothing worth having comes easy or free. You are going to have to squash down that entitlement BS,and accept that tributing financially,and putting forth sacrificial effort is required if you are ever going to be worthy of serving a FemDomme.
No FemDomme worth a grain of salt is going to come knocking at your door,proverbial or literal,stating that you are just so awesome that she must have you serving her. Get that fantasy outta your head. Not happening. You need to wake up quickly and realize that dominating males IS work,and she should be compensated for it financially,and seriously shithead, pics of your dick are not qualifying tributes. You are a single solitary walking skinflap amongst hundreds of others vying and hoping for the golden opportunity to serve a divine FemDomme. Flapping your jaws and slapping your wank is just not good enough to garner attention. You must go above and beyond the norm to receive that "atta boy" nod.
If you truly are a fan of femdom and devout in your desire to serve a FemDomme than open up that musty moth eaten wallet,and show her that you mean it. Show her that you appreciate her time and recognize it as being of worth,else you are nothing but a filthy femdom wannabe junkie jerk off. You tell me,is there anything to be proud of for attempting to use women for your own means? No there is not. It is utterly shameful that any male would perpetrate such actions,so man up and shut up til you have tithed your FemDomme Goddess.
Are you males so deluded that you actually believe that you should not be conTributing towards the expense of a FemDommes time and attention? Her time is definitely more valuable than yours nitwit,and besides,you do not see her banging into your inbox demanding attention now do you,NO. The very best things in femdom are NOT free baby.
I do not believe it to be delusions alone,but selfishness as well. You have been told your entire life how special you are,how you deserve the very best,but guess what...YOU WERE LIED TO. That's right,your lovely parents lied to you. You are not entitled,you are not a special snowflake,and nothing worth having comes easy or free. You are going to have to squash down that entitlement BS,and accept that tributing financially,and putting forth sacrificial effort is required if you are ever going to be worthy of serving a FemDomme.
No FemDomme worth a grain of salt is going to come knocking at your door,proverbial or literal,stating that you are just so awesome that she must have you serving her. Get that fantasy outta your head. Not happening. You need to wake up quickly and realize that dominating males IS work,and she should be compensated for it financially,and seriously shithead, pics of your dick are not qualifying tributes. You are a single solitary walking skinflap amongst hundreds of others vying and hoping for the golden opportunity to serve a divine FemDomme. Flapping your jaws and slapping your wank is just not good enough to garner attention. You must go above and beyond the norm to receive that "atta boy" nod.
If you truly are a fan of femdom and devout in your desire to serve a FemDomme than open up that musty moth eaten wallet,and show her that you mean it. Show her that you appreciate her time and recognize it as being of worth,else you are nothing but a filthy femdom wannabe junkie jerk off. You tell me,is there anything to be proud of for attempting to use women for your own means? No there is not. It is utterly shameful that any male would perpetrate such actions,so man up and shut up til you have tithed your FemDomme Goddess.
Saturday, December 10, 2016
Thursday, December 8, 2016
A kind Dominatrix
When people hear the word Dominatrix,they automatically associate it with leather,latex,a whip,and a badass attitude. This is a common misconception. I assure you that this is definitely not how I am dressed sitting here typing this post up. In fact no one would ever gain that impression from seeing me out on the street in everyday life,nor would they make that connection from speaking with me. I do not walk around with RBF,or shout orders at those in contact with me. In fact I make a point of not raising my voice in anger ever. Ironically I become very soft of voice when I am vexed. Maybe that is because I am biting my tongue ferociously lol.
My posts,and speech online do tend to come across as aggressive and authoritarian. I have never denied that I am blunt in my approach,but it is always tempered in honesty. I would rather dent an ego than tell a lie. If a male is not remotely suitable in personality,or compatibility towards serving me,than I will simply make it known. Not that I am cruel in relaying the information,it just is truth,so why would I want to waste my time,or his by dragging it out? That would make absolutely no sense at all. In fact that would be quite unkind in my eyes to convey hope where there is none. I have had a great many males approach me with the offer of friendship extended,but once again I come across as an uber bitch when I politely decline,not because of the words I say,but because no one likes being told no. I can honestly state that I am not going to become best buddies or friends for life with the males I encounter online. I have a plethora of real time friends who meet my needs for camaraderie,so this is definitely not something I seek out online.
What I do aspire to achieve from my online explorations is to form lasting connections with those that see and feel the correctness of serving me. These relationships may indeed lead to real time interactions at some point,but I must always be clear in saying that none of these relationships will lead to the altar,or a meeting of parents,or a joining of the flesh. Is it not kind to be real about my expectations,and exactly what you can count on with me?
You can count on me to never scream at you,to not lie to you,to not have hidden agendas,to never perform actions which will leave you irreparably harmed,to display respect when respect is given. These are my promises. What I will not promise is to coddle your ego,or stroke any sense of entitlement you may harbor with untruths. Is this being unkind?
Whilst I will not vow undying friendship for you,I will share that I do come to care for those that serve me,just not in a sexual or romantic manner. I grow fond of those males who have proven their value to me,so yes it is true that I will not dub you my bff,I will call you my own if you earn it.
How much kinder do I need to be?
My posts,and speech online do tend to come across as aggressive and authoritarian. I have never denied that I am blunt in my approach,but it is always tempered in honesty. I would rather dent an ego than tell a lie. If a male is not remotely suitable in personality,or compatibility towards serving me,than I will simply make it known. Not that I am cruel in relaying the information,it just is truth,so why would I want to waste my time,or his by dragging it out? That would make absolutely no sense at all. In fact that would be quite unkind in my eyes to convey hope where there is none. I have had a great many males approach me with the offer of friendship extended,but once again I come across as an uber bitch when I politely decline,not because of the words I say,but because no one likes being told no. I can honestly state that I am not going to become best buddies or friends for life with the males I encounter online. I have a plethora of real time friends who meet my needs for camaraderie,so this is definitely not something I seek out online.
What I do aspire to achieve from my online explorations is to form lasting connections with those that see and feel the correctness of serving me. These relationships may indeed lead to real time interactions at some point,but I must always be clear in saying that none of these relationships will lead to the altar,or a meeting of parents,or a joining of the flesh. Is it not kind to be real about my expectations,and exactly what you can count on with me?
You can count on me to never scream at you,to not lie to you,to not have hidden agendas,to never perform actions which will leave you irreparably harmed,to display respect when respect is given. These are my promises. What I will not promise is to coddle your ego,or stroke any sense of entitlement you may harbor with untruths. Is this being unkind?
Whilst I will not vow undying friendship for you,I will share that I do come to care for those that serve me,just not in a sexual or romantic manner. I grow fond of those males who have proven their value to me,so yes it is true that I will not dub you my bff,I will call you my own if you earn it.
How much kinder do I need to be?
Wednesday, December 7, 2016
Tuesday, December 6, 2016
Monday, December 5, 2016
Feet like heaven
Saturday, December 3, 2016
You aren't a real Domme
One of the basic aspects of being a human being is opinions. Everyone has one. In some situations that is a good thing,whilst in others it is detrimental and unwanted. I am going to share some insights as to when opinions are skewed,and require redefining in regards to the fetish scene.
You are NOT a real Domme if you do not have a clip store. This opinion has sprayed the sides of my inbox many a time. This is only an opinion,not a proven fact. How do I know this? Well let's see,I know of women that rock their workplace,that rule their home,that have men begging to be with them,BUT yet they do not have a clip store. How can that be true??? Sheesh people,not every dominant woman in the world has a fetish account,or engages in online domination,but that does NOT negate the fact that they are dominant in life. Oh and another tidbit to chew on for a bit. Just because a female has a clip store does not mean that she is even dominant at all. There are studios out there that have capitalized on the monetary boom of selling fetish clips,so they employ actresses to play the role of Domme,and you fools are none the wiser,nor do I actually believe that you would care if you did know it,cause buying clips is NOT about submission,but rather it is about males getting a nut off. Maybe I should form the opinion that you are NOT a real submissive if you purchase clips..hmm or maybe I already have.
You are NOT a real Domme if you do not do sell cam sessions. Look back to my explanation stated above. Exactly how many women do you think have no idea of the online realm of domination? How many women do you think live the Femdom lifestyle without ever publicizing it online? How many women do you think dominate in their home without a cam in sight? How many women do you think are disgusted by the thought of watching males jack off,or shoving objects up their hairy asses? Does this make them less dominant? NO it does not. It merely means that they are not focused upon male gratification. What is male gratification anyway other than selfishness in disguise,or so you think it is disguised when it is claimed as a need. Need my fat ass. Getting off is NOT a need. It is a want,so cease parading it around as a need. Shoving things up your ass is not a need either btw.
