Good morning to all
I am going to let you in on a secret of mine.
I do not read emails which lack an attached amazon gift card, nor do I ever open photos sent via messenger from those who are not in service to me.
This strategy saves me loads of time, energy, and peace of mind by.
1)I need not fear wasting time, for if an individual was truly interested in serving me, than they would have sent a tribute along with their missive, and no there is never a valid excuse as to not send tribute when contacting me.
2)Every single time I have ever received a photo from a non-serving person, it was a pecker pic, and the world would be a better place without that imagery. Besides, it saves me more money than geico since I need not invest in eye bleach :)
I realize that it irks some of you that I never read your messages, but in my estimation, you wasting your time rather than mine is a net positive for me. Besides, I have heard enough lame ass excuses for not tributing to last a lifetime. Not to mention that I am a much nicer person when not plagued with saggy balls, dirty dick pics.
I have no idea why some of you act under the false premise that you can shame me into talking to you, reading your dm's, or peeking at your sent photos sans tribute. It will not work. I do not feel bad for ignoring you, nor do I think that I owe you even a moment of my time.
I am active on social media, and I do post blogs when I feel like it...and last I checked, I have put up over a thousand of them, so if you are hankering to know me, feel me out, or get a general idea if you want to serve as my syndrone, I have provided you with the means of making your decision. It simply requires a bit of effort on your end. You aren't afraid of a little effort expenditure now are you?
Good good good....hope to read your email soon little simp :)
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Friday, May 15, 2020
Thursday, May 14, 2020
Syndrones unite
Hello hello hello
It has been like a month of Sundays since last I posted here...
Life has been like an undertow which tumbled me under, and finally spit me back out a little bruised.
Have you missed me my flock of syndrones? Undoubtedly so ;>
What crazy unforeseen times we are living in is it not? How has your life altered under the quarantine regime? Have you put good use to your confinement? From the lack of appreciation tributes sitting in my inbox, I would judge that you weren't very productive at all. You can rectify that though by sending a lovely little gift card today to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
At the moment I am seeking out a day trip location where I can safely away from the public eye tie my brat boy to a tree and torment him at my leisure lol, and before you ask, yes he is the only boy I am playing with real time.
Why is he the only one? The answer is simple, yet complicated. Real time is a commitment which I do not lightly undertake. It is so very intimate since I am allowing someone else into my personal space. It requires a high amount of trust, and the rest of you have not earned that honor. Of course the majority of you aren't even seeking out real time, for your goal is a quick and nasty online romp towards a single course crashing crescendo skin flute concerto, which is all fine and good if you were interacting with a woman who cared to offer that service....alas I am not that woman.
Over the years of my online presence, so many of you wandering wanks have attempted to sway me from my outlined course and met with failure, yet you keep trying. I do admit to admiring your persistence, even though the odds are not in your favor. If your intent is to serve as a syndrone, than you must meet my requirements for service.
1)You must serve online for a period of no less than 3 months
*consistent financial tributes are required during this time*
2)You must maintain contact daily
*I will not chase you down*
3)You must display dedication, devotion, and build trust
*these things take time*
Sounds easy, yes? It honestly is, but cum and dumps always fail. You will never pass the test if your expectations are to jizz and jet. Keep that in mind.
All of this being said, I am open to testing the waters with prospective servants for service as a loyal syndrone. Apply with tribute attached.
It has been like a month of Sundays since last I posted here...
Life has been like an undertow which tumbled me under, and finally spit me back out a little bruised.
Have you missed me my flock of syndrones? Undoubtedly so ;>
What crazy unforeseen times we are living in is it not? How has your life altered under the quarantine regime? Have you put good use to your confinement? From the lack of appreciation tributes sitting in my inbox, I would judge that you weren't very productive at all. You can rectify that though by sending a lovely little gift card today to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
At the moment I am seeking out a day trip location where I can safely away from the public eye tie my brat boy to a tree and torment him at my leisure lol, and before you ask, yes he is the only boy I am playing with real time.
Why is he the only one? The answer is simple, yet complicated. Real time is a commitment which I do not lightly undertake. It is so very intimate since I am allowing someone else into my personal space. It requires a high amount of trust, and the rest of you have not earned that honor. Of course the majority of you aren't even seeking out real time, for your goal is a quick and nasty online romp towards a single course crashing crescendo skin flute concerto, which is all fine and good if you were interacting with a woman who cared to offer that service....alas I am not that woman.
Over the years of my online presence, so many of you wandering wanks have attempted to sway me from my outlined course and met with failure, yet you keep trying. I do admit to admiring your persistence, even though the odds are not in your favor. If your intent is to serve as a syndrone, than you must meet my requirements for service.
1)You must serve online for a period of no less than 3 months
*consistent financial tributes are required during this time*
2)You must maintain contact daily
*I will not chase you down*
3)You must display dedication, devotion, and build trust
*these things take time*
Sounds easy, yes? It honestly is, but cum and dumps always fail. You will never pass the test if your expectations are to jizz and jet. Keep that in mind.
All of this being said, I am open to testing the waters with prospective servants for service as a loyal syndrone. Apply with tribute attached.
Thursday, December 19, 2019
Meaningful Mindless Submission
Welcome to the wonderful world of All Things Sydney Claire!
It is purported to be the most joyous time of the year, yet for many of you beta flops, it is the season of despair, for you are once again glaringly reminded of your failure to secure any type of meaningful connection with a woman to share the holidays with. You have fallen short of the goal, but than that is nothing new for you, now is it lol.
So here you are scouring the internet looking for your next masturbation mash up fix, hoping it will fill that black hole of a void you call a life with a few seconds of hand humping happiness. Utterly pathetic aren't you... This behavior is just one of the many things that sets you apart from real men.
REAL MEN GET REAL TIME PUSSY
You on the other hand, cannot even get the notice of a woman without paying her to pay attention to you, and that is what you crave most isn't it? You want attention. Someone to validate your less than stellar existence. Like a puppy begging for petting, only in your case the tail wagging is your pecker. Unfortunately for you, puppies are cute, your dick is not. No woman wants to pet it. Neener neener neener, no woman wants your weiner!!
Aww how sad a specimen of manhood you are. You want want want, yet you are denied denied denied. How does that feel? Are you ready to admit that you are not worthy of any woman, that you will never hold a special place in a woman's heart? Good, now you are ready to accept your intended purpose.
Yours is not the destiny to get the girl, but instead to serve the woman. Your mission is to make yourself useful to a woman. Your worth in a woman's life hinges upon your ability to manifest her material wants. If you refuse to do so, than you will be forever barred from any type of feminine attention. Women have no use for broke or miserly men. Such males should be consigned to living in hovels far away from the sight of women. They are ill suited to walk in a woman's world.
You on the other hand, if useful with a willing and wide open wallet, could be allowed to dwell on the outskirts of a woman's world. At last, you would find a place where you belong. You want to belong don't you? You want, but deserve no more than minute morsels of attention from a woman, and this is the only way you are going to get it.
Now get your wanking hand off your puny piece of penis, and get to pleasing a woman by sending her gifts :) You will find ultimate unending pleasure in giving, and pleasure is what you came here for isn't it...
Send a gift card today, to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
It is purported to be the most joyous time of the year, yet for many of you beta flops, it is the season of despair, for you are once again glaringly reminded of your failure to secure any type of meaningful connection with a woman to share the holidays with. You have fallen short of the goal, but than that is nothing new for you, now is it lol.
So here you are scouring the internet looking for your next masturbation mash up fix, hoping it will fill that black hole of a void you call a life with a few seconds of hand humping happiness. Utterly pathetic aren't you... This behavior is just one of the many things that sets you apart from real men.
REAL MEN GET REAL TIME PUSSY
You on the other hand, cannot even get the notice of a woman without paying her to pay attention to you, and that is what you crave most isn't it? You want attention. Someone to validate your less than stellar existence. Like a puppy begging for petting, only in your case the tail wagging is your pecker. Unfortunately for you, puppies are cute, your dick is not. No woman wants to pet it. Neener neener neener, no woman wants your weiner!!
