This blog has been my baby for years. I have employed it to rant, to rave, to boast, to educate, to train, and to simply share a side of myself that enabled many to get to know me. I have posted hundreds of pieces, and always felt like putting my thoughts out there was a good thing, but I no longer believe that to be true.
Over the past few months I have put out a shit ton of blogs and photos, yet the work has not been appreciated tangibly by any of you. Not a single one of you aided in my blanket charity drive. Not a single one of you sent me a birthday tribute. Not a single one of you has seen fit to send me a gift for the upcoming holidays. These facts combined are quite telling to me.
None of you appreciate the time I have taken, nor the effort I have expended, so honestly I do not see the point in wasting my time further. Of course I do not expect any of you to comment upon this, or even regret your lack of action. This is not a woe is me post, this is a post reflecting that I no longer choose to invest my time in those who do not invest in my overall happiness.
I most certainly do not enjoy the feeling that I am being used by males, and that is all that you males have done over the past year, but that is over. I am just going to relax and chill over the holidays, and if I get the itch to post ever again, it will be private and shared only with those who show appreciation in findom form.
Thursday, December 20, 2018
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
Doxxing is for dickheads
Today's subject will be waxing on about the subject of doxxing.
You will see the word doxxing used quite frequently in nilla instances and fetish ones. It is a seriously offensive action. It has the potential of fatal repercussions, which it is why it is never and I mean never ever ever a joking matter. This is probably why I do not engage in blackmail play, since I am never ever going to out someone, regardless of how much you pay me.
One of the first rules you learn about in the fetish scene is safety. You play safely, and you do all within your power to be safely played with. Play has real life ramifications if done improperly. This we all know, right? I sincerely hope so.
Now in the fetish scene, it is more common than not for people to employ stage names. This is a safety measure. It is used as a line of protection to deter stalkers, and those whose intent is ill willed. Women whether you realize it or not, are more likely than men to be murdered or abused in the fetish scene, hell in the world at large, so it only makes sense that women will take steps to ensure that they are untraceable in their nilla spheres. No one should be faulting a woman for taking precautions.
A woman who uses a faux name is no less a "real Domme" than a woman who doesn't use one. The only thing she is hiding is a direct route to her person, which many of you males do as well. Males in the scene are very likely to provide a false name as well, along with refusing to post any type of photo with their face included. They reason this to be for privacy reasons due to employment, yet it is as well a form of protection of their person. No one that I know of desires to have a random fetish stranger calling their personal number, or showing up at their home without an explicit invitation. It just is not done. In fact, quite a few people compartmentalize their vanilla life far away from their fetish one, so keeping your information private is a sensible rule of thumb.
I understand that after having known someone online for a goodly amount of time that tidbits about your life and person will slip out, and this is where issues can arise. The person you had confidence in to keep your data secret suddenly turns on you. I have seen both males and females alike stoop to this unforgivable behavior. Trust is paramount in bdsm, so to see it abused is reprehensible to say the least.
I have noted males getting angry with Dommes they have served, and outing them to the public, which then opens the Domme up to possible danger. In turn I have witnessed Dommes putting a male on blast with his personal information shared, and that is vile as well. Even the threat of doxxing someone should earn you a shunning, and no I do not give a flying fuck for how successful you are in the scene, or how much money you have in your bank account, cause if you doxx or threaten to doxx anyone, you do not belong anywhere near the fetish scene. You in fact need to seek mental help immediately for your toxicity.
The best thing to do, and I really do dislike advising this course of action, but the best thing you can do to protect yourself, is to not share personal information at all with anyone. I realize that the temptation is there, but you must resist, because in the end, you may very well be putting your life at stake. Is it really worth that risk? For me, I say no, but of course you must choose your own path, but I do hope that my words have given you food for thought.
Be safe all!
You will see the word doxxing used quite frequently in nilla instances and fetish ones. It is a seriously offensive action. It has the potential of fatal repercussions, which it is why it is never and I mean never ever ever a joking matter. This is probably why I do not engage in blackmail play, since I am never ever going to out someone, regardless of how much you pay me.
One of the first rules you learn about in the fetish scene is safety. You play safely, and you do all within your power to be safely played with. Play has real life ramifications if done improperly. This we all know, right? I sincerely hope so.
Now in the fetish scene, it is more common than not for people to employ stage names. This is a safety measure. It is used as a line of protection to deter stalkers, and those whose intent is ill willed. Women whether you realize it or not, are more likely than men to be murdered or abused in the fetish scene, hell in the world at large, so it only makes sense that women will take steps to ensure that they are untraceable in their nilla spheres. No one should be faulting a woman for taking precautions.
