Saturday, December 30, 2017

The first tribute

Greetings,and welcome to Goddess Sydney's world...


Take a seat little ones,cause we are going to talk about the all important first financial tribute you pay a FinDomme. So frightening,yet ever exhilarating! You begin your contemplation of tribute by asking yourself:

1)How much do I send?
2)Will she be insulted if I send very little?
3)Will she come to expect big tributes if my initial one is very generous?
4)Will she take my money and run? 

Now I am going to answer those questions for you pets.

1)An initial tribute should be no less than what you would be out of pocket when taking a woman out on a date..a ballpark figure of around no less than $50.
2)Yes she is going to be insulted if you try to be a miser,and send $10,cause seriously her taking the time to interact with you,is deserving of appreciation,not a fish slap to the face capiche? 
3)So long as you explain that you are unable to remit large amounts on a continuous basis,than no she should not be upset..just remember to communicate the fact. 
4)Yes there is always the chance that a female will take your money and run,but just like anytime you ask a woman out,she may not care for you,so you are essentially out of pocket anyway.

How do you up the odds of not getting "scammed",and by scammed I mean by one who never had any intent of getting to know you,or considering you for service.

1)Read her profile before you contact her.
2)Study her photos to ensure that it is the same person in each one.
3)Pay attention to what she posts on social media,and ask yourself if it meshes with what you seek,or if you are what she is looking for.
4)Don't be so fucking shallow..just because the appearance of a woman makes your pecker pop,does not mean that she is a good fit for you. Use the big head,cause if you fail to,then it is your own damn fault if you get burned,so don't cry me a river.

So many of you get so angry about tributing in the first place,but here is the thing gents,you are not a special boy who is entitled to a woman's time and consideration. The very first thing you should be acknowledging is that you should be grateful when a woman opts to give you notice,cause she owes you nothing at all. 

***Most importantly pets***
1)Be appreciative of a woman's time by thanking her when you receive it.
2)Tribute without being asked(I guarantee that it will make a positive impression).
3)Don't be a cheap ass,and never assume that your tribute buys you anything.

Friday, December 29, 2017

Is Altruistic submission dead

Greetings my curious kittens...


A question which tickles at my awareness of frequent is in regards to altruistic submission via a beta male. This ball of yarn opens my mind to more and more queries such as:

1)Are males capable of altruistic acts?


2)Are males willing to act selflessly without compensation?


3)Do males even recognize the entitlement disposition that they carry with them like attached luggage?


4)Are males intelligent enough to evolve past their patriarchal castings of objectification,and misogynistic sexualization of women?


If you are a beta male, and you are reading this...I want your input. I want to know why,in your opinion it is that males are self driven towards acts of selfishness rather than altruism. 

I have had beyond count interactions with males in the fetish scene over the years,and yet my question remains unanswered. 

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Findom Reliability

Hello little pervs...


Do you know what is valued in a submissive male? Reliability. Sure it sounds boring as all get out, but truly it is important.

When you go to buy a vehicle, do you care if the car is reliable?
I do. I mean, what is the point of owning it,  if it breaks down on the daily? Just doesn't make sense, now does it? Of course not.

When you apply for a job, do you ascertain if you will receive a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly paycheck? You do need steady income don't you? Most people I know, would be mighty pissed off if their employer said, "hey I can't pay you this week, but I will catch you next week"..am I right?
Would you like that type of erratic reimbursement

Imagine if you went to your favorite restaurant, and they told you that they had taken the dish you love most off of their menu! That would suck balls for sure. Here you are, all let down, cause your tried and true tummy yummy is no longer an option. 

Now think about that one person who cuts your hair perfect every time, but when you make an appointment, they tell you that your trusty barber has retired!  Who is going to cut your hair now?? 

Are you getting my drift yet? 

Dominants desire dependability in their submissives. Having a willy nilly haphazard approach to servitude is insulting to your Domme. She deserves better than that type of treatment, and you know it. 

Yes I realize that we all lead very busy lives, ya well some of us do anyways, but the point is, if you cannot be dependable, than do not expect her to be available to you. A Domme is not an object that you put up on a shelf, to take down when you want to have fetish funtime.
She is a living, breathing human being, who has responsibilities, and people who depend on her to be reliable

Being reliable displays respect, and respect is an integral aspect of serving, cause if you do not respect your Domme, than you do not deserve her. You want to be worthy don't you?

My point being, if you say that you will contact her daily, weekly, monthly etc.. do so. If you declare that you will tribute daily, weekly, monthly etc..do so. If you agree to perform a task with a deadline, get it done. If you make a promise, keep it. If you give your word, abide by it. 

BE RELIABLE 

Saturday, December 9, 2017

Truth in Fetish

Welcome prospective submissives to Goddess Sydney....

I am going to share some not so secret,secrets with you lucky gents. Are you ready, are you set, cause here we go!


1)Dick pics are not a form of foreplay.
They are not erotic. They are not sexy. They do not arouse me, or the majority of women. They are not wanted. *Don't lead in with a dick pic*

2)Conversations are not meant to be interludes comprised of sexual innuendos. When you are approaching a Dominant woman with the hopes of serving her, your sex drive, and dick desires should be kept to a minimum of mention. Never forget that serving a woman is NOT about you.

3)There are real women behind the opposing screen. They deserve the same amount of respect that you would provide to any other woman of your acquaintance. If you do not display respect for any women, than you are in need of schooling.

4)Misogyny has no place in fetish, kink, Findom, or Femdom. If you genuinely have a hate hard on for women, do yourself, and women a favor by avoiding contact with them. Spewing vile, heinous insults towards women is a reflection of your own ugliness. Stop, and seek professional help stat!

