The Mask

Do you realize that most people wear a mask each and every day of their lives? It is a tendency of human beings to withhold a part of themselves from strangers, even from those they are closest to in life. It is a form of protection, not unnatural. 

It makes sense when you look closely at it. What has an absolute stranger done to earn a personal peek into who and what you are within? Nothing right, so why offer yourself up in such a manner. This does not make you odd or out of the ordinary, and you should never feel the need to apologize for keeping private the parts of yourself that you are not comfortable sharing with the general public. You have the right to choose who you share this side of yourself with.

Now when it comes to hiding aspects of yourself from loved ones, even that is fully permissible, well unless you are a raving mad murderer, hide that for sure, but do so from behind bars. Why do we close the door upon those that we hold nearest and dearest? We do so out of fear. Fear that who we truly are will not be accepted, or perhaps even scorned to the point that our loved ones will shun us entirely. It is a risk exposing your true self to others. It comes with plenty of pros and cons to debate, but in the end, you are the one that must make that decision. Are you brave enough to brave the odds of rejection?

I know that a great many of you gents are not out in your submission. You prefer to keep your feelings of submission a secret.  A secret that only sees the light of day when you log in online. You wear your mask of civility and manliness all day long, so when you do open the door to the magical world of online submission, it is like being set free from a locked cage. Your first tendency is to run here, run there, and spread the seed of your submission to every Dominant woman you see, but I am here to say "DOWN BOY". You are similar to a dog that humps every leg it sees, and that is not adorable, appreciated, or even desirable behavior in a submissive male. The only thing it makes me want to do, is slam the proverbial door in your face. The key to eradicating this irritating behavior, is to allow your submission out more often. Serving on a regular basis will inject you with a sense of peace, purpose, and allow you to center yourself in a sea of calmness. The point is to not deprive yourself of what it is you truly need, and that is to submit. It does not lessen your worth as a man, regardless of what society says. You can be a good man, a manly man, and yet submissive in your soul. Allow yourself to reveal the real you, and you will find yourself in a better place mentally, for denying your essential self will eventually take it's toll upon you, and leave you an unhappy mess.

Life becomes quite difficult and draining when a person does not feel as if they will be or are accepted for who and what they are, which is why Dominants in the lifestyle are revered to the degree that they are. They are leaders, and guides who see your submission, and say "it is ok, I see you, and I accept you". They allow you to be who you truly are...a submissive male who seeks to relinquish your power over self to them. Your submission is meant to empower your Dominant. It is a beautiful exchange, and there is no shame involved, well unless humiliation is your kink :) Submitting gives you the pleasure and freedom to just be you, and that is wonderful!

So, tear off that mask, and show your submissive self (note that showing yourself does not equate to sending unsolicited dick pics)! You will thank yourself for it, I promise. Now get out there and serve, serve, serve!!

Don't forget to send a show of your appreciation by sending gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

The Gift

One of the most basic responsibilities in FinDom is the giving of gifts to your Domme. Whether it be cash or material items. It is a given, and need not be expounded upon, for all who claim the status of "finsub, paypig, cashslave, human atm, generous gent, pay pet, etc.." know that tribute is their honored duty.

It truly is an honor to gift your Goddess, for she is meant to be the center of your universe. She guides you in submission to her. She educates you upon her protocol. She shares of her time, knowledge, and patience with you. She is the star you look to when you are unsure of which way to go. These are just a few of the reasons why submissives give gifts in thanks to their Domme.

The issue many males have with this structure is that they want to know what is in it for them. By the way, this is an incorrect and self-centered mindset. Anyways, what is it that males who worship and tribute receive from their FinDommes? The answer is simplistic, yet apparently fully incomprehensible to those who cannot and will not see past themselves. 

Giving is submitting. It is relinquishing that which has been held dear, into the hands of one they hold dear. It is a supplication of will. It is a release of ego and demands for self. It is selfless. It is freedom from the binds of society dictates for male behavior, yet not, for it has always been a male's sacred duty to support and provide for females. That aspect does not alter, but the intent behind the action does. He gives, not because he is told that he must, he gives because he wants to receive the joy and pleasure of submitting his riches to a woman that he holds in highest esteem. He gives because he wants her world to sparkle and shine with the brilliance of his utter devotion to her happiness. 

