Useless endeavors in social media

Welcome all to the thought provoking posts of Sydney Claire!

Towards the end of the year, it is only natural for one to take stock of both the success and failures of effort expended throughout the year. This allows for a being to plan out their course of action for the following year, and I differ from none in this task. It is a positive step towards managing your life.

What has become glaringly obvious to even an untrained eye, is that I have had minimal, and by minimal I mean almost non-existent success in reaching and securing servitude from submissives through my social media endeavors this past year. Nary a single tribute hit my inbox for my birthday, nor Christmas, and this is the most telling data of all. Online submissives without doubt had zero concerns or cares about my personal happiness or comfort. What does this mean for me though?

1)It means that I will no longer seek out submission online.
2)I will no longer entertain private conversation on social media sites with submissives claiming that they want to serve me. (My Dm's will be closed to all but those whom I follow)
3)My posts will now reflect more of my well rounded personality, rather than being fetish specific.

By no means is this a "woe is me" blog post. I am not depressed, angered, nor surprised a single bit. Fetish has quickly evolved into a customer service business, and since I do not sell goods, I was bound to feel the sting. Knowing the facts, does not change my stance though. It is far better for me to have no servants under my heel if the only ones in the market are the self serving vermin which I see peppering the landscape with their selfish stench. 

My decision actually fills me with a sense of empowerment as a woman. I need no longer fret over each and every post I make in regards to whether it will appeal to male specimens. I can leave off with sexual innuendos, and just be ME. The concern of whether I am sexy enough, thin enough, young enough etc... has vanished. I am free to be bluntly honest in my speech, and even cruel when warranted without remorse.

I no longer have to care about a brand or keeping up appearances. It is far more liberating than you would ever believe!

This does not mean that I am ghosting social media. I intend to continue blogging, and posting my thoughts and opinions on all things fetish. It simply frees me from caring whether my voice is popular with men. I am actually smiling, and humming a happy tune as I type this up :)

I invite you all to stick around for the remaking of Sydney Claire, the woman, rather than the reflection of a dominant.

The Power of the Sway

Welcome to my world, pets and pervs

There is power in the sway. The fact that findom involves finances lends a false sense of power to the sender of tribute. You gents deceive yourself into believing that since you hold the cash, that you call the shots, and you could never be more wrong when it comes to me.

A woman who does not possess a need for your money is not bound by your whims to relinquish or withhold it. In fact, you will quickly find yourself sorted into the refuse bin for attempting to use your money as a bargaining chip with me.

I have zeros issues with blocking any male who gets it into his head that he is in control of our interactions. One such as I describe was blocked yesterday, and he had even paid tribute, mind you that it was an insultingly minuscule amount. Never do that either gents. 

A woman who knows her worth will not allow for you to insult her with meager offerings. Women deserve your best efforts. 

I for one, will not validate nor laud gents who attempt to exert minimal effort when courting me for consideration. 

You may be asking yourself, how can she afford to turn away a dollar..well let us school you now. I do not need your money. Yes you hear this all of the time from the multitude of women online, but the majority of the time when it is relayed, it is false, so truth be known, you can manipulate a woman who is in honest need of your cash contributions, and most likely you have already done so. The buck stops here though. My lack of need negates your leverage towards obtaining your objective.

Which option does this leave open for you with me than? Only 1...pay and pray. Get down on your well worn knees and tender a true financial sacrifice to me, then pray for my benevolence. I offer no guarantee of acceptance though. Your attitude upon delivery will most likely sway or obliterate my desire to acknowledge your effort.

You gents have been entirely too spoiled with it comes to getting your way with women online, and unfortunately each time that a woman allows you to play her with faux service and sacrifice, you are being taught that stealing a woman's time and attention for pennies on the dollar is acceptable. The time for such is at an end, atleast with me it is. You of course are free to continue to stroll along dick in hand crawling into every open box to shit upon it's owner, which is the predictable outcome, but for a few, my words will have opened your eyes to the wretchedness you have wrought. 

Are you ready now to become a new man. A man worthy of receiving a woman's notice? I have laid the stones for you to follow. Send your intentions in the form of an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com and bide your time wisely whilst awaiting notice of whether I have deemed your sacrifice of value to me.

Female Supremacy plundered via patriarchal programming

Greetings to all who enter the realm of Goddess Sydney...

 If you have followed me for any length of time,you would be aware that I am a believer of Female Supremacy. Many times,being a Female Supremacist gets lumped in with being a feminist,when in fact,these are two separate trains of thought.

When I think of feminists,what comes to mind for me,is women that seek to create equality between females and males,especially in the workplace. I myself do agree that it is criminal for males to be paid more than females holding the same position within a company,and for females to be overlooked for promotions due to the biological inclinations of our sex,but I personally believe that women deserve so much more than simple equality.

Women are simply superior to males,therefore seeking to find equality between female and male tweaks my sense of offense. I care not for a society where females and males are treated exactly alike,for in my eyes we are NOT alike,and NOT equal.

