Findom Reliability

Hello little pervs...


Do you know what is valued in a submissive male? Reliability. Sure it sounds boring as all get out, but truly it is important.

When you go to buy a vehicle, do you care if the car is reliable?

I do. I mean, what is the point of owning it,  if it breaks down on the daily? Just doesn't make sense, now does it? Of course not.

When you apply for a job, do you ascertain if you will receive a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly paycheck? You do need steady income don't you? Most people I know, would be mighty pissed off if their employer said, "hey I can't pay you this week, but I will catch you next week"..am I right?

Would you like that type of erratic reimbursement? 

Imagine if you went to your favorite restaurant, and they told you that they had taken the dish you love most off of their menu! That would suck balls for sure. Here you are, all let down, cause your tried and true tummy yummy is no longer an option. 

Now think about that one person who cuts your hair perfect every time, but when you make an appointment, they tell you that your trusty barber has retired!  Who is going to cut your hair now?? 

Are you getting my drift yet? 

Dominants desire dependability in their submissives. Having a willy nilly haphazard approach to servitude is insulting to your Domme. She deserves better than that type of treatment, and you know it. 

Yes I realize that we all lead very busy lives, ya well some of us do anyways, but the point is, if you cannot be dependable, than do not expect her to be available to you. A Domme is not an object that you put up on a shelf, to take down when you want to have fetish funtime.

She is a living, breathing human being, who has responsibilities, and people who depend on her to be reliable. 

Being reliable displays respect, and respect is an integral aspect of serving, cause if you do not respect your Domme, than you do not deserve her. You want to be worthy don't you?

My point being, if you say that you will contact her daily, weekly, monthly etc.. do so. If you declare that you will tribute daily, weekly, monthly etc..do so. If you agree to perform a task with a deadline, get it done. If you make a promise, keep it. If you give your word, abide by it. 

BE RELIABLE 

You worship and pay,not leech and laze your way into serving GoddessSydney.

 male entitlement does not mean squat in my realm..from ceo to mickey d's employee the requirements remain the same. You will work hard to serve me,and you will tribute for the honor of my notice. There are no free passes. Having a dick does not guarantee you carte blanche into my world. No slacking,no excuses. It means waking up everyday with the thought of my happiness in mind,and how you may best ensure the continuation of it,so before you think to contact me,ask yourself "what have I done to please her" If the answer is nothing,then crawl away quietly,and send me a gift quickly http://amzn.com/w/1Y23OOGZGMKC3 
then get down on your knees and pray that I accept your offering. 

Worship at the altar of divine perfection

Goddess was created to be obeyed..to be amused..to be worshiped..to be tributed by all beta boys.

sweaty workout soles

Get on your knees ready to please me. At my feet like a good little gent,begging for the opportunity to earn a smile.

Enrich my offering plate

Paupers need not enter my temple of worship,as they offer no worldly goods in appeasement to their Goddess.

bow before my beauty

I want you on your knees,tribute ready,in worship of the beauty of Goddess Sydney
Grovel like the gimp you are to provide for my pleasure
Lick the ground I walk on,and lay your tithe at my divine feet

sweaty=the new sexy

Even after my workout,I am still a sexy siren :)

Lick my sticky feet vine video

Goddess worship photo

I walk in your waking dreams..suffer..sacrifice...and worship your Goddess Sydney

High foot arches for feet lovers

Worship my elite Sinful Soles whose addiction you cannot break free from.

All natural,born blessedly BEAUTIFUL.

I know that you want to lick my Sinful Sole like the good little foot freak you are...slobbering all over yourself dreaming about the sweet taste of my dainty toes...creaming your big boy panties thinking about the feel of my incredible arches smothering your filthy face. 

Wake up,cause the most you can ever aspire to,is paying for my pedicures :)

I am the Goddess. I am your way,your light,your life. Unto my temple shall you lay your offering.

