Meaningful Mindless Submission

Welcome to the wonderful world of All Things Sydney Claire!

It is purported to be the most joyous time of the year, yet for many of you beta flops, it is the season of despair, for you are once again glaringly reminded of your failure to secure any type of meaningful connection with a woman to share the holidays with. You have fallen short of the goal, but than that is nothing new for you, now is it lol.

So here you are scouring the internet looking for your next masturbation mash up fix, hoping it will fill that black hole of a void you call a life with a few seconds of hand humping happiness. Utterly pathetic aren't you... This behavior is just one of the many things that sets you apart from real men. 

REAL MEN GET REAL TIME PUSSY

You on the other hand, cannot even get the notice of a woman without paying her to pay attention to you, and that is what you crave most isn't it? You want attention. Someone to validate your less than stellar existence. Like a puppy begging for petting, only in your case the tail wagging is your pecker. Unfortunately for you, puppies are cute, your dick is not. No woman wants to pet it. Neener neener neener, no woman wants your weiner!!

Aww how sad a specimen of manhood you are. You want want want, yet you are denied denied denied. How does that feel? Are you ready to admit that you are not worthy of any woman, that you will never hold a special place in a woman's heart? Good, now you are ready to accept your intended purpose. 

Yours is not the destiny to get the girl, but instead to serve the woman. Your mission is to make yourself useful to a woman. Your worth in a woman's life hinges upon your ability to manifest her material wants. If you refuse to do so, than you will be forever barred from any type of feminine attention. Women have no use for broke or miserly men. Such males should be consigned to living in hovels far away from the sight of women. They are ill suited to walk in a woman's world.

You on the other hand, if useful with a willing and wide open wallet, could be allowed to dwell on the outskirts of a woman's world. At last, you would find a place where you belong. You want to belong don't you? You want, but deserve no more than minute morsels of attention from a woman, and this is the only way you are going to get it. 

Now get your wanking hand off your puny piece of penis, and get to pleasing a woman by sending her gifts :) You will find ultimate unending pleasure in giving, and pleasure is what you came here for isn't it...

Send a gift card today, to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com

 

 

Same name, same game

Hello and welcome to Sydney Claire's slice of femdom

The name of the game is findom. 

Now, some of you gents keep trying to change the definition of the game. Whelp I am here to relay to you that it is not going to work.

I so get it that you do not like the rules of findom, but you have 2 choices

1)suck it up, provide and abide
or
2)get your ass outta fetish 

I know that you newer peeps get confused about the definition since it gets mislabeled so much of the time, so I am going to be a generous Goddess, and educate you here and now.

Findom has always been about giving your money to women, and getting nothing in return. Ya ya ya, I am not forgetting the domination aspect of the term, but what you aren't grasping is that the domination part is about dominating finances. Dominating the money, not your dick. 

Seeing as most Dommes are not one pony tricks, they harbor many fetishes, and play them out alongside findom. This is not a bad thing. It is actually a pretty awesome thing, but it can lead to possible confusion, so here I am to clear away the grey.

I am going to break it down for you even further, thereby offering clarity to the fullest.

1)Buying clips is not participating in findom. Buying clips is buying a product, just as selling clips is selling a product.

2)Paying for an online or in person session is not findom. You are paying or offering a service.

3)Procuring used items from a woman is not findom. Acquiring goods or peddling items is business.

Now that I have schooled you as to what findom is not, let's move on to what findom is.

1)Giving, sending money to a woman with zero expectations of receiving anything in return.

2)Giving a woman control over your bank account so that she may decide what you spend and what you buy.

3)Giving gifts to a woman, and once again expecting nothing from her. 

See the difference? Awesome!! I knew that you were a smart cookie ;-)

You are now ready to dive in deep into the exhilarating fetish of findom. Feel free to thank me with a tribute
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com

FinDumme Subbies

Gentlemen you all are getting twisted! Do you even know what Findom is? I really do not believe that you do.

This is coming straight from my perspective, and if you want to disagree, that is cool, but my view is firm, which means that you are not going to be changing my mind, okies.

Findom is not about you, or your dick. It never was, and never will be. Yes Dommes know that you are obsessed with that worthless skin sac in your pants, but they are not. Dommes do not wake up every morning thinking..hey I hope that I will be lucky enough to help a bunch of random dicks spew out of the goodness of my heart, whilst asking nothing for myself. Seriously who even thinks like that...ya you do. 