Aww how sad a specimen of manhood you are. You want want want, yet you are denied denied denied. How does that feel? Are you ready to admit that you are not worthy of any woman, that you will never hold a special place in a woman's heart? Good, now you are ready to accept your intended purpose.
Yours is not the destiny to get the girl, but instead to serve the woman. Your mission is to make yourself useful to a woman. Your worth in a woman's life hinges upon your ability to manifest her material wants. If you refuse to do so, than you will be forever barred from any type of feminine attention. Women have no use for broke or miserly men. Such males should be consigned to living in hovels far away from the sight of women. They are ill suited to walk in a woman's world.
You on the other hand, if useful with a willing and wide open wallet, could be allowed to dwell on the outskirts of a woman's world. At last, you would find a place where you belong. You want to belong don't you? You want, but deserve no more than minute morsels of attention from a woman, and this is the only way you are going to get it.
Now get your wanking hand off your puny piece of penis, and get to pleasing a woman by sending her gifts :) You will find ultimate unending pleasure in giving, and pleasure is what you came here for isn't it...
Send a gift card today, to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Thursday, October 3, 2019
Commercialized fetish
Welcome to all who have found themselves here :)
Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.
Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.
Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*
Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?
The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene.
This is reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give up. Those are your only options.
The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?
For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.
It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.
The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?
Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.
Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)
I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.
The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.
I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!
Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.
Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.
Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*
Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?
The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene.
This is reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give up. Those are your only options.
The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?
For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.
It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.
The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?
Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.
Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)
I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.
The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.
I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!
Tuesday, July 2, 2019
The price of submission
Welcome poppets,
Today I speak to you about being a financial submissive. This is entirely different than being a service submissive, a sexual submissive, a fetishist, a client, a customer etc...
A financial submissive is the ONLY type of submissive I am interested in welcoming into my stable. No doubt this seems unfair, but life is not fair, and never delude yourself into thinking that it is meant to be. Life is intended to be lived, and enjoyed, but it was not created as an equal playing ground. Some people simply are better than others. Some people are more intelligent than others. Some people were born with financial advantages, and some have fought their way to the top of tier through sheer determination.
I appreciate people who are laden with a determined spirit. Ones who are driven to succeed. People who will push past discomfort, and strive forward towards the culmination of their goals. Is this you? Are you one of the select few who will impress me? Are you a financial submissive?
Financial submissives differ from the everyday run of the mill submissives cluttering the findom scene, in that they are not buyers with demands and expectations. Customers repulse me. They are insincere, and seek only their own gratification. What in the hell is attractive about a man who cares only for his own pleasure? A man who lacks consideration for woman and their wants and needs. Why would any woman value such a man? A man who offers a woman nothing, is worth nothing, and I have no use for a useless man.
Financial submissives give. They give without ulterior motivation. They give without coercion. They give simply to bring happiness. They give because they recognize that their contribution can make a difference in a woman's life. They give out of appreciation for a woman's time and energy. They give because it is ingrained within them to do so.
You may consider these men to be saps, due to the fact that they are not receiving "due compensation" in return for their contributions, but you would be dead wrong, and the only reason that you even think like that is because you are selfish yourself. You cannot imagine any man giving without getting. You are so wrapped up in you you you, that you fail to realize that these men receive a gift far greater than any fleshly pleasure can provide.
They are the men who make a difference. Those that stand out, and not forgotten easily. Nor are the discarded quicker than it takes the jizz to dry on your nuts. They are valued. They are appreciated. They are lauded as the very best of boys. They are the reason why I bother to continue making my presence known in the scene. These are the men I seek, and I am not a woman to settle for second rate submissives.
Mind you that you can be a financial submissive yet not a millionaire, but you cannot be a financial submissive without tributing a consistent weekly tithe. Consistency and generosity of said tributes are the key to becoming a desired financial submissive.
Being a financial submissive will make you a better man. It will teach you to appreciate a woman. It will lead you to worship a woman in the purest sense. It will complete you.
There is nothing stopping you from being this type of man, except you. You are stopping you. It is you that has attached yourself to the ideology that you deserve to gain from the existence of women. It is you who has treated women as if their creation was intended as a sexual treat for you. It is you that has poisoned your mind with selfishness, and it is up to you to change yourself. You are less than a worthless worm belly crawling his way across the Earth taking and taking and taking from women, til at last you will realize that women have zero respect for you, in fact all they have for you is loathing. Does that make you feel good?
You do not want to be reviled do you? I cannot imagine that being a good feeling in any sense. Redeem yourself lest it be too late for you. Start today even if it is small. Start today by giving of yourself selflessly to a woman. Start your day by making a woman smile as she sees your gift awaiting her in her inbox. Thank a woman for existing, and bringing beauty into your life. Give and gift gents, for that is what financial submissives do, and that is what you are purposed to do.
I expect to see the gift of your generous giving within my inbox after having read and absorbing my commands.
mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Today I speak to you about being a financial submissive. This is entirely different than being a service submissive, a sexual submissive, a fetishist, a client, a customer etc...
A financial submissive is the ONLY type of submissive I am interested in welcoming into my stable. No doubt this seems unfair, but life is not fair, and never delude yourself into thinking that it is meant to be. Life is intended to be lived, and enjoyed, but it was not created as an equal playing ground. Some people simply are better than others. Some people are more intelligent than others. Some people were born with financial advantages, and some have fought their way to the top of tier through sheer determination.
I appreciate people who are laden with a determined spirit. Ones who are driven to succeed. People who will push past discomfort, and strive forward towards the culmination of their goals. Is this you? Are you one of the select few who will impress me? Are you a financial submissive?
Financial submissives differ from the everyday run of the mill submissives cluttering the findom scene, in that they are not buyers with demands and expectations. Customers repulse me. They are insincere, and seek only their own gratification. What in the hell is attractive about a man who cares only for his own pleasure? A man who lacks consideration for woman and their wants and needs. Why would any woman value such a man? A man who offers a woman nothing, is worth nothing, and I have no use for a useless man.
Financial submissives give. They give without ulterior motivation. They give without coercion. They give simply to bring happiness. They give because they recognize that their contribution can make a difference in a woman's life. They give out of appreciation for a woman's time and energy. They give because it is ingrained within them to do so.
You may consider these men to be saps, due to the fact that they are not receiving "due compensation" in return for their contributions, but you would be dead wrong, and the only reason that you even think like that is because you are selfish yourself. You cannot imagine any man giving without getting. You are so wrapped up in you you you, that you fail to realize that these men receive a gift far greater than any fleshly pleasure can provide.
They are the men who make a difference. Those that stand out, and not forgotten easily. Nor are the discarded quicker than it takes the jizz to dry on your nuts. They are valued. They are appreciated. They are lauded as the very best of boys. They are the reason why I bother to continue making my presence known in the scene. These are the men I seek, and I am not a woman to settle for second rate submissives.
Mind you that you can be a financial submissive yet not a millionaire, but you cannot be a financial submissive without tributing a consistent weekly tithe. Consistency and generosity of said tributes are the key to becoming a desired financial submissive.
Being a financial submissive will make you a better man. It will teach you to appreciate a woman. It will lead you to worship a woman in the purest sense. It will complete you.
There is nothing stopping you from being this type of man, except you. You are stopping you. It is you that has attached yourself to the ideology that you deserve to gain from the existence of women. It is you who has treated women as if their creation was intended as a sexual treat for you. It is you that has poisoned your mind with selfishness, and it is up to you to change yourself. You are less than a worthless worm belly crawling his way across the Earth taking and taking and taking from women, til at last you will realize that women have zero respect for you, in fact all they have for you is loathing. Does that make you feel good?
You do not want to be reviled do you? I cannot imagine that being a good feeling in any sense. Redeem yourself lest it be too late for you. Start today even if it is small. Start today by giving of yourself selflessly to a woman. Start your day by making a woman smile as she sees your gift awaiting her in her inbox. Thank a woman for existing, and bringing beauty into your life. Give and gift gents, for that is what financial submissives do, and that is what you are purposed to do.
I expect to see the gift of your generous giving within my inbox after having read and absorbing my commands.
mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Wednesday, June 26, 2019
Be my best bitch
Good evening my masochistic minions, and devoted deviants
Your suffering is on the agenda this night lol
If you have to ask yourself if you have already suffered enough for me, than indeed you are due!
