Drama Queen Dilemma

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Do any of you have twitter, or any other social media accounts? I imagine that you do, because in this day and age, everyone is listed somewhere.  A rather inane question than, is it not? I promise that I will get to the point in a minute!

When you scroll through your feed or TL do you ever roll your eyes, and cringe? I do this each and every single day. Why? The number 1 reason is dick pics, number 2 is asshole pics, number 3 is drama drama drama. 

For the purposes of this post, I am going to concentrate my thoughts upon number 3, and why it is detrimental. 

Drama kills progress and reputations, yet you see peeps engaging in it left and right. Both females and males engage in it on social media. What is the purpose behind it though?

Engaging and initiating drama is almost like holding up a sign saying 

While it may bring attention to you, I highly doubt that it will be the type you sought. Human beings are naturally drawn to the dramatic, but the majority will avoid it like the plague, especially when it comes to fetish. To some though, any attention is better than no attention, but they would be wrong. Negative attention will deter people from trusting you enough to play with. That is not a good thing. You seriously do not want to be known as the resident shit starter.  

Let's take a peek at why any male in the fetish scene would go around stirring the pot.

1)He gets off on the catfights
2)He believes that he will come out smelling like a victim that peeps will rally behind
3)Sympathy is the only way he can get attention, cause he is broke or refuses to pay tribute

Now for the female reasoning

1)The scene is over saturated with females, so they want to get their brand out in the public eye
2)They simply enjoy starting shit
3)They are jealous of the success of others, so they want to put a contender in the shade

Regardless of female or male, you are barreling down a slippery slope if drama is your primary game plan for conquering the fetish scene. Take my advice, and just say NO to it. 

For the Ladies, build your brand the old tried and true fashioned way. Sweat, blood, and tears baby. It works!

For the gents, it ain't cool to pit females against each other, and your broke/cheap ass will be put down for the count, cause patching a ripped rep is almost impossible.

Blessed day all, and may the drama not be with you!

You seriously do not want to be known as the resident shit starter.