Giving to a Domme provides a submissive with the opportunity to submit, which is her most priceless gift to him. Accepting the submission of a submissive is a gift. The Domme is allowing the submissive to serve out their intended in life purpose, and that is truly a gift of means beyond the tangible. She is giving the gift of purpose. She is providing pleasure to the submissive by accepting their servitude. The submissive receives these gifts from his Domme, so please do leave off with the entire "what does the submissive get for their money BS". FinDom relationships are indeed about giving and receiving. The submissive gives monetary gifts, and he receives the gift of purpose. 

Now get off your duff, and get to spending, and sending, so that you too can be gifted with purpose in life!

Cock Kryptonite

It could feasibly be said that the greatest weakness a man possesses is his cock. He is ruled by it night and day. He is truly a bitch to it's demands. Isn't that right gents?

You wake up in the morning, and guess who pops up to say hello? Yup, your bestie friend and worst enemy commands your right hand attention. You cannot escape the creepy bastard. 

You are driving down the road, spy a hot honey, and boom he screams for your notice. You head to the gym, see a banging bod, and hello he is knocking in your drawers. Don't you wish that you could bury his ass for a day or so? 
Where would you plant him though..ut oh that type of thinking gets him revving, cause he likes to delve into deep dark holes.

What to do, what to do. You could rinse him with extra cold water, but even that garners his salute sometimes! You could tape him to your leg, only ouchie it starts to hurt real bad when he stretches, and the tape pulls out your hair. I got it, you should hogtie his ass, no way is he getting out of those super tight knots! Oh my lands what is that..he is turning black and blue from lack of oxygen, and you can't get the knots undone without severing him clean from your body. Looks like you are going to have to take a trip to the ER. What a way for him to make his introduction to the world lol. He will be the star of many stories bandied about at the nurse's station. How grand that will be :) He does love attention, and showing himself off to women, so this is a win win for him, but not so much you, cause you are now the butt of every ER joke. 

I really have it this time, I promise. I know exactly how you can put him down without anyone being any the wiser. Lock his ass up in a cock cage! That is the ticket. A chastity cage is his kryptonite. He cannot escape, he cannot embarrass you anymore, and he sure as hell cannot derail you from your purpose in life. This is the true win win scenario, so do yourself a favor, LOCK HIM UP! Do it now before he tries to talk you out of it. You know it is for the best. He has done nothing but cause trouble for you all of your life. You have to be cruel to be kind :)

You may now thank me for helping you solve your most persistent and peskiest problem by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

No effort gets you nowhere in FemDom

Giving your all in submission, should be one of your top ten goals for life as a submissive male, for if you are not giving your all, than you are not fully committed. Committing yourself to serving is of prime importance. Going half ass in will only deprive you of the fulfillment service brings into your life, and you want to experience the full monty now don't you?

Being proactive, and fully cognizant of your options and responsibilities in service is the way to go. No lukewarm, lackluster, tentative attempts will ever be good enough. 

What is holding you back from immersing yourself?

Sitting on the sidelines will not get you called up into active service to a Dominant woman. You have to apply for the position of submissive to serve. You must be willing to prove that you are a worthwhile risk for her to engage, and lurking in the shadows does nothing but waste your life. Do you really want to waste more precious non-refundable time?

If you are sitting here right now reading my words, than you know that they apply to you. It is you that needs to get off the shitter, and get to work on serving. There is no time like the present to change your life, and you are definitely in need of change, so make that change, and become what you know you truly are...a servant of Sydney Claire!

There is life affirming pleasure in giving to Sydney Claire

Sydney Claire is ALL you need...all you want. You have no need of anyone else. She is everything to you. 

Your life was meaningless without her, and you were less than nothing before you found her. 

Pleasing her is your orgasm now, and you love to cum don't you? All those cashgasms for Goddess. Delicious.  

You hunger for that feel good feeling you get when you click send. Nothing else compares to the high you get when you spoil Sydney Claire. She is your addiction. Your Domme of Choice.

You would do anything to please her. Her laughter is the intoxication you seek, and when she calls you her good boy, you feel as if you are staring at the sun..blinded by her radiance, and surrounded by her warmth. She is all you need. 

Serving Sydney Claire is a magical experience. It strips away all of the bad within you, and replaces it with the joy of being of use to her. 

You have found your purpose. You have found your deity. You need nor want any other. She alone fills your life full. There is room for no other. Only she. 