I have been working very hard lately to smash all of my goals, and deserve to be spoiled greatly by you gents.
Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils...I do adore those words, don't you? Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils whispering through your thoughts. Over and over til it is all that you can think of. There is such beauty, and dignity in those actions, when performed for Goddess. There can be no higher honor than suffering and sacrificing for the happiness of Goddess. You are honored in even being chosen for this purpose. You should be on your knees thanking Goddess for this opportunity to please her.
Goddess is offering you the golden chance of a lifetime. Are you brave enough to take up the gauntlet? Are you man enough to embrace the challenge?
Not all who come before me are even considered for a moment of my attention. My attention is a precious gift. Are you worthy of that gift? Are you prepared to bow down and be recognized? Let's find out shall we lol
You must know that in order to set sail upon this journey with me, you will be required to sacrifice from the onset. There can be no tepid actions. You are expected to proceed ahead full throttle.
Take that first step onto the plank, and send your tribute today. Your tribute is your troth, which you pledge willingly, and without coercion. Never should a Goddess be forced to demand that which you should be offering before she even thinks to ask. You must be smarter, you must learn to anticipate, and you must definitely be willing to give your all for her happiness and comfort. You wouldn't want your Goddess to be displeased now would you? Of course not, for you are determined to be her very best bitch in the kennel :)
Goddess makes no promise that the experience will be easily bought, but it is guaranteed to alter your life forever.
You my sweet were meant and are intended to become a vessel for Goddess. A vessel which serves an ultimate higher purpose in this lifetime. To be owned by Goddess, is to be among the most honored of men. You will join the ranks of her blessed few.
Come now, come and be received by Goddess.
Your suffering is on the agenda this night lol
If you have to ask yourself if you have already suffered enough for me, than indeed you are due!
I have been working very hard lately to smash all of my goals, and deserve to be spoiled greatly by you gents.
Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils...I do adore those words, don't you? Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils whispering through your thoughts. Over and over til it is all that you can think of. There is such beauty, and dignity in those actions, when performed for Goddess. There can be no higher honor than suffering and sacrificing for the happiness of Goddess. You are honored in even being chosen for this purpose. You should be on your knees thanking Goddess for this opportunity to please her.
Goddess is offering you the golden chance of a lifetime. Are you brave enough to take up the gauntlet? Are you man enough to embrace the challenge?
Not all who come before me are even considered for a moment of my attention. My attention is a precious gift. Are you worthy of that gift? Are you prepared to bow down and be recognized? Let's find out shall we lol
You must know that in order to set sail upon this journey with me, you will be required to sacrifice from the onset. There can be no tepid actions. You are expected to proceed ahead full throttle.
Take that first step onto the plank, and send your tribute today. Your tribute is your troth, which you pledge willingly, and without coercion. Never should a Goddess be forced to demand that which you should be offering before she even thinks to ask. You must be smarter, you must learn to anticipate, and you must definitely be willing to give your all for her happiness and comfort. You wouldn't want your Goddess to be displeased now would you? Of course not, for you are determined to be her very best bitch in the kennel :)
Goddess makes no promise that the experience will be easily bought, but it is guaranteed to alter your life forever.
You my sweet were meant and are intended to become a vessel for Goddess. A vessel which serves an ultimate higher purpose in this lifetime. To be owned by Goddess, is to be among the most honored of men. You will join the ranks of her blessed few.
Come now, come and be received by Goddess.
Saturday, May 25, 2019
Introspection is healthy for humanity
Hello to you my faithful followers, and welcome to those of you who have stumbled into my world!
I have been taking some time lately to reevaluate what I want and where I am going along my femdom/findom lifestyle journey. It benefits us as human beings to periodically take a step back, and make sure that the path we are on is the one we want and need to be on. I advise anyone who has spent time playing in the bdsm pool to do so.
Conclusions at this point remain fairly close to those I reached a year ago. I continue to distance myself from any type of play where the possibility of male orgasm exists. I recognize that the majority of males enter the fray with that type of happy ending in mind, which is fine and dandy for them, but it will not suit me in service.
The scene overflows with women who offer orgasmic experiences, so I would council any of you seeking that specific style of domination to search those women out, and I wish you the very best of luck :)
As each year passes, it becomes even more clear to me which type of male I find of value in service. A servant who has more in common with what one would title a eunuch. Of course, I understand that those who come to me are highly unlikely to be of the neutered variety, but that is what a chastity cage is for. Locked away long enough from the light of day, your mindset will evolve to the point of what pleases me.
It comes across as odd to many that I am not into the sexual aspects of bdsm, but than, not all of us are cut from the same cloth. The physical aspects have never really appealed to very much, but the same can not be said of the emotional and psychological ones.
I desire males to serve me not because I arouse their cock, rather I will only accept service based upon a deep seated need to see to my wants. Males who have overcome the most base instinct of being led by their nuts, for it is the mind I crave control over.
I want serving my will to become second nature. To the point where when you wake, your thoughts automatically gravitate towards how you can enhance my life today. And each night as you lay your weary head down after having toiled the day away laboring for the wages which will enrich my finances, your last words will be prayers lifting me up in worship.
Males such as you will become an integral part of my life. Your sacrifices will benefit my existence. Your worship will add a new dimension to my level of happiness, and your unwavering loyal devotion shall create an unbreakable bond of Mistress/slave. This type of commitment is far more meaningful than a sticky hand moment. In time it may even forge a lifelong connection, and that very connection is a priceless gift.
A last point which has not differed, is that in order to gain a golden ticket of entrance into my land of possibilities, is tribute. No man shall pass the gate without sending tribute. From day 1 I have adhered to this decree, and it has not failed me once, for any male who sincerely desires to serve under my command tributes without prompting and sans complaint. Life is far too precious for me to spend any moment of it arguing with a man who does not value me or my presence.
Those that are just now finding their way along, will no doubt be of a mind to quibble about tribute, for they yet possess the selfishness which rules the world of man at the moment. They want only to gratify their cocks commands freely. They do not grasp yet that you cannot attain anything of by value by refusing to relinquish a sacrifice. Those of you with this you you you mindset are to be sectioned off and given time to grow into a thinking man, rather than a reactionary one. Perhaps in time, you will change, and we shall speak once more, but til then, I bid you adieu.
If you have come this far now, come forward a bit more. Make yourself known to me by sending a financial sacrifice to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
I have been taking some time lately to reevaluate what I want and where I am going along my femdom/findom lifestyle journey. It benefits us as human beings to periodically take a step back, and make sure that the path we are on is the one we want and need to be on. I advise anyone who has spent time playing in the bdsm pool to do so.
Conclusions at this point remain fairly close to those I reached a year ago. I continue to distance myself from any type of play where the possibility of male orgasm exists. I recognize that the majority of males enter the fray with that type of happy ending in mind, which is fine and dandy for them, but it will not suit me in service.
The scene overflows with women who offer orgasmic experiences, so I would council any of you seeking that specific style of domination to search those women out, and I wish you the very best of luck :)
As each year passes, it becomes even more clear to me which type of male I find of value in service. A servant who has more in common with what one would title a eunuch. Of course, I understand that those who come to me are highly unlikely to be of the neutered variety, but that is what a chastity cage is for. Locked away long enough from the light of day, your mindset will evolve to the point of what pleases me.
It comes across as odd to many that I am not into the sexual aspects of bdsm, but than, not all of us are cut from the same cloth. The physical aspects have never really appealed to very much, but the same can not be said of the emotional and psychological ones.
I desire males to serve me not because I arouse their cock, rather I will only accept service based upon a deep seated need to see to my wants. Males who have overcome the most base instinct of being led by their nuts, for it is the mind I crave control over.
I want serving my will to become second nature. To the point where when you wake, your thoughts automatically gravitate towards how you can enhance my life today. And each night as you lay your weary head down after having toiled the day away laboring for the wages which will enrich my finances, your last words will be prayers lifting me up in worship.