A woman who uses a faux name is no less a "real Domme" than a woman who doesn't use one. The only thing she is hiding is a direct route to her person, which many of you males do as well. Males in the scene are very likely to provide a false name as well, along with refusing to post any type of photo with their face included. They reason this to be for privacy reasons due to employment, yet it is as well a form of protection of their person. No one that I know of desires to have a random fetish stranger calling their personal number, or showing up at their home without an explicit invitation. It just is not done. In fact, quite a few people compartmentalize their vanilla life far away from their fetish one, so keeping your information private is a sensible rule of thumb.
I understand that after having known someone online for a goodly amount of time that tidbits about your life and person will slip out, and this is where issues can arise. The person you had confidence in to keep your data secret suddenly turns on you. I have seen both males and females alike stoop to this unforgivable behavior. Trust is paramount in bdsm, so to see it abused is reprehensible to say the least.
I have noted males getting angry with Dommes they have served, and outing them to the public, which then opens the Domme up to possible danger. In turn I have witnessed Dommes putting a male on blast with his personal information shared, and that is vile as well. Even the threat of doxxing someone should earn you a shunning, and no I do not give a flying fuck for how successful you are in the scene, or how much money you have in your bank account, cause if you doxx or threaten to doxx anyone, you do not belong anywhere near the fetish scene. You in fact need to seek mental help immediately for your toxicity.
The best thing to do, and I really do dislike advising this course of action, but the best thing you can do to protect yourself, is to not share personal information at all with anyone. I realize that the temptation is there, but you must resist, because in the end, you may very well be putting your life at stake. Is it really worth that risk? For me, I say no, but of course you must choose your own path, but I do hope that my words have given you food for thought.
Be safe all!
Sunday, December 16, 2018
Bitter regrets will poison your soul
You come before me lost. You come before me unsure. You know not the way to go.
I stand before you as a living symbol of what could be. I stand before you as the breathing embodiment of Goddess.
Are you ready? Have you caught your breath...is your heart beating a staccato of anticipation? You are on the precipice. Don't look down, just close your eyes and take that step. You are ready.
I stand as the last bastion of safety in your search for the perfect Goddess. I alone stand here. Your eyes forward, you can see no other. I am the promise of purpose, the declaration of peace you have desired. Nothing and none so great as I, your Goddess.
Prostrate yourself at my feet and beg for the redemption you need. Shed the pieces of self that have dragged as chains upon you your entire life. Discard that false shell which you reflect to the world. Goddess sees you as you truly are, and finds value in your submission.
You are ready. Give yourself into my keeping. Yes I will push you. I will bend you. I will carve from you the undesirable bits, and you will be reborn as a servant of her most exalted, Goddess Sydney. You will be as never before. You will listen, you will learn, you will evolve.
Sever the threads holding you to your former self. You are ready to become...to become what you were destined to become...MINE. The sands run quickly through the hourglass..come to Goddess, lest your most poignant regretted loss at the end of your life be that of not coming to Goddess.
YOU ARE READY!
Thursday, December 13, 2018
Don't fall foul of the block hammer
Have you ever been blocked by me on a social media site, or a messenger service?
Odds are that you have not. Why? Cause I do not make a practice of blocking folks. There are only a handful of reasons that I ever block anyone.
1)You have been rude to me. Now rude can be defined in different ways. I am not talking about people who in general do not share the same views as I. I always welcome dissenting opinions, so long as they are relayed in a well mannered context..ie none of that "you are wrong you stupid bitch". You can disagree with me respectfully, yet still remain in contact with me :) FYI unsolicited dick pics are considered the height of rudeness, please don't do it.
2)You make misogynistic statements. If you do not like or even hate women, do yourself the service of not interacting with them. Sure it may make you feel all special and superior when you disparage women on the internet, but it really makes you look like a pile of steaming shit. That is not an appealing look for anyone. This does not apply to men alone, for I have seen plenty of women who like to trash fellow women as well, and they get blocked too.
3)You outright lie to me. I am going to tell you now fellas, I have been around the block more times than I can count, so pulling a fast one on me is pretty darn difficult, so let's just you some time by not expending effort in that direction at all ok. I have a definite hate hard on for liars, and will block you before you can get the delivery line out. You have been duly warned.
