Monday, April 23, 2018

Motivational Monday Mantra

Welcome to the world of Goddess Sydney Claire


Today my minions I want you humbled in prayer to your Goddess, repeating your Monday mantra "The more I give to Goddess, the more grace I receive in submission".

Sacrificing for Goddess enriches your life spiritually, and deepens the bond of submission. You are transcended beyond the everyday desire for material riches for self. You recognize that the fruits of your labors are meant to be in the hands of Goddess, for she is your living inspiration of divinity. 

It is to her that you pledge your worldly goods, and spoils. She alone is worthy of all you possess. You are a better man in service to Goddess. 

Discard the past, and embrace your future....Goddess Sydney. Her happiness is your beacon of hope. Her laughter is the music that resonates within your soul. Her smile is your light in the dark. You are bereft without her presence in your life, which is why you will strive to do all within your power to ensure that your sacrifice is worthy of her goodness. 

Today my minions you are called upon to kneel and pledge your fealty of service, by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
 

Transform yourself into a better you

Welcome my cult of minions


Today I want to talk to you about transformation. Specifically in reference to transforming yourself into a useful, viable submissive male. At this point you are a wet wad of clay. You have no pleasing form, nor usefulness to me, and that is what we are going to change.

Being useful as a submissive is one of the top perks of owning a male. You want to be seen as having value don't you? If you possess no value in the open market of ownership, than you will be left outside the awe inspiring, earth shattering, orgasmic circle ride of being owned. It is no fun being ostracized from something that you really want to partake of. You don't want to be barred from having fun do you?

Have you been following the steps I shared with you a couple of posts previously? These were just the beginning of your total transformation. We now embark upon phase 2.

Starting this day, you will spend a total of 10 minutes each day kneeling in the corner of your bedroom, facing the wall. Your eyes are to be closed, head bowed, and your hands supine upon your thighs. This will aid you in freeing your body, and your mind of all constraints at this time. This is time you will devote towards reflection of your past thoughts and actions, and determine how they have held you back from submitting fully as you are meant to. You will weigh your thoughts and actions, and discard those that do not benefit the empowerment of your submission to Goddess Sydney. You will pare them down to only those that create positivity in her life, and increase the possibility of providing for her happiness, thereby freeing your mind from all selfish non-serving intrusions. This is your commune time with Goddess. This is her time, and you will not soil it with thoughts of self gratification. 

This is such a minimal effort to expend. Surely you can achieve this goal daily, so do not balk at it. Do not allow yourself to find excuses to get out of it. Devote the time, and enrich your submission to Goddess Sydney.


Saturday, April 21, 2018

Hide and seek Femdom

Welcome to the musings, words of wisdom, and salacious speakings of the one and only Goddess Sydney Claire!!


 Many of you ponder and philosophize on how you can or will be able to find a Dominant woman to serve, and I am here to show you the way. 

Let us begin first with the how not to find one, thereby saving you time and effort in traveling down the wrong road.

These are just a few, seeing as I have no desire to wear your brain out

1)displaying your genitals on your profile, or relaying photographic evidence of them without being asked 

2)assuming that you have the right to a woman's time or attention

3)treating a woman like she is a sexual object created for the sole purpose of providing you with stimulating (wink wink) entertainment

4)attempting to goad a woman into talking to you, or fulfilling your fetish wishes (no doubt you are familiar with the double dog dare ya reverse psychology techniques)

5)employing a futile guilt trip to get your way

6)relaying vapid played out compliments

7)Do not wax on about yourself (ie your kinks, and desires)

Ok, onto a brief how to section

1)Do be honest about your intentions, limitations, and situation in life

2)Do be well mannered in your speech and actions when interacting with a woman

3)Do take the time to read her profiles, and social media posts (this will save you time in the long run, I promise!)

4)Do take rejection graciously, and move on. You cannot force a woman to accept you by insulting her. 
 
5)Do be emotionally healthy

6)Do be willing and able to make her a priority in your life, cause if not,  you are shortchanging both of you.

7)Do be willing and able to invest yourself in her happiness.

For now I will hold off on getting more in depth..definitely do not want to overtax your synapses lol

I have provided you with enough information to give you a credible start, that is if you truly are desirous of finding a Dominant to serve.
 

Friday, April 20, 2018

What are you

Welcome minions and malcontents to the musings of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire

Do you know your place in the femdom society? If not, than I am more than willing to shove the bitter pill of truth down your throat..try not to gag on it sweetie :)


You are nothing more than a loser for Sydney Claire. That's right gents..you are my faithful sidekick, and I am the heroic Goddess who saved you from your patriarchal sponsored delusions of entitlement. You are officially indebted to me for life. Start paying up boys :)

Tuesday, April 17, 2018

Asexual bdsm for me

Welcome one and all to the musings of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire


 I find myself posing an internal query. The question in reference is, why are so many people offended by the fact that bdsm is not sexual for me?  I find the majority whom take offense to be male. They lack understanding of how something they sexualize highly, can fail to rate on another's scale of orgasm inducing.

