Thursday, June 28, 2012

I am very EXCITED about this weekend!! Those that I hold dear will be in town tomorrow through Sunday. I have not seen them for a little over 2 years,so I will be a very busy Goddess over this time frame,and do not anticipate being online any if at all during daylight,but will try to check messages right before I retire for the night.
Morning to all

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Be uniquely YOU

Throughout the time I spend online daily, I see a fair share of blogs, posts, profiles, status updates & tweets, and what I generally find are the very same words touted by dozens of ladies. It becomes monotonous and droll. I can only imagine that any submissive male perusing them shares a similar conclusion.

Why are so many apprehensive of being seen for who they truly are? No longer are we teenagers that must conform to clique ideologies for fear of being ostracized. Your style, your thoughts, your very approach may not suit all, but you do yourself a disservice by imitating others. Never allow your personality to be diminished just to blend in!!

The majority of novices entering the fetish hold with the belief that they must act, speak, and dominate in a manner that others have defined, which further perpetuates the misconception that you cannot be yourself and succeed. There are very few absolutes, but if you have an honest desire in seeking out those that will serve you well, then just be YOU.

Define success not by others standards, but by that which you decide.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

 Morning pic!
Another beautiful day in Kansas. Will be occupied most of the day,but you can find updates on twitter periodically.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

treading a fine line

Throughout my time of research and interaction within the fetish of Financial Domination I have found that there is a fine line that Dommes must tread. As a Domme develops her own personal style,she reaches a point where in order to avoid dealings with those that seek her out for the sole purpose of obtaining free time,the decision must be made whether to take a chance speaking with males that most likely will fall into the later category,or to enact the no free chat policy.

If she opts to expend no amount of time without tribute she may in fact be deemed fake as many hold with the opinion that a "true" Domme would spend days,weeks,months,or even years forming a bond with a sub without receiving remuneration for her time and effort,when in actuality she is merely performing a screening process to eliminate submissive imposters. The quagmire now is to find that fine line that must be tread that enables a Domme to make a connection with a submissive while bypassing any waste of time upon those not worthy of her notice.

I have applied both techniques,and found that what works for me is to refrain from any conversation that deviates from vanilla interests,thereby keeping the exchange devoid of any material that may illicit physical reactions. If at any point the dialogue traverses into fetish subjects,then the matter of tribute is immediately brought to their attention. Now they are limited to the options of,either willfully and dutifully donating,or being banished from my presence. It is a rationalism that has stood me in good stead,therefore I have implemented it into my personal policy.
Mail call today. These are super comfortable,and adore them! Thank you Frank!


Saturday, June 16, 2012

Snapped a quick pic of the heels cookie sent me yesterday....they are fuckably yummy.

Yay for me!! I love waking up and seeing that new shoes are on the way,thank you Frank!!

Will post a couple of pics tonight of the heels I received yesterday from cookie.

Monday, June 11, 2012

they always come back

Yummy little surprise today.....cookie has returned to his Mistress with some FUCK ME hot heels....he is always such a good boy. I did go easy on him today....but he knows that will not last. I am a greedy Goddess,and I want it all LMAO!!

Sunday, June 10, 2012

purrrrrrrrrrrr

This is what I look like after spending an hour of kitty cat worship.....purrrrrrrrrrr

Friday, June 8, 2012

approach no no

Today I would like to detail a couple of approaches that will get you banned from my presence quickly.


If you are a self-proclaimed submissive,and you come to me stating "I want", I am looking for", "I am into", "I would like",then immediately sirens sound off for me. You are basically alerting me to the fact that you are here for you,and you alone,which is not servile mentality in my estimation,thereby banning you from consideration.


Another type of male that comes to mind,are those that are full of self import,and deport themselves as if they are doing me a favor offering to serve. Something to keep in mind is that I do not need you,it is in fact you that needs me. My life is enriched by faithful service,but make no mistake,there are many others waiting behind you.

In no way am I comparative to the willow that bends to the wind. Those that possess an integral desire to serve,know that it is they that must forsake ego,and bow before my wishes.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Sun bathing & swimming on the menu for today............Loving my life :-)

Saturday, June 2, 2012

5 month check in



I have been active in the online world of findom for approximately 5 months now(real time 7 years),and have spoken with some that have intrigued me,some that have entertained me,and lastly some that have shown themselves to be the very dregs of humanity,yet here I remain.

Online differs from real time in many respects in my opinion. Real time offers the thrill of having one on their knees before me. There is no room for lies,or logging off when I have you at my feet.  You cannot run away from the demands I place upon your flesh without invoking a safe word. I am witness to every reaction as I hold your pleasure and pain within my hand. The voyeur of your shame and humiliation. Your ego washed away in humble service as I guide you through the process of truly becoming mine for a moment in time.
I have been approached too many times to give a count,by those pleading to serve me in person,and it always comes down to time and trust. If you have not earned it,why would I allow it? Simple, I won't. Time spent conversing enables me to reach a decision of whether our interests and personalities suit. The interval allotted is designated in regards to safety issues as well. I will not place myself at risk of harm with absolute strangers. Personal service is an intimacy,and it does not matter how much money you offer up,it will never be enough if we have not forged a strong bond. The level of trust required for personal sessions goes beyond monetary compensation,and I will not compromise my values nor standards for ca$h.

Online domination offers it's own delights as well. The opportunity exists to interact with unlimited audiences,which opens the door to so many enriching experiences. If a mind is open to growth,then there is a vast potential of findom possibilities. Many find a release from inhibitions through the anonymity of cyberspace. They are able to fully let down their guard and share the desires they hide from the vanilla world,which can be an aphrodisiac on its own. The dictated bounds of societies taboos no longer applying,freeing you of guilt,allowing you to embrace the part of your psyche that craves the strength of an exacting woman who does not ask,but demands your submission in any manner she sees fit. Her words a web that capture your life. Your day incomplete without her attention. Hours spent worshiping her image on your pc. Never enough hours in the day to search out ways to please. ENSLAVED.