5)Findom is a career for many women. There is no need for misplaced anger or resentment towards FinDommes due to your inability or unwillingness to financially contribute to their lifestyles. Why stress yourself out over something that you cannot control. Just move along until you find a woman who does not possess such expectations. 

6)Femdom and Femdom porn are not interchangeable terms. Porn is entertainment for your cock. Femdom is entertainment for the Dominant woman.

7)Paying a female for a cam session is not the same as paying tribute to a FinDomme. Paying for a session lends you the title of client, meaning that you call the shots, and can reasonably expect to receive exactly what you paid for. Paying tribute to a FinDomme means that you possess no expectations of reasonable return for your dollars. You are giving a non-reciprocal gift.

8)Submitting to a woman does not mean that you are a weak ass loser. It requires emotional strength to kneel, and even more to accept that being vulnerable is not a weakness..it is human. 

*Installment 1 TBC*

Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Financial Slavery Mz Sydney style

Welcome to all who seek to serve Goddess Sydney...

Do you know what it means to serve as a submissive male under the domination of a Dominant Woman?


Do you know how it feels to be objectified..to be used as if you are nothing more than an object created for serving?

Do you know how to cast aside selfish ambitions in order to concentrate on what really matters(Goddess Sydney)?

Do you consent to allow me to mold you into whatever I desire?

Are you willing,and able to prioritize my will,and wants above your own?

If so,then come little one into my dominion. You are welcome here. 

In this realm I stand above you both literally and figuratively. I am the artist,and you are the muse.
I will manipulate your mind,your flesh,and your finances,til you resemble something somewhat pleasing to me.

There is no room for ego,or entitlement here. The longer you remain at my feet,the more you will come to loathe the life you led before finding me. Your eyes,mind,heart,and wallet will be open to my commands. You will see that nothing,and no one matters to you more than Goddess Sydney.

Each day begins with affirmations. Affirmations that draw you closer to your life's purpose,which is becoming a better beta for Goddess Sydney.


Your daily schedule entails working hard for your Goddess. You work so that your labor provides fruit for tithe. All of the long hours you work better enable you to financially sacrifice for the enrichment of your Goddess's life.
You want nothing more than to please her..don't you my good boy? You want to be worthy of being a part of her life,and you know that by suffering for her,that you are truly serving her. Your suffering serves a cause,and that great and divine cause is the happiness of Goddess Sydney,for when she is happy,the world is a bright and beautiful place,but when she is disappointed,the skies become grey,and a smile cannot find it's way onto your face.


You want to be that good boy for her. You will work long and hard to be useful,and productive in her life,for you want that feeling at the end of the day. That feeling of having a spot in the grand scheme of her happiness. You want to be useful. You want to be used by her. You want to be her's.

This will be your world,and you will be my creation. 
 

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Ordinary joe schmo in Femdom

Welcome to all those that have come to embrace my words..

 Today I want to talk to you about Joe...who is Joe?

Joe is the everyday,ordinary type of male who enters the fetish scene after having come upon some fetish porn via pornhub,or some other form of sexual fetish media forum.

Now Joe knows nothing of traditional bdsm rules and protocol,nor does he care to. He is here for the big bang results splattered across his pc screen. He is a furious one hand pumping warrior out to satisfy his cock's commands for action. 

Poor Joe has been misled,not by others,but by self. Joe actually believed that he was going to be on the receiving end of all his fantasies come true with a Femdom. He just knew that women would be ever so happy to jump on the "gratify Joe train". I mean seriously,what woman would not feel honored to be the recipient of Joe's cum tribute,cause everyone knows that he only yanks his wank for the hottest pieces of ass on the internet. C'mon ya'll it is your lucky day..line up and show Joe what you are working with!

Oh Joe you silly boy,you really thought that life was just like the movies...schmuck lol

Of course Joe races as fast as he can to the nearest open inbox to demand he receive the attention he feels due to him,cause don't ya know that his Momma told him that he was a special boy who deserves everything he desires,so why wouldn't he believe that all these women in the fetish scene are his for the taking to command. Sure he ain't so good looking,and of course he don't make much money,but Momma said...yup Momma said he was special.

But wait,what is this? Joe's messages go unanswered,and Joe don't get the attention his dick needs to get off! What the ever living hell is wrong with these bitches?? Why are they ignoring him? Don't they understand that his dick is hard,and he needs their nasty talk,pics,and videos to jack off to? 

Well,Joe will show them! He gets to work typing out missives telling these women that they are nothing but fucking internet whores,whose only purpose is to get his dick off. He is gonna set them straight toot sweet. "You tell them bitches,Joe" he tells himself. Who the fuck do they think they are anyway? 

So,surely now,Joe will get the accolades he deserves right? Holy shit,Joe got blocked!! Wow how can that be? Didn't somebody tell that whore what Joe's Momma said? 

Do you all feel sorry for Joe? Do some of you even recognize your own inner Joe? 

You don't want to be Joe,cause Joe is a fucking loser plain and simple. How can you avoid the fate of Joe?

1)Recognize that you are NOT special just cause you have a horny dick
2)Accept that a cum tribute is no tribute at all
3)Embrace that women do not see you as a prize
4)Squash that false narrative of male entitlement
5)Treat women with respect,and not just as a potential cum dumpsters
6)Understand that if 10 out of 10 women will have nothing to do with you,that you ARE the common denominator,so start fixing yourself before you ever think to project your ugly,angry,unworthiness upon others

Monday, November 20, 2017

Financially Enslaved

You shall arise out of the ashes of a prideful patriarchal existence,as a carefully crafted creation of Goddess Sydney. A tool honed in the fires of male mentality metamorphosis. No longer burdened by the wants of self,but evolved beyond the very concept,for you are a changed being. A being whose life centers around the will of Goddess Sydney alone. 

