Welcome to the glamorously seedy slice of Sydney Claire.
Sex workers is an umbrella term which many shelter under.
Who are sex workers?
-cam girl
-Dominatrix
-escort
-prostitute
-phone sex operator
-clip producer
-porn star
-premium snap chat sellers
-strippers
-nude models
Long list huh?
Sex workers are walking down the sidewalk beside you. They are dining in your restaurants, sleeping in your hotels, shopping in the grocery store with you. Your typical sex worker looks just like any other woman you see out and about. I have not seen a single one wearing a scarlet letter, or holding up a sign proclaiming her occupation while out just living life.
Sex workers are highly disdained by the general public men and women alike. Sex workers are considered unclean & immoral and as such are stigmatized. They are banned from payment sites, and websites. Some are even shunned by family members. Does this sound like the recipe of a happy life?
There are a variety of reasons why women engage in sex work, and despite what the main stream media declares, the overwhelming majority of these women have not been forced into the lifestyle via trafficking. Some need the money gained from sex work to survive, whilst others thrive upon the sexual excitement of sex work. Regardless of the reason, these women do not deserve the less than humane treatment they receive from a judgemental society.
Sex workers are shamed and blamed for all sorts of issues. They are accused of being the harbingers of disease, and divorce, yet this is a lie. Did you know that sex workers are tested for stds at a higher rate than the general public? Sure, you are thinking that they must due to their "risky" lifestyle, yet you have thousands of ordinary people walking around untested & infected, but hey, atleast they aren't sex workers!! In regards to being the root cause of divorce, they are not the married man stepping out. They are not the husband spending hard earned dollars to bust a nut. They are not the men ignoring their relationships in favor of peeking at porn. Hold men accountable for their actions, instead of blaming sex workers for providing a service.
It is entirely too easy to blame ills at the feet of sex workers, and I am absolutely not absolving them as an entirety, for they are flawed human beings just like the rest of humanity, but I am calling foul to the world of sin setting upon their shoulders.
Why do people blame the sex worker, but not the customer/consumer? You do realize that without a market, sex workers would not exist yes? Think of it like this. If ALL men stopped frequenting strip clubs, would those clubs remain in business? If ALL men stopped clicking on porn hub, would they go under financially? This is simple truth. Sex workers exist because of a demand for their existence. They serve a purpose, so unless you are actively shaming, shunning, and imprisoning the very market which keeps them in business, shut up!
Hello hello hello...and welcome to the sanctum of Sydney Claire!
Some of you gents need to seriously reconsider your actions, or lack thereof when it comes to serving dominant Women. Ya ya ya I know that some of you are brand spanking new to the scene, but sometimes you just got to learn the hard way, and that most often is the wrong way on a one way street.
The main subject of discussion here is TRIBUTE. If you are ill educated upon the subject of tributing in a Financial Domination sense, than you can quick and easy google for the answer :) Go ahead and do that for me right now, so that I will know that you are up to speed. Done?
Progressing.
Do you know how many excuses I have been given for not being able to tribute? Take a guess....WRONG! Try again, only add in a couple of zeros to the equation. Do you know what excuses are? They are falsified reasons losers and liars toss about. Are you a liar or loser? If so, than stop, do not pass go, and get out of here NOW. I have done my time on sucker skidrow, and paid my listening to lying "paypig" dues.
Onward.
There are zero, and I do mean zero legitimate reasons not to tribute a Woman.
I get it, and I imagine that most Women comprehend that the majority of males in the findom fetish are not on par with Daddy Warbucks when it comes to disposable income, but you can still contribute financially towards the lifestyle of a Lady. Now if you are sitting there, and can say in all honesty that you cannot invest a single cent in the relationship, well than I would advise you to exit behind the liars and losers, cause you are of zero value in a Financial Domination power exchange. Net negatives are a drain of time and valuable feminine resources.
Forward.
If you fear tributing because of
1)past negative treatment
2)uncertainty if She is the one(need to get to know her)
3)being scammed or ghosted
Solution: Sit back quietly without contacting Her at all. Study Her social media to ascertain if She is the one you want to serve. Then proceed with tribute.
Your initial tribute doesn't have to break your bank account, but nor should it be insulting either. Figure in what you would spend if you were taking Her out to a nice dinner (not a fast food joint) and send that amount. Once sent, never forget that tribute is a gift. It is not a payment for services expected. You are not owed a single second of Her time for that money, but most likely you will receive a response, and the chance to speak with Her, which is most definitely a reward worth chasing.
Tribute is the platform which springs you into Her orbit of notice, rather than as a right of entitlement. Financially investing in the relationship displays your intent to provide for Her physical comfort, and since providing is already embedded in your dna, tributing is a given :) No need to fear it, or make up excuses to get out of it. You are definitely not going to get anywhere in findom without it, because as I stated previously, we have heard every excuse, so you are not going to get a foot in the door if you lead like that.
Take pride in the act of giving. You are enhancing Her level of happiness, and serving Her interests, which should be the goal of every single submissive boy and girl. You want to be a good little subby, yes? Of course you do :) All it requires is an open mind, heart, and wallet/pocketbook. You can do this. I believe in you, so get out there and send a tribute today!!
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Hip hip hooray...it is New Year's Day, and here you are celebrating the changing of a decade with the divinely celestial Sydney Claire :)
I wonder how many of my faithful readers made the obligatory New Year's resolution. Did you? It seems to me as if there are recurring themes to the annual promises. Such as, health, wealth, or happiness. Does that sound about spot on to you?
I myself, made no resolutions. Resolutions tend to be exhaustively huge life changes, which are statistically bound for failure, unless you are one of the scant few who actually successfully holds up your end. Have you made resolutions which failed? If so, why do you believe that they bombed?
In my opinion, people tend to reach entirely too high and too fast when making resolutions. They place unrealistic expectations upon themselves, and that leads to failure, which creates self-directed unhappiness, depression, and even anger. People in general would benefit more from making more easily attainable short term resolutions.
Example 1
*Say you want to lose 50lbs. Well than, instead of saying "I am going to lose 50lbs this year", begin small by vowing to
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink an additional 8oz of water daily
Any one of these alterations may very well enable you to lose 1lb per week. Add that up, and voila bb!!
Do you see the point I am directing you towards? If you keep the step short, you are far more likely to climb it!
Example 2
*You want to save up money for a luxury item
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink water instead of coffee and soda
Now take the money you would have spent on these items, and piggy bank it til you have enough to treat yourself to the desired item :)
I honestly want to see people succeed, but to do so, we must first acknowledge that we are the ones preventing it from happening, and actively seek to help ourselves reach the goals we set. It feels so good to achieve positive changes in our lives, and we all know that there is a strong correlation between positivity and happiness, which is the ultimate goal, yes? It definitely is for me.
Wishing you all success and happiness in this coming year!