Males such as you will become an integral part of my life. Your sacrifices will benefit my existence. Your worship will add a new dimension to my level of happiness, and your unwavering loyal devotion shall create an unbreakable bond of Mistress/slave. This type of commitment is far more meaningful than a sticky hand moment. In time it may even forge a lifelong connection, and that very connection is a priceless gift.
A last point which has not differed, is that in order to gain a golden ticket of entrance into my land of possibilities, is tribute. No man shall pass the gate without sending tribute. From day 1 I have adhered to this decree, and it has not failed me once, for any male who sincerely desires to serve under my command tributes without prompting and sans complaint. Life is far too precious for me to spend any moment of it arguing with a man who does not value me or my presence.
Those that are just now finding their way along, will no doubt be of a mind to quibble about tribute, for they yet possess the selfishness which rules the world of man at the moment. They want only to gratify their cocks commands freely. They do not grasp yet that you cannot attain anything of by value by refusing to relinquish a sacrifice. Those of you with this you you you mindset are to be sectioned off and given time to grow into a thinking man, rather than a reactionary one. Perhaps in time, you will change, and we shall speak once more, but til then, I bid you adieu.
If you have come this far now, come forward a bit more. Make yourself known to me by sending a financial sacrifice to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Thursday, May 2, 2019
Creating a selfless finsub
Dear Readers,
Welcome to my fertile field of Financial Domination, where I guide you into the realm of serving Sydney Claire.
Have you ever heard of the 4 S's? These are the revered keys of requirement in serving ME.
Surrender
~Your very first step is to acknowledge that ego has no place in submission. Ego is the antithesis of altruism, which is the apex goal of your training with me.
~How does one begin to alter the self centered thought processes which society dictates as supreme? Through daily repetitive actions and deeds of course, of the likes which you shall not be enlightened of til such time as you pledge yourself in service to me. The point being that it is possible with training.
Submit
~Submitting your will sounds so very simplistic, yet it is one of the most difficult of actions of conscious thought. Human beings are generally inclined to be followers by nature. It tends to be a survival instinct ingrained from the cro magnon era, where conformity to group think kept you safe and alive. Group think thrives to this very day, and whilst it may lend the appearance of safety, it will keep you from being free. Free to soar, free to be who you are meant to be.
~Society states that you should act in your best interest, but only so much as it aligns with their rules of how a man should think and behave. Whether you are cognizant of the fact or not, you already submit your will to society each and every day of your life.
~How do you subvert this tendency? 1.Conviction to see your course through. 2.Courage to rage against the system which chains you to their design. 3.Commitment to your happiness.
~Submitting your will to me comes at a cost though. You are in essence exchanging one set of chains for another, for I will rule you, have no doubt. I will rule, and mold you into a being who no longer lives their life for self, rather you shall live for Sydney Claire. The difference between society and myself, is that I know you for who you truly are, and I accept you as the submissive man you are.
Sacrifice
~Sacrifice is a required element in service. You will sacrifice the life you once knew. You will sacrifice the mindset you once possessed. You will sacrifice your ego, and free will for my cause. You may even sacrifice your dignity if I declare it so.
~The pinnacle of sacrifice though, is your finances. Through such a sacrifice you are offering me the ultimate power over you.
~You may have deluded yourself into believing that your flesh holds more value to me than your money does, alas you were wrong.
~Money is absolute power. Lack of it leaves you powerless, and I desire to bathe in power. If money were not the seed of power, than why is it you suppose that a man would rather lose his left nut than be broke? Because money is that powerful. Sacrifice your power to me.
Serve
~Following the above outlined steps leads you here. You are now prepared to serve Sydney Claire.You will serve in any manner I dictate, and will do so happily without debate. Come now in all humility to my inbox, and offer me your surrender, your submission, and your sacrifice. mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Welcome to my fertile field of Financial Domination, where I guide you into the realm of serving Sydney Claire.
Have you ever heard of the 4 S's? These are the revered keys of requirement in serving ME.
Surrender
~Your very first step is to acknowledge that ego has no place in submission. Ego is the antithesis of altruism, which is the apex goal of your training with me.
~How does one begin to alter the self centered thought processes which society dictates as supreme? Through daily repetitive actions and deeds of course, of the likes which you shall not be enlightened of til such time as you pledge yourself in service to me. The point being that it is possible with training.
Submit
~Submitting your will sounds so very simplistic, yet it is one of the most difficult of actions of conscious thought. Human beings are generally inclined to be followers by nature. It tends to be a survival instinct ingrained from the cro magnon era, where conformity to group think kept you safe and alive. Group think thrives to this very day, and whilst it may lend the appearance of safety, it will keep you from being free. Free to soar, free to be who you are meant to be.
~Society states that you should act in your best interest, but only so much as it aligns with their rules of how a man should think and behave. Whether you are cognizant of the fact or not, you already submit your will to society each and every day of your life.
~How do you subvert this tendency? 1.Conviction to see your course through. 2.Courage to rage against the system which chains you to their design. 3.Commitment to your happiness.
~Submitting your will to me comes at a cost though. You are in essence exchanging one set of chains for another, for I will rule you, have no doubt. I will rule, and mold you into a being who no longer lives their life for self, rather you shall live for Sydney Claire. The difference between society and myself, is that I know you for who you truly are, and I accept you as the submissive man you are.
Sacrifice
~Sacrifice is a required element in service. You will sacrifice the life you once knew. You will sacrifice the mindset you once possessed. You will sacrifice your ego, and free will for my cause. You may even sacrifice your dignity if I declare it so.
~The pinnacle of sacrifice though, is your finances. Through such a sacrifice you are offering me the ultimate power over you.
~You may have deluded yourself into believing that your flesh holds more value to me than your money does, alas you were wrong.
~Money is absolute power. Lack of it leaves you powerless, and I desire to bathe in power. If money were not the seed of power, than why is it you suppose that a man would rather lose his left nut than be broke? Because money is that powerful. Sacrifice your power to me.
Serve
~Following the above outlined steps leads you here. You are now prepared to serve Sydney Claire.You will serve in any manner I dictate, and will do so happily without debate. Come now in all humility to my inbox, and offer me your surrender, your submission, and your sacrifice. mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Friday, March 1, 2019
Take up your yoke
Welcome minions, puppets, and paypets of Goddess Sydney Claire
Are you ready to take up your yoke and place it around your neck? Are you prepared to become that which I decree?
My intention is for you to become my beast of burden. Do not view this as a bad thing, for it is not. Being a beast of burden is an honor for a male such as yourself. It is a distinction above the betas below you. It simply means that I have use of you, and being of use to Goddess Sydney Claire is the greatest of honors. You have been found of worth. You should be on your knees in gratitude for this opportunity to please me. You know how to show gratitude don't you?
Gratitude is displayed through sacrifice. Gratitude is an action, not a gaggle of words. You as my beast are to show gratitude daily. You want to be my beast don't you? Of course you do! You want to be of value. You want to be of use. You want to be the one who is recognized by a Goddess.
Serving Goddess elevates you above the ordinary, and you know in your heart that you want to become more than you ever dreamed possible.
As my beast, you will be stoic. You will not complain of the tasks assigned you. You will beg to suffer for my whims, and sacrifice for my satisfaction. You do want to satisfy me do you not? A novel concept for you eh?
You will never attempt to break your vow of servitude, for you are cognizant of the fact that to be without Goddess is to be in a living hell.
Your devotion to Goddess will be a study in grace. Your loyalty will never need be called into question, for your eyes can see no other than the divine Goddess Sydney Claire. Your appreciation will be a tangible thing, and your happiness to be held in my esteem will be your beacon of light in the darkest of times.
I call to you now my lowly beast which crawls upon the earth. I call you my own. Come claim your yoke.
Are you ready to take up your yoke and place it around your neck? Are you prepared to become that which I decree?
My intention is for you to become my beast of burden. Do not view this as a bad thing, for it is not. Being a beast of burden is an honor for a male such as yourself. It is a distinction above the betas below you. It simply means that I have use of you, and being of use to Goddess Sydney Claire is the greatest of honors. You have been found of worth. You should be on your knees in gratitude for this opportunity to please me. You know how to show gratitude don't you?