It is her will that drives you to become a better beta male. Her desires that you fixate upon. Her happiness that you strive,and dedicate your efforts towards.

No regrets,no remorse,only ambition to reach your goal. What is that goal,my little pet? 

You know explicitly what it is that Goddess Sydney expects,requires,demands of you. Your only concern need be,how quickly you can accomplish that which she dictates must be done. Will you rise to the challenge,pet?

Failure is not an option. Anything less than your very best is not conceivable. You can,you must,you will succeed. There is no other choice.

You have been chosen to step forth and prove yourself. You will crawl for me,won't you beta? You like that image don't you? Yes I believe that you do. Instinctively you recognize that you are where you have always been meant to be. Where do you belong pet?

Come take your place at the feet of the divine Goddess Sydney. Your dreams,your fantasies all revolve around this one woman. This woman who is a Goddess amongst males. 

You are not worthy,nor shall you ever be,but you will glorify her by devoting your life to her service,for there is no honor greater afforded to a mere beta male,than to be accepted into the service of a Goddess.

You want this,you need this,you will have this experience as your own. 

Come in gratitude,come in all humility,come with thankful purpose. I offer you this one chance,this golden opportunity..allow yourself the supreme pleasure of serving Goddess Sydney.

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Friday, November 10, 2017

No BS advice to new FinDommes

Greetings fellow Findomme Femmes...

This piece is dedicated to you,and your sanity in this insane fetish foray.

Social media sites,and fetish forums are overflowing out the ends with females cramming themselves into the ever widening niche of findom

Findom sounds like a fantasy land version of perfection created for the princess within all of us women. A land where males beg to pay for your existence in their life,and while this is in part factual,the overwhelming reality majority is way less than real.


New Ladies to the scene will find themselves under scrutiny,and face depressing discouragement quite quickly. Now please do not attempt to attribute this entirely to misplaced jealousy lobbed by fellow females,for that would be a mistake. Of course within any facet of society jealousy exists betwixt females,but I fear that it is the ruthless nature of competition that allows for what is viewed as jealousy.

Findom can be successfully equated to a competitive arena where you either slay or are slain. Imagine if you will 1000 females seeking out financially flush prey to enrich their financial base,but the crux being that only 50 males of such means are available. Now what do you think the logical outcome will be? 


You will witness subterfuge,and dishonesty,because the mentality has been reduced to the point where you are positioned to crawl your way to the top, on the backs of your fellow females. Is this how you envisioned it to be,or did you expect to sashay into the scene an immediate smashing success? Findom has been portrayed in the media to be an easy way for women to make a buck at the expense of unknowing,unsuspecting beta males..shame on them for their lies!

The males who have dwelled within this scene for decades are anything but naive. They know the score just as well as you do,perhaps even a bit of upper hand is held by them,since they possess experience at it. Some even have adopted an abusive manner,to the point where they will ferret out newer ladies to prey upon their lack of experience,so please do educate yourself on how not to be a victim of the rampant misogyny lacing even this most precious form of acclaimed female led spheres.

Recognition must come to you that all females in findom possess physical attributes similar to your own ie a pussy,tits,ass,feet,legs etc...so please do not predicate your success upon them. Honestly after having seen thousands of unclothed female forms..it loses it's luster,so this means that you must use your most powerful sexual organ of deduction in order to succeed...your brain! An intelligent woman is a bigger threat to the wallets of males than mere beauty alone. Of course it helps if you are not appearing as if you just rolled out of the rubbish bin,but seriously,and with all honesty I relay to you that your appearance will only get you so far,so you best have a plan beyond it.


Your greatest asset in findom is your mind. You must be willing to research bdsm,and the psychology behind the fetishes if you want to stand a chance. Yes it will look to outsiders as if you are a predatory beast taking advantage of hapless males,but the key here is consent. The males here must consent to your treatment of them,and truly there is no legal way for you to force consent that is not willingly given. 

You must learn as well how to play safely with beta males. Keep yourself safe in mind and body,but them as well. You become responsible for those that serve you,and that is a most serious matter to undertake. Take it seriously,and others will respect your position.

Develop a thick outer skin,and rely upon yourself for succor,cause whilst it may seem only natural to take your griefs to fellow femmes,they may in turn air them publicly if you piss them off. Be careful of whom you place your trust in,and even more careful as to whom you entrust with your personal life details.

Recognize that just about everything that can be done session/clip wise,has been done,so no you are not going to come up with this spectacular revolutionary breakthrough scene,but what you can do is to take the existing models,and spin them with a piece of yourself. Do not imitate others,for that is not being true to you,and being true to you is priceless. Along those lines..never do what you do not want to do in a scene or session. Set your own limits first,and respect them just as you would the limits of those you play with.  

Most important is self care. If you find yourself drowning in this sphere,love yourself enough to step back and reassess your commitment to it. Always have your own interests at heart,for you will find that others do not give a fig for your feelings,wants,or desires. You must look to yourself for this,so do not feel ashamed for looking out for yourself!


Your success or failure hinges upon you,so face this findom realm with that uppermost in mind. Best of luck to you my fellow femmes :)

Thursday, November 9, 2017

Bitter Findom Truth

Evening greetings gents...

Some of you go so very butthurt when I tell you the truth,why do you think that is?  People that ask for honesty,should not become hot and angry when they receive it,and honesty is all you will ever get from me. 

I do not play the "dress a lie up pretty" game. I see no value in doing so. It does not benefit my life lying to males about my intentions. What are my intentions,my agenda,my end goal? Let's put it in your face shall we lol.

I am a DOMINANT FEMALE,a FEMALE SUPREMACIST,a FINDOMME,a FUCKING GODDESS walking this Earth amongst you mere mortal beta males. 