4)You are a bully. Ugh I detest people that nit pick at others to make themselves feel better about their own crappiness of a life. This goes as well for those that jump on the band of bullies wagon. You know what I am talking about. We have all seen where 1 person gets pissed at someone, then all of their buds pipe up in on it. That is so junior highish..just say NO.
5)You are trying to use me for your own gain. Now this can be a fine line to walk. I realize that some of you fetish guys are seeking out someone to fulfill your fetish desires, I totally get that, but if you do not intend to compensate for that woman's time, than I lose all respect for you as a human being. I do not like being taken advantage of, and at my age, you are highly unlikely to get anywhere near using me with my consent.
There ya go, a handful of reasons why I block. Don't fall foul of my blocking hand, cause it is straight up sadistic lol
***Feel free to share with me here why you block people!***
Tuesday, December 11, 2018
Don't be a stranger to Goddess Sydney Claire
I do not play with strangers
If you knew me, you would know that I have no desire to play with submissives whom I know nothing of. It brings me no pleasure, and it is actually a debbie downer for me.
Dominating a male that has taken the time to make a connection with me, ensures that we both find fulfillment within the exchange, and fulfillment is what we all seek is it not?
I definitely do not play in person with random strange males. 1)That is a safety NO NO for me, and should be for you as well. 2)It leaves me feeling cold and detached. Whilst some of you pisspots on the net do deserve a brutal ball busting session, I won't offer to engage in it without knowing you first. FYI I love nut busting :) so get to know me first, and I just might drop you to your knees lol!
All males who serve me are told flat out that real time will not be an option til they have served out an online probationary period, and there are no exceptions to this rule. Serving me online is similar to a courtship in a fetish relationship. You get to interact with me daily, learn my likes and dislikes, see a side of me that is not available for public consumption, and I gain the knowledge I require to break you to my bit:)
Getting to know someone is an exhilarating experience if done correctly. It is like foreplay for the mind. Take your time. There is no need to rush through it. It is definitely not a sprint to the finish line. Slow your roll, and keep a steady pace. You will get there in time. I prefer long term servitude anyway, so anyone that lacks the patience to get to know me properly is not going to last in my stable, and I would rather find that out early on, rather than wasting any of my precious time on someone who does not possess the same goal.
I understand how exciting it can be to come across someone that you really want to indulge your fetish with, but trying to steamroll your way into their presence is just not going to end up very well, especially for those of you seeking out someone to mindfuck your existence. Dommes need to know your buttons before they can push them doll.
Yes drive by tributes, and one off sessions with slutty nuts can be fun for me, but it really isn't my preference unless it is a slut that I have played with before. I get that some of you treat fetish like a Baskin Robbins. You want to try all 51 flavors of domination, and that is ok so long as you realize that not only will it break your piggy bank, but it may sour you on fetish altogether, cause all you are going to get is a flash bang for that buck, so unless that it really what you are looking for than I advise to avoid that type of approach. There is an upside to slutting though. Engaging with multiple Dommes ups your odds of finding that special ONE. The one that you are meant to serve long term, and that is a definite positive!
The choice of which type of Domme you serve is ultimately yours to make, but don't act like a dick when you come across a Domme that is not in to shortstack session servitude. Respect the right of a woman to decide which males she wishes to play with, and her rules of engagement. That way, if either of you ever changes your stance, you will have left the door open to the possibility! You never know what the future may hold, so don't burn those bridges bb :)
As always...amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com are a great way of saying "I appreciate you"
Friday, December 7, 2018
The W's of Findom
What
The what is Findom. You do know what Findom is don't you? If not, than why not? You know how to google don't you? Now that is a crux is it not. You lazy turds are certainly not going to want to waste your own time searching for an answer now are you? Whelp since I am an all around nice person, I am going to help you out this one time.
Findom is a fetish. A fetish in which men aka you give their money to women with no expectation of reciprocal services. Sounds pretty crazy huh? I bet. I know that most of you are scratching your balls after reading that, cause you cannot figure out why you should give your money to any woman who is not doing something for you to earn it. You are drenched in the customer mindset. The one that dictates that you should receive a product when you provide currency. This is something that you are going to have get over. You will get no where fast if you do not.
Why
Why do men give their money to women with no hope of reciprocation? They do it out of respect. They do it to convey appreciation. They do it because they cannot help but to provide, for it is ingrained within men to be providers. They do it as a form of power transfer, after all bdsm is all about the exchange of power, the relinquishment of self, and money is POWER. They do it to convey worship, a tithe, a tribute, a contribution to the life of their Goddess.
