Mission, Purpose, Reasoned Existence

Welcome new and old followers alike

This very week, I decided to take my blog private. Why? Well quite honestly I simply tired of sharing my words of wisdom and submissive training with those that had not invested in me and my domination. People will always fail to appreciate that which is given freely, and submissive males are no exception to the rule. 

So for those of you who are left, let us begin in earnest shall we?

You are a man without a mission, purpose, or reason for existence. I as your divine deity, Goddess Sydney Claire am here to provide those things for you. Your mission is my happiness. Your purpose is to serve me, and serving me brings meaning to your existence. You have a calling, and a destiny which will not be denied. 

I understand your trepidation. Walking a foreign path is fraught with possible pitfalls and fright, but fear not my pet, for I am with you. I am here to lead you, to guide you in your journey towards becoming the very best submissive in service to me. You are mine to mold. I will burn you down to the base, and then undertake the task of building you back up til you resemble the submissive I seen within you. You will be stronger, you will be devoted, you will be diligent, and you will be a better human being.

I want you to begin with a simple morning mantra. 

Goddess Sydney Claire provides purpose, passion, and meaning for my existence.

Start today, and repeat it 3 times a day. Recite it every day til it is branded upon your lips. Know it, believe it, and live up to it. 

We both know that your desire is to submit yourself to me fully, else you would not be reading my words this very moment. You are bursting with excitement at the possibility of finally finding your longterm Goddess. Your heart and flesh are ready to commit, and commence. Goddess is ready and awaits your worship.

Tribute is your sacred act of worship. You will come to embrace sacrifice for Sydney Claire, for nothing and no one else matters. Others are an unwanted distraction. They separate you from your purpose, and that cannot be tolerated. You have no need, but that of Sydney Claire. I am more precious than the very air you breathe. Your eyes should always be set upon the way to pleasing me. Anything else would be sacrilegious. 

Are you ready pet? I am. Come now and abase yourself before me.

Bitter regrets will poison your soul

You come before me lost. You come before me unsure. You know not the way to go. 

I stand before you as a living symbol of what could be. I stand before you as the breathing embodiment of Goddess.

Are you ready? Have you caught your breath...is your heart beating a staccato of anticipation? You are on the precipice. Don't look down, just close your eyes and take that step. You are ready.

I stand as the last bastion of safety in your search for the perfect Goddess. I alone stand here. Your eyes forward, you can see no other. I am the promise of purpose, the declaration of peace you have desired. Nothing and none so great as I, your Goddess.

Prostrate yourself at my feet and beg for the redemption you need. Shed the pieces of self that have dragged as chains upon you your entire life. Discard that false shell which you reflect to the world. Goddess sees you as you truly are, and finds value in your submission.

You are ready. Give yourself into my keeping. Yes I will push you. I will bend you. I will carve from you the undesirable bits, and you will be reborn as a servant of her most exalted, Goddess Sydney. You will be as never before. You will listen, you will learn, you will evolve.

Sever the threads holding you to your former self. You are ready to become...to become what you were destined to become...MINE. The sands run quickly through the hourglass..come to Goddess, lest your most poignant regretted loss at the end of your life be that of not coming to Goddess. 

YOU ARE READY!

Getting to know all about your FemDom Goddess

Getting to know me..all about me

Many of you gents claim that you want to get to know me prior to serving or sending tribute. I get it, I really do, and it is one of the main reasons that I began this blog years ago, and why I continue to update it to this very day.

I want you to get to know me. I want you to have a firm grasp of my expectations. I want you to be informed. It will save you so much time, if you just take the time to read all about me.

You reading up on me allows you to get to know me without ever taking up a moment of my time, and that is a very good thing. Nothing irks me more than investing my time in interacting with a male who hasn't done his homework, then bails when he finds out that tribute is a requirement, and that I take domination seriously. 

I am a firm believer in not purposefully wasting my own time, which is what I am doing when I give my time to someone who is not going to be serving me. You may be saying, but hey you could be making a new friend...whelp bb's I am not here to make friends with you. I don't need a new bestie, or a shoulder to cry on, so having males in my life who are not enriching it through sacrifice and service, is redundant. 