As such,I will not soil myself by sharing my time with males who are not worthy of it. Who decides your worth? I do of course :) Never forget that it was you who came to me,not I chasing after your attention,so when you come before me,we are going to play by my rules.
If I say to you that I have no interest in playing your game,man up,and swallow that raging bile back down your cockhole. What you should do at that point,is recognize that YOU need to change your perception of what serving a woman really means before you ever attempt to get in contact with me again.

I am not interested in your dick at all,so any service you offer me that gratifies your dick is going to get you blocked. Chastity yes,you getting off=NO. CBT=YES,PIV=NO. Along those same lines..I am not sitting on your face,or inserting anything into your arse,nor will you EVER touch my naked flesh with any part of you,except to clean the filth from my feet. 

Onto the big truth that really gets your juices boiling over...no tribute=no serving me. If you are one of those males who believes themselves entitled to my attention without contributing to my happiness..ya, you are delusional. I honestly do not fracking care if tributing makes it "less real" for you,or if financially enhancing my life makes your dick go limp..anything less than tribute,makes me feel used,and I am not allowing myself to be used by you or any other swinging dick.
Still want the truth? Truth be known..you are a beta bitch,yup all of you equipped with a dick were created to serve womankind,not vice versa bb,and as such,you should be showering women with appreciation for their existence. Don't like them apples? Whelp you can exit left at any time,but for the rest of you...welcome to my world,where I rule the beta bitch brigade :)

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Goddess Sydney holy day

Hello my puppets..

The countdown is on...8 days til the most holy day of the year! Yes puppets, we are coming upon the sacred celebration of the birth of your Goddess Sydney!! 

An intelligent puppet would be working to ensure that his gift to Goddess arrives ahead of the special day,and that is exactly what my brat boy did.

Yesterday he dropped off his gift to Goddess Sydney early. This boy sacrifices every day of the year,so that he may enrich my life. He keeps a jar beside his bed,into which he deposits cash each and every day for me,so that when the holy holiday draws near,he is prepared.


$5500 worth of sacrifice. An entire year of sacrificing! This is dedication. This is devotion. This is adoration. Perhaps now you understand why I refuse to accept subpar service from beta bitches.

I see absolutely no point in entertaining the notion of taking on any male who is not willing to do his best,be his best,give his most to belong to me. The fetish scene is full of males willing to expend minimum effort with the expectation of maximum reward,and that is why my standards are set so very high. I do not want just any and every male serving me..egads that would be a nightmare!

Quality trumps quantity each and every time. I would rather have 1 slave whom wholeheartedly  dedicates his existence to fulfilling my wishes,and desires,than to have 10 whom only seek to pleasure their penis at my expense. Make sense? Service and selfishness do NOT mix. Service and sacrifice do.

Now little puppet,show me how you are going to enrich my holy day with sacrifice..note that I did not say "tell me how",but instead said "show me how",as in Financial contributions.

 
 

Saturday, November 4, 2017

Creation of Goddess Sydney

Welcome my pets...

Unto Goddess Sydney you render your tithe,for she alone provides your life with direction,and purpose.

This is you before Goddess Sydney 
A lump of cold, lifeless clay..waiting for my hand to mold you into my perfect vision of You. You drifted through your life devoid of inspiration..inspiration which would set forth your metamorphosis. What an utterly sterile study of a monotonous existence you have lived. Til now my pet.

Now is the moment your life changes. Now is the time to alter the reality you have proscribed for yourself. Now, the stars are in perfect alignment for you to surrender yourself to Goddess Sydney. The perfect moment to place your fate into her divine hands.
This is your desire isn't it...your darkest hidden secret. You crave the cruelty of Goddess Sydney, and the kindness she bestows in accepting you into her flock. You need her guidance to alleviate the struggles of your submission. You want nothing more than to become her creation,her creature,her muse. You are the clay awaiting her hand.

You are the object whose design she shall sculpt. You are thankful for her direction. You overflow with gratitude for her presence. Your eyes are open to her vision..your ears await her directives..your mind is receptive to her desires.

Stroke by stroke she fashions you together for her purpose. 
You will become a vessel for her dominance. A vassal to her wants,and needs. This is your purpose pet. Chase it,embrace it,and make of yourself a faithful servant to Goddess Sydney.

Monday, October 30, 2017

Female Supremacy plundered via patriarchal programming

Greetings to all who enter the realm of Goddess Sydney...

 If you have followed me for any length of time,you would be aware that I am a believer of Female Supremacy. Many times,being a Female Supremacist gets lumped in with being a feminist,when in fact,these are two separate trains of thought.

When I think of feminists,what comes to mind for me,is women that seek to create equality between females and males,especially in the workplace. I myself do agree that it is criminal for males to be paid more than females holding the same position within a company,and for females to be overlooked for promotions due to the biological inclinations of our sex,but I personally believe that women deserve so much more than simple equality.


Women are simply superior to males,therefore seeking to find equality between female and male tweaks my sense of offense. I care not for a society where females and males are treated exactly alike,for in my eyes we are NOT alike,and NOT equal.

Women are accused of being "emotional" decision makers,whereas males are lauded for being "rational" thinkers,which is accurate,yet entirely inaccurate. Women do indeed allow compassion to temper how we would deal with specific scenarios,but that is a strength,rather than a weakness. Males on the other hand possess a tendency to break things down to a base level..ie a physical response. Beings that are led to make decisions by the strength of cock twitching,are entirely too likely to reach conclusions which suit their desires best,rather than arriving at impartial decisions.

Now even with the above statements relayed,I must ask myself,do I believe that Female Supremacy worldwide recognition as truth is viable,and my response at this time must be a resounding NO.

Many a time you my readers have seen me make reference to the brainwashing performed by patriarchy in society,and yes I assign blame for the failure of the rise of Female Supremacy at their altar! 