If this is how you think, YOU are the anal leakage of the fetish. This is Financial Domination bb...that means MONEY. It is a fetish based upon MONEY, not dick. It is about dicks giving their money to women plain and simple. Don't like the truth of it, don't come around here no more, cause it ain't gonna change no matter how much you wish it would. Just get over yourself, and accept that in order to play in this sandbox, you are going to have to pay the entrance fee. Findom was always about the money, no matter how many other fetishes get umbrellad under the term. It is about the money, it was about the money, it will be about the money.

Hold up, don't think that I am forgetting about the domination aspect. Look at the words again. FINANCIAL DOMINATION. It is the act of dominating finances. Dominating money, and that breaks down to...YOU giving your money to women. See how apparent that is? The route that the domination of that cash takes is up to the dominant, but if the money is not involved, it AIN'T Financial Domination. Spin it however you want, but get the terminology correct. No money = no findom. That clear?? If not, you are too stupid to exist on this planet.

What FemDoms desire in a submissive

Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

Feigning FinDom Ignorance

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen....

 Feigning ignorance as to what FinDom is, is not believable. 
Why?

1)You obviously found me, which means you have had to have noted the fetish term in my blogs or posts elsewhere

2)If you possess the intellect to navigate the internet, than you know full well how to google terms which you do not possess knowledge of

In this day and age of technology and advancements, I absolutely refuse to accept ignorance as a viable excuse. Why do I believe that males attempt to proclaim ignorance of the term?

1)They are too lazy to even use google

2)They do not want to pay tribute, so they hope that by feigning a lack of knowledge, they may get lucky and get some free talk, even if it is only an explanation of terminology 

This type of ploy has a zero success rate with me. Of course I am more than happy to snarkily refer you to google for your answer, but you will not receive any further notice than that. My time really is precious to me, and I refuse to waste it in such a manner. Besides, I expect, nay require that those who serve me possess a modicum of intelligence and initiative, so any who pose this question to me are simply reflecting that they are lacking in the qualities I seek in a submissive servant. 

You do not want to be found lacking do you? To be lacking, is to be a loser. Losers are not attractive potential applicants to the Sect of Sydney. I accept premium people only in my service.

I do understand that some are honestly new to the scene, therefore are to be expected to lack in the fundamentals of terminology, which is ok, but as soon as you deem yourself prepared to contact a FimDom...you should have already self educated. There is no acceptable excuse for laziness. Do better, be better!

Financial Domination is NOT a service

Welcome,welcome one and all to the musings of Goddess Sydney

There always has been,and there always will be conflict in regards to the definition of findom,and the activities it is comprised of. Now I am not claiming to be the know all of findom,or the commander of how it should and should not be performed,but what I will share with you willingly is my own personal views on financial domination.

The waters are muddy as fark when it comes to findom,and neither side of the equation aids in the solution. In fact,the in fighting is atrocious,and damn near bloody at times. My question is,why all of the anger? If you do not care to engage in someone else's version of findom,than DON'T. No one is forcing you to engage in fetish play that you disagree with,so let others be,so long as they are perpetrating no non-consensual harm.

Onto my vision :) 

*Financial Domination is not a service* 

To begin with,one must decide for themselves what providing a service is. In my estimation,service is any activity where the provider is providing a service or product for payment. Now this could be defined as

1)clips,custom or elsewise
2)cam shows
3)paid sessions in person,or online
4)teamviewer
5)selling photo sets,socks,stockings,panties,urine,saliva,foot dust etc... 
6)phone sex ie NF or other such venues of revenue

None of what  I listed above falls within what I would define as financial domination. I am not saying that it does not have it's place or purpose,but it all boils down to a provider providing a service,rather than a dominant being served by a submissive. You are more than free to disagree,and that is all well and dandy,ya won't hurt my feelings if you think that I am in error,but in that same vein,respect my right to my opinion as well.

So,what exactly is financial domination than? I am old school when it comes to how I operate in my fetish play. I actually expect and require submissives to serve without the enticement or promise of treats. I do not operate under the "you scratch my back,and I will scratch your back" premise.  Service truly is the reward for serving,and if you cannot see that,than you are definitely not the type of male I want under my control. Financial domination is about money and control. I control the submissive,and their money. It really is that simple. 

