Monday, November 30, 2015
Saturday, November 28, 2015
Transparency for dummies
One of the chief complaints lodged by males is that they are not mind readers,which is understandable,yet even with it all spelled out in the open,you still fail. How can that be? I know that I am not alone when it comes to transparency regarding wants. I have no hesitancy about laying it on the line for all of you to see,yet each and every day more and more males go into the refuse bin when speaking with me.
What is so very difficult about comprehending my position? Seriously I would like a tangible explanation.
READ CAREFULLY & ABSORB FULLY
I want only males who possess no self serving agenda,for I am not all about getting males off(fact is that I would absolutely love to see all males cock locked),maybe then they would be free to cease thinking with the head which is self absorbed.
I want only males who place me as a priority in their life.
I want males who give generously and graciously of themselves,which includes,time,devotion,and finances, YES I FUCKING SAID FINANCIALLY. No fin=no dom=no dom=no fin etc..... Is that clear enough? I want the control aspect of domination,but no I will not accept the domination without the financial,is that crystal? Combine the domination and the financial,and I am a happy Domme!
I want males who have their shit together. I am not I repeat NOT,Prince Charming who has come to rescue you from whatever ate up scathole you have ran your life into. If your head is up your ass,whelp I do not intend to shovel it out for you.
I want males who come to me willingly. I am not a sister of Conan the Barbarian,here to strong arm you into serving me. If force is your thing,fine,but that is not my style,so don't ask. It is not a secret that many of you long to suck dick,so don't try to play it off that you really don't,but that you would do it in my honor,come the fuck on,just own up to being a cocksucker wannabe.This goes along with males willingly tributing me. I am not a bully that is going to beat you up for it figuratively,and yes that includes you giving me your cc info to use(sheesh that is a quick way to end up in an orange jumper)!!
I want males who know what the word loyalty means,and actually embody the definition.
I want males who are able to communicate,which is not confined to one word responses. Take note when I say regular communication,and no that is not just when your cocklette gets hard,that means putting in the effort each and every day.
I want males who are desperate to serve ME,and me alone. Directionless desperation is not flattering in any shape or form,so for those hungered to serve just anyone,you are not for me.
Couldn't get any clearer. Feel free to thank me :)
What is so very difficult about comprehending my position? Seriously I would like a tangible explanation.
READ CAREFULLY & ABSORB FULLY
I want only males who possess no self serving agenda,for I am not all about getting males off(fact is that I would absolutely love to see all males cock locked),maybe then they would be free to cease thinking with the head which is self absorbed.
I want only males who place me as a priority in their life.
I want males who give generously and graciously of themselves,which includes,time,devotion,and finances, YES I FUCKING SAID FINANCIALLY. No fin=no dom=no dom=no fin etc..... Is that clear enough? I want the control aspect of domination,but no I will not accept the domination without the financial,is that crystal? Combine the domination and the financial,and I am a happy Domme!
I want males who have their shit together. I am not I repeat NOT,Prince Charming who has come to rescue you from whatever ate up scathole you have ran your life into. If your head is up your ass,whelp I do not intend to shovel it out for you.
I want males who come to me willingly. I am not a sister of Conan the Barbarian,here to strong arm you into serving me. If force is your thing,fine,but that is not my style,so don't ask. It is not a secret that many of you long to suck dick,so don't try to play it off that you really don't,but that you would do it in my honor,come the fuck on,just own up to being a cocksucker wannabe.This goes along with males willingly tributing me. I am not a bully that is going to beat you up for it figuratively,and yes that includes you giving me your cc info to use(sheesh that is a quick way to end up in an orange jumper)!!
I want males who know what the word loyalty means,and actually embody the definition.
I want males who are able to communicate,which is not confined to one word responses. Take note when I say regular communication,and no that is not just when your cocklette gets hard,that means putting in the effort each and every day.
I want males who are desperate to serve ME,and me alone. Directionless desperation is not flattering in any shape or form,so for those hungered to serve just anyone,you are not for me.
