Hello hello hello
It has been like a month of Sundays since last I posted here...
Life has been like an undertow which tumbled me under, and finally spit me back out a little bruised.
Have you missed me my flock of syndrones? Undoubtedly so ;>
What crazy unforeseen times we are living in is it not? How has your life altered under the quarantine regime? Have you put good use to your confinement? From the lack of appreciation tributes sitting in my inbox, I would judge that you weren't very productive at all. You can rectify that though by sending a lovely little gift card today to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
At the moment I am seeking out a day trip location where I can safely away from the public eye tie my brat boy to a tree and torment him at my leisure lol, and before you ask, yes he is the only boy I am playing with real time.
Why is he the only one? The answer is simple, yet complicated. Real time is a commitment which I do not lightly undertake. It is so very intimate since I am allowing someone else into my personal space. It requires a high amount of trust, and the rest of you have not earned that honor. Of course the majority of you aren't even seeking out real time, for your goal is a quick and nasty online romp towards a single course crashing crescendo skin flute concerto, which is all fine and good if you were interacting with a woman who cared to offer that service....alas I am not that woman.
Over the years of my online presence, so many of you wandering wanks have attempted to sway me from my outlined course and met with failure, yet you keep trying. I do admit to admiring your persistence, even though the odds are not in your favor. If your intent is to serve as a syndrone, than you must meet my requirements for service.
1)You must serve online for a period of no less than 3 months
*consistent financial tributes are required during this time*
2)You must maintain contact daily
*I will not chase you down*
3)You must display dedication, devotion, and build trust
*these things take time*
Sounds easy, yes? It honestly is, but cum and dumps always fail. You will never pass the test if your expectations are to jizz and jet. Keep that in mind.
All of this being said, I am open to testing the waters with prospective servants for service as a loyal syndrone. Apply with tribute attached.
Showing posts with label findom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label findom. Show all posts
Thursday, May 14, 2020
Friday, January 17, 2020
Always a reason for Tribute treason
Hello hello hello...and welcome to the sanctum of Sydney Claire!
Some of you gents need to seriously reconsider your actions, or lack thereof when it comes to serving dominant Women. Ya ya ya I know that some of you are brand spanking new to the scene, but sometimes you just got to learn the hard way, and that most often is the wrong way on a one way street.
The main subject of discussion here is TRIBUTE. If you are ill educated upon the subject of tributing in a Financial Domination sense, than you can quick and easy google for the answer :) Go ahead and do that for me right now, so that I will know that you are up to speed. Done?
Progressing.
Do you know how many excuses I have been given for not being able to tribute? Take a guess....WRONG! Try again, only add in a couple of zeros to the equation. Do you know what excuses are? They are falsified reasons losers and liars toss about. Are you a liar or loser? If so, than stop, do not pass go, and get out of here NOW. I have done my time on sucker skidrow, and paid my listening to lying "paypig" dues.
Onward.
There are zero, and I do mean zero legitimate reasons not to tribute a Woman.
I get it, and I imagine that most Women comprehend that the majority of males in the findom fetish are not on par with Daddy Warbucks when it comes to disposable income, but you can still contribute financially towards the lifestyle of a Lady. Now if you are sitting there, and can say in all honesty that you cannot invest a single cent in the relationship, well than I would advise you to exit behind the liars and losers, cause you are of zero value in a Financial Domination power exchange. Net negatives are a drain of time and valuable feminine resources.
Forward.
If you fear tributing because of
1)past negative treatment
2)uncertainty if She is the one(need to get to know her)
3)being scammed or ghosted
Solution: Sit back quietly without contacting Her at all. Study Her social media to ascertain if She is the one you want to serve. Then proceed with tribute.
Your initial tribute doesn't have to break your bank account, but nor should it be insulting either. Figure in what you would spend if you were taking Her out to a nice dinner (not a fast food joint) and send that amount. Once sent, never forget that tribute is a gift. It is not a payment for services expected. You are not owed a single second of Her time for that money, but most likely you will receive a response, and the chance to speak with Her, which is most definitely a reward worth chasing.
Tribute is the platform which springs you into Her orbit of notice, rather than as a right of entitlement. Financially investing in the relationship displays your intent to provide for Her physical comfort, and since providing is already embedded in your dna, tributing is a given :) No need to fear it, or make up excuses to get out of it. You are definitely not going to get anywhere in findom without it, because as I stated previously, we have heard every excuse, so you are not going to get a foot in the door if you lead like that.
Take pride in the act of giving. You are enhancing Her level of happiness, and serving Her interests, which should be the goal of every single submissive boy and girl. You want to be a good little subby, yes? Of course you do :) All it requires is an open mind, heart, and wallet/pocketbook. You can do this. I believe in you, so get out there and send a tribute today!!
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Some of you gents need to seriously reconsider your actions, or lack thereof when it comes to serving dominant Women. Ya ya ya I know that some of you are brand spanking new to the scene, but sometimes you just got to learn the hard way, and that most often is the wrong way on a one way street.
The main subject of discussion here is TRIBUTE. If you are ill educated upon the subject of tributing in a Financial Domination sense, than you can quick and easy google for the answer :) Go ahead and do that for me right now, so that I will know that you are up to speed. Done?
Progressing.
Do you know how many excuses I have been given for not being able to tribute? Take a guess....WRONG! Try again, only add in a couple of zeros to the equation. Do you know what excuses are? They are falsified reasons losers and liars toss about. Are you a liar or loser? If so, than stop, do not pass go, and get out of here NOW. I have done my time on sucker skidrow, and paid my listening to lying "paypig" dues.
Onward.
There are zero, and I do mean zero legitimate reasons not to tribute a Woman.
I get it, and I imagine that most Women comprehend that the majority of males in the findom fetish are not on par with Daddy Warbucks when it comes to disposable income, but you can still contribute financially towards the lifestyle of a Lady. Now if you are sitting there, and can say in all honesty that you cannot invest a single cent in the relationship, well than I would advise you to exit behind the liars and losers, cause you are of zero value in a Financial Domination power exchange. Net negatives are a drain of time and valuable feminine resources.
Forward.
If you fear tributing because of
1)past negative treatment
2)uncertainty if She is the one(need to get to know her)
3)being scammed or ghosted
Solution: Sit back quietly without contacting Her at all. Study Her social media to ascertain if She is the one you want to serve. Then proceed with tribute.
Your initial tribute doesn't have to break your bank account, but nor should it be insulting either. Figure in what you would spend if you were taking Her out to a nice dinner (not a fast food joint) and send that amount. Once sent, never forget that tribute is a gift. It is not a payment for services expected. You are not owed a single second of Her time for that money, but most likely you will receive a response, and the chance to speak with Her, which is most definitely a reward worth chasing.
Tribute is the platform which springs you into Her orbit of notice, rather than as a right of entitlement. Financially investing in the relationship displays your intent to provide for Her physical comfort, and since providing is already embedded in your dna, tributing is a given :) No need to fear it, or make up excuses to get out of it. You are definitely not going to get anywhere in findom without it, because as I stated previously, we have heard every excuse, so you are not going to get a foot in the door if you lead like that.
Take pride in the act of giving. You are enhancing Her level of happiness, and serving Her interests, which should be the goal of every single submissive boy and girl. You want to be a good little subby, yes? Of course you do :) All it requires is an open mind, heart, and wallet/pocketbook. You can do this. I believe in you, so get out there and send a tribute today!!
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Wednesday, January 1, 2020
New Year's Resolution
Hip hip hooray...it is New Year's Day, and here you are celebrating the changing of a decade with the divinely celestial Sydney Claire :)
I wonder how many of my faithful readers made the obligatory New Year's resolution. Did you? It seems to me as if there are recurring themes to the annual promises. Such as, health, wealth, or happiness. Does that sound about spot on to you?
I myself, made no resolutions. Resolutions tend to be exhaustively huge life changes, which are statistically bound for failure, unless you are one of the scant few who actually successfully holds up your end. Have you made resolutions which failed? If so, why do you believe that they bombed?
In my opinion, people tend to reach entirely too high and too fast when making resolutions. They place unrealistic expectations upon themselves, and that leads to failure, which creates self-directed unhappiness, depression, and even anger. People in general would benefit more from making more easily attainable short term resolutions.
Example 1
*Say you want to lose 50lbs. Well than, instead of saying "I am going to lose 50lbs this year", begin small by vowing to
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink an additional 8oz of water daily
Any one of these alterations may very well enable you to lose 1lb per week. Add that up, and voila bb!!
Do you see the point I am directing you towards? If you keep the step short, you are far more likely to climb it!
Example 2
*You want to save up money for a luxury item
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink water instead of coffee and soda
Now take the money you would have spent on these items, and piggy bank it til you have enough to treat yourself to the desired item :)
I honestly want to see people succeed, but to do so, we must first acknowledge that we are the ones preventing it from happening, and actively seek to help ourselves reach the goals we set. It feels so good to achieve positive changes in our lives, and we all know that there is a strong correlation between positivity and happiness, which is the ultimate goal, yes? It definitely is for me.
Wishing you all success and happiness in this coming year!