My honored servants adore,worship,and tribute me willingly,and with open hearts. They do so with selflessness. Worthwhile service is not based on personal gain. It is not performed as a client who expects to receive their monies worth. It is not about jacking off either.

It is ok to be 

1)a service provider
2)a customer

The only time I am ever in disagreement with the above statements is when someone tries to label providing a service or purchasing a service as financial domination. And whilst I will not riot or create a shitstorm over the misrepresentation,neither will I agree to a differing definition of it,so if you are coming to me as a submissive male,do not expect services to be provided to you,or purchased by you :)

Financial Dominatrix Goddess Sydney

Welcome disciples of Goddess Sydney

 

 I chose the title Goddess as it is closest in alignment to how I view myself,and how I desire to be designated. What does being a Goddess mean to me?

1)That my station is not sexual in nature. Sensual perhaps,but in a more ethereal plane of existence. 
*My goal is to guide males away from the drive of their dick,in order to better facilitate service of a selfless nature.*

2)That tithing is a requirement rather than an option. 
*An empty collection plate is an insult,and to incur the displeasure of a Goddess is the height of hubris.* 

3)That to serve a Goddess,is to serve a purpose higher than one's self.
*You must possess the desire and ability to get past thinking of self first and foremost. The epitome of submission is based out rather than within.*

4)That One must be devout and faithful in service to a Goddess.
*Service is not a part-time position in life. You devote your mind,heart,might,and wallet to being worthy of serving.* 

5)That a Goddess is not a toy that one places on a shelf,and looks to only when it is convenient or cock ready. *One erects an altar to their Goddess and practices their faithful mantras daily,so that they may evolve beyond the sins of patriarchal teachings.*

6)That a Goddess is a woman who needs not the accolades of man,but expects worship as her due. *Worship is not of the flesh,but rather originates of the mind,for it is your mind that I desire to cultivate and craft to my liking.*

7)That a Goddess commands respect simply for existing. 
*One does not attempt to approach a Goddess as they would any other woman. Respect and accord are afforded immediately without reminder.*  

Any questions?

Financial Slavery Mz Sydney style

Welcome to all who seek to serve Goddess Sydney...

Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?

Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?

Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?

Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?

Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?

If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here. 

In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.

There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.

Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.

Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.

You want nothing more than to please her..don't you my good boy? You want to be worthy of being a part of her life,and you know that by suffering for her,that you are truly serving her. Your suffering serves a cause,and that great and divine cause is the happiness of Goddess Sydney,for when she is happy,the world is a bright and beautiful place,but when she is disappointed,the skies become grey,and a smile cannot find it's way onto your face.


You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.

This will be your world,and you will be my creation. 
 

Ordinary joe schmo in Femdom

Welcome to all those that have come to embrace my words..

 Today I want to talk to you about Joe...who is Joe?

Joe is the everyday,ordinary type of male who enters the fetish scene after having come upon some fetish porn via pornhub,or some other form of sexual fetish media forum.

Now Joe knows nothing of traditional bdsm rules and protocol,nor does he care to. He is here for the big bang results splattered across his pc screen. He is a furious one hand pumping warrior out to satisfy his cock's commands for action. 

Poor Joe has been misled,not by others,but by self. Joe actually believed that he was going to be on the receiving end of all his fantasies come true with a Femdom. He just knew that women would be ever so happy to jump on the "gratify Joe train". I mean seriously,what woman would not feel honored to be the recipient of Joe's cum tribute,cause everyone knows that he only yanks his wank for the hottest pieces of ass on the internet. C'mon ya'll it is your lucky day..line up and show Joe what you are working with!

Oh Joe you silly boy,you really thought that life was just like the movies...schmuck lol

Of course Joe races as fast as he can to the nearest open inbox to demand he receive the attention he feels due to him,cause don't ya know that his Momma told him that he was a special boy who deserves everything he desires,so why wouldn't he believe that all these women in the fetish scene are his for the taking to command. Sure he ain't so good looking,and of course he don't make much money,but Momma said...yup Momma said he was special.