You may think that I alone am not a real Domme because I do not offer services,and yes clips and sessions are services,but I am not alone in it. I have a real life,and yes a real time servant who is dominated without ever getting off in my presence. A servant that sees the goal of service as my happiness,not as a bodily release. This my readers is what I would define as real submission,and do believe when I say that he feels and doubts not my dominance in his day to day life,without ever having purchased a clip or session from me!
My dominance is not defined by having an online presence,or by my number of followers on twitter,not even by the number of tributes I receive. At the end of the day,I remain in control of my life,and those that serve me. That dear readers is the truest statement in regards to my dominant nature,for dominance by nature is about control.
Reminders: An online label does not prove accuracy,neither dominant,nor submissive.
You are NOT a real Domme if you do not have a clip store. This opinion has sprayed the sides of my inbox many a time. This is only an opinion,not a proven fact. How do I know this? Well let's see,I know of women that rock their workplace,that rule their home,that have men begging to be with them,BUT yet they do not have a clip store. How can that be true??? Sheesh people,not every dominant woman in the world has a fetish account,or engages in online domination,but that does NOT negate the fact that they are dominant in life. Oh and another tidbit to chew on for a bit. Just because a female has a clip store does not mean that she is even dominant at all. There are studios out there that have capitalized on the monetary boom of selling fetish clips,so they employ actresses to play the role of Domme,and you fools are none the wiser,nor do I actually believe that you would care if you did know it,cause buying clips is NOT about submission,but rather it is about males getting a nut off. Maybe I should form the opinion that you are NOT a real submissive if you purchase clips..hmm or maybe I already have.
You are NOT a real Domme if you do not do sell cam sessions. Look back to my explanation stated above. Exactly how many women do you think have no idea of the online realm of domination? How many women do you think live the Femdom lifestyle without ever publicizing it online? How many women do you think dominate in their home without a cam in sight? How many women do you think are disgusted by the thought of watching males jack off,or shoving objects up their hairy asses? Does this make them less dominant? NO it does not. It merely means that they are not focused upon male gratification. What is male gratification anyway other than selfishness in disguise,or so you think it is disguised when it is claimed as a need. Need my fat ass. Getting off is NOT a need. It is a want,so cease parading it around as a need. Shoving things up your ass is not a need either btw.
You may think that I alone am not a real Domme because I do not offer services,and yes clips and sessions are services,but I am not alone in it. I have a real life,and yes a real time servant who is dominated without ever getting off in my presence. A servant that sees the goal of service as my happiness,not as a bodily release. This my readers is what I would define as real submission,and do believe when I say that he feels and doubts not my dominance in his day to day life,without ever having purchased a clip or session from me!
My dominance is not defined by having an online presence,or by my number of followers on twitter,not even by the number of tributes I receive. At the end of the day,I remain in control of my life,and those that serve me. That dear readers is the truest statement in regards to my dominant nature,for dominance by nature is about control.
Reminders: An online label does not prove accuracy,neither dominant,nor submissive.
Thursday, December 1, 2016
Never settle
Surprising,but I spend most of my time within my own mind. Sounds odd yes? What I mean by that statement,is that I prefer my own company above all others,and base my decisions upon my own beliefs rather than going along with the popular trains of thought and action. I have no qualms standing beside my words even when others attempt to derail my confidence within them.
Lately I have given much pause and thought as to what it truly is that I seek to gain from my time online. Some look for friendship,others burn for undying love,and for the greater majority sexual release. Basically in my eyes we all seek to fulfill an aspect of our lives that remains devoid,else our time would be spent elsewhere.
For some of you,your every desire and expectation is focused upon your own gratification. This is human nature,although I find it an abhorrent quality in males.
Back to me lol :) What is it that I want? I want that which appears almost miraculously impossible. I hunt the near extinction beast,a finsub. The creature that serves not out of a desire to be rewarded with sexual favors,or scenes that gratify the base nature of males. A male who equates his happiness and fulfillment with mine. No hidden agenda,no overbearing ego,no sense of entitlement due to being born with a penis. A Y chromosome who recognizes that X is superior,and deserving of worship. One who truly believes it an honor to play any part I allow within my life,who takes pride in serving my wants above his own. Have you ever heard of such a being? Is it even possible for a male to be that selfless? Can such a paragon of submission even exist in this day and age? I certainly hope so,for I am not willing to accept into my service any other than one such as this. I have no need to settle for less than I desire. Settling is for the weak,and that is not an apt adjective when describing me.
My advice to all those seeking in this scene,be honest about your expectations,and what you are willing to offer. Keep lies away from your lips and fingertips,and with some effort,you just might find fulfillment. Happy hunting :)
Lately I have given much pause and thought as to what it truly is that I seek to gain from my time online. Some look for friendship,others burn for undying love,and for the greater majority sexual release. Basically in my eyes we all seek to fulfill an aspect of our lives that remains devoid,else our time would be spent elsewhere.
For some of you,your every desire and expectation is focused upon your own gratification. This is human nature,although I find it an abhorrent quality in males.
Back to me lol :) What is it that I want? I want that which appears almost miraculously impossible. I hunt the near extinction beast,a finsub. The creature that serves not out of a desire to be rewarded with sexual favors,or scenes that gratify the base nature of males. A male who equates his happiness and fulfillment with mine. No hidden agenda,no overbearing ego,no sense of entitlement due to being born with a penis. A Y chromosome who recognizes that X is superior,and deserving of worship. One who truly believes it an honor to play any part I allow within my life,who takes pride in serving my wants above his own. Have you ever heard of such a being? Is it even possible for a male to be that selfless? Can such a paragon of submission even exist in this day and age? I certainly hope so,for I am not willing to accept into my service any other than one such as this. I have no need to settle for less than I desire. Settling is for the weak,and that is not an apt adjective when describing me.
My advice to all those seeking in this scene,be honest about your expectations,and what you are willing to offer. Keep lies away from your lips and fingertips,and with some effort,you just might find fulfillment. Happy hunting :)
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Monday, November 28, 2016
light and dark
Thursday, November 17, 2016
Wednesday, November 16, 2016
Monday, November 7, 2016
Looking for a "real" Domme
This is one of the most common and problematic lines I hear from males in the fetish scene. Real is a subjective term in this instance,for what they mean is not based upon the actual definition of the word real. It is employed to relay their own personal definition rather than what appears in the dictionary. This is where confusion tends to rear it's head. The term real can mean many different things,to many different people,but I will endeavor to provide a bit of insight into what it most likely means when a male approaches a FinDomme stating that he is seeking a "real" Domme.
1)A real Domme does not charge for her time and attention. She happily caters to the wants of selfish males sans any regard for her own desires. Now let's clear up a point here,the type of female sought here is not a Domme. It may fall in line with what a service providers offer(catering to male wants),but her services are not free,so it cannot be that. Could it be a sugar baby he is looking for,cause she will most likely care about what he wants,but oops she does not care for free. Hmm this actually makes me think that what is sought is a submissive female,for that is the only female who is in the fetish to serve a male wants for free while negating her own.
2)A real Domme is dressed in leather,and coiffed to perfection every moment of the day,with a whip in hand.
Yup now that is a fantasy. Dommes are people too. They have lives and loved ones of their own,and they are definitely not waiting around all day online for males to just appear and give meaning to their existence.
3)A real Domme gets naked for the viewing pleasure of those that serve them. Ok this one kinda peeves me. I realize that some females do session nude,or gift males with flagrante photos,but that is not inclusive to all. I have never once played with a male where my tits and bits were visibly bare and on display,nor do I send out peeks of them as a "good boy" reward,or as an enticement to come calling. I am not,and I repeat NOT bashing females that do,but this is not me,and I know for a fact that I am not alone in this decision.
4)A real Domme sells clips and offers cam sessions. This one denotes a lack of intelligence. Selling clips is a service. It is a business,just as selling sessions is an aspect of business,and not all Dommes treat findom as a business. The fact that one doesn't,does not mean that she is not a "real Domme". It just means that she is not a business woman. Oh and bois,buying clips or sessions does not make you a "real submissive" either. It makes you a customer.
