The title of this post truly says it all. It conveys truth to all who see it.
This post can be used as educational material for women, as well as shining a reflection of selfishness upon males who engage in the behavior I am prepared to share with you.
Selfish males are no stranger to fetish. In fact they comprise the majority of males in the scene.
Is selfishness ok? Is it excusable behavior for males? The answer is not so very simple, but I will endeavor to simplify it for you.
Males possess many reasons why they enter the scene, and yes the greater part of them are steeped in selfishness.
1)They are here to sate their sexual desires.
This is their only interest, and the driving motivation behind their every action. They will act in any way, speak every word, and even downright deceive to achieve their goal. To these men, women are no more than mere objects. Tools which aid them in orchestrating an orgasm. Online females are not real to them. The women they interact with serve only 1 purpose, and are forgotten quicker than the cum dries. Is this harsh? It is unforgivable? Truth be known, it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change these men for the better of mankind, so please do not waste energy and effort attempting to do so.
I am not declaring these males are "bad" men per se. In fact, they may very well be wonderful husbands, commendable fathers, admirable sons, exemplary employees, but online they are just another user. A user out to get his fix, and should be treated as such. Kindness is wasted upon them. Show them none. They either pay for your time or product, or you freeze them out of your business domain. They are unworthy of you, and refusing to pay, is disrespect in the highest.
This type tends to be the one who has every excuse in the book to not pay tribute.
a)he is broke til payday
b)he is a poor student
c)he is married, and cannot risk his wife seeing money missing
d)he doesn't have a credit card
e)paying tribute cheapens the experience
f)real Dommes dominate for free lmao
There are plenty of these men who do pay. Not tribute though. They pay for a service. They buy clips, sessions, used items etc.. These males are good for business, but bad for actual service. Trying to turn them into your devoted selfless slave is not a viable option. Use them, drain them, and discard them like toilet tissue til the next time they come sniffing at your feet. Save your energy for those that deserve it.
2)They want their emotional needs served.
These tend to be whiny wimps who want all of your time and all of your attention devoted to them. They may or may not pay, but even if they do, it tends to be minute amounts. They want maximum attention for minimal investment. These are energy leeches, and you seriously do not need the drama they bring with them.
3)The seek to use you to validate their burning misogyny.
They already hate you. Most likely they hate themselves more for needing you to serve their sexual fantasies, but they will use you as their whipping post if you allow it. This is the male who acts in such a way in the beginning, yet flips the switch when he is denied his desires. Which one of you Ladies has not been told by a male how beautiful you are, how sexy you are, how much he wants to serve you, only to call you an ugly fat whore when you say no?
4)They are lonely irl, and want to be your friend.
Oh my lands, please do not give in to this ploy. If a male cannot make friends irl, he is a loser that you do not want eating up your valuable internet access. Avoid, avoid, avoid. Many women have ended up in dangerous stalkeresque situations due to taking pity on this type of male. He is not your friend, and never will be. Ignore any attempts to guilt, or shame you into freely giving him your time. You will regret it, I promise.
There are males who come only to be of use and serve a woman's wants, but they are a rarity in the scene. Those that respect women, their time, and energy. Who pay tribute without being told, without requiring any return upon that financial investment. These are the gems. The true gentlemen of fetish, and I commend them for their altruism. Hold on to these gents Ladies, for they do not come along often.
In the end, it is solely at your discretion whom you share your time with online though, so if you get your time wasted, or you lend your energy to males who fail to pay tribute, that is entirely on YOU. Learn the signs and behaviors of males who do not respect you enough to financially invest in your attention, and you will undoubtedly enjoy a more fulfilling, and financially lucrative internet experience :)
To you males whose behaviors I have described, this post puts you on notice. I have zero qualms about alerting newer females in the scene as to what types to avoid, and blowing up your user playbook all over social media. You have been forewarned.
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