Simply put,I am me

I am woman hear me roar. I have spent an inordinate amount of time pontificating what it is that sets me apart,and have drawn a blank,because basically we all share common qualities as women,yet subtle variations make us unique :) What I will say is that I am sweet and mild,I am cruel and wild,I am considerate and caring,I am polite and uncaring of what others think I should be. Simply put,I am me :)

I do not wear leather,and detest lace,latex makes me sweat,and I hate caking makeup on my face. I do not yell,nor will I scream,for I get my point across just being me. I abhor liars,and those that cheat,I give back in life,and think myself pretty neat. I enjoy crude humor,yet I act with class,and for those that do not like me,well I have a spot for you to kiss. Simply put,I am me :)

I am upfront,and say what I mean,and if it offends,well glory me you need a thicker skin. I am happy,and love my life,I smile at strangers,and hold doors for the elderly. I am fierce in my passions,and loyal to my friends. I am honest in my hatred for those that have earned it,and biting in my wit when my ire is raised. I am temperate,and difficult to anger. Simply put,I am me :)

I never give sessions,but I do play,and you will find me laughing at subgents dismay. I lock up their cocks,and call them my own,I accept their submission,and give it a home. I am casual in dress and demeanor,I am soft in tone,and intoxicate your senses like the finest of licour. I am sassy and bold,and wonderfully reflective upon this world I live in. I am introverted,yet uninhibited around a close knit group. Simply put,I am me :)

For those of you gents that approach me each day,I will not give you my trust in a moment,an hour,or single day. You will work hard to make me proud. You will sacrifice,and cry aloud,for I am your Goddess,and what does that mean,simply put, I am me :)

Spoiled Femdom Goddess

I send many gents and gimps here to my blog,in fact it is one of the first requirements to applying for service with me. It is also one of the biggest deterrents for males. They see the title of my blog,and the occasional tribute porn I post,and immediately head for the nearest mound of sand to stick their head in,hoping that I will pass on by,which amuses me,for I do not chase,EVER. A gent either serves willingly or not at all. I do not beg,coerce or bludgeon them into it(that lacks dignity and class).

Findom is apparently the foulest fetish word for so many. Immediately I am labeled a jobless scamming beggar,and that is the farthest thing in reality in regards to me. I actually do not mind educating those with an open mind to the subject,but ingrained hated is tiring,and I feel makes explanations moot. The best course in that circumstance is to kill with kindness and move along.

To those whose mind is not closed,I relay that Findom is the highest form of service,for it is a life altering power exchange. Imagine your life honed down to the bare essentials financially..frightening isn't it? Of course it is,for money has the power to enrich your circumstances,to elevate you socially,to provide a life of ease. Gents work hard for their paycheck. They sacrifice hours of sleep,and control of situations,even going to the extent of kissing proverbial ass to keep the cash flowing into their coffers,so why would they not value it?

In service to me,gents are required to place me in a position of priority in their lives. I am to be elevated above themselves(wants and needs). I am to be valued beyond the cost of the bottom line. Too many of you have gotten caught up in the mindset that "your submission is your gift" and that does not cut it with me. Your submission is your obligation as a submissive male to offer. The offering of your flesh under my whip,paddle,or flogger is not the gift. It is your sacrifice which is the gift. Your willingness to lay at my feet the supreme tithe of power(tribute).

Tribute is not a tit for tat. It is not about an exchange or a payment for feeding your fetishes. It is the highest honor,and display of appreciation for me,and if you do not appreciate me,then what is the point. Males offering their flesh up number in the thousands,but those who understand and embrace true sacrifice are counted in the few,and it is those gents whom hold my attention,so for you few,I leave the light on.

Nose to toes beta boys...that is where you belong

Sinful Soles created for smother little boy betas

real time clarification

Emails that I have received in regards to a recent post of mine about sessions,have shown me that a little bit of clarification is in order.

Yes I stated that I am interested in playing more real time,which in no way should lead anyone to conclude that I am open to cam sessions...two totally separate scenarios. C2C sessions hold no interest for me due to a)I am not an exhibitionist & b)watching males get off,does absolutely nothing for me personally(anyone that has read anything about me should already know that I am a proponent of males being neutered with chastity devices) The only pleasure plebs deserve,is the joy of enriching my life,so no I am not going to sit back and watch males pulling at their equipment which doesn't even cast a shadow at high noon.

Real time sessions interest me because they feed my inner sadist who delights in the deliverance of physical pain,so if you are one that is only able to serve online,either due to distance or time constraints,then your suffering comes in the form of finances,and should be viewed as your honor to sacrifice for me. Real time toys tribute for my time and attention,so I expect nothing less from those that serve me online...I actually expect more since they are not truly useful in any manner other than financing my decadent indulgences.

There is so much anger and disgust when it comes to outsiders viewing the financial domination realm. Why though? Most is due to a basic lack of education in regards to the fetish,and the rest is simply entitled selfishness. Ignorance can be taught,but the other appears to be too ingrained to eradicate.