5)A "real Domme" wants to date and or marry a submissive male. This one makes me laugh. Women have types that they are attracted to,just like in the "real" world. Some do date submissives,and that is ok,cause it is their choice,but not all do. Do not make an ass of yourself assuming that all Dommes are alike,or declaring them fake because they are attracted to non-submissive males.
6)A "real Domme" is loud and abrasive in speech. Where did this fallacy evolve from? A bully bullies,yells and is outright aggressive. This is not a needed behavior for Dommes. If one needs to yell to get their way,than I would not consider them dominant at all.
There are so many more examples,but MzSydney only has so much free time in her day to relay wisdom. The point I want most acknowledged from this post,is that one must recognize that the term "real" may not mean what you think it means when someone else employs it,so when in doubt,just ask. One simple question can save tons of time.
1)A real Domme does not charge for her time and attention. She happily caters to the wants of selfish males sans any regard for her own desires. Now let's clear up a point here,the type of female sought here is not a Domme. It may fall in line with what a service providers offer(catering to male wants),but her services are not free,so it cannot be that. Could it be a sugar baby he is looking for,cause she will most likely care about what he wants,but oops she does not care for free. Hmm this actually makes me think that what is sought is a submissive female,for that is the only female who is in the fetish to serve a male wants for free while negating her own.
2)A real Domme is dressed in leather,and coiffed to perfection every moment of the day,with a whip in hand.
Yup now that is a fantasy. Dommes are people too. They have lives and loved ones of their own,and they are definitely not waiting around all day online for males to just appear and give meaning to their existence.
3)A real Domme gets naked for the viewing pleasure of those that serve them. Ok this one kinda peeves me. I realize that some females do session nude,or gift males with flagrante photos,but that is not inclusive to all. I have never once played with a male where my tits and bits were visibly bare and on display,nor do I send out peeks of them as a "good boy" reward,or as an enticement to come calling. I am not,and I repeat NOT bashing females that do,but this is not me,and I know for a fact that I am not alone in this decision.
4)A real Domme sells clips and offers cam sessions. This one denotes a lack of intelligence. Selling clips is a service. It is a business,just as selling sessions is an aspect of business,and not all Dommes treat findom as a business. The fact that one doesn't,does not mean that she is not a "real Domme". It just means that she is not a business woman. Oh and bois,buying clips or sessions does not make you a "real submissive" either. It makes you a customer.
5)A "real Domme" wants to date and or marry a submissive male. This one makes me laugh. Women have types that they are attracted to,just like in the "real" world. Some do date submissives,and that is ok,cause it is their choice,but not all do. Do not make an ass of yourself assuming that all Dommes are alike,or declaring them fake because they are attracted to non-submissive males.
6)A "real Domme" is loud and abrasive in speech. Where did this fallacy evolve from? A bully bullies,yells and is outright aggressive. This is not a needed behavior for Dommes. If one needs to yell to get their way,than I would not consider them dominant at all.
There are so many more examples,but MzSydney only has so much free time in her day to relay wisdom. The point I want most acknowledged from this post,is that one must recognize that the term "real" may not mean what you think it means when someone else employs it,so when in doubt,just ask. One simple question can save tons of time.
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
looks matter
This morning I seen a tweet which made me pause for a moment,and decide to type up this blog. The tweet asserted that success in findom is not based upon a woman's looks. The sad part is that this tweet is inaccurate.
Science has proven that males are base visual creatures. They are drawn to what they find attractive in their eyes. Regardless if it is viewed online or real time. I am going to share with you some scenarios I have seen played out more times than I can count(which lends credence to my opinion),and will continue to see.
1)I have been in bar settings plenty of times,yes I know this is not the best of environments,but people do tend to act more in tune with who they actual are in this type of setting believe it or not. I guess it is the entire alcohol releasing people from ordinary constraints thing lol. Now what I have noted from quiet observation is that the unattached at the moment males will gravitate towards females that they consider "hot". They will buy drinks for them,and generally act a fool to get their attention. Doubt me?
2)I was a mod in a CM chatroom back in the day,and it never failed that when a new male entered the room he would beeline to chat with the female he found most attractive.
3)I am a member of a well known findom site which offers a cam option,and have seen several cams open at 1 time during a given period. What I have seen is a male log into chat,and immediately begin interacting with the "hottest" female on cam,and totally disregarding those that are not in line with what gets a standing trouser ovation. Doubt me?
4)Look to twitter itself. Which females tend to have the most male followers? Is it the woman who tweets empowering,encouraging,thought provoking material sans what is termed eye candy,or is it the female who posts sensually provocative photos?
What the facts boil down to is that looks do matter,and even in findom,males will be drawn to serve,and tribute those that they are sexually attracted to. Some creatures are quite shallow in nature,and give no care for who and what a person is,so long as they fit the physical ideal of what they masturbate to. This is simply the way it is. Can we change how males react,and how they base their selection without a ton of brainwashing....NOPE.
*NOTE* Not all FinDommes measure their success by revenue received.
Science has proven that males are base visual creatures. They are drawn to what they find attractive in their eyes. Regardless if it is viewed online or real time. I am going to share with you some scenarios I have seen played out more times than I can count(which lends credence to my opinion),and will continue to see.
1)I have been in bar settings plenty of times,yes I know this is not the best of environments,but people do tend to act more in tune with who they actual are in this type of setting believe it or not. I guess it is the entire alcohol releasing people from ordinary constraints thing lol. Now what I have noted from quiet observation is that the unattached at the moment males will gravitate towards females that they consider "hot". They will buy drinks for them,and generally act a fool to get their attention. Doubt me?
2)I was a mod in a CM chatroom back in the day,and it never failed that when a new male entered the room he would beeline to chat with the female he found most attractive.
3)I am a member of a well known findom site which offers a cam option,and have seen several cams open at 1 time during a given period. What I have seen is a male log into chat,and immediately begin interacting with the "hottest" female on cam,and totally disregarding those that are not in line with what gets a standing trouser ovation. Doubt me?
4)Look to twitter itself. Which females tend to have the most male followers? Is it the woman who tweets empowering,encouraging,thought provoking material sans what is termed eye candy,or is it the female who posts sensually provocative photos?
What the facts boil down to is that looks do matter,and even in findom,males will be drawn to serve,and tribute those that they are sexually attracted to. Some creatures are quite shallow in nature,and give no care for who and what a person is,so long as they fit the physical ideal of what they masturbate to. This is simply the way it is. Can we change how males react,and how they base their selection without a ton of brainwashing....NOPE.
*NOTE* Not all FinDommes measure their success by revenue received.
Monday, October 31, 2016
treasure box
A treasure box to which you have no key
This was the photo I teased my man with before our dinner date last night. How long do you think he sat before calling for the check lol.. The humorous aspect for me was that he sat for over an hour suffering with an erection whilst I dined upon filet mignon nom nom...and even after we arrived back at my home,the only treat he received was the honor of removing my boots and rubbing my feet before I fell asleep awww :) Goddess truly takes pity upon no male. Keep that in mind my little minions.
socks of the day
The view at my feet is heavenly
The feet of Goddess deserve to be pampered,spoiled,and clad only in the softest of materials,and it is your duty to ensure that this continues. My foot boys are responsible for providing the resources to finance this holiest of ventures. Being a part of the Mz minions who sacrifice for the luxury items which Goddess is used to is the highest of honors. Love of and devotion to the happiness of Goddess is proven with tribute,not compliments or comments,so put those fingers to good use and send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Grow my money tree green
Grow my money tree green!
Growing my money tree green is one of the essentials to making Goddess happy. A fruitful tree provides for the wants and needs of Goddess's life of comfort and ease,as well as ensuring that luxury reigns within her household. It is an honor to serve Goddess in this manner. An honor which all submissive males should vie to attain. There should never exist a doubt within the mind of Goddess that you as her lowly minion are suffering for her,sacrificing financially for her,and serving her to the very best of your ability.
the still of a moment
Beauty exists in the still of a moment
Goddess is beauty..and you my lowly minion shall ever aspire to be worthy of her grace. There exists no other form of inspiration in your life except for Goddess. She is your guiding star,your ruling leader,your one and only reason to suffer,sacrifice,and serve. Now get upon your knees and offer up tithe to your divine Goddess in thanks for providing purpose in your life.