I wonder how many of my faithful readers made the obligatory New Year's resolution. Did you? It seems to me as if there are recurring themes to the annual promises. Such as, health, wealth, or happiness. Does that sound about spot on to you?
I myself, made no resolutions. Resolutions tend to be exhaustively huge life changes, which are statistically bound for failure, unless you are one of the scant few who actually successfully holds up your end. Have you made resolutions which failed? If so, why do you believe that they bombed?
In my opinion, people tend to reach entirely too high and too fast when making resolutions. They place unrealistic expectations upon themselves, and that leads to failure, which creates self-directed unhappiness, depression, and even anger. People in general would benefit more from making more easily attainable short term resolutions.
Example 1
*Say you want to lose 50lbs. Well than, instead of saying "I am going to lose 50lbs this year", begin small by vowing to
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink an additional 8oz of water daily
Any one of these alterations may very well enable you to lose 1lb per week. Add that up, and voila bb!!
Do you see the point I am directing you towards? If you keep the step short, you are far more likely to climb it!
Example 2
*You want to save up money for a luxury item
-cut back on eating out
or
-fast 1 day per week
or
-drink water instead of coffee and soda
Now take the money you would have spent on these items, and piggy bank it til you have enough to treat yourself to the desired item :)
I honestly want to see people succeed, but to do so, we must first acknowledge that we are the ones preventing it from happening, and actively seek to help ourselves reach the goals we set. It feels so good to achieve positive changes in our lives, and we all know that there is a strong correlation between positivity and happiness, which is the ultimate goal, yes? It definitely is for me.
Wishing you all success and happiness in this coming year!
Monday, November 4, 2019
When less is really more
Hello and welcome to all who come to serve the will of Sydney Claire, or merely to absorb my words of wisdom.
No doubt that we have all heard that old saying about "less is more", but the only time I ever heard it applied was when referencing makeup, and I am definitely not here to discuss cosmetics lol.
When I say less is more, I am employing the statement to signify that more followers, more likes, more retweets, more fans, more admirers, more slaves does not mean more success, more happiness, more money. I have seen social media accounts with thousands of fans and followers, yet beyond minimal engagement rates, and even less financial remuneration for time invested. In those cases, more is not more in a tangible sense, and it certainly does not produce that giddy dopamine rush.
I personally do not fixate on follower count, or even likes. My posts are not intended to resonate with the majority of social media users. In fact, my aim is narrowly fixed upon a scant few.
Of course I could share provocative imagery in order to increase my reach, but I would not be able to maintain the interest of those drawn in, for it goes against my nature. If in doubt, take a peek at the number of likes and shares a photo of a woman's bare ass, breasts, or vagina receives. Yes sex sells, and it always will. In this instance less clothing does equal more engagement. Therefore an astute businesswoman would use her sex to her advantage, and honestly could you fault her? Some would and do, but the lack of a man's will power will never be the blame of a woman, as it is entirely at a man's discretion whether or not to succumb or deny the lure of feminine flesh. Which means that the men you see falling for fetish, should not be pitied or provided victim status, as they are cognizant and consenting.
Having fewer followers, and following fewer people allows me to enjoy my online experience more by providing a less cluttered TL, and increasing my engagement rate, as I am only following people who interest, challenge, and inspire me. This is a positive. Less equals more engagement, more room for growth, more contentment in my interactions.
I realize that not everyone is going to concur with my assessment, and that is ok, cause we all are allowed our own opinions :) It is fun though to share my thoughts, views etc...just to see if they resonate with my audience. Feel free to share your thoughts on the subject in the comment section!
No doubt that we have all heard that old saying about "less is more", but the only time I ever heard it applied was when referencing makeup, and I am definitely not here to discuss cosmetics lol.
When I say less is more, I am employing the statement to signify that more followers, more likes, more retweets, more fans, more admirers, more slaves does not mean more success, more happiness, more money. I have seen social media accounts with thousands of fans and followers, yet beyond minimal engagement rates, and even less financial remuneration for time invested. In those cases, more is not more in a tangible sense, and it certainly does not produce that giddy dopamine rush.
I personally do not fixate on follower count, or even likes. My posts are not intended to resonate with the majority of social media users. In fact, my aim is narrowly fixed upon a scant few.
Of course I could share provocative imagery in order to increase my reach, but I would not be able to maintain the interest of those drawn in, for it goes against my nature. If in doubt, take a peek at the number of likes and shares a photo of a woman's bare ass, breasts, or vagina receives. Yes sex sells, and it always will. In this instance less clothing does equal more engagement. Therefore an astute businesswoman would use her sex to her advantage, and honestly could you fault her? Some would and do, but the lack of a man's will power will never be the blame of a woman, as it is entirely at a man's discretion whether or not to succumb or deny the lure of feminine flesh. Which means that the men you see falling for fetish, should not be pitied or provided victim status, as they are cognizant and consenting.
Having fewer followers, and following fewer people allows me to enjoy my online experience more by providing a less cluttered TL, and increasing my engagement rate, as I am only following people who interest, challenge, and inspire me. This is a positive. Less equals more engagement, more room for growth, more contentment in my interactions.
I realize that not everyone is going to concur with my assessment, and that is ok, cause we all are allowed our own opinions :) It is fun though to share my thoughts, views etc...just to see if they resonate with my audience. Feel free to share your thoughts on the subject in the comment section!
Tuesday, October 29, 2019
Syndrones are the best of men
Welcome to the wonderful world of Sydney Claire
Did you know that violence against women worldwide is on the rise? This is unacceptable! Men need to be taught that respect for a woman's person is a requirement rather than an option such as my little SYNDONES are taught.
Being a syndrone makes you an all around better man, and asset to society at large. Syndrones are respectful to ALL women regardless of their station or circumstances.
They are so utterly obsessed with all things Sydney Claire that they do not even think of other women. They devote their very lives to living up to her standards of behavior, which makes them the safest men to be around. Isn't it wonderful knowing that men such as this exist? Wouldn't you like to be such a man?
Serving Sydney Claire is the opportunity of a lifetime for a man such as yourself, and that is why you offer up your very best to her. Sending her your tithe creates this warm feeling in the pit of your being, because you know that it is the right thing to do. Sacrificing for her is your sex.
You begin to spend all of your time away from work, sitting at the computer drinking her words in...allowing them to seep into your brain bit by bit til they consume you entirely. You want to be consumed by her. You want her to take over your life. She is so much smarter and wiser than you. She knows best, and you realize that her way is the way you want to live.
Lose yourself in Sydney Claire. She will remake you into the perfect syndrone. Invading your mind word by word, day by day til you are reborn as her syndrone. This is the life that men across the continents dream of living. The envy of all other men who fail to measure up to her exacting standards. You want them to envy you. You want them to see that you are better than them, that you are smarter than them for choosing to give up your old life, and devote your new one to Sydney Claire.
Sydney Claire is the fire by which you warm yourself. She is your light in the dark, whilst all others who she has turned away, are left bereft of her in their cold little lives. They are useless, and scorned.
You want to be one of her chosen ones. That is why you seek her out day and day. Eating up her every word on social media til you cannot resist any longer. You must serve her will. It is the only way for you. You are ready to take the leap.
Come feel her pleasure as you send tribute day after day. It is the very least you can do for her. Your tribute is your gratitude for her existence. You are so very grateful for Sydney Claire. Show her your gratitude. Show her your appreciation. You are ready to send. No hesitation, no reasons for delay. Send it silently to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Did you know that violence against women worldwide is on the rise? This is unacceptable! Men need to be taught that respect for a woman's person is a requirement rather than an option such as my little SYNDONES are taught.
Being a syndrone makes you an all around better man, and asset to society at large. Syndrones are respectful to ALL women regardless of their station or circumstances.
They are so utterly obsessed with all things Sydney Claire that they do not even think of other women. They devote their very lives to living up to her standards of behavior, which makes them the safest men to be around. Isn't it wonderful knowing that men such as this exist? Wouldn't you like to be such a man?
Serving Sydney Claire is the opportunity of a lifetime for a man such as yourself, and that is why you offer up your very best to her. Sending her your tithe creates this warm feeling in the pit of your being, because you know that it is the right thing to do. Sacrificing for her is your sex.
You begin to spend all of your time away from work, sitting at the computer drinking her words in...allowing them to seep into your brain bit by bit til they consume you entirely. You want to be consumed by her. You want her to take over your life. She is so much smarter and wiser than you. She knows best, and you realize that her way is the way you want to live.
Lose yourself in Sydney Claire. She will remake you into the perfect syndrone. Invading your mind word by word, day by day til you are reborn as her syndrone. This is the life that men across the continents dream of living. The envy of all other men who fail to measure up to her exacting standards. You want them to envy you. You want them to see that you are better than them, that you are smarter than them for choosing to give up your old life, and devote your new one to Sydney Claire.
Sydney Claire is the fire by which you warm yourself. She is your light in the dark, whilst all others who she has turned away, are left bereft of her in their cold little lives. They are useless, and scorned.
You want to be one of her chosen ones. That is why you seek her out day and day. Eating up her every word on social media til you cannot resist any longer. You must serve her will. It is the only way for you. You are ready to take the leap.