Couldn't get any clearer. Feel free to thank me :)
Friday, November 27, 2015
This is why I regularly post the rules
One of my readers questioned as to why I would feel the need to repost my rules and requirements..well let's just say that since I posted yesterday in regards to my wishes,the following message is the first I received afterwards
"amazing profile ma'am! I am new to this so hoping my approach is not rude as i know i have a ton to learn still and also working on a detailed profile of my own. I truly hope to find a mature woman to mold me and serve her to be the best of my abilities as i have always felt like i was born to serve and hoping to stop denying this feeling and start a new life serving. I work construction and love reading, movies and activities outside. i do not smoke or drink. I feel that i would excel at domestic duties, humiliation and body worship but also know it is up to my owner to decide how i will be used. I am an only child from strict religious upbringing and do still currently live at home however i saving up to hopefully relocate at some point to serve 24/7. hope you will consider me and hope to hear back and get to know more about you ma'am." (Mind you that he is a 20 yr old male)
Now I am going to paste the parts of my profile which conflict with what you just read,and you tell me,do you think that he even bothered to do me the courtesy of reading my profile?
" My name is Mz Sydney,and I am to be addressed as such(not Miss,Ma'am or Mistress)."
"amazing profile ma'am! I am new to this so hoping my approach is not rude as i know i have a ton to learn still and also working on a detailed profile of my own. I truly hope to find a mature woman to mold me and serve her to be the best of my abilities as i have always felt like i was born to serve and hoping to stop denying this feeling and start a new life serving. I work construction and love reading, movies and activities outside. i do not smoke or drink. I feel that i would excel at domestic duties, humiliation and body worship but also know it is up to my owner to decide how i will be used. I am an only child from strict religious upbringing and do still currently live at home however i saving up to hopefully relocate at some point to serve 24/7. hope you will consider me and hope to hear back and get to know more about you ma'am." (Mind you that he is a 20 yr old male)
Now I am going to paste the parts of my profile which conflict with what you just read,and you tell me,do you think that he even bothered to do me the courtesy of reading my profile?
" My name is Mz Sydney,and I am to be addressed as such(not Miss,Ma'am or Mistress)."
"What I do NOT seek:
*males under 35
*sex or oral slaves
*maids
*husband,boyfriend,fwb's,hook-ups,dates
*promotional slaves ie males to promote me via social media outlets
*friends(I have plenty of those)
*personal toilet(just no)
*live in servants"
Finance my Black Friday fun
I want to shop today!! Send amazon gift cards to my FindomFeet at mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Make my Black Friday AMAZING by financing my fun
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Wanna lick my peppermint stick lol...psyche worship my sweet feet with your wallet
Make my Black Friday AMAZING by financing my fun
Thursday, November 26, 2015
flogging that horse
Here we are dear readers once more covering ground that has already been trod upon over and over,yet the need arises to speak of past posts in order to educate those that have arrived since.
The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.
1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.
The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.
Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.
Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :( Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.
Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.
Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)
The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.
1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.
The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.
Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.
Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :( Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.
Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.
Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
Monday, November 23, 2015
Christmas dreams
What every foot fetish male dreams of finding beneath the Christmas tree...dream on...worship my prefect feet with your wallet!! Send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Wednesday, November 18, 2015
TRIBUTE for notice
Tuesday, November 17, 2015
This coin does not flip
The financial domination universe is entirely out of whack due to actions perpetrated from females and males alike. Notice I said females,not Dommes,interesting eh? Let's talk about that.
There are literally hundreds of females in the findom playground,why? M O N E Y ! Now don't get my intent twisted,cause I am for all females,and believe they should do whatever enriches their lives,and pleases them most. Things get hairy though when the lines get erased between findom and provision of services. What I am basically saying is that a ton of males find themselves on cam sites,clip sites,or market places where sessions and items are sold,and whilst all is good in the neighborhood,that is NOT findom.
Peeps should have the google definition of findom bookmarked by now...it is a handy resource tool :) Now sit right back cause I am gonna break it down for you.
1)Buying a clip for your personal amusement,or gratification(wank spank) is NOT findom.
2)Buying a cam session to watch the pretty lady,or have her watch you,is NOT findom.
3)Buying used items for your jacking jerk off is NOT findom.
4)Calling NF for phone sex is NOT findom.
5)Tipping tokens in return for spoils back is NOT findom.
Notice how I used small words,so as not to confuse you? Gee whiz I am super nice :)
If you are purchasing product(clips,session,pedi dust,panties,used shoes etc..)you fall into the category of a customer/client,and the female is technically a service provider,rather than a Domme. Yes some in fact many Dommes do offer services,but if they are selling something,then that is NOT really dominating now is it? No,so you are NOT being dominated,therefore you are NOT serving. Ok here is where it can get tricky,if a Domme commands that you purchase her products,then in essence she is dominating you if you comply(confusing isn't it),but if you are just doing it all on your own for your satisfaction,then you are NOT being dominated,nor are you serving anything but your own kink.