Something to always take into account, is that people are not the same across the board. This often gets forgotten when one is immersed within their own philosophies, almost to the point of straight up narcissism.  Human beings are most comfortable existing in an echo chamber, where all others share their views, so when someone comes along and challenges that stance, fireworks explode. How dare someone not agree with them, or damn their audacity to choose what suits them personally rather than agreeing to the general consensus!

I enjoy bdsm proclivities very much. I am a sadist after all, but I do not physically get off from it. I do even not masturbate thinking about it. I understand that many do, but that just isn't me, and the point of my life, is to be me. 

I am not here standing on a pulpit preaching that everyone should adopt or emulate my stance, but what I am advising, is that people should never assume or demand that others buy into their version of group think in order to fit in with the crowd.  I am a strong minded mature woman, who knows exactly what she seeks to gain from bdsm, and I refuse to alter myself for anyone. I am not here to fit in. I am not a follower, or a sycophant to the demands of male demanded sexuality practices of women.

To recap for those in the back who require a dumbed down explanation.

1)Bdsm is NOT about sex for me
2)Bdsm is NOT about sex with me
3)I do not want to have sex with you (nope not any form of it)
4)I do not want to see or touch your dick
5)I do not want to see or touch your asshole
6)I do not want to help or watch you jack off
7)I am not going to masturbate for you, nor share visuals of my vagina with you

In my femdom world, submission is not about sex. It is about service.

Monday, April 16, 2018

Flattery does not work wonders

Hello hello little submissives everywhere who have happened upon my blog!


Are you a sly guy? Are you the type of man who tries to butter the bread with flattery? How has that worked out for you? What percentage of the time would you say that it has been successful for you? Did you get the Domme of your dreams by uttering sweet nothings in her ear?

Do you know how many males have earned the opportunity to serve me by offering me a tray of compliments? None, that is how many. Why? Compliments in my eyes, when relayed by males, are meaningless. I do not want, nor chase them. Knowing the scope of my worth and level of attractiveness means that I am not subject to being preyed upon in such a manner. If you believe that complimenting me upon the physical will garner you an iota of attention, you are sadly mistaken. The physical alters as one ages, so why would I put stock in any male being around for the long haul if his interests are based upon fleeting physicalities? That would be utterly ignorant. 

Flattery is a tool, driven by an agenda. In the findom realm, compliments are tossed about like dollar bills at a strip club. Men have deluded themselves into believing that compliments have intrinsic value. Wake up, wake up, cause they do not. Compliments are not valuable contributions to a woman's life. They are actually annoyances if not backed up by actual actions that provide enrichment tangibly. 

Discerning women do see through this ploy. They know full well that men will attempt to grease the wheels to gain entrance attention. My question is, when will you realize that you are trying to lead someone to a well from which they do not want to drink ? Get better, get smarter, get real!


Thursday, April 5, 2018

Human trafficking laws will effect all sex workers

Welcome to the blog of Goddess Sydney Claire 





I had no intentions of typing up a post today, but in light of the recent SESTA/FOSTA laws awaiting a final signature to enact them into law, I felt that I needed to take a few moments to make absolutely clear my thoughts and intentions in regards to the subject.

If you are not US based, you may not have heard of these possible new laws. They were supposedly created in order to cut down on human trafficking, which remains a concerning issue even in this day and age. I am in agreement that human trafficking is a horrid practice which must be stopped, but I will not concede that the means and measures of doing so should in any form punish those that are not perpetrating it. Why should any one person be penalized for an act that they have not committed? Many will argue that the ills caused to a few for the benefit of the many is just cause, but is it really? Do you see the far reaching ramifications of this type of mindset? I hope so, but I fear that most do not.

Of course legitimate sex workers are against human trafficking, but when laws come into place targeting ALL sex workers, it becomes a shitstorm of astronomical proportions!  Some of the very people who voted upon the passage of these proposals do in fact avail themselves of the services of sex workers. How hypocritically ironic is that? 

There are petitions circulating asking that these proposals do not be enacted into law, which in all good conscious should be signed by you. As I stated above, this will avalanche until it prods into all walks of society. Doubt me? Take a look at the new policies of skype. As it stands, if you and your significant other are separated by distance, and want to engage in watching each other masturbate, or even talking naughty to each other using their service, than you will be banned. Isn't that lovely? This will eventually broach into your life, so it is in your interests to act preemptively.