Come feel her pleasure as you send tribute day after day. It is the very least you can do for her. Your tribute is your gratitude for her existence. You are so very grateful for Sydney Claire. Show her your gratitude. Show her your appreciation. You are ready to send. No hesitation, no reasons for delay. Send it silently to SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Monday, October 21, 2019
Selfish men don't serve
Hello and welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire. Home of SynAddiction addicts :)
The title of this post truly says it all. It conveys truth to all who see it.
This post can be used as educational material for women, as well as shining a reflection of selfishness upon males who engage in the behavior I am prepared to share with you.
Selfish males are no stranger to fetish. In fact they comprise the majority of males in the scene.
Is selfishness ok? Is it excusable behavior for males? The answer is not so very simple, but I will endeavor to simplify it for you.
Males possess many reasons why they enter the scene, and yes the greater part of them are steeped in selfishness.
1)They are here to sate their sexual desires.
This is their only interest, and the driving motivation behind their every action. They will act in any way, speak every word, and even downright deceive to achieve their goal. To these men, women are no more than mere objects. Tools which aid them in orchestrating an orgasm. Online females are not real to them. The women they interact with serve only 1 purpose, and are forgotten quicker than the cum dries. Is this harsh? It is unforgivable? Truth be known, it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change these men for the better of mankind, so please do not waste energy and effort attempting to do so.
I am not declaring these males are "bad" men per se. In fact, they may very well be wonderful husbands, commendable fathers, admirable sons, exemplary employees, but online they are just another user. A user out to get his fix, and should be treated as such. Kindness is wasted upon them. Show them none. They either pay for your time or product, or you freeze them out of your business domain. They are unworthy of you, and refusing to pay, is disrespect in the highest.
This type tends to be the one who has every excuse in the book to not pay tribute.
a)he is broke til payday
b)he is a poor student
c)he is married, and cannot risk his wife seeing money missing
d)he doesn't have a credit card
e)paying tribute cheapens the experience
f)real Dommes dominate for free lmao
There are plenty of these men who do pay. Not tribute though. They pay for a service. They buy clips, sessions, used items etc.. These males are good for business, but bad for actual service. Trying to turn them into your devoted selfless slave is not a viable option. Use them, drain them, and discard them like toilet tissue til the next time they come sniffing at your feet. Save your energy for those that deserve it.
2)They want their emotional needs served.
These tend to be whiny wimps who want all of your time and all of your attention devoted to them. They may or may not pay, but even if they do, it tends to be minute amounts. They want maximum attention for minimal investment. These are energy leeches, and you seriously do not need the drama they bring with them.
3)The seek to use you to validate their burning misogyny.
They already hate you. Most likely they hate themselves more for needing you to serve their sexual fantasies, but they will use you as their whipping post if you allow it. This is the male who acts in such a way in the beginning, yet flips the switch when he is denied his desires. Which one of you Ladies has not been told by a male how beautiful you are, how sexy you are, how much he wants to serve you, only to call you an ugly fat whore when you say no?
4)They are lonely irl, and want to be your friend.
Oh my lands, please do not give in to this ploy. If a male cannot make friends irl, he is a loser that you do not want eating up your valuable internet access. Avoid, avoid, avoid. Many women have ended up in dangerous stalkeresque situations due to taking pity on this type of male. He is not your friend, and never will be. Ignore any attempts to guilt, or shame you into freely giving him your time. You will regret it, I promise.
There are males who come only to be of use and serve a woman's wants, but they are a rarity in the scene. Those that respect women, their time, and energy. Who pay tribute without being told, without requiring any return upon that financial investment. These are the gems. The true gentlemen of fetish, and I commend them for their altruism. Hold on to these gents Ladies, for they do not come along often.
In the end, it is solely at your discretion whom you share your time with online though, so if you get your time wasted, or you lend your energy to males who fail to pay tribute, that is entirely on YOU. Learn the signs and behaviors of males who do not respect you enough to financially invest in your attention, and you will undoubtedly enjoy a more fulfilling, and financially lucrative internet experience :)
To you males whose behaviors I have described, this post puts you on notice. I have zero qualms about alerting newer females in the scene as to what types to avoid, and blowing up your user playbook all over social media. You have been forewarned.
The title of this post truly says it all. It conveys truth to all who see it.
This post can be used as educational material for women, as well as shining a reflection of selfishness upon males who engage in the behavior I am prepared to share with you.
Selfish males are no stranger to fetish. In fact they comprise the majority of males in the scene.
Is selfishness ok? Is it excusable behavior for males? The answer is not so very simple, but I will endeavor to simplify it for you.
Males possess many reasons why they enter the scene, and yes the greater part of them are steeped in selfishness.
1)They are here to sate their sexual desires.
This is their only interest, and the driving motivation behind their every action. They will act in any way, speak every word, and even downright deceive to achieve their goal. To these men, women are no more than mere objects. Tools which aid them in orchestrating an orgasm. Online females are not real to them. The women they interact with serve only 1 purpose, and are forgotten quicker than the cum dries. Is this harsh? It is unforgivable? Truth be known, it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change these men for the better of mankind, so please do not waste energy and effort attempting to do so.
I am not declaring these males are "bad" men per se. In fact, they may very well be wonderful husbands, commendable fathers, admirable sons, exemplary employees, but online they are just another user. A user out to get his fix, and should be treated as such. Kindness is wasted upon them. Show them none. They either pay for your time or product, or you freeze them out of your business domain. They are unworthy of you, and refusing to pay, is disrespect in the highest.
This type tends to be the one who has every excuse in the book to not pay tribute.
a)he is broke til payday
b)he is a poor student
c)he is married, and cannot risk his wife seeing money missing
d)he doesn't have a credit card
e)paying tribute cheapens the experience
f)real Dommes dominate for free lmao
There are plenty of these men who do pay. Not tribute though. They pay for a service. They buy clips, sessions, used items etc.. These males are good for business, but bad for actual service. Trying to turn them into your devoted selfless slave is not a viable option. Use them, drain them, and discard them like toilet tissue til the next time they come sniffing at your feet. Save your energy for those that deserve it.
2)They want their emotional needs served.
These tend to be whiny wimps who want all of your time and all of your attention devoted to them. They may or may not pay, but even if they do, it tends to be minute amounts. They want maximum attention for minimal investment. These are energy leeches, and you seriously do not need the drama they bring with them.
3)The seek to use you to validate their burning misogyny.
They already hate you. Most likely they hate themselves more for needing you to serve their sexual fantasies, but they will use you as their whipping post if you allow it. This is the male who acts in such a way in the beginning, yet flips the switch when he is denied his desires. Which one of you Ladies has not been told by a male how beautiful you are, how sexy you are, how much he wants to serve you, only to call you an ugly fat whore when you say no?
4)They are lonely irl, and want to be your friend.
Oh my lands, please do not give in to this ploy. If a male cannot make friends irl, he is a loser that you do not want eating up your valuable internet access. Avoid, avoid, avoid. Many women have ended up in dangerous stalkeresque situations due to taking pity on this type of male. He is not your friend, and never will be. Ignore any attempts to guilt, or shame you into freely giving him your time. You will regret it, I promise.
There are males who come only to be of use and serve a woman's wants, but they are a rarity in the scene. Those that respect women, their time, and energy. Who pay tribute without being told, without requiring any return upon that financial investment. These are the gems. The true gentlemen of fetish, and I commend them for their altruism. Hold on to these gents Ladies, for they do not come along often.
In the end, it is solely at your discretion whom you share your time with online though, so if you get your time wasted, or you lend your energy to males who fail to pay tribute, that is entirely on YOU. Learn the signs and behaviors of males who do not respect you enough to financially invest in your attention, and you will undoubtedly enjoy a more fulfilling, and financially lucrative internet experience :)
To you males whose behaviors I have described, this post puts you on notice. I have zero qualms about alerting newer females in the scene as to what types to avoid, and blowing up your user playbook all over social media. You have been forewarned.
Friday, October 11, 2019
Same name, same game
Hello and welcome to Sydney Claire's slice of femdom
The name of the game is findom.
Now, some of you gents keep trying to change the definition of the game. Whelp I am here to relay to you that it is not going to work.
I so get it that you do not like the rules of findom, but you have 2 choices
1)suck it up, provide and abide
or
2)get your ass outta fetish
I know that you newer peeps get confused about the definition since it gets mislabeled so much of the time, so I am going to be a generous Goddess, and educate you here and now.
Findom has always been about giving your money to women, and getting nothing in return. Ya ya ya, I am not forgetting the domination aspect of the term, but what you aren't grasping is that the domination part is about dominating finances. Dominating the money, not your dick.
Seeing as most Dommes are not one pony tricks, they harbor many fetishes, and play them out alongside findom. This is not a bad thing. It is actually a pretty awesome thing, but it can lead to possible confusion, so here I am to clear away the grey.
I am going to break it down for you even further, thereby offering clarity to the fullest.
1)Buying clips is not participating in findom. Buying clips is buying a product, just as selling clips is selling a product.
2)Paying for an online or in person session is not findom. You are paying or offering a service.
3)Procuring used items from a woman is not findom. Acquiring goods or peddling items is business.