What is findom then if nothing that I mentioned above,whelp I will spell it out for the lazy turds who won't use google.
Findom entails sending a tribute $$$ (non-reciprocal gift) to a dominant. Easy cheesy isn't it? No bargaining,no expectations,no force required.
Woot isn't it wonderful to have it explained to you! Knowledge is power baby,use it :)
There are literally hundreds of females in the findom playground,why? M O N E Y ! Now don't get my intent twisted,cause I am for all females,and believe they should do whatever enriches their lives,and pleases them most. Things get hairy though when the lines get erased between findom and provision of services. What I am basically saying is that a ton of males find themselves on cam sites,clip sites,or market places where sessions and items are sold,and whilst all is good in the neighborhood,that is NOT findom.
Peeps should have the google definition of findom bookmarked by now...it is a handy resource tool :) Now sit right back cause I am gonna break it down for you.
1)Buying a clip for your personal amusement,or gratification(wank spank) is NOT findom.
2)Buying a cam session to watch the pretty lady,or have her watch you,is NOT findom.
3)Buying used items for your jacking jerk off is NOT findom.
4)Calling NF for phone sex is NOT findom.
5)Tipping tokens in return for spoils back is NOT findom.
Notice how I used small words,so as not to confuse you? Gee whiz I am super nice :)
If you are purchasing product(clips,session,pedi dust,panties,used shoes etc..)you fall into the category of a customer/client,and the female is technically a service provider,rather than a Domme. Yes some in fact many Dommes do offer services,but if they are selling something,then that is NOT really dominating now is it? No,so you are NOT being dominated,therefore you are NOT serving. Ok here is where it can get tricky,if a Domme commands that you purchase her products,then in essence she is dominating you if you comply(confusing isn't it),but if you are just doing it all on your own for your satisfaction,then you are NOT being dominated,nor are you serving anything but your own kink.
What is findom then if nothing that I mentioned above,whelp I will spell it out for the lazy turds who won't use google.
Findom entails sending a tribute $$$ (non-reciprocal gift) to a dominant. Easy cheesy isn't it? No bargaining,no expectations,no force required.
Woot isn't it wonderful to have it explained to you! Knowledge is power baby,use it :)
Monday, November 16, 2015
IG
Drum roll...Goddess now has IG,but it will cater to my foot fetish for the most part.
Most of you are sincerely pathetic for having not contributed to my special day..and I do not mean pathetic in that lovely shameful degradation way,so get your fucking cock out of your hand!
Oh and rick the measly tributing dick,I know that you are keeping up with my blogs,you owe me a birthday gift bitch!!
That is all for now :)
Most of you are sincerely pathetic for having not contributed to my special day..and I do not mean pathetic in that lovely shameful degradation way,so get your fucking cock out of your hand!
Oh and rick the measly tributing dick,I know that you are keeping up with my blogs,you owe me a birthday gift bitch!!
That is all for now :)
Sunday, November 15, 2015
Happy Birthday to me
It is now officially my Birthday!! Where are my gifts?? Get on spoiling me on my special day by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com,just like I have spoiled each of you that has gained wisdom,and excitement all year long from my words and photos. No excuses,just action. Gift my petal soft peds
Saturday, November 14, 2015
A day away
One day away from my holy Birthday! Have you sent your gift?
This is from an admiring gentleman
and this is from my real time boy,who adores spoiling his Goddess.
What have YOU done for me lately??
What have YOU done for me lately??
Thursday, November 12, 2015
cleanse
Goddess is going to begin a cleanse like you have never seen before. One where dead weight is massively dropped. This coming year's Birthday has shown me exactly who cares for my happiness,and those that do not,so....I will be removing all from my various lists (starting with skype) who do not enrich my existence,and spoil me as I deserve. If you are one of those cut,sorry not sorry,for you should have put effort into pleasing me rather than sitting back and serving your own pleasure base by stroking to my words and photos. Only those that are truly bent towards making my pleasure paramount will remain in my good graces. Good riddance to rubbish!
