Kinky Connections

Good evening guys and gals..

Welcome to my spliced slice of the femdom sphere!

I am your host and most beloved Goddess, Sydney Claire

As the title of this post denotes, we (meaning I) am going to talk about how to make kinky connections. Now the connections I am referring to are not networking connections. I am speaking to the connections between Dominants and submissives. 

Connections require time, effort, and trust. Ya ya ya, I know that some of you gents will loudly proclaim that you felt an instant connection with a Dominant, but that my poppets was lust. A lust to serve, to belong, even a lust to cum. It is most definitely not the type of connection which endures and deepens into a long term bond. This type of connection can be felt with numerous Dominants a day, ergo nullifying any significance.

Many a D's relationship will begin in the flames of cock wrenching lust, but the majority will sizzle and fizzle out like a cock snuffed of semen. It is what it is. Your intentions and focus determine whether or not something meaningful evolves from the exchange. If your goal is to get off and get going, than that is exactly what you shall do, regardless if the Dominant is predisposed towards erecting ties that bind you two. You do maintain a degree of control as to which way it all shall go. You can opt to do more, to be more. How? By reigning in control of the greedy instantaneous pleasure seeking skin sac bulging in your groin. Cut off power to it's circuitry, and open up dialogue which spotlights the Dominant as the focus of your full attention.

Take the time to get to know your prospective Dominant as a human being, rather than as the fetish dispenser most submissives view them as. Ground yourself with the truth that good things do come to those who possess patience. Patience is a powerful tool. Cultivate it carefully.

Meaningful relationships are not created within a night, or with a solitary tribute. You must be willing to invest your time and energy if you desire the intimacy of a Female Led Relationship. Just remember that if it comes easy, than it will dissolve as quickly as it came. The submissive you imagine as "lucky" is actually the submissive who has spent months, even years proving his intentions and supplying his unwavering devotion to a Dominant. I promise you that luck had nothing to do with his situation. He earned his current position through hard work. Are you prepared to do the same?

Locating a Dominant that is a good fit is difficult, and it should be. Yes little doves, you can wink your one eyed monster and find a woman to sate the demands of your mystery manmeat, but the emptiness of such an exchange leaves more than your balls depleted. 

Social media, and risky even the not so risky news outlets publish pieces on how the casual connection is so much more fun, and sexy. That you should be the butterfly flitting around flower to flower depositing your nectar, but in the end, where does that leave you? It definitely does not bring a sense of fulfillment. It doesn't serve a higher purpose. It brings no lasting meaning at all.

What casual will do, is turn you into an empty shell that eventually will crumble and scatter in the wind. Anxiety and depression are the bedfellows of casual. Why would anyone want such a future for themselves?

My intent is not to rag on you, or make you feel bad, but do I think that this type of behavior is bad for you, YES. Human beings need connections. They need to feel a sense of belonging, and acceptance. They need the meaningful. Without meaning, a life serves no purpose. It becomes a wasted story best untold. Does that sound sexy? Does it sound like the recipe for happiness and success?

Perhaps you are not yet in a place upon your journey where maturity has bit you on the caboose, but fear not, you shall someday get there. Once there you will see that casual is cold and soul sucking worthless. It is then that you shall seek out only those whom have the possibility to mean more than a momentary erectile eruption.

I myself am way past the point of entertaining the wastrels of meaning. This means that I hold myself above the game playing BS that youth tend to engage in (and yes I see those of you who are middle aged still living that life). I have no aid, nor hope to offer those who will not see truth, but I do open my proverbial door to those whom possess the potential to become a worthy submissive to me. You decide...play games and burn out, or grow up and get to serving your purpose in this lifetime.

Who wants me to puck them?

So....guess what I did Saturday night!! Bet you won't get it lol

Anyways, I went to my very first hockey game!

Mind you that I am not really that into organized sports at all, but I have to say that I had a wonderful time. In fact, I plan on attending a few more :) Now I just need to sit down and read up on the rules of the game. Are any of you hockey fans? Of course like everyone else, I have seen movies where actors play hockey, but to be right there and see it live is a totally different thing. I loved the physicality, and the grace of athleticism it requires to maneuver around like that on the ice.