I intentionally point you males to this blog in the very first exchange just to avoid wasted time. Some of you may find it cold and detached that I do not choose to chit chat with you for free, but it would be inane and pointless til you have made up your mind to serve me. Once you have sent that initial tribute, then and only then will I be willing to spare the time to see what you are all about. It may not seem fair, but there are thousands of prospective submissive males, and only 1 of me, so I get to make the rules :) and you will follow them if you want to be mine! 

And now that you have taken the time to get to know me...you have my permission to send your very first tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in the form of an amazon gift card!!

Down and Dirty Talk on Originality

Some days I have to wonder if any of you ever get tired of swallowing the same BS day in day out, just so that you can regurgitate it on the regular.

Seriously now...can you construct an original thought?  One might assume that you gents all belong to a collective hive considering that you open with the same lines of dialogue on the daily. Don't you ever tire of it? I myself would welcome a breath of fresh air when it comes to conversation. At times, even I tire of the redundant trite thread which is predictable in nature. 

Do you recognize the insanity of replaying the same scenario over and over with no differing results? You pop in with meaningless compliments, and immediately bypass civility to go for the kink kill. When that does not net the outcome you desire, you then concoct baseless outrage towards your targeted audience. Finishing up with what you assume is the greatest of insults, you flounce away in a huff to seek out your next new face.

Doesn't this wear you out? Don't you ever just want to step back from the madness of the cycle, and readjust your game plan? What could it hurt, and what would it cost you to reevaluate? Answer, it would hurt nothing, and cost you a  few moments, which in the end may save you future effort. It is definitely worth the investment.

Originality is an art form that you would do well to incorporate into your approach. A woman of experience knows full well when a male is coming at them with a tired line, and this tends to irritate and insult her intelligence. Did you sincerely join the fetish grind in order to flat out lose any possibility of making a D's match? I would think not, else you have wasted your own time exponentially, and that would be almost criminal.

My advice would be to slow your roll, use the brain you were given, and take the time to interact accordingly with each Domme you contact. Recognize that all individuals differ, and that if all you have to offer is your own selfishly driven agenda, than you are indeed the loser you jokingly term yourself as.  

**As always..gift cards are given in appreciation. Send one today to mzsydney34@yahoo.com**

Wreck you, Ruin you, Fuck you up

Homewrecking
Do I really want to wreck your home life? Absolutely! I want to wreck YOU. I want your partner to see you for who and what you really are, then dump your ass in the dirt. You and I both know that she deserves better than you. If you were a man of any value, would you really be online sneaking on her? Nope. You are just another vile creature bound for indentured servitude at my feet. Vermin for me to torment when I remember that you even exist, which will only be when you pay tribute, otherwise you are not worthy of distinction at all. Isn't that right lol
Leave off if you expect to come to me with your ragtag fantasy of me trashing your wife with the entire "hotter than your wife" misogyny BS. I am never going to be that type of woman. Your wife is not the one who deserves to be degraded, or spoken of like refuse...YOU are, and I will take immense delight in making sure that you know exactly how low you are on the totem pole bb. 

Financial Ruination
Do I really want to ruin your financially? Absolutely! Mind you that there is a difference between ruined and broken. By ruination I mean to wipe out your checkings, savings, and 401K, along with maxing out your credit cards. Now that will not leave you broken. You will still be able to work, and pay off your debt. This game is not worth engaging in though if you are already broke, note I said broke not broken. If you have no assets to liquidate or extensions of credit, than you are ineligible to play. This is a big league game, and small fries cannot handle the heat, so just stay on the sidelines sweetie.

Mindfuckery
Do I want to crawl into your mind and fuck you up to the point where I am all that you can think about? Absolutely! When you are serving a Goddess such as myself, there is no need to skulk around. No other will come close to wrapping you around their greedy little fist than I. I want it all. Everything, and I will not be kind in my means of sating my desires with your cash.  

Now you tell me...do you really want to come play with ME? Do you have the balls to step into my inbox knowing exactly what I have planned for you? I hope so :) 

Start the game by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Goddess is your sun, moon, and stars

Goddess is your sun
Radiant and life giving

Goddess is your moon
Illuminating your path in the dark

Goddess is your stars
She leads the way

You give to Goddess

You tithe Goddess

You contribute to the enrichment of her life

Goddess Sydney Claire is your religion

Goddess Sydney Claire is your everything

Goddess Sydney Claire is All things to you

 What have you done today to make Goddess smile down upon you in happiness?