Now that I have schooled you as to what findom is not, let's move on to what findom is.
1)Giving, sending money to a woman with zero expectations of receiving anything in return.
2)Giving a woman control over your bank account so that she may decide what you spend and what you buy.
3)Giving gifts to a woman, and once again expecting nothing from her.
See the difference? Awesome!! I knew that you were a smart cookie ;-)
You are now ready to dive in deep into the exhilarating fetish of findom. Feel free to thank me with a tribute
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
The name of the game is findom.
Now, some of you gents keep trying to change the definition of the game. Whelp I am here to relay to you that it is not going to work.
I so get it that you do not like the rules of findom, but you have 2 choices
1)suck it up, provide and abide
or
2)get your ass outta fetish
I know that you newer peeps get confused about the definition since it gets mislabeled so much of the time, so I am going to be a generous Goddess, and educate you here and now.
Findom has always been about giving your money to women, and getting nothing in return. Ya ya ya, I am not forgetting the domination aspect of the term, but what you aren't grasping is that the domination part is about dominating finances. Dominating the money, not your dick.
Seeing as most Dommes are not one pony tricks, they harbor many fetishes, and play them out alongside findom. This is not a bad thing. It is actually a pretty awesome thing, but it can lead to possible confusion, so here I am to clear away the grey.
I am going to break it down for you even further, thereby offering clarity to the fullest.
1)Buying clips is not participating in findom. Buying clips is buying a product, just as selling clips is selling a product.
2)Paying for an online or in person session is not findom. You are paying or offering a service.
3)Procuring used items from a woman is not findom. Acquiring goods or peddling items is business.
Now that I have schooled you as to what findom is not, let's move on to what findom is.
1)Giving, sending money to a woman with zero expectations of receiving anything in return.
2)Giving a woman control over your bank account so that she may decide what you spend and what you buy.
3)Giving gifts to a woman, and once again expecting nothing from her.
See the difference? Awesome!! I knew that you were a smart cookie ;-)
You are now ready to dive in deep into the exhilarating fetish of findom. Feel free to thank me with a tribute
SydneyClaire@protonmail.com
Saturday, October 5, 2019
Calling All SynAddicts
Welcome my poppets, puppets, and pervs
Is today your first time sliding into Sydney Sphere? If so, than you should know right from the start that this is not a space for the average gooner. Jack and gos, just aren't going to get their fix up in here :)
This is the realm where you come to learn obedience to Sydney Claire. A place where you take that first step towards becoming a SynAddict. I am here to make you mine. Taking over your mind, cock, and wallet. Afraid?
You should be, because my claws will sink so deep into your psyche, that you will never fully be rid of your unquenchable desire to serve my every wanton wish.
Do you know what human beings have in common, other than the physical obvious? They want to belong. They want to feel as if they have a purpose. They want to believe that their lives have meaning. This is natural. It is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. I get it, honestly I do.
It feels good to belong to ME. Being Sydney Claire's servant gives meaning to your life. Serving Sydney Claire provides you with a purpose and direction in life. All that you sought, all that you NEED, can be found at the feet of Sydney Claire.
Serving me is the most natural expression of self. No more feeling alone, divided, despised. Here you will know your place. You will feel accepted. You will know happiness.
I love when the lost and misguided find their way to the fold. Aren't you tired of pretending to be something and someone that you aren't? Imagine how wonderful it would feel to finally be at peace with who and what you really are? You don't have to hide from me. I already know that you belong.
No more fear. You will find yourself fearless in your service to me. Every step forward is one step closer. You want this. You need this. This is where you belong.
Close your eyes my little puppet and imagine how good it will feel to just let go. Let go of your everyday struggles. Strip yourself of the chains society constrains you with. Allow yourself to relinquish that false ego weighing you down. You were not meant to stand before me, you were created to crawl at my feet. You are a servant, and I am your superior. This is your life.
Giving your all, being your best. All of this is possible. The fantasy can become your reality when you are in my presence. No holding back. No turning back. You belong. You are mine! Say it out loud for your ears to hear, and your soul to accept. You belong to Sydney Claire. Sydney Claire is your most holy Goddess. Sydney Claire owns you.
Is today your first time sliding into Sydney Sphere? If so, than you should know right from the start that this is not a space for the average gooner. Jack and gos, just aren't going to get their fix up in here :)
This is the realm where you come to learn obedience to Sydney Claire. A place where you take that first step towards becoming a SynAddict. I am here to make you mine. Taking over your mind, cock, and wallet. Afraid?
You should be, because my claws will sink so deep into your psyche, that you will never fully be rid of your unquenchable desire to serve my every wanton wish.
Do you know what human beings have in common, other than the physical obvious? They want to belong. They want to feel as if they have a purpose. They want to believe that their lives have meaning. This is natural. It is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. I get it, honestly I do.
It feels good to belong to ME. Being Sydney Claire's servant gives meaning to your life. Serving Sydney Claire provides you with a purpose and direction in life. All that you sought, all that you NEED, can be found at the feet of Sydney Claire.
Serving me is the most natural expression of self. No more feeling alone, divided, despised. Here you will know your place. You will feel accepted. You will know happiness.
I love when the lost and misguided find their way to the fold. Aren't you tired of pretending to be something and someone that you aren't? Imagine how wonderful it would feel to finally be at peace with who and what you really are? You don't have to hide from me. I already know that you belong.
No more fear. You will find yourself fearless in your service to me. Every step forward is one step closer. You want this. You need this. This is where you belong.
Close your eyes my little puppet and imagine how good it will feel to just let go. Let go of your everyday struggles. Strip yourself of the chains society constrains you with. Allow yourself to relinquish that false ego weighing you down. You were not meant to stand before me, you were created to crawl at my feet. You are a servant, and I am your superior. This is your life.
Giving your all, being your best. All of this is possible. The fantasy can become your reality when you are in my presence. No holding back. No turning back. You belong. You are mine! Say it out loud for your ears to hear, and your soul to accept. You belong to Sydney Claire. Sydney Claire is your most holy Goddess. Sydney Claire owns you.
Thursday, October 3, 2019
Commercialized fetish
Welcome to all who have found themselves here :)
Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.
Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.
Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*
Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?
The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene.
This is reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give up. Those are your only options.
The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?
For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.
It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.
The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?
Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.
Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)
I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.
The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.
I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!
Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.
Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.
Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*
Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?
The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene.
This is reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give up. Those are your only options.
The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?
For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.
It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.
The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?
Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.
Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)
I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.
The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.
I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!
Tuesday, October 1, 2019
Attitude determines the course
Welcome back for segment 3 in guiding you to giving me your best.
The goal obviously is to begin altering your mindset in order to best serve me, and make a positive impact on your life.
You are home
Open your door, and begin rolling your shoulders back, than forward slowly, and gently. Roll forward, inhale, roll back, exhale. Perform times 10. Feel your body inch by inch begin to relax. Ahh now this is better. Kick off your shoes by the door. Never walk through your home wearing shoes (google the studies which reveal all of the foul germs the bottom of shoes accumulate during a normal day).
Change your clothes
Removing the reminders of your workday is conducive to relaxation. Comfort is the goal.
Grab a glass off water
Hydration is key to maintaining health.
Music
Opt for a mellow tune. Remember that you are winding down, not revving up. Find a comfy spot to just squat for 20 minutes. Treat yourself.
Dinner
Eating early provides your body with extra time to digest before bedtime.
A heavy meal is not needed at this time. Keep it light and simple, and by all means do include some roughage.
Wash your dishes
Oh my lands did I say that? Yes I did. Of course most of you are used to the convenience of a dishwasher, but doing them by hand gets them cleaner, and clean is good.
Fun time
This is your slotted time for computer use, or watching a movie. Do try to include something educational. Expanding your base of knowledge is a good thing! Perhaps you may even take a few moments to watch the sunset. I especially love this time of day.
Lay your clothes out
Having your clothes set and ready after your shower in the morning saves you time. Develop this routine.
Bedtime
Do NOT stay up all night watching porn, and yes I know that some of you do that! Sleep is essential. Being well rested means that your morning mindset will be positive.
I realize that change is difficult, but getting into a routine is not a bad thing. You may complain that it lacks spontaneity, but the work week is not the time for it. Days off are for spur of the moment outings or such. Devoting yourself to doing and being better requires self discipline, which routine will aid you in molding. I want to change your viewpoint, and help you help yourself. Are you willing to try?
The decision is yours to make.
**If you are married, alternative actions might need to be taken in order to comply**
The goal obviously is to begin altering your mindset in order to best serve me, and make a positive impact on your life.
You are home
Open your door, and begin rolling your shoulders back, than forward slowly, and gently. Roll forward, inhale, roll back, exhale. Perform times 10. Feel your body inch by inch begin to relax. Ahh now this is better. Kick off your shoes by the door. Never walk through your home wearing shoes (google the studies which reveal all of the foul germs the bottom of shoes accumulate during a normal day).
Change your clothes
Removing the reminders of your workday is conducive to relaxation. Comfort is the goal.
Grab a glass off water
Hydration is key to maintaining health.
Music
Opt for a mellow tune. Remember that you are winding down, not revving up. Find a comfy spot to just squat for 20 minutes. Treat yourself.