When you close your eyes at night, it is to her that you pray. When you dream, it is her that leads your fantasies. When you wake, it is her face that you seek out. Your first action upon waking is to recite your mantra for Sydney Claire, for she alone fulfills you.

She is what was missing, and now that you have found her, you will be all that she wants. You will give all that you have to remain in her good graces. You left behind your ego, and desire to kneel before her in supplication like a good boy.

She is your world, and the center of your universe. Give to Goddess. Send to Goddess. Spend on Goddess. 

You need Goddess. You want no other Goddess. She is everything. She is all things. She is beyond your mortal reach, therefore you will tithe her daily for the honor of being recognized by her. 

No holding back, no excuses, no saying no. You want, you need, you must have this Goddess in your life. Give to Goddess because it feels so fucking good to please her. Give to Goddess because she deserves your very best. Just Giveeeeee

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FinDumme Subbies

Gentlemen you all are getting twisted! Do you even know what Findom is? I really do not believe that you do.

This is coming straight from my perspective, and if you want to disagree, that is cool, but my view is firm, which means that you are not going to be changing my mind, okies.

Findom is not about you, or your dick. It never was, and never will be. Yes Dommes know that you are obsessed with that worthless skin sac in your pants, but they are not. Dommes do not wake up every morning thinking..hey I hope that I will be lucky enough to help a bunch of random dicks spew out of the goodness of my heart, whilst asking nothing for myself. Seriously who even thinks like that...ya you do. 

If this is how you think, YOU are the anal leakage of the fetish. This is Financial Domination bb...that means MONEY. It is a fetish based upon MONEY, not dick. It is about dicks giving their money to women plain and simple. Don't like the truth of it, don't come around here no more, cause it ain't gonna change no matter how much you wish it would. Just get over yourself, and accept that in order to play in this sandbox, you are going to have to pay the entrance fee. Findom was always about the money, no matter how many other fetishes get umbrellad under the term. It is about the money, it was about the money, it will be about the money.

Hold up, don't think that I am forgetting about the domination aspect. Look at the words again. FINANCIAL DOMINATION. It is the act of dominating finances. Dominating money, and that breaks down to...YOU giving your money to women. See how apparent that is? The route that the domination of that cash takes is up to the dominant, but if the money is not involved, it AIN'T Financial Domination. Spin it however you want, but get the terminology correct. No money = no findom. That clear?? If not, you are too stupid to exist on this planet.

Impotent pretense of a penis

The foot attire I wore on my date tonight :) These heels were actually a gift from a female submissive...hot or not?

Gifts...Goddess loves gifts, and you love to give Goddess gifts, so we are a perfect match! You give, I receive..a win win situation. 

The heels of these shoes were used to dig into my man's ass tonight. I bet you little cuckys would pop a pecker knowing that an item you had gifted me with was worn when I was with my man lol. This is just one of the reasons why little cuckys should be begging to buy me gifts for my dates. I love the idea of you spending your hard earned money on things that you will never be able to appreciate in person, and the burn it will cause you when you realize that another man is enjoying the fruits of your labor. Kinda makes you feel like an impotent loser doesn't it...a loser whose only way to please a woman, is with his wallet.

Would you like to be a walking wallet for Goddess and her man. How hot would it be for you to buy Goddess and her man gifts? You would love it you little freak. You know that you aren't good enough in bed for any woman, so you have to pay to get off. You have to pay for all of the fun toys, clothes, and any sensual items Goddess finds pleasing. Clothes, perfume, lotions, hoisery, panties, jewelry etc...anything my heart desires to entice, tease, and seduce my man. If you are a good boy, and please me with your gifts, than I just might let you pull that putrid pecker of yours as you imagine what it would be like to be there in person watching Goddess get down and dirty with her man. I bet you are touching yourself right now, aren't you...STOP!! You are not allowed to stroke or rub that pretense of a penis til you have received permission from Goddess..and Goddess is not pleased with you.

You have been a naughty selfish piglet. You have failed to gift Goddess with goodies, and until you do, she will not even consider relenting on your no yank ban, so I suggest that you do as you have been told, and send Goddess a gift card today, and beg for her to forgive you.

Do it, do it now!

One chance to make a lasting memory

Gentlemen do you realize that the first impression you make upon a dominant woman is the one that sets the tone for your entire exchange, and if the impression she receives of you is poor, than you may have killed off all possibilities of serving her.