But wait,what is this? Joe's messages go unanswered,and Joe don't get the attention his dick needs to get off! What the ever living hell is wrong with these bitches?? Why are they ignoring him? Don't they understand that his dick is hard,and he needs their nasty talk,pics,and videos to jack off to? 

Well,Joe will show them! He gets to work typing out missives telling these women that they are nothing but fucking internet whores,whose only purpose is to get his dick off. He is gonna set them straight toot sweet. "You tell them bitches,Joe" he tells himself. Who the fuck do they think they are anyway? 

So,surely now,Joe will get the accolades he deserves right? Holy shit,Joe got blocked!! Wow how can that be? Didn't somebody tell that whore what Joe's Momma said? 

Do you all feel sorry for Joe? Do some of you even recognize your own inner Joe? 

You don't want to be Joe,cause Joe is a fucking loser plain and simple. How can you avoid the fate of Joe?

1)Recognize that you are NOT special just cause you have a horny dick
2)Accept that a cum tribute is no tribute at all
3)Embrace that women do not see you as a prize
4)Squash that false narrative of male entitlement
5)Treat women with respect,and not just as a potential cum dumpsters
6)Understand that if 10 out of 10 women will have nothing to do with you,that you ARE the common denominator,so start fixing yourself before you ever think to project your ugly,angry,unworthiness upon others

Financially Enslaved

You shall arise out of the ashes of a prideful patriarchal existence,as a carefully crafted creation of Goddess Sydney. A tool honed in the fires of male mentality metamorphosis. No longer burdened by the wants of self,but evolved beyond the very concept,for you are a changed being. A being whose life centers around the will of Goddess Sydney alone. 

It is her will that drives you to become a better beta male. Her desires that you fixate upon. Her happiness that you strive,and dedicate your efforts towards.

No regrets,no remorse,only ambition to reach your goal. What is that goal,my little pet? 

You know explicitly what it is that Goddess Sydney expects,requires,demands of you. Your only concern need be,how quickly you can accomplish that which she dictates must be done. Will you rise to the challenge,pet?

Failure is not an option. Anything less than your very best is not conceivable. You can,you must,you will succeed. There is no other choice.

You have been chosen to step forth and prove yourself. You will crawl for me,won't you beta? You like that image don't you? Yes I believe that you do. Instinctively you recognize that you are where you have always been meant to be. Where do you belong pet?

Come take your place at the feet of the divine Goddess Sydney. Your dreams,your fantasies all revolve around this one woman. This woman who is a Goddess amongst males. 

You are not worthy,nor shall you ever be,but you will glorify her by devoting your life to her service,for there is no honor greater afforded to a mere beta male,than to be accepted into the service of a Goddess.

You want this,you need this,you will have this experience as your own. 

Come in gratitude,come in all humility,come with thankful purpose. I offer you this one chance,this golden opportunity..allow yourself the supreme pleasure of serving Goddess Sydney.

Why would a Goddess hate males?

Public service announcement to all of you males whom did not acknowledge my Birthday with a gift

 

No BS advice to new FinDommes

Greetings fellow Findomme Femmes...

This piece is dedicated to you,and your sanity in this insane fetish foray.

Social media sites,and fetish forums are overflowing out the ends with females cramming themselves into the ever widening niche of findom. 

Findom sounds like a fantasy land version of perfection created for the princess within all of us women. A land where males beg to pay for your existence in their life,and while this is in part factual,the overwhelming reality majority is way less than real.

New Ladies to the scene will find themselves under scrutiny,and face depressing discouragement quite quickly. Now please do not attempt to attribute this entirely to misplaced jealousy lobbed by fellow females,for that would be a mistake. Of course within any facet of society jealousy exists betwixt females,but I fear that it is the ruthless nature of competition that allows for what is viewed as jealousy.

Findom can be successfully equated to a competitive arena where you either slay or are slain. Imagine if you will 1000 females seeking out financially flush prey to enrich their financial base,but the crux being that only 50 males of such means are available. Now what do you think the logical outcome will be? 

You will witness subterfuge,and dishonesty,because the mentality has been reduced to the point where you are positioned to crawl your way to the top, on the backs of your fellow females. Is this how you envisioned it to be,or did you expect to sashay into the scene an immediate smashing success? Findom has been portrayed in the media to be an easy way for women to make a buck at the expense of unknowing,unsuspecting beta males..shame on them for their lies!