Dinner
Eating early provides your body with extra time to digest before bedtime.
A heavy meal is not needed at this time. Keep it light and simple, and by all means do include some roughage.
Wash your dishes
Oh my lands did I say that? Yes I did. Of course most of you are used to the convenience of a dishwasher, but doing them by hand gets them cleaner, and clean is good.
Fun time
This is your slotted time for computer use, or watching a movie. Do try to include something educational. Expanding your base of knowledge is a good thing! Perhaps you may even take a few moments to watch the sunset. I especially love this time of day.
Lay your clothes out
Having your clothes set and ready after your shower in the morning saves you time. Develop this routine.
Bedtime
Do NOT stay up all night watching porn, and yes I know that some of you do that! Sleep is essential. Being well rested means that your morning mindset will be positive.
I realize that change is difficult, but getting into a routine is not a bad thing. You may complain that it lacks spontaneity, but the work week is not the time for it. Days off are for spur of the moment outings or such. Devoting yourself to doing and being better requires self discipline, which routine will aid you in molding. I want to change your viewpoint, and help you help yourself. Are you willing to try?
The decision is yours to make.
**If you are married, alternative actions might need to be taken in order to comply**
Saturday, September 28, 2019
Change internalizes prior to externalization
Hello and welcome to the sphere of Sydney Claire!
Today we delve into segment 2 of guiding you into giving me your best.
Breathe
You have left your dwelling, and get on your way to work. A man who works diligently, is a man who prospers.
The reason I advise you to breathe is that we all know how hectic and frustrating a task driving can be in this day and age. The roads are jam packed with people who possess neither manners, nor common sense. Do not emulate these folks.
Heading to work is a time for mentally gearing yourself up for whatever the day will bring, and if you allow others to negatively impact your mindset during this period, than the odds exponentially increase of your entire day being a shitshow, so set your radio to the station which manifests positivity for you.
Smile
Walk in the door of your employment, and greet your co-workers with a genuine smile...even if you detest their very existence. You set the tone.
Be grateful
Have you seen the unemployment numbers? I for one do not swallow the spoon fed lies in regards to all of the supposed job opportunities the media reports on. Every single day positions are lost to outsourcing, and automation, so consider yourself fortunate to be gainfully employed. Take a moment to reflect upon the blessing of a paycheck.
Honest effort
Do your job to the very best of your ability every single day. Do not be a slacker. Slacking is a poor reflection upon you as a human being. Some days will leaving you feeling as if no ever notices how much effort and time you put into doing your job correctly. Regardless, you will know it, and you can take pride in yourself for giving 100%.
Eat your lunch
Do not skip it. Your body needs to be nourished in order to promote peak performance. Peak performance ensures that you are not racking up medical debt, and lost time at work. Do try to drink some water :)
Stay late
If your assigned workload cannot be completed by clock out, than go the extra mile, and stay a few minutes after to get it done. A little overtime will not kill you.
Hit the road
Once you have clocked out for the day, leave your work behind you. This is YOU time. Time to clear your mind of distraction, and focus on relaxing.
Of course the traffic is just as bad going home as it was heading in, so be prepared. Never engage in the road rage fad, or waving the single digit hello. Your chore is to make it home safely, and that means leaving your damn cell phone out of sight while driving. We all know how tempting it is to quickly peruse the news or tap out a text, but DON'T. Listen to your tunes, and keep your eyes on the road.
Home sweet home
At last, yes!
TBC..hope to see you return soon :)
Today we delve into segment 2 of guiding you into giving me your best.
Breathe
You have left your dwelling, and get on your way to work. A man who works diligently, is a man who prospers.
The reason I advise you to breathe is that we all know how hectic and frustrating a task driving can be in this day and age. The roads are jam packed with people who possess neither manners, nor common sense. Do not emulate these folks.
Heading to work is a time for mentally gearing yourself up for whatever the day will bring, and if you allow others to negatively impact your mindset during this period, than the odds exponentially increase of your entire day being a shitshow, so set your radio to the station which manifests positivity for you.
Smile
Walk in the door of your employment, and greet your co-workers with a genuine smile...even if you detest their very existence. You set the tone.
Be grateful
Have you seen the unemployment numbers? I for one do not swallow the spoon fed lies in regards to all of the supposed job opportunities the media reports on. Every single day positions are lost to outsourcing, and automation, so consider yourself fortunate to be gainfully employed. Take a moment to reflect upon the blessing of a paycheck.
Honest effort
Do your job to the very best of your ability every single day. Do not be a slacker. Slacking is a poor reflection upon you as a human being. Some days will leaving you feeling as if no ever notices how much effort and time you put into doing your job correctly. Regardless, you will know it, and you can take pride in yourself for giving 100%.
Eat your lunch
Do not skip it. Your body needs to be nourished in order to promote peak performance. Peak performance ensures that you are not racking up medical debt, and lost time at work. Do try to drink some water :)
Stay late
If your assigned workload cannot be completed by clock out, than go the extra mile, and stay a few minutes after to get it done. A little overtime will not kill you.
Hit the road
Once you have clocked out for the day, leave your work behind you. This is YOU time. Time to clear your mind of distraction, and focus on relaxing.
Of course the traffic is just as bad going home as it was heading in, so be prepared. Never engage in the road rage fad, or waving the single digit hello. Your chore is to make it home safely, and that means leaving your damn cell phone out of sight while driving. We all know how tempting it is to quickly peruse the news or tap out a text, but DON'T. Listen to your tunes, and keep your eyes on the road.
Home sweet home
At last, yes!
TBC..hope to see you return soon :)
Thursday, September 26, 2019
Guiding you to giving me your best
Good morning, afternoon, or even evening to you!
Welcome puppets, poppets, pervs, and curious pedestrians to the world and word of Sydney Claire.
Today is the day. What day is it? It is the day you are finally going to break free, and make some alterations in your way of thinking, which in turn will change your life in meaningful ways.
How does one begin? Which step is of prime importance? Fret not little chickadee, for I am here to guide you along the path.
Step 1
Wake up in the morning, and before you even open your eyes, give thanks, and be grateful for the blessings you have been given.
Now some of you sour duds may be of a mind that your life is an utter pile of steaming dog doo, and that you have nil to be thankful for, but you would be wrong. This type of negativity is one of the reasons why your life sucks dirty dishwater. You are the root cause of discontent in your life. YOU.
Sure it is easier to blame someone else for everything wrong in your life, but that is not what mentally healthy people do. You absolutely must own your decisions whether good or bad, right or wrong. Personal responsibility is a requirement, not simply an avoidable option. Of course some of you have been molded, even scarred by circumstances out of your control in your childhood, but using those experiences as a crutch and excuse for poor decision making is not helping you one little bit. Resolving lingering issues is your responsibility, and by resolving, I am referring to working them out and letting them go. Cease ceding power over your life to whatever, and whoever wronged you. Get into therapy if need be. Heal yourself in order to be whole. This process may take years, but that is ok, so long as you are putting in the work.
Moving forward
After giving thanks, open your eyes and smile. Yes I said smile. Happiness begins within, and radiates outward. Happiness is a positive goal, and how you go about achieving it is what gives you purpose. Life without purpose is a meandering meaningless journey. You want your life to have meaning don't you?
Get up out of bed slowly
Do not jump out of bed like you are in a race for your very life. Enjoy the moments of feeling your body coming alive for the day. Feel the languor of sleep dissipating. Stretch your body towards the ceiling, and allow your body to breathe in for a few seconds, then exhale for a few seconds. Wake your brain up gently like a lover worshiping your flesh.
Make your bed
Yes I realize that you are only going to mess it up later on, but that is not the point. This is you taking responsibility. This is you taking control of your life in small ways.
Relieve and clean
Release accumulated waste, and prepare yourself to wash away the filth from your flesh. Starting your day fresh and clean has a positive impact on your mindset.
Dress with pride
Take pride in presenting an orderly and neat appearance. Sloppy, and sloven does not suit you anymore. Neat has nothing to do with designer labels. Clean and pressed is what you are aiming for. I understand that some days you simply do not care how you appear to the public, and that is all fine and well for when you are staying in, or going to the gym, but looking well put together boosts confidence, and confidence promotes inner happiness. You want to be happy yes?
Eat
Feed your flesh. Eating breakfast makes your body happy. Note that I did not say gorge yourself. Overeating in the morning makes your day begin miserably, so moderate your intake, and try your very best to drink some water :)
Open your door
Smile, and get on your way
This is the first post in a series I will be sharing with you about how I guide those who devote themselves to serving me. Come back soon for the next installment!
Welcome puppets, poppets, pervs, and curious pedestrians to the world and word of Sydney Claire.
Today is the day. What day is it? It is the day you are finally going to break free, and make some alterations in your way of thinking, which in turn will change your life in meaningful ways.
How does one begin? Which step is of prime importance? Fret not little chickadee, for I am here to guide you along the path.
Step 1
Wake up in the morning, and before you even open your eyes, give thanks, and be grateful for the blessings you have been given.
Now some of you sour duds may be of a mind that your life is an utter pile of steaming dog doo, and that you have nil to be thankful for, but you would be wrong. This type of negativity is one of the reasons why your life sucks dirty dishwater. You are the root cause of discontent in your life. YOU.