You guys tend to make the same mistake over and over with the same results. What does that sound like..hmm the definition of insanity ring a bell? 

Where are you going wrong? If these are the opening messages you are sending, than this is how you are getting off on the wrong foot.

1)Hi

2)Hey

3)Wats up (sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, honey, sugar, girl, woman etc)

4)Dick pic

5)I would do anything to serve you

6)I want you to do XYZ to me

7)Do you wanna fuck

8)I wanna hit that

9)I got a cum tribute for you

10)You make my dick hard

11)I am a broke student, and can't pay you, but can I serve you anyway

12)You are just a whore after my money(hurling insults in the hope of receiving a backlash of humiliation)

13)Real Dommes dominate for free

14)Can I get your skype, kik etc..

15)Here are some photos for you to blackmail me with

16)Here is my paypal addy for you to take my money

17)Can I be your live in slave

18)Will you marry me so I can get a green card

19)Nice tits, ass, pussy etc..

20)What do I get if I pay

Now at one time or another, I have received every single one of these messages as an opening gambit. Do you wanna guess the rate of success with these approaches? Zero, zilch, and no where but blocked. 

Women really do not have the patience or interest in speaking with asinine males, who lack the very common sense required to interact with a fellow living, breathing human being. 

Do not be this type of male. You have been educated now, and you have been warned of the probable repercussions. Make good decisions by thinking before you speak, and rereading before you hit the send button.

You can thank me for sharing, by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
 

What FemDoms desire in a submissive

Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

Feigning FinDom Ignorance

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen....

 Feigning ignorance as to what FinDom is, is not believable. 
Why?

1)You obviously found me, which means you have had to have noted the fetish term in my blogs or posts elsewhere

2)If you possess the intellect to navigate the internet, than you know full well how to google terms which you do not possess knowledge of

In this day and age of technology and advancements, I absolutely refuse to accept ignorance as a viable excuse. Why do I believe that males attempt to proclaim ignorance of the term?

1)They are too lazy to even use google

2)They do not want to pay tribute, so they hope that by feigning a lack of knowledge, they may get lucky and get some free talk, even if it is only an explanation of terminology 

This type of ploy has a zero success rate with me. Of course I am more than happy to snarkily refer you to google for your answer, but you will not receive any further notice than that. My time really is precious to me, and I refuse to waste it in such a manner. Besides, I expect, nay require that those who serve me possess a modicum of intelligence and initiative, so any who pose this question to me are simply reflecting that they are lacking in the qualities I seek in a submissive servant. 

You do not want to be found lacking do you? To be lacking, is to be a loser. Losers are not attractive potential applicants to the Sect of Sydney. I accept premium people only in my service.

I do understand that some are honestly new to the scene, therefore are to be expected to lack in the fundamentals of terminology, which is ok, but as soon as you deem yourself prepared to contact a FimDom...you should have already self educated. There is no acceptable excuse for laziness. Do better, be better!

Gift because Goddess says so

You may not know this about me, especially if you are new to the sect of Sydney, but I lend my efforts and time to a multitude of charitable endeavors throughout the year. I pride myself on giving back, and expect the gents who serve me, to support my charities with their wallets.

This year, my big push is to provide warmth to those less fortunate, and you my dear boys can aid me by purchasing blankets from my amazon wish list for donation. It is an inexpensive way to show me that you are a decent human being who is worthy of consideration of membership into my selective sect of servants. Truly there is no believable excuse you could think up to negate doing so. 

These blankets are less than $20 apiece, which is doable for even the brokest of jokes. I honestly don't care if you have to scrounge parking lots for pennies to purchase one..in fact that would most likely make me laugh. 

I expect this wish list to be cleared within a month, and no less. It is the least that you can do to please me, and that should be your primary goal, so get on with it gents...clear the list, and be a good boy for Goddess :) 

Ghosting time is near in FinDom

 Welcome to Goddess Sydney's Sect, where she is the

You know the saying about how the holidays are the best time of the year? Well in my experience, when it comes to the FinDom fetish scene, the holidays are the leanest times of the year.

Why? Simple, this is the time of year that most males ghost on out of the scene. They opt out early, so that they do not have to spend on and send to Dommes on the holiday. 