When Goddess is happy, all is right within the world. What have you done to contribute to my happiness today?

Have you sent me a gift of tribute? Goddess loves amazon gift cards most of all. Send them often and in abundance to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Have you sent me poetry? Goddess adores the written word. I love to read the many different ways you adore and worship me. Soulful odes composed in my honor are a delight.

Have you locked yourself in chastity, and sent Goddess the key? All cocks are best when locked for Goddess.

Have you promoted my empire on social media? All males should be spreading the seed of Sydney Claire. 

Serve your purpose in service to your Glorious Golden Goddess. 
 

Are you what I am searching for?

The type of male who catches my eye
Do you ever wonder what kind of male it is that gets my attention, that piques my interest, and eventually ends up in my stable of submissives? Well sit right down, because I am going to tell you all about him :)

I like manly men
Men that are ambitious go getters in the world. Yup these are purely masculine men. They are not weak. They are not spineless. They are not doormats to be walked upon. Sounds like an alpha male yes? Well, yes and no.

Alpha but yet not
Definitely dominant in the workplace, but the switch gets flipped when they come under my heel. I am the only person in the entire universe that they will kneel before. I absolutely adore a strong man on his knees for me. Not necessarily am I stating that he must be a brawny man physically, but his strength of will, intellect, and drive is undeniable. He walks tall, and proud of his masculinity. He is a leader in his profession, but my pet in his private life. To me alone will he relinquish control. 

Why a feminized man will never suit me in submissive service

I have in the past trained males who were quite feminine, and I found it to be annoying as hell. They were needy, passive aggressive, and more hormonal than I. There can only be 1 woman in my relationships, and I have filled that position. A man who wants to be me, will never truly serve me. Now this is not to say that I do not enjoy putting my men in panties, for I do, but only so that they may appreciate the erotic sensation of lace and silk upon their flesh. Human beings can be quite tactile, and having something soft rubbing against your skin equates to a happy feeling :)

Why not a switch than
I am not in the least bit submissive, therefore I do not believe that a switch male would ever be satisfied with serving me long term, and long term is ALWAYS my goal when it comes to femdom relationships. I lead, and they follow, but a switch man is more likely to get the itch to take the reins, and I will not allow that, so I find it best to avoid the possibility of such conflict. 

Bratty boys are a bother
My longest serving boy is dubbed my brat, but he is anything but bratty. He understands that it is my will which holds dominion in our relationship, and deviation from acceptable behavior in the hopes of forcing my hand will be met with a cold shoulder. My life is complicated enough without the addition of those who subscribe to chaotic behavior.  

Just say NO to the kinky fetishist
A fetishists desires revolve around their fetish as a rule. They are geared towards getting off and getting out. They are basically the equivalent of a vanilla one night stand, and I avoid those like the black plague. Indeed they can be fun for a session or two, but they are not long term material generally. I will not deny that I have dabbled with them once or twice, but to truly satisfy me, I need long term, so unless you catch me in just the right mood, I am going to have to take a pass. 

Which type are you? 

As always, gift cards are lovely display of appreciation for my time sharing my mind with you :) 

Free Task Tuesday for Chastity gents

Free Task Tuesday

Some of you most likely seen my twitter post yesterday about a free task I am offering for chastity males only.

I am going to outline the task here for you.

Rules
1)You must currently be in a chastity device
2)You must be unowned

Tis the Holiday season and Goddess wants to be entertained, which is just one of your duties :) Now onto your task.

I want a video (no face) of silver bells attached to the device, and the bells are to ring out in time with the song jingle bells. It will be my own version of jingle balls lol

Submit the completed task to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Frosty Cock in Chastity

Winter is the best time to start your cock lock journey
Why is it the best time though? 

Because it is cold outside
Being as it is cold outside, you are able to dress in layers, and loose baggy clothing, unlike in the summer time when you are basically forced to dress down to the least amount of clothing. This affords you the distinct opportunity to cover up that cock cage in public settings most effectively. Keeping your chastity cage a secret is difficult to do when you are wearing shorty shorts in the dead hot heat of summer lol Not to mention that the little demon in your pants is less likely to be popping it's head up when it is 10 below outside, cause walking out in the brisk winds of winter makes a shriveled mockery of your manhood anyway. Another benefit to cold weather chastity, is that when your willie gets frosty, it is not going to be straining at the bit to get loose and create havoc, which means less pain for you since erections in a cage cause constriction of your cock..ie ouch! That is a definite plus!