Saturday, October 22, 2016
Birthday Wishlist
You gents have a mere few weeks til the holy celebration of the birth of Mz Sydney. Make yourselves useful and clear this Birthday wish list!! WISHLIST
Friday, October 21, 2016
Saturday, October 15, 2016
Reality is real online
Odd title huh? I chose it for a reason which you will understand after you read this post :)
Anyways have you ever seen photos of tribute which are just too good to be true? You know what I am talking about don't ya gents? The ones where there are thousands of dollars in a female's hand,at her feet etc.... Screenshots of sky high gift cards,or bank accounts showing thousands in deposits. You know exactly what I am talking about. I wonder if you shake your head like I do.
Something not spoken of often is the fake it til you make it approach. Did you know that you can purchase fake money that looks extraordinarily authentic? I have never bought any myself,but it does exist,how cool right? If you seen a photo of a female holding stacks of cash with a wrapper stating that it contained say like $5K,would you immediately think to yourself "Holy shit she must be good at the hustle",or even "I have to serve her,cause obviously she knows what she is doing to rake in that kind of tribute"? Most would jump to the conclusion that she is wildly popular,and most sought after. Would it ever cross your mind that she could be displaying faux money? Lol it happens all of the time. It is actually a successful marketing ploy. Have I ever used it,nope,would I,nope? I believe in being as real online as I am in person,which means no BS,no lies,no fakery. Am I judging what goes on,no,but I do not want my brand associated with any type of foolery. I have worked too hard to prove that I am 100% real,and that I possess integrity,so when you see me sharing cash pics,I guarantee that they are as real as the hair on your ass.
Screenshots of bank balances and received gift cards. This is actually a pretty good one,but did you know that photoshop will edit anything til it looks like the real deal? Truly it does. Amazing right? I am not bashing on photoshop,I hear that it is a wonderful product. There are some really cool videos on youtube showing people how to make those photos and videos that look like a ton of money is actually there in the room with them,on the bed,falling upon their bodies,you get the drift. You will notice that I have zero,count them,zero photos of bank balances right,could be cause I do not trust any of you to send funds that way. I stick to amazon gift cards that sly little shits cannot cancel on me :),and in the history of my incorporating findom online,there has only been 2 males that I have allowed to send me cash in the mail. One being my real time brat boy..so that is whose tribute you are seeing in my money pics.
Let's get to the meat of the title shall we. Reality is real online with me,that I promise. If you see me in a pic with cash,that cash is real. If you see me posting a photo of a large gift card amount,that shit is real.
I do not play the fake it til you make it game. Never have,never will. Honestly I do not play any games. I have always been straightforward whether it is online or real time. Of course there are aspects of my life which I do not share with my readers or servants,but I am entitled to a private life.
The Domme you see online is the same Woman I am in real life. To know me is to know that I am a bitch,and I seriously mean that. I am a bitch in the sense that I do not swallow BS ever. I will call a spade a spade. I refuse to tell pretty lies,and if you ask me for honesty,than buckle up buttercup cause you are going to get it every time. If I like you,you will know it. If I detest you,you will be without doubt of it. I do not talk about people behind their backs. I do not engage in shady activities,nor illegal ones. I can be a ball buster,and male ego crusher. No matter where you are speaking to me,you will always know that I believe males to be inferior to females. I will not treat you as I would a fellow female. I will not kiss your ass for a dollar,nor play along into your fantasies based on demeaning women..and yes coming to me with shit about wanting to be humiliated by being forced to dress as a woman is a slap in the face of femininity..so keep on trucking right by my inbox.
I am not a lazy twat like most of the lifestylers like to title those that are a Financial Dominatrix. I have been a full time member of the work force since I turned 15,so yes I know what it means to work for what I want. This does not mean that I do not believe in Female Entitlement,cause I fiercely do. I absolutely believe that males should be remitting recompense to women for the sins of patriarchy. I believe that it is the duty of every male to provide for the financial comfort of women. These are my beliefs both online and real time. Nothing about me changes when I log off of a site,or out of a conversation.
This is what I am referring to in the title. I am real,and I expect real servants(no I am not talking about the in your face,in your home,at your literal feet 24/7 real servants). What I am saying is that I will accept none who are not honest,who are not exactly who they say they are,and who do not provide what they say that they will provide. Make sense? Hope so,cause I cannot break it down any clearer.
Now if you are looking for phony and fake..smoke and mirror domination,than yay for you,but begone from my presence. I am real,so you be too :)
Anyways have you ever seen photos of tribute which are just too good to be true? You know what I am talking about don't ya gents? The ones where there are thousands of dollars in a female's hand,at her feet etc.... Screenshots of sky high gift cards,or bank accounts showing thousands in deposits. You know exactly what I am talking about. I wonder if you shake your head like I do.
Something not spoken of often is the fake it til you make it approach. Did you know that you can purchase fake money that looks extraordinarily authentic? I have never bought any myself,but it does exist,how cool right? If you seen a photo of a female holding stacks of cash with a wrapper stating that it contained say like $5K,would you immediately think to yourself "Holy shit she must be good at the hustle",or even "I have to serve her,cause obviously she knows what she is doing to rake in that kind of tribute"? Most would jump to the conclusion that she is wildly popular,and most sought after. Would it ever cross your mind that she could be displaying faux money? Lol it happens all of the time. It is actually a successful marketing ploy. Have I ever used it,nope,would I,nope? I believe in being as real online as I am in person,which means no BS,no lies,no fakery. Am I judging what goes on,no,but I do not want my brand associated with any type of foolery. I have worked too hard to prove that I am 100% real,and that I possess integrity,so when you see me sharing cash pics,I guarantee that they are as real as the hair on your ass.
Screenshots of bank balances and received gift cards. This is actually a pretty good one,but did you know that photoshop will edit anything til it looks like the real deal? Truly it does. Amazing right? I am not bashing on photoshop,I hear that it is a wonderful product. There are some really cool videos on youtube showing people how to make those photos and videos that look like a ton of money is actually there in the room with them,on the bed,falling upon their bodies,you get the drift. You will notice that I have zero,count them,zero photos of bank balances right,could be cause I do not trust any of you to send funds that way. I stick to amazon gift cards that sly little shits cannot cancel on me :),and in the history of my incorporating findom online,there has only been 2 males that I have allowed to send me cash in the mail. One being my real time brat boy..so that is whose tribute you are seeing in my money pics.
Let's get to the meat of the title shall we. Reality is real online with me,that I promise. If you see me in a pic with cash,that cash is real. If you see me posting a photo of a large gift card amount,that shit is real.
I do not play the fake it til you make it game. Never have,never will. Honestly I do not play any games. I have always been straightforward whether it is online or real time. Of course there are aspects of my life which I do not share with my readers or servants,but I am entitled to a private life.
The Domme you see online is the same Woman I am in real life. To know me is to know that I am a bitch,and I seriously mean that. I am a bitch in the sense that I do not swallow BS ever. I will call a spade a spade. I refuse to tell pretty lies,and if you ask me for honesty,than buckle up buttercup cause you are going to get it every time. If I like you,you will know it. If I detest you,you will be without doubt of it. I do not talk about people behind their backs. I do not engage in shady activities,nor illegal ones. I can be a ball buster,and male ego crusher. No matter where you are speaking to me,you will always know that I believe males to be inferior to females. I will not treat you as I would a fellow female. I will not kiss your ass for a dollar,nor play along into your fantasies based on demeaning women..and yes coming to me with shit about wanting to be humiliated by being forced to dress as a woman is a slap in the face of femininity..so keep on trucking right by my inbox.
I am not a lazy twat like most of the lifestylers like to title those that are a Financial Dominatrix. I have been a full time member of the work force since I turned 15,so yes I know what it means to work for what I want. This does not mean that I do not believe in Female Entitlement,cause I fiercely do. I absolutely believe that males should be remitting recompense to women for the sins of patriarchy. I believe that it is the duty of every male to provide for the financial comfort of women. These are my beliefs both online and real time. Nothing about me changes when I log off of a site,or out of a conversation.
This is what I am referring to in the title. I am real,and I expect real servants(no I am not talking about the in your face,in your home,at your literal feet 24/7 real servants). What I am saying is that I will accept none who are not honest,who are not exactly who they say they are,and who do not provide what they say that they will provide. Make sense? Hope so,cause I cannot break it down any clearer.