Ok so the sadist in me delighted when the players would slam each other against the wall lol.. Not to mention the fantasies about tying up one of you in the goalie netting, and shooting pucks at your balls. I bet all of the masochists reading this are popping pup tents in their pants right now. How much do you think it would hurt to get hit in the nuts with a speeding puck? Just curious wink wink!


There was only one downside to the evening. No free t-shirt for me :(  You should have seen me pouting when I did not catch one of the t-shirts the cannon guy shot out. That was totally a time when I needed one of you there to fetch for me! After all, good boys do best at fetching. You like to play fetch don't you?


The remainder of that night was spent wrapped up in the hot sweaty embrace of my man, which is how every night should be ;) Yes I live the Goddess life, and yes you can be a part of it. How you ask...by contributing financially to my adventures! Send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com to pay for all of my naughty indulgences!

Build a Findom ark

Ok, so today I was on twitter and seen a post about how the findom scene is over saturated with women, and that women who have been around quite some time are leaving the scene because of it, which is not a good thing for the fetish in general.

No one needs to be market savvy to grasp the concept of supply and demand. The more there are of any one product (and no I do not view women as products) the less demand there will be for said product, because the customer/client can shop around for the lowest pricing, and we are definitely seeing a shit ton of that type of behavior right now.

  
Right now, findom is a buyers market. The buyer can and does shop around for bargains. Is it so very surprising that a man will opt to pay $10 for a cam session from a newer female rather than the $100 an established Domme is charging? Of course there are always exceptions, but on the entirety, this is what is going on, and it is going to continue to go on. 

Let's take a quick look at other adverse effects of over saturation in findom.

1)Newer females nor newer males for the most part are educated in regards to RACK or SSC. This is a huge safety concern.

2)Newer females come in thinking that findom is easy money. It isn't, and without the knowledge of what findom really is, they are muddying the waters even further for the new males serving under them. Newer males on the other hand, come in thinking that findom is about paying for pussy, either to see or fuck.

3)Newer females tend to gloss over the domination aspect, and just demand money. This is how findom gets a really shitty rep..ya know the instadomme tag :(. There are 2 aspects to findom.a)financial b)domination. Whilst newer males attempt to bypass the financial aspect altogether.

4)The newer females are approaching findom like a tit for tat, spoil me I spoil back modal. Findom is not about spoiling a male. It is not about selling anything. Yuppers I know that a great many FinDommes sell items, clips, sessions etc.. but that is business, not service. Newer males get that findom is not about selling things, but unfortunately they do not want to pay tribute either, cause they are spoiled with entitlement issues.

5)With an avalanche of newer females, you will find that the majority of FinDommes are hauling in less and less tribute (supply&demand), even the Dommes who have been around for ages, so what you get is more and more females departing the scene, but you would not notice the exodus, because a new flood of inexperienced females come in right behind them.

This is a vicious cycle, and it hurts the fetish scene massively. Without experienced Dommes leading the way, you end up with a gaggle of males who are not trained to treat women with respect, who think that it is ok to top from the bottom, who try to lowball tribute, and that is if they even pay at all. 

I completely understand that the scene is evolving, but holy shit, it is no where near the definition of findom at all! Mind you, I am not hating on new blood coming in, but some days are like a free for all display of thirst, and horniness. Some changes are good, but than some are not. It all depends on your outlook, and how determined you are to ride the wave.

Good luck to all who are battening down the hatches, and sticking it out :)

Happy Birthday to your Favorite FinDom Goddess

Today is the day you have been waiting all year for! Let's get this party started correctly shall we?? How does one start off this special day, by giving thanks of course. Thanks that on this day, your divine Goddess was born!!

All year long I share myself with you. I open my mind, and divulge wisdom, guidance, and support of your darkest fantasies, which is why you will do no other than to go out of your way, and into debt making sure that this is the best possible birthday for me! My birthday wishes become the desires you must sate, and you definitely need to pleasure me :)

Go big laddies, and spend hardcore for me today. You and I both know that I deserve the very best life has to offer, and it is your honor to provide my luxuries. 

Get ready, get set...spend and send me a big juicy amazon gift card!!! mzsydney34@yahoo.com is where your gift to me goes gents :)

I know what you did lastnight

 I know exactly what you did lastnight lol

You are the one who delights in the tease..yearns for the taunting, and craves the denial of what will never belong to you. 