It will make your winter more productive
Ever notice how in the cold months, all of your activities are mainly sedentary and indoors? You sit around bitching and moaning about how cold it is, while you are downloading porn in the hopes that you can seduce your hand. Nothing gets done, except your dicklet making a mess on the keyboard, and who has time for cleaning up after his ass, so do yourself a favor, and lock that cock today. Now you can get on with getting productive. You will find yourself able to concentrate on getting more out of your life without his obtrusive presence constantly calling on you to selfishly pleasure him. Haven't you allowed him to take up too much of your precious time as it is? Make the choice to give him the cold shoulder by locking him away under a cold steel chastity cage :) and freeze him out by tossing the key into a container of water in your freezer. 

Your cock will be conditioned to keep calm
By the time summer rolls around, your cock will no longer be caterwauling to be set free. It will become your good boy, so that you can get out to enjoy the sunshine without worrying he is going to call undue attention to you at the beach. No one likes pervs at the beach popping a pup tent. Save yourself that embarrassment. You and I both know that you only lose out when women find out that you got the short end of the stick so to speak. You don't need that type of rejection. You are way better suited to locking that jolly joke away for Goddess anyway :)

So be MY good boy, and commit to chastity today!

And as always, don't forget to send an amazon gift card as a display of your undying appreciation to mzsydney34@yahoo.com, and feel free to leave your comments, thoughts, or opinions on today's post!!

**Note, I have a free chastity task for unowned males who are interested**

 

How to approach ME 101

Hello gentlemen

Do you want to know how to interact with me for the very first time? I realize that I can be an intimidating force of nature lol, but it really is easier than you would imagine.

I do want you to understand though, that your initial message to me is going to set the tone for how I respond.

These are the things that you do NOT want to start off with

1)An obvious generic copy and paste message

2)Your autobiography

3)Your bank details, or any type of passwords

4)Dick pics

5)Photos that you want exposed

6)Addressing me in what I find to be passive aggressive demeaning terms ie hey sexy, bb, sugar, honey, girl

7)Giving me a list of your turn ons

8)Telling me that I make your dick hard

9)Relaying what you want to do to me

10)Stating what you want me to do to you

I think that you gents get so carried away with your fetishes, that you forget entirely that the person you are interacting with is a person too. 

If you are a smart gent, you will have already read my profiles, tweets, blogs, website etc. You will be well acquainted with my expectations in regards to submissive behavior I deem acceptable and pleasing, so all of the mostly inane chit chat will not be necessary, for you are informed.
I honestly do not care to "shoot the shit" with random strangers, or answer questions that are already answered in my profile. 

I want you coming into my inbox already prepared to tribute and serve, because if you aren't, than you have not put in any effort in getting to know me at all, and that is unacceptable. The fact that I include findom in ALL of my femdom exchanges is widely known, so this should not be coming as a shock to you, and if you do not know what findom is, than google it gents. 

As well, it should be plain as day to you that I am to be addressed as Goddess, or Mz..no deviation. It may seem old school, but in my estimation, it is about respect, and I do not tolerate disrespect. 

Believe me when I say that you want to start off on the right footing with me, because I am not a big believer in allotting second chances. I understand that you may be nervous and in awe of me, so you may flub up a bit in your communication,which is ok, but never do so intentionally gents. 

I can be one of the easiest going Dommes you will ever talk to, but at no time am I ever not the dominant in the exchange, and I have zero issues booting you out my door if you forget it. As well, I am a genuine sweetheart to those who treat me with all of the deference due to a Goddess. To those who are generous with their time, attention, and financial worship of me, I am most benevolent :) Regardless though, I will ignore you into non-existence if you ill treat my kindness. My kindness has never been a weakness. 

If it is not apparent to you as of yet, I will speak plainly. I do not want you to fear approaching me if you are sincere in your desire to serve me. In fact I always welcome males into my sect who have proven that they are intent on putting my happiness above their own, my fetishes above their own, and my comfort above their own. If this resonates, than you are what I seek, and I bid you to come beg an audience..I did tell you that I adore when males beg, didn't I  lol

No time for fuckboys

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Happy Birthday to your Favorite FinDom Goddess

Today is the day you have been waiting all year for! Let's get this party started correctly shall we?? How does one start off this special day, by giving thanks of course. Thanks that on this day, your divine Goddess was born!!