The males who have dwelled within this scene for decades are anything but naive. They know the score just as well as you do,perhaps even a bit of upper hand is held by them,since they possess experience at it. Some even have adopted an abusive manner,to the point where they will ferret out newer ladies to prey upon their lack of experience,so please do educate yourself on how not to be a victim of the rampant misogyny lacing even this most precious form of acclaimed female led spheres.

Recognition must come to you that all females in findom possess physical attributes similar to your own ie a pussy,tits,ass,feet,legs etc...so please do not predicate your success upon them. Honestly after having seen thousands of unclothed female forms..it loses it's luster,so this means that you must use your most powerful sexual organ of deduction in order to succeed...your brain! An intelligent woman is a bigger threat to the wallets of males than mere beauty alone. Of course it helps if you are not appearing as if you just rolled out of the rubbish bin,but seriously,and with all honesty I relay to you that your appearance will only get you so far,so you best have a plan beyond it.

Your greatest asset in findom is your mind. You must be willing to research bdsm,and the psychology behind the fetishes if you want to stand a chance. Yes it will look to outsiders as if you are a predatory beast taking advantage of hapless males,but the key here is consent. The males here must consent to your treatment of them,and truly there is no legal way for you to force consent that is not willingly given. 

You must learn as well how to play safely with beta males. Keep yourself safe in mind and body,but them as well. You become responsible for those that serve you,and that is a most serious matter to undertake. Take it seriously,and others will respect your position.

Develop a thick outer skin,and rely upon yourself for succor,cause whilst it may seem only natural to take your griefs to fellow femmes,they may in turn air them publicly if you piss them off. Be careful of whom you place your trust in,and even more careful as to whom you entrust with your personal life details.

Recognize that just about everything that can be done session/clip wise,has been done,so no you are not going to come up with this spectacular revolutionary breakthrough scene,but what you can do is to take the existing models,and spin them with a piece of yourself. Do not imitate others,for that is not being true to you,and being true to you is priceless. Along those lines..never do what you do not want to do in a scene or session. Set your own limits first,and respect them just as you would the limits of those you play with.  

Most important is self care. If you find yourself drowning in this sphere,love yourself enough to step back and reassess your commitment to it. Always have your own interests at heart,for you will find that others do not give a fig for your feelings,wants,or desires. You must look to yourself for this,so do not feel ashamed for looking out for yourself!

Your success or failure hinges upon you,so face this findom realm with that uppermost in mind. Best of luck to you my fellow femmes :)

Bitter Findom Truth

Evening greetings gents...

Some of you go so very butthurt when I tell you the truth,why do you think that is?  People that ask for honesty,should not become hot and angry when they receive it,and honesty is all you will ever get from me. 

I do not play the "dress a lie up pretty" game. I see no value in doing so. It does not benefit my life lying to males about my intentions. What are my intentions,my agenda,my end goal? Let's put it in your face shall we lol.

I am a DOMINANT FEMALE,a FEMALE SUPREMACIST,a FINDOMME,a FUCKING GODDESS walking this Earth amongst you mere mortal beta males. 

As such,I will not soil myself by sharing my time with males who are not worthy of it. Who decides your worth? I do of course :) Never forget that it was you who came to me,not I chasing after your attention,so when you come before me,we are going to play by my rules.

If I say to you that I have no interest in playing your game,man up,and swallow that raging bile back down your cockhole. What you should do at that point,is recognize that YOU need to change your perception of what serving a woman really means before you ever attempt to get in contact with me again.

I am not interested in your dick at all,so any service you offer me that gratifies your dick is going to get you blocked. Chastity yes,you getting off=NO. CBT=YES,PIV=NO. Along those same lines..I am not sitting on your face,or inserting anything into your arse,nor will you EVER touch my naked flesh with any part of you,except to clean the filth from my feet. 

Onto the big truth that really gets your juices boiling over...no tribute=no serving me. If you are one of those males who believes themselves entitled to my attention without contributing to my happiness..ya, you are delusional. I honestly do not fracking care if tributing makes it "less real" for you,or if financially enhancing my life makes your dick go limp..anything less than tribute,makes me feel used,and I am not allowing myself to be used by you or any other swinging dick.