You know, Dommes are human right? We do grasp that most males have families and friends that they want to gift on the holidays. My issue with the holiday rush away, is that a male knows all year long when the holidays are coming, which means that they have every opportunity to sock away a bit on the side for their Domme. It really is that easy. Think ahead, and enjoy domination all year long! I mean, submission is one of your goals right, so why wouldn't you ensure continued ability to serve?

A lot of you males make the assumption that you can just pop back into a Domme's inbox after the holidays to take up where you left off, but you are making an ass of yourself. Dommes do remember who was there, and who bailed when gifts should have been forthcoming, so don't act all surprised and pissy when you are denied return entrance.

I realize that a great many of you guys have been brainwashed into believing that since you hold the wallet, that you hold the reins as well, but you are forgetting exactly who holds the ultimate power. Women owe you nothing, and even a wad of cash will not guarantee that you will be accepted back into the fold, so why bother taking that chance? Think to the future by stashing a little bit away before the holiday craze. Surely you have loose change at night, or the ones you got back when you broke a twenty. Take that money and put it in a jar, an envelope, or somewhere safe. Practice this all year long, and by the time the holidays roll around, you will have an impressive gift to give your Domme. It is a win win for you! 

Thank me by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Financially Spoiling Women

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Lucky cucks love Sydney Claire

There is only 1 good type of beta cock...do you know what kind it is?

A locked cock! Beta cocks should not be free to roam around unhampered. That would be a travesty of nature. 

Women do not want beta cocks in their beds. They want manly men with confident cocks :) and that certainly is not you, now is it lol

There is honor in being a locked cock though. Being chastity bound signifies that you are intelligent enough to recognize that your cock is worthless to women, and that your purpose will be not be served with your dicklet, atleast not sexually.

Your purpose entails a pants on approach, with a stern reminder that the only reason a woman would reach into your pants, is to get to your wallet. You best serve women by being a walking wallet. A mute ATM that spits out money for women and the men they choose to get down and dirty with, so while you may never be the leading man in a woman's bed, you can still play a vital role in providing pleasure for her. 

The most ironic part of the entire scenario, is that lovers usually come and go, but so long as you are enriching a woman's life by financing her happiness..you will be the last man standing, and that is definitely something to take pride in. You will play a role that rewards you with years of service, and service is your ultimate goal isn't it? That is why you are here yes? You want to serve more than anything else. I am offering you that prime opportunity right now.

Come pledge your intent to benefit my life as a lucky cucky. Take up the challenge to keep me and my lover drenched in goodies. Dedicate yourself and your wallet to the purchase of items that aid in my seduction of real men. That will be your purpose. That is your destiny. This is fate. You are here right now reading my words for this very reason. You have longed for the fantasy, now embrace the reality.

Prove your intent by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com with a note relaying "I want to be a lucky cucky"

FemDom proclomation to broke admirers

Normally broke males serve no purpose in Findom, nor are they encouraged to make their presence known, but in this one instance they do have a sacred duty to carry out for Goddess.

Take a vow you cash deprived plebeians..a vow to spread the seeds of Goddess far and wide. Retweet, reblog, like my posts, comment on my blogs, share links to my twitter, IG, and tumblr. Relay to your fellow subby peers that they should be serving the divine Goddess, Sydney Claire. 

Help grow my Financial Fempire. Tell the entire world that you adore, and worship me. Post pics on social media proclaiming your utterly devoted affection for me. Submit photos to me with my name proudly displayed upon your worthless flesh. For those of you who are artistically bent..create fan art for me. Compose poetry in my honor, and share it worldwide. Write stories about your intense craving to serve the one and only Goddess Sydney Claire. then share them with every male you know.

Share the good word of Goddess, and expand my reach. Your goal should be to lead as many worthy males to my inbox as possible. Make yourself useful, and serve a purpose other than consuming the precious 02 needed by your betters.

Start today, and keep it up everyday!  

Goddess Sydney Claire is all you need

My wishes, my will, my desires, and my dreams must all eclipse the selfishness that has ruled your world before me. 

Any thoughts of how you may best be served, must be eradicated before they ever take root, and poison the well of servitude.

Man is meant to serve Woman. Deep down you know this, else you would not be here right now reading my words. 

Every moment spent pursuing anything other than your Goddess divined purpose, is blasphemy. 

The mere thought of Goddess awakens within you the submissive that you have caged and denied. Set him free to be what he is destined to become.