I see you glorifying in your depravity, and perversion. I can smell your desperation..taste your desire upon my tongue. 

You NEED the cruelty of my rejection. The searing rejection of what makes you a man. 

I bet that little puke stick in your pants is drooling as you read my words, isn't it?? It knows how utterly worthless it is. It wants to be useful though, will you let it be useful to me? 

Right now at this very moment I want you to log in to your amazon account, and if you do not have one, create one. You will do this for me won't you? Your cock is crying out for attention as you put in your password, isn't it? Why don't you let him out for just a minute :)

That's right, I said let him out..now hold him in your hand. He is throbbing isn't he? Yes he likes to be touched, and you like touching him don't you? You are a nasty little cock stroker aren't you? Say, yes Goddess. You touch it all the time don't you? I know you do. 

Not this time though. You are going to just let him lay there calling out for you. He must be taught a lesson, and you are going to help me teach him right from wrong aren't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Now my perverse pet, you are going to put a gift card into your amazon cart for mzsydney34@yahoo.com. Don't hit send yet. Wait a minute, and savor the pleasure about to cum. Be a good little perverse pet, and give him a light stroke, lightly pet, for he has not earned any rewards yet. Just a teasing taste of excitement for him. 

Make him wait for it...draw it out. You do not want this feeling to end too quickly now do you? You like being mean to that perverse abomination for Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Look at him..see him for the failure he is. He fails you, and he will fail any woman he ever gets near. Does he deserve pleasure? Do you?

The only time Goddess will ever allow you to quench his hunger to cum, is when you are pleasing Goddess. You want to please Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Start stroking him pet..softly..so softly..feel him begging you to let him explode. He wants to cum...you want to cum, don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Take him to the edge of bliss now..ahhh but do not let him go over. Careful my perverse pet..show some restraint. Look up, you see the send button don't you? Say, yes Goddess. Yes you see it...click it..send the gift card to Goddess..do it NOW.

Good boy for Goddess :) and since you have pleased Goddess, you have my permission to stroke that putrid excuse of a penis til it pukes all over your hand, but don't for get that if you make a mess, you must clean it up with your tongue :) Yummy huh? 

Remember the rule pet...no pleasure for you til Goddess has been pleased first! Say, yes Goddess.

 

That's the story of Findom

Sit right down my lovely little gents whilst I tell you a story, the story..the story of findom

There once was a lonely forgotten man who wanted nothing more than to be noticed by the eyes of a deity, but he lacked the courage to do more than dream of the day he would at last shine in the glory of her presence. Needless to say, he was a very sad little man in his day to day life. He was just another face in a misbegotten place. 

He drudged and he toiled at a 9-5 job, never moving up. He stagnated in his little cubicle to the point that even the cobwebs sought to decorate him. How pitiful this little man came to be, and all who seen him acted as if he did not exist, unless they had an undesirable task to slide off onto him. You could always count on him for that much, for he simply had no life, and no friends to speak highly of him. Poor little forgotten soul.

Years passed by, before his gumption kicked him in the gut, and he declared to the heavens that he would suffer this lack of living no more. He became determined to reach for his dream. He was going to do whatever it took to finally catch the attention of his most beloved Goddess.  

How does one go about it though, he pondered. He definitely needed a plan, so he sat all night til the stars began to fade, and thought and thought. Oh however was he going to get her to see him, when lo and behold an epiphany seared across his thoughts. He had it! 

That very day he typed up a missive like none he had ever put into words before. He declared to her that he would be the very best servant ever, that he would do anything, be anything she required. Surely that will prove to her that I am worthy of serving her!! He hit the send button before he could change his mind out of cowardice, then waited, and waited, and waited some more. Alas she did not answer him back. Where had he gone wrong...maybe she just did not receive it, so he sat down once more and this time shared his life story with her, making sure to include how he really really really wanted to serve her, and hit the send button again. His stomach was tied in knots waiting on her reply.

He waited moments, then hours, which drifted into days, til he could no longer refuse to accept that she was not going to respond. What could he do? I got it, he thought! He followed the trail of her social media account, and read all that she ever said. He could not believe how stupid he had been..it had been there all along. She was not looking for words. She required action. Action based upon sacrifice. She wanted him to let go of what he wanted, and to embrace instead, what she wants. He would have to scrape away what once was, and begin anew. A new beginning for him with a brand new him.

