Calling All SynAddicts

Welcome my poppets, puppets, and pervs

Is today your first time sliding into Sydney Sphere? If so, than you should know right from the start that this is not a space for the average gooner. Jack and gos, just aren't going to get their fix up in here :)

This is the realm where you come to learn obedience to Sydney Claire. A place where you take that first step towards becoming a SynAddict. I am here to make you mine. Taking over your mind, cock, and wallet. Afraid?
You should be, because my claws will sink so deep into your psyche, that you will never fully be rid of your unquenchable desire to serve my every wanton wish.

Do you know what human beings have in common, other than the physical obvious? They want to belong. They want to feel as if they have a purpose. They want to believe that their lives have meaning. This is natural. It is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. I get it, honestly I do.

It feels good to belong to ME. Being Sydney Claire's servant gives meaning to your life. Serving Sydney Claire provides you with a purpose and direction in life. All that you sought, all that you NEED, can be found at the feet of Sydney Claire.

Serving me is the most natural expression of self. No more feeling alone, divided, despised. Here you will know your place. You will feel accepted. You will know happiness. 

I love when the lost and misguided find their way to the fold. Aren't you tired of pretending to be something and someone that you aren't? Imagine how wonderful it would feel to finally be at peace with who and what you really are? You don't have to hide from me. I already know that you belong.

No more fear. You will find yourself fearless in your service to me. Every step forward is one step closer. You want this. You need this. This is where you belong.

Close your eyes my little puppet and imagine how good it will feel to just let go. Let go of your everyday struggles. Strip yourself of the chains society constrains you with. Allow yourself to relinquish that false ego weighing you down. You were not meant to stand before me, you were created to crawl at my feet. You are a servant, and I am your superior. This is your life. 

Giving your all, being your best. All of this is possible. The fantasy can become your reality when you are in my presence. No holding back. No turning back. You belong. You are mine! Say it out loud for your ears to hear, and your soul to accept. You belong to Sydney Claire. Sydney Claire is your most holy Goddess. Sydney Claire owns you.

Kinky Connections

Good evening guys and gals..

Welcome to my spliced slice of the femdom sphere!

I am your host and most beloved Goddess, Sydney Claire

As the title of this post denotes, we (meaning I) am going to talk about how to make kinky connections. Now the connections I am referring to are not networking connections. I am speaking to the connections between Dominants and submissives. 

Connections require time, effort, and trust. Ya ya ya, I know that some of you gents will loudly proclaim that you felt an instant connection with a Dominant, but that my poppets was lust. A lust to serve, to belong, even a lust to cum. It is most definitely not the type of connection which endures and deepens into a long term bond. This type of connection can be felt with numerous Dominants a day, ergo nullifying any significance.

Many a D's relationship will begin in the flames of cock wrenching lust, but the majority will sizzle and fizzle out like a cock snuffed of semen. It is what it is. Your intentions and focus determine whether or not something meaningful evolves from the exchange. If your goal is to get off and get going, than that is exactly what you shall do, regardless if the Dominant is predisposed towards erecting ties that bind you two. You do maintain a degree of control as to which way it all shall go. You can opt to do more, to be more. How? By reigning in control of the greedy instantaneous pleasure seeking skin sac bulging in your groin. Cut off power to it's circuitry, and open up dialogue which spotlights the Dominant as the focus of your full attention.

Take the time to get to know your prospective Dominant as a human being, rather than as the fetish dispenser most submissives view them as. Ground yourself with the truth that good things do come to those who possess patience. Patience is a powerful tool. Cultivate it carefully.

Meaningful relationships are not created within a night, or with a solitary tribute. You must be willing to invest your time and energy if you desire the intimacy of a Female Led Relationship. Just remember that if it comes easy, than it will dissolve as quickly as it came. The submissive you imagine as "lucky" is actually the submissive who has spent months, even years proving his intentions and supplying his unwavering devotion to a Dominant. I promise you that luck had nothing to do with his situation. He earned his current position through hard work. Are you prepared to do the same?

Locating a Dominant that is a good fit is difficult, and it should be. Yes little doves, you can wink your one eyed monster and find a woman to sate the demands of your mystery manmeat, but the emptiness of such an exchange leaves more than your balls depleted. 

Social media, and risky even the not so risky news outlets publish pieces on how the casual connection is so much more fun, and sexy. That you should be the butterfly flitting around flower to flower depositing your nectar, but in the end, where does that leave you? It definitely does not bring a sense of fulfillment. It doesn't serve a higher purpose. It brings no lasting meaning at all.

What casual will do, is turn you into an empty shell that eventually will crumble and scatter in the wind. Anxiety and depression are the bedfellows of casual. Why would anyone want such a future for themselves?

My intent is not to rag on you, or make you feel bad, but do I think that this type of behavior is bad for you, YES. Human beings need connections. They need to feel a sense of belonging, and acceptance. They need the meaningful. Without meaning, a life serves no purpose. It becomes a wasted story best untold. Does that sound sexy? Does it sound like the recipe for happiness and success?

