Financial Slavery Mz Sydney style

Welcome to all who seek to serve Goddess Sydney...

Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?

Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?

Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?

Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?

Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?

If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here. 

In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.

There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.

Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.

Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.

You want nothing more than to please her..don't you my good boy? You want to be worthy of being a part of her life,and you know that by suffering for her,that you are truly serving her. Your suffering serves a cause,and that great and divine cause is the happiness of Goddess Sydney,for when she is happy,the world is a bright and beautiful place,but when she is disappointed,the skies become grey,and a smile cannot find it's way onto your face.


You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.

This will be your world,and you will be my creation. 
 

Feminine ego destruction in findom

In my last blog I spoke about tenacity in the financial domination realm(hell even in life itself),and today I intend to expound upon it. Being tenacious like a bulldog with a bone can be one of the very best things you do for yourself. Some would say not to set lofty aspirations for the fall will break you into pieces,and that can indeed be true,but if you settle for the mundane,then you cannot complain.

How does this relate to findom? Findom is the harshest fetish scene that I have ever seen. It is a culling affair. You will be rejected,insulted,degraded,ignored,objectified,and absolutely suffer from ego destruction if you are not careful,which is why I do not advise it for the feint of heart. Surprise I am not referring to males in the last sentence. *Gasp* I know that it is shocking,but true nonetheless.

1)You will be rejected and denied service by males for the very same reasons that occur in the vanilla dating scene ie your age,your weight,your height,your race,your hair color etc..and do not expect them to always be kind about how they relay it.
*The key*Accept that people can be just as rude and shallow online as they are in person(more so actually),so slick yourself up with grease(confidence) til that shit slides off of you.

2)You will be called an ugly whore,scammer,gold digger and the likes due to the financial aspect of the fetish.
*The key*Recognize that money brings out the best and the worst in people

3)You will be treated like a fetish vending dispenser,degrading yes,as if you are no longer anything more than a one dimensional character.
*The key*Recognize quickly that you deserve better than this treatment,and make liberal use of the block hammer.

4)You will be ignored,and bypassed see#1 for the reasons and key.

5)You will be treated as if you are only a piece of flesh created for the masturbatory pleasure of males.
*The key*Learn to turn the tables,and show males that they were created for your pleasure and entertainment(value yourself).

6)Combine all of the above,and what tends to happen=ego destruction

I am not painting a pretty picture I know,but who actually gains from having smoke blown up their ass? This is exactly why you need the hide of a rhino and the tenacity of that bulldog in the findom world. Otherwise it will break you,I promise. It can and will instill ugly negative insecurities if you allow it(please don't).

I know firsthand how difficult it is to remain positive,to shore up your defenses in a place where you are judged critically for your words,your level of experience,and your appearance. It sucks massive ass,and some days you are going to want to say "stick a fucking fork in me cause this shit ain't worth it". I have been there believe it or not,many many times. There will be times when your inbox gathers dust,and your accounts suffer a drought of tribute(happens to us all). How you handle it though is up to you entirely,so you either seek life elsewhere,or you grab that bone in your teeth and hold on tight!

No cam for me please

One of the most prevalent queries posed to me is "Why don't you cam?". Now my response is usually confined to an all encompassing answer "Because I do not want to". This hardly is a satisfactory reason for a great many obviously,so I decided that I would provide something more in depth.

Cam is the name of the game these days,oh that and skype,which by the way is popular WHY...cam of course. You cannot look to any findom forum without seeing cam sessions on skype advertised,and that is all well and good for those that choose it,but taking this as a granted practice for all is a mistake in the making.

Now onto why I do not cam. Is it because I think myself too good for it,NO. Is it because I fear people seeing my face,NO(I have tons of photos to disprove this theory). What could my reasoning be? Simple. I see camming as objectification,and there is entirely too much of that in the world today,why would I desire to become part of the problem rather than the solution. I know I know,what I said is going to upset some,for they deem cam empowering,so I say to them whatever floats your boat,but do not stamp down just because my thoughts are not synonymous with yours.It is the very differences which make us unique.

How does cam objectify a woman. Let's take a close look at the dynamics shall we. Cam sessions are associated with paying clients. A client is one which in this case is paying for a show,whether it be of feet,breasts,vagina,or even entire body. Do you see what I am saying? They are paying to objectify a body part. They are using the vision of a woman's body to masturbate,just like they always have done,and this equates to objectification in my eyes. Does anyone truly believe that the client cares for the woman on the screen(if you do,then I have some prime swamp land to sell you). You could of course reason that everyone is getting what they want out of the deal,he gets off,and she gets paid. Win win yes? Nope. All that has been done is to fuel the male objectification of females.

Yes I am aware that I am not making friends with my statements,but that is ok. Some are even asking "why do you care,I can do what I want,and it does not affect you"...here is the crux though,it does affect others. I am 100% for female empowerment,but I do not see cam sessions as a promotion of that ideology,so do as you will,for you will anyway,but for me ,I will traverse the road less taken. This does not make me better than any Ladies who offer this service,but it does make me different.

It is said that if you do not cam,then males will not seek you out to serve,and I can see how one would arrive at that conclusion. I have seen with my own eyes how males bee line straight to the ladies in a chatroom whom have their cam on,and suddenly begin serving them,and that is good and fine,for it once more solidifies that I am not seeking the average male in my stable,so I am more than pleased to see those spoils go to others.

A subject which many do not discuss is how I am going to tie in my point of dissension from the "norm",and why I see no need for me to cam.

Every Sunday morning,and most likely Wednesday evenings where do you see people congregate. A church yes. Now these people worship God,they memorize his words(the holy bible),they tithe in his honor,yet they have never seen his face. They have not once done a skype cam session with him to ascertain if he is "real",so how is it that millions of human beings can take his existence as a divine being on faith alone? The answer is clear. They want to believe,they want to serve their Master,they want to empower his name. Of course some call them fools(not I),rather I would call them blessed. Why? Well because they find their happiness in serving,they find purpose for their lives...all without a single cam session,wow,looks like Christians are better servants than the majority of males in the fetish scene doesn't it?

I equate serving me in a similar way. Only for my servants,my blog is their bible,my inbox is their pew,and their tribute is the tithe with which they worship. All of this is done without a single cam session. My words prove that I am real. My actions uphold my worthiness of worship,and serving me provides a purpose in their lives. One which involves them upholding me as their divine Goddess. A relationship where they devote their very lives to me,and why,because they know that women are meant to be obeyed and honored,not objectified as sexual release objects.