When size is meaningless

Good evening pervy pets and poppets...

You have officially entered into the domain of the fatalistic Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire 

Once again here you are waiting to absorb the words that fall from my fingertips. Ready? 

Are you a member of social media? No doubt you are, else you would not have likely found your way here lol. Social media has what they dub influencers. Influencers are those who possess a rather large following of 30,000 or more. Are you an influencer? Doubtful, and quite honestly would you want to be?

Why am I talking about this subject? Well, many operate under the assumption that a large follower count is equatable with social success, and that is not always correct. Sure there are people who have earned their full to bursting follower count via sharing or imparting content that people want, need, or are desperate to know or see, but that is not always the truth of the matter.

Were you aware that followers can and are purchased? Kinda weird huh? I mean why would someone buy followers in the first place. Could it be due to that assumption I referred to? Do you yourself automatically conclude that anyone with a high follower count is an expert in a field, or a semi-celebrity figure? If you responded in the affirmative, than you are not alone. 

How does this even apply to fetish? Take a seat mate, cause I am going to get to that.

You can identify numerous profiles of women who maintain sizable social media followers lists. Even those women in fetish fields. 

What does it take to reach that magical pinnacle? Not much actually. Experiments have been undertaken where an account has been created with semi dressed feminine visuals uploaded to said account, and guess what?? These accounts instantly begin to accumulate followers. Majority male followers. Why? Old story which remains true...sex sells, and men chase tail. This entirely explains why catfish accounts are so successful. A bra with overflowing cleavage displayed, or string bikini butt imagery are instant hits with the male population, which makes for overnight success stories. Doubt me? Give it a whirl yourself. Now I am in no way advising anyone to catfish, merely open an account, post what I described, then set back and watch quietly for the results. 

I did tell you that there is of course another way to gain a large following. This method will take time and effort though. It involves growing your target audience organically. Posting relevant and thought engaging content. Sharing sentiments which people find valuable. Snippets that encourage interactive dialogue, or even ones that just have folks shaking their head in agreement, ergo earning you a like or a sharing of your words. As I said though, this methodology will require an investment of your time.

Can you merge the 2 methods successfully? Absolutely!

This applies to males and females alike. Warning to you gents though, posting dick pics is not the way to go. Sorry to bust your balls boys, but dick pics disgust rather than attract, so it might be best for you to keep your pics pg.  

The entire point I am undertaking to convey, is that a large following does not always correlate with experience in domination. I have seen women with relatively small audiences, yet rocked at ruling men from their raised platform, and as well I have seen women with huge audiences who appear to know absolutely nothing in regards to domination. Just keep in mind that quality is not always quantified by a number.

As always, feel free to follow me on twitter (@MizSydney) or any of the wonderful women I follow :)

Tearing the veil

Good evening to all who enter my domain freely

Those who have come before will already know that my presence can be counted on to catch a glimpse of my intellect daily on social media. I am quite fond of twitter at this point in time, which means that the odds of encountering me there are a given. 

I am generally amiable towards those who interact with me respectfully, and sans the intent of using me for their own ill objective. As well you should take note that I do not make a habit of following male accounts. In fact, I find very few who spark my interest at all. Now the kicker for most of you, is that I do not have my DM's turned on for any individuals whom I do not follow. This in essence means that you are blocked from contacting me on a more personal level. There are reasons why I keep my inbox 

Allowing free reign invasion is tantamount to issuing an invitation to time wasters. I prefer to avoid the dregs of findom. You know exactly who I am referencing now don't you? Those broke, stingy, hands on dick dudes whom will never contribute a single cent towards my happiness or comfort. They are truly the enemy, and an enemy will always be denied access to my time and energy. 

Does that sound fair? Perhaps not, but my DM's = playing by my rules. This is not to say that I never grant access, but only that you will have to prove yourself above and beyond the ordinary dan. I refuse to settle for miscreants when there are decent malepets aplenty.

Your next question should very well be "Then how do I contact you to prove my worthiness?"