You may be wondering how that could even be true,so I will give you a few crumbs to lead the way.

1)Who has planted in the minds of women and men,that women should look a certain way,dress a specific way,and act in a prescribed manner to attract males?
2)Who sets the standards for what we as a society define as a beautiful,desirable look and body shape of a woman?
3)Who has allowed,even encouraged women and men to shame women who do not fit into these molds?
4)Who has corrupted the minds of young females into believing that if you are not thin,then you are not valued as a female?
5)Who contends that women should go to surgical lengths to attain or preserve what males deem "beauty"? 

Patriarchy has poisoned the mindsets of generations of females to believe that they need to outdo,and compete for the attention,and affection of males,therefore we as a whole tend to see cattiness,backbiting,and downright harsh and rude insults hurled at women via other women. How fucked up is that?? The patriarchy no longer needs to employ males as tools to suppress women,cause we ensure it ourselves. I mean seriously,how could we as women expect others to see the superiority of women if we are so very busy bashing each other? This is utterly sad in my opinion.

I hope for change,but recognize that I am responsible for only my actions,so I shall persevere to refrain from playing the misogynistic games,by refusing to shame and blame my fellow women. The rest is up to you my readers. Oh,and gents reading this,do your part,and be a good ally to women by refusing to engage in the patriarchal plan.
 

Thursday, October 26, 2017

Sensual Audio Domination

Welcome worshipers of Goddess Sydney....

I invite all of you to allow yourself the beauty and bliss of Goddess guiding you into prayer at the Sanctuary of Sydney!

Click here and listen to your Goddess

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Fall into Female Domination

Greetings to those dedicated to the worship of Goddess Sydney...

Have you ever noticed the power of words? Words have the power to grant wishes,and yet to destroy your dreams. 

Words can lift you higher than the clouds,and yet plummet you to shatter upon the Earth.

Have you ever been shattered? Have you ever been bruised by the harshness of words that your ego could not accept as truth?

One of the sweetest tools of Female Domination is words.

A single word brings you to your knees...KNEEL!

One word cremates your hopes...NO!

2 words sweep elation into your soul..Good boy! 

Allow yourself the life changing introduction in to the realm of Goddess Sydney.

Indoctrinate your senses into the worship of Goddess by listening to my words.

Listen here  and here

My mesmerizing words,and hypnotic voice decimates your will until your only thought is how to become a good boy for Goddess Sydney. 

Saturday, October 21, 2017

Ageism against males in fetish

Ageism exists for males in the FETISH scene as well...

In FINDOM older males are preferred. Why?
1)They are more likely to be established in life,and career
2)They are more likely to have the funds to spoil and tribute
3)Greater life experience tends to(note not always)afford greater levels of maturity 


Younger males are less desired in FINDOM. Why?
1) The majority are focused on their dick
2)Are way less likely to possess expendable income
3)Suffer greatly from entitlement syndrome

This flips when it comes to FEMDOM

In FEMDOM older males are less desirable. Why?
1)They are more likely to be married,therefore unable to serve full time
2)They are more likely to suffer with health issues which curtail many physical aspects of service 
3)They tend to be quite set in their ways (insert old dogs,new tricks adage)

Younger males on the other hand increase in desirability. Why?
1)They are much more open to new experiences
2)They tend to be free and single,with time to spare for service
3)Their bodies are more likely to be in prime shape for a greater variety of service activities 

Do feel free to comment with your opinions on the subject :)
 



Friday, October 20, 2017

HypnoDomme ASMR mind control

Greetings my pets...

Did you make your way over today to listen to my newest ASMR softly whispered commands audio? I created it just for you. We both know that you are ADDICTED to the sound of my voice. You LOVE listening to me speak to you alone..only the two of us in your mind. Can you imagine what it would be like if you closed your eyes,and I was there with you whispering the very words you so YEARN to hear? You can make that your reality by clicking on this link  

Click on the link..sit back..relax..and close your eyes as you listen to you Goddess speak to you,and to you alone.

You like being in your own little world with me don't you? You like me slipping into your mind..transforming you into my perfect puppet. My words fill the void within you..my words guide you..evolve you into pure SUBMISSION for Goddess Sydney. This is your purpose pet.

This is you before you found Goddess Sydney



You were born to serve Goddess Sydney. You were created from my will,and by my design,in order to fulfill your destiny as a submissive male. 


This is you after you found Goddess Sydney



 This is what you want..this is what you CRAVE. You have searched for so long my pet..waited so patiently for me,and now you are ready..ready to become..to become my puppet. Yes pet,you are ready.

You and I both know that you long to be my GOOD BOY..you want my praise,my attention,my recognition of your efforts. It can all be yours pet..if you are willing to work for it.

Are you ready to work for it..to work for me? Are you ready to be my SLAVE? Are you ready to be my good boy? Are you ready to serve your ASMR HypnoDomme Goddess? 

Come crawl into my web,and find out what it feels like to serve a GODDESS.

Monday, October 16, 2017

Seductive Domination

Did the title of the blog titillate your attention gents?

If so, you obviously enjoy the soft seduction of your senses. You like that feeling..that wave of warmth which spreads from your belly to flood your groin with thrills when your mind recognizes that a woman is focusing her attention upon you. Don't you just adore that feeling? I do! I love knowing that I am turning a man's mind to mush with my appeal.


The seduction of the senses can arise from even the smallest of acts. It could be the turn of a phrase,the look in one's eyes..words upon a screen. Am I wrong? Have you ever found yourself reading my words whilst imagining how erotically charged it would be to have me whispering those very words into your ear? I give you permission to admit it. Admit that my voice reduces you to your base level..the level where you can no longer think..all you can do is FEEL. Feel the way my tone resonates within you. Feel the sensuality of my words coat and cover you in scintillation. You like that feeling don't you? I know that you do.