Still want the truth? Truth be known..you are a beta bitch,yup all of you equipped with a dick were created to serve womankind,not vice versa bb,and as such,you should be showering women with appreciation for their existence. Don't like them apples? Whelp you can exit left at any time,but for the rest of you...welcome to my world,where I rule the beta bitch brigade :)

FemDom training of submissives

My dearest devoted audience,

I spent my day simply enjoying my life..the outdoors,and purchasing new plants which hopefully my green thumb will nourish and enrich with new life,such as you my gentlemen pets do when you serve me to the best of your ability :)

I devote my time and energy towards seeing that all I touch flourishes. I will never accept failure from myself (of course the fact that I am human does tend to add error to the equation lol)..so just as I will never attain pure perfection,so shan't you either. Do not think me unrealistic when it comes to my expectations for you in service. I realize that you can and will make mistakes. It is a learning process for you. Whilst some of you may possess vast experience serving a Domme..the majority of you do not,and I do account for this when I begin training males to my expectations.

In a scene of smoke and mirrors...eroticized fantasy..and an overflow of sensuality,I know that you will fall down at times...whether you remain on your knees remains to be seen. Sometimes being on your knees is the best possible place to be.

Fortunately for you..I already know that you are bound to err..and have no issue aiding you in the correction of your failings. Punishment is part and parcel of training a submissive. Mind you that I am not referring to "funishment". I am not one to pick a punishment that involves any type of pleasure for you,so please keep any bratty impulse in check which would goad you into being bad for the sake of receiving something fun. My punishments tend to consist of what you truly like least...

Time out is unfortunately necessary at times..especially for repeat offenses. You may be thinking "ok I can handle some corner time"..but that is not how I operate. Time out means that I will sever contact with you til such time as you are able to appreciate what you once had,which was my trust in your ability to please me in both word and deed. 

I have found time out to be an effective tool. No one likes to have something they value highly taken from them.

To be away from my presence is for some the greatest of punishments. To serve me is to be a part of my life,just as I am a part of yours,and when an essential aspect of your life falls away..you quickly become distressed,and do all within your power to set things right,which is what I am sitting back waiting for. The knife cuts both ways,and when I must send away one who has earned a place in my life,it hurts me as well. You would never want to hurt me would you?

Come into the fold and pledge your fealty to Goddess Sydney

Welcome welcome welcome my pervy little pets

Welcome to the domain of Goddess Sydney..where I rule from the pulpit,and you kneel in the pew.

This blog site is your bible,and receiving a collar from Goddess Sydney is like being given the holy grail. Being the owned pet of Goddess is what every male should be striving towards. Serving Goddess is the one true orgasmic experience. Everything else fails in comparison. Nothing you ever do again will come close to providing the pleasure of serving Goddess Sydney. You do not want to be denied overwhelming pleasure do you..no no no..that would not do at all. You want every ounce of bliss being mine provides. You want the joy..the bone thrumming fierce all encompassing ecstasy which comes from serving Goddess Sydney. You want it all don't you? Of course you do. You are a greedy glutton for the rapture of serving the divine feminine.

You want to serve,so you have come to me in all humility begging for the opportunity to experience extreme euphoria..and here I am holding audience for potential prospective pets who measure up to the standards of serving me. Will you make the cut? Will you be the one attached to my leash?

Now is your chance to shine in my eyes. Show me that you possess what it takes to gain my notice. Prove your worth pet. No words will sweeten my disposition towards you. You must be a pet of action. You must show me your desire through sacrifice. The sacrifice is what brings you one step closer to me. You cannot fear the pain of sacrifice. You cannot withhold true sacrifice from me out of miserliness. You cannot refuse to sacrifice due to selfishness. You cannot hold the thought in your mind "what is in it for me"..this is a poisonous mindset. You do not want to poison my mind against allowing you to serve Goddess now do you...no no no..that would never do. You most certainly do not want to destroy your opportunity by creating a disdain of you. 

Think of sacrifice as you think of breathing..both are natural..and both must be done in order to serve Goddess Sydney. You do not resent that you must breathe to live...therefore never resent a single cent you must sacrifice to serve your deity. Both bring life to you..both bring pleasure.