Now if you are looking for phony and fake..smoke and mirror domination,than yay for you,but begone from my presence. I am real,so you be too :)
Thursday, October 13, 2016
No acceptable reason not to TRIBUTE
What your sacrifice (TRIBUTE) says about you. Your sacrifice conveys that you care about my wants, my needs, my comfort, my ease. It signifies that my happiness is a priority within your life. It speaks highly in regard to your dedication, and devotion to me, your Superior. It displays your desire to be a part of my life, howbeit ever so insignificant. It speaks of your ability to provide sans ulterior motivation, for you know full well that to sacrifice (to TRIBUTE) is a gift without strings or expectations of reward, other than being of use to a Dominant Female. Sacrificing your finances for the enrichment of a Woman's life should be the pinnacle peak of a beta's endeavors. It is a truly selfless action when done correctly.
To not or a refusal to sacrifice (TRIBUTE) can only be seen as a selfish action regardless of how one attempts to excuse the behavior with faux explanations of how it demeans a D's relationship. It boils down to one simple reason...one is more concerned with their own self, than with providing service. Findom in no way detracts from a D's relationship. In fact it enhances it immensely, so to relay that you desire above all things to please and serve, yet refuse to provide, equates with you being self-centered, and driven only to bring to fruition your own desires, which is an undesirably selfish motivation towards service.
Sacrificing for and Tributing a Woman is an honor, not a punishment that should be viewed with disdain or distaste. It should bring happiness to your heart when you are able to do so. You should do so with pride that you are of use, and being of use brings purpose to a beta's life.
There is absolutely positively no acceptable reason not to sacrifice (TRIBUTE) if you are in fact a submissive male as so many of you claim to be, so swallow any excuses trying to get past your lips, and open that wallet wide for Superior Women!
To not or a refusal to sacrifice (TRIBUTE) can only be seen as a selfish action regardless of how one attempts to excuse the behavior with faux explanations of how it demeans a D's relationship. It boils down to one simple reason...one is more concerned with their own self, than with providing service. Findom in no way detracts from a D's relationship. In fact it enhances it immensely, so to relay that you desire above all things to please and serve, yet refuse to provide, equates with you being self-centered, and driven only to bring to fruition your own desires, which is an undesirably selfish motivation towards service.
Sacrificing for and Tributing a Woman is an honor, not a punishment that should be viewed with disdain or distaste. It should bring happiness to your heart when you are able to do so. You should do so with pride that you are of use, and being of use brings purpose to a beta's life.
There is absolutely positively no acceptable reason not to sacrifice (TRIBUTE) if you are in fact a submissive male as so many of you claim to be, so swallow any excuses trying to get past your lips, and open that wallet wide for Superior Women!
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Monday, October 10, 2016
money on my feet
There should never be any doubt as to where your money belongs
It is only through financial suffering and sacrifice for Mz Sydney that you can be absolved of patriarchal sins committed against women. Stop holding back..come running to the divine feet of Mz Sydney and beg forgiveness with tithe.
Sunday, October 9, 2016
Thursday, October 6, 2016
loser loser loser
The L word. One of the most overused words in findom. We see the L sign,the L word everywhere,but what Ladies are looking for is NOT a loser.
A loser is a male without ambition or drive for funds or a stable future. He is content to live off Mommy and Daddy whilst playing video games in the basement as if he were still a teen.
A loser is a self-absorbed male.
A loser is a misogynist.
A loser is an abuser of women.
A loser is cheap,stingy,or broke.
A loser is a liar.
A loser is a user of women for his own gain ..ie wants free undeserved,unearned attention,time,or to use a woman's image or words for his sexual gratification without ever showing respect or honor towards the woman as a human being.
A loser is bloated with a sense of entitlement.
Now do any of those descriptions sound like the type of male submissive a Domina is seeking? I guarantee not,so when you see Dommes referring to the search for a loser,or you see her call one of her servants a loser,it is highly unlikely that she equates that to being a real loser,cause there is no use for a loser,other than as refuse,and let's face it,the landfills have no room for such idiots.
The term loser is often used in play as a humiliation factor,not due to the male in question being a honest to goodness loser,but rather he enjoys feeling like a loser in the presence of a woman. Truth be told,you are all inferior to women,so really the term loser is already clearly set in my mind anyway without saying it :)
The point being,being a loser(weak-willed)for a woman is good,being a real loser is bad! Learn the difference,and act accordingly gents.
A loser is a male without ambition or drive for funds or a stable future. He is content to live off Mommy and Daddy whilst playing video games in the basement as if he were still a teen.
A loser is a self-absorbed male.
A loser is a misogynist.
A loser is an abuser of women.
A loser is cheap,stingy,or broke.
A loser is a liar.
A loser is a user of women for his own gain ..ie wants free undeserved,unearned attention,time,or to use a woman's image or words for his sexual gratification without ever showing respect or honor towards the woman as a human being.
A loser is bloated with a sense of entitlement.
Now do any of those descriptions sound like the type of male submissive a Domina is seeking? I guarantee not,so when you see Dommes referring to the search for a loser,or you see her call one of her servants a loser,it is highly unlikely that she equates that to being a real loser,cause there is no use for a loser,other than as refuse,and let's face it,the landfills have no room for such idiots.
The term loser is often used in play as a humiliation factor,not due to the male in question being a honest to goodness loser,but rather he enjoys feeling like a loser in the presence of a woman. Truth be told,you are all inferior to women,so really the term loser is already clearly set in my mind anyway without saying it :)
The point being,being a loser(weak-willed)for a woman is good,being a real loser is bad! Learn the difference,and act accordingly gents.
alpha male facade
Being a Female Supremacist is not equatable with misandry. What it does mean in my book,is that I tolerate no male attempting to assert dominance over me,nor do I indulge the male ego by allowing males in my presence to shroud themselves falsely in "alpha" garb. All males are beta before me. Whether they be a CEO,or a janitor..they are beta. Crudely put,if it has a dick,it is inferior in my eyes,and I will not stand for pathetic displays of supposed patriarchal power.
To serve me is to acknowledge your inferiority before women. You are a creature led by his weakness,and yes in my eyes,your dick makes you weak. Your dick is always your demise in any situation with a woman,for it is a simple minded tool..just like you in the presence of a woman. You were not created to lead women..you were made to follow women..to be ruled by them,which leaves no room for erroneous male egos,so for all of you males touting that you are alpha,you are laughable. There is NO such thing as an alpha male..it is an urban legend. Get that through your head,and stop playing at being tarzan in the hopes that you can get pussy that way.
This is not to state that you as a male are to be a doormat,nor that you are without intellect..but it is to assert that you are thought of as unequivocally lesser. Your wants are not a concern,and only your basic needs are of any import..oh and by the way,your needs are simple(food,shelter,air,water)so leave off trying to insert love or sex into that list. Your dick,and it's desires are null and void when it comes to kneeling at my feet. Your sex ceases to exist once you become mine..for I have zero use in regards to your erections or lack thereof.
You are regarded as a tool,and for a tool to be useful,it must be of use. This means that your purpose is whatever I decree it to be. My will and my way. This includes being used financially. If I cannot take pleasure from the fruits of your labor,than you are not of value in my estimation. I care not if your skills number in the hundreds if you will not satisfy my wants in the way of my selection.
Now you selfish and self satiating agenda driven males can run along,for you and I shall not mesh. My acceptance comes only of those that are intelligent enough to recognize their place as intended in a woman's world,which is at her feet begging to be of use with a full and open wallet for her use. Nothing less will be allowed.
To serve me is to acknowledge your inferiority before women. You are a creature led by his weakness,and yes in my eyes,your dick makes you weak. Your dick is always your demise in any situation with a woman,for it is a simple minded tool..just like you in the presence of a woman. You were not created to lead women..you were made to follow women..to be ruled by them,which leaves no room for erroneous male egos,so for all of you males touting that you are alpha,you are laughable. There is NO such thing as an alpha male..it is an urban legend. Get that through your head,and stop playing at being tarzan in the hopes that you can get pussy that way.
This is not to state that you as a male are to be a doormat,nor that you are without intellect..but it is to assert that you are thought of as unequivocally lesser. Your wants are not a concern,and only your basic needs are of any import..oh and by the way,your needs are simple(food,shelter,air,water)so leave off trying to insert love or sex into that list. Your dick,and it's desires are null and void when it comes to kneeling at my feet. Your sex ceases to exist once you become mine..for I have zero use in regards to your erections or lack thereof.