Your best life, is one spent giving your all to Goddess. You have no need of luxuries. They are distractions that keep you from worshiping Goddess as she deserves. Your time, and money belong to Goddess. She knows best what you need.

You exist solely to sacrifice for Goddess. Sacrifice is good. Sacrifice is cleansing. Sacrifice hones you down to your true submissive self. Sacrifice removes the clutter which has barred your path to submission. 

You want only to live a simple life. A life dedicated to Goddess. A life ruled by your devotion to the happiness of your supreme Goddess. This is your best life. This is the life Goddess wants for you, and you live only to please Goddess.

Walk away from the old you, and take up your new life in service to Goddess Sydney Claire. Humble yourself, and prepare to be reborn as a servant of Sydney Claire. Now my pet..now break free, and crawl to the feet of Goddess!

 

Do you really want to submit to a Female Dominant

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Femdom pets should dress to please

Femdom pets should always dress to please!

Isn't that an adorable look?  I love the little pink bow, but than I always was a pink aficionado! 

I have had tons of males dress in panties for me, and they have loved it, not because they are gay, or bi, but just because women's undergarments are soft, silky, and sexy as hell. I mean, who doesn't like to feel the whisper of silk sliding across their bare skin. It is erotic, and erection inducing.

Doubt me? I challenge any male reading this post to go out and purchase a pair of women's underwear, and try them out for a day. Make sure to account for the size of your swingers when selecting a pair to fit, cause having your dangler and cherries pinched off out the sides is painful, so I have been told.

Wearing panties is not something to be ashamed of. It can actually be quite empowering. Try it just this once, and if you do not like it, feel free to blast me back an "I told you so" message, but I highly doubt that you will lol. If you do like it, than be man enough to message me and admit that you enjoy having your cock and balls rubbing against that softness all day long. I will even go so far as to bet that your panties will have a pre-cum wet stain on the front at the end of the day..if not a full out orgasm saturation spot!

Man up, and take the challenge today :)

Provide for your dick denial

Hello little dicklets :)

 Goddess desires a new mic! I want to create new mp3's which will take you to the edge of dick destruction. I want to tease your auditory senses, and deny you the touch you crave so desperately! 

You like that don't you? You love being denied. You long for the suffering of edging all night long listening to my whiskey soaked dulcet tones. It would be so fucking hot, wouldn't it? Naked and alone in the dark, with my voice echoing in your ears decimating your will to do anything other than obey my whispered commands. You want to be my good boy don't you? You want to earn that sweet release. Cum show me that you are worthy. Cum stuff my inbox full of amazon gift cards for the purchase of a new mic. Provide for your source of torment :)

Better yet...beg me for the honor of gifting me with the tool of your dick destruction, then send send send...and let the game begin!

Service with a smile

This was a lovely weekend for me! I had some spare time, so I summoned my little brat boy, and brightened up his Sunday :)

 He got the honor of cleaning out and up my new ride he paid for of course...and the ultimate joy of filling it up with gas for the week. Aren't I a generous owner lol

Of course whilst I had him in my claws...there was so much for him to do, and not a bit of it sexy. I bet you were all thinking that serving is comprised of dick rising play, ha ha..you were wrong.

He was tasked with cleaning up the tubing, and outside of my furnace, along with lighting the pilot light for it, cause it was cold this weekend. Not only was he gifted with such an honor, he as well obtained the privilege of cleaning behind my washer and dryer, and pulling out my refrigerator to tidy behind it as well. That gentlemen is what I call the grunge work of service. It is just as much a part of service as fun play time is. 

That is not top say that he did not earn some special time with me, for he did. Why, not because he was entitled to it, but because he serves without complaint or question. I tell him what I need done, and he does it. He comes whenever I beckon, and thanks me for having use for him. That is what endears him to me. He serves without expectation.

Serving without expectation is what makes a male valuable, worthy, and well thought of. Can you ever imagine yourself being such a male? Are you capable of serving without wanting or demanding something you desire in return? 

This gent is why my standards are set at the level I maintain, for I know that there are males out there capable and willing to be what I need them to be in service, and if you are one such as I describe, than you have my permission to reach out to me and apply :)

Your comfort zone is a cage

Life is full of infinite choices. Some are pivotal, and some are inane. Some will force you away from what you desire most, whilst others will draw you closer to what you crave ferociously. 