You want to want me..and I want you to want me. I want you to want me so much that you simply cannot wait any longer to kneel down at my feet in a pool of submission. It feels so damn good to finally give in..to give in to your desires. Give in,and serve your Goddess Sydney.

Saturday, October 14, 2017

Wooden nickel noise

Greetings little cock gobblers...

So many of you relay the desire to be valued by a FinDomme..yet I would question whether you can actually be valued if what you bring to the equation is 




Being of worth to a FinDomme can be comprised of many factors,such as
1)Altruistic servitude 
For those of you whom possess no idea of what I am referring to...google is your best friend.
2)Integrity
Integrity is a fundamental building block of what I define as a decent human being.
3)Passion to please the FinDomme
Pleasing the FinDomme,should in essence bring pleasure to you..nope not the kind which floods your gonads full. 
4)Willing sacrifice
Sacrifice which may encompass your ego,your sex,your finances,your time,your basic rights as a human being.
5)Expending effort joyfully
If you are just going through the motions in order to gain your personal goals..it will be apparent,and unappreciated.

Let us proceed to what is worthless in service to a FinDomme
1)Your dick.
Your dick is valued by you,and you alone. 
In fact,your dick is most often detrimental to the relationship,for it prods you to be both selfish,and stupid..and no one values stupidity or selfishness.
2)Your sense of entitlement
Women owe you nothing,and for you to believe that they do by virtue of your sex,than you little boy,are delusional. Coming before a strong woman with the expectation that you hold a bargaining chip due to being a male is perhaps the height of ignorance. Scour this archaic ideology from your mental repertoire immediately!
3)Lies
Oh such lies..they are perpetrated day in day out...WITHOUT success.
What do lies accomplish?? Anger towards you,and your entire sex. If you desire women to cease touting that men are trash...stop acting like trash.
4)Unrealistic expectations
You know those fantasies spinning in your head..the ones where you live happily ever after with your Domme..or where you dwell in her basement existing on feces and urine for sustenance..even the ones where she pimps out your over 50 ugly old man ball dragging ass out to paying cocks..funnier yet is the one where she brings all of her friends over to use you,or even look upon your nasty ass naked body...RECOGNIZE that those are fantasies,and will NEVER be your reality. Fantasies are wonderful creative outlets,but you cannot base your reality upon them.
5)Empty wallets
Yes yes yes..financial ability and willingness to transfer that wealth to your Domina for the betterment of her life is ESSENTIAL. Findom after all is Financial Domination,not broke wallet wishes. It is ok to have champagne wishes,but if you exist upon a tap water budget without a FinDomme in your life,whelp you are stalled at the starting gate. Do better,be better,succeed in the financial sector,then come back.

Bring 
to be valued period.

Friday, October 13, 2017

Not nice Dominatrix

Greetings and welcome to those who are worthy of acknowledgement...

If you have been following me for any length of time,you will already be aware that I believe in being truthful to the point of cruelty. I apply this readily to myself as well,cause seriously one of the most detrimental actions you can perpetrate is lying to yourself. 

I am going to get down and gritty with this post..make it burn like an unlubed strapon violation lol

Anyways..so I have made a point of pointing out that I am ALL about ME :) You know this right?? Hope so. This kinda goes against the grain of how some run their realm,and hey that is ok by me,cause if every FemDomme was a carbon copy,that would be borrrrrrring! Agree?

Alrighty,so I have been told that if I do not atleast put up a false pretense that I truly care about every single male who approaches me to serve,that I am not really dominant,but more along the lines of a predator. Hmmm...here is the thing folks...99% of the males who do approach me to serve,do not give a flying rat's ass about me as a FemDomme,much less as a human being,so why would I want to play that I give a shite about them as "submissive males"..I employ that term loosely.  

First and foremost I am always true to me,and if you as a male are coming at me without regard for my desires,rules,or standards,then why the hell would you expect me to treat you like a treasure?  I possess zero respect for males who contact FemDommes with dick in hand,looking to bust a nut for free. In my opinion this type of male is the lowest of the low. He is out to use women,and that is NOT ok,so I give no fucks about hurting their precious feelings(as if they have any to harm)when I tell them to fuck off. 

Here is the thing...I am not subhuman,and yes I care about humanity on the whole,but I am not going to play nice with people out to use me without my consent..make sense?

Truthfully here,I do indeed care about the males who serve me for my sake,and not their own. I do appreciate males who seek to be a blessing in my life,rather than a noose around my neck. I do treasure the males who enrich my life with sacrifice,instead of looking to get something for nothing from me. These are the males who enjoy the softer side of Sydney. They have earned it,unlike the average reject banging at my inbox with his 2" pecker expecting me to fall all over him in gratitude for having chosen me to bestow his cum tribute upon. Who the fuck even came up with that cum tribute bullshit anyway??? 

Are you getting what I am putting out? I am seriously a really caring,kind,sweetheart type of person once you have proven that you are worthy of that type of treatment,but not a single moment before then,so keep that in mind when you are hitting me up like a communal doorknob.

Thursday, October 12, 2017

Poached Submissive

Greetings to all who enter the domain of the Female Supremacist Goddess Mz Sydney...


I want to get into something today that has been on my mind for awhile,no doubt exacerbated by the continuous outcries I see over poaching. 
For those of you newer to the fetish scene..no I am not speaking in reference to a poached egg lol

Poaching is a term used to describe what occurs when a female approaches an owned submissive and convinces them to depart service from their owner so that they may serve the approaching female. Sounds alot like nilla cheating yes? It is basically the same exact thing.