Perhaps you are not yet in a place upon your journey where maturity has bit you on the caboose, but fear not, you shall someday get there. Once there you will see that casual is cold and soul sucking worthless. It is then that you shall seek out only those whom have the possibility to mean more than a momentary erectile eruption.

I myself am way past the point of entertaining the wastrels of meaning. This means that I hold myself above the game playing BS that youth tend to engage in (and yes I see those of you who are middle aged still living that life). I have no aid, nor hope to offer those who will not see truth, but I do open my proverbial door to those whom possess the potential to become a worthy submissive to me. You decide...play games and burn out, or grow up and get to serving your purpose in this lifetime.

Fantasy not reflecting reality

Good evening to all who have found their way to my Goddess led sanctuary 

Tonight we are going to take a moment to discuss fantasy vs reality. I have spoken in regards to this subject previously, but a refresher is of need.

You gents have so very many various fantasies crammed within your cranium. Some are lovely, some are ugly, some are sexy, and some are straight up illegal. My concern is that some of you are no longer able to differentiate between what is doable, and what is downright dangerous. 

I understand that fantasies can be healthy and healing to some degree, but as well, some can damage you permanently psychologically and physically. The key is knowing which ones should be kept within your mind, and which should be free to touch your reality. Do you have the correct perspective?

Let's go over a few popular fantasies and decide which ones should be allowed to play out for real, as well as those that should not.

1. Sucking a strangers cock til their load slides down your throat. 
This is a hot ass fantasy isn't it? Tons of submissive males have this one front and center in fantasyland. 
Is it safe? It can be with a few non-sexy modifications.

~Swallowing a load of cum from a male whom you have no idea of his std status is dumb dumb dumb!  Wrap that willy before you suck him silly. Seriously! I realize that it detracts from the sexiness, but so does an HIV diagnosis. 
~Approaching an unknown male and asking to suck his cock just might end up with you getting your teeth knocked down your throat. Not so sexy huh? Welcome to the world of women. A place where you never know which man is harboring violent tendencies. This is why you should take the time to get to know a man before ever asking to suck his cock.
~You could hire an escort that allows for you to suck their cock, but you do run the risk of being caught up in a sting operation, so once again take the time to research first.

2. Wanting to be a live in slave who dwells in a cage locked in a Domme's basement. This is quite common as well. As common as it is unrealistic.

~Very few, and I actually mean a minuscule amount of dominant women are seeking this type of situation, so if you are banking your future on it, please reconsider keeping this one confined to your fantasies. 
~Offering your flesh up in such a manner to an absolute stranger is beyond dangerous, it is insanely stupid. This is a situation which must be thought out cognitively, not casually.
~This woman could harbor a homicidal bend. Do you really want your next of kin to be notified that they found your remains buried in a basement? Once again I will caution you to take the time to really get to know someone before dipping your toes in like this.

3. Begging to be trussed up and fucked like a Thanksgiving turkey. Pegging sounds and even looks like a hot arse time doesn't it? Fuck yes it does, but do you even know the risks involved. Holy shit did I just toss a wrench into the works there?

~If done improperly, anal can cause harm to you physically. Lots and lots of lubricant is highly advised!
~Anal needs to be eased into. Going slow and easy allows your body to relax and enjoy the experience. Ramrodding your rectum will not be a pleasurable ride, even if you are a masochist. Besides, being forced to wear depends the rest of your life due to abusive anal is NOT sexy. Proceed with care and caution. 

4. Last one of the night. Being forced to eat ass and pussy. I actually do not consider this a fetish, but I can see it being a viable fantasy.

~Let us not forget about std status once more. Thrush and cold sores are icky not pretty.
~Eating ass means ingesting ecoli(google that one)
~Oral dams oral dams oral dams, and that is all I am going to say on the subject.

I do hope that I have given some of you food for thought tonight. Fantasies are awesome, just be realistic about actually living them out ok!

 

 

To Worship A Goddess

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Frosty Cock in Chastity

Winter is the best time to start your cock lock journey
Why is it the best time though? 

Because it is cold outside
Being as it is cold outside, you are able to dress in layers, and loose baggy clothing, unlike in the summer time when you are basically forced to dress down to the least amount of clothing. This affords you the distinct opportunity to cover up that cock cage in public settings most effectively. Keeping your chastity cage a secret is difficult to do when you are wearing shorty shorts in the dead hot heat of summer lol Not to mention that the little demon in your pants is less likely to be popping it's head up when it is 10 below outside, cause walking out in the brisk winds of winter makes a shriveled mockery of your manhood anyway. Another benefit to cold weather chastity, is that when your willie gets frosty, it is not going to be straining at the bit to get loose and create havoc, which means less pain for you since erections in a cage cause constriction of your cock..ie ouch! That is a definite plus!