Gratitude is displayed through sacrifice. Gratitude is an action, not a gaggle of words. You as my beast are to show gratitude daily. You want to be my beast don't you? Of course you do! You want to be of value. You want to be of use. You want to be the one who is recognized by a Goddess.
Serving Goddess elevates you above the ordinary, and you know in your heart that you want to become more than you ever dreamed possible.
As my beast, you will be stoic. You will not complain of the tasks assigned you. You will beg to suffer for my whims, and sacrifice for my satisfaction. You do want to satisfy me do you not? A novel concept for you eh?
You will never attempt to break your vow of servitude, for you are cognizant of the fact that to be without Goddess is to be in a living hell.
Your devotion to Goddess will be a study in grace. Your loyalty will never need be called into question, for your eyes can see no other than the divine Goddess Sydney Claire. Your appreciation will be a tangible thing, and your happiness to be held in my esteem will be your beacon of light in the darkest of times.
I call to you now my lowly beast which crawls upon the earth. I call you my own. Come claim your yoke.
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
A Paradox of Submission
Greetings and good morning to all who enter with the intent of knowing Goddess Sydney Claire
Today I want to delve into a paradox of submission, and how it effects the lives of submissive males. As I sat scrolling through my TL last night, a pervasive thought would not depart. A thought that was cemented into a need to share my words with you dear readers.
Have you ever submitted yourself to a woman? Do you know what it feels like to be stripped bare mentally, emotionally, as well as physically before a woman? Of course some of you are going to jump up and say "hell ya I been undressed with a woman before". I do not doubt that you have, but have you ever been truly naked before a woman? Have you ever allowed yourself to actually be vulnerable before a woman? Have you been on your knees with no pretense between the two of you? No ego rearing it's huge head. No imposed societal rules shackling you. If you have, than I want to hear from you.
To be bared before the eyes of a woman is much more than a physicality. It is a sharing of the essential self. A reflection of the you which no longer hides behind the skin of society.
It evokes a feeling of extreme excitement to bow in submission to a woman. It is the absolute highest of highs. It is the roller coaster that never stops. There will be highs, and there will be lows, but it will always grip you by the ball hair and take you for a ride. The question you must put to yourself is, are you really ready to belt in?
Submission is beautiful. Submission is breath taking. Submission is bottled seduction. It is glorious, yet it can possess a downside if you are not mentally healthy when you engage.
Here comes the paradox. Excitement vs Shame. You have tugged up your big boy knickers, and dove in. You have twisted, turned, and rode that bull like it was your bitch, but now you have crossed that finish line, and the adrenaline high has dissipated. Now brace yourself, cause here comes the shame. Shame for yourself. You cannot believe the things you have done for a woman. No person you know would ever say that what you have done is acceptable or appropriate. Shame, shame upon you. What a perverse creature you became in a woman's presence, under her command. You allowed yourself to act in ways that you had only ever fantasized about previously.
Can you come to grips with what you have done? Can you find peace in the fact that you enjoyed it, that you sought it out, and finally, that you would sell your very soul to have it once again? This is the you that hid so very well. He is there, he has always been there, and he will always be there even if you deny him. This is truth. You, and you alone must come to terms with your truth. You want, you need, you must have in order to be completely happy.
I am here to tell you that it is ok to be submissive to a woman. It is ok to want that which others deem depraved, and definitely a blow to defined masculinity. Being submissive does not make you a bad person in need of exile from "polite" society. Being submissive is a facet of your humanity. Embrace it and be whole. You are not alone. Take solace in the fact that thousands of men are just like you. They are you.
Chew on this a moment :)
Today I want to delve into a paradox of submission, and how it effects the lives of submissive males. As I sat scrolling through my TL last night, a pervasive thought would not depart. A thought that was cemented into a need to share my words with you dear readers.
Have you ever submitted yourself to a woman? Do you know what it feels like to be stripped bare mentally, emotionally, as well as physically before a woman? Of course some of you are going to jump up and say "hell ya I been undressed with a woman before". I do not doubt that you have, but have you ever been truly naked before a woman? Have you ever allowed yourself to actually be vulnerable before a woman? Have you been on your knees with no pretense between the two of you? No ego rearing it's huge head. No imposed societal rules shackling you. If you have, than I want to hear from you.
To be bared before the eyes of a woman is much more than a physicality. It is a sharing of the essential self. A reflection of the you which no longer hides behind the skin of society.
It evokes a feeling of extreme excitement to bow in submission to a woman. It is the absolute highest of highs. It is the roller coaster that never stops. There will be highs, and there will be lows, but it will always grip you by the ball hair and take you for a ride. The question you must put to yourself is, are you really ready to belt in?
Submission is beautiful. Submission is breath taking. Submission is bottled seduction. It is glorious, yet it can possess a downside if you are not mentally healthy when you engage.
Here comes the paradox. Excitement vs Shame. You have tugged up your big boy knickers, and dove in. You have twisted, turned, and rode that bull like it was your bitch, but now you have crossed that finish line, and the adrenaline high has dissipated. Now brace yourself, cause here comes the shame. Shame for yourself. You cannot believe the things you have done for a woman. No person you know would ever say that what you have done is acceptable or appropriate. Shame, shame upon you. What a perverse creature you became in a woman's presence, under her command. You allowed yourself to act in ways that you had only ever fantasized about previously.
Can you come to grips with what you have done? Can you find peace in the fact that you enjoyed it, that you sought it out, and finally, that you would sell your very soul to have it once again? This is the you that hid so very well. He is there, he has always been there, and he will always be there even if you deny him. This is truth. You, and you alone must come to terms with your truth. You want, you need, you must have in order to be completely happy.
I am here to tell you that it is ok to be submissive to a woman. It is ok to want that which others deem depraved, and definitely a blow to defined masculinity. Being submissive does not make you a bad person in need of exile from "polite" society. Being submissive is a facet of your humanity. Embrace it and be whole. You are not alone. Take solace in the fact that thousands of men are just like you. They are you.
Chew on this a moment :)
Saturday, February 23, 2019
Mission, Purpose, Reasoned Existence
Welcome new and old followers alike
This very week, I decided to take my blog private. Why? Well quite honestly I simply tired of sharing my words of wisdom and submissive training with those that had not invested in me and my domination. People will always fail to appreciate that which is given freely, and submissive males are no exception to the rule.
So for those of you who are left, let us begin in earnest shall we?
You are a man without a mission, purpose, or reason for existence. I as your divine deity, Goddess Sydney Claire am here to provide those things for you. Your mission is my happiness. Your purpose is to serve me, and serving me brings meaning to your existence. You have a calling, and a destiny which will not be denied.
I understand your trepidation. Walking a foreign path is fraught with possible pitfalls and fright, but fear not my pet, for I am with you. I am here to lead you, to guide you in your journey towards becoming the very best submissive in service to me. You are mine to mold. I will burn you down to the base, and then undertake the task of building you back up til you resemble the submissive I seen within you. You will be stronger, you will be devoted, you will be diligent, and you will be a better human being.
I want you to begin with a simple morning mantra.
Goddess Sydney Claire provides purpose, passion, and meaning for my existence.
Start today, and repeat it 3 times a day. Recite it every day til it is branded upon your lips. Know it, believe it, and live up to it.
We both know that your desire is to submit yourself to me fully, else you would not be reading my words this very moment. You are bursting with excitement at the possibility of finally finding your longterm Goddess. Your heart and flesh are ready to commit, and commence. Goddess is ready and awaits your worship.
Tribute is your sacred act of worship. You will come to embrace sacrifice for Sydney Claire, for nothing and no one else matters. Others are an unwanted distraction. They separate you from your purpose, and that cannot be tolerated. You have no need, but that of Sydney Claire. I am more precious than the very air you breathe. Your eyes should always be set upon the way to pleasing me. Anything else would be sacrilegious.
Are you ready pet? I am. Come now and abase yourself before me.
This very week, I decided to take my blog private. Why? Well quite honestly I simply tired of sharing my words of wisdom and submissive training with those that had not invested in me and my domination. People will always fail to appreciate that which is given freely, and submissive males are no exception to the rule.