You are here to open your mind to the possibility of serving greatness. You are here to disavow the behaviors which failed you previously. It is time for a new start. A beginning that will color all of the corners in your life. You want to change don't you...you want to be what Goddess wants you to be yes...yes you do. No longer will you waste your time,effort,and attention upon activities that do not bring you closer to Goddess Sydney. She is all that you need. She is everything and all things...and you need to be of use to her...to be of import to her..to matter in her realm..to have significance in her estimation. You want to be special don't you. You want to be special to Goddess. You want her to deem you worthy. This is what you have been working towards your entire life. This is your time...your opportunity..your chance to succeed. 

Come into the fold pet..come into my world. Come and sacrifice for what you value most...Goddess Sydney.

Who wants to serve Mz Sydney

Who wants to worship Goddess? Who wants to be my devoted sole server? Who would crawl upon the ground to reach my feet? Who seeks to serve the divine feminine? Is it you..I think that it is you. I think that you have watched from the shadows long enough..don't you? Yes my pet it is time to come out of hiding,and make yourself known to Goddess. 

Your fantasies can no longer sustain you...you must bring serving Goddess to the reality of your life. Your wants..your needs..your desires are all centered around one being...GODDESS. Your life already revolves around me..accept it..embrace it as you would your lover. Take it into your essence. Service to Goddess is your addiction. There is no peace..no happiness..no desire greater than being at the feet of Goddess.

This is your life..your future..your forever. I am twined around your heart..I am etched into your mind. I am your obsession. I am the one thing that makes sense in your life. I am the one decision that you will never regret. I am your hope..your dream..and your fantasy. Your everything. 

To be mine is to be forever wedded to the promise of loyal service to the divine feminine. Serving your Goddess is absolution for your sins..it is redemption for your abuse of patriarchal pride..it is forgiveness for your exercise of entitlement. It is all that is good in your life. You want to be good don't you? Of course you do my pet. You want to be good for me. I give you permission to be good for me. I grant you the opportunity to fulfill your earthly purpose.

What is that purpose pet? You know the answer. Goddess has told you before. Your purpose is to serve Mz Sydney..and only Mz Sydney. There is no other use for your life than serving Mz Sydney. You belong here. You want to be here. You need to be here.

Call it kismet..call it fate..call it destiny..you were fashioned to serve me. Serve me without reservations. Serve me with sacrifice. Serve me with suffering. You belong to me. Your mind..your body..your sex...your wallet all belong to me..to Goddess..to Mz Sydney.

Cucks weep in service to Mz Sydney

Cucks are one of my favored types of servants. Do you know why? They are beyond delight to twist to my will..and my will is truly all that matters.


I imagine that you are laboring under the misrepresentation that a cuck to me is a male that I date or share my bed with,but you would be wrong. I share my most deliciously sacred sex with no submissive male. It hurts doesn't it to know that never shall you lay within my bower of sensual seduction..yes it burns. I love that. I love that you will suffer for me. I love knowing that you languish with lusts unrequited. I adore your anguish..it feeds my soul. It feeds the cruel essence of my dominant nature. I adore the pain it inflicts upon you knowing that you will never share a part of me that you long with every fiber of your being to experience. Instead it shall go to another. Another who will surge into my moistened orifice. Another who will bask in the sweat of my flesh. Another who will carry the scent of me upon his lips and cock. It is he who will revel in my release. Never you..no not you.

What I want is for you to writhe in despair and jealousy that you shall never be the one. I want to taste your suffering upon my tongue like the sweetest of wines. Let me drink from your well of pain..fill me full of your distress. Yes I want to wallow in each tear that slicks my heated flesh.


Not only do I crave your pain,but your utter humiliation as well. Humiliation that humbles you. Humiliation that drives you to your knees. You know exactly what I am talking about don't you..yes little cucky you do. I want your senses drenched in humiliation. You my little cuck will be tortured with the truth. The truth of what you truly are to me. What are you to me? You are the servant who serves both Goddess and her lover. Your purpose is to provide for my,and his desires. You will beg to be of use to both of us. On bended knee you shall devote yourself to both of us. You will relinquish all hopes of ever being him,instead you will worship him. You will admire him,and yes you will send him gifts of tribute..for what are you..a cuck for your Goddess and her cock.