This time he would not fail! He created an amazon account right away, and sent her the largest financial sacrifice that he could afford, along with a note that said "all that I am, and all that I have belongs to you my divine deity, do with it what you will". His hands were shaking as he sent the gift and note. He felt faint with anticipation as the clock ticked so slow in his ears. Ding ding...message received. Oh my oh my oh my...she had messaged him!! He swallowed so hard his throat hurt, but he opened her email with a soft sigh. He could not believe his eyes! 

She said "My little sad forgotten man, I have waited for you to understand, and now that you have shown yourself as a man who sees beyond himself, you may at last address me as my servant, for you have stripped from yourself all that was selfish, and kneel before me now as selfless little sam".

His dream, his fantasy, his lifelong quest granted. 

Be a man of action

Gentlemen, my dudes, take a seat...

There is so much hoopla being posted about the need for verification of females in the findom fetish scene, that it is simply unreal lol. 

You as males in this scene NEED to wrap your head around a few facts. You are the submissives ie subservients aka slaves. It is your job to research any female that you are considering offering your service to. Get that, YOUR JOB! You are expected to expend your time going through her social media, web site, clip store if she has one to ascertain for yourself that she is exactly what she represents herself to be. It is not her job to hop on cam for your gratification before you have even sent an initial tribute. Sheesh, suffering from much entitlement??

The problem is twofold, 1) You males are lazy as fuck 2) You males always look for free jerk opportunities 
So, when you go around demanding that females verify themselves on cam or with a photo (your name on it of course) ya, you are outing yourself  as either number 1. or number 2. Of course I expect to get shit rained on me, cause holy hell didn't I know that males have been scammed before?? Fuck yes I know this, but it is all their own fault. You heard me right...IT IS ALL THEIR OWN FAULT. No pity, and no fucks given.

You should be studying any female you are thinking about approaching...study her like you would a work of art. If the shading is a bit too heavy, than back the fuck off, and start your search anew. Do not, and I repeat, do not allow your dick to do the deciding. He will fuck you all kinds of up. 

And don't even get me started on the whiners who refuse to part with a small tribute to get to know a female. If you refuse to invest even a small amount, than you are refuse from the get go. True you may not mesh with a female, but by not even sending the bare minimum amount of tribute, all you are saying, is that you do not value a woman's time. I really do not give a flying fark if you cannot even afford a small tribute to every single dominant you desire to interact with. Either save up til you can, limit the number of dominants you approach, or gtfo out the fetish, cause you are giving me a headache with your bellyaching. 

I am telling you right now that dominant women do know a good boy when they come into contact with one, and he is not a whiner or bitcher. He values women's time, and attention. He has already taken the time to research a woman before he approaches her, so he knows fairly well if she is what he is looking for, and if she is who she says she is. He tributes without demands or expectations, as he appreciates her time interacting with him, and is grateful for the opportunity in coming to know her. These actions or lack thereof are what set good boys apart from wanking slackers, so you have been forewarned. Get it together, and act right from the start.

You remind me of my period

Ugh, the title sounds rather unappealing doesn't it? Yup it does, but it is true nonetheless. 

Some of you cum only once a month sliding into my inbox unexpectedly, and without prior notice. You cum to make a mess, and leave behind your trash for me to take out. Not very nice of you. Stop being a bother rather than a blessing in my life!

Do you want to know the worst part of it all...you attempt to exit without paying a single cent. You want to take your jollies and jet, leaving me empty handed. Tsk tsk tsk!

Small and large tributes are always welcome in my findom slice of the queendom, but if you are not a regular visitor to my fief, and you are miserly to boot, well I would rather not deal with you. It is one thing to send a small tribute respectfully, and expect no contact, but to cheap out, and demand attention too is a no go.  Cheapness is an ugly affliction which I do not care to be exposed to. 

It may indeed be inexpensive to serve your cock, but serving a woman is an entirely different experience, and we are not impressed with penny pinchers in the least. We do have standards unlike that puke stick in your pants. We require a well mannered finesse..an appreciation of our presence. Women are a luxury, which most of you cannot afford on a full time basis, and that is all well and good, but when you are in our inbox, you need to be as generous as possible. Being generous is one of the hallmarks of a gentleman, and a gentleman is always preferred.