Fetlife has recently apprised members of their stance in relation to the proposed law, and have decided upon the action of banning findom activities from their website. It is their right to take this action, but what they are purposely overlooking, is that findom is NOT about sex. It never was, and those that make it so, are taking fate into their own hands, but regardless, there is so much hatred for findom on the site to begin with, that it is not surprising to me that they would ban it. How many of you actually thought that findom was about paying for sex? 

Having said all of that, I want to shine light upon my own practices, so that no grey area can be slid into. 

I do not offer or engage in ANY sex acts with the submissives that serve me. Now this is definitely separate from the lifestyle submissive who serves me, and has served me for 13 years. He is exempt, and NO I am not taking on any other lifestyle submissives, only financial servants. Is that crystal clear?

I am a law abiding citizen of the US, which means that NO I will not 

1)Nude facesit with my pay pups
2)Engage in oral or anal, nor vaginal(with my female pay pups) sex with my pay pups
3)Engage in sounding, catheterization, or any activity which involves me touching a pay pups penis or vagina

The state of Kansas defines sex acts for money as prostitution, which is illegal, and I will not place myself in jeopardy for any male's desire to get off, so do not come to me with that type of expectation. Just know that your tribute freely given to me is a gift, and not payment for sexual services, else it is you scamming yourself. I will never provide sexual service for payment.

That is all for today, back to the regular pervy programming :)

 

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Drama Queen Dilemma

Welcome to my world, where Goddess Sydney rules with an iron fist of domination :)

Do any of you have twitter, or any other social media accounts? I imagine that you do, because in this day and age, everyone is listed somewhere.  A rather inane question than, is it not? I promise that I will get to the point in a minute!

When you scroll through your feed or TL do you ever roll your eyes, and cringe? I do this each and every single day. Why? The number 1 reason is dick pics, number 2 is asshole pics, number 3 is drama drama drama. 

For the purposes of this post, I am going to concentrate my thoughts upon number 3, and why it is detrimental. 

Drama kills progress and reputations, yet you see peeps engaging in it left and right. Both females and males engage in it on social media. What is the purpose behind it though?

Engaging and initiating drama is almost like holding up a sign saying 


While it may bring attention to you, I highly doubt that it will be the type you sought. Human beings are naturally drawn to the dramatic, but the majority will avoid it like the plague, especially when it comes to fetish. To some though, any attention is better than no attention, but they would be wrong. Negative attention will deter people from trusting you enough to play with. That is not a good thing. You seriously do not want to be known as the resident shit starter.  

Let's take a peek at why any male in the fetish scene would go around stirring the pot.

1)He gets off on the catfights
2)He believes that he will come out smelling like a victim that peeps will rally behind
3)Sympathy is the only way he can get attention, cause he is broke or refuses to pay tribute

Now for the female reasoning

1)The scene is over saturated with females, so they want to get their brand out in the public eye
2)They simply enjoy starting shit
3)They are jealous of the success of others, so they want to put a contender in the shade

Regardless of female or male, you are barreling down a slippery slope if drama is your primary game plan for conquering the fetish scene. Take my advice, and just say NO to it. 

For the Ladies, build your brand the old tried and true fashioned way. Sweat, blood, and tears baby. It works!

For the gents, it ain't cool to pit females against each other, and your broke/cheap ass will be put down for the count, cause patching a ripped rep is almost impossible.

Blessed day all, and may the drama not be with you!

You seriously do not want to be known as the resident shit starter. 


Monday, April 2, 2018

Judgement in the fetish scene

Welcome all to the realm where the words of Goddess Sydney transform your life 

Have you ever joined a fetish site (no I will not name and shame any one in particular) where you see a mix of lifestyle fetish folks, and professional fetish folks? If you have, you are bound to have noticed the blatant animosity brewing and spewing from the left to the right. What you see so much of if you are involved in findom is


Anger and blame assigning are the name of the game here. Whose panties are in such a wedgie in regards to Findom and Professional domination though?

1)males who are broke
2)males who are cheap
3)males who feel entitled
4)misogynists(males and females)
5)women with low self-esteem issues

Let's take a moment to probe into why each is embittered with anger towards FinDommes and Pro-Dommes shall we.

1)males who lack the financial means to tribute a FinDomme or pay for a session with a Pro-Domme are naturally going to explode at those that require financial compensation for their time, why, because it completely bars them from playing with the women that they desire to have feed their fetishes. It is no different than wanting candy, but having no money, so you illogically become angry with the vendor for charging more than you can pay. It becomes a poisonous mindset reconciled to the belief that no one should charge for effort which they supposedly love performing. This makes zero sense. Millions of people hold down positions of employment that they find enriching emotionally, but without that compensation, they would look elsewhere to fund their lifestyle. You are delusional if you believe that people work for free, and yes domination is work. 