Sure it is easier to blame someone else for everything wrong in your life, but that is not what mentally healthy people do. You absolutely must own your decisions whether good or bad, right or wrong. Personal responsibility is a requirement, not simply an avoidable option. Of course some of you have been molded, even scarred by circumstances out of your control in your childhood, but using those experiences as a crutch and excuse for poor decision making is not helping you one little bit. Resolving lingering issues is your responsibility, and by resolving, I am referring to working them out and letting them go. Cease ceding power over your life to whatever, and whoever wronged you. Get into therapy if need be. Heal yourself in order to be whole. This process may take years, but that is ok, so long as you are putting in the work.
Moving forward
After giving thanks, open your eyes and smile. Yes I said smile. Happiness begins within, and radiates outward. Happiness is a positive goal, and how you go about achieving it is what gives you purpose. Life without purpose is a meandering meaningless journey. You want your life to have meaning don't you?
Get up out of bed slowly
Do not jump out of bed like you are in a race for your very life. Enjoy the moments of feeling your body coming alive for the day. Feel the languor of sleep dissipating. Stretch your body towards the ceiling, and allow your body to breathe in for a few seconds, then exhale for a few seconds. Wake your brain up gently like a lover worshiping your flesh.
Make your bed
Yes I realize that you are only going to mess it up later on, but that is not the point. This is you taking responsibility. This is you taking control of your life in small ways.
Relieve and clean
Release accumulated waste, and prepare yourself to wash away the filth from your flesh. Starting your day fresh and clean has a positive impact on your mindset.
Dress with pride
Take pride in presenting an orderly and neat appearance. Sloppy, and sloven does not suit you anymore. Neat has nothing to do with designer labels. Clean and pressed is what you are aiming for. I understand that some days you simply do not care how you appear to the public, and that is all fine and well for when you are staying in, or going to the gym, but looking well put together boosts confidence, and confidence promotes inner happiness. You want to be happy yes?
Eat
Feed your flesh. Eating breakfast makes your body happy. Note that I did not say gorge yourself. Overeating in the morning makes your day begin miserably, so moderate your intake, and try your very best to drink some water :)
Open your door
Smile, and get on your way
This is the first post in a series I will be sharing with you about how I guide those who devote themselves to serving me. Come back soon for the next installment!
Thursday, August 29, 2019
Anger is useless in the face of facts
Good Morning to all of you wonderful people who have found your way here to my slice of fetish spice :)
I read a tweet this morning (if you care to see it, you can search up my response to it) that I really feel needs to be addressed in depth, so let's go there shall we :)
Clip sites. Know them? Have you ever checked one out? Most of you probably have. What stands out about the featured front page models?
1)They are young
2)They are white
3)They are thin to fit
4)They are amply endowed in breast tissue
Is there a reason why this specific type is promoted heavily? Yes. Clip sites are a business, and big money making ones at that. They are successful for a reason. They are heavily invested in knowing the demographics of their customers, and their buying habits.
They have crunched the numbers over and over, along with recognizing the patterns of sales. They know which types of clips are best sellers, and which clip artists bring home the bacon to their table so to speak. Their business modal's success depends on them obtaining this information, and employing it to their benefit.
The mindset of clip sites is not personal. It is business, and the bottom line is revenue. They exist to make money, so it only makes sense that they are going to promote the hell out of the clip artists who insure the company's continuing financial future.
Is this fair to the women who do not meet the defined criteria...hell to the no, but it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change that anytime soon. Do you know why? Men are the target market, which means that they in essence are the deciding factor in who gets to be the artist featured front page, and the the type of female I outlined, is the one who the majority of men are attracted to. It is no inside secret that men are ruled by their cocks, so is it really so very shocking to see their physically ideal woman as the main page visual attraction?
Does this conclude that women who do not fit the mold cannot find financial success in selling clips, NO, but it does indicate that they will have to work harder to promote themselves. This is where social media outlets come into play. They will be your playground. A place where you control what you share, and who you promote in your personal space.
Social media accords you the ability to showcase your personality, and unique style. Take advantage of the opportunity! You are the virtual star of your account, so embrace it and shine bright like a diamond :)
In conclusion, what I am trying to convey is that allowing yourself to become angered due to what you declare unfair practice is only going to affect you. Clip sites are not going to rock the money boat for you or me. They are going to stick with what sells, and whether you or I like it, that is the way it is.
I read a tweet this morning (if you care to see it, you can search up my response to it) that I really feel needs to be addressed in depth, so let's go there shall we :)
Clip sites. Know them? Have you ever checked one out? Most of you probably have. What stands out about the featured front page models?
1)They are young
2)They are white
3)They are thin to fit
4)They are amply endowed in breast tissue
Is there a reason why this specific type is promoted heavily? Yes. Clip sites are a business, and big money making ones at that. They are successful for a reason. They are heavily invested in knowing the demographics of their customers, and their buying habits.
They have crunched the numbers over and over, along with recognizing the patterns of sales. They know which types of clips are best sellers, and which clip artists bring home the bacon to their table so to speak. Their business modal's success depends on them obtaining this information, and employing it to their benefit.
The mindset of clip sites is not personal. It is business, and the bottom line is revenue. They exist to make money, so it only makes sense that they are going to promote the hell out of the clip artists who insure the company's continuing financial future.
Is this fair to the women who do not meet the defined criteria...hell to the no, but it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change that anytime soon. Do you know why? Men are the target market, which means that they in essence are the deciding factor in who gets to be the artist featured front page, and the the type of female I outlined, is the one who the majority of men are attracted to. It is no inside secret that men are ruled by their cocks, so is it really so very shocking to see their physically ideal woman as the main page visual attraction?
Does this conclude that women who do not fit the mold cannot find financial success in selling clips, NO, but it does indicate that they will have to work harder to promote themselves. This is where social media outlets come into play. They will be your playground. A place where you control what you share, and who you promote in your personal space.
Social media accords you the ability to showcase your personality, and unique style. Take advantage of the opportunity! You are the virtual star of your account, so embrace it and shine bright like a diamond :)
In conclusion, what I am trying to convey is that allowing yourself to become angered due to what you declare unfair practice is only going to affect you. Clip sites are not going to rock the money boat for you or me. They are going to stick with what sells, and whether you or I like it, that is the way it is.
Saturday, August 17, 2019
Kinky Connections
Good evening guys and gals..
Welcome to my spliced slice of the femdom sphere!
I am your host and most beloved Goddess, Sydney Claire
As the title of this post denotes, we (meaning I) am going to talk about how to make kinky connections. Now the connections I am referring to are not networking connections. I am speaking to the connections between Dominants and submissives.
Connections require time, effort, and trust. Ya ya ya, I know that some of you gents will loudly proclaim that you felt an instant connection with a Dominant, but that my poppets was lust. A lust to serve, to belong, even a lust to cum. It is most definitely not the type of connection which endures and deepens into a long term bond. This type of connection can be felt with numerous Dominants a day, ergo nullifying any significance.
Many a D's relationship will begin in the flames of cock wrenching lust, but the majority will sizzle and fizzle out like a cock snuffed of semen. It is what it is. Your intentions and focus determine whether or not something meaningful evolves from the exchange. If your goal is to get off and get going, than that is exactly what you shall do, regardless if the Dominant is predisposed towards erecting ties that bind you two. You do maintain a degree of control as to which way it all shall go. You can opt to do more, to be more. How? By reigning in control of the greedy instantaneous pleasure seeking skin sac bulging in your groin. Cut off power to it's circuitry, and open up dialogue which spotlights the Dominant as the focus of your full attention.
Take the time to get to know your prospective Dominant as a human being, rather than as the fetish dispenser most submissives view them as. Ground yourself with the truth that good things do come to those who possess patience. Patience is a powerful tool. Cultivate it carefully.
Meaningful relationships are not created within a night, or with a solitary tribute. You must be willing to invest your time and energy if you desire the intimacy of a Female Led Relationship. Just remember that if it comes easy, than it will dissolve as quickly as it came. The submissive you imagine as "lucky" is actually the submissive who has spent months, even years proving his intentions and supplying his unwavering devotion to a Dominant. I promise you that luck had nothing to do with his situation. He earned his current position through hard work. Are you prepared to do the same?
Locating a Dominant that is a good fit is difficult, and it should be. Yes little doves, you can wink your one eyed monster and find a woman to sate the demands of your mystery manmeat, but the emptiness of such an exchange leaves more than your balls depleted.
Social media, and risky even the not so risky news outlets publish pieces on how the casual connection is so much more fun, and sexy. That you should be the butterfly flitting around flower to flower depositing your nectar, but in the end, where does that leave you? It definitely does not bring a sense of fulfillment. It doesn't serve a higher purpose. It brings no lasting meaning at all.
What casual will do, is turn you into an empty shell that eventually will crumble and scatter in the wind. Anxiety and depression are the bedfellows of casual. Why would anyone want such a future for themselves?