You are regarded as a tool,and for a tool to be useful,it must be of use. This means that your purpose is whatever I decree it to be. My will and my way. This includes being used financially. If I cannot take pleasure from the fruits of your labor,than you are not of value in my estimation. I care not if your skills number in the hundreds if you will not satisfy my wants in the way of my selection.
Now you selfish and self satiating agenda driven males can run along,for you and I shall not mesh. My acceptance comes only of those that are intelligent enough to recognize their place as intended in a woman's world,which is at her feet begging to be of use with a full and open wallet for her use. Nothing less will be allowed.
Wednesday, October 5, 2016
Tuesday, October 4, 2016
How good boys get attention
This is why my good boys get attention,and you do not!
Some of you seem to think that I am teasing when I relay that I require males to sacrifice,suffer,and serve to and for ME. I assure you that I am not joking. Providing for your Goddess financially is an honor which should be held in esteem,not disdain. Tributing allows males to play a part in my everyday life,which they normally would not be encompassed within.
Tribute is tangible proof that you crave to serve me in all ways I desire. Serving me is based upon me,not you. My wishes accede any that you may have possessed previously. My wants rule your realm always. There is no selfless excuse not to tribute,only selfish ones.
Know now that if you are ever to play any role in my life,than tribute is a must,not a maybe.
Tribute is tangible proof that you crave to serve me in all ways I desire. Serving me is based upon me,not you. My wishes accede any that you may have possessed previously. My wants rule your realm always. There is no selfless excuse not to tribute,only selfish ones.
Know now that if you are ever to play any role in my life,than tribute is a must,not a maybe.
Friday, September 30, 2016
Thursday, September 29, 2016
Waste not,want not
Many upon many a male has come before me stating that they want to "get to know me"..yet the furthest thing from their mind is actually getting to know me. Let us be crystal clear gents,getting to know me does not in any way shape or form refer to discussing your fetishes,or having me describe "what if" scenarios,nor will I sit here and relay to you all of the activities which go on when I am playing with one of my slaves.
I cannot tell you how I would dominate you,or what I would do if you were before me right now. Each D's interaction and relationship should be personalized. There is no one size fits all when it comes to human beings and bdsm,so please refrain from asking such questions.
If you truly desire to get to know me than ask questions about me..such as what are my hobbies(vanilla)..what am I passionate about in my life,how you can be an asset within my life rather than a leech attempting to suck my energy and resources.
Ask about my favorites activities outside of bdsm. These are the queries which aid you in coming to know a person. If you are simply seeking a fetish dispenser to get your rocks off,than stroll dick in hand down the road,cause I am not the least bit interested in getting to know you.
Speak vanilla until such time as I make it known that I desire to delve deeper. Hold up your end of the conversation,and for pete's sake that means responding with more than a single word response.
Keep in mind when interacting with me that I consider my time precious,so if after a few exchanges you have not offered and followed through with a tribute,that I am going to lose interest in conversing with you. Regardless of the fact that I adore dominating males,findom is my true love,and if you are not providing,than I am already deciding to block you. This is not me being cruel,this is me being kind,for this decision stems from a distaste of wasting time,and surely you have no desire to waste time,now do you?
I cannot tell you how I would dominate you,or what I would do if you were before me right now. Each D's interaction and relationship should be personalized. There is no one size fits all when it comes to human beings and bdsm,so please refrain from asking such questions.
If you truly desire to get to know me than ask questions about me..such as what are my hobbies(vanilla)..what am I passionate about in my life,how you can be an asset within my life rather than a leech attempting to suck my energy and resources.
Ask about my favorites activities outside of bdsm. These are the queries which aid you in coming to know a person. If you are simply seeking a fetish dispenser to get your rocks off,than stroll dick in hand down the road,cause I am not the least bit interested in getting to know you.
Speak vanilla until such time as I make it known that I desire to delve deeper. Hold up your end of the conversation,and for pete's sake that means responding with more than a single word response.
Keep in mind when interacting with me that I consider my time precious,so if after a few exchanges you have not offered and followed through with a tribute,that I am going to lose interest in conversing with you. Regardless of the fact that I adore dominating males,findom is my true love,and if you are not providing,than I am already deciding to block you. This is not me being cruel,this is me being kind,for this decision stems from a distaste of wasting time,and surely you have no desire to waste time,now do you?
Wednesday, September 28, 2016
Wrinkled soles,and toesocks!
Wrinkled soles rubbed in your face! Who wants to worship my wrinkles?
The only males allowed beneath these soles,are those who EARN it. Work work work hard to become what pleases me.
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Financial Domination Niche
One of the very first pieces of advice I was given when entering the online realm of Financial Domination, was that I would have to find a niche for myself in order to become successful. Now successful is a subjective term. How does one measure success? Is it by the number of males serving,or the amount of tribute received weekly,perhaps even by your follower counts on social media sites?
If I were to judge myself by any of the above mentioned standards of grading,than I would be deemed a failure*gasp* I have exactly 2 males serving my will,who are not rich by any means,but who give their best effort to provide for the fulfillment of my desires,and my social media followers are not numbered in the thousands either,so I guess most would say that I have failed abysmally in my quest to break to my bit the Financial Domination pony. I myself would disagree with that estimation though.
To me success is gauged by the loyalty and devotion of those serving under me. I would rather have a single servant that worships me selflessly,than 100 who seek to sate their own agendas instead. Making males cum,or teasing them into erections with my naked flesh,just holds no interest for me. Sure there are thousands who do work their magic that way,but I have never aspired to be one of the crowd. I stand out due to the fact that I do not play many of the popular findom games,nor employ the proven strategies
I want servants,true devoted gents who cannot imagine nor desire a life where they are not working towards my happiness alone,rather than them spewing a few key words role played with the goal in sight being their sticky hand. I have always been forthright about my not being the one to come to if you are looking for a wank. Getting off is not serving in my opinion. That is simply a male being a male.
With my eyes I take note that over 90% of the males in the Financial Domination are not submissive in any way,shape or form. These are males who differ not at all from their non-bdsm brothers. They gravitate to this scene due to the bevy of beautiful women who dwell here. Findom is a literal smorgasboard for horny males. Tons of nude,near nude,and erotic photography. Truly with all the visual candy displayed,they do not even have to come out of pocket at all to get off. Now for those who must have some interaction with their jerk fest,well for a few pennies on the dollar,or tokens,one can receive a fine ass show to masturbate to. Plenty of cam sites where females will be at your beck and call for the dolla. For a bit more,clips can be purchased to rouse and release your pud roll.
Let's be frank here..nudity is no longer shocking or risque in this time and day. Spread vaginas are pasted everywhere you look..lots with dildos implanted in them even..so why is it that any male would find their way into my inbox? Honestly they do not...well not tons atleast,and that is a plus for me.I do not want to deal with males who are looking to get a nut off,or call the shots with their wallet.
Another aspect which relegates me to the outer rings of the revolving door of findom is that I do not chase after the money. Whether it is on a site or social media,I do not pm or dm males trying to get them to see the uniqueness of me,and sway them into serving me. I want no servant that I would have to cajole,seduce,coerce,or bludgeon into being mine. I feel that a male should serve me,because that is his aspiration,and if a male soulfully craves to serve me,than he will approach me,rather than me chasing after him like he is a prize. I am the fair maiden. I am the Goddess. I am the Queen whose attention you must earn,not the other way around. I do not work for males,they strive to impress me..to leave a favorable lasting impression.
Lastly I do not lie! Even if I know that what I am going to say will hurt little male feelings,or ding egos,I will not lie. If I say that I am not interested in your service,than I am really not. It is not a game I play,or some means of getting you to open your wallet a bit wider. I have no qualms about being blunt,Lord knows that honesty trumps deceit every single time.
So,what does this post convey..it says 1)I will not adhere to practices of others to get a dollar 2)I will not chase males down(that includes making initial contact) 3)I will not lie to get my way 4)I will not be ruled by the wants or wallets of males. These are traits that set me apart from a great many,and appreciated by the few,but that's ok with me :) Quality > Quantity every day in every way!
If I were to judge myself by any of the above mentioned standards of grading,than I would be deemed a failure*gasp* I have exactly 2 males serving my will,who are not rich by any means,but who give their best effort to provide for the fulfillment of my desires,and my social media followers are not numbered in the thousands either,so I guess most would say that I have failed abysmally in my quest to break to my bit the Financial Domination pony. I myself would disagree with that estimation though.
