Am I really a submissive male?

What makes you a submissive? This is a question I pose with regularity to those who approach me wanting to serve. I tend to get responses which run the gamut of mundane all the way to the ridiculous. Do you know what makes you a submissive? Most likely you really aren't even submissive at all. Shocking eh? 

Here are some things that many will tout as their claim to submission.

1)Masturbating
People across the poles masturbate. It isn't submissive, or even kinky.

2)I like to watch people fuck
There is an entire booming industry which supplies folks with visual media featuring people fucking, and I do mean a booming industry, which means that tons of individuals are purchasing this material, so watching people fuck is not even edgy in the least, nor is it submissive. You may come back with "but I watch femdom porn, so I must be submissive", sorry sam, but watching is not being submissive.

3)I like to eat pussy
People have been eating pussy since the dawn of time son, and will be til the end of time. It isn't submissive or even taboo. It is natural, and only submissive when it is something that is not done in order to facilitate your own pleasure. 

4)I like to eat ass
Ok this one remains a bit out there, but I have seen more and more people vocalizing their desire to engage in it, but again, if you are doing it just to gratify yourself, well than, it isn't submissive.

5)I like to suck cock
Yup, right along with roughly a quarter of the world's population. By now you should be getting the gist of why this does not make you a submissive. You doing it because you want to does not qualify you for the submissive label.

The point I am trying to convey is that, it is not an action that makes a submissive. It is the intent behind the action. Does that make sense to you?

Let's run a scenario here. Ok, sam is a heterosexual male whose pain threshold is quite low. Now sam comes to serve a dominant woman who wants him to suck a cock while she paddles his ass bloody. Naturally a heterosexual male with low pain tolerance would say hell to the NO, but sam doesn't. sam wants to please his dominant, so he does exactly what she required of him, even though he does not take pleasure in the activities, but rather his pleasure comes from pleasing his dominant. Do you see the difference now?

If the driving purpose of you serving, is to get yourself off, and feed your desires, well than you are simply a selfish male, and that is far more common than a submissive male. You are not alone. In fact you are just another dick in the sea of selfish dicks. You are not unique, and in no way special. You are the least sought out in the pool of males in the fetish scene, even if you do have deep pockets. You are redundant and irrelevant, except for your dollars, and that is the only thing that will keep females coming back to play with you, so I suggest that you make that cash rain down upon their heads if you want to be invited to the party.

Genuine submissives on the other hand are rare gems. They are wired to sacrifice and submit. They do not haggle, bargain, or look for ways to subvert submission. They give their all in the hope of pleasing. They have evolved to the point where they only seek to serve. They serve in any manner requested or expected of them, and utter no complaints about it.

So you tell me, are you submissive or just a selfish shit?