When
The whens of tribute is set via the FinDom. Of course the initial tribute should be sent prior to engagement. That is to say that you as the man should have already researched the Domme in question way before you ever approached her. Study her as you would the holy grail..quietly in awe and from a distance til you are prepared to offer her your servitude.
Once you have received the tribute schedule, do not ever think to disregard it for your own selfish intentions. A man will be judged by his adherence to his word. Be the type of man who lives up to his word. If at any point you cannot meet your obligations to your FinDom for any reason, than you need to convey to her the whys of it asap.
How much
This is not a question to ask. Sacrifice is not an option, it is a requirement of serving a FinDom. If you are not suffering to some degree from the amount of your financial contribution, than you are in essence stealing from your FinDom, and that is never acceptable. Do not be the sketchy trickster who attempts to cheapen the experience by withholding from her financially. Selfless, sacrifice, suffering, and servitude all go together hand in hand.
Is Findom for you
Findom is for all those who seek it sincerely with generosity. If you are not willing to give, to tithe, to tribute, to provide, to contribute, than no it is not for you. If you believe that you must gain other than the pleasure of enriching your Domme's life from serving than no Findom is not for you. If your only intent is to stroke your penis, than no Findom is not for you. If it does not excite you to give your money to a woman, than no Findom is not for you. If you will not commit your cash, than no Findom is not for you.
If you receive an incredible rush, a stomach full of butterflies, a lightheaded soaring, a flesh tingling feeling whenever you send tribute, than yes Findom is for you. If you cannot imagine anything more right than devoting your life and fruits of livelihood to your FinDom, than yes Findom is for you. If you are prepared to serve with all that you have, than yes Findom is for you. If you see women as Goddesses deserving of all your riches, than yes Findom is for you.
Now
You have been educated. Are you ready to begin your journey into financial servitude to a Golden Goddess? If so, than send your first tribute today to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
Getting to know all about your FemDom Goddess
Getting to know me..all about me
Many of you gents claim that you want to get to know me prior to serving or sending tribute. I get it, I really do, and it is one of the main reasons that I began this blog years ago, and why I continue to update it to this very day.
I want you to get to know me. I want you to have a firm grasp of my expectations. I want you to be informed. It will save you so much time, if you just take the time to read all about me.
You reading up on me allows you to get to know me without ever taking up a moment of my time, and that is a very good thing. Nothing irks me more than investing my time in interacting with a male who hasn't done his homework, then bails when he finds out that tribute is a requirement, and that I take domination seriously.
I am a firm believer in not purposefully wasting my own time, which is what I am doing when I give my time to someone who is not going to be serving me. You may be saying, but hey you could be making a new friend...whelp bb's I am not here to make friends with you. I don't need a new bestie, or a shoulder to cry on, so having males in my life who are not enriching it through sacrifice and service, is redundant.
I intentionally point you males to this blog in the very first exchange just to avoid wasted time. Some of you may find it cold and detached that I do not choose to chit chat with you for free, but it would be inane and pointless til you have made up your mind to serve me. Once you have sent that initial tribute, then and only then will I be willing to spare the time to see what you are all about. It may not seem fair, but there are thousands of prospective submissive males, and only 1 of me, so I get to make the rules :) and you will follow them if you want to be mine!
And now that you have taken the time to get to know me...you have my permission to send your very first tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in the form of an amazon gift card!!
Many of you gents claim that you want to get to know me prior to serving or sending tribute. I get it, I really do, and it is one of the main reasons that I began this blog years ago, and why I continue to update it to this very day.
I want you to get to know me. I want you to have a firm grasp of my expectations. I want you to be informed. It will save you so much time, if you just take the time to read all about me.
You reading up on me allows you to get to know me without ever taking up a moment of my time, and that is a very good thing. Nothing irks me more than investing my time in interacting with a male who hasn't done his homework, then bails when he finds out that tribute is a requirement, and that I take domination seriously.
I am a firm believer in not purposefully wasting my own time, which is what I am doing when I give my time to someone who is not going to be serving me. You may be saying, but hey you could be making a new friend...whelp bb's I am not here to make friends with you. I don't need a new bestie, or a shoulder to cry on, so having males in my life who are not enriching it through sacrifice and service, is redundant.
I intentionally point you males to this blog in the very first exchange just to avoid wasted time. Some of you may find it cold and detached that I do not choose to chit chat with you for free, but it would be inane and pointless til you have made up your mind to serve me. Once you have sent that initial tribute, then and only then will I be willing to spare the time to see what you are all about. It may not seem fair, but there are thousands of prospective submissive males, and only 1 of me, so I get to make the rules :) and you will follow them if you want to be mine!
