Thursday, May 31, 2012

busy as always

I have been neglecting you all by not posting as often....no worries I shall endeavor to regain my previous momentum.
Life has been busy as of late,and I do expect it to remain that way until the end of summer. My brat bought me a new grill today since he knew how very much I wanted to host a cook out this weekend...and I am even kind enough to allow him the honor of being the cook lol
I want to order some new books this week,so get to sending the amazon gift cards boys. It is so very relaxing to be reclining in a canopy swing reading my favorite authors,and all of you should know the first rule of service is pleasing me...failure to do so is met with expulsion....

Monday, May 28, 2012

branding

I am so ready for my r/t session tonight:-) After doing some research,and an initial practice debut upon my own flesh,I will begin utilizing cell popping. My wettest fantasy of late is to see my name burned into a cock... Now I wonder who is going to be man enough to endure for my pleasure :-)

Since it is an honor to wear my brand you will pay dearly for it....flesh,blood and cash on the menu for tonight!! Hmm I do believe that a bit of vodka cleansing will be required to finish the session up lmao



Saturday, May 26, 2012

As you can see,if you are following me on twitter,that yes I am still around. I have merely been busy with projects,and interviewing lil subbies. I do have to say that a couple are possibly worthy,but have yet to be tested,we shall see. Anyway,I will try to post a lengthier blog when I get back Monday...till then follow me on twitter&friend me on fb to keep up with me!!

Ciao little ones

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

not your dick or paycheck

Apparently English is not comprehended very well by some,so now I shall dumb it down for idiots. I do NOT jump on cam for anyone,no matter how much you offer!! I do as I choose,and that does not include offering services for payment. I have zero intentions of allowing you the honor of seeing me on cam so that you can pull on that disgusting appendage between your legs,serving your own selfish needs. I could give a rat's ass if others do it for you....my world revolves around ME,not your dick or your paycheck.
You are worth nothing to me if you cannot contribute to my happiness.

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

A couple of notes

A couple of notes to make mention of....if you are under 30 or in school...the odds of me accepting you into service are less than 1% due to the fact that the majority of males under 30 just do not have the necessary maturity to serve a Findomme. Younger males tend to get caught up in the sexual side of bdsm,and that is definitely a no no when serving me. I am not here to make all of your filthy sexual fantasies come true....it is about my kinks :)
As to the issue with students,most of you live hand to mouth as it is,which means you lack the funds to serve,and no I do not work out deals trading services.

submissive vs slave

Today I set to enlighten you with my own personal views on the difference between a submissive vs a slave. Too many times I see these terms used interchangeably,yet for me they are not synonymous.

A submissive holds more control over a power exchange. They retain the ability to say "NO". A conscious choice is made to submit with each and every time that a demand is placed upon them. They decide how much control,and what aspects of their lives that they are willing to cede authority over.

A slave may be submissive,but the definition of a slave is rooted entirely in obedience. A slave relinquishes all rights,and the ability to decline demands. Essentially they are property,yet not in a legal sense. They commit to obey,and if ever they refuse,then the entire dynamic changes into one not defined by slavery,but of submission.

By my own definition there is no such thing as a "sensual slave",and yes I bristle when I see a male define himself as such. A slave obeys across the board,while those that submit only within the bedroom,would be termed submissive,as they are limiting authority of the Dominant.

It is imperative that you decide before approaching a Dominant as to which spectrum you fall into.

Monday, May 21, 2012

My thoughts on cam time

A subject that has been on my mind,and one that I have spoken about with many prospective sub/slaves is cam time.
My time is precious to me,and I actually have very little of it to spare,therefore I refuse to utilize it speaking with those that I foresee no future of serving me in the capacity I desire. I am well aware that many Dommes cam everyday,and some even all day,but this simply is not my style. Cam time is a reward that I bestow upon those that have proven their worth to me(and that is not defined as a one time tribute).
Those who strive toward perfection and devoted service over time will come to earn a place in my life,and that involves the honor of speaking with me on cam. I will never do so lightly. Only a select few will find themselves in this position.
There are a great many Dommes online,and as such,each indulge in their own personal methods of training,which means that not everyone will approach it the same way. Irregardless my point being,and a peeve of mine, is when a sub/slave relays to me how their previous Domme did this and that. I have absolutely no interest in the methods she chose to use,and it is an insult for you to bring them into my presence.

 I am uniquely ME,which means I will always be true to my own ideology of financial domination!

idle thoughts

Did you miss me the last couple of days,of course you did :)
So pathetically snared in my web that you check everyday hoping that I am online....
Missing me,aching to speak with me,craving the control that I wield over your meaningless life.

While you have been wanking to my pics like the creepy voyeur next door,I have been relaxing this weekend,without a care in the world....enjoying a few drinks and a lovely party.

If you are good little boys I might find the time to be online more this week,as I finished up a project I was working on.....but then I am always looking to the next one.