All year long I share myself with you. I open my mind, and divulge wisdom, guidance, and support of your darkest fantasies, which is why you will do no other than to go out of your way, and into debt making sure that this is the best possible birthday for me! My birthday wishes become the desires you must sate, and you definitely need to pleasure me :)

Go big laddies, and spend hardcore for me today. You and I both know that I deserve the very best life has to offer, and it is your honor to provide my luxuries. 

Get ready, get set...spend and send me a big juicy amazon gift card!!! mzsydney34@yahoo.com is where your gift to me goes gents :)

That's the story of Findom

Sit right down my lovely little gents whilst I tell you a story, the story..the story of findom

There once was a lonely forgotten man who wanted nothing more than to be noticed by the eyes of a deity, but he lacked the courage to do more than dream of the day he would at last shine in the glory of her presence. Needless to say, he was a very sad little man in his day to day life. He was just another face in a misbegotten place. 

He drudged and he toiled at a 9-5 job, never moving up. He stagnated in his little cubicle to the point that even the cobwebs sought to decorate him. How pitiful this little man came to be, and all who seen him acted as if he did not exist, unless they had an undesirable task to slide off onto him. You could always count on him for that much, for he simply had no life, and no friends to speak highly of him. Poor little forgotten soul.

Years passed by, before his gumption kicked him in the gut, and he declared to the heavens that he would suffer this lack of living no more. He became determined to reach for his dream. He was going to do whatever it took to finally catch the attention of his most beloved Goddess.  

How does one go about it though, he pondered. He definitely needed a plan, so he sat all night til the stars began to fade, and thought and thought. Oh however was he going to get her to see him, when lo and behold an epiphany seared across his thoughts. He had it! 

That very day he typed up a missive like none he had ever put into words before. He declared to her that he would be the very best servant ever, that he would do anything, be anything she required. Surely that will prove to her that I am worthy of serving her!! He hit the send button before he could change his mind out of cowardice, then waited, and waited, and waited some more. Alas she did not answer him back. Where had he gone wrong...maybe she just did not receive it, so he sat down once more and this time shared his life story with her, making sure to include how he really really really wanted to serve her, and hit the send button again. His stomach was tied in knots waiting on her reply.

He waited moments, then hours, which drifted into days, til he could no longer refuse to accept that she was not going to respond. What could he do? I got it, he thought! He followed the trail of her social media account, and read all that she ever said. He could not believe how stupid he had been..it had been there all along. She was not looking for words. She required action. Action based upon sacrifice. She wanted him to let go of what he wanted, and to embrace instead, what she wants. He would have to scrape away what once was, and begin anew. A new beginning for him with a brand new him.

This time he would not fail! He created an amazon account right away, and sent her the largest financial sacrifice that he could afford, along with a note that said "all that I am, and all that I have belongs to you my divine deity, do with it what you will". His hands were shaking as he sent the gift and note. He felt faint with anticipation as the clock ticked so slow in his ears. Ding ding...message received. Oh my oh my oh my...she had messaged him!! He swallowed so hard his throat hurt, but he opened her email with a soft sigh. He could not believe his eyes! 

She said "My little sad forgotten man, I have waited for you to understand, and now that you have shown yourself as a man who sees beyond himself, you may at last address me as my servant, for you have stripped from yourself all that was selfish, and kneel before me now as selfless little sam".

His dream, his fantasy, his lifelong quest granted. 

Be a man of action

Gentlemen, my dudes, take a seat...

There is so much hoopla being posted about the need for verification of females in the findom fetish scene, that it is simply unreal lol. 

You as males in this scene NEED to wrap your head around a few facts. You are the submissives ie subservients aka slaves. It is your job to research any female that you are considering offering your service to. Get that, YOUR JOB! You are expected to expend your time going through her social media, web site, clip store if she has one to ascertain for yourself that she is exactly what she represents herself to be. It is not her job to hop on cam for your gratification before you have even sent an initial tribute. Sheesh, suffering from much entitlement??