I have always made that mode of communication simple. You have the options of 
a)tweeting me publicly, and awaiting my notice
b)sending an email to mzsydney34@yahoo.com along with an amazon gift card for my consideration 

Of the two methods, your best chance of success is the second. I am more likely to look kindly upon those whom show me from the onset that they appreciate my time vs those who seek only their own self driven gratification. I tell you quite true when I say that tribute is the factor which allows me to discern who shall be rewarded with my presence. My time is most precious to me, and is gifted to the ones who have earned it.

To some of you who suffer from an inflated ego, you approach me as if you are entitled to my attention, and that your time is your gift to me, but that will never be the case in my estimation. Your time is meaningless to me. It brings me no pleasure, and I do not feel an iota of discomfort at the loss of it. Your duty is to attend me, not the other way around. I am the privileged one, not you, and it is you that shall dance at my direction if you desire to become a part of my existence. Take heed and do not allow yourself to forget it. There may be hundreds of females in the findom sphere, but there is only one ME, and there are thousands just like you. I am the extraordinary, whilst you are run of the mill ordinary. Respect, appreciate, and value my presence if you care to have us get along swimmingly :) 

You will remember all that I have conveyed won't you? If it did not penetrate the very first time, read my words over and over til they soak into your psyche! See you soon pet.

Findom spoil backs

Spoil backs seem to be a popular catch phrase these days especially on twitter. The first time I seen it used,I scratched my head,and thought what the hell does that mean...okay I am not totally standing in the corner with the pointy cap on,but it simply did not make sense to me. I am well versed in the definition of financial domination,and no where in that did I see anything about spoiling back,did you...seriously cause if you did I want to know.

I actually took the time to research the phrase,and how it was being used. What I read comes across as a tit for tat type of interaction,with most of the spoils back being nude photos or videos. Now correct me if I am wrong,but isn't financial domination based upon dominating a submissive's finances? I am pretty sure that I am right,but it could be that the term financial domination has been redefined,and I missed the memo(note to self,check spam mail).

What I am having difficulty reconciling is how sending nude photos or videos falls under the line of financial domination. Of course I grasp the concept of gifting submissives that have excelled in their service to a dominant,but it appears to me that this is more of a business deal. Customer pays,and seller sends goods. Sound right? I guess some would attempt to group in like that of a tip,but still tips are received when service is provided,and if the sender is providing a service,then it still isn't financial domination,so yes here I sit,still going huh!

I guess that I am just not meant to get how it fits in,oh well. Anyways I should tell you that I abhor the phrase,and the ramifications of it. Now I know that to each their own is the motto right? Be accepting,unbiased,and non-judgemental...yup I sure am so long as it does not rain shit on my parade,then it catches my attention,and my ire.

One would say,why let what others do bother you? Well here is the thing. This phrase has infiltrated the scene,and has brought with it the ugly rearing head of entitlement,which needs lanced like an inflamed boil(nasty visual yes). I will give you an example of how this spreads like crabs in an unlicensed brothel. Exhibit A=new to the scene "submissive" who is just learning the ropes so to speak. He checks out twitter to see that woohoo smexy females are offering something called spoils back...wow he makes a bee line post haste to the DM box of a female offering it,and finds out that for a minute amount (generally under $25) he can get pussy and titty pics,OMG how sweet is that!!! Yup now he has some cheap prime spanking material,but dang a couple of days later he is horny again,and wants to try a little something different,so he contacts a woman with the title of Domme asking how much she charges for spoils back,and guess what,she is not liking it,not at all.

 Do you see where I am going with this line of reasoning? So,if an estimated 100 new submissives enter the scene daily,and if even a quarter of them jump right on the spoils back bandwagon,that means most likely that 25 Dommes a day are going to be dealing with this shit in their inbox(probably the number is higher,cause we all know how new submissives hit up several inboxes a day til they get what they came looking for),and what are the odds that some of them are going to make an appearance before me hmmmmm...so yes I detest this phrase,and all that it stands for,simply because it will affect me,and I am a domination Domme(I dominate submissives),not a spoils back entitlement providing provider(a pay for wank spank with a sprinkle of sugaring),so please do keep your spoiling back shit outta my inbox,Thanks!