Emails that I have received in regards to a recent post of mine about sessions,have shown me that a little bit of clarification is in order.
Yes I stated that I am interested in playing more real time,which in no way should lead anyone to conclude that I am open to cam sessions...two totally separate scenarios. C2C sessions hold no interest for me due to a)I am not an exhibitionist & b)watching males get off,does absolutely nothing for me personally(anyone that has read anything about me should already know that I am a proponent of males being neutered with chastity devices) The only pleasure plebs deserve,is the joy of enriching my life,so no I am not going to sit back and watch males pulling at their equipment which doesn't even cast a shadow at high noon.
Real time sessions interest me because they feed my inner sadist who delights in the deliverance of physical pain,so if you are one that is only able to serve online,either due to distance or time constraints,then your suffering comes in the form of finances,and should be viewed as your honor to sacrifice for me. Real time toys tribute for my time and attention,so I expect nothing less from those that serve me online...I actually expect more since they are not truly useful in any manner other than financing my decadent indulgences.
There is so much anger and disgust when it comes to outsiders viewing the financial domination realm. Why though? Most is due to a basic lack of education in regards to the fetish,and the rest is simply entitled selfishness. Ignorance can be taught,but the other appears to be too ingrained to eradicate.
I mean seriously I have had males offer to bleed their dicks for me,but land forbid that they be expected to worship with their wallet. Pain is an intense motivator,but the almighty dollar even more so. People have and will kill for money,but why? Because money is power. Money provides the ability to feed,clothe,and house oneself. Throughout time itself those that have not,have been enamored by those that have,so it is only logical that males will hold tightly to that which they perceive as the root of their power base. This is exactly why I require a male to sacrifice financially for me. The effects of doing so outlast bruises on the ass.
The narcissist in me knows that I am worthy of worship,deserving of your suffering and sacrifice,but if you cannot or will not overcome your own sense of selfishness,then you are truly a loser,in the sense that you will lose out on serving perfection incarnate. It is entirely your choice though,for even though I may be a cougar in real life devouring the sex of cubs,in this arena my victims come willingly in supplication to my altar. They kneel before me begging to lay down their offerings,sans forceful provocation,enticement,or seduction. I am their Goddess,and their purpose is my happiness.
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Thursday, June 4, 2015
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
No cam for me please
One of the most prevalent queries posed to me is "Why don't you cam?". Now my response is usually confined to an all encompassing answer "Because I do not want to". This hardly is a satisfactory reason for a great many obviously,so I decided that I would provide something more in depth.
Cam is the name of the game these days,oh that and skype,which by the way is popular WHY...cam of course. You cannot look to any findom forum without seeing cam sessions on skype advertised,and that is all well and good for those that choose it,but taking this as a granted practice for all is a mistake in the making.
Now onto why I do not cam. Is it because I think myself too good for it,NO. Is it because I fear people seeing my face,NO(I have tons of photos to disprove this theory). What could my reasoning be? Simple. I see camming as objectification,and there is entirely too much of that in the world today,why would I desire to become part of the problem rather than the solution. I know I know,what I said is going to upset some,for they deem cam empowering,so I say to them whatever floats your boat,but do not stamp down just because my thoughts are not synonymous with yours.It is the very differences which make us unique.
How does cam objectify a woman. Let's take a close look at the dynamics shall we. Cam sessions are associated with paying clients. A client is one which in this case is paying for a show,whether it be of feet,breasts,vagina,or even entire body. Do you see what I am saying? They are paying to objectify a body part. They are using the vision of a woman's body to masturbate,just like they always have done,and this equates to objectification in my eyes. Does anyone truly believe that the client cares for the woman on the screen(if you do,then I have some prime swamp land to sell you). You could of course reason that everyone is getting what they want out of the deal,he gets off,and she gets paid. Win win yes? Nope. All that has been done is to fuel the male objectification of females.
Yes I am aware that I am not making friends with my statements,but that is ok. Some are even asking "why do you care,I can do what I want,and it does not affect you"...here is the crux though,it does affect others. I am 100% for female empowerment,but I do not see cam sessions as a promotion of that ideology,so do as you will,for you will anyway,but for me ,I will traverse the road less taken. This does not make me better than any Ladies who offer this service,but it does make me different.
It is said that if you do not cam,then males will not seek you out to serve,and I can see how one would arrive at that conclusion. I have seen with my own eyes how males bee line straight to the ladies in a chatroom whom have their cam on,and suddenly begin serving them,and that is good and fine,for it once more solidifies that I am not seeking the average male in my stable,so I am more than pleased to see those spoils go to others.