Those of you that are lurking,too afraid to slip on your big boy panties and speak with me....get the FUCK over it....yes I bite bitch!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Subject of the day



Fantasist vs Realist

A fantasist is just that,they are aroused by the scenes within their minds,yet the reality of such is not their desire. Most generally they speak of ruination outcomes,but when faced with the black and white details,they tuck tail and run. You will not find this type to be compatible for monotonous long term service. They dabble with those that fit the physical form of one they deem most alluring,and get off on the thought of serving,not the reality of actually doing so. Most likely they will contain themselves to buying clips and such,rather than working towards a true D'S continuing exchange. Beware that a multitude of wasters and wankers fall into this group,which is why they disappear before the spume dries in their hand.

A realist views the scene in an entirely dissimilar manner. Generally they are reserved,and patient,content lurking in the shadows until they come across one that displays the attitude and approach that they find most fitting into their definition of dominant. They are not eager to blindly rush into immediate vows of service,and most likely will prefer a slow burn period of initiation. This type is ideal for a continuing alliance. They are based in reality,very stable,and once secured their loyalty is enduring.They are the hidden needles in the haystack.

All views expressed are based upon my opinions arrived at through my personal experiences.

First rule of service

The very first rule of service to me is simple,and should be repeated until it is the first and last thought you have daily.

Whatever pleases Mz Sydney pleases me.

fodder for the wanks

Tossing you a bone LMAO


Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Lesson for the day



Never allow a lie to pass your lips.

You may think that 1 simple untruth shall go undiscovered,hidden from your Domme's eyes and ears,but alas,one spoken or silent omission may indeed unravel the very foundation of the D's relationship you have sought to erect.

The basis of any enduring alliance relies on integrity to cement it. Irregardless of whether it is your intent,a lie will weaken any bond you have already established.

Trust that your Domme will value the worth of one that speaks in an honest manner,rather than one who pays lip service with lies. Falsehoods serve only to dishonor and discredit you,thereby leading others to question the validity of all you have said and done.

Many are so eager to serve,that they will bend and fudge the truth of their needs,desires, abilities,limits,and expectations entering into service,which will leave a bitter distaste when they realize that they will not find the fulfillment that a healthy and stable D's relationship entails,so consider your words precisely when you enter into rapport with a prospective Domme.

Lesson over for the day!

extreme scenario

I recently joined a discussion forum where the main topic of interest is pertaining to bankrupting a submissive. I did find the thought stimulating as it is the ultimate act of devotion for a submissive to display this level of service,and while I have never gone to these lengths,it was informative to read about the steps which this process would evolve from.
Can you imagine the humiliation of giving all to your Goddess,and then having her discard you when the ca$h was gone? Being used until you are bled dry....the sweet agony of your life in the aftermath.
Now of course within a few months you are able to obtain credit cards again,and fix your credit rating within a couple of years with hard work, only beg her to beg her to serve once more.
How absofuckinglutely delicious is that scenario!!!
I would love to hear your thoughts and input on this type of extreme scenario.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

forced tribute

On today's menu for discussion is the subject of forced tribute.

Forced tribute does not suit my style,and will not be considered at any point in time no matter how much $ is involved!

I only accept and consider those that willingly tribute. Those that enjoy pleasing and spoiling me.

In my estimation if I have to force or take tribute from you,then the dynamic is fouled for me. I derive pleasure from knowing that you desire my happiness,and will put forth the effort to ensure it.

It provides me with a sense of euphoria when I see that one has sacrificed for my benefit.

I recognize that some of you do enjoy the feeling of being forced,and many ladies embrace the taking,but just not my bag baby,so do not bring it up in chat with me,K!



Monday, May 14, 2012

Curvy cocktail,surrender to the taste of ADDICTION!


Curvy cocktail,surrender to the taste of ADDICTION! 

sweet release of service

I love being the center of your universe,the being who gives your obscure life meaning.

As always my happiness your main priority,my pleasure the goal you strive to reach daily.

Your first and last thoughts of the day spent in pontification of how you may better serve.

All of your needs,desires and fantasies encapsulated within the perfection of your Goddess.

The sweet release of service.


Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother's Day

Had a lovely Mother's Day lunch,and managed to get some lily's potted=happy Goddess!!

Saturday, May 12, 2012

things to do

I am loving the weather today!!!

I have a ton of things that I want to accomplish today...sadly though I have slacked just a tad bit,but I did get flowers ordered and delivered to my mother YAY!! Hopefully the rest of you will take time to pay homage to your Mother,after all she is the one who loves you no matter what,or how many mistakes you make.

I am going to finally get some work done on my flower bed,and hopefully find a few moments for a workout today. Started a cleanse yesterday,and they do not lie about headaches being a side effect :(

Well kiddos I am off for a bit,and getting ready to have my hair done WOOHOO!

fun&warning to cuntybitch

Had a lovely relaxing evening enjoying a few drinks,and laughter with a real man!! The rest of the evening is PRIVATE lmao.