 I mean seriously I have had males offer to bleed their dicks for me,but land forbid that they be expected to worship with their wallet. Pain is an intense motivator,but the almighty dollar even more so. People have and will kill for money,but why? Because money is power. Money provides the ability to feed,clothe,and house oneself. Throughout time itself those that have not,have been enamored by those that have,so it is only logical that males will hold tightly to that which they perceive as the root of their power base. This is exactly why I require a male to sacrifice financially for me. The effects of doing so outlast bruises on the ass.

The narcissist in me knows that I am worthy of worship,deserving of your suffering and sacrifice,but if you cannot or will not overcome your own sense of selfishness,then you are truly a loser,in the sense that you will lose out on serving perfection incarnate. It is entirely your choice though,for even though I may be a cougar in real life devouring the sex of cubs,in this arena my victims come willingly in supplication to my altar. They kneel before me begging to lay down their offerings,sans forceful provocation,enticement,or seduction. I am their Goddess,and their purpose is my happiness.

My happiness is your nirvana.

No cam for me please

One of the most prevalent queries posed to me is "Why don't you cam?". Now my response is usually confined to an all encompassing answer "Because I do not want to". This hardly is a satisfactory reason for a great many obviously,so I decided that I would provide something more in depth.

Cam is the name of the game these days,oh that and skype,which by the way is popular WHY...cam of course. You cannot look to any findom forum without seeing cam sessions on skype advertised,and that is all well and good for those that choose it,but taking this as a granted practice for all is a mistake in the making.

Now onto why I do not cam. Is it because I think myself too good for it,NO. Is it because I fear people seeing my face,NO(I have tons of photos to disprove this theory). What could my reasoning be? Simple. I see camming as objectification,and there is entirely too much of that in the world today,why would I desire to become part of the problem rather than the solution. I know I know,what I said is going to upset some,for they deem cam empowering,so I say to them whatever floats your boat,but do not stamp down just because my thoughts are not synonymous with yours.It is the very differences which make us unique.

How does cam objectify a woman. Let's take a close look at the dynamics shall we. Cam sessions are associated with paying clients. A client is one which in this case is paying for a show,whether it be of feet,breasts,vagina,or even entire body. Do you see what I am saying? They are paying to objectify a body part. They are using the vision of a woman's body to masturbate,just like they always have done,and this equates to objectification in my eyes. Does anyone truly believe that the client cares for the woman on the screen(if you do,then I have some prime swamp land to sell you). You could of course reason that everyone is getting what they want out of the deal,he gets off,and she gets paid. Win win yes? Nope. All that has been done is to fuel the male objectification of females.

Yes I am aware that I am not making friends with my statements,but that is ok. Some are even asking "why do you care,I can do what I want,and it does not affect you"...here is the crux though,it does affect others. I am 100% for female empowerment,but I do not see cam sessions as a promotion of that ideology,so do as you will,for you will anyway,but for me ,I will traverse the road less taken. This does not make me better than any Ladies who offer this service,but it does make me different.

It is said that if you do not cam,then males will not seek you out to serve,and I can see how one would arrive at that conclusion. I have seen with my own eyes how males bee line straight to the ladies in a chatroom whom have their cam on,and suddenly begin serving them,and that is good and fine,for it once more solidifies that I am not seeking the average male in my stable,so I am more than pleased to see those spoils go to others.

A subject which many do not discuss is how I am going to tie in my point of dissension from the "norm",and why I see no need for me to cam.

Every Sunday morning,and most likely Wednesday evenings where do you see people congregate. A church yes. Now these people worship God,they memorize his words(the holy bible),they tithe in his honor,yet they have never seen his face. They have not once done a skype cam session with him to ascertain if he is "real",so how is it that millions of human beings can take his existence as a divine being on faith alone? The answer is clear. They want to believe,they want to serve their Master,they want to empower his name. Of course some call them fools(not I),rather I would call them blessed. Why? Well because they find their happiness in serving,they find purpose for their lives...all without a single cam session,wow,looks like Christians are better servants than the majority of males in the fetish scene doesn't it?

I equate serving me in a similar way. Only for my servants,my blog is their bible,my inbox is their pew,and their tribute is the tithe with which they worship. All of this is done without a single cam session. My words prove that I am real. My actions uphold my worthiness of worship,and serving me provides a purpose in their lives. One which involves them upholding me as their divine Goddess. A relationship where they devote their very lives to me,and why,because they know that women are meant to be obeyed and honored,not objectified as sexual release objects.