Sure, the cretins within your ranks cuddle misogyny (in the form of freebie seekers) close to their rotten hearts, which is why they treat women as if they possess no tangible value, but they easily out themselves with word and deed, so I fret not about being fooled by them. You good man, certainly do not want to be counted among their ranks, now do you?

Your goal is to shine and serve. To be recognized, and to be useful. You love being of use to a woman, and realize that in order to be of use, you must be generous. Generosity is a golden quality. A quality which earns notice, and leads to a welcome mat being extended out for your company. Women will unfailingly appreciate a male who is intelligent enough to embrace the fact that women are to be worshiped, spoiled, and revered. You want to be one of those males don't you? Of course you do :)

You want to be a good boy. You want to bask in a woman's approval when you have done a good job for her. You certainly do not want to be like a period...dreaded, cursed, and wished away. No, you want only to bring happiness to a woman. You want her to smile when she thinks of how well you serve her, and a woman's smile is priceless, so get to it gents. Get to serving generously. Gift, spoil, and make me smile today :)

Punishment as a tool of training a submissive male

Did you know that punishment is intended to deter and correct behavior, rather than to encourage and condone it? Punishment is generally not something that people seek out, for it tends to have painful consequences. You will find though in the fetish scene that certain masochists will court it with regularity, and will use any means to be the recipient of it.

I being the sadist that I am, refuse to tailor my methodology of punishment into a fun activity, so if I know or can logically deduct that a submissive enjoys physical punishment, than I do not offer punishment in a physical form to them. They are the ones who will receive ignore time. After all, a day without my presence is a punishment that no submissive should ever desire. 

On the whole I would say that I am a fair minded dominant, and it will require a major infraction or repeated occurrences to incur punishment from me. I realize that most errors made by submissives are due to not having the rules spelled out clearly in advance, which is why I do my very best to make my expectations and requirements known from the onset. 

None of what I am saying will detract from the efforts of internet trolls to get their humiliation "punishment" fix though. You know the type I am referencing. They pop into the inbox of dominants spewing vile sentiments in the hope of receiving a torrent of humiliating backlash which feeds their fetish, and I for one do not engage. By not engaging, I am denying the perp their pleasure,and this sates my sadism :) Why on earth would I or any other dominant opt to reward subversive attempts to receive pleasure from play we have not consented to?

I realize that some people in the scene, dominants and submissives alike do partake of role play punishments. You know the game...you have been a bad boy, and now I am going to punish you in the way that excites you the most. Whelp I am not one of those people. In service to me, punishment is a serious consequence of ill desired actions, that requires reprogramming. Submissives will either learn from my corrective actions, or they will be let go without a return ticket.

I honestly have no interest in how other dominants choose to punish, or if they even punish at all, but in my queendom, you will tow the line, or be banished. 

Ah sorry, not sorry to suck all the fun out of your funishment fantasy.

Above and beyond your submissive brethren

When you look in the mirror do you see someone special? Do you believe that you are unlike any other "submissive" male in the fetish scene? What is it that you believe sets you apart from your male brethren? 

Let's talk here for a minute or two. You are no different nor any better than any other male in the scene if you:

1)are here to satiate your sexual urges

2)talk the talk of a feminist ally while secretly hoping that your falsely relayed proclamations will provide you entrance into the lives of dominant women

3)actively look for ways to get out of expending time, effort, and money upon the dominant women you seek to "serve"

4)only want to serve with your dick ie bedroom submissive aka sex slave

5)feel entitled to a woman's body

6)bounce from inbox to inbox with the same copy and paste lines til you get a ping

7)dangle financial incentives that you never intend to honor

8)revert to outright hostility if you are denied your desires from a woman

9)sexualize women to the point that they no longer register as human beings in your mind 

10)expect women to dance to the tune of your dollar

If any of the above resonates with you, sit down son, cause you are just like the other 99% of males you see skulking around the fringes of the femdom scene. You are in no way special or unique. In fact you are boring, and irrelevant. When you disappear from the scene, no one will notice or mourn your absence. You served no grand purpose. You are redundant and fully replaceable. You are the type of male which inspired the old saying "good riddance to bad rubbish". 