In findom especially, this creates some major discord,anger,and outright hatred. Now what I generally see going off is all of the anger being directed solely at the female pursuer,which in my opinion is totally outrageous. 

I absolutely get being pissed over someone taking what you rightfully believe as being yours.
Most males in the fetish scene who are actively serving a single Dominant woman will have some sort of highly visible to the public notation affixed to their profiles mentioning that they are not available to serve anyone else,but this alone will not deter a determined female pursuant.

Of course most of us FemDommes respect the owned,and UC titles,note that I said most,not all,but that does not do a lick of good if the male in question desires to stray.

Just as in a nilla wafer relationship,if a male wants to cheat,he will. You,I,nor anyone else will be able to stop that train if it is bound in motion,therefore to continue blaming the other female is pointless..and let's get real here folks. The blame lays solely upon the shoulders of the straying male. He knows the commitments that he has made,he knows where his loyalty and fidelity should rest,so if he opens his wallet for someone else,well it is ALL on him,so please oh please own your fault if you are a male who has perped this behavior,and for the Ladies, stop shaming on your fellow Femmes for the failings of a male. 

Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Beyond the computer screen

Morning greetings to all of Mz Sydney's minions...

 Do you ever wonder what lays beyond the computer screen you are sitting at right now,or are you content to sit back and center your thoughts toward your own little self-contained bubble?

Are you a member(even if it is the bastardized version)of the fetish scene with the intent to evolve beyond what you have been reared to believe,or are you satisfied to remain upon your set course to guided masturbation?

Exactly why are you here,and what do you believe is beyond the screen?

As you sit there typing away
what,and who do you think is on the other end?

Is this what you imagine?
Do you envision an AI automatron awaiting your initiation of contact? An inorganic creation with no will or mind other than what you program it to relay? An autobot whose sole purpose is bring a touch of reality to all of the perversions that your fantasies direct and produce?




Reality check bb! There are living breathing women beyond the fantasy fluff stuffed between your ears. Most often when you are reaching out to women in the fetish scene,they are on the other side of the screen hoping that you are different from the other 99% of males contacting them. They are realistic though,but I can tell you that from my own personal experience that it is almost orgasmic to find that the male on the other end of the screen is not contacting me for his pleasure,but instead for mine(mind you I am not referring to the male projected version of my pleasure). What I mean when I say "my pleasure" is not sexual in nature at all. 

My pleasure in fetish is derived from the exchange of power. There is nothing more powerful in this world than money. Money rules society,and our lives. Without money we could not continue to live the life we are accustomed to,nor in the manner we choose. Lack of it can and will break you down,whilst abundance of it can and will elevate you to the peak of power. 

Look to those that influence and control our society..what do they all have in common=MONEY. Money is power,and power is the greatest of aphrodisiacs period! It is that power I want. I want to bathe in power. I want to eclipse the sun in the shine of power.

Now when you compare the power of your penis(non-existent)to the power of money..money wins each and every time. There is a reason why women in fetish are not chasing dick. So spare me your desire to involve your penis in my power play. I crave real power,not the faux fucktool in your pants. 

Are you ready to serve the reality beyond the screen? 

Monday, October 9, 2017

Denied Domination

Hello bitches and cunts....

Yes this really is how I view 99% of you males..awwww

You are arrogant,you are conceited,you are self-absorbed,and chalk full of entitlement issues..even those of you who tout that tired line "I am a loser" are seriously unworthy of a FemDomme's time and attention. One little passive aggressive ploy which makes me laugh is when I shoot down a male,and he replies in this manner
As if he truly believes that me saying No thank you to any male who does not meet or exceed my standards is a loss to me!! It is the furthest thing from a loss for me. Accepting a subpar male would be the actual loss,and I am not into losing. 

Here is some more truth for you
1)Seriously..if I take time of out my jam packed schedule to respond to a missive you have sent,but you on the other hand wait days or weeks to acknowledge my words..guess what...stick a fork in your ass,cause we are done here. 
2)If you are sitting around waiting for me to reach out to you initially..you might as well slip a noose around your neck right now,cause it is not gonna happen.
3)If you expect to expend minimal effort in order to receive maximum attention from me lmfao..you are living in la la land bb. 

Do you grasp the gist of what I am getting at here? For those of you that are intellectually challenged(which is most of you) always always always it is YOUR loss if you are denied my dominance in your life. It is you that will suffer with angst,not I. I will lose exactly zero sleep fretting over what I could have done differently,and without doubt,no fucks will be given via me if you are not serving at my feet. Get over yourself,and accept that you are not a prize at the fair,that I am vying to win.

It is you that must be found worthy. It is you that must meet my expectations for a submissive. It is you that is being weighed and measured for service. Any other belief is just you farting upwind!

 

Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Serve Miz Sydney

Welcome to those who enter here with the intent to serve Sydney...

For those of you who are not serving me, nor in possession of the intent to serve Sydney,
You can just ride in my wake, because I am not waiting around for you to catch up,and realize that you should be investing your time and finances into the appreciation of Sydney.

Honestly,if you are not driven to serve Sydney with all of your heart, soul, and wallet, than you are wasting your life. You simply serve no purpose at this time, and if you are not useful, than you are useless. Who in their right mind would desire to interact with a useless skinsac of flesh..not I, says this Goddess! 

I stand upon the crest
whilst you tumble and toss within the undertow in the wake of my presence.

To know your place in the life of a FemDomme is a sign of intelligence..but to know your purpose, and serve it, is wisdom. 

One of the first pearls of truth I convey to all serfs who approach, is that regardless of your station in society, you will always be beneath, and below Sydney. Of course you are meant to strive to better yourself in service to Sydney, but you will never reach the heights to which I dwell.

This is your time little oyster..come lay your treasures at my divine feet..and take your predestined place serving Sydney.
 