My intent is not to rag on you, or make you feel bad, but do I think that this type of behavior is bad for you, YES. Human beings need connections. They need to feel a sense of belonging, and acceptance. They need the meaningful. Without meaning, a life serves no purpose. It becomes a wasted story best untold. Does that sound sexy? Does it sound like the recipe for happiness and success?
Perhaps you are not yet in a place upon your journey where maturity has bit you on the caboose, but fear not, you shall someday get there. Once there you will see that casual is cold and soul sucking worthless. It is then that you shall seek out only those whom have the possibility to mean more than a momentary erectile eruption.
I myself am way past the point of entertaining the wastrels of meaning. This means that I hold myself above the game playing BS that youth tend to engage in (and yes I see those of you who are middle aged still living that life). I have no aid, nor hope to offer those who will not see truth, but I do open my proverbial door to those whom possess the potential to become a worthy submissive to me. You decide...play games and burn out, or grow up and get to serving your purpose in this lifetime.
Welcome to my spliced slice of the femdom sphere!
I am your host and most beloved Goddess, Sydney Claire
As the title of this post denotes, we (meaning I) am going to talk about how to make kinky connections. Now the connections I am referring to are not networking connections. I am speaking to the connections between Dominants and submissives.
Connections require time, effort, and trust. Ya ya ya, I know that some of you gents will loudly proclaim that you felt an instant connection with a Dominant, but that my poppets was lust. A lust to serve, to belong, even a lust to cum. It is most definitely not the type of connection which endures and deepens into a long term bond. This type of connection can be felt with numerous Dominants a day, ergo nullifying any significance.
Many a D's relationship will begin in the flames of cock wrenching lust, but the majority will sizzle and fizzle out like a cock snuffed of semen. It is what it is. Your intentions and focus determine whether or not something meaningful evolves from the exchange. If your goal is to get off and get going, than that is exactly what you shall do, regardless if the Dominant is predisposed towards erecting ties that bind you two. You do maintain a degree of control as to which way it all shall go. You can opt to do more, to be more. How? By reigning in control of the greedy instantaneous pleasure seeking skin sac bulging in your groin. Cut off power to it's circuitry, and open up dialogue which spotlights the Dominant as the focus of your full attention.
Take the time to get to know your prospective Dominant as a human being, rather than as the fetish dispenser most submissives view them as. Ground yourself with the truth that good things do come to those who possess patience. Patience is a powerful tool. Cultivate it carefully.
Meaningful relationships are not created within a night, or with a solitary tribute. You must be willing to invest your time and energy if you desire the intimacy of a Female Led Relationship. Just remember that if it comes easy, than it will dissolve as quickly as it came. The submissive you imagine as "lucky" is actually the submissive who has spent months, even years proving his intentions and supplying his unwavering devotion to a Dominant. I promise you that luck had nothing to do with his situation. He earned his current position through hard work. Are you prepared to do the same?
Locating a Dominant that is a good fit is difficult, and it should be. Yes little doves, you can wink your one eyed monster and find a woman to sate the demands of your mystery manmeat, but the emptiness of such an exchange leaves more than your balls depleted.
Social media, and risky even the not so risky news outlets publish pieces on how the casual connection is so much more fun, and sexy. That you should be the butterfly flitting around flower to flower depositing your nectar, but in the end, where does that leave you? It definitely does not bring a sense of fulfillment. It doesn't serve a higher purpose. It brings no lasting meaning at all.
What casual will do, is turn you into an empty shell that eventually will crumble and scatter in the wind. Anxiety and depression are the bedfellows of casual. Why would anyone want such a future for themselves?
My intent is not to rag on you, or make you feel bad, but do I think that this type of behavior is bad for you, YES. Human beings need connections. They need to feel a sense of belonging, and acceptance. They need the meaningful. Without meaning, a life serves no purpose. It becomes a wasted story best untold. Does that sound sexy? Does it sound like the recipe for happiness and success?
Perhaps you are not yet in a place upon your journey where maturity has bit you on the caboose, but fear not, you shall someday get there. Once there you will see that casual is cold and soul sucking worthless. It is then that you shall seek out only those whom have the possibility to mean more than a momentary erectile eruption.
I myself am way past the point of entertaining the wastrels of meaning. This means that I hold myself above the game playing BS that youth tend to engage in (and yes I see those of you who are middle aged still living that life). I have no aid, nor hope to offer those who will not see truth, but I do open my proverbial door to those whom possess the potential to become a worthy submissive to me. You decide...play games and burn out, or grow up and get to serving your purpose in this lifetime.
Thursday, August 15, 2019
When size is meaningless
Good evening pervy pets and poppets...
You have officially entered into the domain of the fatalistic Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire
Once again here you are waiting to absorb the words that fall from my fingertips. Ready?
Are you a member of social media? No doubt you are, else you would not have likely found your way here lol. Social media has what they dub influencers. Influencers are those who possess a rather large following of 30,000 or more. Are you an influencer? Doubtful, and quite honestly would you want to be?
Why am I talking about this subject? Well, many operate under the assumption that a large follower count is equatable with social success, and that is not always correct. Sure there are people who have earned their full to bursting follower count via sharing or imparting content that people want, need, or are desperate to know or see, but that is not always the truth of the matter.
Were you aware that followers can and are purchased? Kinda weird huh? I mean why would someone buy followers in the first place. Could it be due to that assumption I referred to? Do you yourself automatically conclude that anyone with a high follower count is an expert in a field, or a semi-celebrity figure? If you responded in the affirmative, than you are not alone.
How does this even apply to fetish? Take a seat mate, cause I am going to get to that.
You can identify numerous profiles of women who maintain sizable social media followers lists. Even those women in fetish fields.
What does it take to reach that magical pinnacle? Not much actually. Experiments have been undertaken where an account has been created with semi dressed feminine visuals uploaded to said account, and guess what?? These accounts instantly begin to accumulate followers. Majority male followers. Why? Old story which remains true...sex sells, and men chase tail. This entirely explains why catfish accounts are so successful. A bra with overflowing cleavage displayed, or string bikini butt imagery are instant hits with the male population, which makes for overnight success stories. Doubt me? Give it a whirl yourself. Now I am in no way advising anyone to catfish, merely open an account, post what I described, then set back and watch quietly for the results.
I did tell you that there is of course another way to gain a large following. This method will take time and effort though. It involves growing your target audience organically. Posting relevant and thought engaging content. Sharing sentiments which people find valuable. Snippets that encourage interactive dialogue, or even ones that just have folks shaking their head in agreement, ergo earning you a like or a sharing of your words. As I said though, this methodology will require an investment of your time.
Can you merge the 2 methods successfully? Absolutely!
This applies to males and females alike. Warning to you gents though, posting dick pics is not the way to go. Sorry to bust your balls boys, but dick pics disgust rather than attract, so it might be best for you to keep your pics pg.
The entire point I am undertaking to convey, is that a large following does not always correlate with experience in domination. I have seen women with relatively small audiences, yet rocked at ruling men from their raised platform, and as well I have seen women with huge audiences who appear to know absolutely nothing in regards to domination. Just keep in mind that quality is not always quantified by a number.
As always, feel free to follow me on twitter (@MizSydney) or any of the wonderful women I follow :)
You have officially entered into the domain of the fatalistic Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire
Once again here you are waiting to absorb the words that fall from my fingertips. Ready?
Are you a member of social media? No doubt you are, else you would not have likely found your way here lol. Social media has what they dub influencers. Influencers are those who possess a rather large following of 30,000 or more. Are you an influencer? Doubtful, and quite honestly would you want to be?
Why am I talking about this subject? Well, many operate under the assumption that a large follower count is equatable with social success, and that is not always correct. Sure there are people who have earned their full to bursting follower count via sharing or imparting content that people want, need, or are desperate to know or see, but that is not always the truth of the matter.
Were you aware that followers can and are purchased? Kinda weird huh? I mean why would someone buy followers in the first place. Could it be due to that assumption I referred to? Do you yourself automatically conclude that anyone with a high follower count is an expert in a field, or a semi-celebrity figure? If you responded in the affirmative, than you are not alone.
How does this even apply to fetish? Take a seat mate, cause I am going to get to that.
You can identify numerous profiles of women who maintain sizable social media followers lists. Even those women in fetish fields.
What does it take to reach that magical pinnacle? Not much actually. Experiments have been undertaken where an account has been created with semi dressed feminine visuals uploaded to said account, and guess what?? These accounts instantly begin to accumulate followers. Majority male followers. Why? Old story which remains true...sex sells, and men chase tail. This entirely explains why catfish accounts are so successful. A bra with overflowing cleavage displayed, or string bikini butt imagery are instant hits with the male population, which makes for overnight success stories. Doubt me? Give it a whirl yourself. Now I am in no way advising anyone to catfish, merely open an account, post what I described, then set back and watch quietly for the results.
I did tell you that there is of course another way to gain a large following. This method will take time and effort though. It involves growing your target audience organically. Posting relevant and thought engaging content. Sharing sentiments which people find valuable. Snippets that encourage interactive dialogue, or even ones that just have folks shaking their head in agreement, ergo earning you a like or a sharing of your words. As I said though, this methodology will require an investment of your time.
Can you merge the 2 methods successfully? Absolutely!