The problem is twofold, 1) You males are lazy as fuck 2) You males always look for free jerk opportunities 
So, when you go around demanding that females verify themselves on cam or with a photo (your name on it of course) ya, you are outing yourself  as either number 1. or number 2. Of course I expect to get shit rained on me, cause holy hell didn't I know that males have been scammed before?? Fuck yes I know this, but it is all their own fault. You heard me right...IT IS ALL THEIR OWN FAULT. No pity, and no fucks given.

You should be studying any female you are thinking about approaching...study her like you would a work of art. If the shading is a bit too heavy, than back the fuck off, and start your search anew. Do not, and I repeat, do not allow your dick to do the deciding. He will fuck you all kinds of up. 

And don't even get me started on the whiners who refuse to part with a small tribute to get to know a female. If you refuse to invest even a small amount, than you are refuse from the get go. True you may not mesh with a female, but by not even sending the bare minimum amount of tribute, all you are saying, is that you do not value a woman's time. I really do not give a flying fark if you cannot even afford a small tribute to every single dominant you desire to interact with. Either save up til you can, limit the number of dominants you approach, or gtfo out the fetish, cause you are giving me a headache with your bellyaching. 

I am telling you right now that dominant women do know a good boy when they come into contact with one, and he is not a whiner or bitcher. He values women's time, and attention. He has already taken the time to research a woman before he approaches her, so he knows fairly well if she is what he is looking for, and if she is who she says she is. He tributes without demands or expectations, as he appreciates her time interacting with him, and is grateful for the opportunity in coming to know her. These actions or lack thereof are what set good boys apart from wanking slackers, so you have been forewarned. Get it together, and act right from the start.

You remind me of my period

Ugh, the title sounds rather unappealing doesn't it? Yup it does, but it is true nonetheless. 

Some of you cum only once a month sliding into my inbox unexpectedly, and without prior notice. You cum to make a mess, and leave behind your trash for me to take out. Not very nice of you. Stop being a bother rather than a blessing in my life!

Do you want to know the worst part of it all...you attempt to exit without paying a single cent. You want to take your jollies and jet, leaving me empty handed. Tsk tsk tsk!

Small and large tributes are always welcome in my findom slice of the queendom, but if you are not a regular visitor to my fief, and you are miserly to boot, well I would rather not deal with you. It is one thing to send a small tribute respectfully, and expect no contact, but to cheap out, and demand attention too is a no go.  Cheapness is an ugly affliction which I do not care to be exposed to. 

It may indeed be inexpensive to serve your cock, but serving a woman is an entirely different experience, and we are not impressed with penny pinchers in the least. We do have standards unlike that puke stick in your pants. We require a well mannered finesse..an appreciation of our presence. Women are a luxury, which most of you cannot afford on a full time basis, and that is all well and good, but when you are in our inbox, you need to be as generous as possible. Being generous is one of the hallmarks of a gentleman, and a gentleman is always preferred.

Sure, the cretins within your ranks cuddle misogyny (in the form of freebie seekers) close to their rotten hearts, which is why they treat women as if they possess no tangible value, but they easily out themselves with word and deed, so I fret not about being fooled by them. You good man, certainly do not want to be counted among their ranks, now do you?

Your goal is to shine and serve. To be recognized, and to be useful. You love being of use to a woman, and realize that in order to be of use, you must be generous. Generosity is a golden quality. A quality which earns notice, and leads to a welcome mat being extended out for your company. Women will unfailingly appreciate a male who is intelligent enough to embrace the fact that women are to be worshiped, spoiled, and revered. You want to be one of those males don't you? Of course you do :)

You want to be a good boy. You want to bask in a woman's approval when you have done a good job for her. You certainly do not want to be like a period...dreaded, cursed, and wished away. No, you want only to bring happiness to a woman. You want her to smile when she thinks of how well you serve her, and a woman's smile is priceless, so get to it gents. Get to serving generously. Gift, spoil, and make me smile today :)

Punishment as a tool of training a submissive male

Did you know that punishment is intended to deter and correct behavior, rather than to encourage and condone it? Punishment is generally not something that people seek out, for it tends to have painful consequences. You will find though in the fetish scene that certain masochists will court it with regularity, and will use any means to be the recipient of it.

I being the sadist that I am, refuse to tailor my methodology of punishment into a fun activity, so if I know or can logically deduct that a submissive enjoys physical punishment, than I do not offer punishment in a physical form to them. They are the ones who will receive ignore time. After all, a day without my presence is a punishment that no submissive should ever desire. 

