Lovely start to my New Years Eve...thank you to a good pet for the lovely gift I got in the postage today :)

Some evenings I like to play around with my cam...you can thank me in the form of amazon gift cards for the honor of allowing you to view the beauty which is me :)

tic toc frenzy

Do you hear the clock ticking? Can you feel your heartbeat pounding in time with it? Are you like Alice's rabbit...running around like you are late? If so,then you are not alone.

Sadly it is actually humorous to see all the little brand spanking new boys scrambling about in an attempt to get owned up right away. I mean isn't that what it's all about anyway? The euphoric rush of getting exactly what you want when you want it. You enter the scene,make your desires known,and wham bam thank you Ma'am you're now owned. Gosh isn't it wonderful!!!

Of course that is until you take a step back(do be a good boy and remove your dick from your hand first) and look around. What do you see? Oopsy people are laughing at you,and not in the good(oh humiliate me for being a loser)way...nope you have now through your own inept actions made it clear that you are a dumbass sans an ounce of common sense. That is what happens when you allow your actions to be led by the little head.

No worries though little grasshopper,you are not the only one being laughed at. The key is for you to learn from this experience. Will you grow and take this lesson to heart,or will you wander around like one of little bo peeps sheep is the question.

We all start somewhere,and everyone one of us in the fetish scene have made mistakes(regardless whether they have seen the light of day),but those with the longevity required to last,do strive to turn the negative into a positive,so do not flagellate yourself over the fact that you jumped into a situation entirely too quickly. You are not the first nor will you be the last to join the scene and agree to become owned within an hour,a day,or even a week,but you can use your brain to take steps towards never allowing yourself to rush in without time and consideration ever again. Generally it is the Domme's duty to ensure that this does not happen,but apparently you cannot always count on it,so be prepared to do so yourself(you are a big boy right?).

In a realm where you are barked at hourly to pony up,keep in mind that your revenue is best saved for one that you take the time to get to know,and one whom is worthy of your offering,so keep that change in your pocket until you have chosen wisely rather than rashly,and you just might find the experience rewarding instead of laughable as the 15 minutes of fame for being the star of the findom comedy relief.

Femdom or faux

There appears to be an entirely new generation of males scouring the internet daily for a femdom fix. Do they actually find kernels of legitimate female domination,or do they stumble upon pornographic photos and films depicting what another male envisions femdom to be? Judging from the misconceptions conveyed to me in correspondences,I would lay odds on the porn angle,simply because the majority impart that they are seeking some type of sexual scenario,which does not exist.

Common sense should tell one that their visions,and hopes are unrealistic. I mean seriously,does anyone truly believe outside of a bar that a sober stranger wants to sensually play with their sexual organs,or enact a scene which gets them off for the pure pleasure of it? If you honestly buy into the fantasy,then please get psychiatric guidance,because you are living in la la land.

Female domination is not based on sex,hell domination itself is not either,but things have become so dastardly convoluted that one cannot see beyond tits,ass,pussy,and cock. I ask myself if this is merely a phase,or is this the new face of the fetish scene,and if it is,then I have no use for it. I genuinely mourn the loss of interacting with gentlemen whom appreciate a Lady,and respectfully bow down to her wishes,sans hidden agendas.

One would hope that with age comes wisdom and life shaping experience(the reason why I do not consider any male under 30),but even the males I have exchanged missives with within my desired age range have become soiled and spoiled into thinking that bdsm is all about them,and their cock emissions.

I would love nothing more than to slap a certain popular female femdom writer in the face due to her portraying males as treasures to be treated as a godsend. Yes submission is a gift,but that does not make you a special snowflake. Ask yourself just how many submissives do you think are on the internet,hell in the entire world looking for a Domme? You would be astounded to learn that you are one of thousands upon thousands,so why should any Lady consent to training you? What do you have to offer which makes you of value,and no the size of your equipment,nor a hot body matters. Pretty boys are a dime a dozen,so do not bank on that either.

