Femdom or faux

There appears to be an entirely new generation of males scouring the internet daily for a femdom fix. Do they actually find kernels of legitimate female domination,or do they stumble upon pornographic photos and films depicting what another male envisions femdom to be? Judging from the misconceptions conveyed to me in correspondences,I would lay odds on the porn angle,simply because the majority impart that they are seeking some type of sexual scenario,which does not exist.

Common sense should tell one that their visions,and hopes are unrealistic. I mean seriously,does anyone truly believe outside of a bar that a sober stranger wants to sensually play with their sexual organs,or enact a scene which gets them off for the pure pleasure of it? If you honestly buy into the fantasy,then please get psychiatric guidance,because you are living in la la land.

Female domination is not based on sex,hell domination itself is not either,but things have become so dastardly convoluted that one cannot see beyond tits,ass,pussy,and cock. I ask myself if this is merely a phase,or is this the new face of the fetish scene,and if it is,then I have no use for it. I genuinely mourn the loss of interacting with gentlemen whom appreciate a Lady,and respectfully bow down to her wishes,sans hidden agendas.

One would hope that with age comes wisdom and life shaping experience(the reason why I do not consider any male under 30),but even the males I have exchanged missives with within my desired age range have become soiled and spoiled into thinking that bdsm is all about them,and their cock emissions.

I would love nothing more than to slap a certain popular female femdom writer in the face due to her portraying males as treasures to be treated as a godsend. Yes submission is a gift,but that does not make you a special snowflake. Ask yourself just how many submissives do you think are on the internet,hell in the entire world looking for a Domme? You would be astounded to learn that you are one of thousands upon thousands,so why should any Lady consent to training you? What do you have to offer which makes you of value,and no the size of your equipment,nor a hot body matters. Pretty boys are a dime a dozen,so do not bank on that either.

 As a submissve your submission is a commodity,so what makes it of worth? Are you attentive,are you capable of integrity,and devotion? Do you possess the maturity to recognize that it is not your will that matters? I am not saying that you do not have the right to choose whom you serve,but I am saying that this is where you must drop the attitude that you are entitled to call the shots. A power exchange involves you relinquishing control,not barking orders from the bottom. You can never forget your place in service. You are the one serving,not the one being served,which is an entirely different endeavor,so keep this in mind when you are looking around at what the monkeys are doing,and try your best not to ape them,for you devalue yourself by doing so.