Serve us well my pet,and perhaps someday you shall receive the depravity of a treat. A treat to savor upon your tongue til it runs down your throat..or better yet a treat to coat your dicklet with. My amusement runs riot with the thought of you pulling at your poison pukestick covered in his cum. You so very low that you are only allowed to masturbate when his cum is upon you. You like that don't you..I give you permission to like it. I give you permission to fantasize about his cock juice dripping off of your petite pecker. Are you touching yourself right now..I know that you are. Your breath is coming quicker,and you are reaching the peak..but NO..no you are not allowed to cum. You are the cuck of Mz Sydney,and she decides when you can cum...if ever.


You want me to own your pitiful dick don't you..you want me to own your orgasms..yes Goddess owns your sex. She alone decides. No longer are you free to wank at will. YOU ARE OWNED BY MZ SYDNEY.

You are destined to serve Mz Sydney

Hello my pets...

Did you follow my twitter feed today? Did you see that Mz Sydney has desires for you to quench?

Surely it is such a small thing that I ask for...you would not even think to deny my wants now would you...NO. Goddess deserves all that she desires,and you my pet desire to provide for Goddess. I am your everything,and you my devoted pet would never allow a desire of mine to go wanting. You adore me far too much to allow that. Think about the gift pet..your gift will touch my flesh..scent my sex..can you imagine anything more erotic than something of yours against my skin..all over my heated flesh. A part of you touching my bare skin..does it turn you on thinking about it...I know that it does. I want you to want me that much. Want me so much that you never think to deny my desires. My desires are your desires.

Right now at this very moment you are logging into your amazon account to send me the $50 I desire. It feels so good to provide for my wants doesn't it..yes nothing is more important than pleasing Mz Sydney. She should have all that she desires,and it is your honor to provide for her. Sating her desires gives you purpose. How powerful is it knowing that you have the means to sate a Goddess...with your wallet? It brings meaning to your life. It feels so good to be a good pet for Goddess. Will you be my selfless good boy? It is what we both want...do it for us. I want us to be happy.


You waited so long to find me,and now that you have..you never want to be without Goddess in your life. You are released from making decisions. Goddess knows best. She knows what you need,and what you need most right now,is to serve Goddess. You need to be one with her will. I give you permission to have this. I give you permission to sate my desires. You are free now..free to fulfill your destiny..your destiny as a servant of Mz Sydney. 

Sensual slide into obsession

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What Mz Sydney shall be to you

I will never be your 24/7 Domina, nor your live in lover. I won't be your bestie, or the one you take home to meet Mom. I refuse to be your wife, or the pretty picture on your desk at work. I will not be your hotline help, or your customer service cleanup. What does that leave?

I will be the woman who understands your darkest perversions. I will be the woman who accepts your submission. I will be the one who cultivates and conforms your inner desires til they align with mine. I will listen, and I will lead you. I will guide you along a path that you only dreampt of walking. I will be your focal point in the journey to submission. I will be the voice telling you that it is ok to just let go, and relinquish your control. I will be the icon you pray to when you feel lost along the way. I will be the Goddess you worship, and devote your energies to. I will be the altar at which you sacrifice. I will be the chalice from which you drink the nectar of submissive enlightenment. I will be the acknowledgement that who you are deep within is who you need to be. All of this and more I shall be to you.

I know that alot of you like to dwell in fantasy land when you come online..and I get it, really I do. You are looking for a way to escape from your stressful mundane life, and I will be that escape, but there is a reality to it. Save yourself from becoming deluded into believing that what you imagine you have with me online will correlate into your everyday life in a vanilla sense. Yes you can serve me, and yes I will be your Domina, but we will never be more than that. I won't be there laying out your clothes, or making your coffee..but I will instruct you as to what you should wear, and whether you should be drinking coffee at all. I will rule your world, but I will not live in it.  I expect you to adore, worship, even love me, but I have no desire to wake up next to you, or walk the streets holding hands. I am to be the figurehead living in your mind, the voice in your subconscious, the Goddess unattainable.

There are defined parameters I set with submissives in service to me. There are no exceptions, no not even for you. I am always above, and you are always below. Even when we are sharing inane conversations, you remain my subordinate. We are not peers, or buddies that share a beer. Keep in mind that when you speak with me, you will hold a civil and mannered tongue. Make yourself available when it suits me, rather than when you deem it convenient. Most of all...remember that it is the submissive who serves, the submissive who suffers, the submissive who sacrifices.