 Do you know why people do not truly appreciate and embrace choices? Choices affect change, and change makes alot of people uncomfortable, anxious, depressed, and even angry. People like to stay in their comfort zone. It is reliable. They know the rules in their comfort zone. Living in your comfort zone can make you feel all safe and cozy, but whether you realize it or not, it is a prison. A prison of your own design. It restricts you from encountering and engaging in new activities, or even meeting people who would be integral in encouraging, and aiding you in personal growth.

Remaining in a comfort zone allows for stagnation. You are no longer thriving, you are merely surviving, and that is not really living. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest. You have only this one life to live your best, but if you refuse to stray from your comfort zone, your life when you look back upon it, will only reflect disappointment, and regret. Regret is difficult to live with. 

Free yourself. Break the chains, and dig deep for the courage to begin this new adventure with me. A dashing and daring chapter of your life, where you are free to find your purpose in life. If you are reading this now, you are so very close to taking that first step. Don't be afraid, be excited! Now is the time to invest in your happiness by serving Goddess Sydney. You want this experience. You want to explore the dark side of submission to a dominant woman. You are ready. Now come :)

Rant of the scorched pubes

I am basically a very tolerant individual, but even I have things which I will not abide to take any part in, and the main one is the bashing and trashing of my fellow females.

I see posts pop up on my twitter TL that literally make me cringe, scowl, and force the F bomb to drop from my gorgeous lips. It generally begins with a female posting about how ugly, stupid, worthless someone's wife is..and what do you know...a male will pipe up, oh yes his wife is disgustingly horrible, and the poster is the most sexy, hot, beautiful, wanted woman in the world. Yup there he goes validating the entire monstrosity of an ignoramus betrayal of womanhood. Isn't that something to be uber proud of?

Honestly, I am never surprised by males engaging in misogyny, but when it is coming from a female..holy shit that scorches my pubes!!!  I am beyond serious when I say that "If you feel that you are justified in degrading other women in order to elevate yourself, YOU ARE TRASH"!! More so than trash, you are an abuser. An abuser who never received consent. Be proud of that rep builder.

You males, and I refuse to call you men, cause a man stands for the rights of women to be treated fairly, and with respect, so you are way less than a man. You do not deserve the attention, affection, much less love of any woman..not even from your Mommy, and I sincerely hope that your mistreated, disrespected wife sees through the facade of decency you erect to cover up the ugliness of your soul, and divorces your ass after she takes your bank balance, retirement funds, and half of the SS you will receive in the future. I would laugh my ass off at your abject humiliation, and utter life of misery! You deserve much worse.

Ya ya I see some of you saying "it is just a game, a fetish", and my response is IDGAF. If what you say and do is harming someone who has not agreed to it, you are TRASH. It is that simple. If you do not love and respect your wife, get the fuck out of the marriage period, and if you are a female playing at demeaning other women for your benefit..wake up quick cause time is going to tap dance across your face, sag down your tits, and ass..and all around make you an ugly ass crone that no man will look twice at, so get yourself together, and love yourself enough not to seek your validation from males.

Lock your cock for Sydney Claire

Chastration remains my ultimate goal for all of you beta biotches! What is chastration? Chastration is a means of essentially castrating a male through the use of long term chastity. Days fall into weeks, and weeks fall into months, which eventually turns into years, and during this time period:

1)your libido will decrease as testosterone levels fall off
2)the strength of your erections will weaken exponentially 

The upside of long term cock lock

1)your focus will veer away from penile driven demands that destroy your ability to serve your purpose
2)you will gain a greater insight into what pleases women, which in turn increases your value as a servant to women
3)increased patience
4)decreased stress

 Are you beginning to see the positive benefits of chastity? There are really no downsides. It truly will shape you into a better submissive, servant, and citizen. You want to be better don't you? 

You are tired of running like a hamster on a wheel going no where, so here is your chance to change your life. Take the initiative to better yourself. Google chastity devices, and order yours today, then contact Goddess about holding your key :)

Seduced Subconscious

Your mind is my playground, and I am ready to play.

 The longer you follow me, and read my words, the more you open yourself up to my control. Month by month, week by week, day by day..I slip further and further into your waiting, and watching subconscious. Tendrils of me encapsulate your every waking thought..diverting you from the path of selfishness, and onto the road of submission to your Goddess, Sydney Claire. 