So for those of you who are left, let us begin in earnest shall we?
You are a man without a mission, purpose, or reason for existence. I as your divine deity, Goddess Sydney Claire am here to provide those things for you. Your mission is my happiness. Your purpose is to serve me, and serving me brings meaning to your existence. You have a calling, and a destiny which will not be denied.
I understand your trepidation. Walking a foreign path is fraught with possible pitfalls and fright, but fear not my pet, for I am with you. I am here to lead you, to guide you in your journey towards becoming the very best submissive in service to me. You are mine to mold. I will burn you down to the base, and then undertake the task of building you back up til you resemble the submissive I seen within you. You will be stronger, you will be devoted, you will be diligent, and you will be a better human being.
I want you to begin with a simple morning mantra.
Goddess Sydney Claire provides purpose, passion, and meaning for my existence.
Start today, and repeat it 3 times a day. Recite it every day til it is branded upon your lips. Know it, believe it, and live up to it.
We both know that your desire is to submit yourself to me fully, else you would not be reading my words this very moment. You are bursting with excitement at the possibility of finally finding your longterm Goddess. Your heart and flesh are ready to commit, and commence. Goddess is ready and awaits your worship.
Tribute is your sacred act of worship. You will come to embrace sacrifice for Sydney Claire, for nothing and no one else matters. Others are an unwanted distraction. They separate you from your purpose, and that cannot be tolerated. You have no need, but that of Sydney Claire. I am more precious than the very air you breathe. Your eyes should always be set upon the way to pleasing me. Anything else would be sacrilegious.
Are you ready pet? I am. Come now and abase yourself before me.
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
Doxxing is for dickheads
Today's subject will be waxing on about the subject of doxxing.
You will see the word doxxing used quite frequently in nilla instances and fetish ones. It is a seriously offensive action. It has the potential of fatal repercussions, which it is why it is never and I mean never ever ever a joking matter. This is probably why I do not engage in blackmail play, since I am never ever going to out someone, regardless of how much you pay me.
One of the first rules you learn about in the fetish scene is safety. You play safely, and you do all within your power to be safely played with. Play has real life ramifications if done improperly. This we all know, right? I sincerely hope so.
Now in the fetish scene, it is more common than not for people to employ stage names. This is a safety measure. It is used as a line of protection to deter stalkers, and those whose intent is ill willed. Women whether you realize it or not, are more likely than men to be murdered or abused in the fetish scene, hell in the world at large, so it only makes sense that women will take steps to ensure that they are untraceable in their nilla spheres. No one should be faulting a woman for taking precautions.
A woman who uses a faux name is no less a "real Domme" than a woman who doesn't use one. The only thing she is hiding is a direct route to her person, which many of you males do as well. Males in the scene are very likely to provide a false name as well, along with refusing to post any type of photo with their face included. They reason this to be for privacy reasons due to employment, yet it is as well a form of protection of their person. No one that I know of desires to have a random fetish stranger calling their personal number, or showing up at their home without an explicit invitation. It just is not done. In fact, quite a few people compartmentalize their vanilla life far away from their fetish one, so keeping your information private is a sensible rule of thumb.
I understand that after having known someone online for a goodly amount of time that tidbits about your life and person will slip out, and this is where issues can arise. The person you had confidence in to keep your data secret suddenly turns on you. I have seen both males and females alike stoop to this unforgivable behavior. Trust is paramount in bdsm, so to see it abused is reprehensible to say the least.
I have noted males getting angry with Dommes they have served, and outing them to the public, which then opens the Domme up to possible danger. In turn I have witnessed Dommes putting a male on blast with his personal information shared, and that is vile as well. Even the threat of doxxing someone should earn you a shunning, and no I do not give a flying fuck for how successful you are in the scene, or how much money you have in your bank account, cause if you doxx or threaten to doxx anyone, you do not belong anywhere near the fetish scene. You in fact need to seek mental help immediately for your toxicity.
The best thing to do, and I really do dislike advising this course of action, but the best thing you can do to protect yourself, is to not share personal information at all with anyone. I realize that the temptation is there, but you must resist, because in the end, you may very well be putting your life at stake. Is it really worth that risk? For me, I say no, but of course you must choose your own path, but I do hope that my words have given you food for thought.
Be safe all!
You will see the word doxxing used quite frequently in nilla instances and fetish ones. It is a seriously offensive action. It has the potential of fatal repercussions, which it is why it is never and I mean never ever ever a joking matter. This is probably why I do not engage in blackmail play, since I am never ever going to out someone, regardless of how much you pay me.
One of the first rules you learn about in the fetish scene is safety. You play safely, and you do all within your power to be safely played with. Play has real life ramifications if done improperly. This we all know, right? I sincerely hope so.
Now in the fetish scene, it is more common than not for people to employ stage names. This is a safety measure. It is used as a line of protection to deter stalkers, and those whose intent is ill willed. Women whether you realize it or not, are more likely than men to be murdered or abused in the fetish scene, hell in the world at large, so it only makes sense that women will take steps to ensure that they are untraceable in their nilla spheres. No one should be faulting a woman for taking precautions.
A woman who uses a faux name is no less a "real Domme" than a woman who doesn't use one. The only thing she is hiding is a direct route to her person, which many of you males do as well. Males in the scene are very likely to provide a false name as well, along with refusing to post any type of photo with their face included. They reason this to be for privacy reasons due to employment, yet it is as well a form of protection of their person. No one that I know of desires to have a random fetish stranger calling their personal number, or showing up at their home without an explicit invitation. It just is not done. In fact, quite a few people compartmentalize their vanilla life far away from their fetish one, so keeping your information private is a sensible rule of thumb.
I understand that after having known someone online for a goodly amount of time that tidbits about your life and person will slip out, and this is where issues can arise. The person you had confidence in to keep your data secret suddenly turns on you. I have seen both males and females alike stoop to this unforgivable behavior. Trust is paramount in bdsm, so to see it abused is reprehensible to say the least.
I have noted males getting angry with Dommes they have served, and outing them to the public, which then opens the Domme up to possible danger. In turn I have witnessed Dommes putting a male on blast with his personal information shared, and that is vile as well. Even the threat of doxxing someone should earn you a shunning, and no I do not give a flying fuck for how successful you are in the scene, or how much money you have in your bank account, cause if you doxx or threaten to doxx anyone, you do not belong anywhere near the fetish scene. You in fact need to seek mental help immediately for your toxicity.
The best thing to do, and I really do dislike advising this course of action, but the best thing you can do to protect yourself, is to not share personal information at all with anyone. I realize that the temptation is there, but you must resist, because in the end, you may very well be putting your life at stake. Is it really worth that risk? For me, I say no, but of course you must choose your own path, but I do hope that my words have given you food for thought.
Be safe all!
Thursday, December 13, 2018
Don't fall foul of the block hammer
Have you ever been blocked by me on a social media site, or a messenger service?
Odds are that you have not. Why? Cause I do not make a practice of blocking folks. There are only a handful of reasons that I ever block anyone.
1)You have been rude to me. Now rude can be defined in different ways. I am not talking about people who in general do not share the same views as I. I always welcome dissenting opinions, so long as they are relayed in a well mannered context..ie none of that "you are wrong you stupid bitch". You can disagree with me respectfully, yet still remain in contact with me :) FYI unsolicited dick pics are considered the height of rudeness, please don't do it.
2)You make misogynistic statements. If you do not like or even hate women, do yourself the service of not interacting with them. Sure it may make you feel all special and superior when you disparage women on the internet, but it really makes you look like a pile of steaming shit. That is not an appealing look for anyone. This does not apply to men alone, for I have seen plenty of women who like to trash fellow women as well, and they get blocked too.
3)You outright lie to me. I am going to tell you now fellas, I have been around the block more times than I can count, so pulling a fast one on me is pretty darn difficult, so let's just you some time by not expending effort in that direction at all ok. I have a definite hate hard on for liars, and will block you before you can get the delivery line out. You have been duly warned.
4)You are a bully. Ugh I detest people that nit pick at others to make themselves feel better about their own crappiness of a life. This goes as well for those that jump on the band of bullies wagon. You know what I am talking about. We have all seen where 1 person gets pissed at someone, then all of their buds pipe up in on it. That is so junior highish..just say NO.
