Tonight we are going to take a moment to discuss fantasy vs reality. I have spoken in regards to this subject previously, but a refresher is of need.
You gents have so very many various fantasies crammed within your cranium. Some are lovely, some are ugly, some are sexy, and some are straight up illegal. My concern is that some of you are no longer able to differentiate between what is doable, and what is downright dangerous.
I understand that fantasies can be healthy and healing to some degree, but as well, some can damage you permanently psychologically and physically. The key is knowing which ones should be kept within your mind, and which should be free to touch your reality. Do you have the correct perspective?
Let's go over a few popular fantasies and decide which ones should be allowed to play out for real, as well as those that should not.
1. Sucking a strangers cock til their load slides down your throat.
This is a hot ass fantasy isn't it? Tons of submissive males have this one front and center in fantasyland.
Is it safe? It can be with a few non-sexy modifications.
~Swallowing a load of cum from a male whom you have no idea of his std status is dumb dumb dumb! Wrap that willy before you suck him silly. Seriously! I realize that it detracts from the sexiness, but so does an HIV diagnosis.
~Approaching an unknown male and asking to suck his cock just might end up with you getting your teeth knocked down your throat. Not so sexy huh? Welcome to the world of women. A place where you never know which man is harboring violent tendencies. This is why you should take the time to get to know a man before ever asking to suck his cock.
~You could hire an escort that allows for you to suck their cock, but you do run the risk of being caught up in a sting operation, so once again take the time to research first.
2. Wanting to be a live in slave who dwells in a cage locked in a Domme's basement. This is quite common as well. As common as it is unrealistic.
~Very few, and I actually mean a minuscule amount of dominant women are seeking this type of situation, so if you are banking your future on it, please reconsider keeping this one confined to your fantasies.
~Offering your flesh up in such a manner to an absolute stranger is beyond dangerous, it is insanely stupid. This is a situation which must be thought out cognitively, not casually.
~This woman could harbor a homicidal bend. Do you really want your next of kin to be notified that they found your remains buried in a basement? Once again I will caution you to take the time to really get to know someone before dipping your toes in like this.
3. Begging to be trussed up and fucked like a Thanksgiving turkey. Pegging sounds and even looks like a hot arse time doesn't it? Fuck yes it does, but do you even know the risks involved. Holy shit did I just toss a wrench into the works there?
~If done improperly, anal can cause harm to you physically. Lots and lots of lubricant is highly advised!
~Anal needs to be eased into. Going slow and easy allows your body to relax and enjoy the experience. Ramrodding your rectum will not be a pleasurable ride, even if you are a masochist. Besides, being forced to wear depends the rest of your life due to abusive anal is NOT sexy. Proceed with care and caution.
4. Last one of the night. Being forced to eat ass and pussy. I actually do not consider this a fetish, but I can see it being a viable fantasy.
~Let us not forget about std status once more. Thrush and cold sores are icky not pretty.
~Eating ass means ingesting ecoli(google that one)
~Oral dams oral dams oral dams, and that is all I am going to say on the subject.
I do hope that I have given some of you food for thought tonight. Fantasies are awesome, just be realistic about actually living them out ok!
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