2)males who are miserly with their coin. I know all about living a frugal life, but as well, I know that if I want quality in my life, than I am going to pay for it. You simply cannot expect a car dealership to agree to your attempts to barter down the price of a benz to the equivalent price of a mazda, so why bother trying to browbeat and cajole a dominant to accepting less than her worth? No one is forcing males to pay for sessions. males are making the decision to contact dominants who require compensation for their time and effort, so stop being a shitstain, and pay the upfront price for the luxury you desire, and yes being dominated is a luxury, not a right.

3)males with entitlement issues are seriously a pain in the ass to deal with as a dominant. Someone somewhere, at some point in time led them to believe that they should not have to pay for their wants. Whether it stems from the thought that they are the cat's meow, or they originate from a financially entitled family lineage. This is not going to get you anywhere with a FinDomme. Regardless how pretty your mirror says you are, or how big the ruler claims your dick to be, none of it matters when it comes to dominants. You will pay the same exact price as the Quasimodo dude with the 2" pecker pays. You are not special.

4)misogynists exist in all walks of life. They are male predominantly, but even some females have a hate hard on for their own sex. This does not negate their desire to "get off", but they will try to do so at the emotional expense of women. They will attempt to humiliate, degrade, or outright bash women who will not meet their desires freely. They already believe women to be walking meat stick receptacles, so please do not expect any respect or human decency towards women to be displayed by them. They are a bane to progressive society. A reject throw back to the dark ages of behavior. You will not change their opinion of women being piles of shit, so please do not waste precious moments of your life doing so.

5)women with low self-esteem are perhaps the saddest perpetrators of all. I firmly believe that women should stand together, but when you have one subset standing upon the neck of another, you are going to get no where real quick. I get why some women suffer from feeling as if they are not pretty enough, thin enough, young enough, smart enough, but dammit there is therapy for that! Do you know why so many women have issues with their appearance? MEN, that is why. Males are in charge of the media of who tells women that they must be thin, they must fit the modal of attractiveness that men have erected to suit their erections. It is men who decide who is hot, who is sexy, who is viable as a woman. My question to you is, why are you allowing men to have this power in your life? Fuck that!! a)You do NOT need a man b)You are of value as a beautiful woman, regardless of what men say (see that beauty, be that beauty). 

I personally am sick and tired of being beaten with the judgement stick. If you do not like FinDommes or Pro-Dommes, do NOT associate with them. Do not contact them. Do not tweet them, or pm them. They are not the ones "ruining" the scene, you are. Your anger is bitter, and it makes you ugly, which is why no one wants to play with you. Get on with your life, and decrease your stress levels by avoiding those that you do not agree with. It is not that difficult. It is all part and parcel of being a mature human being. So long as you stay in your own lane, you will not feel the need to cut in someone else's. Good luck, and blessings be upon you!

Sunday, April 1, 2018

Women do not want to be your comfy old slipper

Welcome all to the world where Goddess Sydney shares her words of wisdom!




Something that I am most definitely not, is your comfortable old pair of slippers just waiting for you to have use for me once again. 

I know that some of you are shaking your head saying "what the crap is she talking about?", so I am going to enlighten you in regards to the point of my post today.

There once was a male (not naming and faming him) who only came knocking at my inbox when he wanted to make use of me, and any other time he would ghost me like a sonofabitch til that time popped up again. Do you know why this pisses me off?

1)I do not appreciate males attempting to use me for their own personal gain..I know that you are laughing now, cause holy shit, isn't that what a FinDomme does to males, and the answer is more complicated than a simple yes or no.

Yes I use males for my own financial gain, but with that gain, I also expect them to follow my rules of domination, which means a)keeping in regular contact b)giving me priority in their lives c)completing all assigned tasks d)not being selfish or self-centered. Yup that is surely a butt load to expect isn't it?

What they gain from the experience is my level of control. They are free to relinquish control over that tight rope they walk in everyday life, and just give in to their desires of submission, which in turn promotes happiness for them. 

Are you beginning yet to grasp why I am peeved?

Let's digress.

2)Now not only does this male fail to keep in contact, but he is miserly with tribute, when I know full well that he spends three times as much on his own comforts than my own. Hmm does that sound like selfish and self-centered behavior? 

3)I have been so very kind in giving this male chance after chance to alter this undesirable behavior, yet it continues. I am not patience eternal, nor am I your Mother who will love and forgive you anything. I am a human being like any other (well I do consider myself pretty damn special :) which means, that even I am going to get fed up, and cut ties with those that lack basic appreciation of me. Sounds fair doesn't it? I think so. 

***Bottom line: Regardless of what role you play in my life. If you do not, cannot, or simply will not care for or about me more than you do yourself, than I do not want you playing any role in my life period.***