Women are accused of being "emotional" decision makers,whereas males are lauded for being "rational" thinkers,which is accurate,yet entirely inaccurate. Women do indeed allow compassion to temper how we would deal with specific scenarios,but that is a strength,rather than a weakness. Males on the other hand possess a tendency to break things down to a base level..ie a physical response. Beings that are led to make decisions by the strength of cock twitching,are entirely too likely to reach conclusions which suit their desires best,rather than arriving at impartial decisions.

Now even with the above statements relayed,I must ask myself,do I believe that Female Supremacy worldwide recognition as truth is viable,and my response at this time must be a resounding NO.

Many a time you my readers have seen me make reference to the brainwashing performed by patriarchy in society,and yes I assign blame for the failure of the rise of Female Supremacy at their altar! 

You may be wondering how that could even be true,so I will give you a few crumbs to lead the way.

1)Who has planted in the minds of women and men,that women should look a certain way,dress a specific way,and act in a prescribed manner to attract males?
2)Who sets the standards for what we as a society define as a beautiful,desirable look and body shape of a woman?
3)Who has allowed,even encouraged women and men to shame women who do not fit into these molds?
4)Who has corrupted the minds of young females into believing that if you are not thin,then you are not valued as a female?
5)Who contends that women should go to surgical lengths to attain or preserve what males deem "beauty"? 

Patriarchy has poisoned the mindsets of generations of females to believe that they need to outdo,and compete for the attention,and affection of males,therefore we as a whole tend to see cattiness,backbiting,and downright harsh and rude insults hurled at women via other women. How fucked up is that?? The patriarchy no longer needs to employ males as tools to suppress women,cause we ensure it ourselves. I mean seriously,how could we as women expect others to see the superiority of women if we are so very busy bashing each other? This is utterly sad in my opinion.

I hope for change,but recognize that I am responsible for only my actions,so I shall persevere to refrain from playing the misogynistic games,by refusing to shame and blame my fellow women. The rest is up to you my readers. Oh,and gents reading this,do your part,and be a good ally to women by refusing to engage in the patriarchal plan.
 

Empowerment of ALL women in the fetish scene

This is intended for all of you males out there in the FinDom/FemDom fetishland who purport a claim toward supporting female empowerment. Supporting female empowerment is about supporting the empowerment of all types of females,and can no longer be defined as such if you are only supporting one type of female..the type that pops your pecker..that is the continuation of objectifying women,which is the polar opposite of empowerment.

This means that change is in order,and how do you personally affect change? A change of this magnitude requires a catalyst,and that catalyst is you,well your wallet to be precise. The power of your wallet can alter the the face of fetishland. Now don't go scratching your balls with that huh look on your mugs. It is truly a simple solution. Use the power of the wallet to bring about positive evolution.

In FemDom & FinDom it is a given that the seat of power rests under a female ass,but that does not leave you males powerless in all aspects. If you take a look especially at twitter you will note that minority groups of women are beginning to speak out about the lack of inclusiveness we see in how females are promoted in the fetish scene. It is not about jealously begrudging certain body types,age ranges,or races their moments in the spotlight,instead it's focus is to promote the inclusion of those who fall outside of the type predominantly featured. They have always said that variety is the spice of life,but if variety is lacking,than your diet is quite bland.

I am getting away with myself aren't I lol...onto how you can make a difference toward the changes women want to see. If you are a broke bloke,get yourself a twitter account and promote the hell out of BBW's,mature women,and WOC. Showcase their content,so that others can come to appreciate them as well..that is empowering. Don't do this in a creepy ass way though,or in a purely sexualized manner. Remember what I said about objectification being a major issue,so leave off commentary like "nice ass,sweet tits,etc...". Yes you can be complimentary in a classy way,it just requires a wider range of vocabulary.

If you are a male who sessions,purchase sessions with the above mentioned females to enrich their pockets,so that they can produce more content for others to buy,thereby getting the attention of a broader audience and empowering their influence. After the session make sure to leave positive feedback on social media for all to see. You may be saying "but Mz Sydney I am not attracted to BBW's,older women,or WOC",and I will remind you that this is not about you. It is about something way bigger than your peckers preferences. You might even be surprised to find yourself enjoying sessions outside your conformitive norm. Limited vision eradicates positive possibilities.

For you clip buyers,broaden your horizons by buying clips from the above described women. The more purchases they rack up,the higher their ratings go,and they are that much closer to being ranked prominently in searches,which in turns empowers them. Your goal is to empower women right?

Another thing that you can do is to personally contact promo accounts and relay to them that you want to see more variety in the models they promote. Surprisingly they will listen to you,for you are their customer base,and it is poor business tactics to neglect the relevance of consumer demands. You demand,and they will supply,which once again empowers the groups above.

Before any of you get all uppity thinking that I am out to exclude the popular current models,I am not. I merely desire to see more women empowered instead of it being confined to a sub set. Yes I am older,and yes I am a curvy woman,but since I do not offer sessions,or sell clips..my gain is not financial in this bone. My goal remains as it always has..the empowerment of women as a whole.