 As a submissve your submission is a commodity,so what makes it of worth? Are you attentive,are you capable of integrity,and devotion? Do you possess the maturity to recognize that it is not your will that matters? I am not saying that you do not have the right to choose whom you serve,but I am saying that this is where you must drop the attitude that you are entitled to call the shots. A power exchange involves you relinquishing control,not barking orders from the bottom. You can never forget your place in service. You are the one serving,not the one being served,which is an entirely different endeavor,so keep this in mind when you are looking around at what the monkeys are doing,and try your best not to ape them,for you devalue yourself by doing so.

Be a good little bitch,and beg(TRIBUTE)to be under my fabulous feet.
and kiss my Santa socks:)

Progression not resolutions

The end of the year draws ever near,which means that the winds of change are about to blow through. Some of these alterations may chill you to the marrow whist others warm the cockles of your chastity belts.

I have been fairly quiet as of late due to life and family obligations (did you think that I lived online lol). One of the things I do every year at the closing of the month,is to look back retrospectively at how the year went in regards to my long term goals,which lights the twists and turns needed to effectively progress forward. This is not an uncommon occurrence for most people,only they might define them as new years resolutions,but not I,for most tend to leave those by the wayside in a matter of days.

I firmly believe that one must change their circumstances through diligent effort,and their prerogatives with progressive plans,but here is the catch for me,I did not find fault with my plans this year,rather instead the blame lay within those that I allowed contact with me,therefore that is the very first step in my overall big picture clarity. I will eradicate those that do nothing to enrich my life in any way shape or form. This will in essence clear the clouds from my bright horizon.

This may appear cold and heartless,but it is what it is. I simply do not possess the time and energy for those unwilling to be of benefit to me. I fail to grasp how this could shock anyone,for I have never given anyone the impression that I tolerate anything less than I deserve,EVER.

Many of you may know that I belong to a few D's sites,and to be honest,I am not pleased with what I see these days. The waters are muddy,and what I view being called domination is a far cry from it. Sorry folks but getting buck ass naked,and spreading my goodies,or watching some absolute stranger strangle his noodle is not domination in my book.

Everyone has their way of doing things,and I am cool with that,but I am just not the one to come to if you are looking for a session where you get to orgasm,or where you sit back and stare at my pussy,ass,or tits. You can find all of that on a porn site,or you can call a phone sex op,or even scrounge around under your couch cushions to pay for a cam session purchase,but none of those avenues are open in regards to me. I have in the past been quite vocal about the fact that I do not offer online sessions. What I have always sought are servants(no not domestic ones),and this is not accomplished through catering to a client.

In a day and age where males are taught that they should be entitled,and catered to by the female sex,I for one refuse to buy into the bullshit. I do not log into my pc just to play out your fantasy. Domination is not a role that I play,or a character I dress for. For me it is real. I do real time with my boy brat,but even he knows that we play by my rules,and what it is that I want,not by some false ass propaganda touted by selfish self serving jackoffs. This is the reason why so very few of you receive even a second word with me.

The bright side of my revelations is that none of this shall effect those that I know are coming to me with the purpose of pure service and admiration,and yes I know how to tell the difference between worthy and worthless. If you are new to my world,then you may be asking how exactly you can verify your worth to me,well it is simple. Tribute willingly,and without me asking. Sacrifice for me,and do it as your purpose in life. Place no other above me,and worship only me. Keep the truth on your tongue,and your fingertips. Last but certainly not least,never forget that a mannered gentleman is of more value than a raging hormonal rogue.

Beauty and grace,combined in one place,Goddess Sydney

To Worship a Goddess

What does the title of this post mean to you? Ponder your response whilst I enlighten you with data which you may not have taken into consideration.