I highly suggest that you take a hard look at yourself in the mirror. Most likely, you detest what you see reflected more than women do, and that is a depressing realization. You need to make some changes, and enact them quickly, for your own good, or you can remain the lowly, rotten, best forgotten piece of trash that you are. Your choice.

Never settle for less than you deserve

Believe it or not, I actually do know exactly which type of submissive male I seek out in service to me.

There have been 3 males who have remained in my memory as being worthy of the distinction of belonging to me, and this is what they have in common.

1)single male

2)selfless in service

3)acted in ways that made their desire for my happiness evident

4)were not interested in a sexual relationship with me

5)were not motivated by the intent to gain gratification for themselves in the relationship 

6)displayed loyalty

7)were polite at all times with me

8)were honest

9)able to articulate intelligently

10)made me smile (this is a rarity) 

The thing is, that once you know what you seek, you are less likely to accept anything less than what you desire. When a male who does not embody what I listed above approaches me, I already know that it is a waste of my time, and I have no conflict of conscious about making it known. This is just one of the many reasons why males have a tendency to label me a bitch.

I am ok with being called a bitch in this instance, and even though it is volleyed with ill intent, it remains true, cause if refusing to waste mine or someone's time is what constitutes the definition of being a bitch, than I will proudly wear the button.

I am old enough to realize that immortality is not attainable, so one must live their life with the realization that happiness is the ultimate goal, and act accordingly, even if it appears to others that cruelty is in play. You sincerely at times must be cruel to be kind, for why would any male want to employ his time attempting to court my good will, when he falls far from what I will accept? That would be encouraging insanity, and I am not fool enough to do so.

So please realize that when I deny you the opportunity to serve me, it is not personal for me, even though it may sting your ego. Eventually you will connect with a female whose expectations align with what you are willing to offer, so keep on keeping on :)

Faux submission is real disappointment

Sustainability when it comes to faking submission is unattainable. Your disingenuousness will mar any experience you engage in. Do you comprehend what I am conveying?

 Allow me to break it down further for you.

Many of you are new to the fetish scene, and you honestly do not know where you fall on the spectrum of submission, so you take a page from the fake it til you make it playbook, and parrot puke the sentiments and sentences which you see other males regurgitating with regularity. The problem with this scenario, is that your credibility will be called into question with alacrity. You simply cannot convincingly stick to a script which you yourself have not written, and it is blatantly obvious to any keen observer. 

My advice to you, is to cease playing a role, and allow yourself to be you. Odds are that you are not even submissive at all. Most of the males I encounter who are new to the foray are fetishists, or just plain horny ass guys looking to bust a nut. There is a place in the scene for you if you are not submissive, but that place is not in active service to a Domme. You are best suited to being a customer. 
Confine yourself to purchasing clips and sessions from the females who appeal to your dicklet, cause that is what you are here for anyway...to please yourself, and it is a disservice to attempt to disguise your intentions.

Now if you happen to find along the way, that you enjoy the thought of pleasing a woman in a non-sexual way, then by all means rethink your categorization of self. You may find that you are one of the rare few who are capable of evolving past the selfishness of self, and at that point you will be welcomed into the stable of free roaming submissives who orbit the world of female domination. 

Regardless of your role in the femdom arena, one day with luck, prayer, patience, and perseverance, you may one day find yourself at the feet

of a living, breathing deity...Goddess Sydney Claire

Do you want to turn me on?

1)Sacrificing your money for ME should turn you on
You sacrificing your money for ME turns me on

2)Spending your money on ME should turn you on
You spending your money on ME turns ME on

3)Sending ME gift cards should turn you on 
You sending ME gift cards turns ME on

4)Locking your cock for ME turns you on
You locking your cock for ME turns ME on

5)Suffering for ME turns you on
Your suffering turns ME on 

6)Knowing that you will never fuck ME should turn you on
Your humiliation turns ME on 

7)Drinking MY piss should turn you on
You drinking MY piss turns ME on

8)ME slapping you in the face should turn you on
Slapping you in the face repeatedly turns ME on

9)ME kicking you in the balls should turn you on
Kicking you in the balls turns ME on

10)Buying ME presents should turn you on
Getting presents turns ME on 

Now, we may not share all of the same turn ons, but if 1,2,3&10 are hard limits for you, than we will not be sharing anything together.