On the whole I would say that I am a fair minded dominant, and it will require a major infraction or repeated occurrences to incur punishment from me. I realize that most errors made by submissives are due to not having the rules spelled out clearly in advance, which is why I do my very best to make my expectations and requirements known from the onset. 

None of what I am saying will detract from the efforts of internet trolls to get their humiliation "punishment" fix though. You know the type I am referencing. They pop into the inbox of dominants spewing vile sentiments in the hope of receiving a torrent of humiliating backlash which feeds their fetish, and I for one do not engage. By not engaging, I am denying the perp their pleasure,and this sates my sadism :) Why on earth would I or any other dominant opt to reward subversive attempts to receive pleasure from play we have not consented to?

I realize that some people in the scene, dominants and submissives alike do partake of role play punishments. You know the game...you have been a bad boy, and now I am going to punish you in the way that excites you the most. Whelp I am not one of those people. In service to me, punishment is a serious consequence of ill desired actions, that requires reprogramming. Submissives will either learn from my corrective actions, or they will be let go without a return ticket.

I honestly have no interest in how other dominants choose to punish, or if they even punish at all, but in my queendom, you will tow the line, or be banished. 

Ah sorry, not sorry to suck all the fun out of your funishment fantasy.

Never settle for less than you deserve

Believe it or not, I actually do know exactly which type of submissive male I seek out in service to me.

There have been 3 males who have remained in my memory as being worthy of the distinction of belonging to me, and this is what they have in common.

1)single male

2)selfless in service

3)acted in ways that made their desire for my happiness evident

4)were not interested in a sexual relationship with me

5)were not motivated by the intent to gain gratification for themselves in the relationship 

6)displayed loyalty

7)were polite at all times with me

8)were honest

9)able to articulate intelligently

10)made me smile (this is a rarity) 

The thing is, that once you know what you seek, you are less likely to accept anything less than what you desire. When a male who does not embody what I listed above approaches me, I already know that it is a waste of my time, and I have no conflict of conscious about making it known. This is just one of the many reasons why males have a tendency to label me a bitch.

I am ok with being called a bitch in this instance, and even though it is volleyed with ill intent, it remains true, cause if refusing to waste mine or someone's time is what constitutes the definition of being a bitch, than I will proudly wear the button.

I am old enough to realize that immortality is not attainable, so one must live their life with the realization that happiness is the ultimate goal, and act accordingly, even if it appears to others that cruelty is in play. You sincerely at times must be cruel to be kind, for why would any male want to employ his time attempting to court my good will, when he falls far from what I will accept? That would be encouraging insanity, and I am not fool enough to do so.

So please realize that when I deny you the opportunity to serve me, it is not personal for me, even though it may sting your ego. Eventually you will connect with a female whose expectations align with what you are willing to offer, so keep on keeping on :)

Faux submission is real disappointment

Sustainability when it comes to faking submission is unattainable. Your disingenuousness will mar any experience you engage in. Do you comprehend what I am conveying?

 Allow me to break it down further for you.

Many of you are new to the fetish scene, and you honestly do not know where you fall on the spectrum of submission, so you take a page from the fake it til you make it playbook, and parrot puke the sentiments and sentences which you see other males regurgitating with regularity. The problem with this scenario, is that your credibility will be called into question with alacrity. You simply cannot convincingly stick to a script which you yourself have not written, and it is blatantly obvious to any keen observer. 

My advice to you, is to cease playing a role, and allow yourself to be you. Odds are that you are not even submissive at all. Most of the males I encounter who are new to the foray are fetishists, or just plain horny ass guys looking to bust a nut. There is a place in the scene for you if you are not submissive, but that place is not in active service to a Domme. You are best suited to being a customer. 
Confine yourself to purchasing clips and sessions from the females who appeal to your dicklet, cause that is what you are here for anyway...to please yourself, and it is a disservice to attempt to disguise your intentions.

Now if you happen to find along the way, that you enjoy the thought of pleasing a woman in a non-sexual way, then by all means rethink your categorization of self. You may find that you are one of the rare few who are capable of evolving past the selfishness of self, and at that point you will be welcomed into the stable of free roaming submissives who orbit the world of female domination. 