A subject which many do not discuss is how I am going to tie in my point of dissension from the "norm",and why I see no need for me to cam.
Every Sunday morning,and most likely Wednesday evenings where do you see people congregate. A church yes. Now these people worship God,they memorize his words(the holy bible),they tithe in his honor,yet they have never seen his face. They have not once done a skype cam session with him to ascertain if he is "real",so how is it that millions of human beings can take his existence as a divine being on faith alone? The answer is clear. They want to believe,they want to serve their Master,they want to empower his name. Of course some call them fools(not I),rather I would call them blessed. Why? Well because they find their happiness in serving,they find purpose for their lives...all without a single cam session,wow,looks like Christians are better servants than the majority of males in the fetish scene doesn't it?
I equate serving me in a similar way. Only for my servants,my blog is their bible,my inbox is their pew,and their tribute is the tithe with which they worship. All of this is done without a single cam session. My words prove that I am real. My actions uphold my worthiness of worship,and serving me provides a purpose in their lives. One which involves them upholding me as their divine Goddess. A relationship where they devote their very lives to me,and why,because they know that women are meant to be obeyed and honored,not objectified as sexual release objects.
Cam is the name of the game these days,oh that and skype,which by the way is popular WHY...cam of course. You cannot look to any findom forum without seeing cam sessions on skype advertised,and that is all well and good for those that choose it,but taking this as a granted practice for all is a mistake in the making.
Now onto why I do not cam. Is it because I think myself too good for it,NO. Is it because I fear people seeing my face,NO(I have tons of photos to disprove this theory). What could my reasoning be? Simple. I see camming as objectification,and there is entirely too much of that in the world today,why would I desire to become part of the problem rather than the solution. I know I know,what I said is going to upset some,for they deem cam empowering,so I say to them whatever floats your boat,but do not stamp down just because my thoughts are not synonymous with yours.It is the very differences which make us unique.
How does cam objectify a woman. Let's take a close look at the dynamics shall we. Cam sessions are associated with paying clients. A client is one which in this case is paying for a show,whether it be of feet,breasts,vagina,or even entire body. Do you see what I am saying? They are paying to objectify a body part. They are using the vision of a woman's body to masturbate,just like they always have done,and this equates to objectification in my eyes. Does anyone truly believe that the client cares for the woman on the screen(if you do,then I have some prime swamp land to sell you). You could of course reason that everyone is getting what they want out of the deal,he gets off,and she gets paid. Win win yes? Nope. All that has been done is to fuel the male objectification of females.
Yes I am aware that I am not making friends with my statements,but that is ok. Some are even asking "why do you care,I can do what I want,and it does not affect you"...here is the crux though,it does affect others. I am 100% for female empowerment,but I do not see cam sessions as a promotion of that ideology,so do as you will,for you will anyway,but for me ,I will traverse the road less taken. This does not make me better than any Ladies who offer this service,but it does make me different.
It is said that if you do not cam,then males will not seek you out to serve,and I can see how one would arrive at that conclusion. I have seen with my own eyes how males bee line straight to the ladies in a chatroom whom have their cam on,and suddenly begin serving them,and that is good and fine,for it once more solidifies that I am not seeking the average male in my stable,so I am more than pleased to see those spoils go to others.
A subject which many do not discuss is how I am going to tie in my point of dissension from the "norm",and why I see no need for me to cam.
Every Sunday morning,and most likely Wednesday evenings where do you see people congregate. A church yes. Now these people worship God,they memorize his words(the holy bible),they tithe in his honor,yet they have never seen his face. They have not once done a skype cam session with him to ascertain if he is "real",so how is it that millions of human beings can take his existence as a divine being on faith alone? The answer is clear. They want to believe,they want to serve their Master,they want to empower his name. Of course some call them fools(not I),rather I would call them blessed. Why? Well because they find their happiness in serving,they find purpose for their lives...all without a single cam session,wow,looks like Christians are better servants than the majority of males in the fetish scene doesn't it?
I equate serving me in a similar way. Only for my servants,my blog is their bible,my inbox is their pew,and their tribute is the tithe with which they worship. All of this is done without a single cam session. My words prove that I am real. My actions uphold my worthiness of worship,and serving me provides a purpose in their lives. One which involves them upholding me as their divine Goddess. A relationship where they devote their very lives to me,and why,because they know that women are meant to be obeyed and honored,not objectified as sexual release objects.
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