Wednesday, April 27, 2016

VOD for my subgent subjects:

Goddess is the way and the life. She creates within you purpose.

Goddess is all things to you. She is elevated above you. She is your reason to exist. She is the creator of your world. The center which you revolve around. She brings light to your darkness,and meaning to your chaos. Your life without Goddess is fruitless and futile.

Thursday, April 21, 2016

Goddess has much of nothing to say to you today,for you are indeed a heaping pile of disappointment when it comes to pleasing me..so in essence and in reality you may fark yourself :)

Friday, April 15, 2016

Findom success

Questions questions everywhere. How do I do this? How do I find paypigs? How do I get males to tribute?

I have composed hundreds of blogs so far about findom,the lifestyle,how to serve,how to be served etc... but the questions come in everyday,so here I go again :)

Findom is set apart from lifestyle bdsm, kinda weird I know, but one of the first things you will find out in this fetish is that it is very greatly looked down upon by "ordinary" bdsm members. It really sucks to be so very disdained by people who engage in most of the same activities as FinDommes do.  Hinky isn't it that Dominas who style themselves as "lifestylers" have no issue with receiving gifts which are used in play such as whips,floggers,strap-ons,stockings,heels,paddles,plugs and on and on,yet they consider FinDommes to be scammers and whores eh?

The only real differences between a lifestyle Domina and a FinDomme is money. FinDommes set a value upon their time and energy. They expect, nay, they demand that males drop the entire entitlement agenda, and tribute for the honor of being in the presence of a woman. In essence they force upon males the realization that women owe them nothing, and that if they desire her attention, than they should pay for it. FinDommes do not have sex with their servants, why, well cause if there is an exchange of money and sex occurs, that kinda falls into the category of prostitution, which is illegal in many countries still, and no one looks good in those orange jumpsuits. Lifestyle Dominas do engage in sexual acts though(not saying all, so don't twist your panties). Why do you think so many begging for pegging pissants flock to lifestylers huh? The sex baby, oh yeah! Sex itself seems to be a huge part of lifestyle play ie oral worship, rimming, strap-on play(oh just in case you are confused, anytime there is penetration or touching of genitalia, that goes under the umbrella definition of sex)..but this is not something you are going to expect a FinDomme to offer.

Now you might get the impression that I am bagging on lifestylers, but I am not. I respect all women who are just doing their thing. Women should empower each other, not sit in judgement.

Oops I went off on a tangent. Getting back to the topics at hand!

1)How do I do this? BE YOURSELF. Develop your own style. Play around with fetishes to see what you like. Don't put on a mask,and try to fake your way to the top (doesn't work,and if it did,then it would not be real). Keep your private details private to protect yourself (yes online stalkers and haters exist). Don't try to make a name for yourself by putting other females down (classless antic). Don't engage in drama..sheesh online drama is senseless and brings bad PR to all FinDommes. Be mature enough to realize that just like in ordinary life, you are not going to like everyone, nor they you, so rather than sling mud, just block and go baby.

2)How do I find paypigs? Sign up and fill out a detailed profile on fetish sites ie Collarspace, Fetlife, alt, findoms, Elite Financial Domination, seeking arrangements. Get a twitter, tumblr, blogspot, website(it is ok to start out with a free one like wix or weebly). I would go with wix to start with since it is free and fairly easy to navigate. There is no need to fork out for domain and hosting fees until you decide that findom is your niche.  Post content, share your thoughts thereby allowing prospective males to see what you are really about, take photos (Instagram is a good place to post),and yes even selfies are good so long as the background is not trash littered (try to avoid the bathroom room ones though,unless you are promoting an interest in watersports or scat) Videos even short ones like vine will gain you followers and notice. Don't fall for the you have to show your goodies to get notice (you don't) but feel free to do so if that is what YOU want to share with the world at large. Following through with these actions will get you noticed, and no you do not need to chase after males..if you are chasing, than the power balance shifts, plus it is tacky as hell. You build it (an online presence) and they will come, most likely cum too lol.