As to those of you who remain...welcome,and remember that if you falter,you too will be cut loose. By the way,you have 2 days remaining til the holy day of birth festivities,get your gifts to me ahead of time :)
As to those of you who remain...welcome,and remember that if you falter,you too will be cut loose. By the way,you have 2 days remaining til the holy day of birth festivities,get your gifts to me ahead of time :)
worship my form
Unforgettably irresistible...3 days til my Birthday...72 hours to get your gift of appreciation to Goddess
Come my minions and bless my beautiful form with a bounty of gifts.
Wednesday, November 11, 2015
grains of time
The grains of sand are slipping through the hour glass oh so quickly now...3 days,just 72 short hours. Have you sent your gift yet? I imagine not,else I would not need to remind you huh!
After a couple of months having this blasted selfie stick staring at me from the back of my desk,I finally hooked it up to my iphone6,which means you are very blessed to be graced with a photo of my lovely self,yay you!!!
I am truly gorgeous ;p and Goddess like in my visage...now get to sending my gifts!
After a couple of months having this blasted selfie stick staring at me from the back of my desk,I finally hooked it up to my iphone6,which means you are very blessed to be graced with a photo of my lovely self,yay you!!!
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
booties
So soft,so warm..oh how I adore my new juicy booties!
Only 5 more days to display your appreciation for my divine birth. I expect to see my box flooded with amazon gift cards(mzsydney34@yahoo.com),NOW!!
Get on your fucking knees and beg me to claim what belongs to me,and to me alone...your ego,your pride,your dignity,and your wallet. Beseech me to accept your all..pray for my greed to consume you whole,for their is no greater joy in this lifetime than to suffer and sacrifice for your living Goddess.
Get on your fucking knees and beg me to claim what belongs to me,and to me alone...your ego,your pride,your dignity,and your wallet. Beseech me to accept your all..pray for my greed to consume you whole,for their is no greater joy in this lifetime than to suffer and sacrifice for your living Goddess.
Monday, November 9, 2015
prezzie porn
The first of my many Birthday prezzies(better be anyway,get off your ass and fill my box with amazon gift cards)...you only have 6 days,so CHOP CHOP,cause Mz Sydney expects gifts galore this year from you gents!!
Saturday, November 7, 2015
tick tock goes the clock
I skipped 8 and went right to 7 days til my Birthday..time is wasting,I want my gifts now!! Lay them at my feet :)
No socks,no cares,who wants to sniff my wrinkled soles?
Friday, November 6, 2015
9 more days
The countdown continues til my Birthday,so get those gift cards in early :)
Today I am feeling generous,so enjoy
Today I am feeling generous,so enjoy
Thursday, November 5, 2015
Give in
Give in to the gorgeous glow of my perfect soles
10 short days to shower my soles in amazon gift cards.
Wednesday, November 4, 2015
Holy day
It is officially 11 days away from my Birthday now gents..time to be about showing your worth,and sending blessed amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
My birthday is to be more spectacular than Christmas,for it is indeed a holy day,so get your wallets out and impress me :)
My birthday is to be more spectacular than Christmas,for it is indeed a holy day,so get your wallets out and impress me :)
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
Audio
I created a little audio sharing with you all of the ways you can connect with me.
Click&Listen
Click&Listen
Monday, November 2, 2015
A new day=a new opportunity
One day closer. It is now 13 days til the most celebrated day of my divine birth. Be the early bird,and send your gift now. I am only accepting amazon gift cards this year,so send them all to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
purpose
My real time boy(brat)stopped by this evening to shower me with appreciation
and this is how it is done gents. He does not make demands,he has no expectations,merely the knowledge that through his worshipful service of me,he has a purpose in life.
Sunday, November 1, 2015
Countdown celebration
Greetings admiring gents of the findom realm. The official countdown for my day of birth celebrations has begun. You have 2 little weeks til the big day,and I am expecting you to impress me this year with your generosity towards my happiness :)
Plenty of time to get those amazon gift cards into my inbox,so no excuses will be accepted at their absence.
Many of you have followed me in lurking silence for years,and now is the perfect time to step up and make yourselves known in my presence,and nothing creates a better first impression,than a gift!
I leave you to it,do NOT disappoint me.
Plenty of time to get those amazon gift cards into my inbox,so no excuses will be accepted at their absence.
Many of you have followed me in lurking silence for years,and now is the perfect time to step up and make yourselves known in my presence,and nothing creates a better first impression,than a gift!
I leave you to it,do NOT disappoint me.
FAIL
No treats in my inbox for Halloween=your failure to display
appreciation,and that equates to punishment for you. No pics til I am
appeased. I suggest you rectify the error asap.
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