Poached Submissive

Greetings to all who enter the domain of the Female Supremacist Goddess Mz Sydney...


I want to get into something today that has been on my mind for awhile,no doubt exacerbated by the continuous outcries I see over poaching. 

For those of you newer to the fetish scene..no I am not speaking in reference to a poached egg lol

Poaching is a term used to describe what occurs when a female approaches an owned submissive and convinces them to depart service from their owner so that they may serve the approaching female. Sounds alot like nilla cheating yes? It is basically the same exact thing.

In findom especially, this creates some major discord,anger,and outright hatred. Now what I generally see going off is all of the anger being directed solely at the female pursuer,which in my opinion is totally outrageous. 

I absolutely get being pissed over someone taking what you rightfully believe as being yours.

Most males in the fetish scene who are actively serving a single Dominant woman will have some sort of highly visible to the public notation affixed to their profiles mentioning that they are not available to serve anyone else,but this alone will not deter a determined female pursuant.

Of course most of us FemDommes respect the owned,and UC titles,note that I said most,not all,but that does not do a lick of good if the male in question desires to stray.

Just as in a nilla wafer relationship,if a male wants to cheat,he will. You,I,nor anyone else will be able to stop that train if it is bound in motion,therefore to continue blaming the other female is pointless..and let's get real here folks. The blame lays solely upon the shoulders of the straying male. He knows the commitments that he has made,he knows where his loyalty and fidelity should rest,so if he opens his wallet for someone else,well it is ALL on him,so please oh please own your fault if you are a male who has perped this behavior,and for the Ladies, stop shaming on your fellow Femmes for the failings of a male.