3)How to be served? Only you know what type of service you seek, and it is up to you to make that known. If you love sph, chastity etc, then make note of it in your profile, so that you will attract that type of male. If you do not want anything long term,or real time,SAY SO. If you just want the money,hey that is ok too,but be honest about it. Most of all, just have fun..do the things that you enjoy, and the rest will take care of itself!

4)How do I get males to tribute? This is definitely the trickiest one. You have to spend some time interacting with a prospective to figure this one out. Males have triggers, and they are they key. Now do not make the mistake of giving up hours of your day with any one male in the hopes of getting a tribute(not likely to happen),and you look foolish for having wasted your own time. I am not advocating that you not take the time to get to know a male,just that you go into it with the realization that the male you are speaking with may never tribute you. He may just be looking to use you for his sexual gratification for free (lots and lots play that game). To protect your interests (your time) it is ok to ask or expect a small tribute upfront before engaging in lengthy discussion,and if the notion is scoffed at,well you might just be better off blocking and going. You cannot make a findom connection with someone that will not honor you with tribute. Okies I know that last statement is gonna crinkle toes,but unless you are here for "friendship" willingness and ability to tribute matters in findom. You cannot disregard the "FIN" in financial domination, else it becomes an entirely different dynamic.

I wish all females success in the fetish realm,and hope that they grow in empowered from the experience :)

Thursday, April 14, 2016

changes

Deliberating deliberating. After much thought I have decided to switch things up a bit for awhile. No longer will I post my photos here or twitter,as it appears to not bring about my desired effect. In fact it is in total opposition of my wishes.

Quite early women learn that males are visual creatures,but that is not always a positive presentation.
No doubt that my photos and occasional video are viewed by males,but it has not brought them begging to my door,for they are getting what they seek sans any effort on their part,and that in itself is unacceptable in my estimation.

The definition of insanity applies here,for if I continue repeating my actions over and over (posting photos and vids) expecting it to lead servile males to me,then I would be insane,ergo my methodology must alter. Make sense? Hope so.

Therefore I will be posting such visions to my Instagram only,which has now been put on private,meaning that only those I allow will see it. This in essence forces males to work for my attention,notice,and presence,and that is how it is meant to be. No more free wank spank photo ops for you. You must now show me your appreciation(tribute) before I ever allow you access into my realm.

Effective today,until further notice.


Now come make your way to my feet pets.

Monday, April 11, 2016

Ponderings of the day

This past week I have directed several potentials to this blogspot,and heard nary a word in response once accomplished,which had me pondering why. What is it in particular about my blogs which deters prospective males? My prevailing thought is that males are cowed by the fact that I accept no BS,and expect to be spoiled for the time I allot. My strength and expectations hit at the pride and ego of the entitled patriarchal pride of males. Think that is it?

Perhaps one of the primary explanations as to why my words and thoughts send males scurrying for cover,is that they recognize me for the threat I am. A dangerous woman who does not require validation externally,nor require outside influence to complete her life and sense of self. My dominance is a slap in the face to perceived patriarchal teachings relaying that women need a male in order to feel of worth,and that the approval of men is a need in the mind of a woman.

The truth is that I am honest to fault when it comes to making clear just what use I have for males. It is my belief that males were created to serve the designs of women period,and that women are owed compensation financially from males due to the task of dealing with them. Is that cruel,does it hurt the feelings of males? Pity than,but then perhaps not,for males must learn their duty and position if they are ever to have value,so if one must suffer emotionally from the destruction of their ego,so be it.

Those that come crawling with the mentality of "I scratch your back,you scratch mine" are seriously lacking in sense. In no way am I here to scratch your itch. Call it selfish,name me self-centered,I care not,but it will not change my requirements from males. You either serve,and that means doing as I desire,not and I mean not offering service to me that is centered upon what pleases your dicklet. I could not give a fuck less about what it is that your dick wants. Evolve beyond that or be buried beneath the sky high mound of other males who have attempted to veil their intentions prior to you.