Thursday, September 28, 2017

Your life story in a bottle

Hello pets and pervs...

Today I received a mini-novella from a male in the very first message he sent me. This is an inept approach. Why?

  1. Does anyone seriously want to expend that much effort reading an initial outreach contact...I don't,but neither am I advocating blippy messages such as "hi" "how r u" "sup". Most times in my experience,long drawn out messages tend to be copy and past messages,where the sender sends this same message to every single female they happen upon,and this is insulting. Why? Well cause it is a)indicative of laziness b)plainly relays that the recipient is not worthy of a message crafted entirely for them alone.
  2.  If the sender was truly considerate of the recipient,a tribute would have been attached with the lengthy missive,for time is a woman's most precious commodity,so who in their right mind would expect one to devote that much attention without at the least a token of appreciation for said time?
  3. Messages that are relayed to me detailing a male's life experience,goals,fetishes etc...are a red flag if conveyed right from the onset. Why? Because it tells me that this male is focused purely upon himself..what he wants,what he likes. Why is a male knowing what he wants bad? In most cases it is not,BUT when it comes to Femdom for me..it is all about me,and when I see that the priority is not ME..ya know how I feel about that! The correct approach would have been trying to ascertain what it is that I expect,what I require from a submissive male. That is definitely the best way to get your foot so to speak in the door.

In addition,do NOT offer to send explicit photos to a woman you know not from jane doe. Why?
  1. It is RUDE!
  2. It conveys the assumption that women actually want to see any aspect of you explicitly. How many times must males be told that women are not the visual creatures that males are??
  3. Try to remember that the person on the other side of the screen is a STRANGER!! Would you walk up to a woman in the supermarket and ask her if she wants to see explicit photos of you? If you are stupid enough to say yes,than you are far too ignorant for continued existence.
  4. You do not even know if you are contacting a male or female,so unless you get your kicks exposing your explicitness to either sex,keep in mind that males parade on sites as females all of the time. 

After having read my explanations,do you understand where this male went wrong? Do you see how you should proceed? Did you learn anything? I sincerely hope so.

Sometimes less is more,and sometimes more is too much!

Tuesday, September 26, 2017

Beyond the ordinary

Welcome once again..

I am not seeking the ordinary..in fact what I await is the extraordinary. What exactly is extraordinary though in this favored fetish of mine? Extraordinary is the white elephant not present in the room. 


In a scene overwhelming comprised of same old same old..it becomes a droll experience. I tire of the worn out words spilling from the fingertips of males with nefarious intent. How many times do you believe that you would agreeably read the same words over and over day in day out without evolving into a jaded being? How many times would you sit idly by listening to a fellow whom you recognize from the get go as one whose motivation is selfishly bent? How long would your patience hold out?

There comes a time when a critical thinking being realizes that ordinary is never going to be enough. Sure ordinary is safe..it is most likely reliable..but it is above all BORING,and boring chaps are swept away like rubbish..farewell and forgotten.

I demand something out of the ordinary. Be different..be not the same as every other lackluster lad out there. Come to me in abject humility..hat in hand so to speak. Come to me as my creature. Come to me shining intensely with the burning desire to submit yourself to my will,and my will alone.


Leave off what you once called service,for it was never that. You spoke lies,and burned down your bridges for the chance of one sordid stroke of the penis. Can you see now that what you were was never going to bring you anything more than a moment in time? Those times need to close the chapter once and for all. Open the cover and begin your journey anew. 


Serving will bring you purpose. Service will bring you peace. This is where happiness lays in submission. Submission is to give of yourself,not for yourself,but in spite of yourself. It is the sacrifice which paints joy upon your soul. It is the unfettered,unadulterated bliss of mind,body,and soul when you reach the point where your motivation in service is altruistic..and this is what I require of you. I demand it, I command it, and only then will I claim it as my own.

Monday, September 25, 2017

ASMR FemDomme feet


Findom junk mail

Greetings pets..

Did you notice my absence from social media this weekend? I decided to take some time away to focus on me and my life *gasp*! Gosh can you believe that? 

Seriously, I have truly felt as of late that those of you wandering into my inbox have my interests no where near in your motivations, much less as a focus, so no doubt that you missed me not at all. The amount of junk mail piled up in my inbox bears proof of that decree. Examples:1)I want to serve you so bad!!!!(all typed while penis pumping) 2)I would do anything for you Mistress (again with the hand humping) 3)I want to be your live in toilet slave (Seriously STFU with that nonsense)
These are just a few email examples of why I take days to myself, and leave the selfish shit you bowel beavers spew out.

I once had a fellow Domina relay to me that sharing any type of negative opinion of you males is a no no..but ya know what..I am just not that type of person. I have never been a polly sunshine gal..so no amount of faking it would make it true. Besides I feel that if you males desire to serve me, than you should be serving the real me, rather than some affected persona, and the real me believes in telling it like it is. 


I refuse to kiss your ass or cater to your fantasies. That fails to align with my definition of femdom. Kissing your ass, and catering to your fantasies falls more in line with a service top, which I am not. 



I am not even a femdom who seeks to promote female equality..in fact my aim is to conquer, and convert you poser submissives to female supremacy..after all it is closer to the divine.

There is no interest for me in interacting with males who simply pay lip service to the ideology in order to gain their 2 seconds of spunk wonder. I desire the service of males who embrace female superiority as rule of law in their lives outside of the internet. 

I have always been very open about my requirements,so do yourself the favor of spamming someone else with your fantasies, cause I do not dwell in the land of fantasia. I base my style of domination and expectations of servitude upon reality folks..and in my reality, it is all about ME :)

Anyways...feel free to welcome me back with a big fat amazon gift card, cause you know that you owe it to me.