5)You are trying to use me for your own gain. Now this can be a fine line to walk. I realize that some of you fetish guys are seeking out someone to fulfill your fetish desires, I totally get that, but if you do not intend to compensate for that woman's time, than I lose all respect for you as a human being. I do not like being taken advantage of, and at my age, you are highly unlikely to get anywhere near using me with my consent.
There ya go, a handful of reasons why I block. Don't fall foul of my blocking hand, cause it is straight up sadistic lol
***Feel free to share with me here why you block people!***
Tuesday, December 11, 2018
Don't be a stranger to Goddess Sydney Claire
I do not play with strangers
If you knew me, you would know that I have no desire to play with submissives whom I know nothing of. It brings me no pleasure, and it is actually a debbie downer for me.
Dominating a male that has taken the time to make a connection with me, ensures that we both find fulfillment within the exchange, and fulfillment is what we all seek is it not?
I definitely do not play in person with random strange males. 1)That is a safety NO NO for me, and should be for you as well. 2)It leaves me feeling cold and detached. Whilst some of you pisspots on the net do deserve a brutal ball busting session, I won't offer to engage in it without knowing you first. FYI I love nut busting :) so get to know me first, and I just might drop you to your knees lol!
All males who serve me are told flat out that real time will not be an option til they have served out an online probationary period, and there are no exceptions to this rule. Serving me online is similar to a courtship in a fetish relationship. You get to interact with me daily, learn my likes and dislikes, see a side of me that is not available for public consumption, and I gain the knowledge I require to break you to my bit:)
Getting to know someone is an exhilarating experience if done correctly. It is like foreplay for the mind. Take your time. There is no need to rush through it. It is definitely not a sprint to the finish line. Slow your roll, and keep a steady pace. You will get there in time. I prefer long term servitude anyway, so anyone that lacks the patience to get to know me properly is not going to last in my stable, and I would rather find that out early on, rather than wasting any of my precious time on someone who does not possess the same goal.
I understand how exciting it can be to come across someone that you really want to indulge your fetish with, but trying to steamroll your way into their presence is just not going to end up very well, especially for those of you seeking out someone to mindfuck your existence. Dommes need to know your buttons before they can push them doll.
Yes drive by tributes, and one off sessions with slutty nuts can be fun for me, but it really isn't my preference unless it is a slut that I have played with before. I get that some of you treat fetish like a Baskin Robbins. You want to try all 51 flavors of domination, and that is ok so long as you realize that not only will it break your piggy bank, but it may sour you on fetish altogether, cause all you are going to get is a flash bang for that buck, so unless that it really what you are looking for than I advise to avoid that type of approach. There is an upside to slutting though. Engaging with multiple Dommes ups your odds of finding that special ONE. The one that you are meant to serve long term, and that is a definite positive!
The choice of which type of Domme you serve is ultimately yours to make, but don't act like a dick when you come across a Domme that is not in to shortstack session servitude. Respect the right of a woman to decide which males she wishes to play with, and her rules of engagement. That way, if either of you ever changes your stance, you will have left the door open to the possibility! You never know what the future may hold, so don't burn those bridges bb :)
As always...amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com are a great way of saying "I appreciate you"
Tuesday, December 4, 2018
Down and Dirty Talk on Originality
Seriously now...can you construct an original thought? One might assume that you gents all belong to a collective hive considering that you open with the same lines of dialogue on the daily. Don't you ever tire of it? I myself would welcome a breath of fresh air when it comes to conversation. At times, even I tire of the redundant trite thread which is predictable in nature.
Do you recognize the insanity of replaying the same scenario over and over with no differing results? You pop in with meaningless compliments, and immediately bypass civility to go for the kink kill. When that does not net the outcome you desire, you then concoct baseless outrage towards your targeted audience. Finishing up with what you assume is the greatest of insults, you flounce away in a huff to seek out your next new face.
Doesn't this wear you out? Don't you ever just want to step back from the madness of the cycle, and readjust your game plan? What could it hurt, and what would it cost you to reevaluate? Answer, it would hurt nothing, and cost you a few moments, which in the end may save you future effort. It is definitely worth the investment.
Originality is an art form that you would do well to incorporate into your approach. A woman of experience knows full well when a male is coming at them with a tired line, and this tends to irritate and insult her intelligence. Did you sincerely join the fetish grind in order to flat out lose any possibility of making a D's match? I would think not, else you have wasted your own time exponentially, and that would be almost criminal.
My advice would be to slow your roll, use the brain you were given, and take the time to interact accordingly with each Domme you contact. Recognize that all individuals differ, and that if all you have to offer is your own selfishly driven agenda, than you are indeed the loser you jokingly term yourself as.
**As always..gift cards are given in appreciation. Send one today to mzsydney34@yahoo.com**
Monday, December 3, 2018
Wreck you, Ruin you, Fuck you up
Homewrecking
Do I really want to wreck your home life? Absolutely! I want to wreck YOU. I want your partner to see you for who and what you really are, then dump your ass in the dirt. You and I both know that she deserves better than you. If you were a man of any value, would you really be online sneaking on her? Nope. You are just another vile creature bound for indentured servitude at my feet. Vermin for me to torment when I remember that you even exist, which will only be when you pay tribute, otherwise you are not worthy of distinction at all. Isn't that right lol
Leave off if you expect to come to me with your ragtag fantasy of me trashing your wife with the entire "hotter than your wife" misogyny BS. I am never going to be that type of woman. Your wife is not the one who deserves to be degraded, or spoken of like refuse...YOU are, and I will take immense delight in making sure that you know exactly how low you are on the totem pole bb.
Financial Ruination
Do I really want to ruin your financially? Absolutely! Mind you that there is a difference between ruined and broken. By ruination I mean to wipe out your checkings, savings, and 401K, along with maxing out your credit cards. Now that will not leave you broken. You will still be able to work, and pay off your debt. This game is not worth engaging in though if you are already broke, note I said broke not broken. If you have no assets to liquidate or extensions of credit, than you are ineligible to play. This is a big league game, and small fries cannot handle the heat, so just stay on the sidelines sweetie.
Mindfuckery
Do I want to crawl into your mind and fuck you up to the point where I am all that you can think about? Absolutely! When you are serving a Goddess such as myself, there is no need to skulk around. No other will come close to wrapping you around their greedy little fist than I. I want it all. Everything, and I will not be kind in my means of sating my desires with your cash.
Now you tell me...do you really want to come play with ME? Do you have the balls to step into my inbox knowing exactly what I have planned for you? I hope so :)
Start the game by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Wednesday, November 28, 2018
Are you what I am searching for?
The type of male who catches my eye
Do you ever wonder what kind of male it is that gets my attention, that piques my interest, and eventually ends up in my stable of submissives? Well sit right down, because I am going to tell you all about him :)
I like manly men
Men that are ambitious go getters in the world. Yup these are purely masculine men. They are not weak. They are not spineless. They are not doormats to be walked upon. Sounds like an alpha male yes? Well, yes and no.
Alpha but yet not
Definitely dominant in the workplace, but the switch gets flipped when they come under my heel. I am the only person in the entire universe that they will kneel before. I absolutely adore a strong man on his knees for me. Not necessarily am I stating that he must be a brawny man physically, but his strength of will, intellect, and drive is undeniable. He walks tall, and proud of his masculinity. He is a leader in his profession, but my pet in his private life. To me alone will he relinquish control.
Why a feminized man will never suit me in submissive service
I have in the past trained males who were quite feminine, and I found it to be annoying as hell. They were needy, passive aggressive, and more hormonal than I. There can only be 1 woman in my relationships, and I have filled that position. A man who wants to be me, will never truly serve me. Now this is not to say that I do not enjoy putting my men in panties, for I do, but only so that they may appreciate the erotic sensation of lace and silk upon their flesh. Human beings can be quite tactile, and having something soft rubbing against your skin equates to a happy feeling :)
Why not a switch than
I am not in the least bit submissive, therefore I do not believe that a switch male would ever be satisfied with serving me long term, and long term is ALWAYS my goal when it comes to femdom relationships. I lead, and they follow, but a switch man is more likely to get the itch to take the reins, and I will not allow that, so I find it best to avoid the possibility of such conflict.