To me success is gauged by the loyalty and devotion of those serving under me. I would rather have a single servant that worships me selflessly,than 100 who seek to sate their own agendas instead. Making males cum,or teasing them into erections with my naked flesh,just holds no interest for me. Sure there are thousands who do work their magic that way,but I have never aspired to be one of the crowd. I stand out due to the fact that I do not play many of the popular findom games,nor employ the proven strategies
I want servants,true devoted gents who cannot imagine nor desire a life where they are not working towards my happiness alone,rather than them spewing a few key words role played with the goal in sight being their sticky hand. I have always been forthright about my not being the one to come to if you are looking for a wank. Getting off is not serving in my opinion. That is simply a male being a male.
With my eyes I take note that over 90% of the males in the Financial Domination are not submissive in any way,shape or form. These are males who differ not at all from their non-bdsm brothers. They gravitate to this scene due to the bevy of beautiful women who dwell here. Findom is a literal smorgasboard for horny males. Tons of nude,near nude,and erotic photography. Truly with all the visual candy displayed,they do not even have to come out of pocket at all to get off. Now for those who must have some interaction with their jerk fest,well for a few pennies on the dollar,or tokens,one can receive a fine ass show to masturbate to. Plenty of cam sites where females will be at your beck and call for the dolla. For a bit more,clips can be purchased to rouse and release your pud roll.
Let's be frank here..nudity is no longer shocking or risque in this time and day. Spread vaginas are pasted everywhere you look..lots with dildos implanted in them even..so why is it that any male would find their way into my inbox? Honestly they do not...well not tons atleast,and that is a plus for me.I do not want to deal with males who are looking to get a nut off,or call the shots with their wallet.
Another aspect which relegates me to the outer rings of the revolving door of findom is that I do not chase after the money. Whether it is on a site or social media,I do not pm or dm males trying to get them to see the uniqueness of me,and sway them into serving me. I want no servant that I would have to cajole,seduce,coerce,or bludgeon into being mine. I feel that a male should serve me,because that is his aspiration,and if a male soulfully craves to serve me,than he will approach me,rather than me chasing after him like he is a prize. I am the fair maiden. I am the Goddess. I am the Queen whose attention you must earn,not the other way around. I do not work for males,they strive to impress me..to leave a favorable lasting impression.
Lastly I do not lie! Even if I know that what I am going to say will hurt little male feelings,or ding egos,I will not lie. If I say that I am not interested in your service,than I am really not. It is not a game I play,or some means of getting you to open your wallet a bit wider. I have no qualms about being blunt,Lord knows that honesty trumps deceit every single time.
So,what does this post convey..it says 1)I will not adhere to practices of others to get a dollar 2)I will not chase males down(that includes making initial contact) 3)I will not lie to get my way 4)I will not be ruled by the wants or wallets of males. These are traits that set me apart from a great many,and appreciated by the few,but that's ok with me :) Quality > Quantity every day in every way!
Saturday, September 24, 2016
Support my charity works
Whew Goddess has been way beyond busy with work!! Have you missed me?
I did take the time though to post some photos on IG for my foot boys :) If you are not following me there,whelp that is your loss toots.
Anyways,today I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart. My charity work. Yup bet you were thinking that I was going to talk about a fetish lol.
So,today I added a new wish list with a few items that I want you gents to get on buying and sending to me pronto!! These are items which will aid in keeping the homeless a little bit more comfortable this winter. This is a rare opportunity for you to impress me without going deep into the bowels of your savings account..I suggest you get right on it. Prove to me that you can act selflessly,that you can gift without the expectation of receiving,cause the only reward you will receive is my happiness,and the knowledge that you were a good boy for me.
Here is the link WARMTH FOR HUMANITY
The clock is ticking!
I did take the time though to post some photos on IG for my foot boys :) If you are not following me there,whelp that is your loss toots.
Anyways,today I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart. My charity work. Yup bet you were thinking that I was going to talk about a fetish lol.
So,today I added a new wish list with a few items that I want you gents to get on buying and sending to me pronto!! These are items which will aid in keeping the homeless a little bit more comfortable this winter. This is a rare opportunity for you to impress me without going deep into the bowels of your savings account..I suggest you get right on it. Prove to me that you can act selflessly,that you can gift without the expectation of receiving,cause the only reward you will receive is my happiness,and the knowledge that you were a good boy for me.
Here is the link WARMTH FOR HUMANITY
The clock is ticking!
Wednesday, September 21, 2016
Sunday, September 11, 2016
I love my stems and petals
Fall in love with the thickfit thighs and sinfully wrinkled soles of MzSydney! Grovel for the privilege of pleasing your Goddess.
Thursday, September 8, 2016
Tuesday, September 6, 2016
Friday, September 2, 2016
Spoiled Thick Bitch workout
Goddess Sydney wants a new male provider to finance her workout gear! Hop to it gents,and make your Femdom Goddess happy with amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Thursday, September 1, 2016
Thick thighs tribute
Goddess has been putting in the hours at the gym this week!! Unfortunately I have not seen any results from you piss ants this week though. Goddess waits for nor chases no male..so you best get off your ass and shower my thick thighs in TRIBUTE love.
Tuesday, August 30, 2016
Friday, August 26, 2016
gift pics
Gifts from my brat this week are rolling in. Female entitlement lives,breathe,and reigns under the divine heels of Mz Sydney!! What have you done to shower me with the spoils of your submission today???
The only way to provide a positive first impression is to prove that you are capable of selfless service!
Wednesday, August 24, 2016
Monday, August 22, 2016
thick thighs&sinful soles
Every day at the gym is paying off
Thighs thick enough to squeeze every last $$$ out of your wallet!
Behold the sinful soles of Mz Sydney..ordained holy and divine by Goddess herself! Tribute and tithe their beauty today!!
Can you tell that I am loving my bodacious bod??
Can you tell that I am loving my bodacious bod??
Thursday, August 18, 2016
The whole truth
I received a couple of messages yesterday,one of which amused me,and I wanted to share with you my readers a basic remedial reminder of who and what is acceptable to Mz Sydney.
Now the missive which amused me was sent by one who had read my profile on a fetish site wherein I list what I desire,and what I do not:
Now the missive which amused me was sent by one who had read my profile on a fetish site wherein I list what I desire,and what I do not:
What I seek:
*Generous gentlemen admirers
What I do NOT seek:
*males under 35
*sex or oral slaves
*maids
*husband,boyfriend,fwb's,hook-ups,dates
*promotional slaves ie males to promote me via social media outlets
*friends(I have plenty of those)
*personal toilet(just no)
*live in servants
Pretty much straightforward is it not? Yet still I received a message asking "What the f*** do you want than?" This I found amusing due to the fact that when I read his profile,all he had listed was that he was a sex slave hmmm. Why would a proclaimed sex slave contact someone who clearly states that they are NOT interested in anything sexual? Anyone else smell a troll?
Regardless I wanted to take a moment to provide you all with a brush up on serving Mz Sydney,including those items listed above.
Can you serve Mz Sydney for free? NO
Can you provide a service in lieu of tribute? NO (this includes all of you offering web design skills to get out of tribute)
Can you just be Mz Sydney's friend? NO. I do not allow males to live vicariously upon the efforts of my good boys (leeches=ewwwww,NO)
Can you tribute Mz Sydney without asking permission? YES. Send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Can you provide services,and tribute as well? YES.
In conclusion for those of you that cannot grasp what I am saying, NO ONE SERVES MZ SYDNEY FOR FREE!! There are no special snowflakes in my realm who receive a free pass,just an ice Queen who accepts nothing less than a true financial sacrifice in her honor.
Monday, August 15, 2016
Working hard
Goddess has been busy this week with life! Basically I have been working hard,and working out even harder!!
I did take a bit of a breather yesterday though. Enjoyed a lovely relaxing day trip into amish country with my man. A little peek into his view this evening
Isn't he a lucky guy??? He sure seemed to think so :) Nothing better than ending your weekend with a big OOOOOO!! Now it is your turn to add to my pleasure by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com.
Wednesday, August 10, 2016
No money,no time
One of the biggest whines I have heard lately is "you just want my money". Let's talk about this shall we?
If this is what you believe about me personally there could be a reason why,and most likely it is all on you. If you are interacting with me,it is due to you reaching out to me,not vice versa. I repeat,I do not chase after male attention. I have no need for such tactics,and if I am not the one making contact,than I am in no way obligated to react in a generous manner. We are not friends,and I owe you zilch. You on the other hand are rather self-centered and obnoxious popping up in my inbox expecting something for nothing from me,so slow your roll before you hurl accusations .