And now that you have taken the time to get to know me...you have my permission to send your very first tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in the form of an amazon gift card!!
Tuesday, December 4, 2018
Down and Dirty Talk on Originality
Seriously now...can you construct an original thought? One might assume that you gents all belong to a collective hive considering that you open with the same lines of dialogue on the daily. Don't you ever tire of it? I myself would welcome a breath of fresh air when it comes to conversation. At times, even I tire of the redundant trite thread which is predictable in nature.
Do you recognize the insanity of replaying the same scenario over and over with no differing results? You pop in with meaningless compliments, and immediately bypass civility to go for the kink kill. When that does not net the outcome you desire, you then concoct baseless outrage towards your targeted audience. Finishing up with what you assume is the greatest of insults, you flounce away in a huff to seek out your next new face.
Doesn't this wear you out? Don't you ever just want to step back from the madness of the cycle, and readjust your game plan? What could it hurt, and what would it cost you to reevaluate? Answer, it would hurt nothing, and cost you a few moments, which in the end may save you future effort. It is definitely worth the investment.
Originality is an art form that you would do well to incorporate into your approach. A woman of experience knows full well when a male is coming at them with a tired line, and this tends to irritate and insult her intelligence. Did you sincerely join the fetish grind in order to flat out lose any possibility of making a D's match? I would think not, else you have wasted your own time exponentially, and that would be almost criminal.
My advice would be to slow your roll, use the brain you were given, and take the time to interact accordingly with each Domme you contact. Recognize that all individuals differ, and that if all you have to offer is your own selfishly driven agenda, than you are indeed the loser you jokingly term yourself as.
**As always..gift cards are given in appreciation. Send one today to mzsydney34@yahoo.com**
Monday, December 3, 2018
Wreck you, Ruin you, Fuck you up
Homewrecking
Do I really want to wreck your home life? Absolutely! I want to wreck YOU. I want your partner to see you for who and what you really are, then dump your ass in the dirt. You and I both know that she deserves better than you. If you were a man of any value, would you really be online sneaking on her? Nope. You are just another vile creature bound for indentured servitude at my feet. Vermin for me to torment when I remember that you even exist, which will only be when you pay tribute, otherwise you are not worthy of distinction at all. Isn't that right lol
Leave off if you expect to come to me with your ragtag fantasy of me trashing your wife with the entire "hotter than your wife" misogyny BS. I am never going to be that type of woman. Your wife is not the one who deserves to be degraded, or spoken of like refuse...YOU are, and I will take immense delight in making sure that you know exactly how low you are on the totem pole bb.
Financial Ruination
Do I really want to ruin your financially? Absolutely! Mind you that there is a difference between ruined and broken. By ruination I mean to wipe out your checkings, savings, and 401K, along with maxing out your credit cards. Now that will not leave you broken. You will still be able to work, and pay off your debt. This game is not worth engaging in though if you are already broke, note I said broke not broken. If you have no assets to liquidate or extensions of credit, than you are ineligible to play. This is a big league game, and small fries cannot handle the heat, so just stay on the sidelines sweetie.
Mindfuckery
Do I want to crawl into your mind and fuck you up to the point where I am all that you can think about? Absolutely! When you are serving a Goddess such as myself, there is no need to skulk around. No other will come close to wrapping you around their greedy little fist than I. I want it all. Everything, and I will not be kind in my means of sating my desires with your cash.
Now you tell me...do you really want to come play with ME? Do you have the balls to step into my inbox knowing exactly what I have planned for you? I hope so :)
Start the game by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Saturday, December 1, 2018
Goddess is your sun, moon, and stars
Radiant and life giving
Goddess is your moon
Illuminating your path in the dark
Goddess is your stars
She leads the way
You give to Goddess
You tithe Goddess
You contribute to the enrichment of her life
Goddess Sydney Claire is your everything
Goddess Sydney Claire is All things to you
When Goddess is happy, all is right within the world. What have you done to contribute to my happiness today?
Have you sent me a gift of tribute? Goddess loves amazon gift cards most of all. Send them often and in abundance to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Have you sent me poetry? Goddess adores the written word. I love to read the many different ways you adore and worship me. Soulful odes composed in my honor are a delight.
Have you locked yourself in chastity, and sent Goddess the key? All cocks are best when locked for Goddess.
Have you promoted my empire on social media? All males should be spreading the seed of Sydney Claire.
Serve your purpose in service to your Glorious Golden Goddess.
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