Bratty boys are a bother
My longest serving boy is dubbed my brat, but he is anything but bratty. He understands that it is my will which holds dominion in our relationship, and deviation from acceptable behavior in the hopes of forcing my hand will be met with a cold shoulder. My life is complicated enough without the addition of those who subscribe to chaotic behavior.
Just say NO to the kinky fetishist
A fetishists desires revolve around their fetish as a rule. They are geared towards getting off and getting out. They are basically the equivalent of a vanilla one night stand, and I avoid those like the black plague. Indeed they can be fun for a session or two, but they are not long term material generally. I will not deny that I have dabbled with them once or twice, but to truly satisfy me, I need long term, so unless you catch me in just the right mood, I am going to have to take a pass.
Which type are you?
As always, gift cards are lovely display of appreciation for my time sharing my mind with you :)
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Free Task Tuesday for Chastity gents
Free Task Tuesday
Some of you most likely seen my twitter post yesterday about a free task I am offering for chastity males only.
I am going to outline the task here for you.
Rules
1)You must currently be in a chastity device
2)You must be unowned
Tis the Holiday season and Goddess wants to be entertained, which is just one of your duties :) Now onto your task.
I want a video (no face) of silver bells attached to the device, and the bells are to ring out in time with the song jingle bells. It will be my own version of jingle balls lol
Submit the completed task to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Some of you most likely seen my twitter post yesterday about a free task I am offering for chastity males only.
I am going to outline the task here for you.
Rules
1)You must currently be in a chastity device
2)You must be unowned
Tis the Holiday season and Goddess wants to be entertained, which is just one of your duties :) Now onto your task.
I want a video (no face) of silver bells attached to the device, and the bells are to ring out in time with the song jingle bells. It will be my own version of jingle balls lol
Submit the completed task to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Monday, November 26, 2018
Frosty Cock in Chastity
Winter is the best time to start your cock lock journey
Why is it the best time though?
Because it is cold outside
Being as it is cold outside, you are able to dress in layers, and loose baggy clothing, unlike in the summer time when you are basically forced to dress down to the least amount of clothing. This affords you the distinct opportunity to cover up that cock cage in public settings most effectively. Keeping your chastity cage a secret is difficult to do when you are wearing shorty shorts in the dead hot heat of summer lol Not to mention that the little demon in your pants is less likely to be popping it's head up when it is 10 below outside, cause walking out in the brisk winds of winter makes a shriveled mockery of your manhood anyway. Another benefit to cold weather chastity, is that when your willie gets frosty, it is not going to be straining at the bit to get loose and create havoc, which means less pain for you since erections in a cage cause constriction of your cock..ie ouch! That is a definite plus!
It will make your winter more productive
Ever notice how in the cold months, all of your activities are mainly sedentary and indoors? You sit around bitching and moaning about how cold it is, while you are downloading porn in the hopes that you can seduce your hand. Nothing gets done, except your dicklet making a mess on the keyboard, and who has time for cleaning up after his ass, so do yourself a favor, and lock that cock today. Now you can get on with getting productive. You will find yourself able to concentrate on getting more out of your life without his obtrusive presence constantly calling on you to selfishly pleasure him. Haven't you allowed him to take up too much of your precious time as it is? Make the choice to give him the cold shoulder by locking him away under a cold steel chastity cage :) and freeze him out by tossing the key into a container of water in your freezer.
Your cock will be conditioned to keep calm
By the time summer rolls around, your cock will no longer be caterwauling to be set free. It will become your good boy, so that you can get out to enjoy the sunshine without worrying he is going to call undue attention to you at the beach. No one likes pervs at the beach popping a pup tent. Save yourself that embarrassment. You and I both know that you only lose out when women find out that you got the short end of the stick so to speak. You don't need that type of rejection. You are way better suited to locking that jolly joke away for Goddess anyway :)
So be MY good boy, and commit to chastity today!
And as always, don't forget to send an amazon gift card as a display of your undying appreciation to mzsydney34@yahoo.com, and feel free to leave your comments, thoughts, or opinions on today's post!!
**Note, I have a free chastity task for unowned males who are interested**
Thursday, November 22, 2018
Financial Domination Thankfulness
Why I am thankful for financial domination
Today is a recognized national day to give thanks, and one of the things I am thankful for is the findom community, which has brought me into contact with so many wonderful women of strength and creativity. They are leaders of inspiration for both females and males, and I feel blessed to be a part of it all!
Financial domination has graced my life with the presence of lovely selfless males who give their all to be my best of bois. I even give thanks for the horrid little cretins who have attempted to diminish my joy in the fetish, for they have taught me invaluable lessons, such as insight into the minds of users and how to spot a loser in life..so swallow that up shitstains :)
Concerning matter on social media
Something I seen on my twitter feed today (do you follow me on twitter..if not, you really should) really saddened me to the core. It was a fishing post by a male (not really about fishing for fish) where he asked if there were any females into accepting small tributes such as $1. Why did it bother me, well it did so, because so many females responded in the affirmative, and even went so far as to throw out their cash apps for him.
Small tributes discussion
There has always been differing stances in findom about small tributes, and I understand both sides of the equation. Yes tributing is good, but it can also be a dead fish slap in the face. How can a tribute be insulting, I mean it is a gift afterall right? Yes a tribute is a gift, but within the realm of financial domination, a tribute is meant to be remitted as a sacrifice, and if you are in a place financially where $1 is a true sacrifice, than you really should not be here. That is not me being cruel, that is me being honest, cause if you are not financially secure, you should not be attempting to indulge in financial fetishes. Any finsub needs to be financially solvent before they toss their tribute into the arena..seriously.
Unfortunately there are some males who treat the fetish like it is a McDonalds. They want to tribute the price of a value menu item, and consume praise for less than minimal effort, which is why it is insulting as hell. Findom is not a bargain basement fetish. It is not a dollar tree tease either, and more than being angry at the rotten refuse that brings such disgusting offers to the table, I feel so very sad for the females who are willing to accept $1 as their due.
Women are the most marvelous of creation, and they deserve so much better than most men are willing to provide. Low balling is offensive. Findom is not a flea market gents. Findom is at the root, a relationship, and if all you are willing to invest is $1, what good are you?This type of mentality could very well be why you are a loser on and offline. Ponder that a moment, and straighten yourself out.
All tributes are good
Let's look at the opposing view. All tributes are good regardless of amount. The old, "it is the thought that counts". Is it really though? It is the thought that counts when a man is trying to use and abuse your time for $1, cause that is exactly what he is doing. Here is the difference, and why $1 is ok. If a $1 tribute is sent, and the sender expects zero notice, or requires no attention for said $1 tribute, then and only then would you ever get me to say that it is borderline ok. But if the sender attaches strings to a $1 tribute...he is a POS in my estimation.
This is where the moaners are going to chime in, "all you care about is money, and aren't dominating for the love of it". I am in agreement with you that findom is about more than money, but it is also all about money. Make sense? It simply cannot be called financial domination if there is no financial aspect in play, and as I said before, if $1 is a burden upon your wallet, you do not belong here. Take a step back, and get your life in order before you come back. I am being totally upfront with you about that. A dominant is supposed to care about those that come under their heel, and it would be a travesty for a dominant to financially dominate a male who has no finances. Afterall a human being needs to eat, procure shelter, and living amenities right? And if that is the case, than every dollar should be spent towards securing those needs, so me taking that $1 could make the difference whether a male has enough money to buy some ramen. See, that is me being a responsible dominant :)
Of course it is up to each individual female what she is willing to accept as tribute, but I am outright telling you gents not to be shady like the dude on twitter. Yes I know that you all crave attention, but there are good ways, and bad ways to go about getting it, and $1 is a shitty move. Up your game, and get to sending a sacrifice that accurately reflects your desire to serve women, rather than one which announces the value of your penis.
Think about what I have said gents, and feel free to send an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com in thankfulness and appreciation for my words of wisdom!
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