To some service is a fantasy they have created. A safe little virtual cocoon where women seek them out to get them off physically,because oh yes they truly believe that women desire nothing more than to give of their energy,time,and self-respect by catering to male delusions. That only happens in really bad porn by the way.

So yes I have come to the conclusion that I am the big cruel BITCH who values her time way more than you ever will,and that is why you will never receive a moment of it. You bore me with your wanking dreams,and how your dick thinks you should serve me..the reality is that you must PAY for my time,you must PAY for my attention,you must PAY for my pleasure,and happiness. That is all there is to it. I will not allow males to suck me dry like a leech..you pay,pay,and then pay again,and just maybe I might have something to say to you. Don't like it,doesn't get your dick hard,oh well,see ya never. :)

Sunday, April 10, 2016

Sacrifice and Serve your Savior
Sacrifice your ego,sacrifice your sense of entitlement,sacrifice false patriarchal pride,and serve your Savior,your Goddess.

Friday, April 8, 2016

Goddess is both your sun and moon. Worship with your Wallet.
Compliments will never suffice as a tribute,for they are no sacrifice!

Is this really called for smh

jakehugecock
jakehugecock 20M
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
written 2 days ago:
yes i just have closet kink/taboo
i like incest.....
MzSydney
MzSydney 39F
Wichita, Kansas
written 2 days ago:
We do not share that interest. I bid you good day,and may you find what you seek.
jakehugecock
jakehugecock 20M
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
written 1 day ago:
you're a bitch

Thursday, April 7, 2016

This is how I spent my day
Now I ask you,what have you done for me today? Anything,well judging from the lack of amazon gift cards in my inbox,I would answer that question with a resounding NOTHING,therefore you are deserving of the same from me. The lot of you are selfish,concerned only with yourselves and feeding your personal fetish,rather than serving me as you are meant to,and until you knock that dick in the dirt,and choke upon that man sized ego you possess,than nothing is all you will ever be worth.

I am off to the gym,and I suggest that you rouse your dead entitled asses into action,and provide Goddess with what she desires,rather than fixating upon that which pleases your pecker.

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Breaking the rule

There is an unwritten rule to online Femdom/Findom stating that one must conceal what is real. A Domme is not allowed to be a living breathing being. One who has cares,concerns,and crazy days. She must instead produce content and create the illusion of always being perfect,decadent,and divine in all ways.

She must erect a persona that appeals to the nether regions of males world web wide. Her statements,and photos should always enhance erections,and her actions cater to penile desires. A 24/7 fetish dispensing man pleaser. Her thoughts centered upon how best she can serve their wants with her words and body. Nary a thought of displeasure that males are selfish creatures who seek to use her,and degrade her very being with their selfishness.

I shat upon this rule! To serve a woman is to release yourself from all delusions of male entitlement and penis grandeur. Women owe you NOTHING. It is you who is in arrears. It is you males who owe your servitude to women. It is you that should be looking to please rather than be pleased. Tis your duty to see to the comforts of a woman,to make yourself bow before her will.

Women have been subjugated and objectified for the pleasure of the penis far too long,and as a male it is your job to eradicate any and all thoughts within you to the contrary. Your task is to recognize your wants as of no consequence,but rather to strive to make reality the wants of women. No longer harboring misconceptions that women were fashioned for your penis,nor that their actions should bolster this untruth.

Embrace the truth that women are human beings. Beings who suffer real emotions,and lows in life,which make them perfectly imperfect,but that you as a submissive male are purposed to bring joy to her life in whatever way she decrees of desire. It is the greatest of honors for you to serve a woman,and this should be your goal in life.

You are not to make demands,merely to follow commands. Quite simple is it not.