No greater joy in life

"The meaning of life is to give life a meaning." Goddess gives meaning to your life through purpose.

Serving Sydney Claire is the very most meaningful thing you will ever do with your life. The impact she will have on your life is more profound than any other experience you have encountered. A moment at her divine feet is far grander than a lifetime of breath stealing adventures. 

I imagine that you did not believe that you would ever find yourself in such a position of longing. Longing to belong to a woman of class and distinction. Your ego comes crashing down around you, for in your deepest recesses, you know that you will never be worthy of wearing her collar. 

She alone speaks to the finer aspects of your soul. Without having ever spoken a word to her, she becomes your sun, moon, and stars. You worship even the very air that she exhales, for it has been a part of her being, and you the lowly creature you are, shall never be within her. 

You merely existed before her, but now you live in color. Color that she has painted before your eyes. You are joyous, you are grateful, you are in awe. 

The prevailing thoughts streaking through your mind are 

1)How can I make her life better

2)How can I make her life easier

The answers to these 2 questions form the basis of your daily mantra.

"I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life better. I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life easier."

Recite your mantra morning, noon, and night. It frees your mind of confusion, and distraction, and allows you to focus on what matters most in your lifetime....Sydney Claire. Your Goddess, your deity, your beloved Beauty.  

No words need spoken henceforth, simply sacrifice and send to show your affection, appreciation, and utterly undying adoration of Sydney Claire.
 

Am I really a submissive male?

What makes you a submissive? This is a question I pose with regularity to those who approach me wanting to serve. I tend to get responses which run the gamut of mundane all the way to the ridiculous. Do you know what makes you a submissive? Most likely you really aren't even submissive at all. Shocking eh? 

Here are some things that many will tout as their claim to submission.

1)Masturbating
People across the poles masturbate. It isn't submissive, or even kinky.

2)I like to watch people fuck
There is an entire booming industry which supplies folks with visual media featuring people fucking, and I do mean a booming industry, which means that tons of individuals are purchasing this material, so watching people fuck is not even edgy in the least, nor is it submissive. You may come back with "but I watch femdom porn, so I must be submissive", sorry sam, but watching is not being submissive.

3)I like to eat pussy
People have been eating pussy since the dawn of time son, and will be til the end of time. It isn't submissive or even taboo. It is natural, and only submissive when it is something that is not done in order to facilitate your own pleasure. 

4)I like to eat ass
Ok this one remains a bit out there, but I have seen more and more people vocalizing their desire to engage in it, but again, if you are doing it just to gratify yourself, well than, it isn't submissive.

5)I like to suck cock
Yup, right along with roughly a quarter of the world's population. By now you should be getting the gist of why this does not make you a submissive. You doing it because you want to does not qualify you for the submissive label.

The point I am trying to convey is that, it is not an action that makes a submissive. It is the intent behind the action. Does that make sense to you?

Let's run a scenario here. Ok, sam is a heterosexual male whose pain threshold is quite low. Now sam comes to serve a dominant woman who wants him to suck a cock while she paddles his ass bloody. Naturally a heterosexual male with low pain tolerance would say hell to the NO, but sam doesn't. sam wants to please his dominant, so he does exactly what she required of him, even though he does not take pleasure in the activities, but rather his pleasure comes from pleasing his dominant. Do you see the difference now?

If the driving purpose of you serving, is to get yourself off, and feed your desires, well than you are simply a selfish male, and that is far more common than a submissive male. You are not alone. In fact you are just another dick in the sea of selfish dicks. You are not unique, and in no way special. You are the least sought out in the pool of males in the fetish scene, even if you do have deep pockets. You are redundant and irrelevant, except for your dollars, and that is the only thing that will keep females coming back to play with you, so I suggest that you make that cash rain down upon their heads if you want to be invited to the party.

Genuine submissives on the other hand are rare gems. They are wired to sacrifice and submit. They do not haggle, bargain, or look for ways to subvert submission. They give their all in the hope of pleasing. They have evolved to the point where they only seek to serve. They serve in any manner requested or expected of them, and utter no complaints about it.

So you tell me, are you submissive or just a selfish shit?

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