Oh and cuntybitch if you are reading this,and I know that you are(just cannot stay away can you),you are soon to find yourself banished from my world if I do not see some positive action on your part. I should never have to repeat my wants and desires(good boys know this). If you expect to receive any attention from me,then you best get your dick out of your ass,and earn it!!

Friday, May 11, 2012

personal session

There is such a rush of the senses with real time sessions! A craving that must be sated,a desire that needs to be quenched.

Sensory deprivation is a passion of mine that I indulge in as often as possible.
A recent session found me tying my personal slave to the posts of my bed,cock side up,ears plugged, ball gag in,and blindfolded.

The sight of him so very vulnerable and trusting made the kitty weep with pleasure. Mine to do with as I chose,and lest I lead anyone astray,we have played together many years,so I know full well how far his limits can be pushed.

How erotic to watch the rise and fall of his breath as I slide the chilled dull knife down his abdomen,dripping warm water down his sides with each inch the knife travels. Oh how he strains against the bonds,not knowing whether I have truly cut him or not.

Listening to the gurgle and grunt as atlast the knife is within an inch of that which he holds dear. My head upon his chest allowing him to feel the vibration of my laughter at his fear. Not once does his erection falter though,which tells me that he is enjoying the play as much as I am......sadly though as the knife begins it's descent,his man juice erupts....


Hmmm did you like peeking at my personal sessions?


Thursday, May 10, 2012

Nice addition to my day

Lovely addition to the day! Just did my cam verification for myfinancialdommespace.com,so now you have another forum in which you can locate me to serve! A big thank you to the lovely Ebony Goddess Amber :-)

It is so beautiful here today,love spring weather!!! I am not online as much when spring rolls around,so little ones you will need to work that much harder to get my attention $$$$$



Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Surrender

MizSydney

Curvy Cocktail,surrender to the taste of addiction! Feed my greed,and spoil me with gift cards today!

Sunday, May 6, 2012

issues to address

Ok so today I want to address some issues that I keep seeing complaints posted about on the sites. I have held back,but wtf this is my blog,and I don't truly care if it burns asses to speak the truth.

1)Complaints about shitty low tribute amounts.
Lets begin with discussing why this is going on. Yes I realize that the economy is not awesome right now(duh naw I am not a dumbass),but the main problem is males thinking that since they can buy clips cheap,and talk to females for 99¢/min,that it must be ok to offer $10&$15 tributes(uh FUCK no). If you do not have the green to approach correctly,then do NOT bother. You are insulting a female,and making a total ass of yourself doing so.
Another segment that needs to be addressed is why the HELL is any Domme accepting this type of behavior,and yes I know that some of you are,or else these males would not continue to think that it is acceptable. Now I know that some are not in it for the fetish,just here to make a quick buck,and ya I got no respect for your asses,but I do comprehend that you are gonna do what you are gonna do,just keep your shit to yourself.

2)Males treating the ladies like whores.
It is not that difficult to figure this one out. There are entirely too many females catering to these men when they see the $ signs,so in essence you are offering a service,which is NOT financial domination,so the cycle begins. Males are paying for the playing,and they are led to believe,and in some cases it is correct that if they pay enough,the females will show all and do all. The downside to this issue,is that many FinDommes are not into this fetish just for the $,now do not get me wrong,it does take $,but domination is also involved,and I for one,am not about to show my goods for your money. I am not a prostitute,therefore,you are not getting a paid show. Do not even think to ask,and I know this to be true about many of the Dommes out there.
In short,just because one female will play your game for the $,do NOT try that shit on the rest of us. It is NOT all about your pathetic dick,and I could give a fuck less if you want to treat females like employees at burger king,YOU WILL NOT GET IT YOUR WAY,with me.

To conclude,ladies if you want better treatment,then DEMAND it,do not bow down to the mighty $,and for the males,get your shit together,and realize that just because you are a filthy whore,not everyone else is. Learn respect BITCH.

Friday, May 4, 2012

worship&please Goddess

Worship and PLEASE your GODDESS!!!

Step up

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO SERVE YOUR GODDESS TODAY???

worth

Only through suffering and sacrifice will you be found worthy of being molded into that which may serve a Goddess. Nothing less shall suffice.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

weekend plans

No BDSM talk today,merely a peek into my plans this weekend.....a few of you may say blah de da.....oh well,it is my blog,and as I rule it,so shall I rule you!
My hands have been itching to pot some bulbs I picked up,and continue my search for pink lilac bushes for a flower bed. I love the scents and sights of spring blossoms!
Therefore Saturday providing my area does not get drenched once more,then I shall be spending this day out in nature!
Sunday though is reserved for a trip to the zoo....yes I said zoo. It is always relaxing to stroll though peering at the beautiful animals.
I do not expect to be online to a great degree,as I intend to enjoy myself with family,and life in general,which means I do not desire dealing with any BS,lies,or drama.....YAY ME!
If I find the time I just might take some pics as well.


nuff said!