It will make your winter more productive
Ever notice how in the cold months, all of your activities are mainly sedentary and indoors? You sit around bitching and moaning about how cold it is, while you are downloading porn in the hopes that you can seduce your hand. Nothing gets done, except your dicklet making a mess on the keyboard, and who has time for cleaning up after his ass, so do yourself a favor, and lock that cock today. Now you can get on with getting productive. You will find yourself able to concentrate on getting more out of your life without his obtrusive presence constantly calling on you to selfishly pleasure him. Haven't you allowed him to take up too much of your precious time as it is? Make the choice to give him the cold shoulder by locking him away under a cold steel chastity cage :) and freeze him out by tossing the key into a container of water in your freezer. 

Your cock will be conditioned to keep calm
By the time summer rolls around, your cock will no longer be caterwauling to be set free. It will become your good boy, so that you can get out to enjoy the sunshine without worrying he is going to call undue attention to you at the beach. No one likes pervs at the beach popping a pup tent. Save yourself that embarrassment. You and I both know that you only lose out when women find out that you got the short end of the stick so to speak. You don't need that type of rejection. You are way better suited to locking that jolly joke away for Goddess anyway :)

So be MY good boy, and commit to chastity today!

And as always, don't forget to send an amazon gift card as a display of your undying appreciation to mzsydney34@yahoo.com, and feel free to leave your comments, thoughts, or opinions on today's post!!

**Note, I have a free chastity task for unowned males who are interested**

 

I know what you did lastnight

 I know exactly what you did lastnight lol

You are the one who delights in the tease..yearns for the taunting, and craves the denial of what will never belong to you. 

I see you glorifying in your depravity, and perversion. I can smell your desperation..taste your desire upon my tongue. 

You NEED the cruelty of my rejection. The searing rejection of what makes you a man. 

I bet that little puke stick in your pants is drooling as you read my words, isn't it?? It knows how utterly worthless it is. It wants to be useful though, will you let it be useful to me? 

Right now at this very moment I want you to log in to your amazon account, and if you do not have one, create one. You will do this for me won't you? Your cock is crying out for attention as you put in your password, isn't it? Why don't you let him out for just a minute :)

That's right, I said let him out..now hold him in your hand. He is throbbing isn't he? Yes he likes to be touched, and you like touching him don't you? You are a nasty little cock stroker aren't you? Say, yes Goddess. You touch it all the time don't you? I know you do. 

Not this time though. You are going to just let him lay there calling out for you. He must be taught a lesson, and you are going to help me teach him right from wrong aren't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Now my perverse pet, you are going to put a gift card into your amazon cart for mzsydney34@yahoo.com. Don't hit send yet. Wait a minute, and savor the pleasure about to cum. Be a good little perverse pet, and give him a light stroke, lightly pet, for he has not earned any rewards yet. Just a teasing taste of excitement for him. 

Make him wait for it...draw it out. You do not want this feeling to end too quickly now do you? You like being mean to that perverse abomination for Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Look at him..see him for the failure he is. He fails you, and he will fail any woman he ever gets near. Does he deserve pleasure? Do you?

The only time Goddess will ever allow you to quench his hunger to cum, is when you are pleasing Goddess. You want to please Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Start stroking him pet..softly..so softly..feel him begging you to let him explode. He wants to cum...you want to cum, don't you? Say, yes Goddess.

Take him to the edge of bliss now..ahhh but do not let him go over. Careful my perverse pet..show some restraint. Look up, you see the send button don't you? Say, yes Goddess. Yes you see it...click it..send the gift card to Goddess..do it NOW.

Good boy for Goddess :) and since you have pleased Goddess, you have my permission to stroke that putrid excuse of a penis til it pukes all over your hand, but don't for get that if you make a mess, you must clean it up with your tongue :) Yummy huh? 

Remember the rule pet...no pleasure for you til Goddess has been pleased first! Say, yes Goddess.

 

Atypical FLR

FLR is something you see on tons of profiles,and for those of you not up on the terminology it stands for Female Led Relationship. Now I for one am all for FLR's,but not what one would deign to title a typical one.

I am always the dominant leader in all of my relationships,and forever shall be. I command and males obey. Here is where it deviates from the "norm"..I will NEVER allow a beta male to dwell with me,nor will he ever be legally attached to me (as in matrimonial)..not even labelled publicly as a BF or SO,for that is not the role a beta male will ever play in my life. So for those expecting me to love them,and treat them in a loving manner,umm ya that is not going to happen in the waking world.

That is not to say that I will not grow to appreciate a beta male serving me (I am human ya know),but it will not pass beyond fondness like one would possess towards a pet. My longest serving boi has been living under my dictates for ages,and even he will never be considered for anything other than the position of servant..although he is honored as my owned boi. Through service to me he has evolved from a wanking porn addict,into a decent caring responsible member of the human race,and that fact alone tells me that I have led him well,without ever having lived with him,had sex with him,married,or dated him...WOW! Must be doing something right huh?

Regardless of differing locations,I shall yet rule your world,and lead you to becoming a better person,and the best possible servant in service to me,so you see,it is still a FLR,just not the one that Elise Sutton writes about.