This applies to males and females alike. Warning to you gents though, posting dick pics is not the way to go. Sorry to bust your balls boys, but dick pics disgust rather than attract, so it might be best for you to keep your pics pg.
The entire point I am undertaking to convey, is that a large following does not always correlate with experience in domination. I have seen women with relatively small audiences, yet rocked at ruling men from their raised platform, and as well I have seen women with huge audiences who appear to know absolutely nothing in regards to domination. Just keep in mind that quality is not always quantified by a number.
As always, feel free to follow me on twitter (@MizSydney) or any of the wonderful women I follow :)
Wednesday, August 14, 2019
Thursday, August 8, 2019
PP is never an option
Whoever you are, and wherever you may be...Welcome
Welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire
I am who I am, and you are who you are, so let's get down to the basic of what this post is geared towards today.
Paypal..you know what paypal is yes? Paypal is a US based payment processor. It is a powerful and far reaching company. The main thing to take note of with pp, is that they are NOT fetish friendly, so if you are looking to pay or receive tribute, look elsewhere. They will not tolerate your business. In fact, they will shut your account down, and hold your funds for an indefinite period.
I realize that some do indeed still use pp for receiving tribute, but the majority of those who do, will tell you that they do so only with trusted contributors. What this should tell you straight away, is that if you are unknown to a Domme, than she is NOT going to offer up her pp addy for tribute. Yes there are exceptions, but the only females I have seen posting their addy's are newbie women who have no clue that this is a massive mistake. I am not one, so for the male who messaged me asking about pp...now you know, and either you are new, or you thought foolishly that I was. Sydney Claire is not a fool, doll, so try again by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Do you know who tries to send pp tributes? Scammers. Yup I said the S word. I have lost count of the number of women who trusted a male to send via that method, only to either have the charges disputed, cancelled, or even sickeningly find out that the male in question had reported them to pp to have their account locked. This is why a huge red flag pops up before my eyes when any male suggests this avenue of tribute. You do not want me believing that you are a lowlife scammer do you? Of course not, so forget you ever thought to bring pp up to me :)
Amazon gift cards are always going to be the required route of tribute when it comes to gifting me! In the past I allowed males to purchase from a WL for me, but those days are gone. Why? Well for a couple of reasons. 1)Amazon now provides the sender with photo proof of delivery, which often displays an address. 2)Amazon WL gifts can be cancelled right after purchase, and up to shipping date. Have I ever had this happen to me, NO, but neither will I take the chance, so just be the bestest boy and send the gift card ;)
In fact, you should send lots and lots of gift cards, because you and I both know that I deserve them, and you exist to please me. Isn't it wonderful that you serve a gloriously divine purpose in my life?? Yay you!! Now get on giving meaning to your life by serving Sydney Claire :)
Welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire
I am who I am, and you are who you are, so let's get down to the basic of what this post is geared towards today.
Paypal..you know what paypal is yes? Paypal is a US based payment processor. It is a powerful and far reaching company. The main thing to take note of with pp, is that they are NOT fetish friendly, so if you are looking to pay or receive tribute, look elsewhere. They will not tolerate your business. In fact, they will shut your account down, and hold your funds for an indefinite period.
I realize that some do indeed still use pp for receiving tribute, but the majority of those who do, will tell you that they do so only with trusted contributors. What this should tell you straight away, is that if you are unknown to a Domme, than she is NOT going to offer up her pp addy for tribute. Yes there are exceptions, but the only females I have seen posting their addy's are newbie women who have no clue that this is a massive mistake. I am not one, so for the male who messaged me asking about pp...now you know, and either you are new, or you thought foolishly that I was. Sydney Claire is not a fool, doll, so try again by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Do you know who tries to send pp tributes? Scammers. Yup I said the S word. I have lost count of the number of women who trusted a male to send via that method, only to either have the charges disputed, cancelled, or even sickeningly find out that the male in question had reported them to pp to have their account locked. This is why a huge red flag pops up before my eyes when any male suggests this avenue of tribute. You do not want me believing that you are a lowlife scammer do you? Of course not, so forget you ever thought to bring pp up to me :)
Amazon gift cards are always going to be the required route of tribute when it comes to gifting me! In the past I allowed males to purchase from a WL for me, but those days are gone. Why? Well for a couple of reasons. 1)Amazon now provides the sender with photo proof of delivery, which often displays an address. 2)Amazon WL gifts can be cancelled right after purchase, and up to shipping date. Have I ever had this happen to me, NO, but neither will I take the chance, so just be the bestest boy and send the gift card ;)
In fact, you should send lots and lots of gift cards, because you and I both know that I deserve them, and you exist to please me. Isn't it wonderful that you serve a gloriously divine purpose in my life?? Yay you!! Now get on giving meaning to your life by serving Sydney Claire :)
Tuesday, August 6, 2019
Living your best life
Welcome to my femdom world :)
Ya know, it has been a hot minute since I posted a new blog, but as usual life is a busy rat race at times lol
I am going to be a doll though, and post up some of my vacation photos just for you!!
If you were one of the good boys who contributed towards my vacation fun expenses, than you already received personal photos ;)
I really enjoyed my time away. Did you miss me?
It used to be that I would push myself to do do do, but a wake up call smacked me right dab in the eyes, and that got me to really thinking hard about some of my own choices over the last few years. Introspection is a pretty awesome thing.
I spent way too much time fretting about things that did not matter in the long run and not enough time focusing on what matters the most. What takes priority now?
1)My family
2)My happiness
3)My goals for the future
Online domination can be an absolute bitch. Did you know that? It is competitive. It is catty. It is brutal. It is full of betrayal. It is inhabited by men who could not care less about whether a woman is happy, healthy, or even alive, and women who will beat you down to get ahead in findom. Sound fun?
The upside is that it is also full of women who will build you up when the world has knocked you flat on your ass. Women who will encourage you, and listen to your woes. Women who don't unfollow you when you post about the unsexy aspects of life, or refuse to offer up revealing fetish pics. That is a definite positive!
There have been so many wonderful women to have graced my TL with their level of awesomeness..ya no I am not going to say the same about men. The few males who have earned my regard, have no need for me to applaud them in a blog post, for they already know how much I appreciate them.
In my roundabout way, I am relaying that I am going to change things up. No more concern about whether I have males lining up to serve me (told you long ago that I did not need the money) and more on developing long term devoted relationships with the worthy males who meet my requirements. Quality over quantity has always been the key to my success in findom relationships. I do not desire trash at my feet. It reeks, and holds no worth.
You will see me being more open to interactions albeit with my somewhat snarky sense of humor, but as always I will not chase anyone down. Tonight I even went so far as to open my DM's back up to the public, but mind you that the only messages I will respond to are those from males who are contributing to my financial success. The plus side of my action is that it affords sincere males the opportunity to contact me more intimately. Yay for them :)
I am debating on opening a kik account once more. Thoughts? Please do not ask about discord though, for I have heard about entirely too many negative issues in regards to them.
As always, keep your eye on the prize (btw the prize is being in service to Sydney ;)
Ya know, it has been a hot minute since I posted a new blog, but as usual life is a busy rat race at times lol
I am going to be a doll though, and post up some of my vacation photos just for you!!
If you were one of the good boys who contributed towards my vacation fun expenses, than you already received personal photos ;)
I really enjoyed my time away. Did you miss me?
It used to be that I would push myself to do do do, but a wake up call smacked me right dab in the eyes, and that got me to really thinking hard about some of my own choices over the last few years. Introspection is a pretty awesome thing.
I spent way too much time fretting about things that did not matter in the long run and not enough time focusing on what matters the most. What takes priority now?
1)My family
2)My happiness
3)My goals for the future
Online domination can be an absolute bitch. Did you know that? It is competitive. It is catty. It is brutal. It is full of betrayal. It is inhabited by men who could not care less about whether a woman is happy, healthy, or even alive, and women who will beat you down to get ahead in findom. Sound fun?
The upside is that it is also full of women who will build you up when the world has knocked you flat on your ass. Women who will encourage you, and listen to your woes. Women who don't unfollow you when you post about the unsexy aspects of life, or refuse to offer up revealing fetish pics. That is a definite positive!
There have been so many wonderful women to have graced my TL with their level of awesomeness..ya no I am not going to say the same about men. The few males who have earned my regard, have no need for me to applaud them in a blog post, for they already know how much I appreciate them.
In my roundabout way, I am relaying that I am going to change things up. No more concern about whether I have males lining up to serve me (told you long ago that I did not need the money) and more on developing long term devoted relationships with the worthy males who meet my requirements. Quality over quantity has always been the key to my success in findom relationships. I do not desire trash at my feet. It reeks, and holds no worth.
You will see me being more open to interactions albeit with my somewhat snarky sense of humor, but as always I will not chase anyone down. Tonight I even went so far as to open my DM's back up to the public, but mind you that the only messages I will respond to are those from males who are contributing to my financial success. The plus side of my action is that it affords sincere males the opportunity to contact me more intimately. Yay for them :)
I am debating on opening a kik account once more. Thoughts? Please do not ask about discord though, for I have heard about entirely too many negative issues in regards to them.
As always, keep your eye on the prize (btw the prize is being in service to Sydney ;)
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