Regardless of your role in the femdom arena, one day with luck, prayer, patience, and perseverance, you may one day find yourself at the feet

of a living, breathing deity...Goddess Sydney Claire

No greater joy in life

"The meaning of life is to give life a meaning." Goddess gives meaning to your life through purpose.

Serving Sydney Claire is the very most meaningful thing you will ever do with your life. The impact she will have on your life is more profound than any other experience you have encountered. A moment at her divine feet is far grander than a lifetime of breath stealing adventures. 

I imagine that you did not believe that you would ever find yourself in such a position of longing. Longing to belong to a woman of class and distinction. Your ego comes crashing down around you, for in your deepest recesses, you know that you will never be worthy of wearing her collar. 

She alone speaks to the finer aspects of your soul. Without having ever spoken a word to her, she becomes your sun, moon, and stars. You worship even the very air that she exhales, for it has been a part of her being, and you the lowly creature you are, shall never be within her. 

You merely existed before her, but now you live in color. Color that she has painted before your eyes. You are joyous, you are grateful, you are in awe. 

The prevailing thoughts streaking through your mind are 

1)How can I make her life better

2)How can I make her life easier

The answers to these 2 questions form the basis of your daily mantra.

"I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life better. I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life easier."

Recite your mantra morning, noon, and night. It frees your mind of confusion, and distraction, and allows you to focus on what matters most in your lifetime....Sydney Claire. Your Goddess, your deity, your beloved Beauty.  

No words need spoken henceforth, simply sacrifice and send to show your affection, appreciation, and utterly undying adoration of Sydney Claire.
 

Am I really a submissive male?

What makes you a submissive? This is a question I pose with regularity to those who approach me wanting to serve. I tend to get responses which run the gamut of mundane all the way to the ridiculous. Do you know what makes you a submissive? Most likely you really aren't even submissive at all. Shocking eh? 

Here are some things that many will tout as their claim to submission.

1)Masturbating
People across the poles masturbate. It isn't submissive, or even kinky.

2)I like to watch people fuck
There is an entire booming industry which supplies folks with visual media featuring people fucking, and I do mean a booming industry, which means that tons of individuals are purchasing this material, so watching people fuck is not even edgy in the least, nor is it submissive. You may come back with "but I watch femdom porn, so I must be submissive", sorry sam, but watching is not being submissive.

3)I like to eat pussy
People have been eating pussy since the dawn of time son, and will be til the end of time. It isn't submissive or even taboo. It is natural, and only submissive when it is something that is not done in order to facilitate your own pleasure. 

4)I like to eat ass
Ok this one remains a bit out there, but I have seen more and more people vocalizing their desire to engage in it, but again, if you are doing it just to gratify yourself, well than, it isn't submissive.

5)I like to suck cock
Yup, right along with roughly a quarter of the world's population. By now you should be getting the gist of why this does not make you a submissive. You doing it because you want to does not qualify you for the submissive label.

The point I am trying to convey is that, it is not an action that makes a submissive. It is the intent behind the action. Does that make sense to you?

Let's run a scenario here. Ok, sam is a heterosexual male whose pain threshold is quite low. Now sam comes to serve a dominant woman who wants him to suck a cock while she paddles his ass bloody. Naturally a heterosexual male with low pain tolerance would say hell to the NO, but sam doesn't. sam wants to please his dominant, so he does exactly what she required of him, even though he does not take pleasure in the activities, but rather his pleasure comes from pleasing his dominant. Do you see the difference now?

If the driving purpose of you serving, is to get yourself off, and feed your desires, well than you are simply a selfish male, and that is far more common than a submissive male. You are not alone. In fact you are just another dick in the sea of selfish dicks. You are not unique, and in no way special. You are the least sought out in the pool of males in the fetish scene, even if you do have deep pockets. You are redundant and irrelevant, except for your dollars, and that is the only thing that will keep females coming back to play with you, so I suggest that you make that cash rain down upon their heads if you want to be invited to the party.

Genuine submissives on the other hand are rare gems. They are wired to sacrifice and submit. They do not haggle, bargain, or look for ways to subvert submission. They give their all in the hope of pleasing. They have evolved to the point where they only seek to serve. They serve in any manner requested or expected of them, and utter no complaints about it.

So you tell me, are you submissive or just a selfish shit?