Wiki defines worship as such

"Worship is an act of religious devotion usually directed towards a deity. An act of worship may be performed individually, in an informal or formal group, or by a designated leader.
Worship asserts the reality of its object and defines its meaning by reference to it"

 with the origin being "The word is derived from the Old English weorþscipe, meaning worship, honour shown to an object,which has been etymologised as "worthiness or worth-ship"—to give, at its simplest, worth to something"

Now I ask you,what does the word worship mean to you? Does your definition differ from what is posted above? If you are male,and reading this,then I am going to go out on a limb,and bet that it does. How can I possibly know this,whelp it is certainly not because I possess the power of extra sensory perception. It is simply that I know the nature of the male beast,which has been proven day in and day out when one takes the time to read through the dialogue males post.

The term worship has become entirely convoluted,especially within the lovely findom fetish. Rather than males bowing down,and sincerely offering honor,it has now jumped the precipice of insult. I know not,nor care for the state of your immortal or lack thereof soul,rather my query would be if any of you regardless of whether you are a Christian,buddist,muslim etc...would walk up to the icon of your choosing,and spew out the words"Oh I worship your ass,tits,pussy,(you get my point yes????)

Of course you would not think to dish out such dishonor,so why then would you do so to one whom you claim as your Goddess? It is beyond reprehensible. Oh and yes I am aware that many upon many females bear no issue with this type of interaction,and that is their prerogative,not mine. My views have always,and will forever be that worship is NOT sexual in nature,I mean seriously do you see any mention of sex,or sexuality within the frame of the definition provided? How does your dick getting hard by looking at anatomy parts equate to worship? It simply doesn't,so please do refrain from attempting to argue the point. Either way you are wrong.

Now blah blah blah disclaimer,yes I know not all males are like this,so no need to say it.

My beauty

Hear my beauty roar,feel it thrumming through your veins,and throbbing within your soul.

Serving or sessions

When I am screening a male for consideration to me,one of the predominant methods of ascertaining whether he is a viable candidate is to assess whether he wants for me or from me. Now if he wants from me,then he is automatically filed into the undesirable bin,and passed along,but if he is one of the very rare jewels whom wants for me,well then he is moved up to the front of the line. This process of weeding out is one of the surest routes that I know of as it is always successful.

As to how it works,that is simple. Seeing as I do not make initial contact,a male is placed in the position of gathering up his courage to reach out to me first,and generally by the lines of his first missive I am able to form an opinion of whether or not I desire to block or reply,which saves me precious time,that could have been wasted. Now you may be asking yourself,how can she tell that quickly if a male is worth her time,and the answer is that I have learned through experience,but I am willing to divulge a few tips.

 Boys if you are starting your correspondence with self centered motivation(I will see it) just from the words you elect to employ,such as "I want,I like,I need" I I I...yup you have just shown me that all you are focused on is you,and that is not the point of service. Another no no is spewing out fetish porn dialogue right off the bat,once again you are waving the wanker flag,and I am done with you before you began. Continuing forward. Do not send a little message saying "hi",why not,well it conveys laziness,and that is something that I avoid like the plague,nor do you put your best foot forward with a wee penis pic(ugh hot pokers in the eyes are preferable to that)

If any of what I described above resembles you,then welcome to the majority of men on the fetish sites,you are no longer in the minority. Before you get your dander flying,I am not condemning males whom are just around to get off and log out. What I am saying though is that you are worthless to any woman seeking actual service,and no most Dominas do not want to be your fapping friend. I truly wish I knew whom started that bullshit spiel about ladies getting off watching men pulling their little puds,so that I could slap them in the face with a flaccid wand. Seriously boys who told you that females want to turn on their cam,and masturbate watching you shove objects up your ass,or playing with your pecker? Now this is not entirely true,but do you know why? Yup cause there are tons of sites dedicated to women masturbating for your viewing pleasure,and even doing so whilst you are displaying your goods to them,BUT you are failing to realize that this is not the modus operandi for every site,in fact it is not one for most sites.

I digress,but my point is that,you know full well from the get go whether you are here to serve or to session with a cam model,and it is your responsibility to know which type of lady you are approaching prior to doing so. You waste more than your own time when you contact a Domina whom expects to be served if you are in it to win the sticky finger salute,so do everyone a favor,and join the sites where you are most likely to obtain your goal,whether it be serving or sessioning,and in the long run you will be happy that you did.