If you have come to my inbox,ask yourself why you did so. Did you pounce in looking for a quick jerk? Were you reaching out for selfish reasons(anything to do with your dick is selfish)? If you responded yes,than you are the type of male who receives not an ounce of respect from me,nor do I care for your poor tender feelings of entitlement,or cater to you attempting to use me non-consentually. I have not signed a release stating that any and all swinging dicks have the right to impugn my person with their dick delusions,so when you come at me with your own agenda,you will certainly get the "fuck you pay me" response,because I detest you right from the start,and if I am going to gift a single moment of my time,than you are going to pay dearly for it. In my eyes males like I described are the scum of the earth,and I have no qualms treating them as such,which means pay up or STFU.
A totally differing subset of males approach me with my interests in mind,and these are the males who do not regurgitate the tired pity me line of "you just want my money". Why is that? They do not do so because they realize that it is their duty to contribute financially to my life,and are happy to play such a part. They take joy in being of use to a superior dominant woman in any way possible. They recognize their place in a female supremacist's life. Instead of breaking out the cheese for their whine,they say "she just wants my money!" They are happy that they are allowed to make a difference in my life,and beyond the moon ecstatic that I acknowledge their existence.
Basically I see it like this...using that line is subversive ploy to receive attention from a woman without ever showing her due respect. It reminds me of the juvenile saying "I double dog dare ya"..in a way it is exactly the same. It is a goading statement,in that I should prove them wrong,and interact with them for free,ergo they win. As well it is intended to shame and guilt me...oh she is such a bad person..once again meaning that I should prove them wrong by giving them my time free. Who honestly comes out on top in either of those situations,ya right not me,and believe me when I say that I am all about ME.
Would I speak with males who are not contributing to my life,NO. Do I have to,NO. Does it make me a bad person not doing so,NO. It merely means that I value myself above such BS. My time is my own,and I am the banker who decides how to spend it,and I will not apologize for opting to share it with those who actually appreciate it as a gift.
In conclusion,keep your manipulative "you just want me for my money" ass out of my inbox. Thanks :)
If this is what you believe about me personally there could be a reason why,and most likely it is all on you. If you are interacting with me,it is due to you reaching out to me,not vice versa. I repeat,I do not chase after male attention. I have no need for such tactics,and if I am not the one making contact,than I am in no way obligated to react in a generous manner. We are not friends,and I owe you zilch. You on the other hand are rather self-centered and obnoxious popping up in my inbox expecting something for nothing from me,so slow your roll before you hurl accusations .
If you have come to my inbox,ask yourself why you did so. Did you pounce in looking for a quick jerk? Were you reaching out for selfish reasons(anything to do with your dick is selfish)? If you responded yes,than you are the type of male who receives not an ounce of respect from me,nor do I care for your poor tender feelings of entitlement,or cater to you attempting to use me non-consentually. I have not signed a release stating that any and all swinging dicks have the right to impugn my person with their dick delusions,so when you come at me with your own agenda,you will certainly get the "fuck you pay me" response,because I detest you right from the start,and if I am going to gift a single moment of my time,than you are going to pay dearly for it. In my eyes males like I described are the scum of the earth,and I have no qualms treating them as such,which means pay up or STFU.
A totally differing subset of males approach me with my interests in mind,and these are the males who do not regurgitate the tired pity me line of "you just want my money". Why is that? They do not do so because they realize that it is their duty to contribute financially to my life,and are happy to play such a part. They take joy in being of use to a superior dominant woman in any way possible. They recognize their place in a female supremacist's life. Instead of breaking out the cheese for their whine,they say "she just wants my money!" They are happy that they are allowed to make a difference in my life,and beyond the moon ecstatic that I acknowledge their existence.
Basically I see it like this...using that line is subversive ploy to receive attention from a woman without ever showing her due respect. It reminds me of the juvenile saying "I double dog dare ya"..in a way it is exactly the same. It is a goading statement,in that I should prove them wrong,and interact with them for free,ergo they win. As well it is intended to shame and guilt me...oh she is such a bad person..once again meaning that I should prove them wrong by giving them my time free. Who honestly comes out on top in either of those situations,ya right not me,and believe me when I say that I am all about ME.
Would I speak with males who are not contributing to my life,NO. Do I have to,NO. Does it make me a bad person not doing so,NO. It merely means that I value myself above such BS. My time is my own,and I am the banker who decides how to spend it,and I will not apologize for opting to share it with those who actually appreciate it as a gift.
In conclusion,keep your manipulative "you just want me for my money" ass out of my inbox. Thanks :)
Sunday, August 7, 2016
poetry speaks to me
A pure work of art that speaks to me. Observant gents already know that poetry holds a place in my affections :)
When the sweet air turns bitter
and the leaf falls from the twigs
and the birds change their language,
here I sigh and sing because of him,
because of Love, who keeps me ensnared and caught,
whereas I never had him in my power.
Alas! I haven't gained, of Love,
but the torment and pain,
for nothing is as hard to gain
as that which I am seeking,
nor any longing affects me
as that for what I cannot have.
I rejoice because of a pearl
so fine that I never loved anything as much;
when I am with her, I am so astonished
that I don't dare vouch my desire,
and when I part, it seems to me
that I lose all my sense and my learning.
The fairest woman one has ever seen,
compared to her, isn't worth a glove;
when the entire world turns to darkness,
light shines from the place she rests.
I shall pray god that I may touch her one day
or that I may see her go to bed.
Awake or asleep, I quiver and am all startled
and shaken because of my love for her.
I am so afraid of dying
that I don't dare think how to entreat her,
but I shall serve her two or three years
and then, maybe, she'll learn the truth.
I don't die nor live nor heal,
nor do I feel my malaise, although it's serious,
for I am not parted from her love
and I don't know whether I'll have it, nor when,
for in her is all the grace
that can raise me or cast me down.
It pleases me when she drives me insane
and make muse and gape in stupor;
it pleases me when she abuses me
and makes fun of me, behind my back or to my face,
for after the ill, the good will come
soon, if her fancy turns that way.
If she doesn't want me, I wish I had died
the day she took me in her service!
Alas! She murdered me so sweetly
when she seemed to love me,
for she has gripped me so
that I don't want to see any other woman.
Although worried, I rejoice:
for, although I shun or blandish her,
for her sake I shall be false or faithful,
or righteous or full of guile,
or a complete scoundrel or a complete gentleman,
or agitated or peaceful.
But, whoever may like it or grieve it,
she can retain me, if she wants.
When the sweet air turns bitter
and the leaf falls from the twigs
and the birds change their language,
here I sigh and sing because of him,
because of Love, who keeps me ensnared and caught,
whereas I never had him in my power.
Alas! I haven't gained, of Love,
but the torment and pain,
for nothing is as hard to gain
as that which I am seeking,
nor any longing affects me
as that for what I cannot have.
I rejoice because of a pearl
so fine that I never loved anything as much;
when I am with her, I am so astonished
that I don't dare vouch my desire,
and when I part, it seems to me
that I lose all my sense and my learning.
The fairest woman one has ever seen,
compared to her, isn't worth a glove;
when the entire world turns to darkness,
light shines from the place she rests.
I shall pray god that I may touch her one day
or that I may see her go to bed.
Awake or asleep, I quiver and am all startled
and shaken because of my love for her.
I am so afraid of dying
that I don't dare think how to entreat her,
but I shall serve her two or three years
and then, maybe, she'll learn the truth.
I don't die nor live nor heal,
nor do I feel my malaise, although it's serious,
for I am not parted from her love
and I don't know whether I'll have it, nor when,
for in her is all the grace
that can raise me or cast me down.
It pleases me when she drives me insane
and make muse and gape in stupor;
it pleases me when she abuses me
and makes fun of me, behind my back or to my face,
for after the ill, the good will come
soon, if her fancy turns that way.
If she doesn't want me, I wish I had died
the day she took me in her service!
Alas! She murdered me so sweetly
when she seemed to love me,
for she has gripped me so
that I don't want to see any other woman.
Although worried, I rejoice:
for, although I shun or blandish her,
for her sake I shall be false or faithful,
or righteous or full of guile,
or a complete scoundrel or a complete gentleman,
or agitated or peaceful.
But, whoever may like it or grieve it,
she can retain me, if she wants.
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