Serve the woman rather than the fantasy.

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

This is why Dommes get pissy(read bottoms up)


laabaa on 4/5/16 at 7:03 PM:


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laabaa on 1/23/16 at 10:46 AM:


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Hello and sorry for disturbing I am Dany 36 years from Serbia ..a male slave totally naked right now ..ready to serve your good self ..and to be trained for what ever you will ask from me . i would love to be Humiliated / and fucked like a slut for you on cam now . My skype : laabaa ( Danijel Lobon ) or if you want me on chat right now on this site , i will be all yours - i am searching to obey ....i am searching to be fucked for you ..on cam .....Thanks for accepting me Kissing your feet Dany



IIAAM on 8/23/15 at 4:57 PM:


No thank you



laabaa on 8/23/15 at 4:56 PM:


Hello and sorry for disturbing I am Dany 37 years from Serbia ..a male slave totally naked right now ..ready to serve your good self ..and to be trained for what ever you will ask from me . i would love to be Humiliated / and fucked like a slut for you on cam now . My skype : laabaa ( Danijel Lobon ) also my face Book : Dany Lobon so we can write their and we can use cam . Thanks for accepting me Kissing your feet Dany





 




 
My commands set the precedence within your life
Enslaved at the feet of Goddess



Serve a woman,not your cock


Monday, April 4, 2016

Evolution

Today is in response to a prevalent query which I receive

1)What must I do to serve you?

You would think that a question such as this would never be needed considering all of the blogs I have composed and commentary I have posted on various sites,yet it remains a repetitive question put to me,so here I sit wracking my brain in order to make my thoughts and expectations more clear than previously.

To serve me is the greatest of honors for a submissive male,for my standards are elevated,and my requirements far above average. I would never accept just any schmuck beneath my feet(it should go without saying that I consider all males inferior to myself),which means that to be privileged enough to call yourself mine,that you are going to have to be someone special. Special means more than a thick wallet(that doesn't hurt though),nor does it refer to having overly large penile endowments(don't care about your penis).

You must be extraordinary. You must have already embraced the fact that to serve me is not to serve your own fetishes. I am not here to listen to the list of depravities which revolve around what excites your penis. I am beyond that,and so must you be if you are ever to serve me. Serving me requires an evolution of the male psyche. Submissives of mine are free from the burdens of patriarchal entitlement issues,nor are they any longer mired down in the stench and selfishness of self. They have come to the realization of true purpose,and altruistic giving of themselves.

They thrive upon my happiness. Their universe revolves around ME. They possess self discipline,and require not my every moment holding their hand,as they know fully what it means to serve. They are intelligent enough to know that serving can never be about them,for than it would not actually be serving(unless you count serving yourself,I don't). Are you catching of glimpse by what I mean when I say special?

Males in the fetish scene today are primarily not submissive,instead are what they style as "bedroom submissives" or hit and quit boys(they get in,get a nut off and go). I hold no interest in any male who is not about what makes me happy,and catering to a male's wants,or sexualizing his interactions with me,does not make me smile. It is the most rare of males who can reach the pinnacle I seek them to kneel upon,so if that is not you,then do not waste time with needless questions. Take some time to work through your flaws,and then come to me,not before.

Of course my words are not pleasing to a great many males,but atleast I am honest about my intentions,and employ no subterfuge. I make no claims that I am here to sate your sexual fantasies,nor that I want to ensure your satisfaction(I am not a customer service oriented business,not even a business at all). To me,femdom will always be about pleasing the female,in the manner SHE chooses. In my eyes it is not a fetishized pornographical scheme wherein the penis rules. I am not here to get you off,or see to your wants. Got it??

Hopefully I have answered the query in a concise manner..oh and I shall leave you with a quote that I am quite fond of,just in case you still didn't get it.

“The only gift I have to give,is the ability to receive.If giving is a gift,and it surely is,then my gift to you is to allow you to give to me.”