It happens so slowly that you do not realize how far under my spell you have fallen. All that you know, is that your life has at last found meaning. You have a reason to live, to work, to prosper, beyond self. You begin to live in the moments spent surrounded by presence. Your thoughts take upon the shape I sculpt, and you painfully hunger to be noticed by the light of Goddess Sydney Claire.

Goddess gives your life meaning. Serving Goddess gives your life purpose. She alone holds the key to your fate, and future. You are beholden to her good will, and victim to her wrath should you fail in your most sacred duty to her. Your duty, your obligation, your honor, and your privilege all are sustained in service to Goddess. Your world before Goddess was a farce. A faux life. One which you would never willingly return to. Goddess is your sun, your moon, and your stars. She is your all and your everything. 

No other can compare to your Goddess. You have no need of others..you NEED only Goddess Sydney Claire. She alone is your calm in the storm of life. Serving her is the only thing that makes sense to you. You know that you are meant to serve her greatness. She is the most precious being you have ever known, and the opportunity to serve her is your greatest desire. You have found happiness, and it's name is Sydney Claire. 

She is here, she is there, she is everywhere with you. She lives in your subconscious, she lives in you. Now is the time, now you are ready. Come meekly beg for what you crave most...to serve Sydney Claire.

Service engine soon

Welcome prospective pets of mine

Today I sat in a line of cars through 3 red lights and a train crossing before ever getting close enough to realize that the problem was not many drivers, but rather 1 in particular who had broken down. Unfortunately the driver was too rude and lazy to push their vehicle to the side of the road, which would have alleviated a traffic jam for the rest of us. Now you could be saying "huh...why should this matter to me?" Patience pet, I am going to explain exactly why it should.

You are the broken down vehicle. You are a car sitting in the middle of the road blocking everyone else, but most of all, you are preventing yourself from going any further in service. Why are you doing it though? Is it that you are too lazy to seek out a dominant woman, and instead expect them to come claim you like a knight of old? If that is your expectation, you are setting yourself up for disappointment, cause you personally are not a prize that women are vying and competing to win, so if you are waiting for your Princess to magically appear..you just may have been hitting the pipe too much. Perhaps it is because you are rude, stingy, and suffer from entitlement issues. If that is the case, you are SOL. No woman is drawn to rudeness..in fact it is a chick detractor. You know all about that though don't you lol lol lol

For some of you fear holds you frozen in place, and this I understand quite well. You are unsure as to how you are going to get yourself motoring again, so you sit there blocking traffic hoping that a kind samaritan will stumble upon you, and offer assist in the form of a helping hand across the road. The worst thing about this position, is that aid is very unlikely to be rendered, for dominants have been burned to the bone by males who falsely claim ignorance and fear of fetish, so you best gird your loins, grit your teeth, and get out of your vehicle, and get to pushing. You can do it. I have faith that it is possible. Dive down deep into that internal murky pool which houses the fear that tethers you, and cut yourself free. Free to be that which you always dreamed of being...serving a dominant woman's desires. Yes that is your purpose. Yes that is your dream. Yes that is your fantasy. Yes that can become your reality. 

In closing...do not be the stalled vehicle blocking the road, be the roadster speeding along towards your ultimate destination!

Financial Impotence in Findom

Good morning minions of mine

Does anyone know what it means to be impotent? I bet you do lol..and no I am not talking about that shameful problem you have downstairs. I am talking about impotence in relation to findom. 

 Impotence in findom is when you just cannot get it up to send..again not talking about your personal pecker problem. This means that you do not have the juice (cash) to tribute. You are lacking the resources required to spew a cash load into my hot greedy account. That is financial impotence, and it is more than shameful, it is utterly disgustingly ugly. 

Never ever ever show your face in a woman's inbox if you cannot provide for her happiness, and no your dick is not what sweet dreams are made of. Your dick enters the picture only in nightmares. Providing for a woman is one of the most basic tenets of being dubbed a man, for a man who cannot provide is no man at all. He is essentially a boil upon the ass of society, and should be lanced immediately. Get my drift? 

It is more than acceptable if you are a premature ejaculator of tribute though :) You can fill my inbox all night long with those, cause that is the only way you will ever be invited to thrust into my box lol, so get your hands into position, and send send send like a man!